What depression can look like in school
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Thank u I've been going thru a lot and I'm really depressed. I don't wanna tell people tho cause I'm really younge so I think they won't believe me but ur vids have made me feel better. Thank u so much
I really needed this today
@@andyimes2419 take care
@@sierra5618 stay safe
@@_csinti_ 🙂
I appreciate how you said "how depression can look" instead of "how depression looks"! That's just a very big deal!
He suffered from depression so he’s not one of those people to spread fake content and diagnosing you with something randomly lol
Yea
Exactly. Him saying CAN look is saying that everyone goes through it differently. I’m glad someone saw that.
english teacher ^
@@RyanPuccetti Man I'm 16 lol
You can be told by a million ppl that “you’re not alone” and have supports but at the end of the day, you’re the one having to face it yourself
I’m challenged by medical depression which is a mental disorder🔥🔥 this shit so annoying to remedy
(I need sunlight, sugar, and exercise)
Yeah ppl say that but in my entire life I've never felt like I wasn't alone and had support, everyone just makes it worse for you
Yeah… nobody can live in our heads for us… 😔
Hit hard😢
Yup.
"Most times, the happiest people are depressed and just hide it."
My mom said that, and yet she can't see her own child...
That one made me cry. My dad did the same to me.
my both parents do that to me😢
My mother told me to hang myself once,but I knew it was my fault but it hurt like a boulder crushing my heart slowly.
@@FanewsTheDemonLordOfMischief same..
I'm the class clown I'm encharge of getting in trouble suspended 4 times and I'm 10 I think of hanging my self at night time my song list is xxx juise wrld pop smoke lol loaded u name it rip to them home I see them soon
Your teacher comes up to you and says "why aren't you doing your work?"
"What's the point?"
I barely get my work done in class when I zone out. I can't ever concentrate during class and then eventually I snap out of it my day dreaming and look around and everyone is done with the quiz but me. I get really embarrassed and having social anxiety at the same time makes this super difficult for me. I just wanna let it out one day, a day where either a person who understands me will hear me out, or no one, and I just scream to myself without being a bother. I can't break away from these shitty thoughts of mine. I'm only alive for god but every day, it's so fucking hard to get those thoughts out of my head and I just want everything to be over. I'm crying while writing this and I just don't know what to do with my life right now and I'm just so done with it. I'm Hannah, age 17, depressed, adhd, ocd, social anxiety, suicidal, the funny friend, the "happy" friend, the "energetic" friend. I wish there was someone out there to save me from these hot tears running down my cheeks on a daily basis. I'm sorry.
@@ifwskibiditoilet im so proud of you for getting this far hannah 🏵️ my situation is super similar to yours and people have just been telling me over and over that things are gonna get better when, ever since I was born life's just been a constant downhill slide, but.. all I *can* do is wait I guess. I hate how helpless I am. I would do anything to fix everything if only I know what anything meant :(
@@ifwskibiditoilet someone please read this and give me advice 😭😭girl I’m turning 13 so soon I thought I have autism or adhd and it turns out I have depression… I also have these weird thoughts that are caused by anxiety and I don’t even want them here they just pop up and ruin ur day and I thought everything’s getting better and then it suddenly changed for the worst. At least I discovered the reason I have this… I don’t feel loved and also feel like a burden to everyone and if I just disappeared it would’ve been way better for me and others. Right now I don’t understand the point in living. My mom just told me that I’m not the same that I’m always tensed like I’m waiting for something to happen ,I wake up randomly in the night and sometimes fear that I won’t fall asleep,I have a feeling that I’m being held at gun point and that somebody is choking me and apparently it’s because of anxiety. I don’t do anything anymore I just scroll on the internet. I don’t even talk to people anymore because I just feel like they’ll get bored of me… I need help but I can’t get help because my mom says that I don’t need help and that only I can fix this and if I keep thinking I need someone to help me I will relay only on that person… but the reason I have this is because I NEED help and somebody to listen to me … so ,to my mom and dad: “you’re right. It’s not because of me.. it’s because of you!!” I need help I can’t do this anymore I thought about self harming so much but I know that once I start I’ll never stop… I don’t know what to doooo!!!!!!
I understand both of you and just know that you're not useless, even when you feel like you are. Everyone has a point in life, its just hard to see what the point really is. Thank you for replying and just know that a lot of people love you, or care for you even if you think no one does.
@@ifwskibiditoiletyou are just a parallel version of me, which looks like is struggling out somewhere as well. Damn.
I don't know whether I'll make out alive or not
But I want to tell you that yes, indeed there is someone out there like you who is going through same boat or even worse.
But wants happy life for you as his own life is pretty much done....
Feeling like you have no energy is the most true statement i have heard so far 💔
I can’t get any homework most of the time, I just want to go to my bed and pass the time until I go to bed. I definitely agree with you.
@@chaos60just stay on my phone.then I feel bad for having an addiction.
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when i stand up i feel like my legs are shaking i isolated most of my freinds
I often drink cafeine nowadays because i feel no energy to study and even do notes,i rarely smiles in school and right now i know why...
What’s worse is when u have friends and u are thankfull that they are there but u know they’ll never understand no matter how much they try. Heartbreaking 💔
Yeah, gained empathy from that and decided to comfort those when it is the right time. I currently have a friend who's going through one rn tho I'm having a bit of a brick wall trying to crack the problem but I'm getting there
@@Steris314you can do it. Pray 🙏 🤲 and ask God for discernment and wisdom to understand what is happening to your friend. God bless you dear 🙏 ❤️ 😊
@@theresac.9203 I am an atheist, tho that friend of mine that I was talking about was a Christian so it's not me that's outta do it but her
nah whats worse is having no friends in the first place and seeing that everyone else has frienfs
@@sarwanamahbub110 suffer alone or suffer cause of your friends I don't really see the difference
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Your neck is not a coat don't hang it
Your body is not your enemy don't hate it
Your life is not a book don't end it
I hope you follow these and stay strong!❤️
These are beautiful words and they are true ❤
Are they though? I feel like it’s a bad idea to say that. It’s like saying to a toddler don’t throw your ball on the road. Instead of hold on to your ball now and keep it safe. You know, you giving the idea keeping that idea in their kind of what not to do.
*Don't Cry Tonight* 🌙
*There's always Light* ✨
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I appreciate it ❤
I’ve been depressed for a while now. I’m very lonely at school, have no friends, and I am very suicidal. I’m trying to quit, but it’s just hard and complicated. I just wanna tell you guys that please don’t start doing what I did. Enjoy life, have fun! I don’t want u guys to feel like me and other people that are also like me, trust me. It’s terrible.
Going through the same
I've attempted suicide twice, didn't work, still think of it, If I could help I suggest you get onto a helpline, that's what I did after my suicide attempt
Don't do it bro though, as much as I want to do it I don't want others to do it but I can understand why ppl want to do it cause ik abt it
I am still in school and go through that every day you are not alone
I feel you bro
How are you now 💟
bro
😭😭😭😭 I'm dying bruh
I'm fighting a violent war by myself and will possibly in the future
My depression isn't Treatable, it comes back
It's really true😢😢. Physical pain will get cured but mental pain cannot be cured.
@@DeathStalker25 plus I went to a therapist and a medicine doctor and they just screw me up
Thank you. I have depression. My friends are all very toxic too and I have family problems. I struggle to concentrate I’m class and have an F in almost all of them. Then, to top it all off, I have bullies who bully me everyday and they make me become the laughing stock of the school..
i feel sorry for you have you tried speaking to your parents or do the family problems prevent that one way i think you might find useful is possibly finding someone who you could try to make your friend and report the bullies to the school
1. Get new friends
2. Listen
3. Study
4. Workout
@@LunarMoon1221 babe it’s just not easy trust me having a toxic household you barely can do anything ☹️
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It's been 4 months since you made this comment. I hope you're doing well, and if not, I hope things get better for you.
“Hurting someone’s feeling is like throwing a rock in the ocean, but do you know how deep that rock goes or how long it takes to find? No. No you don’t and you never will.”🥀
Bro this is so deep 😢🥺😭😭😭
@@FREEPALESTINE-Dp7hf Just like me penetrating ;)
Beautiful
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@@FREEPALESTINE-Dp7hf
_Literally..._
Remember, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.!
You may feel like your friends are getting all the attention but not you. It's not and nothing like that. Do well in your life. I'm going through the same phase of depression rn. But still I'm here to comfort you guys and comforting myself as well while comforting you guys.
Hey same
Thank you this made my day i hope whatever happend to u gets better
I don't even have friends. And yeah everyone else is getting all the attention.
@@ntskdk2675same bruh. Last time i had a "friend" or "best friend" was when i was in 5 grade and after that idk tf happened and those "friends" started talking shit behinde my back. It just felt so bad i dont have any friends now . Now im in 9
@@Simon_Ghost_Riley1993 Actually I'm almost the exact same as you.
I have critical depression but that does not block my path of life you never know what is ahead of you in life ❤
Okay but ,,What friends?" 😂
I love that anyone isn't making fun of those dudes like video like the poses he made. Because depression is a really really serious case.
Depression your ass lah, you have God for what? For nothing ah? Useless kepala BAPAK KAU BODOH
I was abt to but then I saw this- I mean, Iwasn’t gonna “make fun” of him, I was just gonna say smth like “That last pose cured my depression 💀💀💀” or smth 🤷♀️
Props to everyone out there who is going through this 👏
Nice to meet you
Thank you!
Thank you so much, you have no idea how much that means to me, especially right now
Thank you..
tyy
I thought I was surrounded by really good friends, but then depression taught me the reality of the world. At that time..... I realized that I was alone all that time.
i used to feel all of this everyday, it truly breaks me when i think about it.
I always tried to tell my mom about my symptoms:
Never spoke in school
Had horrible social anxiety
Never asked for help/anything
Couldn’t look people in the eyes
Couldn’t focus
Always shaking
Had no energy ever
Stuttered a lot
(All of these would happen in school) I always went to the nurse almost every day she understood me.. she actually got me… God I miss her.
These are not a kind of deadly symptoms, so no worries bruh
@@IdetectALittleCommunism nobody asked you to reply to her . dont reply if you want to hate someone. 🤷🏻
@@IdetectALittleCommunism just shut up and fuck off
@@IdetectALittleCommunism you are commenting everywhere what's your problem dumbass people here are sharing their problems nd your are the to this society
I feel like these are symptoms of anxiety/social anxiety ( no hate) hope you have gotten better ❤
I’ve been isolating from some friends,and I feel like I have no energy.
I just feel like I get ignored all the time and my best friend gets more attention and love.
I feel the same way like a piece of glass everyone looks through but doesn't care about. Something great happens to my friend they get praised. I do something I get silence
Yeah same I miss my old friends I want them back I don’t want new ones
mentioning your best friend is getting more attention ssounds more like jealousy you attention seeking biatch
Same bro
Just sleep at the afternoon, theres no a big issue
I have depression from a fake friend and I just feel like I wanna commit and just feel bad and hide my tears from everyone and cry at night
Isolating from friends and getting insulted by friends are the worst feeling at the school
This actual gave me shiver as it’s so accurate.
take care
Ikr
@@Kai_The_Therian_Wolf stay safe
i know this is the last thing you wanns hear since your in deppresso mode but, *shivers
@@_csinti_ thanks!! You too!
"It is treatable, but never lost..."
As a person with depression I can confirm this
I didn't think I had depression but now I might go get checked out
For other people like me who has a depression: Just try to hold on. I’ve want to die for over two years. Just think about the people who’s life will be over just because you died, that will be more people than you think. If not, try to think about what makes you happy and make more time to do fun things. Anything thats cheerful can help. If you dont want people to help you, just make sure you can help yourself
I wish it was as easy said as done.
Thankyou bro your the best God bless 🙏
I just got a depression diagnosis from my doctor. Have a great day all. Thanks Jake for shining a light in mental on people in med school and just in general.
stay strong
hope everything is going good for you man, ur not alone
Wish you the best
God bless and help u to get better
We are all with you
I have mild depression but it’s still there. It was hard for me to tell my mom about it but I did. The worst part was that my mom said, “I don’t get why you would be depressed” and, “You don’t seem depressed” you don’t always have to seem depressed. I always have low energy but she just doesn’t notice. I don’t feel like talking to friends all the time but of course she wouldn’t see that because that’s school. She still hasn’t said any encouraging words about it and my best friend has been more supportive than my own mother. I want everyone to know that no matter what you may be going through, you aren’t alone. Other people face similar things and everything will be okay in the end.
Your mom is probably more busy and doesnt need peoples attention to get depression LOL
Thxx bro❤❤same feelingO:-)
idiots.. stop saying lol to something this serious@@IdetectALittleCommunism
@@IdetectALittleCommunismL bait
At least your best friend is supportive, I had to get through depression by myself, and it actually worked and when I realized that I was like "wait what the fu-"
I now realise that I was depressed in my school times.
"hurting someones feelings can make them upset even more then you feel.. if you bully them for 6 years and you say sorry does not make them "un-depressed" it makes them forgive you..but it wont fix the past you given them"
i was bullied for over 4 years from kindergarten to year 5 i hide my feelings alot i dont stay away from my friend cuz she follows me around..she is the only friend i have i cant lose her she is a peice of art towards me she makes me so happy..
i’m really struggling right now. but anytime i try to ask for help they just dismiss it or call me an attention seeker even my family. i’m not able to get therapy or anything, and i’m just.. idk anymore
Oh my gosh, same. I don’t tell my friends, but my family searches my emotions like a hard chapter book they lost the page too, and when they see me looking even the slightest of sad, they’ll call me out for it and say I’m begging for attention. My friends don’t care enough about my emotions to notice anything, thank goodness.
I’m so sorry this is happening to you. I wish I could just give everyone feeling the same way a hug, but I can’t find people like this in person. This is me sending you some love, we both need it. I wish you luck with your future and believe in your ambitions. Take care.
Man, I know it’s hard when no one is willing to help you. All I can say is just try to keep your head up and do the best you can. Times may be tough, but you have to hit rock bottom to rise back up. Keep on keepin on my friend!
Even teachers and that? That sounds unfair. Hope youre doing okay now, 7 months later.
aww that’s rlly sad :( maybe you could…
a. take up a new hobby
b. get more rest (if possible)
c. reflect on happy memories and try to recreate them
there are just some things i do when I’m sad, i hope you feel so so much happier ❤️
@@creamkoi.official i actually took up crocheting (again) and i'm feeling a little bit better after 7 months lol
I normally isolate from friends when given the chance or just not feeling like being with anybody for a while because i like being alone. I’m an independent person and prefer not talking to people if i don’t have to. This is why i like how you said “CAN look like” because if you didn’t, it could make a lot of people question themselves if they just like isolating themselves.
no one asked
@@FugaNotOfficial I shouldn't need to ask to express my feelings on a video that's meant for it.
@@redhead.v45 its funny that you think you know what depression when you lost your rainbow pet or some shit or roblox
@@FugaNotOfficial Im not depressed... I just like being alone, does that fudging make me depressed? Absolutely not. I literally stated something like that in my comment.
@@FugaNotOfficialshut the hell up
“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened”
Dr. Seuss
Thank you so much for spreading this message. Depression manifests itself in different ways depending on the person and it's important to look out for any signs and help out as far as we can. To anyone reading this who thinks they might be depressed, please talk to somebody to understand more about yourself and remember, you are not alone!
When i was 16 i was diagnosed with cancer and later got into a deep hole of sadness and grief after my parents passed away at my young age. It was hard for me to climb back up. Until i made a youtube account and told everyone my life story, this changed my life because i realized that people supported me. This is something I still cry about, thanks to all the people that were there for me
When you’re going through this and people who claim to be your friend blames you for isolating yourself is why they don’t talk to you anymore..
Thats me litterely in school, i cant concentrate, i feel like i have no energy left, and i do isolate from friends, but most of the time (right now im sad well i was the whole day, i even went to sleep and my dad woke me up for dinner) and in school it’s hard for me to learn because i can’t concentrate, i just dont know what to do anymore😔 but when i read your comment JakeGoodmanMD then its very helpful🙂
Bro just explained my whole situation for the first option
I always smile in front of everyone...but at the end of the day..no one is there for me💔
I have the same, just try to hold on. I’ve want to die for over two years. Just think about the people who’s life will be over just because you died, that will be more people than you think. If not, try to think about what makes you happy and make more time to do fun things. Anything thats cheerful can help. If you dont want people to help you, just make sure you can help yourself
Behind a smile there can be someone that is unstable, looks happy, but its not
I have the same, I know how it feels...
Ik how it feels I do the same thing, though I have recently found someone to talk to and they listen and comfort me🫶 I hope it gets better
Dude I am not kidding but that's been going on with me from the last one and a half year. I try to find multiple reasons just to try to live but in the end, just make myself delusional.
I honestly suffered from all these because my school just reopened offline after 2 damn years and even though in the pandemic I grew stronger in every way possible, I felt sad (not at school but mostly at home while over thinking everything). Now it has been like 1 or 2 weeks since the reopening and I am feeling so amazing. I have implementing everything I had learnt to improve my mental health and I won't lie, ✨I am impressed with myself✨.
how did you improve your mental health
i improved my mental health my sucking it up and not acting like a bitch@@zineb1383
The depression being in class being there learning seeing the teacher
It can also look like happiness, i just recently stopped my friend from committing suicide. I never knew she was suicidal since in public she seems so happy. It’s because her friend ditched her and made all of her other friends ditch her too, thats not all she has been getting bullied for a while now. She has troubles at home too. I had a mental breakdown after talking to her because it was heartbreaking and its just too much for one person to handle. I’m the only person that knows. Im glad I could help.
Me realizing I do all these things 💀
Me too 😢
Me too
Bruh the school....😭😭
Retard
@sulaimancassiem2506 It gets better ❤️ I know it’s hard but trust that it does
One day I came across a new resident hiding in a small closet crying. He was horrified when I opened the door and saw him.
I stepped into the closet, closed the door and just put my arms around him and let him cry. He asked me how I found him, I told him this was the closet I came to to cry.
I am a trauma nurse. We need to stop the toxic culture we deal with at work and hug each other instead.
Tell that to middle school
@@ana_bowah As a person who puts a fake attitude in school and just goes home crying this is quite true as to the fact that ppl honestly don't care abt what one can go through they would give u mean comments and insults while expecting you to not care
@@ZoroGotCrack Faking a smile is easier than trying to explain the new cuts on my arms.
@@ZoroGotCrack I'm am SO SORRY i didn't want to put it that way i never wanted to hurt your feelings and others and i also deal with that i was trying to say middle school is were i had to put the face of joy if you want me to I'm more than happy to delete my previous comment
@@lonelyone-hs8jw pretty sure it is
This is sooo relatable 😅🥲
That’s me at school every single day in a little corner, isolating myself not talking to anybody not feeling hungry trying to hide all my emotions
Yeah, that’s sad
It’s really common, please reach out for help!!
Don’t feel like you will be judged
It can help a lot.
I was judged and was told that I was faking it o had one friend who helped me and then I told adults bc she knew I was faking being happy and wanting to hang out
It’s not that easy sadly.
@coldmirrorfangirl I’m sorry, I don’t think I can give you any tips about that.
But I do wish you luck for your future
@coldmirrorfangirl I don’t believe you can be too young for depression… maybe keep looking for a therapist or psychologist? It’s hard too when your parents don’t understand or believe you. Good luck! ❤️
It doesn't always. I tried hard to find soemone to talk to and after so much time that has passed i decided to tell it to my mother the most trustful person i know. She just told me its a phase and we never spoke about it ever. Time has passed and i decided to tell it to my friends and they didn't care all i heard was "ok". They didn't even try to help me. This all changed my perspetcive of the world
I guess i have depression.... I am serious.. i always have difficulty to try to listen the teacher and i am always isolating from friends...like i wish it was easy to get rid of depression..but here some more proof,i am always on my phone night and day,even at lunch,dinner,bathroom,evrywhere....i feel like i am not the same anymore...
Same..
Same I feel like I’m not the same anymore…
Phone addiction isn't depression 💀 touch grass and stay productive
@@farmerwithshotgun2728we aren't addicted to phone. It's just an escape from real World
yes that is what i feel everyday...
i just stand in my school halls smiling like im not bullied and abus3d and having family problems listening to other people hanging out while im suffering here.
I went through this REALLY badly a few months ago. I had lost a bunch of attendance and half my friends left me so I thought I’d rather be alone than ever be hurt again like that. Now I’m nearly 4 months S//H sober and I have an amazing friend group. Depression is still following me but it gets easier if you just talk to someone
If you tell a friend you're depressed they'll just laugh thinking you're joking or say that they are depressed too, it just doesn't help
I cant understand how are kids in iraq happy even if waking up hearing bombs in the sky while a random emo child just constantly cries even for a small reason
@@IdetectALittleCommunism …When was this about kids in Iraq?
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I’m so happy for you! Stay strong
I love this man so much every way he explained that is caring not like depression looks like u have no energy he said it like he actually ment it
“The bravest thing you can do is continuing your life when you want to die.”
-me
I know that feeling 😢
the fact that my depression is high is very upseting. I litterally have 0 motvation everyday yet I try to push my self- its hard sometimes..
Depression is treatable with a powerful thing called love
The “can” in that sentence helps a lot. Although I’m not diagnosed with depression, I do think I probably have it. Anyway, when I see others online that say “this *is* what depression looks like,” or something, it makes me feel like I’m faking it for some reason. That makes me sometimes harm myself. Saying “this is what depression *can* look like” means a lot, so I thank you.
The last one “depression is treatable” hits hard
What hits even harder is knowing that but…refuse for treatment.
Enjoying pain and suffering until it hits the limit.
To everyone who is going through this know you are not alone. I promise there is always someone there for you. Whether it’s online or irl someone IS here for you
My comment keeps on getting deleted proof that I'm right
@@superpredat0r125 ?
I don’t know if I’m depressed, but I do most of these things. I do hang out with two friends in my class but we isolate ourselves from the rest of the class.
My depression is Felling like i do nothing right
When I was 10 I had to leave my 2 year old sister. On April 17 she turned 3 and died on her birthday. Now today I’m 13
I'm going through this,I told my parents about it and they don't care🙃
I’m really sorry to hear that. But you got this, hang on there buddy, it can get better.
@@Saturn_The_God yeah🙂I hope so and thank you:)
So sorry to hear that I think I might be going through this to don’t worry I’m sure we will get through it stay strong everyone 😊
It's ok you're not alone 🙃 I'm too
your parents should be in labor then
As someone who has just started treatment its very hard to get the motivation to work or concentrate I mostly hide it from my friends. only few of my friends know and if I get a cut they always be worried because of what I've done before, I love them ❤❤❤
How's it been going for you? ❤
How are you doing now?
Thank you for asking, I just lost my dog and my grandpa, My family relationship is not great. But on the bright side I recued and new dog, bought a horse, and got a gf. But I'm slowing getting better 2 steps forward one back I guess. ♥
@@phoebereid2858 YOU GOT THIS!!!! Please keep going, you have a wonderful life ahead of you. Maybe you can try to talk to your gf about how you've been feeling and see if she can help, Sometimes it gets worse before it gets better. It is a challenge, but we can do it, we can pass the challenge. Happy New year! So much to come have an AMAZING day/night!!
womp womp
This was so me today, i hardly had the energy to speak-
It can also look like a completely normal person being all happy and laughing at jokes but secretly crying inside
Daily reminder!
Your skin is not paper so don’t cut it.
Your neck is not a coat so don’t hang it.
Your body is not a book so don’t judge it.
Your heart is not a door so don’t lock it.
Your life is not a movie so don’t end it.
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@@what_could_beit’s not and you’re not funny
@@UchihaIzzgr8 the only funny thing is the fact you think i'm joking
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I used to hangout with friends but now I have no energy to do so. I’ve just been feeling empty
I'm in nursing school and this is how I feel on a regular basis.
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im always just smiling but at some point i feel drained and i cant smile
Im depressed then, great how do I tell anyone abt this bc everyone is either shouting qt me or " your overreacting"
Remember it's how it can look! This isn't a diagnosis but I hope that you are ok!
legit describes my school life in a nutshell
True man it hurts 😢
God, sometimes you can't see it... Sometimes they hide it... And you don't know until they're on the breaking part. Girl. I love you. I'm here.
That's a boy idiot.
I took an online quiz, I only have moderate depression.
My feeling is I'll get treatment if it becomes severe.
What's the website?
Please, get help BEFORE it gets severe. It feels like life just crumbles away - energy, friends, health, hope... And getting out of the hole is infinitely harder. Don't wait. Get help to get better.
@bethmock9431 Can confirm, this person is 100% right. Wish I got help years ago, still working things out.
Just because it's called "mild to moderate" doesn't mean it can't or isn't screwing your life up.
Talk with your primary doctor or a therapist/psychologist.
I take tests often.
They all share one thing:
Results:
SEVERE DEPRESSION.
"Sometimes people say they don't see light at the end of the tunnel, but they're wrong. If you keep walking you'll find it."
-Me!
Have a good day/night! :)
Thank you
@@blackpinkandbtslover6957 No problem!
No.
You forgot to mention the head/stomachaches , panic attacks and trembling hands
When l first got sober by 60 days l got in to major depression and that effected me bad l’m still in a state of depression till today now l’m 7 months and 8 days sober and sill in major depression, your videos help me feel good, l’m getting help l go to a IOP to see my counselor and my therapist, and to have long term sobriety, it’s been hard but thank you Jake for the motivation and the encouragement for me to get help .
More parents need to see things like this . I had a sister who spent her child hood with depression and anxiety my parents always brushed it off as she said it and now I notice things too and my sister had actually stepped up and took me to the right places and got me help as she is an adult now
You have got an amazing sister ❤️ bless you and her ❤️ 🙏
Yes, I know it’s treatable, but my god how long it freaking takes
At school i actually dont feel depressed. But home i do
Thank you for making me feel not alone in this constant hardship and suffering.
I never got rid of depression in school.
Story: in school I had only 2 friends and I was playing with them on the first couple days, then my friends went to play with other people and I was soooo sad. I eat lunch alone. Talk to no one. The only thing that was making me happy are my teachers. Because they care about me they talk with me. Complement me. Then he said " don't say you have no friend but instead say there is no one to be my friend " after that I got happy.
That's a big story 😂
I guess I do go through this after something happened yesterday at school. I began to loose interest and sit looking glum in my lessons, I'm normally a kid who's happy, enthusiastic and will always sit upright. My teacher didn't even ask if I was okay or anything and I was really hoping he would bc I am afraid to speak up. My RE teacher was the 1st one to address some problems I was having with students in my class when she kept me back a few minutes and arranged moving seat and asked if I'd want her to report it. I said I'd report it but I now can't bc if not the people who do it will expose me for something cringey I cleared up ages ago with her.
this is so real.
I have all of this and sometimes i try to stay away from my friends and friends or just people in general
"Society is cruel"
"Some people just dont know it"
'Until they experience it themselves"
That's how it all started right?😣😞
Best advice i can give you:
Don’t think your unworthy and work and stay motivated. Consistency is key.
How depression looks in school: smiling though everything, and being the “happy” friend😕
To whoever reading this,
You are pretty.
You are enough.
You are beautiful.
You are lovely.
You light up the room.
You are strong.
You are Like sunshine.
You are inspiring.
You have the best ideas.
You are making a difference.
You deserve a hug right now.
You are a great example to others.
You are more helpful than you realize.
You should be thanked more often. Thank you.
You are a gift to those around you.
You look great today.
You smell really good.
Your hair looks stunning.
Your voice is magnificent.
You have such a great personality.
You are perfect just the way you are.
You are an incredible human.
I appreciate you.
Our community is better because you're in it.
am so proud of you, and I hope you are too!
I absolutely love that shirt. It really brings out the color of your eyes.
No i'm not. I'm not strong. I'm not fricking beautiful and i have to accept that. you may be fat but say your not. say the truth. your fricking fat or your fricking skinny.
@@what_could_beit breaks my heart to see u talk shit about urself like this u don't deserve whatever pain ur going through
thank you so much
😭😭😭😭😭🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 *cries hard*
The sad thing is that the teachers don’t recognize it.
Yes teachers have know idea
Mhm
depression looks like happiness when seen but all it is dark clouds of fear and anxiety on the inside.
Depression can also look like a normal person. Lots of people (including me) hide their depression and pretend to act normal, it's basically the saying, "you never know what's happening under a smile. The "happiest" people can be suffering the most"
As a student in school with depression, this helps tons, thank you in every good way possible and remember everyone YOU ARE NOT ALONE!! ❤❤
I want to kill myself I hate my life
For me I see depression as a fake smile and always acting happy😔
It can also look like someone who always smiles
It can also look like pretending you’re happy even though you’re insides are killing you and you’re brain is running wild.
It feels like now..when everything gets way too much and you feel like you don’t belong and you don’t feel love and appreciation and you feel hate and being looked down at it really gets a lot I wish I can get through it but I can’t I just can’t …💔