First Night in our Small Apartment! | Moving as a single mom is EMOTIONAL! Moving Vlog Pt. 2

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  • Welcome to the First Night in our Small Apartment after an emotional day of moving! Having ADHD and already being in an emotional state means I am unprepared and exhausted for most of this vlog lol. Stay tuned for the next part!
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  • @SimplyLibbyt
    @SimplyLibbyt  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    Alright friends, I thought this was going to be 3 parts buuuttt I have no idea how many it will be now 😂so buckle up buttercups! Also, Huge points if you get the taylor swift reference 😊

  • @susettedavis
    @susettedavis 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +82

    You are allowed to grieve for everything you have lost. You did the best thing you could have for Kelly...giving him a voice and a long hug. None of us likes change and the bigger the change the more we resist it. Change is good. It allows you to grow as a person and pushes you to do things you wouldn't do. It will take time but you will be happy. One step at a time!

  • @patriciarussell756
    @patriciarussell756 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    Ive started over many times. Two marriages, three kids. Then retired. Alone. Adjusting. Peace. ... Surprise! My 44 year old handicapped son moved in, lost his apartment. Not going well, but im faking it on the outside.🥴

  • @AmyRaeVee
    @AmyRaeVee 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I had to move almost every year between 1990 and 2000. Then again after divorce with kids. All by myself sometimes. Then the kids grew up and I got married and moved across the country last year. I drove a uhaul 1300 miles!! I had a lot of crap and OMG, just junk and random stuff. You're doing great, mamma!

  • @scoutc315
    @scoutc315 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    I walked out the door with my 2 babies 23 years ago. It is hard, but good things are ahead. You and your son are doing beautifully. Moving is hard no matter what-physically exhausting, new things and people and places, nothing is familiar or routine. Lots of grace for everyone. ❤❤❤

  • @craftybeautydiva1
    @craftybeautydiva1 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I know what your going thru after 12 yrs of marriage he left me. We didn't have any kids together & I was so devastated but now i am happily engaged. But I've come a long way in the last 4yrs & i wouldn't have it any other way. You got this, just pray & cast all your worries to God.

  • @cynthiajacklyn6639
    @cynthiajacklyn6639 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    I was 35 years old, had not lived at home since I was 18, when our family home (after the divorce of my parents) was sold. I cried for 2 days!! It is perfectly okay to shed some tears. You have been under a lot of stress. Moving isn't easy . You have other things weighing on you as well. I would go sit in my car for a few minutes and have a good cry. Tears are like rain, they cleanse the soil. Don't ever apologize for your feelings or crying . We all cry. Remind yourself that you are doing great job! Be proud of what your accomplishing!!

  • @gwenellison5386
    @gwenellison5386 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    Libby, I feel for you. I'm so sorry you're going through a rough time right now. Maybe you could get a notebook and log the things you'd like to do to the apartment to make it feel more like home. And do it with your son. Have time where the two of you talk about what would make the bedroom feel nice, or even the bathroom. make an Amazon list and one by one get the small things that add up and make a home feel like home. I'm in a position where my last kiddo is moving out on just over a week and I'm struggling with it. So I've been focusing on what I'd like to have in my place now that I don't have to worry about what someone else thinks or wants. It helps to feel like you have a bit of control and also something to look forward to. Either way take good care of yourself, Libby. We're all out here rooting for you. <3

  • @Rosa-kf6yy
    @Rosa-kf6yy 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    I left a long term relationship and a lovely home to move into an apt. My sons were older (13 and 16) and we gave them the option to stay in the home with their father or move with me (same small town. They could ride their bikes). They stayed in their home. I thought I'd die, but I had to keep a brave face so they would know that their decision was OK. and that I wasn't going far. Alone, I shed ALOT of tears, and came so close to going back, but it was over. It's just not easy, but we all made it through, one bumpy day at a time. So hang in there, and cry when you need to. ❤

  • @BlueBird-nf2gp
    @BlueBird-nf2gp 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Moving is SO HARD no matter the circumstances. Be extra gentle with yourself. Sending you lots of love and a big hug. I truly believe that great things are coming your way soon! 😊❤

  • @lillianepperson3410
    @lillianepperson3410 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    Moving is absolutely the worst....give yourself lots of grace! I also did it as a single mom and cried the entire time. 🙏

  • @teresa3070
    @teresa3070 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Moving can bring you to your knees physically and emotionally. It is perhaps one of the most grueling/exhausting things we do in life.

  • @AZHITW
    @AZHITW 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Been there done that. My experience after divorce is that everything will get better it just takes time. I went from not driving to getting a car, getting a job, getting a better job, meeting someone new. Were there bumps in the road, of course, but that's what makes you stronger. I just lost my partner of 44 years, and then my best friend of 50+ years, and eight years ago my only sister. I lost my mom when I was in my early 20s and all the emotional support she could have given me. Just take everything one step at a time, take a deep breath, it will all get better.

  • @hzharry
    @hzharry 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Just live in the moment…if you can journal this experience and read it a year from now, you will be amazed and proud of yourself!!💕

  • @brandilowe1916
    @brandilowe1916 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    its ok to grieve and feel all the feels, its healthy and normal its a lot. moving is a lot. breaking up is a whole lot. its ok.

  • @dianelopes8199
    @dianelopes8199 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    dont think of al the negitives , moving always hard , but on the plus side got nice little place not to big so less to clean ,its safe and warm and allowed your dog , little lad met great friends soon and he be ok ,think of it has a freash start just you and your lad new adventures and got each other , stay strong

  • @emfairclough
    @emfairclough 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Sweet Libby 💚 I'm so proud of you ! You are your son's home xxx you've outgrown the old you & your old life doesn't fit anymore. The hard part is done 👏 so proud of each and every step forward you took for yourself !

  • @BluntMouthMomma
    @BluntMouthMomma 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Bless you and Kelly. I think and pray for you both everyday. Children are resilient and Kelly will be okay. The Lord will keep him close.

  • @vivian6425
    @vivian6425 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’ve been through the same type of a thing. God helped me and my son has grown up to be a wonderful young adult. Look ahead and cry when you need to, but love! I’m so proud of you! It will pass and soon not hurt as much! Stay busy with things the two of you enjoy!

  • @seeleygirl6178
    @seeleygirl6178 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Even moving to a new job is stressful. But a break up and move. Thats huge! Take care of yourself and get rest too! You will get through this crazy time and one day be so proud of all you accomplished! A loving cozy home for you and your son. And doggie. 🐶 ❤