Its totally wrong.mard hazraat ki attention he sexual attraction k liye hoti hay.zimadari tu nahi uthatey han.pher larkyion ko he job karni hoti hay es liye wo wo jaldi shadi he nahi karti han
simple solution is 1) Properly educate people. Don't teach them to be ruthless and careless. 2) Fix your Economy. Make the environment business friendly. Ease taxes on new business to encourage them. 3) introduce the beautiful Cultural Values of south asia 4) Make education full free for children until college. 5) Restrict alcohol and drugs and hook-ups. 6) Make living cheap and affordable for everybody. You'll see how people want to be involved in a family once these things are settled
Mareiage with RIGHT partner. Otherwise you can marry young or old and live a miserable life with the wrong partner in just trying to get married with anyone because you are getting old. Mke lots of DUA to Allah to bring the correct partner thats best for u.
The colonized Muslim world, especially Pakistan is stuck in a wierd place between secularism and Islam. We are materialistic but we also try to follow Islamic rules. We have secular government laws but we try to apply some Islamic Shariah laws personally. We follow foreign celebrations like birthdays but we also do eid. It creates alot of contradictions and financial problems.
Islam is a religion of the world. It isn't about separating yourself from the world. While self-naughting (zuhd) was certainly a custom of the prophet and of the great Muslims, Islam is nevertheless about living in the world. It acknowledges that we are human beings and that we have to work and that we have material needs. Islamic codes of conduct and secular laws needn't to be at odds at all.
No need of it foreign countries are very developed because they quite these religious things and We should also follow it and for it our country should be secular The people of every religion and people who leave islam should have their rights in Pakistan
@AounMuhammad-f7g well, what's the need for it if the law is in place already is secular? The population is overwhelmingly Muslim, and protection for minorities should be enshrined in both secular law and Islamic law. Nonetheless, does Pakistan have any actual Islamic laws in place? Or are the laws in place the ones we inherited from the British?
Shaadi 2024 minimum requirements: 1) Govt job or banker 2) Own house 3) well settled or Abroad Recommended requirements: 1) Independent 2) qualifications should be at least masters 3) small family 4) well mannered 5) good looking
Bhai INDIA sa hu Pakistan may ya Haal ha ? Humsa ve bura ? Humara to 20000 sa zyada kamana he hoga middle class waley 50000 tak salary dekhta ha Apna Gharr hona he hoga bara wala Family choti ho Dusra Bhai Bahen ho to unki shaadi karake alag krwana hoga Extra Zamin property to hona he hoga Qualification Collage Graduate 12th pass hua to mushkil ha 😢😢😢
I testify that I will bear witness against all such parents who have made us sexually frustrated like this and the ummah is suffering only because of this arrogant behavior and lack of tawakkul in ALLAH, they have destroyed entire society with the help of shaitan and have contributed to the cause of shaitan by preventing their children (both sons and daughters) from early marriages of their choice because the root cause of every single evil in society stems from the poor relationship between a man and his wife or the lack thereof completely. Our Prophet (SAW) (may ALLAH forgive me If I recall it wrong), used to seek ALLAH's refuge from a society with a large number of unmarried young people.
@@MA-lb8dq 1% yes, not more than that. and ALLAH is surely powerful to grant provision to those that marry trusting in Him and giving it their best, He lets nobody die out of starvation.
Shadi Dua SE taqdeer SE and Allah ke kun SE honi Hoti ha This life is an exam ... Sadar Abdul kalam unmarried kue keh taqdir ma nhi ho gi ... Koshish kro bss baqi Dua kro phir Allah pr choro😊
Pakistan mn ab shadi nahi hoty , sirf business hota hy only material matters..jin rishton ki bunyad material pr ho wo khokly hoty hn aur jald khatum ho jaty hn..
I a married at 23.5 year - but i think i think it was very late marriage. I was earning just Rs 4200 when married but studying and managed very well as i plan alot. with kids i completed CA and now earning well. My wife supported well. I will try to marry my kinds between 18 - 22
Ghareeb larki dekho naa, yha itne ghareeb baap hai Jo beti dene k liye tayar h bs unki betiyan khubsurat nahi isiliye nahi karte shadi paisa nahi lagate toh khubsurti nahi Nazar ati un m Jo ghareeb Ghar ki dekho, khd JB khubsurat dekho gy toh zahir hai wo paisa lagati hogi khdpe ap usk eligible nahi Hoge.
27 and still single, i am software developer, earning good income. But don't have enough good looking face, 6 packs body and height that can impress girls .
That’s not a problem though. Not every girl is the same. Pray for yourself and inshallah your soulmate was written for you. You’ll find her eventually. Don’t lose hope.
U explained very well bro...i m 31 single and frustrated...i m from India or yaha bhe yehi haal hai....bas yaha forums culture jiada ho chuka hai...log gf bf banakr satisfied ho rhe hai....lekin jo Islam ko follow krna chahta hai......bas uski zindagi tabha ho rhi hai.....
100% sahi baat ki hai bandy ne, meri age 28 saal hai, lekin abhi tak single hun, kisi chez mein focus nhi kiya jata, har waqt frustrated rehta hun, lekin ghr walon ko yeh baat samajh nhi aati, jab ke mein haram kaam ki taraf jana nhi chahta. Allah pak madad farmaye
@@nha3920 ye girls ki ghalt soch he,jis pese ne JB ana hota he tb hi ata he,aksar asa bhi hota he k acha khasa kamany wala insan shadi k bad sb khatm ho jata he
Respected Sir, You have chosen a very important and fundamental topic. The key point is that early marriages lead to an increase in young and energetic individuals, while late marriages result in older and weaker generations. Even in Islam, the Holy Prophet (PBUH) encouraged young, strong individuals to marry, giving them preference over older and weaker people. We pray to Allah that this essential concept becomes common in society and that people start prioritizing early marriages. True freedom lies in marriage, and the earlier it happens, the stronger and more successful it is likely to be. There is a significant need for young minds in our country, and early marriage is the only effective solution to fulfill this need. It not only strengthens family systems but also ensures a more dynamic and energetic generation for the future.
@@bismilhameed2150 Best age for marriage & a healthy sex life with your other half is till 29/30 afterwards it's down-hill if you are not maintaining your diet & fitness levels. Hamare society mei diet beh kharab aur hur larkah gym ka admission beh nahi leh sakta easily toh late marriage issues for males mei dekhne ko milte hei.
Bro , abi aj ki date 15-12-2024 mn is sb convo k bad ek waleema kha k aya hu or larky ki age 16 he ....i made a video for proof . We will regret it later for sure
jazakAllah sir, explained very well. This is one of the major problem of our society. There should be debates domestically, table talks, awareness through academics and social media.
Aik Larka Jab Aik larki ko Rishta ezat se bhjta hai toh Demandy honi lagti hai ke ghr Alag kare Ghr Apna ho nokri phir Rishta dengy !! Wohii Larki jab university or bhair jahti hai Doosro larko ko dost ke Naam se Muft me jism de deti hai ! Aap khud andaza lagha skty hai ke Kesy humara society jah rhi hai !🤗
To ap kiya chahte ho larkiyan bhikariyon se shadi karlen jinke pas na Ghar ho or na hi Kuch karta ho. Aur apki soch university parhne wali larkiyon ke bare me galat ha. Har larki aesi nahi Hoti.
Or agar ap early marriage ki baat ker lain tu shadeed negative radd e amal atta hai. Liberal Aunties or apni married life mai failure face kerte hoye individuals ki taraf se. Ya lado jo khaye wo b pachtay jo na khaye wo b pachtaye tu behtar hai khaa k pachtaye apna adha emaan mukamil ker k. Especially jab fertility issues are on the rise.
Bhai early marriage to theek ha. Lekin practical ho ke socho jab larka khud baap pe depend ho aur Kuch karta nahi ho to larki ki kaise zimmedari uthayega ? Konsa baap apni beti dega aese larke ko ??
I agree with you on alot of things.. but saying “aik beti ja rahi tu aik a rahi” is totally wrong. is kay boht say reasons han . one should always bear the expense of his family (wife, children). jab mera baap meri baygum ka kharch othay ga tu wo rishta aap kay maa bap kay hathon exploit bhi hoga..
"Pakistan urgently needs to control its population growth as it directly impacts the country's future. With a rapidly increasing number of people, the availability of resources, jobs, and opportunities continues to shrink. This uncontrolled growth is not just about numbers; it translates into bringing more humans into a world of limited prospects and widespread misery. A growing population without proper planning only amplifies poverty, unemployment, and societal issues. It's high time for Pakistan to focus on sustainable development and population control measures to secure a better future for the coming generations."
Pakistani population will suffer and die due to very less recourses because people of this country don't know how to survive in world and be better they are still living in 15 century
Koi population ni barh Rahi ajkal to Pakistan men 80%bachey ho hi operation sey rahey to log peda b do teen sey zyada ni kar rahey operation sey bachey vesey b zyada ni ho patey r normal deliveries vesey b Pakistan men ab boht kum ho Rahin Jo baat population ki hi hy to china highly populated Hy vo q din ba din traqqi kar raha masla Sara good 👍 r bad administration ka hota na k high population ka..
@allnews9261 yes ajkel kmana bht muskel kam h, WO purana dor khtm ho gya h or ajkel koi kise k madet b ni krta so at the last bache ko apko y use khud he krna prta h guzara
@@man08839 Bilkul sahi 👌 kaha 💬 madad to ajkal koi b ksi ki ni karta r kmao ap jitna b phir b din ba din baehti hui mehngai men vo kmai poori b ni parti r log b selfish hotey ja rahey Ghar k apney log tak supportive ni rahey
Population not an abstacle, but injustice and improper allocation of resources is. In 78 years, only 3 cities were the focus and goals ( isb, Lahore and khi) ..now, they have become overburdened, and exhausted much ..simply can't afford implosion more .. Time to develop smaller cities and even villages much.
If a man able to raise a famliy yhan sub se bara masala paison ka he mulk ka he. Jab koi larka itna qabil ho k wo 3 waqt ka khana ghar depaey us k liye masal nai hy lekin kuch parents soch kr shadi krwa dety hain k zimmedar hoga jab k 70%log kam he nahi krty shadi k bad bhe to system ka satya nas hojata
بالکل ہی سطحی تجزیہ ہے... مغربی ممالک میں پلی بڑی نسل کے جن تعلقات کی صاحب بات کر رہے ہیں.. وہ کتنے مستحکم اور long term ہوتے ہیں... وہاں تو باقاعدہ شادیاں بھی مستحکم نہیں.. اور تنازعات اور تناؤ سے خالی نہیں... تو پھر دستیوں اور معاشقوں والی relationships میں یہ سب نہیں ہوتا ہوگا... ممكن ہی نہیں.... ہاں ایسے غیر یقینی، اور عارضی relationship میں رہتے ہوئے وہی لوگ concentrate اور ترقی کرتے ہوں گے جو صرف one night stands کے قائل ہوں... یا وہ لوگ جو بہت زیادہ casual ہوں جن کو relative یا relationships کے ہونے نہ ہونے سے کوئی خاصہ فرق نہیں پڑتا.... اس چیز کو عمومی مان کر مشرقی نسل کی پسماندگی اور frustration کے لیے مغربی قوم کے اس چلن کو مستحسن ہونے کی طرف اشارہ کرنا غلط ہے... اس کے علاوہ دوسری باتیں اچھی ہیں... جلد شادی کے رواج کو فروغ دینا چاہیے... 👍
MashAllah. I'm 21 years old but still single. But last day i gave last chance to family. That do my marriage within 1 year. Or And my father ask: or what? I answered: nothing. I will remain single for one more decade.
@propakistanigamer2035 we are talking about a teenage boy, who isn't even allowed to chose his subjects for FSc. How can he make decisions for his wife? And those good supportive families you are talking about are quite rare in Pakistan. Yahan 30 sal ka mard maa se puche bgair bv ko kuch le k de de to jena haram kr dete he uska. Aik teenager bichara kia kre ga.
Bhai me india se hu. Pehli baat ki Europe me population kam hai aur yahan par jyada. Education ke wajah se shadi nahi pa rahi pehle log padai kam karte the isliye shadi ho jati thi.
Oh for gods sake. Im sick of hearing people say boys and girls from Europe are all so bad!... excuse me, but let me tell you, i was born and bought up in the UK, and our parents were ultra strict!. So NO we are not all bad!. So sick of this mentality.
Sexual prowess peaks till 29/30 years for males in most cases after that it depends how you maintain your diet & fitness levels otherwise it's all down-hill.
Iam 18 yre old boy I have 2 issue of health Ashtma it ok Another my mental age Bcz it s dangerous a day wipl come and i uave to marry cz i dont want it This is reason so i pray to Allah plz make me matured like today young boyw so i cn hanlde my situation and problem after life Other wiae i eipl never marry
Very imp n relevant topic, very good evfort to highlight this issue, but this thing is very complicated, baat buht duur nikal gye ha aur male n female dono affect ho rhe n in return overall society bhi, dua hi ki ja skti ha
And expensive/lavish wedding have turned the things more worse. Baqi qasar pakistani dramas ne pori krdi jahan or aik handsome young man hoga jis ka bussiness empire hoga and the girl gets such man, these dramas are motivating parents to search for such young guy. Allah khair kare iss qoum ki.
I think, West is right. We have become so obsessed in Nikah documentation and marriage ceremony with a gangster of people to eat gigantic food. But western people establish meritorial type relashanship. They are making good life without moulvi intervention
West has more Divorce rates. Why? Because they have pre-martial relationships. You’re praising basically the place that is lowly when it comes to marriage and having fixed relationships. They cheat and are disloyal as per their routine. So please, don’t speak.
Bhai jan peak of materialism by parents sides of families of girls & Boys... This is because we are آدھا تیتر آدھا بٹیر Current economic conditions of country are worse than ever meanwhile rubbish educational system had produced talents degree holders & even those degree holders are Romaing unemployed & girls parents expect from a young boy to have 6 figure salary own home a big car & even clready ask for families have less siblings....
Bhai m ap ki bht c batoo sa agree krti hn but hmra village areas m bht jldi shadia hjti max 18 m lkn phr b waha is sa b badtar haal ha married hna k bawjood wo extra marital affairs chl rha hta or bht frustrated ha
Yes, logo main koht bhare hain. There needs to be proper education with Islamic beliefs of cheating, and implantation of strict laws on cheating. In the Quran it was stated how the punishment for such acts is being stoned to death.
Is muashry me muslim male females ko aps me interact kr k shariat ki hadud me rehty huye apni zindgi ka decision lena chaiye family k chakr me boht kuch khrab ho jata h
Our society has made marriage very complicated. Many boys and girls are against the demand culture but family members on both sides insist on material things.
There is no certain age limit set by government for marriage you could marry anyone at any time as long as you are legally 18 or above. This means you could marry as early as 18 and as late as 60 or above.
😂 masturbation to krty ho gy ap lazmi. Zra care krain wrna shaadi k baad msla hoga. Shaadi k bad few months to achy guzrai gy lkn phir apko wife ki utni zarorat ni mahsoos hogi ap kro gy phir sy masturbation. Or udr wife sochy gi k ye bnda young hai or 15 20 dn sy kuch kia ni pta ni chkr to ni chla lia kisi sy . Lkn usy pta chl hi jy ga k msla kia hai. Of porn dakhny ki wja sy apko apni wife ki body b psnd ni aye gi of course.
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High expectations of girls. the biggest reason for marriage issue
Same for the men. They expect tiktok and instagram babes...
😂😂 @@rosie.A
Its totally wrong.mard hazraat ki attention he sexual attraction k liye hoti hay.zimadari tu nahi uthatey han.pher larkyion ko he job karni hoti hay es liye wo wo jaldi shadi he nahi karti han
At least someone spoke on this issue. Well done bro keep it up ❤
Ya Allah har musalman bhaiyo aur behno ko acche acche rishtey ata farma Aamen Allahumma Aamen Ya Rabb🤲🏻
Brother Yahya I appreciate you making this video we need to take actions as individuals.
simple solution is
1) Properly educate people. Don't teach them to be ruthless and careless.
2) Fix your Economy. Make the environment business friendly. Ease taxes on new business to encourage them.
3) introduce the beautiful Cultural Values of south asia
4) Make education full free for children until college.
5) Restrict alcohol and drugs and hook-ups.
6) Make living cheap and affordable for everybody.
You'll see how people want to be involved in a family once these things are settled
Humne Nikah ko Mushkil aur Zina ko asaan banaya hai ,same situation in India as well.
True😢😢😢
Bhai galt kah rahey hu. Na Nikah aur na Zina....
Mareiage with RIGHT partner. Otherwise you can marry young or old and live a miserable life with the wrong partner in just trying to get married with anyone because you are getting old.
Mke lots of DUA to Allah to bring the correct partner thats best for u.
The colonized Muslim world, especially Pakistan is stuck in a wierd place between secularism and Islam. We are materialistic but we also try to follow Islamic rules. We have secular government laws but we try to apply some Islamic Shariah laws personally. We follow foreign celebrations like birthdays but we also do eid. It creates alot of contradictions and financial problems.
Absolutely Correct 👍.
On point. Much like Turkey
Islam is a religion of the world. It isn't about separating yourself from the world. While self-naughting (zuhd) was certainly a custom of the prophet and of the great Muslims, Islam is nevertheless about living in the world. It acknowledges that we are human beings and that we have to work and that we have material needs. Islamic codes of conduct and secular laws needn't to be at odds at all.
No need of it foreign countries are very developed because they quite these religious things and We should also follow it and for it our country should be secular The people of every religion and people who leave islam should have their rights in Pakistan
@AounMuhammad-f7g well, what's the need for it if the law is in place already is secular? The population is overwhelmingly Muslim, and protection for minorities should be enshrined in both secular law and Islamic law. Nonetheless, does Pakistan have any actual Islamic laws in place? Or are the laws in place the ones we inherited from the British?
Shaadi 2024
minimum requirements:
1) Govt job or banker
2) Own house
3) well settled or Abroad
Recommended requirements:
1) Independent
2) qualifications should be at least masters
3) small family
4) well mannered
5) good looking
Yaar I got rejected because of being abroad but I agree with the rest
If these recommendations are fulfill by some one then he won't be taking normal women with skinny body
Bhai INDIA sa hu
Pakistan may ya Haal ha ?
Humsa ve bura ?
Humara to 20000 sa zyada kamana he hoga middle class waley 50000 tak salary dekhta ha Apna Gharr hona he hoga bara wala
Family choti ho
Dusra Bhai Bahen ho to unki shaadi karake alag krwana hoga
Extra Zamin property to hona he hoga Qualification Collage Graduate
12th pass hua to mushkil ha 😢😢😢
you forgot 10 million dollars minimum Haq Mahar
@@NabeelKhan-lx2ly 10 million dollar kisne maang liye hain?
I testify that I will bear witness against all such parents who have made us sexually frustrated like this and the ummah is suffering only because of this arrogant behavior and lack of tawakkul in ALLAH, they have destroyed entire society with the help of shaitan and have contributed to the cause of shaitan by preventing their children (both sons and daughters) from early marriages of their choice because the root cause of every single evil in society stems from the poor relationship between a man and his wife or the lack thereof completely.
Our Prophet (SAW) (may ALLAH forgive me If I recall it wrong), used to seek ALLAH's refuge from a society with a large number of unmarried young people.
Poverty is another reason
@@MA-lb8dq 1% yes, not more than that. and ALLAH is surely powerful to grant provision to those that marry trusting in Him and giving it their best, He lets nobody die out of starvation.
Shadi Dua SE taqdeer SE and Allah ke kun SE honi Hoti ha
This life is an exam ... Sadar Abdul kalam unmarried kue keh taqdir ma nhi ho gi ... Koshish kro bss baqi Dua kro phir Allah pr choro😊
@@khizarrshahidd Thank God pehli baar gay honai pr fakhar hai
@MuhammadBilal-mu9qy beshaq that's the answer ALLAH AZMAISH LETA HY TABI AJKL SHADI BI NI CHLTI JALDI KRK BHI LOGO KI MAJORITY
Pakistan mn ab shadi nahi hoty , sirf business hota hy only material matters..jin rishton ki bunyad material pr ho wo khokly hoty hn aur jald khatum ho jaty hn..
وہ تو ہوگا کیونکہ جب دین اسلام سے دوری ہوگی تو چاہے چار چار شادیاں کروا دیں پھر بھی ہوس کم نہیں ہوسکتی
@@طلحةالحنفيالماتريدي hr bat he Islam s shuru krte ho😁
@@man08839 صرف مسلمانوں کے لیے
The most realest issue of Pakistan in the 21th century.
I'm 32 years old.
Meri b Shadi nai ho rahi. Tamam log mere ly DUA kre. ☺️
I a married at 23.5 year - but i think i think it was very late marriage. I was earning just Rs 4200 when married but studying and managed very well as i plan alot. with kids i completed CA and now earning well. My wife supported well. I will try to marry my kinds between 18 - 22
Bro you were earning less than 5000 but still got married
@@FaizyDevil. yaha 1.5lakh walon ki ni ho rahi
MashAllah❤
@@propakistanigamer2035 baatain hain sari 18 saal walon ko khana kon daiga ? Ab koi practical baat krna hawa k teer seenay mai lagtay hain
@@Meow123-i7b mere 2 dosto ke 2nd year me hi shadi ho gai ha halka ke wo earn bhi nahi kerte
milne se boht kuch mil gata ha
31yo still single,, even though I have job and earnings but the thing is that world is materialistic nowadays, it's extremely difficult to marry
Ghareeb larki dekho naa, yha itne ghareeb baap hai Jo beti dene k liye tayar h bs unki betiyan khubsurat nahi isiliye nahi karte shadi paisa nahi lagate toh khubsurti nahi Nazar ati un m Jo ghareeb Ghar ki dekho, khd JB khubsurat dekho gy toh zahir hai wo paisa lagati hogi khdpe ap usk eligible nahi Hoge.
@@MariumAsifKhan04000 People are too greedy these days regardless of financial status
Bro don't get married it is very tough there are too many predators out there
27 and still single, i am software developer, earning good income. But don't have enough good looking face, 6 packs body and height that can impress girls .
That’s not a problem though. Not every girl is the same. Pray for yourself and inshallah your soulmate was written for you. You’ll find her eventually. Don’t lose hope.
Thank you for speaking on this issue. In the anti-marriage era, we must talk about the importance of early marriages.
This is my story I'm unmarried 29 years old 😔
same bro
Shadi q ni krte Bhai ap??
U explained very well bro...i m 31 single and frustrated...i m from India or yaha bhe yehi haal hai....bas yaha forums culture jiada ho chuka hai...log gf bf banakr satisfied ho rhe hai....lekin jo Islam ko follow krna chahta hai......bas uski zindagi tabha ho rhi hai.....
100% sahi baat ki hai bandy ne, meri age 28 saal hai, lekin abhi tak single hun, kisi chez mein focus nhi kiya jata, har waqt frustrated rehta hun, lekin ghr walon ko yeh baat samajh nhi aati, jab ke mein haram kaam ki taraf jana nhi chahta.
Allah pak madad farmaye
I think shadi ka ikhtyar olad ko de dena chye k JB wo chahy parents uski shadi kr den
@mountainslife7225 Boht time Lage ga aisi soch ko aany mein
Paisa kamao. Paisa nahi hai to koi aurat tum se shadi nahi karegi.
@@Sultan-g3l8o ,Sahi kaha,ye sb Deen se doori aur rasmon ki ghulami ki waja se asa ho rha he,dikhaway ne hmen tabah kr dia he.
@@nha3920 ye girls ki ghalt soch he,jis pese ne JB ana hota he tb hi ata he,aksar asa bhi hota he k acha khasa kamany wala insan shadi k bad sb khatm ho jata he
Then what about post marital affairs which are at peak?
That's another issue. That does not prove anything.
Really appreciated.. his facial expressions shows how much he is worried for the youth of this country
Respected Sir,
You have chosen a very important and fundamental topic. The key point is that early marriages lead to an increase in young and energetic individuals, while late marriages result in older and weaker generations. Even in Islam, the Holy Prophet (PBUH) encouraged young, strong individuals to marry, giving them preference over older and weaker people. We pray to Allah that this essential concept becomes common in society and that people start prioritizing early marriages. True freedom lies in marriage, and the earlier it happens, the stronger and more successful it is likely to be. There is a significant need for young minds in our country, and early marriage is the only effective solution to fulfill this need. It not only strengthens family systems but also ensures a more dynamic and energetic generation for the future.
I am 29 y/o and this is totally relatable.
😢
34 & counting...hahaha...our time will come.
@muhammadnabil3390 Yar ... trust me mjhe abi b lag rha late hogy.
best age 20-24
@@bismilhameed2150 Best age for marriage & a healthy sex life with your other half is till 29/30 afterwards it's down-hill if you are not maintaining your diet & fitness levels.
Hamare society mei diet beh kharab aur hur larkah gym ka admission beh nahi leh sakta easily toh late marriage issues for males mei dekhne ko milte hei.
Same here I'm 29 too
Bro , abi aj ki date 15-12-2024 mn is sb convo k bad ek waleema kha k aya hu or larky ki age 16 he ....i made a video for proof . We will regret it later for sure
jazakAllah sir, explained very well. This is one of the major problem of our society. There should be debates domestically, table talks, awareness through academics and social media.
Not agree at all
Finally someone spoke ! More power to you
Aik Larka Jab Aik larki ko Rishta ezat se bhjta hai toh Demandy honi lagti hai ke ghr Alag kare Ghr Apna ho nokri phir Rishta dengy !! Wohii Larki jab university or bhair jahti hai Doosro larko ko dost ke Naam se Muft me jism de deti hai ! Aap khud andaza lagha skty hai ke Kesy humara society jah rhi hai !🤗
To ap kiya chahte ho larkiyan bhikariyon se shadi karlen jinke pas na Ghar ho or na hi Kuch karta ho.
Aur apki soch university parhne wali larkiyon ke bare me galat ha. Har larki aesi nahi Hoti.
Jazak Allah khair 🥰 much needed
Or agar ap early marriage ki baat ker lain tu shadeed negative radd e amal atta hai. Liberal Aunties or apni married life mai failure face kerte hoye individuals ki taraf se.
Ya lado jo khaye wo b pachtay jo na khaye wo b pachtaye tu behtar hai khaa k pachtaye apna adha emaan mukamil ker k. Especially jab fertility issues are on the rise.
Bhai early marriage to theek ha.
Lekin practical ho ke socho jab larka khud baap pe depend ho aur Kuch karta nahi ho to larki ki kaise zimmedari uthayega ?
Konsa baap apni beti dega aese larke ko ??
Exactly due to high expectations and financial instability I'm unmarried still at the age of 28
Find a poor girl and get marry
I agree with you on alot of things.. but saying “aik beti ja rahi tu aik a rahi” is totally wrong. is kay boht say reasons han . one should always bear the expense of his family (wife, children). jab mera baap meri baygum ka kharch othay ga tu wo rishta aap kay maa bap kay hathon exploit bhi hoga..
Right age for marraige is when you find the right one...
No
You must choose the best one from the available options. "The right one" phenomenon is a myth.
@@thecoco784 Galat insan se shadi maut hai.
Right one kabhi nahi ilta. Ya bn kr i guzara hota ha
Aur ni mlta tou mental health matters if u r mature from mind then get married wrna ajkl talak horai zehni issues ki wja sy
Real love shadi ke baad he paida hota uske phly sirf time pass and it's a big "NO"
"Pakistan urgently needs to control its population growth as it directly impacts the country's future. With a rapidly increasing number of people, the availability of resources, jobs, and opportunities continues to shrink. This uncontrolled growth is not just about numbers; it translates into bringing more humans into a world of limited prospects and widespread misery. A growing population without proper planning only amplifies poverty, unemployment, and societal issues. It's high time for Pakistan to focus on sustainable development and population control measures to secure a better future for the coming generations."
Pakistani population will suffer and die due to very less recourses because people of this country don't know how to survive in world and be better they are still living in 15 century
Koi population ni barh Rahi ajkal to Pakistan men 80%bachey ho hi operation sey rahey to log peda b do teen sey zyada ni kar rahey operation sey bachey vesey b zyada ni ho patey r normal deliveries vesey b Pakistan men ab boht kum ho Rahin Jo baat population ki hi hy to china highly populated Hy vo q din ba din traqqi kar raha masla Sara good 👍 r bad administration ka hota na k high population ka..
@allnews9261 yes ajkel kmana bht muskel kam h, WO purana dor khtm ho gya h or ajkel koi kise k madet b ni krta so at the last bache ko apko y use khud he krna prta h guzara
@@man08839 Bilkul sahi 👌 kaha 💬 madad to ajkal koi b ksi ki ni karta r kmao ap jitna b phir b din ba din baehti hui mehngai men vo kmai poori b ni parti r log b selfish hotey ja rahey Ghar k apney log tak supportive ni rahey
Population not an abstacle, but injustice and improper allocation of resources is. In 78 years, only 3 cities were the focus and goals ( isb, Lahore and khi) ..now, they have become overburdened, and exhausted much ..simply can't afford implosion more ..
Time to develop smaller cities and even villages much.
If a man able to raise a famliy yhan sub se bara masala paison ka he mulk ka he. Jab koi larka itna qabil ho k wo 3 waqt ka khana ghar depaey us k liye masal nai hy lekin kuch parents soch kr shadi krwa dety hain k zimmedar hoga jab k 70%log kam he nahi krty shadi k bad bhe to system ka satya nas hojata
wow, my jaws literally dropped. I cannnot disagree.
The second name of marriage is responsibility so do focus on your career first and then do marriage ❤
بالکل ہی سطحی تجزیہ ہے... مغربی ممالک میں پلی بڑی نسل کے جن تعلقات کی صاحب بات کر رہے ہیں.. وہ کتنے مستحکم اور long term ہوتے ہیں... وہاں تو باقاعدہ شادیاں بھی مستحکم نہیں.. اور تنازعات اور تناؤ سے خالی نہیں... تو پھر دستیوں اور معاشقوں والی relationships میں یہ سب نہیں ہوتا ہوگا... ممكن ہی نہیں.... ہاں ایسے غیر یقینی، اور عارضی relationship میں رہتے ہوئے وہی لوگ concentrate اور ترقی کرتے ہوں گے جو صرف one night stands کے قائل ہوں... یا وہ لوگ جو بہت زیادہ casual ہوں جن کو relative یا relationships کے ہونے نہ ہونے سے کوئی خاصہ فرق نہیں پڑتا.... اس چیز کو عمومی مان کر مشرقی نسل کی پسماندگی اور frustration کے لیے مغربی قوم کے اس چلن کو مستحسن ہونے کی طرف اشارہ کرنا غلط ہے...
اس کے علاوہ دوسری باتیں اچھی ہیں... جلد شادی کے رواج کو فروغ دینا چاہیے... 👍
Excellent brother
You describe Pakistan frustration in 8 minutes
Well done
Is any solution of frustration please provide
Early marriage with family planning.
Literally ❤❤
Really love your video from Chicago
MashAllah.
I'm 21 years old but still single.
But last day i gave last chance to family. That do my marriage within 1 year. Or
And my father ask: or what?
I answered: nothing. I will remain single for one more decade.
Apko wakai lgta he k jesa hmara culture or majority family system he wahan teenage marriages survive kr skti hain? Pagal kr dain gy ghr wale unhe.
If boy is good planner and moving in right direction of education/profession and his parents are supportive then such issue will be very less.
@propakistanigamer2035 we are talking about a teenage boy, who isn't even allowed to chose his subjects for FSc. How can he make decisions for his wife? And those good supportive families you are talking about are quite rare in Pakistan. Yahan 30 sal ka mard maa se puche bgair bv ko kuch le k de de to jena haram kr dete he uska. Aik teenager bichara kia kre ga.
Literally very accurate 👍🫡😞
Girls have tooooo high demand. Things she got in her father house are her father's best. Initially
I’m 45 and still not married unfortunately 😢
💔💔💔💔
Marriage not solution for everything though.
Zain bhai, why not go on muzz and find someone of a similar age and marry her?
I understand it’s miserable.
Ap kis City se hen or kia krte hen job ?
MashaALLAH Bhai behtareen baat bolrae ho😢
Bhai me india se hu. Pehli baat ki Europe me population kam hai aur yahan par jyada. Education ke wajah se shadi nahi pa rahi pehle log padai kam karte the isliye shadi ho jati thi.
Great Message!!
So true . And relatable
صحیح بات !
Nice message Sir G
Oh for gods sake. Im sick of hearing people say boys and girls from Europe are all so bad!... excuse me, but let me tell you, i was born and bought up in the UK, and our parents were ultra strict!. So NO we are not all bad!. So sick of this mentality.
@@rosie.A he is talking about majority westerners
Our Nation Need this Type Of Videos
very Good Work Bhai
Not really. This is promoting BS. Shaadi sab kuch nahi hoti ke shaadi ke baad hi mehnat ho gi. Get ambition.
AP mat Karna shadi phir saari Zindagi phir dekh bhi Lene KY KESA huta hai shadi KY bina@@toywithtech
Pron dekne ko Bora bol Raha hia
@@sanankhan2960 porn ke baghair bhi kaam ho jaata hai aaj kal
Very nice video and true depiction of frustrated society of Pakistan
Even my parents say that I should marry at 32+
They are the hypocrites
Sexual prowess peaks till 29/30 years for males in most cases after that it depends how you maintain your diet & fitness levels otherwise it's all down-hill.
Been victim of this shit show
Which one👀 been early or too late into marriage?
Bilkul thik kaha ap ny .or i think jis cheez miy b ap curiosity berhao hy wo cheez ap ko attract kery gi .
So True
This is so true. I think the same way.
Brilliant analysis
Iam 18 yre old boy
I have 2 issue of health
Ashtma it ok
Another my mental age
Bcz it s dangerous a day wipl come and i uave to marry cz i dont want it
This is reason so i pray to Allah plz make me matured like today young boyw so i cn hanlde my situation and problem after life
Other wiae i eipl never marry
You should focus on health n immunity. Living with asthma is not difficult if you learn to manage effectively
Very imp n relevant topic, very good evfort to highlight this issue, but this thing is very complicated, baat buht duur nikal gye ha aur male n female dono affect ho rhe n in return overall society bhi, dua hi ki ja skti ha
Absolutely right my 2sister in law who married at 31year are back home and we married at 24 and compromising but as age increased patience is less
100% right brother.
And expensive/lavish wedding have turned the things more worse.
Baqi qasar pakistani dramas ne pori krdi jahan or aik handsome young man hoga jis ka bussiness empire hoga and the girl gets such man, these dramas are motivating parents to search for such young guy.
Allah khair kare iss qoum ki.
@@AhMedicine23 I think boys should marry gays
100% Right 👍
I think, West is right. We have become so obsessed in Nikah documentation and marriage ceremony with a gangster of people to eat gigantic food.
But western people establish meritorial type relashanship. They are making good life without moulvi intervention
West has more Divorce rates. Why? Because they have pre-martial relationships. You’re praising basically the place that is lowly when it comes to marriage and having fixed relationships. They cheat and are disloyal as per their routine. So please, don’t speak.
100/ Right
Same thing is happening in India too, same with hindus and not just muslims.
Bhai jan peak of materialism by parents sides of families of girls & Boys... This is because we are آدھا تیتر آدھا بٹیر
Current economic conditions of country are worse than ever meanwhile rubbish educational system had produced talents degree holders & even those degree holders are Romaing unemployed & girls parents expect from a young boy to have 6 figure salary own home a big car & even clready ask for families have less siblings....
Bhai m ap ki bht c batoo sa agree krti hn but hmra village areas m bht jldi shadia hjti max 18 m lkn phr b waha is sa b badtar haal ha married hna k bawjood wo extra marital affairs chl rha hta or bht frustrated ha
late or early marriages is not an issue, the main issue is today's men brain and psychology.
Yes, logo main koht bhare hain. There needs to be proper education with Islamic beliefs of cheating, and implantation of strict laws on cheating. In the Quran it was stated how the punishment for such acts is being stoned to death.
Well explained please parents look into this please 🙏 accept what religion guide us
100 percent true.
Good research
Is muashry me muslim male females ko aps me interact kr k shariat ki hadud me rehty huye apni zindgi ka decision lena chaiye family k chakr me boht kuch khrab ho jata h
I m 27 and single 😂😂😂
I'm 34 & counting...still single. 😀
Khush raho😊
Sir agr koi Banda shadi krna hi na Chahta ho to
Exactly, tum iss banday ki baat hi kyu sunh rahey ho? And you get married when Allah wants you to.
zabardast bhai or mai bhi is situation ko face ker raha ho or sab se bara issue ye he hai
This comparison with European Boys isn’t coredcgg tag btw. I do agree with the rest
Lajawab, bohat he kamal topic
Our society has made marriage very complicated. Many boys and girls are against the demand culture but family members on both sides insist on material things.
I am 28 recently I fall in oneside love with girl , because of not getting married timly. I am on blink of accused of harassment
Oh my. Be steadfast Allah is watching. He’s noting everything. You’ll get justified inshallah.
Fact 💯
Please get rid ofnthe music
Wasa bi mushkill ha AJ ka for ma shadi karna sab log to phala sa apna future talash karna lagta ha
Na hum Ider ka Raha na under ka
Same like me just in my storey now I am 45 years old but unmarried now
May Allah grant you a righteous spouse. Did you ever consult someone to arrange you?
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100% true💞👍
Very true
There should be age Limit. Government should implement upon it strictly.
There is no certain age limit set by government for marriage you could marry anyone at any time as long as you are legally 18 or above. This means you could marry as early as 18 and as late as 60 or above.
I m 31 years old single men but very happy 😂
raat ko karte kia ho?
😂 masturbation to krty ho gy ap lazmi. Zra care krain wrna shaadi k baad msla hoga. Shaadi k bad few months to achy guzrai gy lkn phir apko wife ki utni zarorat ni mahsoos hogi ap kro gy phir sy masturbation. Or udr wife sochy gi k ye bnda young hai or 15 20 dn sy kuch kia ni pta ni chkr to ni chla lia kisi sy . Lkn usy pta chl hi jy ga k msla kia hai. Of porn dakhny ki wja sy apko apni wife ki body b psnd ni aye gi of course.
Zaberdast
haqiqat hai or afsos hai is moshry pr
And to these and some other stuffs too Mine biggest regrets is I was born in Pakistan
The whole concept has been twisted & aligned with nonsensical expectations detrimental to psycho-social & economic development needs reviewing.
I think muslim coutries should follow birth control not marriage control💔
well i give up on marriage :( full numb ho gaya hun
Agreed
💯 true
True❤