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Loved this video-cute idea!! Hope you are getting settled in well at the new place!!

I live in Scotland so I'm bias but it's beautiful here. Ireland is also beautiful. Scotland and Ireland have a merged history x

this is very realistic, thank you

bless you. xx

Once you two get moved into the apartment it will be a relief. Most of the stress will be gone. When you start waking up and have a routine things will sort themselves out.. Have hope you will survive. Peace love happiness 💖

Hope you and Kelly find happiness in your new home 🏡🫶🏼☀️

Healthy living girl ! Celebrate yourself is so important for good mental health .

I just came across your video, it's hard to let things go when they are your childs but what you have to remember is you will always have the memories in your heart ❤and nobody can ever take the memories away from you,I do understand as a mother myself but doing a little at a time is easier every time you do it. Well done to you sweetheart with love all the way from England😘

I am excited for you to see what your new chapter brings. I think you are a great example of just working hard & plowing through emotions will get us to a different place in the end your helping so many people with your honesty you have lots of cheerleaders in your corner.

I'm in Scotland, have to visit Scotland, its amazing!!

You lead a very cluttered life, which makes things difficult at the best of times let alone moving house. Perhaps it’s something you need to work on.

Hello from polish me in England😊🇵🇱🇬🇧 Good luck ♥️♥️♥️

Just found your channel yesterday I have two adult children from two marriages one of them is physically disabled and the other has mental illness. I raised them all on my own with no support both physical and financial. They are both college educated and thriving for the most part now. If I can do it ( no one special here just determined )you can too!

I’m so proud of you! This is so difficult and emotionally stressful but you are resilient and can make it through for you and your son. I feel I’m watching myself 40 years ago. Best of everything to you. You’re a great mom 💕

Not envying you, doing the move! 👍👍❤️❤️

glad you are moved now and hope you feeling more settled . i had to move more often than i wanted. I have also had to rip up cat pee carpets as i found no solution for the smell... when i pulled them up it was all through the underlay too... so cleaning the carpets will never solve it.

Hello, Just came across your channel, I hope all goes well for you & your son for the future.

2 Libbies on the screen was my favorite! 😍

Great video 😊

That is a very shedding doggie!

You’re funny. You can just work and not talk to us as much, we understand you have a lot to do! Decluttering never ends. But it’s a constant necessity.

People don’t understand especially when they family😡🤬

Lol at the slo mo witch cackle 😂

Glad to hear you’re doing ok. I liked the format of this video 😊 I have also had a lot of therapy and it feels never ending but it has made such a difference. Long way to go though. How is your ex doing with the whole move? When I moved out of a house with my ex last year, we had luckily kept most of our stuff separate so it made things a little easier to pack. It was probably a sign that we kept everything separate from the beginning. Lol

Just learned about you and watched your abuse story and first I’m so sorry what you went thru and what you endured in abuse and pain after and all the feelings coming at you like a storm. You are a strong young woman it seems and you have a big new start and also likely will need some support to process all you have been through. I’ve been in not one but two DV situations and get the trapped feeling of a no bruise abuse relationship. It’s awful and so are the bruised ones. For now just know that life is hard but try to remember that you are strong and have been made stronger by proxy of what crap you have been through. The apartment is a stepping stone and you will upgrade when you are ready. If there are areas that are more stinky, try dumping on some nature’s miracle. There’s one for cat urine especially. You are not alone in this process and in sharing a bedroom as a single mom with her kid. As he gets older you might want to set him up with a private space within your home but for now do what works. Sounds like you just need to get settled and take some deep deep breaths once you get settled in. We are all a work in progress. You seem like an amazing person and I wish you a positive move. You’ve got this so much! You can do this!!

Omgoodness 2 or 3 more videos??! Can you just do a long video...like 45 mins long bc i really like long ones bc I clean with you in the back groud.❤

Being a strong person will get you through the rough times and it gets a little easier each time 😊❤

Do a memory book with letter and pics.

I’m so glad you shared this. Being bruised isn’t the only thing that means you’re abused. I’m sorry for your loss but thankful you are safe now.

Fitted sheet all 4 corners together fold 2 timed long ways then fold in half

If you still can’t get the cat urine smell out, you can try a enzyme cleaner which is the only thing that will break down the urine smell. (Most pet stores will have it.Probably available in the grocery store cleaning aisle in the US as well.) Because you have carpet, you may need to actually dump it into the carpet so it can saturate everything, let it sit for a day or so and then bring it up with a carpet cleaner if it won’t dry on its own. (I foster a lot of cats so this is a regular thing for me 😊 We have a lot of hot dry weather where I live and heated floors so I’ve never had to use the carpet cleaner. I’ve just let the sun or the floor blast it dry.) ❤

Natures Miracle is the BEST for getting rid of cat pee smell. It’s probably soaked through the carpet into the pad underneath. Maybe you can pull the carpet off the tack strips in the closet, roll it up a bit outside the closet, and treat the padding with Natures Miracle. Spritz it on and let it sit a bit, then blot up with paper towels, and let it dry completely (overnight or longer). Then put the carpet back in place and do the same thing with the carpet. If that doesn’t get rid of the smell completely, nothing will. Good luck!

Why are you doing this in your own? Your ex is an adult too. I hear you say, one for me, one for the ex. I understand that it is hard, but are you not allowing him to help?😮

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You're doing great! I so wish your new landlord would pull that carpet and pad out. The cat urine will never go away once soaked into the carpet and pad, and it's probably into the subfloor and needs that replaced where the stains are. He doesn't want to replace the flooring but, I would bet you that he kept every penny of the deposit and pet deposit from the last tenant, which he shoul've used to rip those floors out. Cleaners will only mask the cat urine smell for a while and like you said, it comes out again when humidity is up. And it's so bad to be breathing in that ammonia every day. I hope for your sake that he comes around and fixes the issue the correct way. As far as cleaning the cat urine, you have to use an enzymatic cleaner formulated especially for urine. There are many on the market these days that get great reviews. But, my suggestion is to pull the corner of that carpet and pad up and soak not only the carpet but, the pad and subfloor. Follow product directions. I think most tell you to soak the stain and leave it to dry. The enzymes will eat away at the urine. And don't forget the wall and baseboards. Get you an inexpensive black light and shine all over the carpet and walls. Any bodily fluids will glow and you'll know what areas to concentrate on. A magic eraser can work great on stained floors and countertops. Also, peroxide is great for removing some stains, especially bodily fluids like blood. Just use caution with peroxide on certain things, especially carpet or fabric, as it can take the color out. Always spot test any product in a small inconspicuous area before using on a larger area.

You are so pleasant. I pray your TH-cam channel grows and grows to make like easier for you. 😊

Hi Libby, you are just the cutest thing!! I love your point blank attitude, you tell it like it is and I admire that!! Now I wanted to give you a hack for the cat smell!! Get yourself a big glass jar , peanut butter jar whatever you have and get yourself some charcoal, put as much charcoal in the jar as you can and set it in the rooms that smell , you could even put it in a bowl where it’s more open and let the charcoal do its job!! It truly works!! Charcoal will naturally absorb any odors you have , so just set a bowl of it in any room to soak up the odor!! You’re welcome!! 😊😊😊😊

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New here. Looking forward to seeing more. Sorry your going thru a rough time . Hang in there 🙏 😊❤

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Why isn't your Ex helping you. When moved I decluttered and when I was putting it all away I got rid of more.

Consider asking your landlord to change the padding underneath the carpet. That’s where the smell is coming from. Cat urine is very toxic to breathe. ❤

If you think you kmow where the urine smell is coming from you should really try NATURES MIRACLE . You find it at the pet store mainly but i have seen it at other stores. I used it when my ferrets would use a corner to do their business and i SWEAR BY THE PRODUCT!! It will take the smell away just follow the directions. 😊❤

Hi Libby! Thanks so much for answering my questions! I hope you can take your son to Ireland and Scotland some day. My family went to Ireland before the pandemic and it's a great place!! You're doing great! Hope you're staying cool in this summer heat. It's 100 here today in Virginia! Hugs.

Girl, you need to meet your best friend the magic eraser. I’m telling you it would’ve taken that blue stuff up and a minute.. ❤

You did great job libby

Your animals in the background are very entertaining. 🙂

How Can you be such a pig????

Flat surfaces are the bane of my existence as well. They are magnets for clutter/paperwork!