CHRISTMAS DINNER WITH MY PARENTS - Life at Home in the UK
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- I've got a few days left of my isolation period in the UK. I have to stay home, so I'm just going to produce a few raw and real Quarantine Vlogs!
We had Christmas dinner in our house in Newport, Wales, in January! But while waiting for it to cook, I did a house and garden tour here, so you can see my "facilities"!
A bit different to my life in the Philippines, that's for sure!
Let me know what you think: this style is very different for me!
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your mom is pretty chill. well, she's the commander of kumander after all xD
mader kumander
Cheers Kumander....love the cat! Keep yourself busy there and live happily. Take care!
Yes make your self busy , your parent house so big , start helping them to straighten the house , make the time go by fast, and you not gone be bored . Lots of things you can do around your parent house.
Ahhhhh! TH-cam kicked me off the live chat! Thank you so much, 2700 watching the premiere, that is really so awesome!
@@mannypacu6460 🤣🤣🤣 they wanted me to watch adverts on my own video!
@@KumanderDaot 😝
Similar to the philippines... always damp. Big temperature difference, though
Sir, you really have a good life growing up...,I can see your parents house....I was in Cardiff, 4x visited my sister in laws,many years ago....
Stay strong Kumander Anselm. Winners don’t quit, quiters don’t win. GOD LOVES YOU, and he already BLESSED you with 62K+ subscribers and massive viewers that LOVE 💗 and CARE FOR YOU. Keep posting updates. I was in tears 😭 while I was watching your confession video because someone very close to me had suffered from the same mental health issues as yours, and it was a little bit more serious than yours, it was enough of a reason why I had to enroll in medical related program in order to be able to understand it better and how to help.
Your mom's laugh is contagious 😂 wishing you well Anselm. Looking forward for your Wales' vlogs! Cheers
Hello from PHILADELPHIA, USA, Anselm. I wanted to post a comment after your last video, but there were several thousand comments and I felt mine would be lost in them. Our hearts (my Filipina wife's and mine) felt so heavy for you, like we wanted to embrace you. Such courage, though, that you shared that part of yourself. We are certain such courage will help you as well as help many others who suffer likewise, but in silence. We will be lifting you up in our prayers, Anselm, as we continue to follow your Daot adventures in Wales. Looking forward to seeing more of your home, your family, your hometown and your native country. I like the little "drink of cheers" to close out your video. It goes with the "5-thirsty" you are known for. Cheers to you, Anselm! May God continue to bless you and may you know He has so. Warm regards... -Mark & Rica 😊🤙 🇺🇲 🏴 🇵🇭 🇬🇧
You guys are awesome. You've kept me going through so much!
Very heartwarming and heartfelt. Yes, mental illness is not a joke. It is a Silent killer. 😪😪😪🙏🙏🙏🙏
God bless you and we will keep you in our prayers, Kumander Daot!! Hang in there! We are all here to support you🙏🏻
Trust God..God heals
Anselm, you have so much quality in your charming personality! Most of all.....your DOWN TO EARTH HONESTY !!! Love you so much for it !!! Supporting all the way dear friend....... from Montreal, Quebec ❤️🌈🌈
Im kind of sneaky with those books. I can spend the whole two weeks reading those.
Katugnaw gyod dha KD?wala mo ga snow?
Amping.
Good day KUMANDER! I am attempting to catch up on your videos since your last harvest. I am always trying to keep up with KULAS, BRET, YOU, BODING and others while at the same time living my own life and getting my OWN videos out. As you know, it gets very overwhelming.
It doesn't matter where we are, the PHILIPPINES will always be a part of us. I have been to the Philippines three times spending a total of 12 weeks there out of those visits. My wife is from DAVAO, a city that I couldn't help but fall in love with from my first time there. I am always eager to return there but with covid going on it is hard to say when we will be back. Watching you and the rest of the gang (AND OTHER SIMILAR CHANNELS) are my connection to the PHILIPPINES. As I have told others, I get lost in my own little world watching you all; it helps me to temporarily forget my own challenges in life and in other ways helps to motivate me to push through the day and towards the time when we can go back for another visit.
I have had my own challenges regarding emotions and anger or whatever in life when I was a younger man. I overcame some tough times, especially when my late wife was killed in a pedestrian-auto crash in 2008 by a still unknown driver. A few years later I found my FILIPINA online in DAVAO CITY. Two lonely hearts looking for true love; a world apart. That's how I came to be a part of this wonderful country, even when I am here in TEXAS.
KEEP AT IT YOUNG MAN, YOU ARE DOING GREAT!
Kumander you can get through it. You're strong, humorous and in control of yourself which is a good indications that you can self heal yourself and of course with the help of health professionals and your family and friends including the fishes in your ponds. 🤣🤣🤣
He is amazing
Should we not ask God for total healing?
When i was so sad and depressed, doing house chores and gardening helped me recovered. I am hoping for your fast recovery, prayer will help also. God bless you Kumander D!! ❤️
Out of the 211k people who watched your revelations few days ago, I’m sure some of them could use you as an inspiration , please carry on that positivity and show to others how to be better in times of crisis. Don’t give up!
Yes don’t give up
Be strong with this pandemic.
Everybody is dealing with this.
There's a lot of people in the countryside don't have any income in pandemic time.
They put there life in God hand.
I agree 💯%
Been seeing you in others’ blogs. I love this! Love the normalcy of life, upfront, no sugar coating, no pretence, I guess I’ll call it “organic”, so natural. Gives your Phil’s followers windows to the other worlds like UK. Will follow your travels. Love your home. You’re so humble. Well travelled, your parents raised you so well. I have 5 of your age. Keep it up!! ...Watching from Canada
This is great! Your video premieres an hour after Kulas's video. Looking out for both later. Happy New Year, Kumander. Stay safe and well
Please don’t do anything bad to yourself. You are worth living. Get all the medical help that you need. Everyone has disappointments and problems, so you are not alone. You have many followers and friends that care about you. Stay safe.
The whole world is cheering for your happiness..am jealous now...enjoy every minute w/ ur Dad & Mom...mine r long gone...count ur blessings....🧡🧡🧡u
Cheers Mate! I'm a Canadian but my roots are British my Grandfather came to Canada alone as a 16-year-old boy from Croydon. Really looking forward to seeing around your Home Town and all the best for your recovery. My Wife is a Filipina and we live in Vancouver Canada.
We all miss you already Kumander D🤗❤🙏😊🇨🇦
Yes me too
It's more inline with your theme to sign off your Vlogs " it's five thirsty somewhere "
Trademark that phrase before someone does.
Thanks for sharing your life story to us. Your recent vlog may bring a lot of awareness regarding BPD. You're a great story teller and I like ypur choice of background music to ypur videos. You may still not aware of it but ypu have gained a lot of fans always waiting for your next video. Keep going ! You have a reason to be here!
Keep on smiling and fight for your precious life, you can make it!
So much respect to K. D for speaking out. Takes a strong person to do that. And he is stronger than he thinks. Plus, he has all of us his army of followers. To support and watch his vlogs. Sharing is caring.
Enjoy watching from Cambodia 🇰🇭
You just said what thousands wanted to say, thanks
God be with you always kumander d
KD you are naturally funny, the part where u are figuring out anything about the parcel that u ordered. you are great now at vlogging, so continue doing anything that makes u happy then vlog it. plus stay positive like kulas. truly, every place in the world is beautiful, it is just up to us, our attitude in life that makes us happy and contented.
Enjoy bonding with your parents kd just stay safe and healthy my prayers is also for you stay strong and connect to our God 💖💖💖💖
Enjoy Life, Because is BEAUTIFUL....
Hello daot ! Good wheather in UK.
Kumander Daot, I’m watching your vlog from Virginia USA. I love your hometown. I started getting interested in UK as my son is studying at a University in Bristol. So brave of you to open up about your struggles. Carry on, life is beautiful!
Welcome home for Christmas...heart rendering watching ur last vlog but I can tell u will come out of this much stronger...Philippines is ur real home and soon to be mine when travel restrictions lifted...infact this month the builders will start building my home which I'm really looking forward to seeing...take care and let's hope 2021 is better for everyone
Your so genius Kumander Daot, a lot of books in your house.. Happy New Year!
Dude. I wasn't going to say anything, but that video shell shocked me as I could never figure out why I have these probs--which turns out to be a lot like yours! It's good to know I'm not alone out here...and neither are you. Remember...we are the normal ones! Much love...
Be strong brother everyone have it's own problem just pray to God....He is always by our side
@@apollocorporal8621 thx bro! Stay in the fight! God's the only way I keep going
I would organise the third floor: that place is amazing! Enjoy the time with your parents 👍🤙
Prayers for complete healing. May God Bless you and your family.
Stay strong and positive thanks for keeping us up to date take care
Thank you for the homey, fun Vlog 👌🤩Nice seeing your home and your parents. Take care always and Blessed Happy New Year 🥰 Keep safe always ❤️Cheers, sending lots loves
Our hearts 💕 and our prayers goes out to you Kumande! It takes a lot of courage to be transparent. You might think you’re defeated at times with this sickness but not at all, you’re a brave soldier who continue to fight for living and help others who went through the same thing. We know what’s like, my daughter have BPD. Thank you for being you and please know that you’re loved more than you know.❤️❤️❤️
Upload videos regularly and we will support u. We know u r a good man
Kumander.
You are home, enjoy this time I with your family and just relax.
This a great opportunity to gain strength to get back on track in life.
Stay strong my friend.
Stay strong keep the faith enjoy the precious time with your parents.
They says the man never cried, but if this the way released u know, then u become more better man. Astig ka kumander...
Enjoy the dinner w/ your family! We are praying for your fast recovery.
Yes 👍 hope everything going well and safe
Wisteria is beautiful when it's in bloom. It must be gorgeous to see during spring time around your house 🥰
Most of us have never been to Wales, much less UK. This Yank would love to see some sights over there, especially where you grew up, favorite hang outs, schools, etc. Keep the vlogs coming and don’t forget the Patreon account! You need support from your friends!
I am no stranger to people with mental health issues. My wife has major depressive disorder and regularly visits a psychiatrist. I also volunteer at a mental health facility that my sister co-own and run here in Cavite. Being around people who have varied mental health issues gave me a deeper meaning of compassion and empathy. I watch your videos (and commercials) religiously because I believe in you. And I know that with your positive attitude you can get through this. It may not or may be a long, rough, and tough haul (as I have learned with my wife's case) but it doesn't really matter. What matters is your will to not give up and face whatever life throws at you.
And by the way, those slippers are locally called 'smagool' (slang for smuggle as they are smuggled from Malaysia back in the day) in Mindanao.
pea brained my question since i was a child up until now bout' the "smagol" finally answered. thanks for sharing it 😊.
@@mylove_78 I'm not from Mindanao but I have relatives there whom I learnt it from. Cheers!
Interesting info about the origin of "smagool". Growing up in Samar, I always thought it was the local term. Thanks!
Great vlog. Keep doing what you are doing. Making everyone smile. Honest down to earth. Just real. Love it.
That’s a beautiful house when you look past the clutter, it has a lot of character and I love that wisteria. Your mom is a cool mom.
A home well lived in surrounded by the things one loves. Here in America also have books cases for all the books we have read or hope to read.
I knew someone who lived in one of these houses just by the civic center building, they are bloody massive. It's takes a lot of effort, maybe too much to keep a house like that immaculate. I like it, it looks cozy.
In order to clear the fog in your head, organization is the key de clutter wherever you go and it will help clear the mind
Hey kumander happy new year! When will you go back? Ingat po kayo...✌️😷
Thanks for sharing your family's holiday tradition - meal, etc. Good luck with everything.
Remember:
Only the ones who hear not the music, think the dancers mad.
I hear the music , too.
Stay strong and God be with you.
Who thinks kumander daot should cook filipino meal for him and his family? 👍
I'M SOOO THANKFUL YOU'RE WITH YOUR PARENTS, STAY SAFE BE POSITIVE AND HEALTHY.
FROM CALIFORNIA.
Stay safe kumander !!! Bridgend loves you !!!
Sunlight and sweating will boost mood. Stay outdoors as often as possible rooting for you
You probably ate parsnip often in Philippines as they usually put it in Sinigang soup as it is aka “labanos”
Agree, as well as banana that has anti-depressant ingredient
@@spooky91107 nooo parsnip is different from labanos,they also have labanos here in UK,parsnip is cream in color
Parsnip is singkamas in pinas 😊
This is how I imagine every uk citizen house is like and you dont fail me KD, old, big and covered with plants and made with bricks, and always damp outside. Thank you for giving us a taste of Wales
Kumander Daot, Please stay strong and enjoy life! Keep vlogging , buddy!
Safe together
Lovely to see you spending time with your parents and doing a bit of memory lane. You’re mum is so brave to be on camera. I wanted to start our retirement channel but our son swore that he’ll disown us if we do.
Hello, KD! As the saying goes, all things happen for a reason. One of the things that happened in your life in 2020 was TH-cam - it may provide the distraction and, at the same time, the focus that you will need as you work on becoming healthy again. May God bless you always.
Kumander! You CAN'T count on how many of your fingers and toes, your mom's, dad's, all of Wales, how many lives you have touched. You should be proud! I just subscribed!
That's exciting,waiting for more vlog about awareness KUMANDER D.
Now we're Interested in your life. please make daily vlogs.
I f¥\!# LOVE YOU DUDE!!! You’re going to be okay!! Anselm, everything is going to be okay. I promise you. 🌹
Thanks for liking this comment👍🏼 don’t know who you are but thank you. I hope it’s you Dork! 🤣. Hey, do you have an FB, or Instagram account? Look, I said ‘I Fkn love you bro but as a bro (nothing weird and queer) and I meant it. I’m just a fan, but I want to connect but don’t want to do it here. What do you think? Jeez
Aaaarrgh! Don’t answer that. There must be a reason why you don’t have link here, but I figured it out. Right O👍🏼
Kumander Panghatag og pinaskuhan. 🎁
Happy New Year Kumander! Best wishes to your parents too! Praying for your fast recovery. God bless !
Kumander! Keep on going! Looks like you have busy days ahead of you. You're going to have to tour us around your neighborhood, introduce us to food from your home town and tell us which club you were president of when you were at university :)
Cheers!
Happy to see that great smile. Good morning Kumander D. from the beautiful island called Philippines.
There is no island called Philippines, group of Islands, or archipelago, yes.
@@lioneljoseduterte4847 I would’ve respected you for your last name but here you are making a buffoon out of our best president’s last name.
@@CommieKilla1977 hindi ako maka recover sa kabobohan mo, ang Pilipinas ay hindi isla kundi grupo ng Isla o Arkipelago, ang major islas ay ang Luzon, Visayas at Mindanao, o kailangan ko pa bang kumpletuhin at dagdagan ang info dahil lang sa kaignorantehan at kabobohan mo? Bobo mo amputa kahit grade 3 alam yan. Kaya nga Philippine "Islands" Bobo mo amputa nakakagigil ka. Ang dapat nyang nilagay ay from the beautiful Islands OF the Philippines.
You should've invested as much time in your history classes as you had with english, stop making a fool out of yourself, bobo.
When Kulas got an accident and you got your personal problem and leave the Philippines, life in Cateel has changed dramatically. I'm sure Mama Rose and company were very sad during Christmas and New Year. Lots of people maybe wondering that life can change dramatically in a matter of days or even seconds. Hopefully Kulas will be ok and back to Cateel by that time probably his house is ready. Stay safe Kumander Daot and get well soon. Belated Merry Christmas and Happy new to you and your family.😀 😀 🇵🇭 🇵🇭 🍾🍾🥂🥂🎁🎁🎉🎉
Enjoy with your parent.. they are your source of energy... 👍👍
Anselm : You look skinny in this video.
Enjoy your stay in UK, we know you'll be back in the Philippines!
Good on you, Kumander Daot! Keep vlogging and we'll keep watching. We wish you all the best and remember that people will be praying for you as well. We're looking forward to the sights and sounds of Wales. BTW, can you speak Welsh?
Happy new year Anselm be positive in life with god loves🇬🇷
You looked fresher now Anselm. Just keep on vlogging.
Good you’re home, bro!
The usual lockdowns here n the Philippines 😷
Stay there for good, avoid stress in your business way back
there's no place like home...God bless!
It's cool seeing culture on the other side. Thanks for the house tour. It's a big and lovely house. Food looked really good too! Good to see you with your parents during the holidays. There's no place like home.
I'm waiting for your blog idol, 5hrs.more to wait pa hahaha,excited to see you said home and garden tour hehe,,happy new year...
You are amazing Kumander D.you will get through with health crisis you are facing.. we're all here for you, you're not alone.I will keep you in my prayers 🙏Your mom is kinda cool.Keep blogging.Watching from USA🇺🇲
Get well sooooon Kumander Daot...
What to say with someone with mental health condition
1. Do you want to talk about it? I’m always here for you.
2. What can I do to help?
3. Let’s go somewhere quiet or take a walk
4. That’s sound really difficult. How are you coping?
5. I’m really sorry you are going through this. I’m here for you
What not to say
1. I know what you mean. I had a panic attack when I saw my electric bill
2. Have you tried meditation or pray. Jesus loves you
3. Why aren’t you seeing therapist or on medication
4. Are you ok
5. There are lots of people who have it worse
6. You wouldn’t feel this way if....
Allow Anselm to express his feelings, even its negative towards your country.
better complete your quarantine first before doing anything outside just to be safe 😀
Looking great Kumander, stay strong and sending you my prayers for fast healing.
I'm happy to see you Kumander kicking alive again...eating so much foods in your plate...hehehe...Keepsafe and God bless!
KD, you had me smiling from start to end. Thanks to your family for agreeing that we get a glimpse of you all enjoying your delicious meal. We all know how delicious a Mom cooked meal is. And thanks to you for your candid storytelling of how your day is going. I look forward to more.
Kumander Talk to them in Bisaya lol
We are glad that you are safe Kumander D. God bless and protect you always
This is just cool Kumander. By bringing us to Newport, with your family, is already a great content. But perhaps you can do some small talk with your parents. For non personal topics like I want to know why your mom loves (was it ps4 or nintendo switch) gadgets when other moms at her age don’t. Something like that. 😊🤣
Wow, healthy food. Happy New Year, KD.
Happy new year
you have a cool nanay kumander!!
Bonding with parents... Priceless!
Yes, please do more vlog around UK, Wales in a safe way...
We have been checking your channel everyday... You're good on taking videos and editing too, considering you justt started . Good job!👍
Expecting for more videos.
Take care and stay safe... 😷
We Love you Kumander Daot. 💖
What a nice home your family has. I can almost smell the good food that your mother prepared for Christmas. Please continue vlogging. Show us Wales and the UK, or as much as you can during this pandemic. My sincere hope goes out to you that you will stay safe and get the help you need to heal. Thank you for disclosing your medical issue. That took a lot of courage. And hopefully, the positive reposes you are getting helps you rebuild your confidence in yourself.
Oi, that food looks delish! 😋
Stay Safe (finish your quarantine) prayers and best wishes, always watching from Qatar. Amping Kumander Daot.
HAPPY NEW YEAR KD FROM ASHFORD, KENT, UK. HOPING FOR YOUR QUICK RECOVERY...CIAO!
I would imagine that filming is not a crime. Here in the US, its fine as long as you are in public... Just ask a lawyer friend if you have or just ask a bobby....lol Glad to see you in good spirits, get it? Spirits, like beer. hahaha Looking forward to your narration of the countryside in wales.... Im so pleased to see you happy my friend... Your an amazing person...
Good to see you looking happy KUMANDER KUSGAN ( I'll be calling you this from now, on it fits better on you) continue feeling better KUMANDER!!!
Alibangbang on the run here see me on tiktok Aliexplorero thanx everything be alright see you hugs to mom dad
Happy new year to you and your family. Wish you more blessings in 2021. Enjoy you family bonding. Keep safe.
I can't wait to watch KD. Amping permi Dong Daot😄
Keep safe Anselm Plummer aka Kumander Daot... Handball Club President - University of Warwick :P
You are an inspiration to many, keep going.
Hi Kumander, I wish you all well. ❤ On the brighter side, maybe after your quarantine you can show us around your neighborhood 😊.
general cleaning in your house sorroundings kumander. make it beautiful.
Looking good, KUMANDER D! Keep fighting 💪 the fight. Things--like your having been given another chance at life--happen for a reason: a very good one.
Keep multitasking with your vlog: It's great, precious, creative, and constructive therapy. It keeps you busy and away from negative thoughts. Always remember, you have a global support system--prayer brigade, cheerleaders--of your fellow human beings who want you to be...and do well. One day, you'll look back and will be so grateful for the rare blessing--with your infectious smile and laughter.
HAPPY, HEALTHY, and BLESSED NEW YEAR 2021! 🎉💝🙏
Enjoy your bonding with your mother, God bless you always.. take care..from Cavite... MARIA
I'm looking forward to Anselm to mansge himself slowly quit his beer, you are addicted in the beer and it's not good to your health issues.... beer can also give more disturbance in the brain.
i comment like this because i want you to be more good and always positive to your self. May God helping you and Bless you more. ameen.
Happy New Year to All 🎉💖🎉💖🎉💖 Good to see you Kumander D.👍 happy to see you with your Family especially on Christmas day 🎄 ( sorry wifey I didn't mean that✌) Family is Love 💖 Have a wonderful day and enjoy your .....Day by Day🤗🤗🤗 God Bless and Always Take Care Be safe 👍👍👍 from Toronto
Kumander your doing fine with your vlog. Just don't violate the quarantine rules for now.
You can show us around your place or city in the right time. Your supporters love you. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. Stay safe. GOD BLESS
🤙🤙🤙🇺🇸
I was laugh when your mother say stop filming. Because your mother in their generation video is not popular. Filming kodak is the popular.
OMG PLEASE MAKE MORE VIDEOS WITH YOUR AWESOME MAMA & Family! She should try making Filipino dishes hehe... stay happy Kummander! God Bless
Home is where the heart is...
Hugs 🤗🤗🤗 and kisses 💋💋💋
YouR parents love you so much...
Hmmmm not so fun with your drinking habit but thats daot's life...5thirty time...
Slowly slowly road to recovery....
1st step is knowing you need help
2nd is getting help
3rd love ur life ....go go go kumandeR
Happy New Yr to you, family, friends and subscribers. Keep doing whatever make you happy and useful.
You'll be fine and very soon you'll be back in action.
I'm 16% Irish-Scotland and I have relatives in Scotland in around Edinburgh...
Look up up Finn Snow the Vlogger, be is in Cebu but be is from Iceland.
Bye from Central Florida, USA.