True love isn’t just about desires - it’s about destiny. Still, not every story unfolds the way we hope. What If Marriage Isn’t Meant for This Life? Watch here: th-cam.com/video/6n7mMereSmg/w-d-xo.html
As for me I like to be careful with this speaker Omar Suleiman and NAK some are been influenced by the w*ke movement and modern feminism. There has been some controversy regarding this some of his organization leadership expressing Muslims support certain secular causes. They are push sisters to get degrees instead helping build the ummah with family. By the way we have to also address staying single does not mean having a boyfriend, or falling to haram. So is he suggesting that women men fast for life? Just think in their careers they are going to interact with the opposite gender, thus, desires, fitna will be there! Just image you are saying you will NEVER get married, you are surrounded by desires workplace, school, etc and expect nothing to happen. Seriously? He is pushing sisters into fornication sad to say it.
What about if a mother willingly keeping her daughter to look after the mother?? Even if the daughter wants to get married and the mother keeps rejecting proposals for the daughter?? Explain this
rarely does it takes place and if daughter really wants to get married the mother is mother it’s well explained by somebody or the other as it’s a life not a fiction book for a mother to daughter
@ yeah But mother will always want partner for a daughter or she will make the daughter so strong it’s ok even if you not married eventually destiny will also play role too according to situation
Im a 48 year old revert ( i took the shahada in January 2024 ) Im truly believe that love is not for me . I got married two a guy that i though was a nice respectful religious man . But he became very abusive after the nikah. Im disabled and i have a disabled daughter . The little energy and strength that i have i use to do household chores and helping my daughter. Not entertaining abusive bad people.
My sister in deen, may Allah bless you and your daughter with ease, happiness, good beneficial health and peace, bless you and your daughter in this world and the next, ameen.
Thank you for this lesson. I am still single in my 35 yo and as a woman i feel insecure. People said that women are different than men. They have "expired date", term that really is rude toward all women. I believe that Allah SWT has another plan for me. That this is not my time yet and Allah SWT gives me a time to develop and grow, become the better me. Yet, that term (and any sinister people said toward single women) are really hard to hear. Thank you for remind me, that we should not give up hope about our future. If married is not for us in this life, than its for us in Jannah. InshaaAllah. Aameen.
Sweet sister, don't worry if you are still unmarried at age 35. If it is any consolation, I am still unmarried at age 42. Can you believe that? 42 years old and still a spinster - not 42 and a widow or a divorcee, oh no, but 42 and a spinster. So it's not that I was married once but then either my husband died or me and my husband split up. It's that I have NEVER been married at all. I was going to get married in the year 2019. I thought after 36 years of waiting, I had finally found my match. But to my horror, my fiance broke it off because we were different races and his mother didn't want his wife to be a different race Muslim woman. As soon as she heard that I was a different race to them, she just straight away turned me down without first meeting me and talking to me and getting to know me! As if that is Islam! The Christian lady who lives next door to me was flabbergasted when she heard that my ex-fiance's mother just rashly turned me down without even meeting me and getting to know me. Now I am living a life of misery, my ex-fiance is living a life of misery - he shot himself in the foot when he jilted me - and his mother, who has not seen him for over a decade, is living a life of misery too. So not just one life, but THREE lives have been ruined as a result of my ex-fiance being forced to end his relationship with me. And also take no notice of all these low mentality and narrow-minded people who tell you that women are different to men and so women have an "expiry date". You're right. This is very rude and disrespectful towards us women. It is a totally sexist and misogynistic attitude towards women. One massive lesson I have learned is to listen more attentively and more carefully to Allah when He speaks to our hearts instead of going by what people say. Then we will be better guided. And don't let anybody tell you that if you have become over 30 or reached 40 or older, you will not be able to get pregnant and conceive. That is not necessarily true. Yes, it is a scientific truth that a woman is more fertile and better able to conceive and get pregnant if she is young, meaning in her twenties and early thirties, but that once a woman reaches her mid thirties and late thirties, her fertility decreases and it is harder for her to conceive and get pregnant; and then when a woman is 40 or older, her fertility decreases even more and it is even harder for her to get pregnant and conceive. Yes, in theory that is the case. But in actual reality that is not necessarily the case. If you refer to the Quran, Prophet Zakariyya AS said that he had grown old and his hair had become grey and that his wife had also grown old and was barren, so he would not be able to have a child. Then Allah the Almighty revealed to him that if He wants him to have a child, then He can make him still have a child regardless of the fact that he is an old man with grey hair and that his wife is an old and barren woman. And also Maryam RA the mother of Prophet Isa AS was able to get pregnant and conceive and have a child without being married and without ever being with a man. She thought it was impossible for her to have a child because she was unmarried and without a husband i.e., a man. Then she was told that even if she is a virgin woman who has never been with a man, Allah can easily make her still have a child if He wants her to have a child. Aisha RA was 6 at the youngest or 9 at the oldest when she married Prophet Muhammad SAWS and 18 when he died and she became widowed, but she didn't have any children. Whereas Khadijah RA was 40 when she married Prophet Muhammad SAWS but she still had children, and as many as 6. Two of my female cousins were both 18 when they got married, but they never had any children. Whereas an aunt of mine was 35 when she got married and then had a child at age 43. I went to a Muslim marriage event to search for a husband and heard that a woman had a baby at age 47. Janet Jackson was pregnant at age 50 and Naomi Campbell had a child when she was 50 or in her late forties. So whether you have children or not is not about your age or when you marry. It's all about the will of Allah. If Allah has written offspring in your fate, you will have offspring regardless of when you marry and who you marry. And if Allah hasn't written offspring in your fate, then you will not have any offspring regardless of when you marry and who you marry. If you reach quite old age and your womb has "dried up" then of course Allah the Almighty Who created you and your body and Who has power over all things can bring "moisture" back to your womb and thereby "wetten" your womb again so that you regain fertility. So please ignore the spiteful, nasty things people say, and also ignore Shaytan's waswasah and just have faith in Allah. Hope this helps. Feel free to contact me if you feel upset or if I can help in any other way. Best wishes. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
That's so sad that people accuse women for everything even those things that are destined.. such people should taste the bitterness of life so that they get to be more sensitive
@@umamahtahir2321 Yes, I agree with you. That is so sad that women get the blame for everything - even those things that are luck/fortune/fate/destiny and which are the will of Allah the Almighty. But please read the reply above that I gave to the sister. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
@@umamahtahir2321 Thank you very much. And may Allah bless you both too. By the way, in case you don't know, there is a very good Muslim marriage website called Pure Matrimony.
I was married but now am a single mother. I am not in a rush to marry again. I am waiting for allahs sign. My childeren are happy I am. And also I get to spend life with my old aged parents who are so vulnerable. I say allhumdulilallah im put in this position maybe allah put me in this position for that reason. Inshallah I get remarried because I loved being married but if it happens it happens if it dosent then maybe it wasent written for me to happen once again. What ever but I'm thankfull for the lessons and the knowledge
It’s all about rida (contentment) and qana'ah (satisfaction) with what Allah (SWT) has chosen for us. Both marriage and singlehood are tests in their own ways. Marriage doesn’t guarantee Jannah, and being single doesn’t make you immoral, unworthy, or incomplete. In fact, being single can give you the time and space to better understand yourself and deepen your connection with Allah (SWT). As a single Muslim woman, I wholeheartedly embrace what Allah (SWT) has destined for me. I don’t see marriage as the ultimate purpose of my life. My priority is to love Allah (SWT) above all else, keep Him at the center of every decision I make, and strive to please Him with the circumstances, resources, and abilities He has granted me. And honestly, this brings me so much peace, alhamdulillah 😌
I had so many questions related to this topic, and I found answers to all of them in this video. This didn’t appear accidentally; it’s also part of Allah's plan. May Allah create ease for all of us. Ameen.
Im not married 😊 but I'm working on myself i only want to please Allah SWT people gossip regardless if your married or not i don't live for toxic people's words do what is right for you if you want marriage first become what your looking for if you want to work on your faith then strengthen that bond. No one has the answers for anyone else's story accept Allah SWT keep the yaqeen certainty or strong belief in the All knowing.
❤Jazak Allah khair, brother, YOU have no idea how many women NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. We have Naik going on and on about unmarried women are Market Properties
I got rejected for being overweight (everybody has preferences so I dont blame them). So I'm gonna take care of my parents, until Allah paak commands me otherwise. They've loved me all my life and never made me feel that being overweight meant I didn't deserve to be a part of their family. Why would I leave them and go live with someone else? I'm happy taking care of my parents in their old age and playing with my siblings' children.
@@sittingduck1735 sister you can also start working on your health and weight- its good for your own confidence. and dont take any rejections to heart, they are mere humans- you take care of yourself
I needed this man phew feels so relieved, sometimes you feel doing wrong by not getting married, but this gives hope if not here perhaps in next life 👍
I honestly think the people who unfortunately struggle to find a life partner might still b okay n at peace with what’s written in their fate but our own Muslim society who we have to be a part of we cannot isolate from them . They make it the worst for u . They themselves know we can’t change what Allah has written for us . U cannot go to war with him u cannot go in battle with him but they keep poking you . DONT MAKE A VIDEO on giving hope to those who are meant to be alone but make a video for THE UMMAH our bad brothers and sisters who need to learn to also accept and behave and not hurt people for it . Shameless community
Indeed. I am happy because there's like no barrier between me and my Rabb. It's my family and surroundings that's seeing 30+ years old unmarried women like jink
For all of you guys older than 25, my Muslim momma (she guided me into Islam, and us not my blood mother) she just got married at 45, Alhamdullilah. There is still a chance for us more mature, wiser women. Subhanallah 🩷
Interesting. Every single unmarried middle-aged woman I ever encountered at work was miserable and took their frustration out on colleagues through passive aggressive behaviour, especially when they assumed positions of power!
@@Zzzzzddddd-e7z true but its rare as people dont really follow true faith and people let their animal instincts take over. this may sound biased but studies have proven it- men generally take advantage of all established systems like for eg marriage.
@@hashh2019married narcissistic men destroy women mentally, physically and financially -- they destroy their children too. Devils disguised as "husbands". Eternal damnation!
Assalamualaikum Yemeni sister . Is your story true ? I am seeing it everywhere. If it’s true , I pray Allah swt eases . Even if it’s not , I pray that Allah swt solves it for you so that you don’t have to scam people for living
the sister of yemen changing tactic by not mentioning 'she' is from yemen anymore but the comments remain same. Long can copy pasted everywhere using different accounts.
But in this world full of fitnah, it is tough for both men and women to stay pure and chaste without marriage. So this video can be acceptable for those who can control their desires, but for those who cannot, what is the solution?
I'm a 28 year old woman livin' in north India! The man I'm looking for is the man who can lead me to Jannah! The man with taqwa!! Which I haven't found yet ! No I'm not finding I'm just praying for thay righteous spouse ! I hope I will meet him in this lifetime nd the hereafter!
@Donotcare6 naah he is not in my mosque I'm living in a village nd that village contains only my family nd either they're my uncle's or nephews! Nd secondly I live in Gujarat India where muslims are away from Islam! I' myself don't belongs to a practicing family and that's why it's my dream to have my practicing muslim family!
Me too with the age of 35y woman. By seeing harrasment in many marriages, i denied to marry. But because of pressure from all sides i had to agree to a proposal that i thought allah had sent that for me. After marriage i came to know that i married to a toxic person.i left him. It happened 5y ago. But still the society is blaming my parents for my 2nd marriage. Because I'm a woman. But i don't want to take a choice called marriage in my life again. Still I have been feeling very bad about toxic marriage. What should I do now?
Alhumdulliah I am still single, even when I looked for a spouse, no one came so the brother confirms that Allah decree rules over the world. Stay strong, keep on trying, be patient and steadfast. The beauty of the righteous woman, outshines the hoori in Jannah.
I am 27 years old, and I’m scared of getting married because of the way things are in today’s world. I’m afraid of getting attached to someone, and more importantly, I worry about what would happen if I marry someone who doesn’t like my mom. My mom means everything to me❤she’s the only family I have now. I lost my father when I was just 4 years old, and she single-handedly raised me. That’s why I’m scared,I want to take care of her, and I don’t want anything to jeopardize our bond .
Im from Bosnia 🇧🇦 and refugees since 1992, and still im today 2024- 2025 ,I never find my soul mate, or something is wrong with me, but I beleive on mercy of my Allah svt that he forgive me ,or I will find out inshallah at day when I stand front of dear ALLAH SVT 💖., did i make something SIN AND I WAS PUNISH FOR THAT. BUT STILL DEAR ALLAH SVT HAVE MERCY ON ALL OF US ,AND ME TO.😢❤😊
Respectfully, Allah SWT is infinitely loving and merciful and He wants us to be happy in this world and the next. The problem is with us and our families. Bad decisions taken with respect to marriage in our lives result in bad consequences. We listen to advice from family rather than sticking to what's right and what's wrong. A lot of people miss the joys of a marriage, love, children and a home because of pressures and the controlling attitudes of family. And the only person who suffers is the one who was obedient and caring. Fulfill all your responsibilities but always keep yourself as priority number one. We have one life to live and Allah SWT wants us to live it the right way and live it good. Own our actions, recognize the truth and take control of our lives because no one except us will live the consequences in this world and answer for it in the Hereafter.
Are you sure your brain function correctly ? Since when children get married? Are you sure you’re an adult ? Seeing your idiotic comment, it doesn’t seem like an adult.
Modern life is designed to be lived alone. The focus is on personal growth and success. If one or both come with this mentality, it will quickly become toxic. Unfortunately, we grew up with these ideas, and they permeate all facets of society. It's unfortunate that most women I know actually don't want a career, work in the office, and be a provider. They actually want a more natural life. Unfortunately, they have no choice because the men have been taught that careers are an end in themselves and the only thing worthy of praise. For their own security, women have no choice but to work, and this actually makes everyone miserable. The current era is anti-family, and it's effects are disastrous. I suggest having look at the depression rates in the US. And suicidal tendencies amongst young girls especially (CDC and APA data). Also, Iceland's depression data "the happiest country in the world" according to the most materialistic metrics.
It's not true. There are entitled muslim sisters who day contradictory stuff like "I want to retire early" and when you tell them you would provide and she doesn't have to work, she'll say "nah I wanna work" like dude you can't have it both ways. I think the society in the west suffers because the dad's are too lenient on their daughters and have spoiled them. They want to be provided for without giving anything in return
@@yuppieyup8188Give women the option to stay at home, and most of them willl take it UNLESS it comes with disrespect and feeling of unappreciation. Theyve seen that women who stayed at home were disrespected and also exploited for household labour, so they rather work, atleast they can spend on themselves, and be appreciated for their work.
Just like parents. Great parents are blessings. But not everyone gets a great one. They are form of Rizq, but parents are even worse, we couldn’t even choose. We were born from 2 people we didn’t even know about. So yes romance is a Rizq, we might get one now, later, or sooner. Or even not at all in this Dunya. The only problem about marriage is society, and Nafs. In many cases people who haven’t get married yet feel left behind and society just keep pushing em to get one. Or maybe some couldn’t hold their nafs anymore that’s why they feel stressed out.
Is it a sin if v don't get married....as I know marriage completes half of our iman... what is the ruling in islam if v remain unmarried....plz explain me if anybody knows...
Now I'm married for 13 years and definitely marriage is highly difficult where only patience works...had i known this that being unmarried is k in islam i couldn't have...now I realise how important it is to seek knowledge about deen
@rafatmunshi3572 depends on the person and their circumstances. For some, they should get married, others preferably get married as a sunnah, for some even haram to get married.
@@Rasheeda-vo5qc patience works in everything. Grass is always greener on the other side. Be thankful for what you have. A lot of people would kill for being married
Its allowed not to get married if you don't want to. Also if you cannot control yourself like wanting to intimate with someone then you must get married
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You will not be the first there are millions who have not married and will not. Ask them what’s happened with them for the answer you want to know
Just like the case of abu hurairrah I'm single at the age of 35 because of not being rich and women don't like me when they come to know or assess that I have nothing to offer. Maybe, this is my destiny/qadr and I'm okay with it because I can't change the divine scheme of events. Although, I'm trying to earn halal wealth but I'm unsuccessful so far. So, I'm content with what is waiting for me in jannah because at the end I'm going to die, for how long will I live, no one knows except Allah. I pray Allah to have the end of a firm believer in Him no matter how hard this life is, I pray Allah for a blessed hereafter 🤲🤲🤲🤲 ameen, suma ameen
Allah prohibits us to drink wine in this dunya, but, in jannah He provide us rivers and one of them is a wine river. I am sure that it will taste amazing, since it is supposed to be a reward to people who restraint themselves from haram things in this dunya. Jannah is so different from this dunya, and we can't imagine how amazing and beautiful it is. Ofc the spouse in jannah will be your ultimate rizq and reward, He/She must be have amazing flawless character, and very beautiful in their looks. Yes, the most beautiful reward in Jannah is the connection with Allah, but I won't definitely refuse other beautiful rewards from Him.
But Allah creates everything in pair so it's highly recommended to marry if you feel it's right. Waiting for specific signs from Allah, you may not get it
Lesson lesson lesson lesson lesson lesson all the time. People need to have some relief and wish fulfillment from time to time in order to not go insane. But I guess we're supposed to just be taught a lesson all the time like naughty children
Al salamu 'alaykom wa rahmatu Allah wa barakatuh, please consider removing content in which women aren't correctly covered (showing more than hands and face) , drawings of living beings. We don't want to be the means of such things being normalized and replicated
Interesting. Every single unmarried middle-aged woman I ever encountered at work was miserable and took their frustration out on colleagues through passive aggressive behaviour, especially when they assumed positions of power!
But don't forget we are still human this way of thinking to not compare and be content is a massive test not everyone can do it, it's a struggle. They need to keep their faith in Allah everything happens for a reason.
Get rid of the thumbnail please. You are taking clips from scholars and daee’s and adding thumbnails that display women in public domain? Just for likes and hits you are doing this. Very bad on your part.
I don‘t think, that it is about avoiding marriage, but to have patience if one cannot get married. There are a lot of ppl out there, who really wish to get married, but cannot do so because of different reasons…
Marriage is not an obligation for everyone. For some it is, for others it is sunnah and preferred to do so, but there are people for whom it is not recommended or even HARAM to get married. No one should go around pressuring ppl to get married in the name of Islam.....
Keep brainwashing Muslim sisters not to get married while brothers are left unmarried. You're doing a disservice to the Ummah when Allah clearly says in the Quran to get married, but I'm sure you think you know better. “And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female slaves. If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing.” [24:32] Allah created Hawwa so that Adam could seek comfort in her, not for her to be "strong sand independent" and skip marriage. “And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He has placed between you compassion and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect.” (Quran, 30:21) If you think I'm wrong then provide evidence from the Quran or an authentic Hadith to support your liberal ideology?
Marriage is an option and decision.... it's not a compulsory.... everyone can make decisions on their own... If they don't want to get married at all.... it's none of your business.... understand?
True love isn’t just about desires - it’s about destiny. Still, not every story unfolds the way we hope. What If Marriage Isn’t Meant for This Life? Watch here: th-cam.com/video/6n7mMereSmg/w-d-xo.html
As for me I like to be careful with this speaker Omar Suleiman and NAK some are been influenced by the w*ke movement and modern feminism. There has been some controversy regarding this some of his organization leadership expressing Muslims support certain secular causes. They are push sisters to get degrees instead helping build the ummah with family. By the way we have to also address staying single does not mean having a boyfriend, or falling to haram. So is he suggesting that women men fast for life? Just think in their careers they are going to interact with the opposite gender, thus, desires, fitna will be there! Just image you are saying you will NEVER get married, you are surrounded by desires workplace, school, etc and expect nothing to happen. Seriously? He is pushing sisters into fornication sad to say it.
if i dont get married in this lifetime, i believe that i am meant to spend my life with my mother and taking care of her
What about if a mother willingly keeping her daughter to look after the mother?? Even if the daughter wants to get married and the mother keeps rejecting proposals for the daughter?? Explain this
@yasmindubey5092 This might be my case, but maybe taking care of my mother is my duty. If it's the easiest way to go to Jannah I can't complain
rarely does it takes place and if daughter really wants to get married the mother is mother it’s well explained by somebody or the other as it’s a life not a fiction book for a mother to daughter
@@asfinabhatia9155 maybe the mother doesn't have anyone else like family or husband. Or she is afraid to be left alone. It's possible.
@ yeah
But mother will always want partner for a daughter or she will make the daughter so strong it’s ok even if you not married eventually destiny will also play role too according to situation
Im a 48 year old revert ( i took the shahada in January 2024 )
Im truly believe that love is not for me .
I got married two a guy that i though was a nice respectful religious man . But he became very abusive after the nikah.
Im disabled and i have a disabled daughter . The little energy and strength that i have i use to do household chores and helping my daughter.
Not entertaining abusive bad people.
My sister in deen, may Allah bless you and your daughter with ease, happiness, good beneficial health and peace, bless you and your daughter in this world and the next, ameen.
I’m so sorry here that sister, may Allah bless you with good spouse
Sorry for happened to you
Sorry sis. May Allah SW make it easy for you
@@inaamina muslim men for you unfortunately. be careful, most can be vile and take advantage of your vulnerability . stick to God and self care.
Thank you for this lesson. I am still single in my 35 yo and as a woman i feel insecure. People said that women are different than men. They have "expired date", term that really is rude toward all women. I believe that Allah SWT has another plan for me. That this is not my time yet and Allah SWT gives me a time to develop and grow, become the better me. Yet, that term (and any sinister people said toward single women) are really hard to hear. Thank you for remind me, that we should not give up hope about our future. If married is not for us in this life, than its for us in Jannah. InshaaAllah. Aameen.
Sweet sister, don't worry if you are still unmarried at age 35. If it is any consolation, I am still unmarried at age 42. Can you believe that? 42 years old and still a spinster - not 42 and a widow or a divorcee, oh no, but 42 and a spinster. So it's not that I was married once but then either my husband died or me and my husband split up. It's that I have NEVER been married at all. I was going to get married in the year 2019. I thought after 36 years of waiting, I had finally found my match. But to my horror, my fiance broke it off because we were different races and his mother didn't want his wife to be a different race Muslim woman. As soon as she heard that I was a different race to them, she just straight away turned me down without first meeting me and talking to me and getting to know me! As if that is Islam! The Christian lady who lives next door to me was flabbergasted when she heard that my ex-fiance's mother just rashly turned me down without even meeting me and getting to know me. Now I am living a life of misery, my ex-fiance is living a life of misery - he shot himself in the foot when he jilted me - and his mother, who has not seen him for over a decade, is living a life of misery too. So not just one life, but THREE lives have been ruined as a result of my ex-fiance being forced to end his relationship with me.
And also take no notice of all these low mentality and narrow-minded people who tell you that women are different to men and so women have an "expiry date". You're right. This is very rude and disrespectful towards us women. It is a totally sexist and misogynistic attitude towards women. One massive lesson I have learned is to listen more attentively and more carefully to Allah when He speaks to our hearts instead of going by what people say. Then we will be better guided. And don't let anybody tell you that if you have become over 30 or reached 40 or older, you will not be able to get pregnant and conceive. That is not necessarily true. Yes, it is a scientific truth that a woman is more fertile and better able to conceive and get pregnant if she is young, meaning in her twenties and early thirties, but that once a woman reaches her mid thirties and late thirties, her fertility decreases and it is harder for her to conceive and get pregnant; and then when a woman is 40 or older, her fertility decreases even more and it is even harder for her to get pregnant and conceive. Yes, in theory that is the case. But in actual reality that is not necessarily the case. If you refer to the Quran, Prophet Zakariyya AS said that he had grown old and his hair had become grey and that his wife had also grown old and was barren, so he would not be able to have a child. Then Allah the Almighty revealed to him that if He wants him to have a child, then He can make him still have a child regardless of the fact that he is an old man with grey hair and that his wife is an old and barren woman. And also Maryam RA the mother of Prophet Isa AS was able to get pregnant and conceive and have a child without being married and without ever being with a man. She thought it was impossible for her to have a child because she was unmarried and without a husband i.e., a man. Then she was told that even if she is a virgin woman who has never been with a man, Allah can easily make her still have a child if He wants her to have a child. Aisha RA was 6 at the youngest or 9 at the oldest when she married Prophet Muhammad SAWS and 18 when he died and she became widowed, but she didn't have any children. Whereas Khadijah RA was 40 when she married Prophet Muhammad SAWS but she still had children, and as many as 6. Two of my female cousins were both 18 when they got married, but they never had any children. Whereas an aunt of mine was 35 when she got married and then had a child at age 43. I went to a Muslim marriage event to search for a husband and heard that a woman had a baby at age 47. Janet Jackson was pregnant at age 50 and Naomi Campbell had a child when she was 50 or in her late forties. So whether you have children or not is not about your age or when you marry. It's all about the will of Allah. If Allah has written offspring in your fate, you will have offspring regardless of when you marry and who you marry. And if Allah hasn't written offspring in your fate, then you will not have any offspring regardless of when you marry and who you marry. If you reach quite old age and your womb has "dried up" then of course Allah the Almighty Who created you and your body and Who has power over all things can bring "moisture" back to your womb and thereby "wetten" your womb again so that you regain fertility. So please ignore the spiteful, nasty things people say, and also ignore Shaytan's waswasah and just have faith in Allah.
Hope this helps. Feel free to contact me if you feel upset or if I can help in any other way.
Best wishes. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
That's so sad that people accuse women for everything even those things that are destined.. such people should taste the bitterness of life so that they get to be more sensitive
@@umamahtahir2321 Yes, I agree with you. That is so sad that women get the blame for everything - even those things that are luck/fortune/fate/destiny and which are the will of Allah the Almighty. But please read the reply above that I gave to the sister.
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@@ranazaman6121 I read it u are right..may Allah bless u both💕
@@umamahtahir2321 Thank you very much. And may Allah bless you both too.
By the way, in case you don't know, there is a very good Muslim marriage website called Pure Matrimony.
I was married but now am a single mother. I am not in a rush to marry again. I am waiting for allahs sign. My childeren are happy I am. And also I get to spend life with my old aged parents who are so vulnerable. I say allhumdulilallah im put in this position maybe allah put me in this position for that reason. Inshallah I get remarried because I loved being married but if it happens it happens if it dosent then maybe it wasent written for me to happen once again. What ever but I'm thankfull for the lessons and the knowledge
ALLĀH. capitalize the letters.
I’m at that same place in life and I think of my situation in the exact way as you do ♥️♥️♥️ Let’s please Allah first 😌 our time will come inshaAllah
@@katestigsdotter @sweetynt
hi sis... same here, I'm a single mom and have an aged mom
It’s all about rida (contentment) and qana'ah (satisfaction) with what Allah (SWT) has chosen for us. Both marriage and singlehood are tests in their own ways. Marriage doesn’t guarantee Jannah, and being single doesn’t make you immoral, unworthy, or incomplete. In fact, being single can give you the time and space to better understand yourself and deepen your connection with Allah (SWT). As a single Muslim woman, I wholeheartedly embrace what Allah (SWT) has destined for me. I don’t see marriage as the ultimate purpose of my life. My priority is to love Allah (SWT) above all else, keep Him at the center of every decision I make, and strive to please Him with the circumstances, resources, and abilities He has granted me. And honestly, this brings me so much peace, alhamdulillah 😌
Masha Allah ❤
@@muneebaKareem7178 🤍
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We have the same goal, AlhamduliLLAH
Extremely well said.
The fact that no one will be single in the Jannah is just something else ❤
I had so many questions related to this topic, and I found answers to all of them in this video. This didn’t appear accidentally; it’s also part of Allah's plan. May Allah create ease for all of us. Ameen.
So I do. It was like he was directly talking to me. Sometimes, things are weird and misunderstandable, but they are what Allah has decreed them to be.
My eyes are dry... No more pain... May Allah grant us sabrun jameel
I am happy with any decision Allah makes for my future life,single at 35 😊
Me to
Same here Sister
It is Better to be Alone then in a Abusive or Unhappy Marriage.
May Allah bless us with this knowledge before having to learn it through experience nchlh
Agree 100%
I have this dilemma get out or stay unhappy 😢
Im not married 😊 but I'm working on myself i only want to please Allah SWT people gossip regardless if your married or not i don't live for toxic people's words do what is right for you if you want marriage first become what your looking for if you want to work on your faith then strengthen that bond. No one has the answers for anyone else's story accept Allah SWT keep the yaqeen certainty or strong belief in the All knowing.
Alhamdulillah, I am at peace now...
Thank you for the video...
I really need to hear this Jazak Allahu Khayran for sharing.
❤Jazak Allah khair, brother, YOU have no idea how many women NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. We have Naik going on and on about unmarried women are Market Properties
This. It's so derogatory that a speaker of his stature, tries to demean unmarried women by referring to them as 'public properties'.
@ni19534 and he has 2 daughters!!!!
Alhamduli'ALLAH, now i can help myself to wait for anything ,Insha'ALLAH !!!
I am not married but i am still take care of my mom alhumdulilah I am very happy phase
I got rejected for being overweight (everybody has preferences so I dont blame them). So I'm gonna take care of my parents, until Allah paak commands me otherwise. They've loved me all my life and never made me feel that being overweight meant I didn't deserve to be a part of their family. Why would I leave them and go live with someone else? I'm happy taking care of my parents in their old age and playing with my siblings' children.
@@sittingduck1735 sister you can also start working on your health and weight- its good for your own confidence. and dont take any rejections to heart, they are mere humans- you take care of yourself
Just what I needed to hear!
What a great reminder!! Barakallahoufikoum!!! 🤲🙏
Jazakallah khair for this video brother it regain my gratitude to Allah even more .
I needed this man phew feels so relieved, sometimes you feel doing wrong by not getting married, but this gives hope if not here perhaps in next life 👍
Alhamdulillah! may ALLAH make it easy for all of us in this dunya and aakhirah.
I honestly think the people who unfortunately struggle to find a life partner might still b okay n at peace with what’s written in their fate but our own Muslim society who we have to be a part of we cannot isolate from them . They make it the worst for u . They themselves know we can’t change what Allah has written for us . U cannot go to war with him u cannot go in battle with him but they keep poking you . DONT MAKE A VIDEO on giving hope to those who are meant to be alone but make a video for THE UMMAH our bad brothers and sisters who need to learn to also accept and behave and not hurt people for it . Shameless community
Right 😢
I 100% agree with you. 😢😢😢
Yes, it's the family the relatives the neighbours the people who gossip and keep asking. I feel embarrassed to face even myself.
Indeed. I am happy because there's like no barrier between me and my Rabb. It's my family and surroundings that's seeing 30+ years old unmarried women like jink
@@maryagawronski9455 Han behen😑
If it didn’t happen here,I want my comfort character in Jannah
No one else❤️🔥❤️🔥💍💍
For all of you guys older than 25, my Muslim momma (she guided me into Islam, and us not my blood mother) she just got married at 45, Alhamdullilah. There is still a chance for us more mature, wiser women. Subhanallah 🩷
Beautiful. We accept the taqdir of الله سبحانه و تعالى
Alhamdulillah for this lecture by Sheikh Omar Suleiman 🌟😊
O Allah 🤲🏻 please give me everything ameen 🤲🏻
May Allah make that person in my heart good for me. 💗
Masha Allah imagine loving a soul for eternity
Alhamdulillah ala Kulli Haal 🤲🏼
Jazakallahukhair for this video. Alhamdulillah ❤
As a woman, If you don’t get married, you will have peace and happiness.
Interesting. Every single unmarried middle-aged woman I ever encountered at work was miserable and took their frustration out on colleagues through passive aggressive behaviour, especially when they assumed positions of power!
What about men who don't get married?
No it's not true. The grass is always greener on the other side
Nobody can have Peace and Happiness without LOVE✔️
Girls just want to have fun😊 No Matter the Age they Actually HAVE.
Jazakumallahu bi khair. Nice video with so much to sleep on.
U are right u have one heart there can't be 2love in it ,
if one doesn’t get married what happens is:
a woman will die happier
a man will die sad
100%
This is so sad and worrying because that's not how it should be. In islam marriage should bring peace and happiness to both the man and woman
@@Zzzzzddddd-e7z true but its rare as people dont really follow true faith and people let their animal instincts take over. this may sound biased but studies have proven it- men generally take advantage of all established systems like for eg marriage.
@@hashh2019married narcissistic men destroy women mentally, physically and financially -- they destroy their children too.
Devils disguised as "husbands".
Eternal damnation!
@@hashh2019 do not spread this gender war and hatred in islamic community get the hell out here.
Assalamualaikum Yemeni sister . Is your story true ? I am seeing it everywhere. If it’s true , I pray Allah swt eases . Even if it’s not , I pray that Allah swt solves it for you so that you don’t have to scam people for living
the sister of yemen changing tactic by not mentioning 'she' is from yemen anymore but the comments
remain same. Long can copy pasted everywhere using different accounts.
It's a scam, as someone is collecting big money claiming to be in need. Please report it!!!
That's a scam 😂
That's most probably a bot, no single person can appear in comments in like A LOT of the videos that you see, multiple times in one section sometimes.
Maashallah uplifting
But in this world full of fitnah, it is tough for both men and women to stay pure and chaste without marriage. So this video can be acceptable for those who can control their desires, but for those who cannot, what is the solution?
Fasting
I'm a 28 year old woman livin' in north India! The man I'm looking for is the man who can lead me to Jannah! The man with taqwa!! Which I haven't found yet ! No I'm not finding I'm just praying for thay righteous spouse ! I hope I will meet him in this lifetime nd the hereafter!
He is in your local mosque. Am sure you're not interested in him because maybe he is not good looking or not rich.
@Donotcare6 naah he is not in my mosque I'm living in a village nd that village contains only my family nd either they're my uncle's or nephews! Nd secondly I live in Gujarat India where muslims are away from Islam! I' myself don't belongs to a practicing family and that's why it's my dream to have my practicing muslim family!
I would like to talk to you about this.....if you are interested
I haven't happy ending lovelife in this dunya, But I have happy ending with May Allah Swt, ❤
Me too with the age of 35y woman. By seeing harrasment in many marriages, i denied to marry. But because of pressure from all sides i had to agree to a proposal that i thought allah had sent that for me. After marriage i came to know that i married to a toxic person.i left him. It happened 5y ago. But still the society is blaming my parents for my 2nd marriage. Because I'm a woman. But i don't want to take a choice called marriage in my life again. Still I have been feeling very bad about toxic marriage. What should I do now?
Alhumdulliah I am still single, even when I looked for a spouse, no one came so the brother confirms that Allah decree rules over the world. Stay strong, keep on trying, be patient and steadfast. The beauty of the righteous woman, outshines the hoori in Jannah.
Ma Sha Allah💚
I am 27 years old, and I’m scared of getting married because of the way things are in today’s world. I’m afraid of getting attached to someone, and more importantly, I worry about what would happen if I marry someone who doesn’t like my mom.
My mom means everything to me❤she’s the only family I have now. I lost my father when I was just 4 years old, and she single-handedly raised me. That’s why I’m scared,I want to take care of her, and I don’t want anything to jeopardize our bond .
Alhamdulillah Ala kulli haal 🤲❤️
It wasn't meant for everyone
Alhamdoulilah Haqa Hamdi! 🤲🏽
Al-Hamdu-liLLĀH
SubhanALLAH!
Fill your day with ibadat. Don’t get depressed thinking that you have been left out.
People wants to play god and to put you down but my dreams are true and he will live good 👍🏼 when Allah loves you he gives you the best 👍🏼😉🪽
Im from Bosnia 🇧🇦 and refugees since 1992, and still im today 2024- 2025 ,I never find my soul mate, or something is wrong with me, but I beleive on mercy of my Allah svt that he forgive me ,or I will find out inshallah at day when I stand front of dear ALLAH SVT 💖., did i make something SIN AND I WAS PUNISH FOR THAT. BUT STILL DEAR ALLAH SVT HAVE MERCY ON ALL OF US ,AND ME TO.😢❤😊
Respectfully, Allah SWT is infinitely loving and merciful and He wants us to be happy in this world and the next. The problem is with us and our families. Bad decisions taken with respect to marriage in our lives result in bad consequences. We listen to advice from family rather than sticking to what's right and what's wrong. A lot of people miss the joys of a marriage, love, children and a home because of pressures and the controlling attitudes of family. And the only person who suffers is the one who was obedient and caring. Fulfill all your responsibilities but always keep yourself as priority number one. We have one life to live and Allah SWT wants us to live it the right way and live it good. Own our actions, recognize the truth and take control of our lives because no one except us will live the consequences in this world and answer for it in the Hereafter.
I wish to live unmarried.
Im divorce....i feel restless and I regret for getting married
Say ALHAMDULILLAH
You feel don't get married lonely and lost...its beautiful to find a spouse but Allah decision to find a good spouse
So can I say no to marry someone & stay unmarried forever?
It depends on u if are strong enough (in evert aspect of life financially physically emotionally)to live alone u can say no to marriage
🤲🤲🤲🤲 Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah
Madam, in that case you will never hear 3 words of talaq.
There is not a single msg but my yamani sister is still here as a bot ?????
😂
@gloriamasia
Ma'am......i doubt u r the human behind that yamani bot ??
I think it's he, a stinky turd with a black 🎩 doing his disgusting copy-paste work.. just to belittle muslim women..
Alhamdullilah I m happy with Imran I don’t need love love is for children I’m adult I put my Allah in my heart
Are you sure your brain function correctly ?
Since when children get married?
Are you sure you’re an adult ?
Seeing your idiotic comment, it doesn’t seem like an adult.
Modern life is designed to be lived alone.
The focus is on personal growth and success. If one or both come with this mentality, it will quickly become toxic.
Unfortunately, we grew up with these ideas, and they permeate all facets of society.
It's unfortunate that most women I know actually don't want a career, work in the office, and be a provider. They actually want a more natural life.
Unfortunately, they have no choice because the men have been taught that careers are an end in themselves and the only thing worthy of praise.
For their own security, women have no choice but to work, and this actually makes everyone miserable.
The current era is anti-family, and it's effects are disastrous.
I suggest having look at the depression rates in the US. And suicidal tendencies amongst young girls especially (CDC and APA data).
Also, Iceland's depression data "the happiest country in the world" according to the most materialistic metrics.
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It's not true. There are entitled muslim sisters who day contradictory stuff like "I want to retire early" and when you tell them you would provide and she doesn't have to work, she'll say "nah I wanna work" like dude you can't have it both ways.
I think the society in the west suffers because the dad's are too lenient on their daughters and have spoiled them. They want to be provided for without giving anything in return
@@yuppieyup8188Give women the option to stay at home, and most of them willl take it UNLESS it comes with disrespect and feeling of unappreciation.
Theyve seen that women who stayed at home were disrespected and also exploited for household labour, so they rather work, atleast they can spend on themselves, and be appreciated for their work.
I'm 45 and still single have mental health issues
May Allah grant you shifa and peace
@ jazakallah
May Allah (SW) easy for you
@@Donotcare6 jazakallah
I was in relationship with Abdul Nazee Zeeshan he betrayed me and his mother is aware of everything and they are putting allegations
Alhamdulillah
Pls what is the meaning of rizq
Just like parents. Great parents are blessings. But not everyone gets a great one. They are form of Rizq, but parents are even worse, we couldn’t even choose. We were born from 2 people we didn’t even know about. So yes romance is a Rizq, we might get one now, later, or sooner. Or even not at all in this Dunya. The only problem about marriage is society, and Nafs. In many cases people who haven’t get married yet feel left behind and society just keep pushing em to get one. Or maybe some couldn’t hold their nafs anymore that’s why they feel stressed out.
Is it a sin if v don't get married....as I know marriage completes half of our iman... what is the ruling in islam if v remain unmarried....plz explain me if anybody knows...
No it's not a sin. Many scholars were unmarried throughout their life
Now I'm married for 13 years and definitely marriage is highly difficult where only patience works...had i known this that being unmarried is k in islam i couldn't have...now I realise how important it is to seek knowledge about deen
@rafatmunshi3572 depends on the person and their circumstances. For some, they should get married, others preferably get married as a sunnah, for some even haram to get married.
@@Rasheeda-vo5qc patience works in everything. Grass is always greener on the other side. Be thankful for what you have. A lot of people would kill for being married
Its allowed not to get married if you don't want to. Also if you cannot control yourself like wanting to intimate with someone then you must get married
You will not be the first there are millions who have not married and will not. Ask them what’s happened with them for the answer you want to know
Just like the case of abu hurairrah I'm single at the age of 35 because of not being rich and women don't like me when they come to know or assess that I have nothing to offer. Maybe, this is my destiny/qadr and I'm okay with it because I can't change the divine scheme of events. Although, I'm trying to earn halal wealth but I'm unsuccessful so far. So, I'm content with what is waiting for me in jannah because at the end I'm going to die, for how long will I live, no one knows except Allah. I pray Allah to have the end of a firm believer in Him no matter how hard this life is, I pray Allah for a blessed hereafter 🤲🤲🤲🤲 ameen, suma ameen
I will never get married 😢
21:00 ... 05/12 thurs
If I m not getting 1 in this dunya I don't need in heaven as well. What's d fun
Allah prohibits us to drink wine in this dunya, but, in jannah He provide us rivers and one of them is a wine river. I am sure that it will taste amazing, since it is supposed to be a reward to people who restraint themselves from haram things in this dunya. Jannah is so different from this dunya, and we can't imagine how amazing and beautiful it is. Ofc the spouse in jannah will be your ultimate rizq and reward, He/She must be have amazing flawless character, and very beautiful in their looks. Yes, the most beautiful reward in Jannah is the connection with Allah, but I won't definitely refuse other beautiful rewards from Him.
But Allah creates everything in pair so it's highly recommended to marry if you feel it's right. Waiting for specific signs from Allah, you may not get it
“Wie wilt er met jou leven”
حنفیت ایک علیحدہ مذہب ہے نماز کے وقت سے شروع ہو جائیں، پھر نماز ختم کرنے کے بعد ان کی ہر چیز عام مسلمان سے مختلف ہے بالکل مختلف ہے۔
Lesson lesson lesson lesson lesson lesson all the time. People need to have some relief and wish fulfillment from time to time in order to not go insane. But I guess we're supposed to just be taught a lesson all the time like naughty children
Al salamu 'alaykom wa rahmatu Allah wa barakatuh, please consider removing content in which women aren't correctly covered (showing more than hands and face) , drawings of living beings. We don't want to be the means of such things being normalized and replicated
Marry a right and perfect person who is similar and matches to your thoughts , habits, beliefs, lifestyles, culture and respect your values. ❤🎉
But I am SINGLE, I need Someone (wife)! 🥺😁
What is your age @Rased ?
@noorjahandollie I am 20
Your?@@noorjahandollie
@@Rased_1brother I’m 35 and still single
I am 27 and unmarried
My husband is one of the Muslims who thinks he owns his wife. It can be terrible.
Divorce babe divorce
@yrasdump I thought about that but Allah hates divorce too
Nothing happens you live happy life 😂
😢😢😢😢😢😢
06:00
Why do you thumbnail a woman's picture ????
This video is about marriage and love right? So, what is the problem with that?
My dreams true and people will see , their big mouth will shout soon 👍🏼 because i'am an offical person in the future
Interesting. Every single unmarried middle-aged woman I ever encountered at work was miserable and took their frustration out on colleagues through passive aggressive behaviour, especially when they assumed positions of power!
Don't lie
@ Lie? There is nothing to lie about. Don’t be deluded into thinking single-life is satisfying!
@@Filming-and-StuffAnd what’s your point exactly?
But don't forget we are still human this way of thinking to not compare and be content is a massive test not everyone can do it, it's a struggle. They need to keep their faith in Allah everything happens for a reason.
@@Filming-and-Stuff guess they take out their aggression this way and men take it out by flirting and fornication- what sounds better?
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Want mature,but got baddie ⚠️🗒️
Assalamu alaikum sister plz stop stop.😊
Exactly
Get rid of the thumbnail please. You are taking clips from scholars and daee’s and adding thumbnails that display women in public domain? Just for likes and hits you are doing this. Very bad on your part.
He= we with kids 👍🏼😉🪽
نصيحه اخي ابتعد عن ان تحط صور نساء في الفديوات وكذلك تجنب المؤثرات التي تشبه الموسيقى بارك الله فيك
Feminism happens
So allah wrote our marriages? Wheres free will then?
You always have a freedom of choice
All depends on you
All the horrific things in the world
Reflect that..... GOD is not real......
HUMAN create GOD,
An Atheist and a Scientist.
It gives a wrong message . Those who avoid marriage has nothing to do with the prophet pbuh
I don‘t think, that it is about avoiding marriage, but to have patience if one cannot get married. There are a lot of ppl out there, who really wish to get married, but cannot do so because of different reasons…
Marriage is not an obligation for everyone. For some it is, for others it is sunnah and preferred to do so, but there are people for whom it is not recommended or even HARAM to get married. No one should go around pressuring ppl to get married in the name of Islam.....
ignorance at its peak. do study Islam properly before you speak.
People that have kids but not getting married are the ones has nothing to do with the prophet.
Get yourself right and stop being fool
@@Humane_1 this is the truth one..... I hope the stupid society could stop pressuring people about marriage for the sake of Islam "as they said"
Keep brainwashing Muslim sisters not to get married while brothers are left unmarried. You're doing a disservice to the Ummah when Allah clearly says in the Quran to get married, but I'm sure you think you know better.
“And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female slaves. If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing.” [24:32]
Allah created Hawwa so that Adam could seek comfort in her, not for her to be "strong sand independent" and skip marriage.
“And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He has placed between you compassion and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect.” (Quran, 30:21)
If you think I'm wrong then provide evidence from the Quran or an authentic Hadith to support your liberal ideology?
Marriage is an option and decision.... it's not a compulsory.... everyone can make decisions on their own...
If they don't want to get married at all.... it's none of your business.... understand?
@@fanndann23 Based on what Islamic evidence? Be quiet!
@@alb-bos hahahhaha funny
@@alb-bos don't be busy body , focused on your life and leave others do what they wanna do.
@@fanndann23 provide Islamic evidence or shut your hole!