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- Does anyone in your life make you feel emotionally drained, distressed, and sometimes questioning your judgment and choices, but you're not sure why? It is easy to spot signs of toxic behavior if they are violent or abusive, but there are some that more subtle. So to help you with that, here are a few common toxic behaviors to look out for.
Original article - psych2go.net/7-toxic-behavior...
DISCLAIMER: This video is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional advice, but general guidance. If you can relate to any of these signs, please know this feedback is not meant to discredit or demonize anyone. It is meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.
Writer: Sara Del Villar
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Animator: Naphia
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References:
Holland, K., & Legg, T. J. (2018, February 13). How to Recognize the Signs of Emotional Manipulation and What to Do. healthline. www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/emotional-manipulation.
Kim, J. (2020, June 10). 5 Non-Obvious Signs Your Relationship Is Toxic. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-angry-therapist/202006/5-non-obvious-signs-your-relationship-is-toxic.
Pannell, R. (2014, December 22). How to Survive a Character Assassination. HuffPost Canada. www.huffingtonpost.ca/ryan-pannell/character-assassination_b_6017046.html.
Sarkis, S. M. (2017, January 22). 11 Warning Signs of Gaslighting. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-warning-signs-gaslighting.
Stosny, S. (2015, June 10). What Drives Emotional Abuse in Relationships. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201506/what-drives-emotional-abuse-in-relationships.
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1. they try to maintain the advantage 0:36
2. they alter facts 1:49
3. they undermine your intelligence 2:18
4. they assasinate your character 2:53
5. they make you feel bad 3:22
6. they diminish your problems 3:49
7. they act like a martyr 4:27
I hope I could help!
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I think Im going to be a member in this channel
Thank you!
@@1CT1 no thanks
Ty but like- hOW DO YOU PEOPLE TIME TRAVEL TELL US YOUR SECRETS
Feels like you’re describing that ONE person on the internet
They are-
@ZOEY SMITH no They at-
They are-
who? i dont get it sorry im dumb
Jafar Starfish?
Hey, friend. Take this time to relax. Don’t overthink. Even if there is a problem, there is always a solution. Breathe, take care 💕
I try too but thank you tho and same to you as well 🌺🌸💕
Thank you th-cam.com/video/jlbRSPvIUms/w-d-xo.html
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That little guy in the thumbnail looks like baby Sans from Undertale😍😍😍😍😘😘😘
thanks
Dream in the tumbnail is so fitting
FUCK UR RIGHT.
and the discs
ikr
HAHAHA
psych2go: are you sure we want all these different fandoms rushing to our comments?
animator(s): yes.
Naphia my beloved
"It is not the bruises on the body that hurt. It is the wounds of the heart and the scars on the mind."
- Aisha Mirza
THE DISC ARC IN THE THUMBMAIL-
*✨ IT’S BEAUTIFUL ✨ *
they yet again summoned a whole fandom XD
And finally for a good reason
@@Sage3356 mhm
dream smp fans seeing thing be like:
DUDUDUDU
YES-
YESSSS
YES🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
YUH
@Carolina Alonso HELLO ITS MS BERRY
Ayup
Whoever is trying to being you down,is already beneath you...
@Johnny Bolas ✌
lol, anyone here is watching this and picture their parents doing that and now you know you grow up in a toxic environment? no? probably just me
Me too
Same
Nope, me too - toxic, narcissistic mother!
I want to hug who makes these thumbnails, they're beautiful
Agreed
I love how they added the dream smp-
They really put dsmp lore on the thumbnail
(Disc arc, and Exile)
exile arc
the whole video is describing the exile arc lol
@@Animallover24678 yup lol
I LOVE THE THUMBNAIL SM- LIKE- IANSIWKSNS- I kinda miss the wars- and all of the lore- but I still love that Quackity is doing lore and bringing people who haven’t really been on the server :]
Quagmire griffin
There are amazing ppl in the Dream SMP like Tommy and Quackity but it's Dream and His fanbase who made it seem bad
@@bluehairedmiku1402 Well, I saw a good analogy for that. Say, like, 1 person in every 10 000 is toxic, and there are 20 000 000 people. Its still a small percentage that is toxic, but its a lot of people when you look at it.
Its unfortunate to see that Dreams whole fanbase is being labeled as toxic, but I agree its exhausting to deal with the crazy stans, who are overall being rude.
Thanks for coming to my Tedtalk 😂
@@bluehairedmiku1402 they are talking about lore or dream character on the dsmp, not actual dream
@@michelle_2595 oh okay
dream as the thumbnail fits so well
The thumbnail perfectly explains what dream and tommy was like when tommy was in exile.
Facts
We are a system who is still getting over an ex partner system.. Watching this now, they fit a lot of these behaviors. We were blinded by how much we trusted and loved them.. Now that we're finally out of that situation, we're aware of how terrible they were for us. These videos are extremely helpful and we are so thankful for this channel. Thank you 💖💖
Yup, all of these sound familiar to me. *cough my ex boyfriend. But hey that over and done with. And I love the Dream and Tommy like animations it's so cute amazing work
You keep summoning fandoms huh psych2go? I found you a couple years ago because of the toxic father daughter relationship video.
I am an abusive and toxic myself....thank you for making me aware of it ...I'll try to better myself.
One of these alone is hurtful. All of them together can absolutely crush a person's soul 😢
@Gemma Dann yes, because then, they have convinced everyone (especially themselves) that they are in the right, and you DESERVE the abuse and mistreatment
@Gemma Dann yep... Unless you manage to break the cycle
@Gemma Dann yes. And it's rarely easy, but it's always worth it!
The thing I like the most about this particular video is the way it gave you the option to fess up to the fact that you might be the one who's the toxic person and even gives a small step by step as to how you can fix that with your relationships and people. I wish they would do that more often at the end in more of the videos.
I don't know how but psych2go just literally listed down everything i struggle with everyday haha i must be so intoxicated. I was thinking how this is just a typical conversation with my mom. What kind of person i am for thinking this is my normal.
Hey Psi,
Just wanted to reach out to show my appreciation for the educational videos that y’all put out on TH-cam. In late 2020, I was going through quite a lot in my life which included contemplating ending my 2 year long relationship with my now ex-fiancé. Through your videos, I learned a lot about myself and the relationship that I had the misfortune of being wrapped up in. The concepts and worrying signs taught in your videos pointed out the red flags that I had either ignored or were lead to believe weren’t issues at all. It is honestly eerie when y’all describe some of these concepts and illnesses. It is like you are reading off a story or script of my life and trauma.
I learned that I was being gaslighted, emotionally abused, overbearingly controlled, and being actively traumatized by a narcissist, and that I, myself, was conducting codependent behavior. I never would have ever thought that I would ever be caught up in a toxic relationship and be the abused. And your videos gave legitimacy and credence to my suspicions of being in-fact abused and the courage to finally push me to breaking ties for my own well-being. And I love the care put into the videos to even point out that abusers, even narcissistic ones with the likes of my ex, might not even know they are exhibiting abusive behavior or do these things maliciously. But you also pointed out that their ignorance does not give them an excuse to partake in these acts. It has helped me heal a lot along with the immense support of the friends and family I had neglected while being in that very bad situation. I am blessed in that regard.
And I do understand that seeking professional help will probably be the best next move. I am not actively doing so, but it has now been put on my radar to pursue when my current circumstances can accommodate that.
Again. Thank you SO MUCH! Words really cannot begin to describe how much I appreciate learning about my own shortcomings. I honestly only hope that my ex can find these videos and seek help for herself.
Regards,
A fan
I dealt with a very similar situation in 2020 with my ex fiance. Really proud of you for finding courage and strength to recognize that you’re worth being treated well and not abused 💞
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m glad you’re on a healing path from your experiences and growing! This channel really is a blessing. Be well.
I realize I grew up around this sort of behaviour which explains why I have certain issues and why I have been attracting certain types of people into my life. Right now, working towards a better future and a better version of myself. Thank you for this reminder ❤
Raised by cluster b people= attracted to cluster b people.
Dirty rotten sorry souls one and all.
So literally the whole internet.
Aww.....Wait....DREAM AND TOMMY?!? ....*exile arc flashback*
DISC DUOO:((
I MISS THEM FIGHTING EACH OTHER....
SAME HERE!!!
Now we know even Psych2go watches the dream team xD
I realized I did most of these. Damn, I need to change these toxic traits.
Self awareness is key, my dude 💛
Hope it goes well for you and remember pacience is key to changing behaviour
self awareness is the first step in the right direction
Do you know why you do this.
@@lorettagrey7383 Thank you, friend.
You all have helped me identify so many things that I honestly would have overlooked in the people that were close to me and even dissect things that I overlooked within myself
Yup. Experienced some of this in my (now behind me) marriage. The sad thing is that they don’t see that they are doing this to you. So until you completely sever all ties (If possible) they will always treat you this way which says everything about them.
MiMi’s Art how hard was it for you to walk away? Did you feel moments of guilt for leaving and hurting him and think you should go back?
I don’t get why there’s people in this world that say things like that’s nothing cuz I went through worse, even if that’s true that’s no reason to downplay how others feel because everyone’s emotions and experiences matter and shouldn’t be downplayed just because it’s worse because everyone should feel heard
I don't know how I'm here, but honestly- this is really good advice! I'll keep this in mind!
(it's also still adorable!)
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@Big Smoke It's my secret talent, y'know?
1:12 the dream amp in a nutshell
*Sees thumbnail* WHO DARES TO SUMMON ME?!
I just started shaking my head. It's yes yes and yes. I went with a fella that was all about him. He even had the nerve when I did mention something about myself to tell me I talked about myself all the time. I don't know how I could have talked about myself all the time because I couldn't get a word in edgewise with all his bragging and talking about himself. This video is completely validating. Thank you once again for excellent video
Oh my- the thumbnail i- i don't know what im feeling right now-
Believe in Jesus Christ and you will be saved. John 3:16(Share the gospel around the world!),,..
Same-
How are you so early-
@@mingsipeng4708 I'm a magician, don't worry about it-
"So how much Dream Smp do you want in your video?"
Psych2Go: *Yes*
And this time, Is accurately describing dream for the social climber he is
@@Sage3356 Can you please stop hating on Dream here? You may not like him, but that doesn't mean you get to spread that hate onto this community.
@@annalieses7960 After what his fanbase did? Sending death threats to those people Who said that he cheated his speedruns and How he Just let them loose and do wathever they wanted?
No
I can never get enough of this channel and the art style. I'm glad i found this community when I did
I've dated toxic abusers but I never just took it lying down... I would also meet them the same way. But that allowed them to say that I was the bad one.
The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.
the 5th one is so common for me. I'm happy im away from that. it was heartbreaking
This information described my experiences . Toxic people must be avoided. Toxic is lethal.
Thank you for these outstanding videos! I'm in the midst of severing a business relationship w someone who is furious that I expressed displeasure w THEIR highly offensive, humiliating & inappropriate comments in a class setting. We have to interact for 6 more weeks. For those who pray, sure would appreciate some prayers. Shaking as I type this. I was to respond properly & not react to the intimidation. Thank you & God bless anyone else who is reading this because they are being emotionally abused
The art style is to die for! The voice effects are cool too!
Such great advice. Thank you and we appreciate your incredible work.
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It becomes so much harder to walk away because most of these are from my family.
Virtually impossible not to find at least one of these traits in a person. We are all toxic in some way... just steer clear of ones that exhibit more than 2
i was a victim of all of this during my first few years of college, literally worst time of my life 😭😭😭
What if you’ve noticed these habits in a person and when you point it out to the individual they say they didn’t mean to do it. Except they keep doing it anyway...
Wow, Just like dream does on twitter
How you always know what I am searching for??? Every mood or situation I have, a few hours later you publish a video about it. Thanks! 😁❤️
This video is very good. The voice-over is easy to listen to, points are very well made, and this channel is amazing.
1:29
oh no dream, how could you! :D
Lol
@@user-tr3jw1df6q Lol
It’s Tommy
@@galaxy_mooncat779 lol
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I watched number three and though: is my brain toxic to me?
Thanks for making these very educational videos. I personally cannot relate to this but you are likely helping many people so on behalf of those you are helping thank you.
*the constant references i love this channel.*
Can you guys please do a video of "Eight-grader syndrome"
Oop!
what's that?
If Like to learn more about that
It’s Kaidou
my gut feeling says that my bestie is toxic..... she shows all of these behaviours....
i’m grieving for my father that’s still here but will tell my brother behind my back “i know i i should have treated her better but oh well now” like i endured physical and emotional abuse for for over 10 years DAILY 24/7 he didn’t have a job and stayed home all the time. he’s getting old he is already 65. ive tried bringing it up with him and he denied it or said it was discipline, discipline is meant to encourage you to do better you can learn to do better when you all you can think about is fear. now i have severe social anxiety, generalized anxiety, severe depression, derealization disorder, OCD, and CPTSD. i don’t even know who i am as person. i don’t feel real. i feel like everything is fake. i can’t talk to anyone. i can’t get a job i can’t even get out of bed. everything is so threatening and raw and scary. i hate people and feel hopeless for humanity. i’m a dead soul living inside a human body just hanging on because i’m not dead yet.
I used to have a friend who has like this.
Yet my mom found out and made me not be friends with them.
It helped so much, They used to tell me ways to die and yet when i was sad they’d say “You’re amazing!!”
It’s hard. Im glad i left them.
The thumbnail just expressed DSMP perfectly when Tommy was in exile(spoiler alert)
EDIT: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO THEY CHANGED IT ;-;
anyway it was dream holding the discs above tommy's head :p
These dream smp thumbnails on mental health videos make me very happy and intrested 💞
Me who's been watching this channel for almost a year and just now noticing the DSMP thumbnails: DOUBLE POG
I do sometimes the 3. but mostly because I am genuinely surprised.
Like "I didnt know you could do that" and mostly followed by a compliment like "thats cool" or if they did something I'd only expect from good players "you're pretty good at this/smart".
Never sacrifice your mental health at any cost. 💞
Do we count as crazy if we're like old and we're still thinking about imaginary life, character or people as the person that we love? And cry even tho their aren't real?
Having fantasies doesn't make you crazy. If you truly believe things that most reasonable people don't recognize as reality or see/hear imaginary people, then that could be a psychotic symptom. But if you can recognize these imaginary characters aren't real and you don't see or hear them, then engaging in fantasy isn't abnormal.
It may be worth exploring attachment and connection to a love that can never be fulfilled. Is it to avoid risks associated with genuine love? How can you experience a deep love for character you've never met. Is there a reason you seek to escape from realities of your life?
i personally am starting to recognize that i tend to act this way towards my partner without realizing it and i'm starting my process of working on it. i feel so terrible about the fact that i've been doing these things and i will happily work on my ability as person
5, 6, 7 relates to the one i was in for 2.5 years..
Psych2Go together with other many motivational talks and binural music has helped me make a decision to cut it off totally recently as i was slowly loosing myself both mentally and emotionally.
Took me a year to have the courage..
Thank you Psych2Go
Thank you for sharing. We're glad this video has helped you somehow!
I’m sorry, I have been called from the thumbnail.. I must say the artists drew dream and Tommy cuter than they need to be
Thumbnail - Tommy and Dream
Tommy and Dream sitting on a Tree Branch
Dream holding the disks in front of Tommy
Dream resting his arm on Tommy
I am currently in an abusive relationship, working too get out. I know what it’s like to be told on a daily basis how useless you are, how none will ever want my ass, how I am a loser, and because I am now disabled and can’t walk well or work he uses that against me. For example, I was so sick yesterday I couldn’t even get out of bed, he told me too take it easy and after work he would run too get what I need. He came home and because I said something in what he said was “a sarcastic tone of voice, that he wasn’t going too the store”. So advance till this morning, as sick as I am, i get up make his coffee and go to make his lunch, there’s no bread, and that’s a problem,cause he literally only wants sandwiches for his lunch. But he was supposed to go to the store for me the evening before and bread was on that list. But ofc when I tell him he can’t have sandwiches for lunch 💥 💥 yup he lost it, even though it’s his fault. So before he just left for work, and mins you it’s 7 am here, he screamed and yelled and berated me for 30 mins before he just left. So now my day is ruined cause it started ok but he took that away as usual.
This channel at times feels like the friends Idon't have, but wish I did. Thank You.
Our pleasure! We're happy to help!
DSMP LORE is perfect for this
Yep
Yes
yesd
It wasn't about the lore, It was about describing dream and his fanbase
@@Sage3356 Nah look Dream is holding Tommy's disc and you can see also see Tommy in the Art it's about DSMP Lore not about Dream and his fanbase
I'm kinda a toxic person myself
Same-
These are getting so much better, there are options for solutions at the end which seem to fill the comment section with positivity; VERY nice. PEACE, and God bless.
1:46 the drawings are just so true
what the flip this is literally what dream did to tommy in exile
This video mentioned ‘mansplaining.’ A lot of women don’t really understand what that means. Here, let me break it down for you…..
I have a friend who every time I voice my opinion they make fun of me and shouts down my opinion and make me apologize, I would always be giving them homework and they never listened when I needed someone to talk to.
The more I think about it the more I think: *This person makes me unhappy*
They're really out here using the entire dsmp lore and they're valid for that
It’s the consistent dream smp thumbnails for me
lmao half of us clicked for that
@@fish8337 I was watching the channel already but I love it-
@@midnightstatic9437 yeah I've been a fan for awhile the smp stuff just makes it a little more funny to watch lmao
Pretty much this whole video is just Dream bullying Tommy 🥲
Dear speaker, I missed you in the last video. Thanks for coming back 😄
You guys always helpful!!! Thanks for all videos!!!
Wow this is my mother's biography. Nice.🙃
Hiya fellow time travelers!
ayoo
oh, I managed to time travell
yay!
Hi
Hi :D
Believe in Jesus Christ and you will be saved. John 3:16(Share the gospel around the world!)...,
Good work on the voice effects btw. Not sure if it's new cause I haven't watched anything recently but that's a good step up
These are all my wife's go to tactics and after years of living with her I started doing them back to her, to show her how it felt and WHOA BOY did that get me beaten. I can take a lot of physical abuse, so I just let her for years. When I finally started curling into a ball, I still got beat. Tried to pretend to be asleep? Still got beat. When she knew I was definitely sleeping, she'd punch me in the kidneys or sometimes my head. I'd wake up and she'd be all still but not snoring so I knew. She got help and started to get much better. Then she stopped taking the meds, switched doctors and therapists and now it's worse than it's ever been with everything but the beatings. After her 5th DV she finally stopped hitting me while awake. In fact she went 2 years without threatening my life. That ended last night when she threatened my life again. I just do not know what to do. I don't even know where to start. We have a 9 year old daughter. I am frightened for her.
I'm a simple girl, I see a dream smp reference in the thumbnail, I click :)
same
What if someone is unintentionally being toxic? Can it still be called toxic? Idk
I think im a unintentional toxic person and think that even If It's intentional or unintentional It's still toxic and should also be called Like this
@@derdinohorst okay thank you 👍Thank you for sharing ❤️
I’ve been going insanely crazy wondering what I’m doing wrong. Trying my best to discuss things maturely because I love him. But he is emotionally abusive. This video describes him. I literally chuckled at a few because I’m in utter shock.
Thanks for the references! I rlly like them
when most of these apply to ur mom
Me a genshin impact and dsmp fan: erm, WELL THIS IS ODD
Was married to a covert narc, things didn't go well, we went to a marriage counselor who gave me the advice to open up with my vulnerabilities. I did, not yet knowing what narcissism is, and still believing in the gaslit reality I was told. (Even assumed at some point I might have Alzheimer's due to all the "wrong" or "missing" memories I had. But that's another story.)
Basically immediately that was weaponised, attacks now specifically targeted my traumas. In hindsight that's when I started realising that something isn't right here.
So actually it was a good advise in the end, although just because it woke up my ability to rise and resist. I lowered my shield, giving the narc the ability to hurt, and hurt they did, revealing their true nature.
Ffwd: narc is gone, karma hit them hard, which I pity but can't help, and won't try to. The smear campaign quickly decluttered my circle of (mostly false) friends, which is good as I'm an introvert. All in all a whole new level of peace and freedom. Thanks, narc! I needed that lesson.
Sometimes being nice gets to the point where people start to take advantage of your kindness and use your good nature against you.