3 Reasons A Girl Goes Weird And Distant (How To Fix It!)

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    If you're seeing a girl and you think she's thinking about leaving there are some things you can do to be the one in control. So let's discuss the main reasons girls do this and what you can do to either bring her back and re-strengthen the relationship or save yourself the time.
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  • @TrippAdvice
    @TrippAdvice  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

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  • @HughLeFitness
    @HughLeFitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I feel like all these videos can be summarized by:
    1. Have a life and don't be needy.
    2. Text to meet up only
    3. Be assertive and escalate - let her know you desire her romantically to avoid the friend zone.
    4. Be unpredictable and do something different every so often to spark interest and add romance.
    5. Date multiple women - let her know you have value and she's not the only one

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is great. Yup.

    • @XoXo475
      @XoXo475 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can’t date other women if you’re in a committed relationship of a few years

  • @alexduta7469
    @alexduta7469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    A girl goes weird and how to fix it? No, mate, you don't fix it, you walk away. Abundance mindset, remember? This isn't a Lovecraft weird story where you're curious and slowly lose your sanity because of it, this is real life and your sanity and time are precious, therefore you move on to the next chick.

  • @MentorMyLife
    @MentorMyLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Stay focused on yourself, and so will your woman. The moment you start to focus on her, she will lose interest. Great video my friend. -Kushtrim

    • @XoXo475
      @XoXo475 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol crazy . Pay her no attention and she will love you . Shower her with affection and she’s history

  • @XoXo475
    @XoXo475 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That tip to lay back on the texting is absolute gold. Even if you’re in a 3 year relationship. So many miscommunications happen over text it’s not even funny.

    • @Jaapst
      @Jaapst 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It actually destroyed my 3 year relationship.

  • @realdeskent
    @realdeskent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This "Only use texting to meet up with her" is kinda true, but not at the same time. See, If you text a girl CONSTANTLY NON-STOP, yea thats needy and you have to stop... BUT you have to build some connection especially if you just started talking, or a few dates into, because it's sure as hell she won't meet up with you, if she doesn't feel CONFORTABLE doing it. You need to be smart and unpredictable with your texts... sometimes you respond instantly (be somewhat available), then go do your stuff and get back to her a few hours later

  • @mysticmind3377
    @mysticmind3377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When tripp uploads a video you already know it's gonna be informative af so you hit the like button before it even begins

  • @wvnovello
    @wvnovello 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wish I had found this a while back. I spent 9 months talking to some girl (she lived up in Racine), two kids-one with special needs. I was trying to be as understanding as possible, but hindsight it's pretty clear she really just liked the idea of someone liking her and giving her attention. Long story, but a few months back she just cut ties. One promise I made to myself is I won't put myself in that position again, to let myself really get used like that. If you like what I have to offer, great. If you don't, there's the door.

  • @twelveoclock4877
    @twelveoclock4877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thats the truth and facts! Great video again Tripp.

  • @delegator001
    @delegator001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel like this video is just talking to me specifically. Cheers for the advice

  • @fidelis-okeidaniel
    @fidelis-okeidaniel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much, your last advice is so accurate. Much love from Lagos.

  • @vitali-opal-and-gem
    @vitali-opal-and-gem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would say our energy is our most valuable resource, not time.
    Energy and time goes hand in hand.
    When things flow and you do what's best for you, your happy and have so much energy and save time.

  • @aurums92
    @aurums92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tripp, like always - thank you for the great advice. You are simply the best dating couch on TH-cam.

    • @BAKER22-l4u
      @BAKER22-l4u ปีที่แล้ว

      LMAO.. It's common sense. Think

  • @ibrahimkamara599
    @ibrahimkamara599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    True advice, save Ur time from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱

  • @Dmidnightmachine
    @Dmidnightmachine ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found focusing on yourself and ignoring her works wonders.

  • @goalieczar-adamcooper6900
    @goalieczar-adamcooper6900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    These points are bang on! Great video.

  • @NapkinEdStern
    @NapkinEdStern หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    5:00 good tip about the text nonsense. Get right to it.

  • @JonathonAslay
    @JonathonAslay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WOW! Love this advice...

  • @timatoksoba4kin185
    @timatoksoba4kin185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really useful for practice video! Super!

  • @commodoretaco4335
    @commodoretaco4335 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:15 this made me realize what I’ve been doing wrong, thank you bro so much

  • @eugenefontenot7898
    @eugenefontenot7898 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice

  • @thomasvieira5611
    @thomasvieira5611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didnt even watch the whole video, but I know its gonna be great advice

  • @MRblondeGames
    @MRblondeGames 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been dating a girl for like 3 weeks now. At first she was very full on, constantly messaging me, asking to see me every night going on drives. She took me the cinema and wouldn’t let me pay. I matched her energy with all of this. Then all of a sudden I haven’t seen her for 6 days she says she’s busy or tired. Also, her messages haven’t been good either. I’ve taken a step back, not messaged her frequently and not spoken to her all day. I ended the last conversation and left it at that to see if she would make a move to message me first. I’m kinda stuck now though because I don’t know wether to just give her space for a few days and see what happens or just message her and try and plan a proper date (food, drinks). We get on very very well and the sexual chemistry between us was amazing I’ve never experienced anything like it before although we haven’t had sex yet. Any advice on my next move?

    • @MRblondeGames
      @MRblondeGames ปีที่แล้ว

      @Kingdom House She ended up telling me she didn’t want anything serious… we then didn’t talk for a couple months and she ended up getting back in touch with me. We still chat and meet up from time to time but I just see it as a bit of fun with the potential of something coming from it in the future. I’m not bothered anymore to be fair tho I just levelled up got more bitches and focused on myself 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @danialmr5960
    @danialmr5960 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good tips

  • @yavuzyvz5176
    @yavuzyvz5176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best 👍

  • @Dee--Jay
    @Dee--Jay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    its so many of these women who have children... alot of this wouldnt work. damn kids gone be in the way

  • @stevesmith1493
    @stevesmith1493 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your action is no action at all. Nothing. Leave her completely alone.

  • @cuongtocdo1007
    @cuongtocdo1007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks ^^

  • @devman1238
    @devman1238 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been subbed for a long time so I still keep up.
    Was doing the fun things every quarter or week like you said for 5 years with the ex up until covid.
    Then after 4 months of less adventure and our international yearly trip getting cancelled not changing it up as much (understandably cause of lockdowns ) she bails out of the rl completely lmao.
    Enjoying the single life now! 😌

  • @jamesmoore1071
    @jamesmoore1071 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should make a video about how long should I talk to a girl before asking for her number

  • @adilrahman1204
    @adilrahman1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I might be too much in the friend zone with this girl even after 6 months of dating. The thing is for past few weeks she has already dropped texting by 90%. So what can I do besides asking her out and trying to move things forward? She doesn't kiss or anything as she's religious..

    • @isakmustafa9704
      @isakmustafa9704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do the same AS she is doing and See wat Happens.

  • @AndyJMacLeod
    @AndyJMacLeod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She goes weird and distant when she’s female.

  • @xdae
    @xdae 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    2:02 you can also ignore a girl to keep her pulled back at a distance. maybe it's best to do that w fwbs

  • @kc270352
    @kc270352 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have to know and expect that woman are gonna do this

  • @titra694
    @titra694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you guys give me some ideas for date that not in a crowded place. Most of my dating spots arent available rn because of the social distancing.

    • @isakmustafa9704
      @isakmustafa9704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try hiking or bicycle Tour Just Like the old days .

  • @districtagenda5695
    @districtagenda5695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Trip I slept with this great girl on a first date. We had a phone call recently and I told her I was busy this weekend but let’s hangout next weekend. This girl had the audacity to say that works well bc she was busy that weekend too... she was supposed to be crushed and Devistated I’m upset lololol.

  • @bhaveshpatil3070
    @bhaveshpatil3070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Umm..why is the comment section and the video above not related...?

  • @cerebralassassin2060
    @cerebralassassin2060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tripp...did you know the average American woman weighs 170 pounds ! The highest in the world !

  • @districtagenda5695
    @districtagenda5695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It literally makes no sense to me that a guy would not kiss a girl on a first date. I’ve been sitting here thinking I’m not doing to well with women but as I think about it I’ve slept with 10 girls this year and I’ve hooked up to some extent with every girl I’ve gone on a date with. Having ALOT of trouble when things get to that 1-3 month area.

    • @districtagenda5695
      @districtagenda5695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it’s cause I’m a misogynistic douche that isn’t over his ex but idk 😂😂

  • @enri2754
    @enri2754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just install a new patch on her driver, that should fix the problem.

  • @bennir3297
    @bennir3297 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if the guy try to make a move but the women ruined it would that be the women’s fault🤔

  • @mololuwow
    @mololuwow 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man, I hit all 3?

  • @andymartin813
    @andymartin813 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She accepts my follow request and then removed me the next day. Why? I don’t know.

  • @handle_the_handle
    @handle_the_handle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why even bother? I did myself a favour and stopped giving a f

  • @user-hv5we1nx7h
    @user-hv5we1nx7h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yall dont plan to fuckoff? I dont care i got a backup lmao