Yeah I agree with you.... I'm not getting suitable marriage proposals just because I'm a graduate and my family is poor😢 Pure dowry system ke waza se parents ko bhi tension hain..... Please pray for me guy's I'll get a good rista proposal who will not ask for dowry... Who loves Allah who pray regularly
Beshak main jaanta hoon, ke bahenon ki Shaadi yaan Bina walid ke kaise Hoti hai jab walid Ka inteqaal bachpan mein hi hua hoo , aap ne bahoth acchi baat kahi dahej ke taaluk se ,.. Dr Sahab Allah aap ki umr daraaz kare Allah SWT aap ko hamesha Khush rakhein from India
Really impressive.... Appreciated.... You are absolutely right jab larkon ki tarbyat ki jae Tau aisi ki jae k unk under yeh gairat honi chahaye or unko pata ho k baiti jiger ka jaan ka tukra Hoti ha ju di jati apko is say barh k or kia ho Sakta
Boys in our society are rendered incapable by their families,especially mothers due to undue pampering. They don’t let boys get serious in life,hence they don’t get matured enough and are not ready to take on life challenges. Whereas Women are performing better than men, they are matured and are serious about life,in short there is no compatibility between our carelessness mama’s boys and matured girls.Wives have a lot of duties towards the husbands and if men don’t come to the standard of being responsible husbands and fathers,girls abstain from marrying them.
Exactly girls are doing well in every feild while male only trying to get one girl by his hand. Men should focus more on getting stable before letting any thoughts of marriage get in their minds. They also try to adapt and push harder.
Dr sahb our culture has made marriage a luxury instead of necessity ,it is very hard for a struggling man to get married nowadays due to very high expectation from girls side, media has polluted minds of people. zina is easier to get now. unfortunately we call ourselves muslim but our practises are just to keep beard and offer prayers but no inculcate true values. however in west i have seen muslims more focusing on true values than in pakistan. we want to look pious but our character/values are flawed.
asal mai aj kal ki mothers ki demands or thoughts badal gyi hai hr ek maah apny bety k liye srf khubsurat larkiyah dhonti hai jis ki wajha sai bht sari larkiyah unmarried reh jati hai
Tum larkiyaan aik dusre ke sath agree karti rehti ho mujhe aur mere ghar walon ko khoobsurat larki nhi chahiye par larki ko ameer larka chahiye agar larki khud bhi ghareeb hai tab bhi too ab agree karogi mujhse ke larkiyaan buht chalak hogayi hain achha aik baat aur main parha likha kamane wala shakal wala larka hun Mene anpadh larki se bhi shadi karne ka kaha hai nahi karti bass isliye ke humara apna ghar nhi hai lekin plot hai apna paisa achha kamate hain hum log
He is 100 % right. M civil engineer hn and 30+ hn or still unmarried parents try kr rha lkn jaheaz ki wja sa issues arha hmra Han cars jaheaz m bht common ha. Nd woe bat ha compatibility ne ha jo rishta Ata Un ki education mj sa bht Kam hti tu mera parents kehta hm kaisa shadi kr da
Han baat too sahi hai na dekho aapke maa baap ki demands too hain na behn too samne wala jo achha parha larka hoga wo aapse bhi demand karega hi jab aap kis km parhe likhe aur ghareeb se demand karte ho too Allah tumhare muh par bhi chapet Marta hai wesi hi phir aap iss chakkr mein bethi rahugi insha Allah
Your ancestors were hindu. Now you have become Arabi ZEHNI GHULAM following a person Who had sex with 9 year old baby girl Who married with his bahu ZAINAB (daughter in law zainab, wife of adopted son ZAID). Who had Sex slave/LONDI Who had sex with slave woman Maria kbtia and produced IBRAHIM which died at the age of 2 years. These Arab had converted you and made you following Arabi jahiliat/DIMAGI FITOOR of hazrat Muhammad like jannat, jahunnam, aakhirat and qabr ka ajaab
بس قسمت کی بات ہوتی ہے،ضروری نہیں کہ جہیز کا مسئلہ ہو ،ہاں یہ ضرور ہے کہ زہنی طور پر ایک باشعور لڑکی یہ چاہتی ہے کہ وہ ایک باشعور شخص سے شادی کرے ،میری عمر تقریباً پچاس سال کے قریب ہے صرف اس لیے شادی نہیں کی کہ کوئی ہمہ جہت شخصیت نہیں ملی
Galat admi se shadi hona sab se bada disaster hai. Toxic marriages mai mard/aurton ki death hote dekhi hai. Shadi karo to dhang ke insan se warna nahi.
علاج 72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی اسلام = امن و سلامتی فلاحی ریاست اللھم' لبیک پاکستان زندہ باد
Jazak Allah khair Dr. Sahab, Hope that people will understand and rethink . In sha Allah, your efforts will also be counted for elimination of Dowry demands from society. Thanks
4:50 can you please talk more about the prevalence of Cousin marriage in our country especially from a medical stand point and your opinions about it. Thank you
As of January 2024, the population of Pakistan was 49.6% female and 50.4% male. But educated mature males ka ratio bohat kam hee as compared with females.
@@critics1156 From your comment it is clear that you are unmarried boy feeling bad after looking lesser no of female percentage 😁😁. But that figures are from census conducted in 2023. I hope you will get a life partner but you need to work on you knowledge and tone otherwise they poor lady will suffer
That's my point!!!! My ammi says : you find no man good enough !! I'm like ammi I'm looking for a man not a boy with weird hairstyles! 😭 I'm 28 nd never in my life found a man I can trust him with my life ! I want to become a wife that could reach to Jannah ! I need to have husband who can lead me to Jannah! Its just simple yet I'm struggling! Do there any practicing muslim men left!
Baba, aap khud keh rahe hain ke betiyaan behtar hoti hain aur unka match milna chahiye... phir aap hi keh rahe hain ke she should marry married men? It may be in the religion but not everyone is comfortable with polygamy. And the most important thing is that it's not financially feasible for most men to sustain more than one household. With all due respect, in the modern world we live in, the practicalities and reality are very far from this idealistic solution. We need to encourage single people to not host pity parties, to start seeing the hikmat in the delay. This period is excellent for focusing on personal growth and healing, enhancing quality of life and enjoying hobbies etc. There is a lot of cheating going around already, it's not healthy to encourage women to pounce on married men. It rarely works for the better and that's the truth of the matter. Allah hasn't asked us to become blind to ground reality, that's dictatorship, certainly not the way of the Most Rehman and Most Rahim. P.S. I didn't expect you to give this Zakir Naik style answer, aap toh khud mukhtari aur danishmandi ki baatein karte haina. Sorry if I overstepped but I had to counter this.
Baje is he talking for your match type if in the society there is no man who is not your match than either you are to select a man who is higher than you and who is already married or be single your entire life alone. If you think you can live alone your entire life without a husband and children then it's fine. If you are not comfortable it's okay but I see it's natural for woman to have man who has more wife's or girlfriend than one.
Agr wo bewa se shadi krna chahe saath me uss k bacho ko bhi paale ya jis aurat ki age 30-35 ho gyi ho uss se kr le uss ki zindagi behtr ho jaye too kia harj ha or agr aap khilaf ha too bhai unn bewaao or mutaliq ki kafalat aap utha le.
The professor sb is currently making some remarkable points, and there are very few individuals in Pakistan who not only talk about such issues but also embody these values in their actions. This particular issue is such a significant evil that even religious scholars and clerics have not managed to address it effectively. However, those with unwavering and living faith are able to practice it with relative ease. In our households, the greatest curse when it comes to arranging relationships, especially in the context of marriage, is the curse of dowry. While on an individual level, we can find examples like the professor sb who stand against it, at a societal level, liberation from this curse seems far from sight.
Sir aj kal jahaiz sy zayda job wali larki ki demand ha. Meri choti sis ki job ha to uska kia rishta lia or mera inkar kis k nahi job wali sy krni hum ny shadi
ہم نے اپنی بہن کی شادی کی تھی قرض لے کر جہیز لیا تھا دو سال سے وہی قرض ادا کر رہے ہیں ۔ کیا اسلامی معاشرے ایسے ہوتے ہیں؟؟ میں ہمیشہ سوچتی ہوں جو مرد اپنی بیٹیوں اور بیوی کو باہر پرھنے نہیں دیتے ، کام نہیں کرنے دیتے اور پردے کے بغیر باہر نہیں جانے دیتے کہ میری غیرت اجازت نہیں دیتی وہ کس غیرت کے ساتھ بیوی کا جہیز استعمال کرتے ہیں.. ہمارے مفتیوں کو بھی وی پی این تو غیر شرعی لگتا ہے لیکن جہیز پر زبان کبھی نہیں کھولتے۔۔
In one of the videos you mentioned concerns about cousin marriage medically. I believe your daughter is married to her first cousin too , kindly elaborate that topic further
Aslam o Alaiqum Dr sahib . Beautiful message. I think intellectual like you guys should take over the matters of Pakistan and definitely you guys can better handle our country in Shaa Allah. Can I please speak to you please. I know you’re coming to Sydney but I am not sure the dates please
Ham to bina dahez ke hi shadi karege lekin ladaki nahi mil rahi (cross -28 yr)i m well educated, i have own business,and i think i will joint as soon as possible in railway
Assalamualaikum! Dr. Aap ki videos bohot motivational hoti Hain. Or in videos se bohot Kuch seekhny ko milta hai. Dr. Aik question tha k main apny 8 - 9 saal tk ki age k bachon ko konsi PC educational game introduce krwaon? Guide kr dain. Kion k merey bachy Roblox khely Hain apny screen time main Jo k on ko milta hai. Sirf 30 minutes allow hoty Hain in ko Lekin main Roblox games se satisfied nhi hon. Wesy to abcya or Khan academy games bhi mojood hain Lekin adventure or explore krny k liye koi game Jo aap k ilm main ho bta dijye. JazakAllah
Girls do mature faster than boys but they stop maturing around 18-19 years of age. After that they have the same maturity level throughout their lives , even in their forties or fifties . Men mature much slower than girls but they keep maturing well into their later adult years.
@@tahiraahmed2191girls mature faster than boys but their maturity grows all through their lives. This is a false perception that people had for centuries. Women can grow stronger than man too if they work out 🏋️. Women can bear pain more than men as men can’t bear the child birth pain at all.
Assalam alikum Dr jawed mera bata 16.5 years old ka ha is kpichaly 2 sal zaya ho gaye in ko bio science group main 1 st year ma admission lena tha regular collage ma mera aap sy sawwal ha kaya acchi position klaye regular collage main admission lena zarori ha ya government collage main bhee acchi position aati ha
very well said sir...but aj kl k lrkon ki mothers boht hi ajeeb or narcissist type k lrkon ki prwarish krny me msroof hain.... agr aj kl ki mayein beton py b betiyon k brabr tawajah dain or apny standards thoray km kr lein to behtr rhy ga
Girls also need to lower their standard. Problem is on both side you can't totally blame boys. If men is practicing Muslim and can complete basic needs there is no problem but girls need big houses, luxury life, foreign tours.
Male side se loooks sbse bari reason h jehez se bh brh kr loooks matter krti.. Jb k 1 educated lrki avg person ko bhi accept krlti h just because she knows she not that much pretty physically..
Me khud jaheez k khilaf hun or humne jaheez k lie mana kia tha bhabiyun k ghar walo ko. or hum bachpan se sunte arahe the k jaheez susral walo k lie hota he but asal me aisa ni hota jab mere bhaiyun ki shadi howi tab mujhe pata chala wo log jo dete he apni beti ko dete he uske saman pe susral walo ka koi haq ni or meri bhabia to apne saman ko hath bh ni lagne deti. Agr jaheez pe susral walo ka haq ni hota he shariyat me kisi jaga ye bh ni likha k larkiya susral walo ka saman use kare or upar se toore bh or kharab bh kare Jan bojh k.
Ik talkh haqeeqat hy.ik reason lrki ka khubsurat na hona b hy,jis gr MN 4 betia hy or CHOTI beti Ziyada piyari hy tu log Sirf CHOTI ka reshta hi mnghty hy bri beti ko tu itni buri Nazar Sy dykhty hy k jysy insan ni hy Kisi or hi Dunia Sy I hy.or phir apny byto k lia 18 sal ki lrki chaiya Hoti chai lrka 40 ka hi q na ho. Kyty hy k betia rehmat Hoti hy lkin ya sb dykhny k bhd tu yahi khiwaish Hoti k hm dunia MN na aty tu Ziyada bytr tha.
Sir, ap ne theak kaha k agar koi shakhs afford kr Sakta hai aur balance rakh Sakta hai to usay second marriage krni chahiye but Yahan bat affordability ki nahi Sirf balance ki hai because a man cannot be balanced between 2 wives. Yeh aik major issue hai. Main yeh kahon gi k parents apni daughter ko es qabil banyein k woh independent ho jayein takeh Sirf 2 waqat ki roti k Liye unhein Kisi ki 2nd wife na ban'na paray.
Hamare pyare nabi ne farmaya hai ki jab koi sakhs apke pas apki beti ke liye nikah paigam laye aur aap uski akhlaq aur deendari se mutmain hai to nikah kar diya karo nhi to jamane me fasad paida ho jayega. Doctor sahab jab bade bade maulviyon ke kidney me itna dam nhi ko wo bol sake ki larkiyan shadi ke begair budhi ho rahi hai iski sabse badi wajah ye hai ki log apni jaat se bahar shadi nhi karte hinduon ki tarah, to aap ye kaise bol sakte hai. Allah ki lanat ho unlogono pe jo dusron ko khud se nicha samajhte us shaitan ki tarah jiska nam iblish hai.😡😡😡😡
Yeah I agree with you.... I'm not getting suitable marriage proposals just because I'm a graduate and my family is poor😢
Pure dowry system ke waza se parents ko bhi tension hain.....
Please pray for me guy's I'll get a good rista proposal who will not ask for dowry... Who loves Allah who pray regularly
Same thing with me .
Allah sari ladkio ko jld ek nek rishta ata kre.
Ameen
Agr proposals Meri taraf sy ahy to mjy jahaiz ni jahiya
@@HumaBano-j1oage kitne hy ap ki
Ameen ameen
Aameen
Wah Doctor Saab You are a real practical Human being and Muslim.
You are a real role model.
1000% correct, aj dahej itna common ho gya k hm haram or halal nikah le farq hi bhul gye
i love this man . pehli dafa kisi admi ko positivity phelatay huay dekha aurton ke liay
انتہائی حساس موضوع اور بہترین اور موثر انداز گفتگو ❤
اللہ کرے ہمارے بیٹوں کو یہ بات سمجھ آجائے اور وہ جہیز کے خلاف عملی اقدامات کرنے لگیں
@@shaguftabhatti1087 sb 1 kaam sy suntay or dusray sy Nikal dyty hyn koi aisa chahy b to hmara so called muaashra ye krne nh dyta
Amen!
آمین،
Ameen Sumameen
Beshak main jaanta hoon, ke bahenon ki Shaadi yaan Bina walid ke kaise Hoti hai jab walid Ka inteqaal bachpan mein hi hua hoo , aap ne bahoth acchi baat kahi dahej ke taaluk se ,..
Dr Sahab Allah aap ki umr daraaz kare Allah SWT aap ko hamesha Khush rakhein from India
Aapke andaaz mein koi bhi nahin sochta aaj❤
I think the most important is emotional support towards both spouses for one another. Then they can co-op with any matter in life together.
1:56 ye tak jo bhi bole 100% sahi bole
Dil khush kar deya sir aap ne....sir aesay hi social issues par videos banaya
A sensible man can speak like this.
Very right!
جہیز کو سنت کہنا محض جہالت ہے - پیارے آقا نے جو جہیز دیا وہ مہر کی رقم سے خریدا گیا تھا جو مولا علی نے پہلے ادا کر دیا تھا
drust
Really impressive.... Appreciated.... You are absolutely right jab larkon ki tarbyat ki jae Tau aisi ki jae k unk under yeh gairat honi chahaye or unko pata ho k baiti jiger ka jaan ka tukra Hoti ha ju di jati apko is say barh k or kia ho Sakta
It was an honor to have you on our podcast sir.
Boys in our society are rendered incapable by their families,especially mothers due to undue pampering. They don’t let boys get serious in life,hence they don’t get matured enough and are not ready to take on life challenges. Whereas Women are performing better than men, they are matured and are serious about life,in short there is no compatibility between our carelessness mama’s boys and matured girls.Wives have a lot of duties towards the husbands and if men don’t come to the standard of being responsible husbands and fathers,girls abstain from marrying them.
😂😂 Facebook graduate
Exactly girls are doing well in every feild while male only trying to get one girl by his hand. Men should focus more on getting stable before letting any thoughts of marriage get in their minds. They also try to adapt and push harder.
@@moodmeditation4458 you really needs meds
Bht behtareen baat sahab apki jitni tarif ki jaye km hai... mashallah mere 2bete hai shadi k layak inshallah mai dahej kbi nhi lungi
You're absolutely right doctor saab. You're giving exactly true reasons for that
Dr sahb our culture has made marriage a luxury instead of necessity ,it is very hard for a struggling man to get married nowadays due to very high expectation from girls side, media has polluted minds of people. zina is easier to get now. unfortunately we call ourselves muslim but our practises are just to keep beard and offer prayers but no inculcate true values. however in west i have seen muslims more focusing on true values than in pakistan. we want to look pious but our character/values are flawed.
V well said
Bilkul
Exactly, same situation in India as well
@@Ilmseeker844 is ma kch larka nhi chahty krna ..ka paisa kama kr kry ...kch larkian chahty paisy bht Kamata howa chahyey ..kch parents khty ...mil kr ya situation bn jatay
@@bntihawa2795
Exactly it wary from situation to situation and people to people, you can not just put blame on one gender.
asal mai aj kal ki mothers ki demands or thoughts badal gyi hai hr ek maah apny bety k liye srf khubsurat larkiyah dhonti hai jis ki wajha sai bht sari larkiyah unmarried reh jati hai
200 percent
Sahi ..
Lambi patli Gori...Ye h aaj k ladke and unki ammis ki demand.
😢😢💯💯💯@@hannakhann269
Tum larkiyaan aik dusre ke sath agree karti rehti ho mujhe aur mere ghar walon ko khoobsurat larki nhi chahiye par larki ko ameer larka chahiye agar larki khud bhi ghareeb hai tab bhi too ab agree karogi mujhse ke larkiyaan buht chalak hogayi hain achha aik baat aur main parha likha kamane wala shakal wala larka hun Mene anpadh larki se bhi shadi karne ka kaha hai nahi karti bass isliye ke humara apna ghar nhi hai lekin plot hai apna paisa achha kamate hain hum log
He is 100 % right. M civil engineer hn and 30+ hn or still unmarried parents try kr rha lkn jaheaz ki wja sa issues arha hmra Han cars jaheaz m bht common ha. Nd woe bat ha compatibility ne ha jo rishta Ata Un ki education mj sa bht Kam hti tu mera parents kehta hm kaisa shadi kr da
Perhaps being highly qualified is nowadays becoming an another reason for both boys n girls not getting married on ryt tym...
Ye over qualified hona bhe is like a curse. Jab k shadi k Liye degrees ka concept he ghalat hai
Han baat too sahi hai na dekho aapke maa baap ki demands too hain na behn too samne wala jo achha parha larka hoga wo aapse bhi demand karega hi jab aap kis km parhe likhe aur ghareeb se demand karte ho too Allah tumhare muh par bhi chapet Marta hai wesi hi phir aap iss chakkr mein bethi rahugi insha Allah
Allah asani kry Girl should complete her education
Bahut achchhi baat farmayi hai aapne,
True, agreed. Two factor are also important. We are Muslim because we born as Muslim. Moreover, Hindu culture overcomes over Muslim culture.
Your ancestors were hindu. Now you have become Arabi ZEHNI GHULAM following a person
Who had sex with 9 year old baby girl
Who married with his bahu ZAINAB (daughter in law zainab, wife of adopted son ZAID).
Who had Sex slave/LONDI
Who had sex with slave woman Maria kbtia and produced IBRAHIM which died at the age of 2 years.
These Arab had converted you and made you following Arabi jahiliat/DIMAGI FITOOR of hazrat Muhammad like jannat, jahunnam, aakhirat and qabr ka ajaab
بس قسمت کی بات ہوتی ہے،ضروری نہیں کہ جہیز کا مسئلہ ہو ،ہاں یہ ضرور ہے کہ زہنی طور پر ایک باشعور لڑکی یہ چاہتی ہے کہ وہ ایک باشعور شخص سے شادی کرے ،میری عمر تقریباً پچاس سال کے قریب ہے صرف اس لیے شادی نہیں کی کہ کوئی ہمہ جہت شخصیت نہیں ملی
Allah hum sub par rehem farmae
Agreed
Bad nasseb
@@critics1156 gunah kar liya
Galat admi se shadi hona sab se bada disaster hai. Toxic marriages mai mard/aurton ki death hote dekhi hai. Shadi karo to dhang ke insan se warna nahi.
بہت ہی عمدہ خیالات، کیا بات ہے
علاج
72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے
ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو
خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے
علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی
اسلام = امن و سلامتی
فلاحی ریاست
اللھم' لبیک
پاکستان زندہ باد
72 فرقے جھوٹی ہے
Turn to back Ahlesunnat❤ @@theenlightenedone1283
Professor sahab aap MBBS ke level ka har subject ka lecture series baniye. This will be best intellectual contribution to the future generations.
Exactly Dr sb you must do this for the help of medical students
Jazak Allah khair
Dr. Sahab,
Hope that people will understand and rethink .
In sha Allah, your efforts will also be counted for elimination of Dowry demands from society.
Thanks
Aap sahi bol rahe hai, Indirect jahez mangte hai
جزاک اللہ خیر جی ڈاکٹر صاحب بہت خوبصورت باتیں کر رہے ہیں
kitni khobsurat bat ki apny❤
376 views in just 10 minutes. MashaAllah
Jazak Allah, boht khoob.
Sir Great talk.bless you.
آپ کا ہر ہر فقرہ بہت ہی عمدہ ہے
اسلام وعلیکم ماشاءاللہ بہت عمدہ موزو سر آپ نے بہت خوبصورت بات کہی ھے اللہ بہت اجر دے آپ کو ❤❤❤
May Allah help us all to get married and blessed us all. Ameen
You are my great leader 🎉🎉🎉🎉
great uncle great uncle javed
A practical observation
AsalamO Alykum. Agreed with you. V.sensible point of view.
Masha Allah great sir😊❤❤❤❤❤
The thing is nowadays education and job is required before getting married and that is right
4:50 can you please talk more about the prevalence of Cousin marriage in our country especially from a medical stand point and your opinions about it.
Thank you
Zabrdast ♥️
Mashaallah ye mere shohar ki ID he Mera dil iss video ko dekhne ke baad bht bht bht bht roya😢😢😢😢😢 mardon ka gairatmand hona bht zaroori he
You're a practical Muslim ❤
Sir i proud of u❤
Atleast someone is telling the truth
As of January 2024, the population of Pakistan was 49.6% female and 50.4% male.
But educated mature males ka ratio bohat kam hee as compared with females.
Including you
@@critics1156 hahaha.. I'm in 50.4 immature 🙃
@90rafay but by the look of your comments seems like someone who's new on network
@@critics1156 From your comment it is clear that you are unmarried boy feeling bad after looking lesser no of female percentage 😁😁. But that figures are from census conducted in 2023.
I hope you will get a life partner but you need to work on you knowledge and tone otherwise they poor lady will suffer
@@90rafay yes lesser female girly like you.
You are right 👍
Well done sir
Great sir
ماشاء الله تبارك الرحمن بهترين خوب
That's my point!!!!
My ammi says : you find no man good enough !!
I'm like ammi I'm looking for a man not a boy with weird hairstyles! 😭
I'm 28 nd never in my life found a man I can trust him with my life !
I want to become a wife that could reach to Jannah !
I need to have husband who can lead me to Jannah!
Its just simple yet I'm struggling!
Do there any practicing muslim men left!
دیر آید درست آید اچھی بات ہے دیر سے سوچ سمجھ کر شادی کریں
Baba, aap khud keh rahe hain ke betiyaan behtar hoti hain aur unka match milna chahiye... phir aap hi keh rahe hain ke she should marry married men? It may be in the religion but not everyone is comfortable with polygamy. And the most important thing is that it's not financially feasible for most men to sustain more than one household. With all due respect, in the modern world we live in, the practicalities and reality are very far from this idealistic solution. We need to encourage single people to not host pity parties, to start seeing the hikmat in the delay. This period is excellent for focusing on personal growth and healing, enhancing quality of life and enjoying hobbies etc. There is a lot of cheating going around already, it's not healthy to encourage women to pounce on married men. It rarely works for the better and that's the truth of the matter. Allah hasn't asked us to become blind to ground reality, that's dictatorship, certainly not the way of the Most Rehman and Most Rahim.
P.S. I didn't expect you to give this Zakir Naik style answer, aap toh khud mukhtari aur danishmandi ki baatein karte haina. Sorry if I overstepped but I had to counter this.
so ultimatly, you're denying that ruling mentioned in the Quran?. Dr sb referred to the Quranic teaching not his wishes.
Baje is he talking for your match type if in the society there is no man who is not your match than either you are to select a man who is higher than you and who is already married or be single your entire life alone. If you think you can live alone your entire life without a husband and children then it's fine. If you are not comfortable it's okay but I see it's natural for woman to have man who has more wife's or girlfriend than one.
Some married may be far better than a batcholar . the only need is to change the mindset of women
Agr wo bewa se shadi krna chahe saath me uss k bacho ko bhi paale ya jis aurat ki age 30-35 ho gyi ho uss se kr le uss ki zindagi behtr ho jaye too kia harj ha or agr aap khilaf ha too bhai unn bewaao or mutaliq ki kafalat aap utha le.
Well said... I agree with yu
Like the topic ❤
Jazakallah Sir.
The professor sb is currently making some remarkable points, and there are very few individuals in Pakistan who not only talk about such issues but also embody these values in their actions. This particular issue is such a significant evil that even religious scholars and clerics have not managed to address it effectively. However, those with unwavering and living faith are able to practice it with relative ease.
In our households, the greatest curse when it comes to arranging relationships, especially in the context of marriage, is the curse of dowry. While on an individual level, we can find examples like the professor sb who stand against it, at a societal level, liberation from this curse seems far from sight.
Agree 100 pcnt.
Allah hr lrki ka naseeb acha kray
Sir great
Sir, I have the same questions that you describe in this video.
Perfect ❤
Mashallah ❤❤❤
Sir aj kal jahaiz sy zayda job wali larki ki demand ha. Meri choti sis ki job ha to uska kia rishta lia or mera inkar kis k nahi job wali sy krni hum ny shadi
Ap kes city sy hy
Agree
Larkiyan khud bhttt settled larka aur family dekhti
Aur then jahz zberdasti lati sath
Ta ky susaral mai in future tana na dena pary
Isme larki ka kia kasoor usko pta hai kl ko tane milengen wo mazbor hai
ہم نے اپنی بہن کی شادی کی تھی قرض لے کر جہیز لیا تھا دو سال سے وہی قرض ادا کر رہے ہیں ۔ کیا اسلامی معاشرے ایسے ہوتے ہیں؟؟ میں ہمیشہ سوچتی ہوں جو مرد اپنی بیٹیوں اور بیوی کو باہر پرھنے نہیں دیتے ، کام نہیں کرنے دیتے اور پردے کے بغیر باہر نہیں جانے دیتے کہ میری غیرت اجازت نہیں دیتی وہ کس غیرت کے ساتھ بیوی کا جہیز استعمال کرتے ہیں.. ہمارے مفتیوں کو بھی وی پی این تو غیر شرعی لگتا ہے لیکن جہیز پر زبان کبھی نہیں کھولتے۔۔
Well said✌️✌️
Bolty ha ulama ko bolny ke bjaye apni choice pr dyan dy Saudi Arabia ma koi jahez nh leta Islam ka kia qasoor jb log follow he Hindu ko krna chahty
Agreed 💯
Aap jaisy educated person hi aurat ki izzat kar sakta hai. Aaj ki Susitese main bilkul mukhtalif ho raha hai.
I am also facing these problems
Sir it's a huge issue. Boy's parent should responsible for their mature behavior
In one of the videos you mentioned concerns about cousin marriage medically. I believe your daughter is married to her first cousin too , kindly elaborate that topic further
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First cousin se shadi glt nhi ha medically.jab first cousin se shadi aik generation se hoti aarhi ho tu problem hoti ha .
Aslam o Alaiqum Dr sahib . Beautiful message. I think intellectual like you guys should take over the matters of Pakistan and definitely you guys can better handle our country in Shaa Allah. Can I please speak to you please. I know you’re coming to Sydney but I am not sure the dates please
Kash k sary Muslims ap ki tarah sochen
Agree 💯..but dr. Sb ladkiyo ko meeras me unka hissa bhi milna chahiye?
Ham to bina dahez ke hi shadi karege lekin ladaki nahi mil rahi (cross -28 yr)i m well educated, i have own business,and i think i will joint as soon as possible in railway
Sir yeh bohat complicated topic hy aap ko iss per lambi baat kerny chahiay thi
Assalamualaikum! Dr. Aap ki videos bohot motivational hoti Hain. Or in videos se bohot Kuch seekhny ko milta hai. Dr. Aik question tha k main apny 8 - 9 saal tk ki age k bachon ko konsi PC educational game introduce krwaon? Guide kr dain. Kion k merey bachy Roblox khely Hain apny screen time main Jo k on ko milta hai. Sirf 30 minutes allow hoty Hain in ko Lekin main Roblox games se satisfied nhi hon. Wesy to abcya or Khan academy games bhi mojood hain Lekin adventure or explore krny k liye koi game Jo aap k ilm main ho bta dijye. JazakAllah
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Girls do mature faster than boys but they stop maturing around 18-19 years of age. After that they have the same maturity level throughout their lives , even in their forties or fifties . Men mature much slower than girls but they keep maturing well into their later adult years.
Is this a fact😮
lol boht hi Fazool baat ki wisdom age aur experience se ati women at 30 can be more intelligent as compared to
Men at 40
What a chauvinistic point of view!😂
@@tahiraahmed2191girls mature faster than boys but their maturity grows all through their lives. This is a false perception that people had for centuries. Women can grow stronger than man too if they work out 🏋️. Women can bear pain more than men as men can’t bear the child birth pain at all.
Madam a 40 year old woman not same as 20
Assalam alikum Dr jawed mera bata 16.5 years old ka ha is kpichaly 2 sal zaya ho gaye in ko bio science group main 1 st year ma admission lena tha regular collage ma mera aap sy sawwal ha kaya acchi position klaye regular collage main admission lena zarori ha ya government collage main bhee acchi position aati ha
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ماشاءاللّٰه
Dr. Sahb i want those shutters in my house,
pls help me out, from where i can purchase?
very well said sir...but aj kl k lrkon ki mothers boht hi ajeeb or narcissist type k lrkon ki prwarish krny me msroof hain.... agr aj kl ki mayein beton py b betiyon k brabr tawajah dain or apny standards thoray km kr lein to behtr rhy ga
Girls also need to lower their standard. Problem is on both side you can't totally blame boys. If men is practicing Muslim and can complete basic needs there is no problem but girls need big houses, luxury life, foreign tours.
Dr sahab plz 1 video force marriage pr b bna dain…
Aik video hehe py plz Dr sahab😅😅
@ ye kisi ki zindagi ki buht talkh haqeeqat hy is pr plz hasain ni 🙄☹️🙂
Ab solution kia hai is problem ka.
Dr sb what is gender ratio in Pakistan?
Male side se loooks sbse bari reason h jehez se bh brh kr loooks matter krti.. Jb k 1 educated lrki avg person ko bhi accept krlti h just because she knows she not that much pretty physically..
4 shaadiyon waali baat pai to microphone b naraz hugaya
Sir hazrat Ali nay apni sapr (vest ) sell kr k jahez ka saman diya,yani jahez larky ki tarf say hoga.
mashallah
Me khud jaheez k khilaf hun or humne jaheez k lie mana kia tha bhabiyun k ghar walo ko.
or hum bachpan se sunte arahe the k jaheez susral walo k lie hota he but asal me aisa ni hota jab mere bhaiyun ki shadi howi tab mujhe pata chala wo log jo dete he apni beti ko dete he uske saman pe susral walo ka koi haq ni or meri bhabia to apne saman ko hath bh ni lagne deti.
Agr jaheez pe susral walo ka haq ni hota he shariyat me kisi jaga ye bh ni likha k larkiya susral walo ka saman use kare or upar se toore bh or kharab bh kare Jan bojh k.
Tu bhaji shadi he na kar asa he fot ho jana 😂 pagal aurat ashi maturity ke wo baat kar raha apna phela demak check karwana acha doctor sa jahil
Jahez is not an issue, koi rarely hotay hn jo maang k letay hn, larki walay khud hi mostly detay hn, wesay larki k rishtay mushkil ho gae hn
Ik talkh haqeeqat hy.ik reason lrki ka khubsurat na hona b hy,jis gr MN 4 betia hy or CHOTI beti Ziyada piyari hy tu log Sirf CHOTI ka reshta hi mnghty hy bri beti ko tu itni buri Nazar Sy dykhty hy k jysy insan ni hy Kisi or hi Dunia Sy I hy.or phir apny byto k lia 18 sal ki lrki chaiya Hoti chai lrka 40 ka hi q na ho. Kyty hy k betia rehmat Hoti hy lkin ya sb dykhny k bhd tu yahi khiwaish Hoti k hm dunia MN na aty tu Ziyada bytr tha.
Toh pir apni hindu maa ki tarbiyat meh na ati a ur char shadiya na rokti
اے کاش سب آپ کے جیسا سوچتے۔ اتنا کچھ باپ نے دیا بس عزت دار سسرال نہ دے پائے۔
Sir, ap ne theak kaha k agar koi shakhs afford kr Sakta hai aur balance rakh Sakta hai to usay second marriage krni chahiye but Yahan bat affordability ki nahi Sirf balance ki hai because a man cannot be balanced between 2 wives. Yeh aik major issue hai. Main yeh kahon gi k parents apni daughter ko es qabil banyein k woh independent ho jayein takeh Sirf 2 waqat ki roti k Liye unhein Kisi ki 2nd wife na ban'na paray.
Hamare pyare nabi ne farmaya hai ki jab koi sakhs apke pas apki beti ke liye nikah paigam laye aur aap uski akhlaq aur deendari se mutmain hai to nikah kar diya karo nhi to jamane me fasad paida ho jayega.
Doctor sahab jab bade bade maulviyon ke kidney me itna dam nhi ko wo bol sake ki larkiyan shadi ke begair budhi ho rahi hai iski sabse badi wajah ye hai ki log apni jaat se bahar shadi nhi karte hinduon ki tarah, to aap ye kaise bol sakte hai.
Allah ki lanat ho unlogono pe jo dusron ko khud se nicha samajhte us shaitan ki tarah jiska nam iblish hai.😡😡😡😡
In my marriage they were dowry demanding, and followed rasmo rawaj, my lasted 6 month