Jazakallah Khair for this topic.I am a mum of four grown up kids.The first one is a girl and Alhamdolliah got married this year.My son has his Nikkah in the coming days Alhamdolliah.I still have two more to go.But I completely agree it's extremely hard to find good spouses for your children particularly when living in the west.Finding practicing Muslims as spouses for your children must be the priority to ensure our Deen flourishes in the coming generation
This video is exact and perfect how i want to be my future mehram!!! I am frm Mumbai, India.. had hard time in my past 4’mnthts of marriage with mamma’s boy and he destroy my life with all cheat and betray.. now i am moved on seeking for marriage..remember me in your prayers🤲🏼 youth club is best grow more❤️
Guys I'm telling u with my experience " don't fall for beauty i repeat don't" ur top priority should be maturity and sense of humor with an average looks.
Totally agree.. ❤..Deen, his ikhlaaq and maturity level.. Usually men with average look are very good and responsible.. While good looking men prove a big red flag😢
AoA. I Neither comment below any clip Nor watch such a long video. But I love Islamic content and watch full podcast. Litterly amazing based on true facts and figures. Keep it up the good work. Learnt a lot of knowledge. Thanks ❤
I do feel like bht sare points ko mazeed smjhne ki need h Shadi mai sb se brh k agar doubts hain to aap Jankari krwane k sth sth istikhara p bhrosa rkhain beshak Allah ko gaib ka ilm h 2nd lrka or lrki dono ko smjhna chahaye shadi ka mtlb kia h agar apne kisi ko qubool kia h yo usk ache or burai k sth qubool kia h to apne andar itna patience rkhain k.isko nibhaske Hmare society mai ye routine bnta jaraha h k srf good qualities hngi to acha h insane wrna nai Bhaie lrka lrki should have to compromise on many things ,nobody is perfect tbhi shadi chlti h
Agar ladke mein sab theek hai but bohot convincing hai ke apni baat ko manwane ki poori koshish karta hai agar che ke samne wala na mane to kya karein?
Intelligent discussion! Loved it! But here I have got a genuine question. Can we talk with our potential spouse face to face in privacy? If yes, doesn't it become like a date and Where to draw the boundary while chatting/tryna know the other person before nikkah.
In theory you could go out to a social place, cafe, restaurant etc... your brother/father sitting a table or two away. That would meet the criteria of you having some privacy to speak without offending religious sensibility. Similar thing can be achieved at home as well if the house is big enough.
@@ZunairaAslam-ph5bc Situations like these are highly subjective. There's a whole spectrum of what people deem as acceptable. Relying on one's own consciousness is a terrible idea. So, it becomes essential to know what Islam dictates.
Listening this beautiful Islamic conversation because, I m also looking a partner for myself a girl practicing Muslim, family oriented, done any Islamic education, person with pure heart, should be sincere, caring & loving with good moral values.
One more thing to add ajkl koi itna shareef nai h k apne red flag ko zahir krde to aap ko chahye k aap jld bazi k bjai doch smjh k faisla krain pehle prkhain logo ko phir apna aulaad ki shadi krain
26:00 in the past i.e. Sahaba’s time They used to move on from divorce etc and younger/old age women were not an issue because it was common to have multiple wives. This is the reason it wasn’t a problem. When you (women in this case) have set up a society where there is a lot of restrictions on multiple marriages, then men will look for a perfect woman
99% WOMANS MARRIED WITH 99% MENS WHO ARE FEMALES AND OTHER 1% MENS NOT MARRIED AND AWAY FROM THIS NONSENSE 2 NARRISTICS SCYOPHATS MARRIED EACH OTHER AND THEIR BORN CHILDERNS ARE ALSO SAME
This was vey nice podcast but we should clear these things k Engagement k bad ladke se bat karna to sharii tor par na jayaz h q k wo na mehram hai .R investigations ki zimmedari parents ki hoti hai r ye khod free hokar bacho k hatmai namahram ladke ka no. pakda date hai jisse najane kitne mahino salo bad ki hone ka riwaj hamari society mai ban gya hai. We are stuck in these issues due to because we leave our deen.
Daftar se ja kr bhi puch liya wahan se ok ki report mili. Ghr main ja kr mil bhi liya Lkn baad main biwi ke sath kesa saluq hou iski koi guarantee nhi hai Ghr waloun ke sath larkoun ka ikhlaq buhy acha hota hai or biwi ke sath totally opposite
I just want to ask one question after marriage girl's parents lost all the rights of their daughter's? Or if they exist, what are the rights that remain islamicly? Please explain in details jzakh Allah khair
No. "“And we have enjoined upon the human being (care) for his parents. His mother carried him (increasing her) in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the (final) destination.” (31:14)"
pakistan may spousal selection may sab say bara Red flag " Jaheez " hai , Phir shadiyon may dance or naach gana aik kamzoor rishtay ke gurantee hai . ajkal dating nay toh wesay he rishtay ko mazaq buna diya , kon pagal mardh essi urat say shadi karay gah jis say wo apni sari khawahishat puri kar chuka ho or konsa dusra mardh us urat say shadi karay gah jisko uskay sabiqa rishta ka ilm ho ya shahdi kay badh maloom ho ?
Excellent Channel maa sha Allaah .............. it is the need of the hour !
Thanks and welcome
Jazakallah Khair for this topic.I am a mum of four grown up kids.The first one is a girl and Alhamdolliah got married this year.My son has his Nikkah in the coming days Alhamdolliah.I still have two more to go.But I completely agree it's extremely hard to find good spouses for your children particularly when living in the west.Finding practicing Muslims as spouses for your children must be the priority to ensure our Deen flourishes in the coming generation
May Allah bless you and your children. Just spend time in their upbringing and leave the rest to Allah SWT
ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين اماما آمين ❤
This video is exact and perfect how i want to be my future mehram!!! I am frm Mumbai, India.. had hard time in my past 4’mnthts of marriage with mamma’s boy and he destroy my life with all cheat and betray.. now i am moved on seeking for marriage..remember me in your prayers🤲🏼 youth club is best grow more❤️
Keep praying.. inshallah you'll find good one.
Peace and love from a Kashmiri brother.
MashAllah great and very helpful for youngsters who are unmarried and want to get marry
Crux is study and follow our Prophet SAW to the end of our possibilities. The only solution to everything.
Guys I'm telling u with my experience " don't fall for beauty i repeat don't" ur top priority should be maturity and sense of humor with an average looks.
Deen must be the top priority, which brings lots of khair and blessings
@mufeezbinbilal8795 of course deen must be there.
🤣🤣🤣
Totally agree.. ❤..Deen, his ikhlaaq and maturity level.. Usually men with average look are very good and responsible.. While good looking men prove a big red flag😢
@@aqsaaslam2275 CRY
I watched the complete video. جَزَاك ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا for the podcast.
Bohat zabardast program Ma Sha Allah....Allah kare ye sb baten samajh aayn ham sbko
جزاك الله خير
اللّٰھُمَّ اِنْي اَسَٔلُك زَوْجَاًصَالِحاً فِي الْدُنْيا وَالْآخِرَة❤
Ameen
This video is very important for parents and also boys and girls that wants to married with a good person.
AoA.
I Neither comment below any clip Nor watch such a long video. But I love Islamic content and watch full podcast. Litterly amazing based on true facts and figures. Keep it up the good work. Learnt a lot of knowledge. Thanks ❤
I do feel like bht sare points ko mazeed smjhne ki need h
Shadi mai sb se brh k agar doubts hain to aap Jankari krwane k sth sth istikhara p bhrosa rkhain beshak Allah ko gaib ka ilm h
2nd lrka or lrki dono ko smjhna chahaye shadi ka mtlb kia h agar apne kisi ko qubool kia h yo usk ache or burai k sth qubool kia h to apne andar itna patience rkhain k.isko nibhaske
Hmare society mai ye routine bnta jaraha h k srf good qualities hngi to acha h insane wrna nai
Bhaie lrka lrki should have to compromise on many things ,nobody is perfect tbhi shadi chlti h
Thanks thanks thanks mujy isi chizn ki zarort thi allhumdullilah mujy mery sab sowalat ky jawab mil gy thanks thanks Thanks ❤❤❤❤
Very useful topic . Youth should learn from your discussions & experience
What an amazing and the most needed discussion it was!
A well needed podcast. Thank you very much.
Jazakillah khair Dr. Sahiba..Raia Zia Sahiba..Alhuda Astaza.very informativ discussion.
My beloved ustazah afshan khalid❤❤❤
This video tells wether you should get married or not or are you eligible or not
Ma sha Allah very informative ❤❤❤❤❤
Every boy should learn from good role model of society
Nabi sallallahu alaihi wasallam
Love to see a woman doing a podcast....❤️
Great topic and discussion according to Islamic and social aspects
Very helpful ❤❤thank you for this topic .. everybody should know this..
Make more podcasts like this
The topic is good but the discussion is floating randomly. In my opinion this has to be structured properly.
Overall i appreciate the effort
❤Ma Sha Allah 🌹 jazakallah u khair ❤ustazah Afshan khalid ko podcast main dekhna bohut bohut bohut acha laga ❤❤❤
Jazakallah khair for gave good knowledge of life i really thankful to all
Very helpful for unmarried people
Very informative podcast
Jazak Allahu Khair
Jazak Allah khair ever best video
Thank you so much for this information.
Allah mera wali hy more than enough ❤
raja bhai is role model
My respectful teacher Ustaza Afshan khalid glad to see her
Nice and cleared podcast
Very informative mam😅♥️ Jazakillah khairan kasira...
Allah talla hum subko naik hidayat dyn or Naik Saleh Shareek e Hayat Ata kryn Aameen 🤲🏻✨
Great discussion
Jazakallah Khair youth club walo
Very informative podcast..
MashaAllah..
Lots of love from Kashmir
Agar ladke mein sab theek hai but bohot convincing hai ke apni baat ko manwane ki poori koshish karta hai agar che ke samne wala na mane to kya karein?
Last point by Ms Afsha, very practical and sensible.
Har insan ko Rab NY sopr mean hi bnaia he sab ak jesy he Allah ki nazr me
One of the best podcast..🌸
Everyone should listen
Thanks a lot ❤
Barakallahu feek🌸
The video is lengthy, but I’m glad that you covered the most part brilliantly :)💗
Glad you liked it
Jazak allah for this podcast!
Amazing Podcast Alhumdulilah ❤️
Jazak Allah khair kaseeera..for this worthwhile discussion ☺
Intelligent discussion! Loved it!
But here I have got a genuine question.
Can we talk with our potential spouse face to face in privacy? If yes, doesn't it become like a date and Where to draw the boundary while chatting/tryna know the other person before nikkah.
It should in the presence of a mehram,
In theory you could go out to a social place, cafe, restaurant etc... your brother/father sitting a table or two away. That would meet the criteria of you having some privacy to speak without offending religious sensibility. Similar thing can be achieved at home as well if the house is big enough.
If you are mature enough to know boundaries for him and yourself
@@ZunairaAslam-ph5bc Situations like these are highly subjective. There's a whole spectrum of what people deem as acceptable. Relying on one's own consciousness is a terrible idea. So, it becomes essential to know what Islam dictates.
Great talk please bring more bring joint family k azaab
Very very helpful jazakallah khairan❤❤❤
Riskty walk aunties par bhi video banaeyn Tak media ko idea ho k kitny toxic rishty lagany waly kesy business chala rahy hain
36:00 so true💯💯
Jazakallah very informative discussion
Kindly baat complete hony Dyn or sawal unky reviews b Lyn please jazakilllah khairan
Yar kamal ke information hai bahi❤
Raja ziaulhaq great ❤
Nice point from Brother at the end. Thinking of long term focus on Jannah.
Best podcast discussing all the sides 👏
Healthy conversation ❤
Listening this beautiful Islamic conversation because, I m also looking a partner for myself a girl practicing Muslim, family oriented, done any Islamic education, person with pure heart, should be sincere, caring & loving with good moral values.
From which city u belong?
@@Lubnakhan929🤣🤣🤣
Jazakumullahu Khairan!
One more thing to add ajkl koi itna shareef nai h k apne red flag ko zahir krde to aap ko chahye k aap jld bazi k bjai doch smjh k faisla krain pehle prkhain logo ko phir apna aulaad ki shadi krain
26:00 in the past i.e. Sahaba’s time They used to move on from divorce etc and younger/old age women were not an issue because it was common to have multiple wives. This is the reason it wasn’t a problem.
When you (women in this case) have set up a society where there is a lot of restrictions on multiple marriages, then men will look for a perfect woman
ماشاءاللہ تبارک اللّٰہ ♥️
Amazing podcast ♥️
Superb Podcast.
Thanks ❤
Allah is forever.....💋
Very informative talk
Best reminder ❤
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If Allah is your wali more love everything is in your feet.
Love is a respect 💗
Very nice effort from yyou all x
Or phr phupi ki beti whole life suffer krti hai….q k unko lagta hai unka bhnja bhtija bht hi shareef insan hai…
99% WOMANS MARRIED WITH 99% MENS WHO ARE FEMALES AND OTHER 1% MENS NOT MARRIED AND AWAY FROM THIS NONSENSE 2 NARRISTICS SCYOPHATS MARRIED EACH OTHER AND THEIR BORN CHILDERNS ARE ALSO SAME
JazakAllah
This life is a test, it's never to be 💯 perfect, every girl has to compromise
Usefull...
Asslam o alikum mam deen wala rishta kese talash karen agar na mile to kia karna chahiye
Favourite topic of Pakistanis
Jazak Allah ❤
Jazakallah 💓
Khamoshi ka matalab bhi qubool hota hai? Wah
Lovely podcast
This was vey nice podcast but we should clear these things k Engagement k bad ladke se bat karna to sharii tor par na jayaz h q k wo na mehram hai .R investigations ki zimmedari parents ki hoti hai r ye khod free hokar bacho k hatmai namahram ladke ka no. pakda date hai jisse najane kitne mahino salo bad ki hone ka riwaj hamari society mai ban gya hai.
We are stuck in these issues due to because we leave our deen.
Waqaeee availability is great problem
Mashallah very useful
Excelent MashaAllah
Good work
Daftar se ja kr bhi puch liya wahan se ok ki report mili. Ghr main ja kr mil bhi liya
Lkn baad main biwi ke sath kesa saluq hou iski koi guarantee nhi hai
Ghr waloun ke sath larkoun ka ikhlaq buhy acha hota hai or biwi ke sath totally opposite
sahi kaha
MashaAllah great discussion ❤
Voice quality should be improved
I just want to ask one question after marriage girl's parents lost all the rights of their daughter's? Or if they exist, what are the rights that remain islamicly? Please explain in details jzakh Allah khair
No.
"“And we have enjoined upon the human being (care) for his parents. His mother carried him (increasing her) in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the (final) destination.” (31:14)"
pakistan may spousal selection may sab say bara Red flag "
Jaheez " hai , Phir shadiyon may dance or naach gana aik kamzoor rishtay ke gurantee hai . ajkal dating nay toh wesay he rishtay ko mazaq buna diya , kon pagal mardh essi urat say shadi karay gah jis say wo apni sari khawahishat puri kar chuka ho or konsa dusra mardh us urat say shadi karay gah jisko uskay sabiqa rishta ka ilm ho ya shahdi kay badh maloom ho ?
42:00 Can we get a clip/reel on this Superman wali baat?
Girls k parents ki checklist buht bari ha comparatively boys side.
👍🏻
اخر میں سورۃ الروم ایت نمبر 20 اور 21۔
jazakAllah kheir