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Shape technology, or it will SHAPE you | Real Life Podcast Episode 9

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  • @jessicacasorso6303
    @jessicacasorso6303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am 56 years old and I had never own any kind of mobil phone, and I feel free! But the sad part is that wherever I go, people is just staring at their phones, even in reunions and it is hard to make a good conversation, so sad, and also it make you feel ignored. My husband has a flip one, only because our orchard business or an emergency in the work. I have survive with out it, just like in the old times, and if somebody needs to tell me something, good or bad, I just get the news later!.
    You two are an inspiration in this time we are living. God Bless you and your family

  • @snicholson8884
    @snicholson8884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I know she's probably really quiet, but take a breath and give her the opportunity to speak lol i love to hear more of her thoughts.

    • @fagundes1212
      @fagundes1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Her body language from 10:10-10:30 screams "ok, I'm just here for the ride" hence the response when she's asked if she wanted to speak on the 1st item of discussion was "no, you go for it" ...then again, I've been wrong more than a few times before.

  • @MissCheenah
    @MissCheenah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Good points!
    I also try the following:
    No phone at the table (take "food pics" at the kitchen counter and then set food on table)
    No phone 30 mins before going to bed
    No phone next to bed
    I DO need to work on the following:
    Being comfortable with not listening to anything at least an hour a day
    Stop binge watching and instead, read a book
    Thanks for the #nuggs!
    love you both

  • @ENoelleC
    @ENoelleC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Felt so convicted just in the 1st 10 minutes of this... and even more convicted at the end. I feel exactly the same way Alyssa says she does. I always have my phone near and I almost feel my heart race when I see it but am not looking at it. Actually excited to set boundaries and see how different and more connected I feel without it.Thank you for talking about this subject!

  • @AnnaBTsatokeEmpress
    @AnnaBTsatokeEmpress 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Self regulate... living a disciplined life, even in technology. I have to self regulate in every because everything can be so entertaining, games, facebook...lol, etc.

    • @kalligrace1077
      @kalligrace1077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anna B Tsa'toke
      Lol I know it’s hard😅

  • @shadyabrown-hall5955
    @shadyabrown-hall5955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've gone through weeks without Facebook and trust me. When I went back from that break I realized I didn't miss a thing.
    Taking breaks from Technology and screen things is good for the mind and spirit.

  • @_pandacecelya_
    @_pandacecelya_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Put technology at the fringe of your house, not the center." That's GOOD.

  • @debrafabian8850
    @debrafabian8850 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jeff and Alyssa, thank you so much for making these videos and sharing your hearts. I look forward to them every week. My favorite parts were definitely creation > consumption and setting up your space to foster creativity!

  • @junebugjay
    @junebugjay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Would love to hear about your parenting styles. Like how ur teaching ur kids about god and the routines you have with them how do you keep them entertained with out the use of technology

  • @Kshep24
    @Kshep24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this. Never really thought about having a balance between consuming vs doing. Did learn recently how not to idolize our quiet time so much as serving is actually just as important.

  • @meganberry6974
    @meganberry6974 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so encouraging! I love your tips on how to regulate it!

  • @user-bm1mu8rg5t
    @user-bm1mu8rg5t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great podcasts; you guys talk about such great topics. I'm in high school and found your channel about two years ago and love all your advice.
    I have temporarily disabled my instagram for a few months already and I love it. I often used to find myself just reaching for my phone and instagram out of boredom and never felt refreshed afterwards. I only have my social media on my iPad and Laptop, and not on my phone, so that it's not so easily reachable.

  • @bravemac8612
    @bravemac8612 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    These podcast are literally life!! THANK YOU!

  • @grcdtgrw
    @grcdtgrw 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is GOLD.
    So thankful for you guys!

  • @emilyestrela1329
    @emilyestrela1329 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this content is amazing... so much wisdom, so practical and it all makes total sense

  • @andreanxx
    @andreanxx 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this! God bless you and your family xo

  • @Losolivas
    @Losolivas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, I try it. I did loose my husband last year in September and it was really hard. Hard because I did not have kids and my life changed 100% but praying has helped lots. Blessings your way 💞

    • @kalligrace1077
      @kalligrace1077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Laura Olivas
      Sorry to hear that! Praying for you❤️

  • @gerhardtineke9609
    @gerhardtineke9609 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    wauw!! still so good to listen to!

  • @baudashley
    @baudashley 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely I completely love this video, I love how you both worded it and it’s really opened my eyes on my feelings about it. I already HATE my kids being always wanting the TV. I am definitely one to be in my phone working but I feel the Peace it brings when I put my phone in another room for the day or a couple hours. I am definitely going to try to delete my IG because I definitely feel I need to unclutter my social media and get closer with God. I loved this video. Thank you so much!

  • @jordanwold8668
    @jordanwold8668 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great! Thank you!

  • @EsiMaloney
    @EsiMaloney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i agree with everything said but i still struggle because i feel like if i need to be available to people and there for them.

  • @sandyrodriguez8734
    @sandyrodriguez8734 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good advice🌹🌹

  • @kandeealvarez6247
    @kandeealvarez6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    We need this on a platform right now with everything going on

  • @Raikoushiro
    @Raikoushiro 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love so much of this, and technology has ways that we can adjust how available we are. If you have to be available, you can put your phone on do not disturb mode, but make certain contacts as exceptions! I take care of my sick grandma, so my exceptions are her doctors, hospitals, her daughter, her husband, and 2 family members whose kids/my other siblings that I help take care of or am an emergency contact for. We can make them more of a tool than use being used.

  • @heatherdenenea2840
    @heatherdenenea2840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Jeff, I think in the episode with John Mark, you mentioned a study about how social media "plaques up" the brain. My background is in Bio and I would really like to read about that! Could you pass on where you got that info from? Thanks!

  • @austindenofrio8923
    @austindenofrio8923 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I remember a story about the discovery and production of radium. Everyone thought it was just the most awesome element and it was played with at the production factories and put in all sorts of products. Some of the ladies that worked in the production facilities would jokingly put some on their teeth to make them glow in the dark. Years later the consequences of messing with radioactive material started killing off the workers, but the production companies insisted that radium was safe so when people started dying there was a retaliation from the workers. The employees were dying from exposure so some of them decided to sue the employment companies to be compensated for lying and putting them at an enormous health risk. Scared that information would get out that the companies killed people the kept postponing the court dates over and over again until all the workers who had filed the lawsuit had passed away from radiation poisoning.

  • @kandeealvarez6247
    @kandeealvarez6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow awesome 👏

  • @semaman879
    @semaman879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is this on Spotify?

  • @kandeealvarez6247
    @kandeealvarez6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    More like this guys !!!

  • @unclerhombus
    @unclerhombus 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:07 Jefferson is visibly pissed at his wife for continuously interrupting him.

  • @hannahvanderhooft6029
    @hannahvanderhooft6029 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i LOVED this podcast. technology has been weighing on my heart a lot lately and whether or. it my relationship is healthy with it. Love your “radical” view on tech in today’s culture and society. Thank you for willingly being different from our culture and striving to be Christ-like in every aspect and spurring others to do so.

  • @Taylaaaaa562
    @Taylaaaaa562 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooo good

  • @kandeealvarez6247
    @kandeealvarez6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can u post this on your FB?

  • @thebiblefoundation
    @thebiblefoundation 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture.
    JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.”
    I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures.

    By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all.
    th-cam.com/video/GWViryWWch4/w-d-xo.html

  • @MCLegoboy
    @MCLegoboy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've never had a smart phone. But I do spend too much time with my laptop. So you know, I'm still working things out.

  • @kandeealvarez6247
    @kandeealvarez6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    NUGGETS 🏅

  • @magnusigland7980
    @magnusigland7980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do u know that you are ready to go in to a relationship? Pleas help

  • @kikapedzisz9107
    @kikapedzisz9107 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please make vlogs again :)

  • @kandeealvarez6247
    @kandeealvarez6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Moderation

  • @teresasvk2443
    @teresasvk2443 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    11:16 - to bring new jerusalem of order out of chaos?? 😲🤔 whst did u mean by that??

    • @yodetwassie
      @yodetwassie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tereza Semanova he defines that in his new book :)

  • @apocolipto129
    @apocolipto129 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Jeff, I'd like to get in contact with you and hopefully collab, i hope you're well

  • @ThiIsWhoIReallyAm
    @ThiIsWhoIReallyAm 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try blockchain and Steem for one. It will change your mind about all of us being just consumers and technology as whole

  • @mf8080
    @mf8080 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So do you watch tv shows without your children on your own time ? What do you do the nights you're not watching games or movies as a family ?

  • @allie8cat7
    @allie8cat7 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the name of the engineer who quit apple?

  • @feelinit213
    @feelinit213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've never been this early🤣first..

    • @JeffersonBethkepage
      @JeffersonBethkepage  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      aye!! what's up! hahah thanks for watching!

    • @feelinit213
      @feelinit213 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love having your guys' influence in my life.

  • @redillasqueenniefaye2529
    @redillasqueenniefaye2529 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥰

  • @kandeealvarez6247
    @kandeealvarez6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Safety regulations are very important.

  • @fightthegoodfightoffaithmi8676
    @fightthegoodfightoffaithmi8676 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matthew 7:13
    Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat:
    John 15:9
    As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.
    2 John 1:9
    Whosoever transgresseth, and abideth not in the doctrine of Christ, hath not God. He that abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son.
    Revelation 3:9
    Behold, I will make them of the synagogue of Satan, which say they are Jews, and are not, but do lie; behold, I will make them to come and worship before thy feet, and to know that I have loved thee.

  • @danielcole156
    @danielcole156 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it’s a good thing to turn social media off just like turning off this podcast. Proud to be atheist.

  • @jesusenglishinternationa4353
    @jesusenglishinternationa4353 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture.
    JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.”
    I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures.

    By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all.
    th-cam.com/video/GWViryWWch4/w-d-xo.html

  • @sisaliceponnuswamyfastingp3414
    @sisaliceponnuswamyfastingp3414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Gali, in the year 1980 I lost all my hopes, I became a thief and club dancer. At that time I heard about Christ, the Lord spoke with me though the Scripture.
    JOHN 14:6 “I AM THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER BUT BY ME.”
    I surrendered my life to Lord Jesus and confessed that He is the only Lord and died for my sins to deliver me from all my sins (Karma). When I totally surrendered my life to the Lord He has delivered me from evil spirits, which suffered me about 6 years. I became a new person in Christ. I love Bible so much and started memorizing the scriptures.

    By the grace of God I have memorized Five Thousand (5,000) Verses from the Holy Bible. Every week I also remember all the verses. Morning time I remember about 1500 verses for praise, worship and prayer. (Including 100 Psalms). This practice helps me to grow strong in the Lord and also to help others for the glory of the Lord. John 14:6 is my favorite verse; I preach this word to many unsaved people that they may find the peace in Jesus Christ because He is the Lord of all.
    th-cam.com/video/GWViryWWch4/w-d-xo.html