Quranic Reference: Surah An-Nisa (4:34) states: "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them excel the other, and because they spend from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in the husband’s absence what Allah orders them to guard." Hadith Reference: The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The leader is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. A man is the shepherd of his family and he is responsible for his flock." (Reported in Sahih Muslim) but being head doesn't mean that family will do what I would say it means that both .must have . mutual respect for each other opinion but they should decide mutually everything because though Muhammad was a prophet but he always used to take advices from companion in wars etc etc
@@FaizMuhammad-l7t.. q apki mama head of the family hai?wo bahr jati ha kmaati hai ghr chlaati hai?? Obviously father he hai. Ajeeb jahil sawal hai duffer
I am from India the same problem here also. Nobbody teaches how to run the family life. Your video very nicely explained. Going to share with all my friends. Thanks
Aap ki baten soon kar aisa laga ki mere father ek great person h , unho ne mujhe aur meri bahan ko job karne ke qabil banaya aur hum dono bahan government teacher h🇮🇳
@@homaansar5082 Mashaalah 🥰 lovely To hear..!!Your Dad made you to become G;both sisters to BE EDUCATED TO BECOME MASHAALAH,BY HIM..TO BOTH HANDLED & CARRY job S IN INDIA ..FEMALES👐🙏🏽💚 MASHALAH 👐;!/JOB Kabul..n govt teachers!
Alhumdulilah My Dear sir ... Me or meri soch bilkul esi hi jesi aapne byaan ki.... I'm from India.& 21 yrs old..... Or Khushi ki baat ye hai I'm not married 😅... I'm student and running my own business 😅..... Thank you so much My dear sir... I watched your all videos 📸.. that's are wonderful 💯💯 good 😊.. and very knowledgeable.. May Allah bless you with happiness and long life 🧬.. I wish I meet you and talk to you...😊
3:27 Sir Mental and emotional abuse are equally as important as physical abuse , physical absue k nishan to atleast nazar aa jatay hain par mental ya emotional abuse k koi nishan bhi nahi dikhtay!
Self dependence is inevitable for girls but she must have a talent of handling situations with a calm mind not emotionally because there's left no care for emotions in this society. For the most she must be skilled at stress management!!!
Wah, ma sha Allah sir! Kia hi mukhtasir magr jamih jawab dia, aap jaisay log hi hamaro society ka sarmaya hain! Allah aapko emaan or sehat mandi wali hayat dain.
Ham angreez nhe hai. Hum logo Pakistan Mai rehta hain.joint family mai senior citizen ki baat mani jati Hain. Aur life Ka matlab he yahi Hain k day to day develop hota hai.har chee spiritually,parenting , tolerance,jahdad ,joint family ,job yah sub perfect nhe hosakhta.
Exactly I am proud of you sir laki kbi b independent na ho mera girls ko ye advice Hy k Sab sy pehly apna name bty apna career set kry then shadi Kuch nhi pra shadi main ❤
Very informative,buchion ko to parents bht kuchh smjha k bhejtay but afsos k bigray huay beton ki shadian krty aur ye smjhty k jo bahoo aey gi,vo in k bety ko theek kr dy gee
jazakallah sir for this wonderful video and Women should be able to earn before marriage this line hits my heart. May allah pak bless you with a lot of happiness sir
Masha Allah, good to listen this conversation as, I m looking a partner for myself a girl practicing Muslim, family oriented, done any Islamic education, person with pure heart, should be sincere, caring & loving with good moral values.
Life is very unpredictable a girl must learn and acquire all the skills to earn enough to support herself and her parents as well EDUCATION IS A LIFETIME INVESTMENT for a person to become the productive members of the society.
کیا بات ہے۔۔۔ "آپ نے مجھے تھپڑ مارا کوئی بات نہیں۔ مجھے بس وجہ بتا دیں کہ کیوں مارا وہ میں آئندہ نہیں کروں گی۔ اور اسکے بعد اس بات کے لئے آپ نے مجھے تھپڑ نہیں مارنا، کسی اور نئی بات کے لئے بے شک مار لجیئے گا، اور مارنے کے بعد اسکی بھی وجہ بتانی ہے تاکہ میں وہ بھی دوبارہ نہ کروں۔" شادی کے شروعاتی دس سالوں میں جب ہر نئی بات پر تھپڑ پڑے گا تو عورت تقریباً وہ سب کچھ کرنا بند کر چکی ہو گی جو شوہر کو ٹھیک نہیں لگتا، یوں اسکی باقی کی زندگی تھپڑ کھائے بغیر ہنسی خوشی گزرے گی۔ کیا مشورہ ہے۔
Sir Allah ap ko Jaza day i implemented your advices on my children AlhamduLiLLah getting good response Sir please do some work to improve education system of Government sector .i Am a teacher and really want to improve education system for the people who are below poverty line.
Sohar agar dusri shadi kr liya ho pr jisse dusri shadi Kiya usko pta hi nhi ki uske sohar ki dusri shadi ho rhi h ...bad me pta chalene pr kya Krna chahiye plz btaye😢😢😢😢
Wao 😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤ thanks alott alishey sweat hear 🫀 bhot fantastic epi thi ❤❤❤ Dil kush kr diya jus epi men sikander and shazal scenes hon us epi ko to phir chae Chand lg jaty hen yahooi 🥳🥳🥳🥳 Plz bta dena na sikander and lashariyon ka kya talak he apas men? 😢plz plz bta den alishey Jan ❤❤ Kl ki epi men gazi and paroo k romantic scenes chahiyen plz plzzzzzzzzzzzzxz
Very very true sir . This topic mostly not discussed before merriage, this is the reason we see broken family children and they suffer all their life. This is a very important topic.I request you to make a series of videos on this topic individually for both.And parents and girls and boys must learn how to run family. I believe that there should be some institutions where every girl and boy must teach about martial life at least 3 months lectures. And should be mandatory to attend before going to a new journey. I have a question sir, To drive on roads driving licence is mandatory,then why we ignore our whole journey of life, how can we start without training....????
Sir u r v great 👍🏻 v well said . But somewhere our society has face this issue nd sufer from it that ye 3 point k hoty b girl stand ni le pati bcx there is no back nd moral support with girls .
In India many Muslims don't have much Idea about halal and haram..they use religion according to their needs..they think if a woman works then she is doing something haram on the other hand they make women stay in joint family system after marriage where lots of haram mingling of non mehrams happen in the name of family bonding and relationships.. it's so hard to maintain hijab for women after marriage as non mehrams roam around the house half naked and women are forced to talk unnecessarily with those non mehrams in the name of creating a "happy family image"...I am suffering from this torture daily after marriage... When I protest I become the villain.. Only Allah can save us Indian Muslimahs...May Allah protect us from haram and guide everyone around us to the right path..🤲..Ameen
3sri bat si ni lagi mn bh lrki hn lekin mn khud ye bat k ri hn k agr mard 2sri shadi krns chahy kisi or aurat ko bh psnd kry 2 ya 3 shadian smbhal skta ho insaf kr skta ho sari bviyon k sath to usy rokna ni chahiye ye uska haq hy
Sir Im a doctor was persuing plab when a rishta came from USA, rishta hogya lrka b doctor tha lekin steps nhi diye hue thy so nikkah jaldi hoa ky immgration file honi h nikkah ky bd pata laga they didnt want me to persue my profession, pehle nikkah se ok tha phr kam krna h tooh ghr ko zarurat ha too apna shoq matter nhi krta phr mera visa file nhi kiya aur ruksati ka kehty thy aur phr jab yeh major issues py mere family bt krti rhi tooh khty thy bete ka ghar kharab kr rhy phr divorce deky oska b blame mere py aur mere family py dal diya apki waja se hoi h rahi sahi kasar overseas thy pakistan mein jahez b mangty thy 😂😂 mtlb mein koi behns baakri ho ?
Mere ammi abbu mere cousin se meri shadi krana chahte or mujhe usse shadi nhi krni h .....mai ne har reason ghar walo ko bataya lekin wo sun nhi rahe wo khete h beta izzat hai shaadi karlo....mai shadi kr to rahi hu.....but I don't think so that I will be able to handle a relationship between husband and wife' please guide me
as always Sir words taught me and gave me renewed perspective on life. I have a son and a daughter and I will teach them these life skills...sir kindly do a talk on Makafat e Amaal.
I completely agree with all of these ,afsos bus itna hay k nand ho ya sas ,bahu ho ya devrani jithani, koi b rishta ho zuban ki talkhi or najaiz Tano se jhagray karwadeti hain Ghar me😢
I am 22 and just got engaged couple of days ago, and i really do even think about my girl’s family, how would i help em, make em feel like am there son, i liked ur vid sir, but let me tell u ash kal larkiyaaan khud itni chalak b hoti hain kuch they mill make uuu fight with em, and will blame everything on u, well this is a different topic, i will not talk bout this.
Aaj kl lrki ko disease ho jai na tou us ko bohat tana detai hai or kehtai mere betai ki zindagi kharab kr di hai. Or beta bhi kehta kai tum logo nai meri zindagi kharab kr di hai or phir us ko chor deta hai. Or tou us ko husband honai ka pata hi nhi hai tou iss barai mei batain
As a Boy : Physically, Emotionally, intelligently and spiritual you must be able to handle as a Head of the family after your marriage
who said that you are the head of family
Quranic Reference:
Surah An-Nisa (4:34) states: "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them excel the other, and because they spend from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in the husband’s absence what Allah orders them to guard."
Hadith Reference:
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The leader is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. A man is the shepherd of his family and he is responsible for his flock." (Reported in Sahih Muslim)
but being head doesn't mean that family will do what I would say it means that both .must have . mutual respect for each other opinion but they should decide mutually everything because though Muhammad was a prophet but he always used to take advices from companion in wars etc etc
Great job....@@User46830
Financially bhul gaye?😊 isi ke basis pe solely Aaj rishte hote
@@FaizMuhammad-l7t.. q apki mama head of the family hai?wo bahr jati ha kmaati hai ghr chlaati hai?? Obviously father he hai.
Ajeeb jahil sawal hai duffer
I am from India the same problem here also. Nobbody teaches how to run the family life. Your video very nicely explained. Going to share with all my friends. Thanks
Aap ki baten soon kar aisa laga ki mere father ek great person h , unho ne mujhe aur meri bahan ko job karne ke qabil banaya aur hum dono bahan government teacher h🇮🇳
@@homaansar5082 Mashaalah 🥰 lovely To hear..!!Your Dad made you to become G;both sisters to BE EDUCATED TO BECOME MASHAALAH,BY HIM..TO BOTH HANDLED & CARRY job S IN INDIA ..FEMALES👐🙏🏽💚 MASHALAH 👐;!/JOB Kabul..n govt teachers!
Mental torture and disrespectful abusive behaviour is a Red Line too
Yes, respect is necessary
Choti si video ma kitna example denge 😅😊
Indeed, as an Islamic therapist I agree completely with you and pre marriage counseling is a need of hour.
Alhumdulilah My Dear sir ... Me or meri soch bilkul esi hi jesi aapne byaan ki.... I'm from India.& 21 yrs old..... Or Khushi ki baat ye hai I'm not married 😅... I'm student and running my own business 😅..... Thank you so much My dear sir...
I watched your all videos 📸.. that's are wonderful 💯💯 good 😊.. and very knowledgeable..
May Allah bless you with happiness and long life 🧬..
I wish I meet you and talk to you...😊
Which business
MashaAllah
That is one of the reasons of marriage failure in our society
No talk to keep the marriage
Only focus is on wedding events
Thank you sir
3:27 Sir Mental and emotional abuse are equally as important as physical abuse , physical absue k nishan to atleast nazar aa jatay hain par mental ya emotional abuse k koi nishan bhi nahi dikhtay!
Literally it's very painful and life draining 😢
True yehi Mai b khty Hun ar Meray sth b yehi hva Hy lakin wohi bat Hy sb ki lgta Hy bhul jayo batein he tu hain
Wahi to baat ker rahe hain ke jab had se baat barh jaye. Eik had tak hi sun saktay hain baatein bhi.
Bhai choti si video mein kya kya batayenge 😂
Self dependence is inevitable for girls but she must have a talent of handling situations with a calm mind not emotionally because there's left no care for emotions in this society.
For the most she must be skilled at stress management!!!
Nobody has ever explained this issue so well in just 5 minutes. Well said sir.
Wonderful father, wonderful husband and a wonderful flower of Nabi qk hmare nabiyo ne b yahi seekhaya h
Well said sir...being a girl if these three thing are being taught to a girl she will not feel supressed..and feel empowered
Wah, ma sha Allah sir! Kia hi mukhtasir magr jamih jawab dia, aap jaisay log hi hamaro society ka sarmaya hain! Allah aapko emaan or sehat mandi wali hayat dain.
Turns out only 2% muslims actually know this these days!
But alhamdullilah now I know it and will Insha’Allah reflect on it. ❤
Ham angreez nhe hai.
Hum logo Pakistan Mai rehta hain.joint family mai senior citizen ki baat mani jati Hain.
Aur life Ka matlab he yahi Hain k day to day develop hota hai.har chee spiritually,parenting , tolerance,jahdad ,joint family ,job yah sub perfect nhe hosakhta.
Exactly I am proud of you sir laki kbi b independent na ho mera girls ko ye advice Hy k Sab sy pehly apna name bty apna career set kry then shadi Kuch nhi pra shadi main ❤
Very informative,buchion ko to parents bht kuchh smjha k bhejtay but afsos k bigray huay beton ki shadian krty aur ye smjhty k jo bahoo aey gi,vo in k bety ko theek kr dy gee
Jab rishte kewal paison ke basis pe honge to ye hoga.
A good mentor JazakAllah sir
My father passed away n i listen you as my father gave me advice
Thank you sir for giving such marvellous advice😊
jazakallah sir for this wonderful video and Women should be able to earn before marriage this line hits my heart.
May allah pak bless you with a lot of happiness sir
Masha Allah, good to listen this conversation as, I m looking a partner for myself a girl practicing Muslim, family oriented, done any Islamic education, person with pure heart, should be sincere, caring & loving with good moral values.
Shukr h Kisi n asy baton ko b issue smjaaa
Well said. About grooming of both male and female for starting a new family. Especially the part about the red line for girls is such valuable advice.
Bohat khubsurat baateyn.
Betyun ko empower kareyn
M not married butt sb ase sochty k shyad ma ni krna chahti btt real baat ye ha k ma darti hun aj k zamany ki shadi se...
Just have faith in Allah and dua karein ke wo apko ek pious spouse de
اسلام علیکم ،
سرجی ، اللّٰہ سب کو نیک ہدایت دے آمین ۔
🌙🌹⭐
Mashahallah ❤allah aap ko salamat rakhe ❤
Alhamdullilah my parent told me these things and also empowers me in doing so❤
Bohat eham issue uthaya ap ny aj kal ka❤❤❤❤
Life is very unpredictable a girl must learn and acquire all the skills to earn enough to support herself and her parents as well EDUCATION IS A LIFETIME INVESTMENT for a person to become the productive members of the society.
کیا بات ہے۔۔۔ "آپ نے مجھے تھپڑ مارا کوئی بات نہیں۔ مجھے بس وجہ بتا دیں کہ کیوں مارا وہ میں آئندہ نہیں کروں گی۔ اور اسکے بعد اس بات کے لئے آپ نے مجھے تھپڑ نہیں مارنا، کسی اور نئی بات کے لئے بے شک مار لجیئے گا، اور مارنے کے بعد اسکی بھی وجہ بتانی ہے تاکہ میں وہ بھی دوبارہ نہ کروں۔" شادی کے شروعاتی دس سالوں میں جب ہر نئی بات پر تھپڑ پڑے گا تو عورت تقریباً وہ سب کچھ کرنا بند کر چکی ہو گی جو شوہر کو ٹھیک نہیں لگتا، یوں اسکی باقی کی زندگی تھپڑ کھائے بغیر ہنسی خوشی گزرے گی۔ کیا مشورہ ہے۔
😂😂😂
Bs ab aisa hi 10 thapar shohar ko bhi parhna chahiya taka usa bhi pata Chala ka usna kiya karna ha or kiya nahi karna ha
Sir Allah ap ko Jaza day i implemented your advices on my children AlhamduLiLLah getting good response
Sir please do some work to improve education system of Government sector .i Am a teacher and really want to improve education system for the people who are below poverty line.
JazakAllah
Your wisdom will benefit many.
In'sha'Allah
Sohar agar dusri shadi kr liya ho pr jisse dusri shadi Kiya usko pta hi nhi ki uske sohar ki dusri shadi ho rhi h ...bad me pta chalene pr kya Krna chahiye plz btaye😢😢😢😢
Wao 😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤ thanks alott alishey sweat hear 🫀 bhot fantastic epi thi ❤❤❤
Dil kush kr diya jus epi men sikander and shazal scenes hon us epi ko to phir chae Chand lg jaty hen yahooi 🥳🥳🥳🥳
Plz bta dena na sikander and lashariyon ka kya talak he apas men? 😢plz plz bta den alishey Jan ❤❤
Kl ki epi men gazi and paroo k romantic scenes chahiyen plz plzzzzzzzzzzzzxz
Very very true sir . This topic mostly not discussed before merriage, this is the reason we see broken family children and they suffer all their life. This is a very important topic.I request you to make a series of videos on this topic individually for both.And parents and girls and boys must learn how to run family.
I believe that there should be some institutions where every girl and boy must teach about martial life at least 3 months lectures. And should be mandatory to attend before going to a new journey.
I have a question sir, To drive on roads driving licence is mandatory,then why we ignore our whole journey of life, how can we start without training....????
Bahut kub good 👏👏👏
Bahut pyari bat batai sir aapne Allah aapko salamat rakhe aameen ❤
Mashallah uncle g bht pyri btyn ki apny
😊😊bhut sukoon mili sunkr
JAZAKALLAH sir ...please aik video boys ki tarbiayt pe b bnayen i want to teach my son all these things which are necessary
Sir u r v great 👍🏻 v well said . But somewhere our society has face this issue nd sufer from it that ye 3 point k hoty b girl stand ni le pati bcx there is no back nd moral support with girls .
Mashallah ❤❤bht bdiya baat btayi h❤❤
In India many Muslims don't have much Idea about halal and haram..they use religion according to their needs..they think if a woman works then she is doing something haram on the other hand they make women stay in joint family system after marriage where lots of haram mingling of non mehrams happen in the name of family bonding and relationships.. it's so hard to maintain hijab for women after marriage as non mehrams roam around the house half naked and women are forced to talk unnecessarily with those non mehrams in the name of creating a "happy family image"...I am suffering from this torture daily after marriage... When I protest I become the villain.. Only Allah can save us Indian Muslimahs...May Allah protect us from haram and guide everyone around us to the right path..🤲..Ameen
Apna bilkul thk kaha sir laiken jo apna as pas ky logon ky dar ke wja sy bate ko daba kar rakhna cahta hain kaya keya jay
3sri bat si ni lagi mn bh lrki hn lekin mn khud ye bat k ri hn k agr mard 2sri shadi krns chahy kisi or aurat ko bh psnd kry 2 ya 3 shadian smbhal skta ho insaf kr skta ho sari bviyon k sath to usy rokna ni chahiye ye uska haq hy
Jazakillah sir.Allah apko Iska ajer ata farmae ameen.summa ameen .Allah dunya akhirat Mai ajer ata farmae ameen
Great top tips thanks you so much 4:53 ⌚🎁♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🤗👍
Thank you sir as a girls Allahhumdlilah i have all skils ❤
Well explaination sir,
JazakAllah ul khair for this motivational lecture
Great tips. Fully agree.
Sb se kaam ki BAAT women employment aur unky potential to actualize karny ki apny last mein rakhdi. I think this is the most important one
MashaAllah nice lecture
Yra Aryan ka part itna km aik toh wait kra bht fir bi😢😢😢sad im
Sir Im a doctor was persuing plab when a rishta came from USA, rishta hogya lrka b doctor tha lekin steps nhi diye hue thy so nikkah jaldi hoa ky immgration file honi h nikkah ky bd pata laga they didnt want me to persue my profession, pehle nikkah se ok tha phr kam krna h tooh ghr ko zarurat ha too apna shoq matter nhi krta phr mera visa file nhi kiya aur ruksati ka kehty thy aur phr jab yeh major issues py mere family bt krti rhi tooh khty thy bete ka ghar kharab kr rhy phr divorce deky oska b blame mere py aur mere family py dal diya apki waja se hoi h rahi sahi kasar overseas thy pakistan mein jahez b mangty thy 😂😂 mtlb mein koi behns baakri ho ?
Mashallah bhout achi baat boli I dizar that
Sir agr joint family mn...baqi bachay apny bachun ko maran to kya krn...wo umer mn kafi baray .... tolerate krn ya defense krn?
Respected sir, m your biggest fan, you are angel for us
Problem is tis ; daughters n sons r excessively pampered, also independent decision making is zero in husbands as well,
Dil khush hogaya sunke sir
Beautifully answered Sir
Girls fir very important massage given this speech thankyou sir
Sab dua Karen mera garaz hai 15000 ada ho jaey 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 bht tang krte hain humain hamre pas nh hain itny pasy Roz mere shohar ki tazleel hoti hh
Allah bas itny da dai ye e dua hh smjh nh ati kuch🥺🙂
Beshak Allah bless
Wow sar so good 👌👌👌
Best words ❤❤
Sir Pls make video on__
👉 Martial Education &
👉 Parenting Education.
Sir sai bat but 3rd bat shoher k yaluqat py hangama HOTA ha per dono family side Sy female ko hi sunanty ha k her ha koi bat ni larka ha
sir mai aap ki sari bato sa shamat ho ❣thank you so mach sir
You are absolutely right Sir….God bless you!
Bht zabrdust sometime i think on this topic . jazakallahukhairan
Nice Advice. 👍
Bahut achha laga
Agar itna sochana padega to Aadhi duniya kunwari rah jayegi. .😂
Shadian kro pr bachy na peda kro phr.
Aaj ke mashre mea aadhi ladkiya ladke kuwari hi hai is se acha hai hum soche samhje aur zimmedari ke sath new responsibility le.
I love you Dr saab
From India aap se bht kuch seekhne ko milta h
A great teacher ❤
Nice update sir
Thanks from India ❤
Sir bhut khub kaha h ap ne
Masha Allah JazakAllah
Masha ALLAH bhut hi khub sir khub 👌👌
Red line
Haram rizq
Physical slap
Extramarital affairs
Mere ammi abbu mere cousin se meri shadi krana chahte or mujhe usse shadi nhi krni h .....mai ne har reason ghar walo ko bataya lekin wo sun nhi rahe wo khete h beta izzat hai shaadi karlo....mai shadi kr to rahi hu.....but I don't think so that I will be able to handle a relationship between husband and wife' please guide me
as always Sir words taught me and gave me renewed perspective on life. I have a son and a daughter and I will teach them these life skills...sir kindly do a talk on Makafat e Amaal.
I completely agree with all of these ,afsos bus itna hay k nand ho ya sas ,bahu ho ya devrani jithani, koi b rishta ho zuban ki talkhi or najaiz Tano se jhagray karwadeti hain Ghar me😢
Agreed
Sir you are very important advice for us❤ thanks
great speech sir...🎉🎉
Thank you sir 👍
Kindly reply....meri susral mn yhi bari problem ha...
Doctor tesri bt btai nhe k agr husband ka ksi or se afair ho to uspe kya krna chaey ye b btao na?
I am agree with you sir ji
Superb concept 🎉
Sir you are doing great job love from heart. Today I learned to be prepared as a good husband.
Thank you sir
Tolerance and endurance?????
I am 22 and just got engaged couple of days ago, and i really do even think about my girl’s family, how would i help em, make em feel like am there son, i liked ur vid sir, but let me tell u ash kal larkiyaaan khud itni chalak b hoti hain kuch they mill make uuu fight with em, and will blame everything on u, well this is a different topic, i will not talk bout this.
Mashallah nice informations
Aaj kl lrki ko disease ho jai na tou us ko bohat tana detai hai or kehtai mere betai ki zindagi kharab kr di hai. Or beta bhi kehta kai tum logo nai meri zindagi kharab kr di hai or phir us ko chor deta hai. Or tou us ko husband honai ka pata hi nhi hai tou iss barai mei batain
Masha Allah
Thanks for your good advice.