SILLY WOMAN SYNDROME Full Version by RC Blakes
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SORRY FOR THE INTERRUPTION WITH THE FIRST STREAM. This is the entire conversation
Thanks .May God continue to bless you,You always give the best am so grateful.
Great! Because I sure wanted to finish hearing it! Bless you Pastor!
Looking forward to hearing the whole message. Some truly are volunteers and I have had to learn to let them be if they don’t want better.
Good Evening Pastor RC Blakes I'm Back For Seconds, This Message Is Dat Good. ❤️❤️❤️
Pastor, i knew you'd complete it. I know how you get down. Looking forward to this. 👆🏽
Abstinence provides a peace I won't give up for nobody 🙏 💯 ✨️
Yes ain’t nothing like it . No soulties
@@joanstevens5647
It took a lot of hard work a very long journey of healing but so worth it!
God be the Glory!
@@RealLadi228 year 6 proud of it.
Still on my journey to wholeness first it was 15 yrs in came a simp. I healed miraculously journaled wrote songs still thriving moving forward with clear vision
Women got to value themselves I don’t let no man touch me you healed whole celibate they just got out the bed with whosoever will . Bringing you that drama and soulties. Me nope imma queen don’t touch the merchandise!
He said you’re 50 years old still dating men with timberlands on. I’m DONE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm 44 he just took me out. I'm over like does where timberlands🤣🤣🤣
All the way out! 🤣🤣
Lmbo 😂😂😂
Them timberlands are a red flag 🚩
😂😭😭
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“A woman that’s not living an age appropriate life, you look ridiculous” I 1000% agree
200000 % in agreement😁😆😅🤣😂
He knows how to say right???😂😂
Nosey Meddling Intrusive Meddling Intrusive Stalkers. People
Should Mind Their Own Business.
Jealous Hearted Haters.
DirecTV Cable Overlay on Services.
Red Bonds Virgo Man Creepy Stalkers of Jacqueline Stribling.
@@jimmiegalloway4000 what are you talking about….?
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“Giving a man access to your body before he’s proven safe for your heart” ***Powerfully Accurate***
After looking at my routines and returns that led me to having 2 children out of wedlock by two different men- I shifted my routine and perspective and turned to God by Repenting, reading my Bible daily, talking a vow of celibacy until marriage and stopped living reckless.
A year later I met a wonderful godly man and we shared our very first kiss at the altar. We’re now Happily married (after 7 months of dating) with a bouncing baby boy ❤
Yes! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Bishop.....your sermons bring me to tears all the time. I am an African woman, who, for as long as I can remember, have been told to be submissive, to the extent that, I became the "silly woman" you have been talking about. I live in regret right now but as you say, it's never too late. I thank God for snatching me out of that situation, painful as it was. I want to say this though, only a "silly woman " will reject this message. Thank you so much and may God bless you for this marvellous work He sent you to do.
I know exactly what you mean; I just walked away from a 19 year/11 year marriage because I submitted to a man that abused, misused and misinterpreted submission to the point where I became that silly woman.
Wow, praise Him for your deliverance!
Since i started listening to his msgs i have really improved in my relationship am really blessed thank you sir. Greetings frm germany 🇻🇮🇩🇪🇩🇪
Amen!
Well said! 🎯🎯
I'm nobody's side chick, I'm nobody's secret. I am wife material 💍
I KNOW THAT'S RIGHT👰🏾💍!!!
But, are you somebody's lover, sex partner?
Amen to this
THAT'S RIGHT QUEEN ! WEAR UR CROWN 24/7 !! 💯
Yes same! Gotta know your worth and value.
“ If you don’t know who you are, you don’t what you need”. Wow!
I know right! Only God can reveal that to you. Glory to God!
Yep, a strong sense of self is paramount.
Don't be over committed, watch the energy. Don't move ahead of a man's signals.
I seriously moved from a broken woman to having a silly woman syndrome. I have allowed myself to be wounded by a Man totally beneath me. He has not hidden his feelings towards me and I still avail myself to his torture. Lord help me to break this routine. I need to listen to this message over and over again till I get it. Thank you.
Me too. God help us 🙏🏽
You're not alone💙💙
Get yourself a journal, and take notes. That's what I've been doing for the past year and I re-read everything I've written so it sticks. These things will take root, just keep on listening. God bless you.
🙏. You’re not alone
You're not alone! Tired of being silly! To hear it from the Word is a reality check! We must do better!!
PART 1
• A silly woman finds her identity in her victimhood. She is easily led by irresponsible people who do not mean her well. She's filled with a whole lot of different lusts. She's guided by her her flesh. The bible says she's always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
• There’s a difference between a silly woman and a broken woman.
Broken women are victims of systems and circumstances and it's because of that victimization that the broken woman finds herself in a dysfunctional state of mind for a season. Broken women have broken consciousness and don't know better.
• A silly woman is a recurring volunteer for the same buffoonery that she's dealt with year after year decade after decade. She's always learning but she's never applying. A silly woman moves from victim to volunteer, from broken to outright silly.
• She is destroyed for lack of knowledge, always learning but never able to actualize
• Silly is an adjective and it speaks of having or showing a lack of common sense or judgment. It means to be absurd and or foolish. Silly means to be weak-minded or lacking good sense.
• Don’t be that woman in church who is going to pray that God will turn a man's heart towards you. This is biblically unsound because God doesn't force anybody against their will. God doesn't even force people to love him what makes you think that god's going to force somebody to love you?
• If people cannot see you and hear you and appreciate you and love you for who you are it is it is a clear signal up front to you that here's a person that is not equally yoked they are not on the same frequency and the only thing you can do in a situation like this is to put yourself in harm's way because while you're praying for him and he realizes your desperation he's preying on you *you're p-r-a-y-i-n-g for him but he's p-r-e-y-i-n-g on you*
• Don’t force a man to love you. Don’t play games, don’t offer sex, don’t do things to make a man love you because you will simply struggle with sinking self-esteem.
• A woman should always follow a man's romantic lead because when women go into relationships, they go in emotions first while men quite often go in visually first or sexually.
• Wait for a man to prove his affection, to prove his love, to prove his commitment to you before you give your heart into a situation. The bible says, ‘he who so finds a wife finds a good thing’ so when he finds you and recognizes you and he articulates his interest and his affections then you can receive and approve of him.
• Here is the tricky thing about the nature of an unenlightened man. He may not love you but he may love having sex with you and you interpret sex as love. Sex is not love for man. Sex is a bodily function. It's actually a biological need for a man and an unenlightened man will have sex with a woman that is willing with with no concern for or even oblivious to the fact that he is destroying her emotionally
• A woman that has sex to remedy loneliness ends up lonelier because she allows her body and her broken consciousness to cause her to cast her pearls to swine. See after you've given your
Greatest value away for nothing to someone who didn't even deserve a conversation, you're left again in your house by yourself to ponder the massive mistake you just made.
• It's silly for you to still be at this age thinking that rolling around in the bed with a man that is not committed to you and does not love you, has not honored you as wife is going to somehow remedy your loneliness. It only causes you to sink deeper and deeper and deeper and deeper every time you get out of the bed with a man if you get a chance to get out of the bed because usually he leaves you there because he only came there for that.
• After you've given your body away, you're concerned with STDs and an unwanted pregnancy. You've allowed your virtue to be spilled on the ground like it’s nothing and you're still by yourself.
You know why???????? It's because loneliness is not remedied between the sheets loneliness is remedied between the ears if you don't if you don't remedy loneliness within yourself and between your own two ears there's no relationship there's no sexual relationship or any kind of relationship that can remedy loneliness
• Sexual sins are different from all others because in sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies. Your body is a sacred place for the Holy Spirit. Don't you see that you’re squandering what Jesus paid such a high price for? The physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you. God owns the whole work so let people see God in you.
• See, it’s common sense - it's wrong for men and women to sleep around but a woman's body is the incubator of life, it's where it's where god creates life to come into the world and if that is not an indication to you that your body is sacred then what is? Your womb is where your children come through. You don't penetrate a man but a man penetrates you. A man will impact you. It is significant for you to recognize and understand the sacredness of your body and not give your body to a man just because you feel lonely.
• It takes a very weak-minded woman to be talked into a situation
where you are laying in bed with another woman sharing a man.
Are you a woman who has no sense of purpose?
No sense of self love?
No sense of identity?
• Why are you buying into the lie that you are worth nothing apart from a relationship with a man.
• A woman that's not living an age-appropriate is going to look ridiculous. Your face and body may be well maintained and still very attractive but you are a certain age and you are supposed to live an age-appropriate, dignified lifestyle.
• Please don’t constantly view a relationship as validation of you and your worth. It is not what fulfills or gives one a sense of purpose or value. It is as silly as one viewing the lottery as your only means of survival. You may play the lottery everyday and never win. You are going to be on the street very soon because this mindset cannot sustain life.
• Purpose or validation has to start within you. Do therapy and counseling, work on yourself and within yourself. Find your purpose in a loving God who will never leave nor forsake you for he has carved you on the palm of his hand.
• You need not be in a relationship with anybody to validate or to authenticate you. It is in the pursuit when you make the most horrific decisions relative to relationships because if you don't know who you are, you will not know who you need and who actually fits or belongs in your life. You cannot be equally yoked until you first have a clear understanding of who you are and whose you are and where your value where your sense of purpose comes from.
• You can be by yourself and you can be good because it's your relationship with the creator and your relationship with yourself that matters, not a relationship with anything or anyone else.
• You are NOT an incomplete woman because you don't have a relationship with a man. No matter what anyone says to you. The same women are not even happy with the men they have!
• Please do not be influenced by the voices of degrading men that only serve to break you down. Degrading language activates either your spirit or your flesh. When a person wants to manage you listen to this very carefully. More specifically when a man wants to manage you, he'll use language that either appeals to your sensuality make you feel sexy and makes you feel desired.
• He can also trigger your insecurities so he'll find your weaknesses, he'll find your trauma and he'll keep pushing that button and he's he's going to fertilize your insecurities and the more he fertilizes your insecurities with negative words, your self-esteem constantly drops and it's harder for you to see what you're actually worth or what you actually deserve because you're now being influenced by the degrading voice of a man
• The bible says death and life are in the power of the tongue and a man, the wrong man that has access to your ear can reach into your soul and manage your life without you even realizing it
• Be a woman who intentionally regulates the voices that speak into her life. Nobody should have access to your ears just randomly. If you are going to talk crazy to me and you're going to use language that does not make me feel good, it’s time to close the ears and run!
Thank you! ❤
Thank you for sharing your notes!
Thank you
I wish i could like this a thousand times! 💯
Thank yoooooooou ❤️❤️❤️
You’ve described my past. I’m 59 and have been both silly and broken. I walked away from my last relationship although painful because I have grown out of the silly mode forever. I have surrendered my life to our Father God. I am single, an empty nester and at peace✌🏾
I have been SO silly, 49 but tryin to get to where U are …”single, empty nester and at peace.” Pray for me as I will continue to pray for u. 🤗
A good place to be
My story sis! I am 54 but have a child still in the nest. I had to walk away because I decided I deserve better! I deserve God’s best for my life!
Ain't NOTHING like peace!!
Amen that's awesome but don't give up on love let God heal you and once that happens God will send you the right person because God says not good for man to belong
Thank God I stopped being a silly woman years ago. Been single, celibate, and saved for several years now. Never been more satisfied and at peace. Dating is so freeing now that I move in discernment and wisdom, not desperation.
Thank you pastor Blakes for teaching me over the years. This is one of your best videos yet.
Facts
Amen same!
Pastor, I wish all the women that loss their lives to abusive, criminal men could've listen to your lesson. Maybe it would've saved their lives. It is an everyday occurrence. My heart is so hurt from all the unnecessary violence towards women. Thank you for blessing us with your compassionate teachings. I truly appreciate you and Lady Lisa. 🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤❤
My sister, who had an active DV restraint and brother 🕊 🕊. Sadly, both their exes were never charged.
Share this message with women, even the ones you don't like.
Amen 🙏🏾
@@LethalWeapon73 I am so, so sorry! 🙏 ❤❤❤
Bishop Blakes, I personally do not have a problem/issue nor do I get offended with you speaking the truth and how you speak it. I appreciate your raw, yet loving, honesty, because I can admit a lot of what you have said about myself and it does not bother me at all. I can handle/except it, because I'm being truthful to myself and not in denial✨💖
He was TALKING STRAIGHT TO ME!! ALL I COULD IS CHRIST KEEP BLESSING HIM & HIS FAMILY SO HE'S ENDOWED TO KEEP SPEAKING 🔊 💯 INTO OUR LIFE .
✔️. Very much needed ! Thanks for enlightening us and teaching us ladies ! I had no idea what was controlling me until I heard this! I had no idea I was getting PLAYED!! NOW MY EYES ARE OPEN.
Keep it coming ! Your July 4th outfit is CUTE & WONDERFUL !!!
Preach
Amen I definitely agree with you because some woman's never hear this kinda of knowledge young or older it's something every woman need to hear so they be healthy and whole
There is no way that you should be going through the same things you did in your twenties💯💯💯💯
I wish I would have heard this sermon last night because man do I feel silly now. Literally have been telling this man HOW TO love me for over 3 years. How embarrassing.
Don’ t be too hard on yourself When you know better you do better! YOU ARE WORTHY of BETTER!!
A healthy woman will only expect a partner not a project or provider not a taker.
I love how pastor holds us accountable
BOOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I've said it over and over. Everything starts with the woman. It's her choice to enter or leave. Women get stuck with children. Choose wisely.
I was in that situation but no longer by the grace of God .I got tired of being mistreated ,and used. Women will leave when they get sick ,and tired.😊
Same here. God help us 🙏🏽
I am nobody’s side chick! If I am not 1st round pick, I am not on the team! I am wife material! One Man’s Wife! 💯
this is so enlightening to any woman who is into self awareness and growth
Bishop! You’re right! We need this word for most women in this world nowadays including myself. I starts with us to make this change and turn our life around that’s why God gave us free will. We putting these men before God and we’re paying for the consequences of our sins. This world make relationships with the opposite sex so much more important than our relationship with God. We are idolizing these men and it needs to stop !! 🛑✋🏽
Amen! 💯
Absolutly!!!!! The only MAN to idolize is Jesus Christ!! HE was a MAN always respected His daughters💜💜🖐🏾💯✋🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥👑👑
Amen!
Well said.
This was OUTSTANDING and nothing but, the raw and uncut truth❗️Bishop RC Blakes JR. strikes again❗️Thank you Jesus for this man's shared love and wisdom for uplifting women❗️
👑🙌🏿♥️🙏🏿
"You have sex because you're lonely, and end up lonelier because you had sex!!"
If only there was a man of God in my neck of the woods speaking like this when I was growing up! The only thing we ladies were being taught was submission to the point of toxicity. I remember sharing a story to a minister about my friend who finally extricated herself from a long-term marriage to an alcoholic and physically abusive husband, and his response was, "she didn't pray for him enough "! I couldn't believe my ears!!!
Yes people stay asking me why I divorced my alcoholic, cheating emotionally abusive husband 🙄😵💫
I wish you were around Bishop Blakes when I was growing up, you really encourage me!! I consider you my "Spiritual Dad" God bless you and First Lady Lisa Blakes🥰🥰🥰🥰.
@@prettysailormoon7290 You had good sense, that is what your response should be!! Then keep it movin 👣👣🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️!! No further reply or conversation needed Amen!!!!
Gurl…feel you
Wow
This was needed for me exactly today, exactly right now, as i reached back to him who i vowed to stay away from because you know... summer... summer's are the hardest 🤦🏾♀️ but thank you. I will do my best to chose me and the best God has for me!
Same sis...but we just got to keep praying for that strength. I finally reached the point where I stop being silly with my ex but I still find myself being attracted to the same type of man. But I know it's because it's my heart that needs to change
“Summers are the hardest” dang … I didn’t think about it like that.. but that’s real 💯💯. You will be all good beautiful we fall but we get back up in CHRIST❤️. Long as we call today today u can cut dude off & go about it as u said from before repent & forgive yourself💕💕God Bless 💕
You got this stay strong. Dealing with the same thing🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾💪🏾
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Silly Women keeps repeating the same mistakes in dating, over and over again never learning. 💎💎💎
This was a GREAT MESSAGE EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HEAR❤️❤️❤️
I have this video in my RC Blakes Library!! I will share this with all my sisters🙋🏿♀️🙋🏿♀️
This is so inspiring as a nineteen year old girl. I am trying by all means to be a best version of myself and meet the man that will put me on a pedestal. In the mean time I am working on myself inside and out so that when I meet that man, I will be wise enough to treat him right and show him how to treat me. Thank you so much
Very impressive young lady 👏🏾. Keep that mindset that you currently have to be the best version of yourself but do it for you. And continue watching these types of videos. R.C. Blakes has so many helpful videos for us. 🙏🏾
Yes this intro by David Hollister is banging 🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵
It was getting good then it cut off. I thought it was because of the reception because I am riding the train home lol 😆. I love your honest approach. You are in no way harsh. My older brother was that way but I half listened. I WAS a silly woman eons ago. Thank you Jesus that's over. Can't wait for Part 2
Amazing content Pastor Blakes. Only a "Silly"woman would not appreciate these anointed words of wisdom. Thank you Sir.
Whew where was this when I needed it. Wasted 10 years with my kids father. This makes so much sense 😭
Forgive yourself.. give yourself more Grace
I've been using the internet since I was 32. I had access to wisdom like at my fingertips years ago, but I was too busy streaming music, watching funny videos and popular movies. Opportunities to learn and grow are all around you - but God has to wake you up to needs you weren't even aware of. Only God can penetrate the paradigms we hold.
Recovery:
1) Stop and take an honest look at what you get back from what you put in
Look at your routines.
2)Elevate your perspective and change your perception
Perspective is your vantage point
Perception is how you interpret what you see
3)Discipline your mind
a)Manage your thoughts
If they don’t agree with your destiny, cancel them
b)Receive correction
c)Release anything that causes you to stumble
I would say that listed points of recovery is useful for both men and women. It is so important.
@@sebenza1395 Absolutely ☺️
This needs to be taught nationwide!
It's actually being taught world wide... That's better than nation wide..
Pastors teaching should be taught in schools to every girl middle school and up, if I had his teaching, maybe I would not let men abuse me like they did.
This message is NOT FOR THE FAINT HEARTED!!! I am with you when you’re RIGHT✔️✔️✔️
I haven’t listened to the episode as yet, but this song gets me every time. I love the words, his voice, the passion. ❤️ ❤️
Was that Blake's singing that song?
I love that song sooooo much
@@Deikoka no he has an artist that wrote it though...his brother samuel sings good too though..I found him 1 yr ago..
So i listen to both..
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They're amazing
@@misguidedpearls7456
Oh okay. Good to know. Thanks for replying
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@@misguidedpearls7456 who is the sing by x
Thank Bishop for listening to the Lord about this message. I have be called by people A lesbian because I won’t deal with being secret or side chick. Because I am 46 with no children and relationship.
As my grandmother used to say “let the folks talk.” Keep living your best life.
They talked about Jesus! It’s not what the call you! It’s what you answer to! You know your worth! 😂😂😂😉. And sweetheart! He’s worth the wait 😉👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Thank you for the kind words I appreciate that.
That is an extremely stupid approach, just keep yourself in high regard.
Do you still want children? You know 46 isn’t too older to have children despite what society thinks
I enjoyed watching the full version of this Pastor Blakes. It only inspires me to grow and become better. Blessings to you and first lady Lisa Blakes
I have the outright silly woman syndrome. It's been a pattern. I consciously recognize it as a paradigm where I have moved from victim to volunteer. It is as if I find the same man, different mask. I am determined to break this syndrome. It is humiliating to admit this. In other areas of my life I have been successful, but when it comes to relationship there has been enormous challenges. Thank you for this vid.
Good for you!! what have you done differently to approve your life. I am asking because I can learn different strategies to do better.
Wow the lottery analogy really drove the explanation around women who view relationships as validation. This video is gold!
Your messages are changing my life. I was already on this Queen journey but your messages are confirmation. I have a therapist after one of my sessions. She even recommended I listen to you. Thank you , Uncle RC.
U better love urself !! Whoever you are man or WOMAN 💥🔥👑FACTS PASTOR BLAKES
Thank you so much for this message. I needed this 🙏🏽
I have to say this is probably one of the most powerful sermons I’ve heard from you pastor, it’s hitting me deep in my core. I was convicted a few months ago that I can’t keep giving away my precious body to men anymore because I thought “I had needs” and it was the only way for me to have men in my life. I’ve since realized how sacred this body that is God’s! As I observed the women in my family before me, I’ve realized there are some generational curses that I have to break with the upcoming generation when I’m blessed with children. As you said, when will you apply what you’ve learned.? It’s not enough to acquire the knowledge, you must apply it and honor God by changing your ways with what you now know.
Just want to give you your flowers 💐 You have helped so many people, including myself. Thanking God for you! Even as I accomplish such things, it’s nice to hear that I am on the right track. A healthy second opinion. Thank you & Respect 💜
“Age appropriate lifestyle...” Yeah I’ve been spiraling into shame lately because I’m 43 living with my mom. I fell ill when I turned 40 and had to move back home.. My life was pretty much “straight n narrow” before-hand though... although I’m feeling better, the mental and emotional residue is paralyzing.. So I’ve been playing catch up, while still giving myself some grace.. Keep healing folks, we’ll get there!!
So thankful that I have the chance to review the intire message, I didn't know what happened when it cut off, but I'm listening because I too have been a silly woman in my past, but GOD🙌🙌🙏❤
Yes Sir! Thank you for being the dad many of us never had. I truly appreciate you giving us the hard truth.
100 percent me a few years ago, my mother lots of women dont know their worth so sad such a waste..theres real men that will love you if you love yourself get to know you! Love you first!
Recognized myself in many of these points..... It all comes down to the frightening thoughts of us women to be, to live, grow old and remain desperately ALONE. Desperation attracts all kinds of "beasts", psychopaths and narcissists too, all but God's designed man for you.
We need to hear this Pastor! This one makes you say Ouch!! WOW!..Thank GOD for a renewed mind!!
Come on NOW with the red bottom brim 💪🏾💪🏾. A stylish man of God. Your openness and honesty is appreciated. Remain Blessed and Favored 🙏🏾🙏🏾
"You look Ridiculous." 👀 🤭💫 I love your channel. The BEST advice and always RAW TRUTH.
I just saw a very sad situation that happened last week that I believe fits into this situation. 48 year old successful woman was murdered by 32 year old career criminal in whom she broke up with, shot her down killing her in the streets like an animal. Now I'm not saying she deserved tnis because she didn't. But we who are on this side of eternity MUST seek The Most High for wisdom and get healing so we don't continue to be attracted to someone whom we are not equal with.
Yall better listen! This man can’t put it no simpler. Act on it. Manage the energy you allow into your space. Manage your ears.
There’s a shortage of “GOOD MEN.” Men who are providers. Men who are protectors. Men who take care of their offsprings. Men who want to leave a legacy, not a joke of life.
I love your channel! The Black community needs more men who think and teach like you, sir. Thank you so much for all that you do! I will be purchasing some "Queenology" products soon.
I love the song about the Queen!!! Brings tears to my eyes to know that a man can think about his woman in this way… Also the soloist sounds great.😊
Pastor, you are looking sharp! Your red hat set it off. I received this lesson in the name of our Father God! 🙏 Thank you❤❤❤❤
I appreciate your ministry I have learned so much growth throughout these teaching.
Thanks for your teachings. I love your content. You definitely teach me what my father should have
Yes frfr🥂
Amen. This was a very good teaching session. If I can be transparent, I have been that woman. I am so grateful and thankful for my soul's growth and elevation over the years. Based off of this teaching today, I can see how I have grown in the Lord and in self-love and self-acceptance. I still have a lot of more growing to do, but I am so grateful, I am becoming a more stronger empowered woman. And I thank God that he is turning all of my mess into a message one day. May God continue to use you and your beautiful wife to help women grow. Blessings.
I’m with you Sis we all just have to be Still.
You are truly anointed Pastor. Thank you so much for this message. I have been a broken woman turned silly, but know more!!!! I am ashamed how long it has taken me to see the light. I plan to watch this multiple times.
Love your hat!
Im a silly woman. I will apply the principals you showed me. I will be 60 yrs old this year. I will do better because I know better now.,
C’mon Bishop with the intro song!!!! Love it! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He has such an amazing voice, very spiritual and uplifting, and I was just passing through. Yes, I am so blessed to hear this message.
Pastor Blakes, (is it Pastor or Bishop) ... I just wanted to say thank you for this! I can honestly say I haven't been a "silly" woman for over a decade, but I am still a work in progress. I will take your advice to manage my mind, receive correction and release anything and anybody who attempts to keep me from my destiny. Thank you for being such a great advocate for women. May God continue to keep and bless you and yours.👌🏾💜✌🏾🙏🏾
What a blessing. I heard this whole talk 3 times. From start to end 3 times
I would love to know the name and author of the opening song. Shazam couldn't find it
@@deborahscott8199 Dave Hollister The name of the song is Queenology
I will continue to watch and watch until it is absorbed in my system!!!
@@janellamurphy5665 yes it is a gold mine. I wrote down all the key points too. It's too much gold. Thank you pastor.....
Good evening, pastor. I've learned a lot about myself lately, thank you very much.
(Update)
"She's always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth"
It's time to go on... Not easy, but it is possible and needed.
Wow Bishop Blakes, you came with the purest truth with this message. All of it made so much sense. It is so important to know your worth. Thank you to you and Lady Lisa for all that you to help people to heal. ❤🙏🏾🎯
We need it, please teach FATHER in spirit so we can live and TRUTH!!! You haven't gone to far
Thank you Bishop RC Blake, I have been a silly woman since I can remember. In my last relationship, the person kept playing mind games with me. After listening to your message on being a queen, he called and said that I was still his baby I told him don't call my phone again. I blocked his phone number. He tried to reach me on my home phone. I didn't return his call. He called me from another phone number saying he was sick. I did not call him or stop by his house. It
Now THIS is the type of Woman we all should be searching the globe for. Thank you for the amazing Words.
Thank you so much. Was hoping for the entire conversation🙌🙏
How raw and painful the truth hits your soul im a silly woman not proud of my brokenness God heal my soul before it’s to late
Thank you for making it plain💯🙏❤️ willing to do the work. Thank you again breaking the word of God down so plain powerful message💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏💃❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for telling nothing but the truth yet seasoning it with love and wisdom from the bible. I appreciate you Pastor Blakes. Excellent advice as per usual 👍
I love the opening song
You are good hearted man!!! I can see it so clear. so thankful to have found your channel. it's definitely life changing.
This is a very good teaching and I'm sharing it with other women .
Go ahead my sis, we have to share this amazing message worldwide so that silly women out there including myself can benefit from it. God help us 🙏🏽
I have done this also - life changing.
Amen Thank you…Bishop you always make me homesick for New Orleans
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5 years celibate & working on my heart, mind & soul💝
I broke through my low value conscienceness & learned to love & care for myself💪🥰
With that came broken soul ties & freedom from love addiction, rescue fantasies and codependency🤩
God surely does want us to love ourselves so that we can shine that loving light upon our brothers & sisters💝🙏
Let there be peace on earth & let it begin with US☮️🕊️💓
Thank you! I was a bit worried last night! I am tuning in tonight!
Pastor you laid the law with this message! Thank you for this word. Please don't worry about offending us, not all discipline feels good. I love your correction it comes from a good place. I am grateful for your ministry.
So, my maiden name is Errica Patrick-you have some explaining to do, ma’am…
That song is just so beautiful. Also, Some of us thank you and MRS Blakes so very much for what you are doing for the women of God.
Thank you Bishop for this message. I’ve been broken and silly. But I’ve learned 🙏🏿🙏🏿
I wish you could come to my country called Uganda in Africa all that you have described here is seen as love.Polygamy here is seen as normal infact when you leave a man for cheating they tell you all men cheat and it rains everywhere and actually if you are nice you are seen as boring
Hun am Kenyan same thing here,it's sad you can't even be nice. If it's your nature you are fucked literally
I refuse to be silly. Making changes as you speak.
it's everywhere the older generation are still putting up with non sense it's so sad what they have passed down ..
Thank you so much for your sermons. They are so powerful especially for a young woman like me who didn’t really have the best or any guidance from my parents. But my grandpa is a pastor and he influenced me a lot in my life. I am 22 and I just graduated college and I am learning and striving every day to become a better woman emotionally,mentally and physically and spiritually . Not having my dad in my life and a mother that is not mature at all and we didn’t get along made me really had to teach myself how to be a strong powerful woman of GOD that is focusing on myself and the development with God and building my emotional strength and power that I thought that was taken from me. But god has stuck by my side and has helped me learn things earlier than others and I am really blessed for that it was really good to watch this and know that I have already put these motions in place I am honestly so proud of myself and I am learning so much that my dad didn’t teach me. The best thing you can do is know your own worth. Thank you. God bless ❤️
I am proud of you and so excited for your future!
Thank you for sharing these teachings on a global scale Bishop. They have helped me make better, more sound decisions and for the first time in my 54 yrs of life, I am confident, strong, independent, in love with me and living my BEST life out loud! Fully immersed in my feminine energy. A lady from head to toe. My song is different, my mind renewed and just like Ruth, my Boaz will find me working NOT lurking! Sis is booked & busy! God Bless you Bishop!🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯🎯🎯💪🏾💪🏾💞💞🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️
Sometime (maybe even most of the time), the ability to define a thing or a behavior gives you power over that thing. Thank you for defining "Silly Women Syndrome" and naming the behaviors so that now, we can recognize these things in ourselves and others. Now that we know, we have no excuse. Thank you for empowering us with God's truth.
💯...Keep preaching the truth. Whoever receives it receives it. Yes the truth hurts sometimes but its better to have someone speaking truth into us. You have no clue how much more grounded and more affirmed within myself I have become because of your teachings. You're literally teaching my things I didnt even know i needed from my own father!!
Wow you have said something that has really touched me, the issue of praying for your spouse so that they start treating you right and love you, when God gave us free will and he doesn't even force us to love him. This is so deep. People should love us cause they want to not because we want them to.
Bishop I THANK God for you SO MUCH, I BLESS THE DAY I ACCIDENTALLY BUMPED INTO YOUR CHANNEL - NO ONE REFERRED ME TO - IT WAS BY DIVINE GUIDANCE!! THANK YOU FOR THE LOVE AND GOD BLESS YOU AND LADY LISA AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY🙏🙏🙏
Same here! We were divinely led!
Thank you for educating women all around the United States. All of your messages have inspired me as well as making it clear and heartwarming .
Thank you for sharing your gift with all of us. I am so grateful to have found you and all your messages are eye opening. I was a silly woman and almost fell for a man that had pulled the wool over my eyes but somehow God is always looking out for me. Have a blessed day and thank you again for all you do. 🙏🏼
You’re Passionate about sharing with us women. Thank you 🙏🏾 a Million$$$
This message is by far one of your best! Thank you soo much and may God continue to bless you and your family!
YES AND YES AMEN!!!!!🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I agree, it's one THE best he's done.