The 5 Biggest Rules Of Texting Girls

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    After meeting a girl and getting her number, a guy will text her and wind up shooting himself in the foot because he's doing it all wrong. So here are 5 rules of texting to follow so you don't get yourself sent to the friend-zone without even getting your first chance at romance.
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  • @demon1handle
    @demon1handle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    #1 mistake I made is texting with her too much. Even when she is the one who keeps initiating throughout the day, keep it brief and exciting but don't show her you want to text her all day. Keep in contact with her but don't text everyday even if she shows a lot of interest because she will lose it.

    • @deejaystuffs3377
      @deejaystuffs3377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for this

    • @solodolo_mma3971
      @solodolo_mma3971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is where I always mess up . Always being available killed my chances . But I learned now . I wish I knew this sooner .

    • @Jentzenfong
      @Jentzenfong 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm the victim here

    • @andrejohnson2079
      @andrejohnson2079 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol, even when they explicitly tell you "too much texting dude", but you still keep at it. Happened too many times. Nowadays I just post youtube comments.

  • @aaronmendoza4485
    @aaronmendoza4485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    If tripp has taught me anything over the past few years, It's that to never belittle yourself. We are more capable than what we think.

  • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
    @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    These are all straight facts Trip! Outstanding job with no cookie cutter BS bro🔥💣💥

  • @JonathonAslay
    @JonathonAslay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    These are great suggestions, thanks so much, Tripp.

  • @morm2173
    @morm2173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    AMS, Todd, Tripp , Locario some of the GOATS of dating , some of the professors that taught me so much

  • @TrippAdvice
    @TrippAdvice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

    To learn more about dominance and how to lead your interactions with girls so you aren't wasting time texting back and forth with a girl who's not interested and spending more time on dates with girls who are, be sure to check out my program Hooked ► getherhooked.com/.

  • @HarryWilmington
    @HarryWilmington 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These tips are GOLDEN! Good stuff, keep doing what you do

  • @JuanRomero-gv3eh
    @JuanRomero-gv3eh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Tripp! Awesome stuff I found on your channel. Practicing all the rules you share. Just one quick question.
    You said "no What'sapp", but what happens if sms are not the common thing in a certain country? what if whatsap its the most common way to communicate? that counts towards social media?

  • @ebenmaiopue4253
    @ebenmaiopue4253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video blew me away😂. I wasted so much time texting a girl to get to know her to get a date. All I had to do was follow these rules. I'm a try this from now on

  • @petunijuszerskis2298
    @petunijuszerskis2298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good vid, good tips. But a little update from a guy in his early 20s. No one texts people using SMS these days, its really outdated. I do not know about other generations but people my age stopped texting using sms 4-5 years ago. It is only done in emergency situations when a person does not have access to mobile data or wifi atm. Honestly, it is even considered to be weird when someone asks for a persons phone number. Texting via messenger or instagram is the new thing and a better thing due to multiple reasons such as the ability to send visuals(pics, gifs, photos) and ability to see her pictures, story highlights which can be helpful when trying to think of a convo starter better than "hey" right after getting her ig. Bottom line, sms is a thing of the past and i think it is where it belongs unless ur target audience are guys in their 40s-50s who do not understand tech

  • @jonathanriosnavarro1899
    @jonathanriosnavarro1899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What I’ve been doing since we’re in quarantine is calling them randomly every couple of days and building sexual tension over the phone.

  • @jaredb3359
    @jaredb3359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    rule 1 initiated the interaction and it has been a healthy balance between us of initiating for the past month.... DONE
    rule 2. we are getting to know each other over text because we have no other choice atm, but have talked about ideas of what/where of of our first meetup after this whole social distance mess is over
    . so DONE
    rule 3. after the initial texts, we spaced out our text so there is no burn out. We seem to text every other at the most even just a little bit just to check in
    rule 4 i think my emoji game is minimal at best
    rule 5. yes you are right phone number just more personal
    overall thinking im on the right track, but still social distancing still sucks

  • @rajdwipdutta4585
    @rajdwipdutta4585 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thaught attraction builds on texts 😮

  • @janbr2
    @janbr2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tripp, what to do, when you agreed to meet up, but its like a week from here, do you just stop/decrease your texts? Its somewhat weird to go from “getting interest on dating app with texting” to agreeing to meet and stop the texts.

  • @shaunbell369
    @shaunbell369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In Australia we are in a pandemic lockdown so in person dating is not possible, would these rules still apply?.
    Would you stop trying to date during this time since in person interacting isn't possible?.
    Dating Apps are exploding at the moment with more women on them than ever before.

  • @buckyrx7
    @buckyrx7 ปีที่แล้ว

    If I'm talking to a woman on a dating app and offer her my phone number, is it a bad sign if she offers to switch to snapchat/Facebook messenger instead of just "regular" texting? Some of my female friends say they don't give out their number because it is too personal when talking to a guy they just met/matched with.

  • @edcelmendoza9161
    @edcelmendoza9161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I guess one of the reason i get so hang up on texting and equating her interest is because that's the environment i grew up in. And it never really led to anything. Currently seeing a girl, minimal texting and she's great in person. and the lack of texting is throwing me off and i keep thinking/feeling she's not interested(also because of my neediness. It has been improving tho). I always have to keep rewatching these videos to remind me that texting is meaningless if she doesn't want to meet up in person

    • @marylandmusic7251
      @marylandmusic7251 ปีที่แล้ว

      i really felt this comment and i dont think we’re alone. tech really been messin with men/women’s communication over the last 20 years. its so frustrating 😂. esp when you over-think and over analyze things like i do. stay strong fellas. its a dance. dont forget that n always stay balanced 🫡

  • @02COOLKID
    @02COOLKID 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truth bombs here texting is so bad 🤣 I usually just text to meet up like he says.

  • @nyxeum5317
    @nyxeum5317 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you do it how to talk to girls who you are

  • @kimo5509
    @kimo5509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I met a girl thru tinder but it was long distant. True texting a lot screwed everything as there is no way of meeting this girl In near future ! Will you talk about long distance relationships

  • @joaocabral3541
    @joaocabral3541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    how do i set up a date if everything is closed, we live in different cities and we're both quarantined? well, im gonna win her over anyways

  • @tinobenson6903
    @tinobenson6903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if it's only the girl who initiates conversation with me over text? Wouldn't it be rude to just ignore her? Like for example, after I scheduled my first date with a girl recently she texted me a few times during the week leading up to the date. I replied and it lead to some short conversations. Is this ok?

  • @alariccato3849
    @alariccato3849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have 8 years in this chanel and follow tipp all the way

  • @carolinaboy6476
    @carolinaboy6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awhile back I got ahold of a girls Snapchat and after asking her out, I said is this the best way to reach you. She said yes as she doesn’t reply to regular text a whole lot and her provider is messed up so messages don’t go through. Was this her way of not giving me her number or was she truthful?

  • @ebenmaiopue4253
    @ebenmaiopue4253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not going to lie bro. The more Tripp advice I take in the more sense it makes. I'm not great with chicks but I see how effective this content is

  • @thomasvieira5611
    @thomasvieira5611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Tripp, what's the advice for when you ask her out, after you both talked about going out some time..but when you ask her you she doesn say yes or no, instead she talks about something else..?

    • @isakmustafa9704
      @isakmustafa9704 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be in Control bro , make a Plan with her innit . Maybe a hike or Something.

  • @Valentinfj
    @Valentinfj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've understood that you shouldn't text her a lot.
    Buf if she wants first to get to know you through test before she sees you, do you think that's a good sign, Tripp?

  • @vikramadityasingh1403
    @vikramadityasingh1403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are giving very practical experiences and examples from reality of life..I love your contents.I am your subscriber from Himachal Pradesh (India).

  • @iammaximus614
    @iammaximus614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if she’s long distance?

  • @WarlordChicken
    @WarlordChicken 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you recommend instead of a date during this time if texting is not an option?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Use texting to setup a virtual date on the phone or video chat

  • @sisefe8665
    @sisefe8665 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're the best

  • @otaviocamanho1135
    @otaviocamanho1135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hmmm i dont know, texting SMS is kind of lame, also although cheap not free, and kind of nobody does that, it might not make you stand out but make you that "oo, i'm not using this only to communicate with him"
    Might be a regional thing, but from where i am from SMS texting is way dead, maybe using if internet connection is lost.

  • @stephenyerardi7851
    @stephenyerardi7851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My question to you trip, is what if you have moved your conversations to either FaceTime, a zoom call, or another form such as Skype considering at least the days and time you cannot physically meet up.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s that question?

    • @stephenyerardi7851
      @stephenyerardi7851 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tripp Advice The question was that you say that you should only interact with the woman face-to-face, though and this time we cannot really do that, I was wondering one of our online meeting such as FaceTime, zoom, apps that you can interact with them also besides phone call.

    • @stephenyerardi7851
      @stephenyerardi7851 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also I want to know have you ever worked with men that are disabled trying to find women.

    • @ninjazay7245
      @ninjazay7245 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephenyerardi7851 look up von too cut and boxing plus on youtube

  • @eamp27
    @eamp27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think with texting on whatsapp there is nothing wrong, because you need the number anyway to text on whatsapp. SMS comes of as lame and outdated imo.

  • @laurenrichards212
    @laurenrichards212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you miss the rules, you miss it all

  • @bassvasic5472
    @bassvasic5472 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been texting girl for month and half, asked her out twice, she is busy or cant right now or after this corona thing, stopped texting her, she texted me after 7 days and when i answered she left me on read. Any advice? Should i text her or move on?

    • @atirwani6949
      @atirwani6949 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      fall back

  • @3Mvlogz
    @3Mvlogz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    But the thing if you dont have number you are connect with her on Instagram

  • @latehakala5407
    @latehakala5407 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl texted me first after i got her phonenumber xD

  • @vakama539348
    @vakama539348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    trip in israel we use whatsapp as sms

  • @lokaylusta
    @lokaylusta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    yea ok but what if the girl ONLY WANTS TO TALK IN TEXT?!?!

    • @mariohoxha155
      @mariohoxha155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Then you should quit talking to her. Its supposed you use texting to meet her. Why would you wanna waste time with someone that doesnt want to meet up?

    • @thefirestillburns
      @thefirestillburns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's basically every girl

    • @ninjazay7245
      @ninjazay7245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only text her about linking

    • @iammaximus614
      @iammaximus614 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How@long distance

  • @Anglo_Browza
    @Anglo_Browza ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha I’m watching this cause I was trying to slide in a girls DM’s Instagram and she said she don’t use it much as a brush off I thought, so said give me your number then! And she did… had a brief text chat but she’s wrapped up saying she’s gotta do some work chat later….. so I’m doing my home work!
    Guna give it a few days and try find a fireworks display to invite her to at weekend…
    Pray for me bro’s 😂 oops emoji

  • @toocoolforya9559
    @toocoolforya9559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am partially confused, I have a girlfriend, but with social distancing I know i won’t see her for quite some time so do I not text for the whole time that covid 19 is here?

    • @ninjazay7245
      @ninjazay7245 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm guessing that shit ain't work🤣

    • @toocoolforya9559
      @toocoolforya9559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ninjazay7245 I texted her. 8 months strong bro

  • @joe10locs90
    @joe10locs90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have the first date with the girl and it went well but texting her doesn’t build attraction I struggle with that

    • @joe10locs90
      @joe10locs90 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How should I convince her to go on a second date

    • @joe10locs90
      @joe10locs90 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am from the uk

  • @andone3540
    @andone3540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    next video should be: How to ask a girl’s number on social media (or something that would guarantee it)
    Thanks for the video

    • @Willdostyles
      @Willdostyles 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you have her social media why do you need her number?

    • @andone3540
      @andone3540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Willdostyles you’re right, this was 10 months ago. I learned.

  • @corey3045
    @corey3045 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tripp how soon after you get a girls number should you ask her to hang out??

    • @CustomerHub3
      @CustomerHub3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Corey Bett ASAP bro, that was the point of getting her number, TO MEET UP

  • @andreivalerio9527
    @andreivalerio9527 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    what if you've already set a date, but you can't meet for quite a while due to reasons like quarantine? Should you just be chill about it or should you do something?

  • @FA9082
    @FA9082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ONLY TEXT FOR LOGISTICS!!!

  • @Ricothefamouskidz1998
    @Ricothefamouskidz1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got Snapchat and they text me first

  • @barty116
    @barty116 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only thing about this that is insanely stupid is the aversion to whatsapp. Texting might be a US thing, but I checked and I've not looked at my Imessages//Texts in so long I have over 200 unread chats (more unread individual messages) - I don't think people in the rest of the world use texts. Definitely not in the UK or Europe. If you're "texting" girls in Europe or UK you'll be seen as really weird, creepy and old.

  • @fangrider007
    @fangrider007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when first i saw MONEY HIEST'S professor then i thought "Wait.....I've seen this guy before.Its TRIP CRAMMER FROM TRIPP ADVICE"..... ;)

  • @travisjohn5793
    @travisjohn5793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shouldnt you be calling your channel -Tripp Advisor

  • @buntygirdhar
    @buntygirdhar ปีที่แล้ว

    respectfully disagree with point 3. Building attraction over texting is very much possible. just don't be available all the time, if possible text at night after 12 when a person is most vulnerable, trigger her emotions, flirt, make her laugh. She'll be hooked and addicted

  • @CameronKiesser
    @CameronKiesser ปีที่แล้ว

    You lost me on the emoji stuff.

  • @87rtlandry
    @87rtlandry 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seems that texting is a lot more personal than social media. Which means it adds more pressure to the woman.
    I think women are drawn to mystery. When you text a girl with unintentional or uncertain motives I feel it turns her off.
    An example is I met a girl at work, we chatted for a bit (some very light flirting), she ended up asking me to follow her instagram. I waited a day, looked her up, followed her. Waited another day, and sent her a DM that said this. “Let’s hang out sometime.”
    She re’d “that would be awesome...”
    I re’d “come to [my work place] tomorrow and ask me what I’m doing after work. 😉”
    *emoji violation!!!
    But... she re’d “Okay. :)”
    Notice she didn’t use an exact emoji? But she intentionally smily faced using text?
    Anyway, hope this helps. Would like to hear your thoughts on this interaction.

    • @zkhan9936
      @zkhan9936 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How was hanging out with the chick??

  • @emwu86
    @emwu86 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    According to rule 2 and 3...
    Man..Sometimes It looks like I am having a date with them by texting..chatting forever getting to know each other and all... no good lol

  • @alanzozimmer7658
    @alanzozimmer7658 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tripp what if the girl stays in another country, how should I get to know her.

  • @JohnM...
    @JohnM... 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's ridiculous to tell people to text only on texting apps but not on a damn phone. Makes no sense. Hell, there are some guys who lead busy lives who only REMEMBER a woman once in a while, or who travel, who still want to keep a number 'warm' while they lead a busy damn life. Makes no sense to just ditch a # just because the guy can't get with the woman straight away, or to be a needy bitch and say 'I'm going travelling for 3 months but why don't we get together when I get back'. What you want to do is text her once in a while to keep you fresh in her memory and keep her invested for when you're NOT busy. Fuck this 'texting is ONLY for setting dates' crap.

  • @vibesxyt7368
    @vibesxyt7368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Uhhhhhh ! Some expert are telling not to text first to Attract and make her think of us and now you are saying to text first ( what is happening ? ) I didn't understand 😪🙄
    Reply please 🙏😪

  • @alanzozimmer7658
    @alanzozimmer7658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Does long distance relationships work??

    • @zayhamilton4651
      @zayhamilton4651 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alanzo Zimmer depends man but you have to keep your eye open

    • @armandolinaresg6446
      @armandolinaresg6446 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, stop wasting ur time dude.

    • @GX2re
      @GX2re 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope

  • @peterspeliotis104
    @peterspeliotis104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are you on drugs ?
    No responsible adults are dating off the internet or casual meets in the current covid era
    Hopefully you made this video before the current situation and just now released it.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s for when this is over. Obviously

    • @peterspeliotis104
      @peterspeliotis104 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tripp Advice Appreciate that! Not sure when this is over. Depends on one’s location and age, etc. Most fun thing I’ve done is watching the same movie and texting occasionally notes laughter etc. and doing a phone call after. Additionally, doing a phone call over a a few drinks and texting funny memes. Maybe this stuff will mess up the future ? It’s working fun for now.

  • @prabhashliyanage
    @prabhashliyanage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I use lots of emojies 😂🍭 But girls like it 🙄 They are interested in texting me 😏 So I dont think so as you say 😴😪 Girls do like emojies 😋 I'm not agreeing with you for that 😞🍭😏

  • @242g.a.m.e.r.8
    @242g.a.m.e.r.8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's wrong WhatsApp that's how people text in my country

  • @briar35981
    @briar35981 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yea, don't text women at all. Stay on your purpose.

  • @kent-minton5451
    @kent-minton5451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First to watch this...

  • @rogier6039
    @rogier6039 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let me help you with the emoji's. It's NOT MASCULINE. That's what it is. It's childish AND a sign of INSECURITY.

    • @Videokeizah
      @Videokeizah 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@793Force I'm impressed.

    • @samuelvelazquez8834
      @samuelvelazquez8834 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@793Force it does sound very insecure but I definitely agree emojis aren’t masculine lmao

  • @terrorsquadlith
    @terrorsquadlith ปีที่แล้ว

    most women I met was through texting them on some app so dont listen to this crazy guy

  • @ebenmaiopue4253
    @ebenmaiopue4253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video blew me away😂. I wasted so much time texting a girl to get to know her to get a date. All I had to do was follow these rules. I'm a try this from now on