The first time I watched his channel I took an immediately liking to him. His priorities seem balanced. He's got everything going for himself. His work on his channel seems effortless but it is anything but.
Beauty is like ice cream, everyone has a different favourite ice cream flavour. There is not one ice cream that is fixed to be the tasty one for everyone. Same for beauty. Its so subjective. Its jus the society and industry telling us there would be a fixed pretty and ugly. But its not.
He is attractive primarily because of his intelligence, character and overall caliber. That shines through. The same face with a dumb, awkward expression would be nothing to wrote home about.
You're a good example of attractiveness. Nice facial features+ charm that comes from various things like being smart, articulate and a calm and composed attitude
Dr. Linkov is uniquely attractive, setting him apart. I'm always drawn to attractive people who are character ridden. Not the plastic faced 'perfection' that is happening so frequently nowadays.
@@pinkaholic09 He really does have a beautifully chiseled face. A lot of the so-called ‘handsome’ men we see nowadays hide behind copious amounts of facial hair, which I think gives them an extremely unfair advantage, considering that beards conceal the entire lower half of a man’s face and enhance their perceived level of masculinity by a large margin. It takes courage and NATURAL good looks to be a clean-shaven man in today’s world, and Dr. Linkov is one such example. Take Jason Kelce for instance; he’s been labelled as one of the hottest men alive, but if you manage to find one of the very few pictures of him without facial hair, he really isn’t one bit special
I really love how well rounded you are and how you push for people to value being beautiful on the inside as well as confidence and self worth. Very true. I also think, regarding what you said about people being so much more than still photos, people look different in motion, dynamically. You can't see the full depth of someone's face and appearance on a flat photo, you can't see projection of the features or the way they move, those things can really change your attractiveness.
Just because I have someone doesn’t mean I stop making an effort to look good tho. I still take care of my body skin and hair. I still get dolled up it makes me feel and look my best
@Bunny11344 I know what you mean. When I got married I gradually started focusing on health. Eating well, sleeping enough, exercising, but also mental health. Before, I had an unhealthy preoccupation with my appearance, but now I think i have enough self love to care about myself and my appearance. Both extremes are unhealthy, but a balanced point of view on appearance is healthy.
7:08 He knew, he just expressed he started to feel self-concious and vulnerable, by saying ”what are we even talking about?!”, when he opened about feeling like giving himself a higher number, but that could sometimes change when he saw the look in someone’s eyes when looking at him, and he felt like a low number then. On one of my dad’s work trips to the U.S. he bought me a pair of Levi’s jeans, and I remember I felt so cool in them when I ran around with them at my Scandinavian school, because no one else at school had jeans like that (they had animated prints from the child’s department at Hennes & Mauritz/H&M). One girl walked up to me and gave me the up and down look, and simply said ”you’re not pretty in your ugly jeans”. Some months past and I was invited to her birthday party, and as you do as a child, you accept and try to pretend everything is fine even if they never apologized to you. Her mom walked up to me at the party, and said ”my daughter told me about your jeans, what a fun thing to get. She begged me for a pair, but I told her no because they cost too much”. A bit lack of boundaries for someone else’s parent to share that with someone else’s child. Either way, that’s when I understood the girl’s negative words had nothing to do with me at all, she was expressing anger that she saw something she liked but couldn’t have. Moral of the story, is basically don’t allow others to shift how you feel about yourself! They do it because they are unhappy. People who feel ok do not attack others for their looks or other things out of the blue.
Yes, from working with seniors - seeing them do their nails or trying to make their 5 hair look better is a huge sign of their good mental health. Always make my heart jump. Since their conditions can be awful.😞
Most people fall in the middle (normal)! However their Intelligence, integrity, and humor can make them attractive! Yes we can look at a picture or a person (from far) and judge but the moment that person opens his/her mouth (have a meaningful conversation) you are either attracted to them or repelled! 😊❤
It is what it is, but some people are cruel. I was diagnosed with a form of cancer 7 years ago. People of all walks, white, black, Latino and Asian would look at me and laugh. I usually had on a work uniform. That made me feel so horrible. I completely understood how children and adults feel when bullied about appearance. Through it all I still walk with my head held high. I don't think I look better than anyone. I considered ffs recently but scared. Also when I went through the humiliation from others, I hadn't even started hrt. I still wear men's clothes 4 years after hrt. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Love all of you. Nobody else can be you. What does the heart and spirit look like?
I hope you don't have any form of any cancer any more. If I may ask - how does having a form of cancer, wearing a work uniform and ffs/hrt relate to each other?
Dr. Linkov demeanor is so kind and thoughtful. I really enjoy hearing your thoughts. This was an interesting video And dang you are awesome Dr. Linkov!
I didnt even think about how he looked, before he mentioned it, he sounds like we are all paying attention to looks first thing. I find personality, a healthy weight and intelligence attractive.
I don't feel like just looking at faces is fair personality plays a huge part for me atleast. There can be a guy I find extremely attractive and then he says something stupid and I could not care less anymore lol
Yes, would love to see your reaction to all his videos. His take on attractiveness is interesting and entertaining. I've never heard of him, so this is a treat to watch.
I’ve definitely experienced “pretty privilege“ throughout my life, which I resent because despite being a nurse, having a high IQ, and being a self-taught computer tech in the early 90’s, I’ve never seemed to get the respect I should. It didn’t teach me to work as hard as I really should (as opposed to my skills coming easily/naturally). I’m teaching my daughters who the first one did modeling and the second one is so stunning that I’m afraid to put her in for fear it’ll take off and ruin her, I don’t want either one of them experiencing “pretty privilege“ because I want them to become hard workers ( beyond any natural skills that come easy) without fear of being single. I liked being single, but I’m not at a place I would’ve wished for when I was younger. I think it has everything to do with my ignorance and pretty privileged at such a young age.
Any privilege matters whether it's a mental skill, manual skill, nepotism, or beauty. Everyone should use the gifts they are given for their personal advancement and for the well-being of others. Beauty is a gift that everyone praises, and it's as worthy as being intelligent because everyone has a purpose or role to play in this world. Besides, a woman whose beauty is fading later in life can always turn to another skill or privilege they may have ignored when youthful. I've read personal accounts of older women with faded beauty, and they finally have the chance to be taken seriously now that they embody the crone archetype. I say that women should take advantage of their looks while, or if, they have them. It won't last, and there's always time to learn new skills later in life. The only problem is accepting when youth and beauty fades and moving on towards focusing on wisdom instead. So many beautiful women struggle with the change whether they already had a skill or not to fall back on. I'm personally afraid of aging because I have youthful prettiness despite my actual age. My focus has to be directed towards educating my children instead. I don't know what I'll choose to do once they become adults, but I'll probably be a wilted flower by then, so I'll have less interest in the way I'll look.
Personality has such an influence over whether you find someone attractive, part of what makes you so attractive Dr. Gary! And you are good looking too!!!
sometimes attractiveness doesn't start as inner feelings. I was morbidly obese, people would make negative comments all the time, I'd get bullied, I'd try going on dating apps only for people to call me too fat or too ugly. I lost weight and i started getting more attention but now it all seems superficial and it showed me how shallow people can be. I'm asexual, I do not care about other people's looks, but it's very ironic for me to be so focused on mine and be so worried about people's perception of me.
As an older woman, I think that it's a lifetime of wanting to present my best self that keeps me dressing "well", which includes makeup. It makes me happy too. Some older women don't care and that's their choice.
so funny i always say/think 'well, im not everyones cup of tea, but im not doga$$ ugly' its all good for what i am doing in this world. its good. aesthetic does not equal intelligence does not equal integrity. stay sweet, yall!
I give myself a 3.5. If that's an overestimate... 😭 You're a very attractive human being. You seem like a warm, kind, intelligent, and safe person, and you have a wonderful face.
Regarding your psychological prospective, my mom always taught me to wear my make up and dress nicely when going out, she said people will treat you better the more you look like you care about yourself. Which I have found to be true
It's looking good for yourself. If you feel horrible inside you don't need to let yourself go. If you make an effort no matter how you feel inside. You will slowly feel better even for a wee while ❤
23:14 Hi Dr. Linkov!! Thank you for your wise & compassionate approach here - I was very struck by this beautiful young man’s willingness to share his personal experience with his changing perception of attractiveness! My Mom got refreshed in 1992 (facelift at 60 years old) for a high level promotion. She described her makeup & elegant clothing as donning armour in preparation for Battle… this piece of Wisdom really made me think more about what I needed & wanted as I learned to face a new Age & Stage in my own life…
As for the very old ladies dressing up it's not just about caring for the way they might be percieved but also about values, long lived habits, the simple pleasure or having something nice on, the fan that comes with it and the way it makes them feel - it keeps you alive, it mantains a certain routine and the practice of self care everyone is still worth, not depending on age, on both superficial and deeper levels.
Great looks do not always lead to great lives. Intelligence, humor, ambition - how you conduct yourself - all play a role. Don’t worry about it. Get on with living your best life.
I’ve met people who are attractive on the outside but automatically ugly after their personality shows otherwise. I’ve met people who may not be considered attractive but are attractive because they are beautiful human beings.
When I'm older, I can see myself wearing makeup. It seems like, at least where I live, if you're a woman and don't wear makeup, people wonder what's wrong. They ask if you're sick, tell us our color doesn't look good. I do get compliments on my skin, but if my lips aren't cherry red, someone sure feels the need to say something. If there's no blush, they're gonna say something. If my eyebrows are natural, they're gonna say something, and as much as I hate putting makeup on, it's easier to do that than listen to someone tell me what's wrong with me
I lived in places where women were expected to wear makeup but never did and never got any comments on that except for how good I looked. The trick is to never wear any makeup so that people who know you wouldn’t have your face with makeup in their mind to compare.
I came to your videos based on an algorithm suggestion (not sure why) and binged a few videos. My reaction to those videos was that you are a very attractive person and how that’s fitting for a plastic surgeon. I was wondering what (if anything) you’ve done for yourself so I went to your full channel and saw this as the latest video! So while I think you have great genetics, I’m wondering how much of it just exudes from your calm, positive energy. If I ever decide to do surgery, I hope I find one like you. Putting some “feelconfident skincare” on my Christmas wishlist! I need neck and eyebag care the most imho…
Actually, I spent the first 10 seconds over analyzing how I look, and reminiscing about how good I looked in the ‘80’s 😂. Please continue with this series. Thank you!
This is my favorite type of beauty content. I have not seen all your videos, but have you ever uploaded a video on a consultation for hair transplant or lip lift?
if you are a guy you being calm (not condescending), at peace and kind makes you VERY attractive. If you yell, rage, have tantrums, forget it, it's over. Just have decent hygiene and a stable job, you dont have to be rich, just reliable. Keep your belly/gut small and your teeth brushed. That's it.
Analyzing somebody's attractiveness from a photo probably only contributes about 50% The rest is derived from presentation and multiple other factors because we don't remain static like a photo The other thing I've noticed is that people can rank higher in attractiveness over the course of decades For example I think the actress Kathy Bates rated quite low when she was in her 30s and 40s but now that she's in her 60s or 70s she's much higher on the scale when compared to other women of the same age
People should have confidence in themselves - that doesn’t make them vain. Everyone should be able to feel beautiful But making such comments makes you sound bitter
This is such a bizarre and unhealthy mindset. You want people to think of themselves as not good looking and be miserable? Isn't there enough insecurity and misery in this world? Let people have some love for themselves.
I whole heartedly believe that when it comes to looks, a bright smile, smooth healthy skin and clear whites of the eyes can make anyone appear attractive no matter how the rest of your face looks.
Being attractive is like 80% of your life. Being attractive makes you confident in everything you do in your everyday life. Being attractive lets you meet more people, make more s3x, enjoy and experience life not just .... you know exist which applies for average and below average people.
Youth all by itself makes one very attractive. Everyone will have the beauty of youth, and everyone will lose it at some point. Have a good heart and respect for fellow humans, and it will reflect on your attractiveness, outer as well as inner beauty. A good heart is FREE- it's a matter of choosing wisely what priorities one values. Thank you Dr Gary -another great discussion! 🫶🏽
0:57 one minute in and that guys video is dumb… that’s the only judgment I’ve made. Why does it matter that much. Just take care of yourself, have good hygiene and be well kept, be healthy…. Don’t worry about the things that you can’t control. People need to stop placing so much emphasis on being attractive, it’s poisoning their mind.
It's very strange with the 'how do you rate yourself' - because I never rate myself highly. Others rate me higher.. But, so what if that reflects insecurity - isn't that okay? I'd rather be humble and perhaps playing on the safe side, and maybe a little insecure, than sound big headed. It's confusing that so many apparently rate themselves higher - do people really have such high confidence?! But also - people have different standards.. and I might hold myself to a very high standard. So the definition/rating is always going to be subjective lol
I will still want to look good at 90. I like how I look and I like to do makeup and hair to please myself :) Being out of my childbearing years won’t change that
Looks are only part of the attraction: personality is even more important, a good sense of humor, compassion, intelligence are all equally important. I don’t care how good looking a guy is, if he’s a bore, or hates animals, he’s ugly to me and not someone I would want to spend time with.
when he said you were judging me and deciding whether or not he was attractive not me. i was listening to what he was saying and not even paying attention to his looks at all. Not everyone immediately judges someone based off of their looks, others first pay attention to the words coming out of a person’s mouth.
I'm 38, and Icimproved my general posture by practicing yoga and working out over the years and that improvement stayed. And I by default raise my eyebrows slightly to minimise the hooded lids I've started to develop. And that all just to feel like my best version 😂
I really don’t think anything is wrong with people viewing themselves as a 10, as long as they don’t think everyone else around them is ugly. It’s a great display of other people’s insecurities when they get triggered by someone rating themselves as a 10. Just cuz they are content with their looks and don’t wanna change anything does NOT mean they are insulting others or think they’re better than everyone else or think they have no flaws! It can just mean they really do think there is nothing they need to change, they love how they look and they feel that way despite how many other people may disagree! As long as it’s not coming from a place of superiority we should applaud and be happy for people’s confidence not offended by it!
`There's so much out there than still images.` I'm gonna take advantage of the fact that it's the internet and I'm anonymous and tell you this: I walked into a drugstore a few months ago, and I saw a pharmacist, a woman. I was blown out by the sexyness and self-confidence she exuded. She had a huge sex-appeal, I couldn't take my eyes away from her for a few instances. She wasn't doing anything in particular, she wasn't wearing noticeable makeup, and because this is the channel to say it, she had this huge nose on her face. I was simply noticing her appearance in order to see what was the source of that attractiveness. And for sure I'd say it wasn't AT ALL her standard beauty (she didn't have a standard beauty, in case you missed my point). There's so much more than still images.
I’m self aware, I’d rate myself a 5. Just very mid which is fine. I have some features that people compliment but my personality is a strong 8/9 which makes me appear more attractive & confident.
I think attractiveness changes as you mature. I prefer to view attractiveness in the realm of confidence... and being able to love the skin you are in. We all have our insecurities, but at the end of the day I am content growing old naturally. Eating well and the gym keeps me balanced. Anyone can call someone 'beautiful' but when I feel most beautiful is when my husband tells me.
Ok so hear me out on this mewing thing. I had no idea about this. This is why I love this channel because sometimes it tells me things about myself I didn’t even know. From as far as I can remember I always rested my tongue on the roof of my mouth. It’s just the natural state of where my tongue hits I guess. I have a small tongue I have no idea if this is why I’ve done this all my life but when I found out about this I realized I’ve been mewing all my life and two I tried to lower my tongue and not only does it make a real difference in the look of my face. Specifically my jaw but I saw myself as a completely different looking person. So I don’t know if it’s healthy to do that because I naturally have done all my life but I can say it does make a big difference in your face. Also as much as I tried I can’t hold my tongue down. It’s uncomfortable. My tongue if comfortable touching the roof of my mouth. I would have never learned this about myself if it wasn’t for this channel. I thought everyone tongue did this.
I might think someone is attractive in an initial way, but if I get to know them and they are super unlikable for whatever reasons, they immediately become less attractive to me. On the other hand, kind, funny people always get higher attractiveness marks from me. Personality is HUGE. But I can see why on those initial meetings we all want to make the best possible first impression in terms of appearance.
Dr.. Linkov’s gentle and intelligent manner make him extremely attractive. Personality matters too.
The first time I watched his channel I took an immediately liking to him. His priorities seem balanced. He's got everything going for himself. His work on his channel seems effortless but it is anything but.
Personality is everything. Why some incels are incredibly handsome but still can't get laid. LOL.
He’s also really handsome :/ UNLIKE ME
I agree. And I’ve always been REALLY turned on by intelligence too.
I fully agree. I think calmness and friendliness are very attractive. Voice plays a role. I also like the way you come across.
If we are ONLY talking about looks, I'm a 6. But if you take my personality, sense of humor, and values into consideration, I'm actually a strong 2.
Beauty is like ice cream, everyone has a different favourite ice cream flavour. There is not one ice cream that is fixed to be the tasty one for everyone. Same for beauty. Its so subjective. Its jus the society and industry telling us there would be a fixed pretty and ugly. But its not.
Lmfao, same
lol! :D
Im dead
I’m dying 😂😂😂😂
I think you're an attractive person Dr. Linkov 😊
He is a handsome man!
He is a striking fellow. For me, its also his senses of humor and compassion.
He is attractive primarily because of his intelligence, character and overall caliber. That shines through. The same face with a dumb, awkward expression would be nothing to wrote home about.
Same
I think he is too, he seems very understanding and very caring and simple
You're a good example of attractiveness. Nice facial features+ charm that comes from various things like being smart, articulate and a calm and composed attitude
Dr. Linkov is uniquely attractive, setting him apart. I'm always drawn to attractive people who are character ridden. Not the plastic faced 'perfection' that is happening so frequently nowadays.
intelligence is very attractive also. 😊
Men rate themselves higher than they really are... women rate themselves lower than they really are! 😅
@@pinkaholic09 He really does have a beautifully chiseled face. A lot of the so-called ‘handsome’ men we see nowadays hide behind copious amounts of facial hair, which I think gives them an extremely unfair advantage, considering that beards conceal the entire lower half of a man’s face and enhance their perceived level of masculinity by a large margin. It takes courage and NATURAL good looks to be a clean-shaven man in today’s world, and Dr. Linkov is one such example. Take Jason Kelce for instance; he’s been labelled as one of the hottest men alive, but if you manage to find one of the very few pictures of him without facial hair, he really isn’t one bit special
@@sandrachebo I'd say it's the opposite lol
Doctor, I find you very attractive. The voice. The smile. The brain. The talent. The facial proportions. The sense of humor. You're the total package.
The best type of men :) that's what I am looking for too.
Agree with you ❤
I really love how well rounded you are and how you push for people to value being beautiful on the inside as well as confidence and self worth. Very true. I also think, regarding what you said about people being so much more than still photos, people look different in motion, dynamically. You can't see the full depth of someone's face and appearance on a flat photo, you can't see projection of the features or the way they move, those things can really change your attractiveness.
Thank you for always having these conversations in such an open, judgment-free, and educated way! We need more people like you Dr. Linkov.
When I was young, I cared about being attractive, then marriage happened, and now I just care about being as healthy as possible.
it is very natural. because when a person is looking for a life partner, he must try to look his best to increase his chances with the opposite sex 😁
Just because I have someone doesn’t mean I stop making an effort to look good tho. I still take care of my body skin and hair. I still get dolled up it makes me feel and look my best
@Bunny11344 I know what you mean. When I got married I gradually started focusing on health. Eating well, sleeping enough, exercising, but also mental health. Before, I had an unhealthy preoccupation with my appearance, but now I think i have enough self love to care about myself and my appearance. Both extremes are unhealthy, but a balanced point of view on appearance is healthy.
7:08 He knew, he just expressed he started to feel self-concious and vulnerable, by saying ”what are we even talking about?!”, when he opened about feeling like giving himself a higher number, but that could sometimes change when he saw the look in someone’s eyes when looking at him, and he felt like a low number then.
On one of my dad’s work trips to the U.S. he bought me a pair of Levi’s jeans, and I remember I felt so cool in them when I ran around with them at my Scandinavian school, because no one else at school had jeans like that (they had animated prints from the child’s department at Hennes & Mauritz/H&M). One girl walked up to me and gave me the up and down look, and simply said ”you’re not pretty in your ugly jeans”.
Some months past and I was invited to her birthday party, and as you do as a child, you accept and try to pretend everything is fine even if they never apologized to you. Her mom walked up to me at the party, and said ”my daughter told me about your jeans, what a fun thing to get. She begged me for a pair, but I told her no because they cost too much”. A bit lack of boundaries for someone else’s parent to share that with someone else’s child. Either way, that’s when I understood the girl’s negative words had nothing to do with me at all, she was expressing anger that she saw something she liked but couldn’t have.
Moral of the story, is basically don’t allow others to shift how you feel about yourself! They do it because they are unhappy. People who feel ok do not attack others for their looks or other things out of the blue.
Thank you for sharing this. Made me recall similar incidents I may have internalized 🙏🏽
Yes, from working with seniors - seeing them do their nails or trying to make their 5 hair look better is a huge sign of their good mental health. Always make my heart jump.
Since their conditions can be awful.😞
Most people fall in the middle (normal)! However their Intelligence, integrity, and humor can make them attractive! Yes we can look at a picture or a person (from far) and judge but the moment that person opens his/her mouth (have a meaningful conversation) you are either attracted to them or repelled! 😊❤
In my opinion, this young man already has everything. Looks, an engaging personality, and brains! He's a 10!!!
Dr. Linkov is so authentic, true to who is and his profession. Don't see that much especially on this platform. Thank you.
It is what it is, but some people are cruel. I was diagnosed with a form of cancer 7 years ago. People of all walks, white, black, Latino and Asian would look at me and laugh. I usually had on a work uniform. That made me feel so horrible. I completely understood how children and adults feel when bullied about appearance. Through it all I still walk with my head held high. I don't think I look better than anyone. I considered ffs recently but scared. Also when I went through the humiliation from others, I hadn't even started hrt. I still wear men's clothes 4 years after hrt. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Love all of you. Nobody else can be you. What does the heart and spirit look like?
I hope everything will be good for you. You sound like you deserve it. Virtual hug.
@AglajaEos thank you.
I hope you don't have any form of any cancer any more.
If I may ask - how does having a form of cancer, wearing a work uniform and ffs/hrt relate to each other?
Dr. Linkov demeanor is so kind and thoughtful. I really enjoy hearing your thoughts. This was an interesting video And dang you are awesome Dr. Linkov!
I didnt even think about how he looked, before he mentioned it, he sounds like we are all paying attention to looks first thing. I find personality, a healthy weight and intelligence attractive.
I don't feel like just looking at faces is fair personality plays a huge part for me atleast. There can be a guy I find extremely attractive and then he says something stupid and I could not care less anymore lol
I’m 71 and think you’re very nice looking but never even thought of your looks only how kind and emotionally intelligent you are.
I think those qualities also add to attractiveness.
Yes, would love to see your reaction to all his videos. His take on attractiveness is interesting and entertaining. I've never heard of him, so this is a treat to watch.
I’ve definitely experienced “pretty privilege“ throughout my life, which I resent because despite being a nurse, having a high IQ, and being a self-taught computer tech in the early 90’s, I’ve never seemed to get the respect I should. It didn’t teach me to work as hard as I really should (as opposed to my skills coming easily/naturally). I’m teaching my daughters who the first one did modeling and the second one is so stunning that I’m afraid to put her in for fear it’ll take off and ruin her, I don’t want either one of them experiencing “pretty privilege“ because I want them to become hard workers ( beyond any natural skills that come easy) without fear of being single. I liked being single, but I’m not at a place I would’ve wished for when I was younger. I think it has everything to do with my ignorance and pretty privileged at such a young age.
Any privilege matters whether it's a mental skill, manual skill, nepotism, or beauty. Everyone should use the gifts they are given for their personal advancement and for the well-being of others. Beauty is a gift that everyone praises, and it's as worthy as being intelligent because everyone has a purpose or role to play in this world. Besides, a woman whose beauty is fading later in life can always turn to another skill or privilege they may have ignored when youthful.
I've read personal accounts of older women with faded beauty, and they finally have the chance to be taken seriously now that they embody the crone archetype.
I say that women should take advantage of their looks while, or if, they have them. It won't last, and there's always time to learn new skills later in life. The only problem is accepting when youth and beauty fades and moving on towards focusing on wisdom instead. So many beautiful women struggle with the change whether they already had a skill or not to fall back on.
I'm personally afraid of aging because I have youthful prettiness despite my actual age. My focus has to be directed towards educating my children instead. I don't know what I'll choose to do once they become adults, but I'll probably be a wilted flower by then, so I'll have less interest in the way I'll look.
I have learned that pretty privilege should be used to get people to teach you things, or at least I should have done that when I was younger
I think we all make judgements about people and their looks on a subconscious level.
Thank you for your opinion, God. What other universal judgements would you like to pronounce?
Dr Gary is cuute!💘
I love personalities, & you Dr. Linkov have a beautiful personality. That's much more attractive than the world gives credit to. ❤
Personality has such an influence over whether you find someone attractive, part of what makes you so attractive Dr. Gary! And you are good looking too!!!
sometimes attractiveness doesn't start as inner feelings. I was morbidly obese, people would make negative comments all the time, I'd get bullied, I'd try going on dating apps only for people to call me too fat or too ugly. I lost weight and i started getting more attention but now it all seems superficial and it showed me how shallow people can be. I'm asexual, I do not care about other people's looks, but it's very ironic for me to be so focused on mine and be so worried about people's perception of me.
Me too, unless you've been there you don't know how bad things are
As an older woman, I think that it's a lifetime of wanting to present my best self that keeps me dressing "well", which includes makeup. It makes me happy too. Some older women don't care and that's their choice.
Really enjoyed following this guy’s journey and the doc’s breakdown. Hope we get to see how this ends!
so funny
i always say/think 'well, im not everyones cup of tea, but im not doga$$ ugly'
its all good for what i am doing in this world. its good.
aesthetic does not equal intelligence does not equal integrity.
stay sweet, yall!
My favorite scene from Scrubs is when Dr Kelso tells JD he's weird looking and he gets mad and goes "I'm interesting looking, at worst"
You crack me up sometimes “um…I think I’m alright 😂.” I’m really liking your content and your professional views on procedures.
I think your attractive Dr. Linkov. Truly.
I give myself a 3.5. If that's an overestimate... 😭
You're a very attractive human being. You seem like a warm, kind, intelligent, and safe person, and you have a wonderful face.
Love these videos! Looking forward to the rest of the episodes 😍😍
I think a good attitude , smart and ambitious make a person more attractive .
Love the commentary on channels I’m not normally exposed to!
Have to feel good about yourself on the inside to feel attractive it's all about confidence
Completely agree. I think my new motto will be “Confidence comes from within”
I definitely like your authentic and gentle personality.
*Gary, I love this video the best because it displays your fun personality more so than any of your other great videos.*
What a great voice. Perfect for a medical practitioner 😊
Would be great to hear your opinion on the rest of episodes Dr.!
I feel at my best when I’m feeling nice
& fresh! ✌🏽
Regarding your psychological prospective, my mom always taught me to wear my make up and dress nicely when going out, she said people will treat you better the more you look like you care about yourself. Which I have found to be true
It's looking good for yourself. If you feel horrible inside you don't need to let yourself go. If you make an effort no matter how you feel inside. You will slowly feel better even for a wee while ❤
23:14 Hi Dr. Linkov!! Thank you for your wise & compassionate approach here - I was very struck by this beautiful young man’s willingness to share his personal experience with his changing perception of attractiveness! My Mom got refreshed in 1992 (facelift at 60 years old) for a high level promotion. She described her makeup & elegant clothing as donning armour in preparation for Battle… this piece of Wisdom really made me think more about what I needed & wanted as I learned to face a new Age & Stage in my own life…
To me you're very attractive, and especially your voice is sooo warm, cozy and smooth - I could listen to you all day long.
As for the very old ladies dressing up it's not just about caring for the way they might be percieved but also about values, long lived habits, the simple pleasure or having something nice on, the fan that comes with it and the way it makes them feel - it keeps you alive, it mantains a certain routine and the practice of self care everyone is still worth, not depending on age, on both superficial and deeper levels.
Great looks do not always lead to great lives. Intelligence, humor, ambition - how you conduct yourself - all play a role. Don’t worry about it. Get on with living your best life.
Nothing is more attractive than confidence.
I’ve met people who are attractive on the outside but automatically ugly after their personality shows otherwise. I’ve met people who may not be considered attractive but are attractive because they are beautiful human beings.
You are attractive and very likable and respectable! Thank you for making these videos for us. Pretty cool that you came out of nowhere for me.
we need a collab between you and tejas omg
Dr. Linkov is a strong 12! I love his demeanor. You can see his goodness on his eyes 😊
When I'm older, I can see myself wearing makeup. It seems like, at least where I live, if you're a woman and don't wear makeup, people wonder what's wrong. They ask if you're sick, tell us our color doesn't look good. I do get compliments on my skin, but if my lips aren't cherry red, someone sure feels the need to say something. If there's no blush, they're gonna say something. If my eyebrows are natural, they're gonna say something, and as much as I hate putting makeup on, it's easier to do that than listen to someone tell me what's wrong with me
I assume thisis all women doing this. I've yet to meet a man that cares or eould be so callous.
I lived in places where women were expected to wear makeup but never did and never got any comments on that except for how good I looked. The trick is to never wear any makeup so that people who know you wouldn’t have your face with makeup in their mind to compare.
I worked as a cashier and I got that comment, usually men, frequently!
@@nataliep501 Yes, and I'm talking about strangers. Not ppl who see me every day
Omg the sick part 💯 ha..
FYI, Dr. L., you are highly attractive. Moreso without hair.
I came to your videos based on an algorithm suggestion (not sure why) and binged a few videos. My reaction to those videos was that you are a very attractive person and how that’s fitting for a plastic surgeon. I was wondering what (if anything) you’ve done for yourself so I went to your full channel and saw this as the latest video! So while I think you have great genetics, I’m wondering how much of it just exudes from your calm, positive energy. If I ever decide to do surgery, I hope I find one like you. Putting some “feelconfident skincare” on my Christmas wishlist! I need neck and eyebag care the most imho…
So cool that you are okay with your own attractiveness Dr Gary 😊.You are beautiful in and out✨️🫶🏼.
Cant wait for your thoughts on the rest of this series.
Actually, I spent the first 10 seconds over analyzing how I look, and reminiscing about how good I looked in the ‘80’s 😂. Please continue with this series. Thank you!
This is my favorite type of beauty content. I have not seen all your videos, but have you ever uploaded a video on a consultation for hair transplant or lip lift?
if you are a guy you being calm (not condescending), at peace and kind makes you VERY attractive.
If you yell, rage, have tantrums, forget it, it's over.
Just have decent hygiene and a stable job, you dont have to be rich, just reliable.
Keep your belly/gut small and your teeth brushed.
That's it.
DEFINITELY need a combo video❤
Analyzing somebody's attractiveness from a photo probably only contributes about 50% The rest is derived from presentation and multiple other factors because we don't remain static like a photo
The other thing I've noticed is that people can rank higher in attractiveness over the course of decades
For example I think the actress Kathy Bates rated quite low when she was in her 30s and 40s but now that she's in her 60s or 70s she's much higher on the scale when compared to other women of the same age
To those vain people who think they are good looking therefore more important; just remember, you are just a face plant away from being ugly.
People should have confidence in themselves - that doesn’t make them vain. Everyone should be able to feel beautiful
But making such comments makes you sound bitter
This is such a bizarre and unhealthy mindset. You want people to think of themselves as not good looking and be miserable? Isn't there enough insecurity and misery in this world? Let people have some love for themselves.
Some reasons for people wanting to look more attractive is finding love,trauma ,but the most important probably is people treating you differently.
Please cover the other 3 parts of this series!
I whole heartedly believe that when it comes to looks, a bright smile, smooth healthy skin and clear whites of the eyes can make anyone appear attractive no matter how the rest of your face looks.
I would love to see you reacting to the other episodes of this series!
Being attractive is like 80% of your life.
Being attractive makes you confident in everything you do in your everyday life.
Being attractive lets you meet more people, make more s3x, enjoy and experience life not just .... you know exist which applies for average and below average people.
Youth all by itself makes one very attractive. Everyone will have the beauty of youth, and everyone will lose it at some point. Have a good heart and respect for fellow humans, and it will reflect on your attractiveness, outer as well as inner beauty. A good heart is FREE- it's a matter of choosing wisely what priorities one values. Thank you Dr Gary -another great discussion! 🫶🏽
You're clean.
If that makes sense. The more I listen to you speak..The more attractive you become.
It's that beautiful mind.😊and probably your smile😊
0:57 one minute in and that guys video is dumb… that’s the only judgment I’ve made. Why does it matter that much. Just take care of yourself, have good hygiene and be well kept, be healthy…. Don’t worry about the things that you can’t control. People need to stop placing so much emphasis on being attractive, it’s poisoning their mind.
Says the woman with videos of putting makeup on just to clean her house. Everyone cares about looks, it's human nature. Doesn't make the guy "dumb".
Loved this episode
As soon as Dr. Gary started growing back a little facial hair and brows I was like “oh, hello”
It's very strange with the 'how do you rate yourself' - because I never rate myself highly. Others rate me higher.. But, so what if that reflects insecurity - isn't that okay? I'd rather be humble and perhaps playing on the safe side, and maybe a little insecure, than sound big headed. It's confusing that so many apparently rate themselves higher - do people really have such high confidence?! But also - people have different standards.. and I might hold myself to a very high standard. So the definition/rating is always going to be subjective lol
Loving your mindset and beautiful and fair thoughts 🙏 grateful of you are doing this knowledge videos 😊
awesome videos as always, thanks!
I will still want to look good at 90. I like how I look and I like to do makeup and hair to please myself :) Being out of my childbearing years won’t change that
Looks are only part of the attraction: personality is even more important, a good sense of humor, compassion, intelligence are all equally important. I don’t care how good looking a guy is, if he’s a bore, or hates animals, he’s ugly to me and not someone I would want to spend time with.
For me smartness, skills and originality is more important than external attractiveness.
A grandad with a billion dollars is attractive ❤.
when he said you were judging me and deciding whether or not he was attractive not me. i was listening to what he was saying and not even paying attention to his looks at all. Not everyone immediately judges someone based off of their looks, others first pay attention to the words coming out of a person’s mouth.
I'm 38, and Icimproved my general posture by practicing yoga and working out over the years and that improvement stayed. And I by default raise my eyebrows slightly to minimise the hooded lids I've started to develop. And that all just to feel like my best version 😂
you are, an a nice person too
I really don’t think anything is wrong with people viewing themselves as a 10, as long as they don’t think everyone else around them is ugly. It’s a great display of other people’s insecurities when they get triggered by someone rating themselves as a 10. Just cuz they are content with their looks and don’t wanna change anything does NOT mean they are insulting others or think they’re better than everyone else or think they have no flaws! It can just mean they really do think there is nothing they need to change, they love how they look and they feel that way despite how many other people may disagree! As long as it’s not coming from a place of superiority we should applaud and be happy for people’s confidence not offended by it!
`There's so much out there than still images.` I'm gonna take advantage of the fact that it's the internet and I'm anonymous and tell you this: I walked into a drugstore a few months ago, and I saw a pharmacist, a woman. I was blown out by the sexyness and self-confidence she exuded. She had a huge sex-appeal, I couldn't take my eyes away from her for a few instances.
She wasn't doing anything in particular, she wasn't wearing noticeable makeup, and because this is the channel to say it, she had this huge nose on her face. I was simply noticing her appearance in order to see what was the source of that attractiveness. And for sure I'd say it wasn't AT ALL her standard beauty (she didn't have a standard beauty, in case you missed my point). There's so much more than still images.
Looking forward to the rest of the episodes 👌🏼
I’m self aware, I’d rate myself a 5. Just very mid which is fine. I have some features that people compliment but my personality is a strong 8/9 which makes me appear more attractive & confident.
Would give you a 10/10 Dr. Linkov 😌
You're not "ok" you're fiine 😍
I mostly watch these videos for the cute and charming doctor 😇
Granted a person who’s had good plastic surgery work done may look better, I also think their increased self confidence helps, as well.
That young man is quite beautiful. I was supprised he gave himself 6/10.
I would love another video reaction to this series! I find your commentary very informative and eye opening! ❤
I think attractiveness changes as you mature. I prefer to view attractiveness in the realm of confidence... and being able to love the skin you are in. We all have our insecurities, but at the end of the day I am content growing old naturally. Eating well and the gym keeps me balanced. Anyone can call someone 'beautiful' but when I feel most beautiful is when my husband tells me.
It's not just about how you feel on the inside. People also treat you differently if you're attractive.
I feel like you probably don't need this, but I think you're very attractive, Dr Linkov. Both externally and internally
You have to be the prettiest bald man i've seen
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he is!!
Dr. Linkov is charming 😍
Looking forward to the rest of the episodes 😍😍
Ok so hear me out on this mewing thing. I had no idea about this. This is why I love this channel because sometimes it tells me things about myself I didn’t even know. From as far as I can remember I always rested my tongue on the roof of my mouth. It’s just the natural state of where my tongue hits I guess. I have a small tongue I have no idea if this is why I’ve done this all my life but when I found out about this I realized I’ve been mewing all my life and two I tried to lower my tongue and not only does it make a real difference in the look of my face. Specifically my jaw but I saw myself as a completely different looking person. So I don’t know if it’s healthy to do that because I naturally have done all my life but I can say it does make a big difference in your face. Also as much as I tried I can’t hold my tongue down. It’s uncomfortable. My tongue if comfortable touching the roof of my mouth. I would have never learned this about myself if it wasn’t for this channel. I thought everyone tongue did this.
Same 😂 but I didn't notice much difference when putting my tongue down though 🤔 just in my "double chin" area, and just slightly
@@homiekeen23 Yes I noticed it mainly there. Made my chin look lower if I can explain it
I might think someone is attractive in an initial way, but if I get to know them and they are super unlikable for whatever reasons, they immediately become less attractive to me. On the other hand, kind, funny people always get higher attractiveness marks from me. Personality is HUGE. But I can see why on those initial meetings we all want to make the best possible first impression in terms of appearance.