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  • @katherineperez7681
    @katherineperez7681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I listen to this on the Podcast app but tuned in on TH-cam to see how Alyssa pressed the Chapstick 🤣

  • @olaadamolekun8040
    @olaadamolekun8040 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey guys, I'm a 54 year old grandmother (young at heart). I've followed Jeff since back in the day and I think you guys are awesome! An inspiration to your generation - actually all the generations. I think this was one of your best podcasts to date. God bless you and yours.

  • @hannahling1378
    @hannahling1378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I totally watched all your guys’ stuff when I was in high school and single. I’m a junior in college now (still single 🙌 hola) and still 100% inspired by every video 😁 I’m so thankful to have your guys’ thoughts on life, marriage, and singleness in this time when I’m discovering who God made me to be and how to model my life after Christ instead of the culture. Such a challenge but so worth it!

  • @carlocicero
    @carlocicero 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have been listening and following you since I was a freshman in high school! I love you guys and your relationship and yearn that God would bless me with a marriage like yours

  • @Jasmineocreates
    @Jasmineocreates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a single woman, I find your guys content very relatable so thanks so much for what y’all do

  • @rbq326
    @rbq326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was discipled by three different families during my college and young 20 years. I got to see healthy, God first, marriage, discipline and love. As a person who came from an unhealthy background it changed my life!

  • @lisagartner1238
    @lisagartner1238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your analogy of singleness not being "second class"

  • @JeffersonBethkepage
    @JeffersonBethkepage  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Talking all things single & married this week on the podcast! And chatting mainly about how we miss the mark a lot on understanding the difference in scripture. What do you think? What stood out from this week's episode?

    • @anjusmiles8635
      @anjusmiles8635 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Jeff and Alyssa, thank you for that. Firstly, congrats on the little one! Second, I was blessed with this video! Thank you. Just one question though, to Alyssa; you mention that for singles, it is important to make sure you have the same vision as the person you're thinking of getting married to. My understanding from the video is that, after marriage however, it is possible that God may now lead you to a new call, AS A FAMILY. So does that mean the vision you shared earlier as individuals needn't/shouldn't be focused on any longer?

    • @EsaCrisbel
      @EsaCrisbel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When you said “single is a mission, and marriage is a mission” I said “mmm c’mon, tear it up”

    • @davidbarrero5625
      @davidbarrero5625 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very convicting! Praying God helps me with the calling I have now! He so what does this mean for people dating? Like how does staying focused on your mission work here. Does that make any sense??

  • @Rebekahkim94
    @Rebekahkim94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love that you guys are doing podcasts!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @livingunashamed4869
    @livingunashamed4869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Bottom line guys single or married the goal is to glorify God :).

  • @katrina1389
    @katrina1389 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this thank you!! Happy Fall, soon to be thanksgiving !’ Congratulations on the blessing ❤️ God bless you both!!!!

  • @hannahfeghaly1994
    @hannahfeghaly1994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so encouraging to me! Thank you!

  • @geenieegeena
    @geenieegeena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Was waiting for this to come out - Had to watch the chapstick part 🤣🤣

  • @eltrompetachica
    @eltrompetachica 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband and i have been watching you since we were in high school. We're 23 now. Loved going through the Love That Lasts series before getting married!

  • @jamesanderson9155
    @jamesanderson9155 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your wife is totally right Bert's bees is the bomb!!!

  • @sietskebrouwer7682
    @sietskebrouwer7682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, I'm fifteen years old and Dutch and I've seen al your videos. Love them!

  • @amysimpson1964
    @amysimpson1964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im in high school and i love watching your videos! so helpful

  • @micapascky7675
    @micapascky7675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this makes so much sense! am a single cross cultural mish & it's my first mission, if not for the married couples am friends with i would've gone crazy now, literally. thanks for broadcasting!

  • @joshhirscher2471
    @joshhirscher2471 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is Gold. Thank you!

  • @micahathey8065
    @micahathey8065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you guys are ADORABLE!!!

  • @sadieann1036
    @sadieann1036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love the podcasts ❤️ I was wondering if you would be willing to speak on sickness/illness in relationships. It's something everyone has to go through at one point or another, but there really isn't anything out there addressing it.

    • @kalligrace1077
      @kalligrace1077 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadie Ann
      That’s a great topic idea!

  • @lisar5349
    @lisar5349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "I'm on a mission from God" love that take ❤

  • @dee5904
    @dee5904 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soo encouraging!! ❤️

  • @telesamorrison2238
    @telesamorrison2238 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this and my mom and her friend is my person of peace

  • @saralee8996
    @saralee8996 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved that you gave practical reasons why for singleness, not just deeming it a gift (I cringe when I hear that too!). A calling can hurt. I love that singleness and marriage are in a symbiotic relationship - the outpost and infantry!

  • @HelloKeianaS
    @HelloKeianaS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Guys. This. Podcast. Is. Amazing!!! Praise God!!!

  • @kayredeemed116
    @kayredeemed116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen! I would say yeah as a single gal it's hard to find families and people because it seems like so much work for couples and families to seek us out. I have one family/best friend who invites me over to eat and do life with. It has been a different season with more busy stuff on the day to day but it's almost akward to ask other families to do life with them. It's been random times to have other couples ask me to spend time with. I do believe these families are busy and care about singles. My place is so small and I don't feel secure about having people over my studio but desire to invite people. One day I will. I appreciate the families that have invited me for holidays and bbq stuff but I wish it was happening more often to be Invited. I am a pretty friendly person so it's not like I'm stand offish. Each season it gets harder and I tend to give up on trying because it's exhausting and to keep getting no as an answer. I think in some ways its God wanting me to lean in more on Him if people are not present in this season of my life. Get my drift ?

  • @Somospaisanoselpodcast
    @Somospaisanoselpodcast 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys are such an inspiration to me! ❤️

  • @gwenmathebula3891
    @gwenmathebula3891 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Singles on a mission, what a revelation 🙌

  • @sarahmoundele8453
    @sarahmoundele8453 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in high school and I enjoy video like this.

  • @J2415J
    @J2415J 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Evergreen is from the old print journalism days (those newspaper things that used to be really popular). It was meant to describe an article that was not time-bound or time-sensitive and could be printed the next day, the next week, the next month, etc. Usually a feature article.

  • @beastboy2588
    @beastboy2588 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally inspirational

  • @rebekahployhar2377
    @rebekahployhar2377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am crazy about my chapstick as well but I can only use Burt’s bees. Any other kind makes my lips more chapped 🤷‍♀️

    • @JeffersonBethkepage
      @JeffersonBethkepage  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      glad im not alone!! haha

    • @sarahsherwood861
      @sarahsherwood861 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m on the normal chapstick brand game! I’m in college and I love listening to these podcasts, it’s so refreshing because there is so much insight/advice that totally goes against the grain of the culture in college.

  • @CozyConspiracy
    @CozyConspiracy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Carmex is the best!!!

  • @idkhippo
    @idkhippo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve never tried the blue chapstick, my holy grail is the black chapstick!!!

  • @starrynite1973
    @starrynite1973 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my gosh no way.........I have the same old with Chapstick......with the table and everything!!!!

  • @robertlorenz2492
    @robertlorenz2492 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ever green perennial basically timeless where it will return after a time, multiple iterations and stuff

  • @baileegreer813
    @baileegreer813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So cool that you two have opened up your home to singles !! ... I’m a soon to be high school math teacher. I’ve been considering teaching in Hawaii due to the shortage there but I’m not sure I could afford the living expenses. If you know of any couples there that would be interested in hosting a 22 year old single teacher, hook a Sista up!😂

  • @Ashmarie94xo
    @Ashmarie94xo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ll come live on Maui! If you ever need a nanny 😂

  • @andreawallent988
    @andreawallent988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just watched this for the first time and made some notes/questions. I have been struggling with whether or not I am ready to be dating or not. Then at the end of this video I felt that dating to may be its own calling in a way. In singlehood you have your own personal calling while in marrige you, together, have a calling that is truly right for both of you. Is it me overthinking or is it possible that dating has its own calling? To lead each other closer to God, each person has their own personal mission, but then supports the other. If this is it's own seperate calling then there may be other descriptions but it's just a thought.

  • @TheSportsandFilmFellowship
    @TheSportsandFilmFellowship 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏽💯

  • @kxlexx4969
    @kxlexx4969 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    high school! :)

  • @eltrompetachica
    @eltrompetachica 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Burts Bees is the best

  • @thebiblefoundation
    @thebiblefoundation ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture.
    JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.”
    I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures.

    By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all.
    th-cam.com/video/GWViryWWch4/w-d-xo.html

  • @Maiseexi
    @Maiseexi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dang can Alyssa get a word in?

  • @gloryboundkev
    @gloryboundkev 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The rabbit died.

  • @TipOfTheSpear907
    @TipOfTheSpear907 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Family vlog?

  • @jarthestar4240
    @jarthestar4240 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Christianity is a BUBBLE

    • @andrewbeltran5795
      @andrewbeltran5795 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      jar the star Sure it is. It’s designed to keep HELL OUT. Not meant for Christians to feel trapped in.

  • @NatashaMina
    @NatashaMina 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy, ignores his wife completely. How she carries on smiling after being ignored so many times...he brushes off everything she says. Can't wait to get past her comment. Hard to watch.

  • @Ivanlander
    @Ivanlander 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    First 3 minutes just listening ... nothing interesting so I couldn’t finished this .. I’m so disappointed

  • @jesusenglishinternationa4353
    @jesusenglishinternationa4353 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture.
    JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.”
    I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures.

    By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all.
    th-cam.com/video/GWViryWWch4/w-d-xo.html

  • @sisaliceponnuswamyfastingp3414
    @sisaliceponnuswamyfastingp3414 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture.
    JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.”
    I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures.

    By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all.
    th-cam.com/video/GWViryWWch4/w-d-xo.html