12 signs that a Man is NOT a High Value Masculine Man
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 พ.ค. 2021
- Today we talk about 12 signs that a man is not a Masculine Man. I did my research and these are a list of signs that a man is not masculine, not gentleman, or not high caliber, to make sure that you don't waist your time my beautiful ladies.
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Ladies, remember that if you have children with an emotionally immature, abusive, selfish, loser type of man, your kids will grow up thinking this behavior is okay and normal. Don't ever marry or have kids with a man that you wouldn't want being a role model for your kids!
Well said, darling!♥️
Wish you said that 10 years ago...🥲
And if you happen to have kids with him leave him and do better.
As a teen i can say that thankfully i am smart enough to not follow my fathers behaviour...bc he was a man like you just described...but my mom thankfully left him and we live alot more peacefully🙂
Amen!!! I agree 100%
"if a woman spends most of her time worrying about the money she does not have, how will she have time to fall in love?"
These words hit hard
Please what movie was that?
@@saimamerrosy8223 gentlemen prefer blondes
Oh ok ..so how do men who work for their money fall in love? 🤔
@@riksriks8833 by providing and protecting. That's the basic instinct of masculinity. Duh
@@lavishlovergirl ok 😂
A masculine man dosen’t use his physical strength to control his woman. He does not abuse her in any way. Some men (who cannot be called men, ofc) think that this is ‘masculinity’, literally to control a woman ‘just because you can physically’. Which is the biggest sign of a coward. No man who is confident and content with himself and who had good role models in his family/life would ever feel the need to abuse his woman. He knows there is absolutly no need for that. And if things don’t work out, they separate, but never does he hit or insult her in any way. I am glad you mentioned that.
Absolutely 👏
@Lena Medina Yes, that’s right. Well, there can also be rich and physically strong men who did win fights against other men and still be abusive due to psychological dissorders. That can also happen. But yes, I get your point
Often times it is their fault women have such low standards. These women settled because didn’t have any other choice :(
@@dancingdivazriooo they THOUGHT they didn't have a choice.
Refers to women in derogatory names, women he’s knows personally and strangers. Shows how he feels about women in general
Immediate red flag. Any guy who asks: "What do you bring to the table?" Is immediately dismissed as a trifling specimen. HVM KNOW a woman's worth and don't need to ask. To paraphrase an old saying: "If you have to ask, you can't afford it".
Yes! We women have to stand together and raise the standard for all men.
Yes !!
Thisss!
If you stop sleeping with chads
@@random19911004 tell them, not me
realizing that the guy i’m talking to isn’t high caliber at all... thanks lisa!
same! and just found out he has been blowing up this girls IG with likes and comments. she's 13 years younger than us.
me realizing that NO BOY i've ever talked to were actually high caliber at all..... damn
It sucks that this behavior is so rare now. I’m 19 so everyone in my age range acts like a little boy which is incredibly unattractive to me and not my cup of tea. I feel like I will never meet men like this 😰😰
Ikr? It's so annoying 😤 we are pretty much required to either accept cheapness or go for the creepy old ones. Being single seems like the best option.
@@anyamiranda9452 LITERALLY i’ve never even gone on a date. I’m not asking for anything crazy either, just a gentleman instead of someone who wants to smash immediately.
@lola rose I'm in the *exact* same situation, so I totally understand you. Really, why is this so much to ask for? They are allowed to have high standards when it comes to our looks, but "God forbid" we have *any* standards for them 🙄
You're 19? Lol they act like boys because they ARE boys 😂 at that age they usually have no money! You should wait until around 25 to think about marriage yourself! You're too young ..
@@Rwissam1987 I don’t want to get married now, and I don’t really care about money. But I would still like to go on a date with someone who treats me respectfully and is a protector/provider.
sure I’m independent and shit, doesn’t mean I don’t want help, a supportive and helpful partner who WANTS to help
It’s really funny when you see men who quote versets from the Bible in order to tell women their role is to submit to men but they themselves are not leaders. Leadership and submission are very missunderstood (intentionally) by those ‘men’. And women who don’t love themselves are very often victims of such men. Knowledge (about narcissism, disorders etc) really is power.
The same happens in other religions...
@@Rwissam1987 I’m sure of that. Personally I do believe in a greater power but not in the way it is portrayed in the Bible or other ‘holly’ books. Because all those ‘holly’ books have as unique purpose to controle the mases. You probably know that saying: ‘If God would not exist, he should have been invented’. As a necssesity to create an ‘order’ in the world. So yes, I believe in a divine energy, but not as it is described in the holly books, those are jut personifications of concepts. Plus: all those ‘holly’ books have been written by humans, by MEN, to be more specific. So I have my serious doubts:)))
@@Rwissam1987 You just have to find a man who is not a ‘religiously fanatic’ or smth. A normal man who understands men and women and who is well intentioned, not a manipulator, narcissist etc. And most important: a man who respects you and your values. It’s extremly important to be with someone who understands and respects your values of life and who is on the same page with you. That’s the most important.
@@ioanafilipescu2327 me too. I believe there's a Supreme being just not specifically male. The Bible was translated in patriarchal Era so I agree with you on this
@Lena Medina Indeed
One thing I have to say is that there is a difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism. A high quality man isn’t afraid to call a girl out when she’s made a mistake. This is different than putting a girl down in order to establish dominance.
I agree constructive criticism is always good when given in a respectful way.
Thank you. It reassured me that my ex who treated me real bad was really not worth it. Lying, disprespect, gaslighting, anger issues... I knew I was better off without him but this video helped me feel even less respect for him and happier that I got away.
I'm so happy for you darling you deserve better 😘
A husband in porn too is also destructive.
Maybe we dated the same man. O_0
Listening to this video is literally like listening to a subliminal, I was looking at my crush's picture while listening to you and as you repeat "a masculine man does this and does that..." I felt like he's already doing those things for me and it put me in a mental state which I felt like I'm flying. Thank you lol
Sending you lots of luck and happy wishes that things work out for you :)
It's been 5 months, hows it going with your crush??
I think something that's worth noticing: he might not be perfect, or have all of the qualities 100% BUT, he is aware that he isn't perfect, and is actually trying to become better. (Not saying he will, actually becoming better). If he isn't financially in a good place yet, he has a plan of action to get there, and you see it working. If he notices he hurt you in any way, or offended you, he works to fix it.
Don't always look for perfection, you might meet your match a month before he becomes his highest version. Look for someone willing to be better. And working to be better. Also, he must want to do this, you shouldn't have to push him to be better. It should be an internal decision.
It is a tragedy that many beautiful and intelligent women get themselves into abusive relationships and ignore those red flags. I left my daughter’s dad while she was young enough not to think that is normal behavior. (He was selfish, didn’t respect my family and me, overreacted at my mistakes (even the smallest ones), behaved erratically, accused me of being selfish when I wanted to spend time with friends, was controlling to me, and spent his young years not having a real job, even as a student. He just wanted children way before becoming financially stable to “keep up” with his Korean peers.) She is in college now and has been happy growing up with Mommy and her grandparents, who are loving to her. (She doesn’t even respect her own dad either.) I am thankful for your videos so that I, as well as other darlings, will not make the same mistakes and will thus know who is a true gentleman who treats us like princesses.♥️💐👸🏻
Thank you for your comment ma'am😊.It's a lesson for us all here❤❤
And I had learned something about how I’ve been slipping, and great video, and your looking very great
Thank you very much 😊
My dad is all of these positive things you talk about. I’m so grateful I grew up with his example and I hope I find someone like him when I’m older.
This one I give to God, I'm on my levelling up journey, I pray He takes me into the environment where the high calibre man I need can find me. Thanks Lisa!
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I lovvvveddd your first point: Does he respect you? A high-caliber man is never a woman-hater; he loves and adores our energy and wants us to shine. So many of my friends look at the external (looks, wealth, etc) instead of the internal.
All of this is ❤️💯 im in a relationship with a man where i dont even have to reach out to my man.. I am always in a joyful receiving mode and he just pleases. But for a long time i was always in masculine energy and i realized this was the problem. When I started tuning into my feminine energy and tuned into joyful receiving, i attracted this really wonderful man into my life and he just keeps giving. Im just happy there are women like you here to guide us into getting it right 😊❤️
If you don't mind me asking, are you very thin? Asking because apparently I'm "too fat" for m3n, even though I'm at a perfectly normal and healthy weight.
Amazing I'm happy for you beautiful ❤️
@@anyamiranda9452 you are not. a man who says that to you is insecure. there are plenty of men who enjoy average to plus size women.
Excuse me ma’am, but I need to know where you got that dress! I love your video already 🥰
Thank you dear ❤️ I got it from a little beautiful boutique in Italy 🇮🇹
Wonderful content. I only wish I had this information when I was a teenager. I have made many mistakes with men and am doing lots of research on narcissism.
Yes- once we get the narcissistic abuse/codependency/lack of self esteem out of the way it's a whole new world! :)
I want to remind women that just bc a man helps you with small things, doesn't mean he'll help you with the larger things. Investing in you long term is something different, including being patient, nurturing and appreciative when you have his children or you're going thru health issues. They also need to respect your privacy.
As a Dutch woman: every time I hear the word Courting I hear ‘korting’. (Means discount in my country) 😂😂
One immature selfish stingy loser said to me, after I told him he is not emotionally supporting me, That I need to be an "independant woman", boy bye. 😂
Same here :(
"independent woman" is the card they play
Even independent women need emotional support every once in awhile.
We are social creatures. *Everyone* needs emotional support on occasion. 🙄
Total beta coward who knows he can't be what you need cause he has zero masculine qualities🤮🤮🤮
I'm still on my path of learning who he is but from my experience so far, I feel a high caliber man is spacious and grounded, he's confident, but humble in a way he does not need to speak a lot to stand his ground, he knows what he wants and he can be both gentle and firm and strong, his mind is open but he's got his values and priorities set in order, his sexual energy is strong and balanced, he is able to control his strong desire and channel it where he wants. and he gets what he wants.
Watch out for guys who get offended if you double book (if you aren’t in a relationship yet). Guys do it all the time and there is nothing wrong with talking to more than one person to find someone that’s good for you.
what about men who double books?
I always schedule two meetings on one day. If I put time to get ready, it would be a waste to meet with only one. I even met at the same restaurant, first guy at 5pm and second at 7pm.
Thank you for talking about narcissism and manipulative tecniques. It's an important thing, expecially when dating! If we are aware about these behaviours, we know how to handle the situation. In my opinion this is a topic that should be teach in school!
Dating apps are a *huge* problem for high-caliber women, exactly because they make men feel like all they should do to get what they want out of us is press a button. I'll never understand why would any woman choose to go there, let alone a young one.
How do you meet men?
By actually going outside?
@@kiravampira1456 yeah because when you go outside men start falling onto you?
@Rwissam1987 To your possible disappointment, pretty much yes. Exactly because I don't try too hard to find them or get their validation.
@@Rwissam1987 it's very possible to meet men in real life, you don't need online dating.
As a man I can agree with most of this video.
whenever my friends ask my type and i described them high calibre man (not even talking about his finance state yet), they would always said "be real, you read too much wattpad".
well i did read many wattpad and novel stories. but im not asking for super young billionaire businessman. also.... is "perfect men" really only exist on stories? no man would be motivated enough to achieve those "perfection"??? is their standard to be a man that low???
Men who are too generous ALWAYS get used, and smart guys know it.
When I was a waitress, one of the regulars was extremely generous, and I never saw him get used. He never asked any of us out, and he knew that waitresses can't afford to repay him. How did he do it? After a while I noticed he had 2 degrees of generosity. He was a good tipper to all of us, but those of us who frequently got special gifts, we were the ones who gave something thoughtful in return. Not just some free food. something we brought in just for him. If he's all give, and you're all take, then what you have is a sucker who just might give away the mortgage.
This hair length suits you so well!!!😍❤
thank you dear ❤
A man should start with the basic three Ps: Protect, Provide and Paternal: he always wants to protect and care for his woman, he wants to provide and create security with her and wants to be a father and family man. My husband is all these and always masculine and kind. He is never abusive. Needless to say we have been happily married for 25 yrs our grown children look to him as a role model.
My handsome man has all this signs 😉 he takes care of me and everything I need I love him❤️ great video thank you gorgeous 😘😘😘
Single until marriage
A very informative video, thank you. And in my experience, a high calibre man does not necessarily present an eye-catching appearance. He may appear under-stated, and he could be overlooked. For long-term happiness, we ladies really must focus on a man's inner character rather than merely his outer presentation.
Agree. At middle age now, I'm not concerned with a flashy dresser, or a white collar job man. You can always get him a nice new outfit. He might own a plumbing business that makes more than a doctor. Many trades do!
I’ve realized that, I am a high caliber man, even though I’m a woman hahaha
Your energy is so beautiful Lisa! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us! It's great to know what us ladies deserve & what kinds of rude, abusive, manipulative behavior we shouldn't ever put up with ever. Also great to see wonderful examples of high quality men showing up for women & upholding this high standard of being a high caliber gentleman!
Thank you Lisa! You have been improving your videos every time. Hi from Brazil 🇧🇷❤
Thank you darling 😍
Everything you say is on point as always 💕
All of these are so spot on. Taking notes 📝
The guy I was dating for a year started out being high caliber. He was so chivalrous, protective and helpful, until about 8 months into to the relationship. We went on a short trip together and I started becoming more needy and fearful of losing him. He began losing respect for me and started criticising little things. He broke the relationship off a month ago. Ladies watch out and stay high value yourself now and forever!
Thank you very much for this advices my dear Lisa :)
Girl your hitting every nail on the head, love it
Thank you so much for this video ,its not just about money but character and patterns.
Lisa, thank you for making this great video.💗
Thank you, thank you, thank you for doing a video on this! A very important and much-needed topic.
Thank you so much for those practical tipps Lisa!!🙏🏻
I'll have to appreciate the perfect relatable movie scenes in between the video 🎬✨
Makes me understand & relate to it well !
Thank you very much ❤️ ✨
Any man who wants you unhappy is sick in the head.
Pay attention to action not his words. Thanks Lisa
Well... this was an eye opener! 🥺❤️
Wish I had your video when I started dating at 17. Solid advice
wow, thank you so much Lisa for reminding all the ladies and me to have high standard and treasure ourselves.
This video was incredible!!! Amazing video topic!!💕💕💕💖💖💖
This was wonderful thank you Lisa and I pray your channel continues to grow! You’re a lovely feminine divine Princess! Glad you are teaching women to know their worth! 🌹🙏🏽🌹♥️
Thank you so much beautiful 😍
Love this vid, instantly subscribed… there is just not enough femininity content in this world
Not about today's video but are you gonna make a new belly dance tutorial any time soon ? You are the only person that really made me understand some dance moves(i m not a good dancer).I'd really like to embrace more this feminine activity and you are a great teacher 😊
Thank you! I am almost 50 & have not been with anybody in years. I never knew what to look for & fell into traps of exactly what you described!
No sé cómo di con este canal, pero creo que dices grandes verdades. Gracias por compartirlas y saludos desde España!
I appreciate that you gave tips and did talk about yourself the entire time. Excellent video. Subscribed!!!!
That's the topic I wanted 💀❤️ omg Lisa you're so cool! Tysm ❤️
Thank you dear 🥰🥰
@@Lisaglamour ✨
I must say this is a great video. Very logical and realistic.
Thank you so much for your videos. I was married to low caliber man, and then dated another VERY low caliber man. I even realized the signs but still kept hoping he'd "change". Second one. First one I did not even realize until it was almost too late. I love how you dress, and old Hollywood Glamour is my LOVE!!
Ugh 😩 I loved this video sooo much 🥳💞💞💞 thank you! 😘
Lisa, thank you so much for this video, I love it and it's another conformation that I'm being courted by a high-caliber man. Also, have you done a video on how you do your makeup and hair, because I love it!
Do you mind sharing how did you meet each other and how did you look like? Asking because it seems that nothing is ever enough for m*n when it comes to looks, let alone high-caliber men.
I'M IN LOVE WITH THIS VIDEOS of feminity, high caliber men etc! I have a little bit of masculin energy, and watching this videos it conect me with my femenine energy instantly, i love it! and i'm learning a lot of how to choose a partner! thanks for your conten!
Thanks for this
Toujours aussi jolie ! Merci pour cette vidéo 💕
Merci 💖
Lisa, can you please do a video discussing your favorite books/pieces of literature? Love your channel! 💕📚
you are explaining everything very clear. VEry good . Thank you.
Thank you for sharing!!!
Most eye opening video I have ever encountered. Thank u❤
Thanks Ms. Lisa. These were awesome tips.... I got more than 12 but hey I was listening to every word, lol
Wonderful video!
Love it!
Merci Lisa! J’adore tes vidéos et tu es d’une incroyable maturité malgré ton jeune âge. Bravo! 💙
Thanks alot for this video ... love from egypt ❤❤
God bless you Lisa for preaching the truth, those who've got ears to hear please hear the truth. It's high time for the excellent ones to have and cherish an awesome healthy relationship with their excellent loved one in righteousness, peace and truth. ❤
Great video 🌸🌸
I support you totally! I like your videos! Please keep on 😍
You are so right!!!
Love this!
I love that you chose to put Don Draper in your thumbnail. Superficially he appears to be a high value man, but when you watch Mad Men you really recognise what a tortured miserable man he actually is. He uses, disrespects and abuses women left and right, being mean and insecure.
Don Draper is attractive but a horrible husband lol
Best video I’ve seen this year
Oh my gosh, the men from my past check those negative boxes. Glad they are the past, and I'm keeping this all in mind for the next one.
You are so classy. Goals in life :)
Love everything you are teaching. Thank you! New sub here 🥰
Oh my goodness, just found your channel! I absolutely LOVE your content! Xx
Love that summer dress, as well as these gems you dropped here, Lisa, darling!!) 💞🦅🦌
@6:00 - I'm your man!🤗❤🦾🦌🦅
Thank you so much for your support 😊🌹
2:58 I don’t agree a 100%.. what about men who start building a career and don’t have that much money? If he cooks you food at 3 o’clock in the night instead, gives you massages when your back hurts. This is so much more worth to me and he can still value you without paying for it with money. Besides that I really like your video ♥️
always valuable to rewatch this 🙂
I love your dress !
Thank you dear ❤
@@Lisaglamour your welcome 🙏🏻
I love your videos!
Thanks very much....☺️😊❤️❤️for the messages .....
Ladies, you are the prize💞💞💞💞
Exactly
Love your videos!
This is so true!!
I used to like your channel.... now I love your channel❤️
Tysm!!🌸🌸
Great channel 👌🏼👌🏼Please make a video about confidence tips, or is there any video that you could recommend for having better confidence?
Lisa I just discovered your channel... I love it... You are so femenine as a princess.... Greetings from Oxford, Uk. 🇬🇧
Thank you so much beautiful ❤️