#1 Love Expert: Why Relationships DON’T LAST & How To Build LASTING LOVE | Matthew Hussey

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  • @LisaBilyeu
    @LisaBilyeu  2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    What do you think is the secret for long lasting love?

    • @ameliaetienne8521
      @ameliaetienne8521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Form a friendship first.

    • @joannahulitt3161
      @joannahulitt3161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      When two people are committed to living one another regardless of money or circumstance regardless of if you like them today. Two people that are emotionally mature and looking out for their person’s best interest at heart! Honesty and communication

    • @christian4641
      @christian4641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think the secret to long lasting love is quality time, perhaps.

    • @alisonhall4403
      @alisonhall4403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      For me, honesty, respect and , honor, are some of the most important things for me.

    • @christian4641
      @christian4641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@joannahulitt3161 period.

  • @paulaa.6833
    @paulaa.6833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +767

    The best quote I got from this channel was: do yourself a favor and if it's a maybe, then take it as a no. If you have doubt, it's a no. And this applies to jobs and promotions, relationships, everything! It's life changing!

    • @TheBeautifulShutin
      @TheBeautifulShutin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      But also it’s a natural stage of relationships to go through a questioning period, where we feel some uncertainty. Dating anxiety is real, the feelings of uncertainty can arise, as we feel out how we and the other person feel… for me a little doubt on either side, can be quite healthy and a sign that we’re awake and not caught up in infatuation.

    • @jessycharline1526
      @jessycharline1526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@TheBeautifulShutin exactly

    • @alisonhall4403
      @alisonhall4403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I think you are correct but missed the point that was trying to be made. He saying that, is a way to protect your feelings and to slow down and don’t get your hopes up to high. Stay in reality and be honest with yourself. Stop pouring everything into people and situation, that have to much power over you emotionally, to early.

    • @MiZShortiiE
      @MiZShortiiE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      This reminds me of what a friend told me years ago. If it's not a hell yes, it's a hell no.

    • @MarionFiedlerMusic
      @MarionFiedlerMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If it's a maybe, then take it as a no. If you have a doubt, it's a no. - thanks!

  • @evelina787
    @evelina787 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    If someone is mistreating you and tells you they haven’t done anything “wrong”, listen to them. They are telling you they are going to continue😔✨☘️🙏

    • @smitha1867
      @smitha1867 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Also, that they’re doing the wrong things. Get away and care about self. 🙏🏼

    • @evelina787
      @evelina787 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@smitha1867 yes concur completely God bless you ✨☘️🙏

    • @susantalebzadeh9741
      @susantalebzadeh9741 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen!

    • @evelina787
      @evelina787 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@susantalebzadeh9741 God bless you Susan
      Wishing all the very best for you ✨☘️🙏

    • @dancelifeforsure
      @dancelifeforsure ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true. Especially with no apologies or explanations. They're too big for their britches.
      You Never divorce the same person you marry- like that!

  • @EnhancingtheBrain
    @EnhancingtheBrain 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    To be lasting, a relationship needs much more than love. It needs dialogue, daily nourishment of emotional connections, quality time, respect, mercy to forgive and humility to admit when you make mistakes...

  • @Ellanl12
    @Ellanl12 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I love her way of doing interviews, only interrupts at the perfect times and knows how to listen, love it!

    • @aruvielevenstar3944
      @aruvielevenstar3944 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Totally agree

    • @estherweekes7571
      @estherweekes7571 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes, she is wonderful.

    • @Ingrafre
      @Ingrafre 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, Lisa is soo lovely. And Matt is at his best in this one.

  • @keishawilliams6460
    @keishawilliams6460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    I can listen to him for hours. He's so practical and his examples are spot on

    • @Jcperformancehorsenforge
      @Jcperformancehorsenforge ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He is like a big brother and giving you the needed pep talk." You can do this!!"

    • @cindysayavong8513
      @cindysayavong8513 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is very intelligent and knowledgeable! I love this. I wonder if he has a book ? I would love to buy one.

    • @lovetfleure
      @lovetfleure ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @valeries1251
    @valeries1251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Been married for 15 years and all of this is so true👍🏼💖 the secret to a long lasting relationship is the ability to value/fight for each other through all the challenges and changes of life.

  • @crayonofdarkness215
    @crayonofdarkness215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    The complexity he describes of the toxic intermittent reward type of relationship (the hot/cold dynamic, where it’s mostly cold and lonely but occasionally is great) DOES make it very confusing and difficult to extricate oneself from such relationships, but it is so important to trust your own feelings enough to not stay in such dysfunctional and confusing relationships. I owe my life and my current good health to staying away from such dysfunctional relationships, and continue to stay vigilant against any such relationships. I have so much compassion and love and yet I have to prioritize my own health and sanity to have a life at all.

    • @claire-ui6pu
      @claire-ui6pu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m saving this comment it’s where I’m at too ❤️ putting myself first. My health and sanity. There is no confusion if it’s right.

    • @lisaariottiart
      @lisaariottiart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ditto🙌🏻

    • @marvimalik304
      @marvimalik304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for saying this 🙏🏼

    • @a.d.b535
      @a.d.b535 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!!

  • @annalisamiller6653
    @annalisamiller6653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I love when he says "attention is not intention"! Great message there. And how being generous and giving describes real love from a person.

  • @rhondaburgin9608
    @rhondaburgin9608 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I love the intention vs attention. So true. Consistency is telling. The most powerful thing I ever heard is "when people tell you who they are" (by actions) believe them.

    • @Lotusawj
      @Lotusawj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thats from Maya Angelou, she has fantastic lines 😊

  • @foreignlovedreams
    @foreignlovedreams ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You have to work on a relationship for it to be balanced, healthy, and strong.
    There is no secret.
    Happy couples have certain habits.
    From my experience, our habits are the following:
    1. Express Gratitude and Appreciation
    2. Be Kind, Randomly
    3. Have Fun, and Celebrate
    4. Invite Connection
    5. Have Deep Conversations
    6. Ask When You Need Something
    7. Have and Enforce Healthy Boundaries
    8. Love Unconditionally
    Remember to love ALL of your partner (strengths and shortcomings), connect every day, have fun, and fight fairly.

    • @cherisity
      @cherisity ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve try done 90% of the this list. My bf feels I’m too desperate in the relationship. He’s not used to. He doesn’t like it when I do 4,5,6,7

    • @cherisity
      @cherisity ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He hates connect everyday. He likes me time once a while. The connecting , daily bathing in love isn’t what men look for

  • @theblessedblackwoman
    @theblessedblackwoman ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I cried watching this video. For a good reason. We have been practicing most of this in my current relationship. We both cant believe we almost called it quits like 25 times in the first 3 months. Until we both admitted we really want to try to be together. Since we made this admission to each other, things have been so much easier. We are still working through our differences but we have a commitment to each other that we are both going....nowhere...so we have given each other no other choice than to try harder. Its a beautiful and enriching process.

  • @mariar3136
    @mariar3136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Consistency, someone that makes u feel safe....that's true.

  • @tonky_tonks
    @tonky_tonks ปีที่แล้ว +232

    " You have to be able to separate how you feel about someone from how someone makes you feel" ~ What a great words. Roger that.

  • @helloshyann
    @helloshyann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I absolute love what Matthew is saying about curiosity to dismantle internal beliefs. It makes me think of the feedback loop process that’s described in the book Atomic Habits by James Clear. You get curious and try to do something else besides fight or flight in a relationship… and because your curiosity leads you to do something different, you get a different response, and it signals a new cue of a potential feedback loop. So you’re more likely to repeat that behavior again if you’re “rewarded” (get a positive response). Therefore, you begin the process of building vulnerability into a habit to become a better partner.

  • @SM999
    @SM999 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    These are all very relevant points. But I was dating someone consistently and I mean consistency every way. Calls m, texts, time spent with each other, dates, and they dropped me like a hot potato in the most selfish way possible after two months. It was one of the worst betrayals someone put me through. Selfish is an understatement. Consistency doesn’t aways mean something is going to go as we plan

    • @christinarichie6171
      @christinarichie6171 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cruel and unusual punishment is what I call it. You need to see the tiny signs they are always there. Listen to yout intuition. He could only muster up 2months of work. Then he gave up..

    • @magical571
      @magical571 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      that happened to me with someone diagnosed with high functioning autism; in his case, he said maintaining a relationship (for him, in general) was too much work, and he had forgotten how much work it was since he had been single for a while.

  • @catboxcleaner3532
    @catboxcleaner3532 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Matthew is delightful; Lisa offers an open platform to allow guests to fully articulate. As an aside, Lisa’s arms are well-toned. Thank you for this discussion platform.

  • @Julybaby12619
    @Julybaby12619 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lisa your channel, the guests you choose, and the way you interview them is amazing! Its is now a "Go To" Favorite.

  • @aaroncecil5381
    @aaroncecil5381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    i have always watched your videos for help, i have been in a very rocky marriage and all i tried to make sure the marriage worked, never worked tried everything but to no avail, we got seperated last year,sadly i still love her and i dont know what to do.

    • @anthonyszymon3032
      @anthonyszymon3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same here, i have been in such a situation and i love my wife and unfortunately we divorced about two years ago but i couldnt just let anything make us get seperated so i had to do all i could to get her back, now we have been back together for over a year now,and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i couldnt let the love of my life go.

    • @aaroncecil5381
      @aaroncecil5381 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anthonyszymon3032 Wow, i would love to get my ex back, please can you tell me how yours worked out?

    • @anthonyszymon3032
      @anthonyszymon3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aaroncecil5381 well i couldnt let her go and a friend of mine introduced me to a spiritual adviser who helped me out by bringing her back, she is a caster and i can say she is very good at what she does,i am a living testimony.

    • @aaroncecil5381
      @aaroncecil5381 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anthonyszymon3032 oh well i havent really given that a try, how would i go about it?

    • @anthonyszymon3032
      @anthonyszymon3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aaroncecil5381 she is really good at what she do, her name is miriam chamani dietrich, you can look her up online,and you will get all you need.

  • @kstepk5003
    @kstepk5003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Matthew is so insightful. Anyone can learn valuable lessons from him about relationships and yourself.

  • @Rebelwellnesslmt
    @Rebelwellnesslmt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My God, I went 7 years with out dating after my divorce. It is so hard getting back into it. Esp when you meet someone exactally the way he describes the one who doesn't make the time fir you

  • @UtahGal
    @UtahGal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wow, this is the most powerful interview I've ever watched. So many take aways for me. Thank you for this. I've taken myself out of the dating game for 20 years. You both just handed me a paradigm shift.

    • @AkumuFiona
      @AkumuFiona 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree! Off I go to change all I have been doing and become more curious about doing things differently

  • @LouisaWatt
    @LouisaWatt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Matthew Hussey could easily segue into business culture consulting because the universal nature of relationships holds true regardless of the context.

  • @mariatravieso5226
    @mariatravieso5226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I really appreciate your content and admire Matthew for his great insight and contribution to navigating the difficult issues that arise in the path towards healthy relationships.

  • @susanblake9946
    @susanblake9946 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really like what Matthew has to say--especially about owning your own mistakes without losing self-confidence.

  • @estherweekes7571
    @estherweekes7571 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pearls and pearls of wisdom from Matthew. He really is fantastic. Thank you to both of you.

  • @DrPatrickKingsep
    @DrPatrickKingsep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi
    Patrick from Mind Life Flow channel here and Im a Clinical Psychologist in Australia - such great advise on this video for so many people!

  • @fatimadulaney4912
    @fatimadulaney4912 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of your best guest!! He’s so real and informative

  • @christinaoneill1711
    @christinaoneill1711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think knowing the difference between love and lust is important.

  • @20-NYC
    @20-NYC ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great to hear your inviting him back, can you discuss
    How to cope with low self esteem that came from a partner that intentionally withheld needs you communicated to them you wanted but made excuses and n no effort to meet those needs (such as attention & quality time)
    Why do people do this, when in the beginning they made you feel like the center of their universe.

  • @lauraweaver4336
    @lauraweaver4336 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It sucks tho… because if you both are in the high on a date and the next day he tells you he is interested and then he disappears. How are we going to finally trust someone if this happens all the time. I don’t think is fair and very immature.

  • @christian4641
    @christian4641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I dig this convo a lot. Thank you so much for posting. Terrific insights/views/comments/perception.

  • @smilingblissgoddess
    @smilingblissgoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Such an incredibly powerful conversation on such an important set of issues in relationships that I am certain many can relate to if not all, so much to learn hear Lisa And Matthew so many truths and golden nuggets of wisdom and insight to bring awareness insight and transformation to in our relationships thank you this was a brilliant and important topic and interview keep up the great work!🙂💗

  • @CassieWiegand-ub2cz
    @CassieWiegand-ub2cz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! I started listening to you for the last 3 months . You are such an intelligent and intuitive man. ❤

  • @ronaldom5429
    @ronaldom5429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Matthew is so clear ! great man !

  • @alfreire72
    @alfreire72 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sending messages everyday it doesn't mean connection at all. I have a life and i hope the other person have a life too :). I love this video! So wise Matthew! Thank you!

    • @christinarichie6171
      @christinarichie6171 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's you.... congratulations you don't need a lot of communication.

    • @magical571
      @magical571 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nah, that's a bunch of barriers honestly. if you are distant and introverted sure, do as you will, but it's not because they have a life or not (communicating daily specially in the first months of a relationship is pretty easy and just comes around naturally if you like each other...)

  • @margaritajohns7907
    @margaritajohns7907 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally agree with the fact that people change over time and circumstances change perhaps they are chasing cures for their trauma, and have the need to heal by looking for perhaps different people, or one person that could maybe similar to their hurts so they can identify with and go deeper in their needs or perhaps they are trying to scape the person that already knows them and want to Procrastinate their cure by hiding away, running away with somebody else this is based from my personal experiences with people in my life and myself personally.

  • @lesliezucker3862
    @lesliezucker3862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Know your attachment style. So you can run from incompatibles

  • @pranjal7621
    @pranjal7621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The no. Of ads in this episode was surprising. 😬

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate how Matthew Hussey always leaves me with a few gems 💎 everytime I watch anything he's in! ✍🏾📝

  • @tess7798
    @tess7798 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was so impressed when Matthew told his personal story about how he reacted in arguments. GREAT interview!

  • @deesticco1719
    @deesticco1719 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes consistency ! Mathew hit on the nail!

  • @hispanicservices9225
    @hispanicservices9225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow this is so eye opening… you both are amazing 🤩 👌👌💙💞

  • @annabanzon313
    @annabanzon313 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Attention vs. Intention yup preach!

  • @danielleemch8991
    @danielleemch8991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm just really curious I have recently noticed something why is the beginning of all relationships so amazing why can't that be sustained through the whole relationship especially because you fall more in love with each other as you get to know one another 🥰💖

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because life is messy and sad and complicated, romance and lust is great but real love is taking all the good and all the bad and sticking together through life's storms, that's the real deep and satisfying love.

    • @magical571
      @magical571 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@charlottebruce979 see, you have to be careful about "sticking through the bad", since for a lot of women that means staying with an abuser/toxic relationship just because of "loyalty"

  • @elisa_06
    @elisa_06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Really powerful and helpful as always 🙏🏼❤️ Thank you

  • @sharoncastro402
    @sharoncastro402 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was an amazing interview, thank you both so much very very helpful and very appreciative!!!

  • @zinedinezidane4771
    @zinedinezidane4771 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think one of the keys to a good relationship is are you both open to change. Is the person you with rigid or able to change and open to feedback and able to act on it? I think if they aren't or you aren't it will be an uphill struggle.

  • @OllieSmiless
    @OllieSmiless 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love Matthew and all of his tips. However, I disagree with his "playful" approach if a guy does not text for 5 days after the first date. I'd write this guy off if it took him 5 days to text.

    • @snoozyq9576
      @snoozyq9576 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sometimes writing things off too quickly can lead to missing out on something great. People aren't black and white and can redeem themselves later

  • @tejusane1
    @tejusane1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing insights. Eye opener

  • @SummerLuvinAlai
    @SummerLuvinAlai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loving Matthew Hussey as a guest on your show❤

  • @solarphoenixfire
    @solarphoenixfire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    24:27 through 31:08. Especially 25:33 through 26:26. ✨

  • @veronicasmi
    @veronicasmi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We lose our curiosity when we lose our confidence. How can one be curious when he or she is afraid because has no confidence in themselves?

  • @triciaglorianabaye
    @triciaglorianabaye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There should be more Mathews to go around for this generation.

  • @amyburke2989
    @amyburke2989 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dang this is the most powerful video I’ve watched. Thank you!

  • @paulinakoosowska358
    @paulinakoosowska358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When he mentioned "curiosity " 🤯👌

  • @dancelifeforsure
    @dancelifeforsure ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I heard people don't change over time, they change you.

  • @herastudio543
    @herastudio543 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    O.M.G 🤯 so much value in these messages! I have a lot of work to do 😅

  • @akhilat
    @akhilat 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love what he said about love at first sight

  • @ars_paulina
    @ars_paulina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me, yes, it was love at first sight, both sides... At the end, it was so powerful and intense, that he went back to his county. It has been several years, and yes, romantically, it was love at first sight, it doesn't matter if it didn't worked!

  • @alyssaarana373
    @alyssaarana373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this advice!

  • @iloveyellow7214
    @iloveyellow7214 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just finished a jay shetty and adam grant video and then for some reason this video was recommended to me.
    I do not know if its the algrorithm or chance? Im just am thankful 😘 thank you Ms. Bilyeu
    I didnt know i needed this

  • @deborahberryman3263
    @deborahberryman3263 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is an amazing. presentation with so much truth. ❤

  • @dianehenke2539
    @dianehenke2539 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The culture of that coffee shop" 👏👏👏 Matthew nailed that situation. That's news I can use. ❤

  • @lovereikiASMR222
    @lovereikiASMR222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved it! Thank you 🙌🏼

  • @jonathanvermillion7263
    @jonathanvermillion7263 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abuse and attachment styles , took me a long time to start being able to see the concepts here

  • @AkumuFiona
    @AkumuFiona 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was absolutely insightful. Thank you as always

  • @doingitdivine3831
    @doingitdivine3831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, so valuable. I appreciate this information 💓

  • @maristella287
    @maristella287 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Curiosity is very powerful. Very powerful.

  • @yvonnem.2038
    @yvonnem.2038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was dating someone for a month thing were amazing. Once things got physical he said he’ll gladly delete all his dating apps. I ask to see his phone and started deleting them to call his bluff. But he sat there gazing at me happy as if there wasn’t a problem. After that i asked for a us to be exclusive/title he again said he saw problem in that. As time progress he wasn’t as attentive but still consistent. Me being so spoiled and instead of going with the flow i went and dig. I saw out if he was still on one of the app and come to find it he was. I confronted him he lied and said it wasn’t active when it was. But he was mad at me for looking he said he gave me no reason to question him so why did i do it. So now he’s not speaking to me. I send him messages saying sorry and i get ignored.
    Will he come back and if not is there anything i can do to change this
    FYI he also asked me do i think we’re moving to fast. I said i was just going with the what i feel when we are around each other. I asked the same in return he said no. (When i asked about the title)

    • @debbietampasheher3682
      @debbietampasheher3682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He's gaslighting you when he blames you for looking for his still active dating profiles. And he now has *you*apologizing to him when he's the one that lied. You did nothing wrong... There was no foundation of trust that you betrayed. He's the one who betrayed your trust and*he* got caught.
      Idk if he will or even should come back. But if he does you can see how he reacts to a kind but honest conversation about his betrayal. And you don't need to apologize.
      If he's a keeper he will apologize to you and fight for you to get you back.

    • @a.d.b535
      @a.d.b535 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If he asks you if you two are going too fast, he's secretly hinting that's what HE'S thinking (projection)

    • @snoozyq9576
      @snoozyq9576 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think we should ever be sorry for exposing someone's lies. If they have a problem with you knowing the truth, that's pretty malicious

    • @ninajohnson8389
      @ninajohnson8389 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You sound controlling and a but nuts

  • @kentondragon9263
    @kentondragon9263 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    39:08 52:30 I couldn't put my thoughts down but Matthew nailed.

  • @Celestia1111ove
    @Celestia1111ove ปีที่แล้ว

    There were so many great points given here in this video. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @lolxd9396
    @lolxd9396 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I guess to zero out expectations from the other person kind out reduces the negative impact of betrayal.

  • @tinker2217
    @tinker2217 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    27:43 this guy is so good. This is so accurate.

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So good, so, so, good.

  • @joanmu1053
    @joanmu1053 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The 2 o f you are soo strong
    I learn every day

  • @evacaneda2421
    @evacaneda2421 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Matthew you dont need to be afraid. just trust me. And i trust you..beleive me. i have already choosen you. No anyone else. just beleive me.... whatts App already done.So dont worry....

  • @laishahamdi26
    @laishahamdi26 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exactly has Matt explains in this video!
    So accurate ❤

  • @sanikakakirde
    @sanikakakirde 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Matthew & Lisa 💖

  • @meme-qo6jz
    @meme-qo6jz ปีที่แล้ว

    wow.. you are brilliant.. this is really spot on. I had a divorce about 10 years ago and it took me the years after to realize everything that you said in this video.. amazing.. does Matthew have a degree in psychology?

  • @charlottebruce979
    @charlottebruce979 ปีที่แล้ว

    It wasn't love at first sight for my parents. they've been married over 50 years. It was love at first sight for my ex. It lasted 8.

  • @azingyaraw10687
    @azingyaraw10687 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you both
    He is good in advice
    I learned a lot from listening to his advice.

  • @annabanzon313
    @annabanzon313 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for the word impressive because some men really think they are hot shit. Pardon my french!

  • @nadinelindsay3012
    @nadinelindsay3012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love his content...such a fan.

  • @Dazzlin826
    @Dazzlin826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How early on can you tell somebody that you are solid that when they come pouring to you can accept?

  • @jemmapellicot-wangson9879
    @jemmapellicot-wangson9879 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being in love needs 2 things : Being loving…. loving being …

  • @esmatsalahel-din8524
    @esmatsalahel-din8524 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How we I feel to my lady , it’s also what is the feeling I am getting back’ so important in relationships that has value , I believe
    Trust, love, kindness in replying with genuine respect to the you are going to grow together.
    I need help because I’m the type the will jump and dive , honestly naked, transparent- the same must I expect from her, my lady. It’s a simple equation
    Efforts =Rewards

  • @marymccormack2317
    @marymccormack2317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you vulnerable and give u a vertual hug. I get it. ☀️👍

  • @freefalldragonball
    @freefalldragonball 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear Lisa, I love you so much and you are my role model, please remove this narcissist from the show, you would know by now he is not worth...

  • @shannonolofson169
    @shannonolofson169 ปีที่แล้ว

    No words...

  • @taniellpeterson3803
    @taniellpeterson3803 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so real!

  • @TiffanyHancock-hf5ho
    @TiffanyHancock-hf5ho 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Blessing!

  • @paniwiosna2560
    @paniwiosna2560 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does it litteraly mean to love myself? Because i think i do, but i can't find somebody to love me..

  • @mikibeardslee829
    @mikibeardslee829 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! I needed to hear this right now. Thank you!❤

  • @learning4705
    @learning4705 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    41:50

  • @uranegg
    @uranegg ปีที่แล้ว

    When you know that you don't fit in people will be so cruel.

  • @giovannamachado6652
    @giovannamachado6652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    25:34

  • @Iamcapable4
    @Iamcapable4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think lust at first sight lol bloody getting drunk is no good lol 🔥

  • @TamakiCherry
    @TamakiCherry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:40

  • @casalgarcasalgar3526
    @casalgarcasalgar3526 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please help. I have been looking for dates, but 99% are just to have sex on the first date and for nothing else. Is this the reality?