You don’t know what other peoples underwear have been through they could have lice they could have all sorts of other entirely nasty unmentionables that’s just not sanitary, at all!
I’d be going off on somebody for taking my underwear! That stuffs expensive! Especially in my size! I’d say , you’d really want me to share my used underwear with a child? That’s disgusting! The nerve of some people! I’m sorry but I figured out what she was after when she said she left the teddy bear. She’d didn’t leave no dang teddy bear. She was stealing the underwear. What a pos. That grandma has to be on the verge of some type of mental illness to do what an entitled child would do. I mean, stuffing chunks of cake down her gut. I’d go NC completely unless she apologizes and then I’d have to think about it.
It sounds fairly advanced, tbh. My grandma never did that, but she did set her hair on fire once, my cousin had to move in with her and keep an eye on her.
Yuuuup, I would have straight up told the lady to talk to her mom's doctor, because unusual, immature behavior like this can be a symptom of several degenerative neurological conditions. It has a good chance of embarrassing the grandma into shutting up, and who knows, she might actually be ill.
I also hope the operation of removing the aunt from the family is also a success because geez. I wouldn't want a kid to know one of their relatives was perfectly okay with them dying.
right like why be all bridezilla on our wedding day I got an idea how about go have fun and be with ur new hubby instead of obsessing over a waiter omg
I'd think "insecurity" as well. I get wanting to look good, but going full-on tyrant over the guests and staff's dress codes and physical appearance? That's a very big nope-out.
Honestly, I think she was looking for drama. None of her guests gave her anything to work with, so she was grasping at straws picking on this poor waitress instead.
The mom literally could’ve gotten her daughter a leopard costume or a leopard printed shirt and I’m sure the girl would’ve been happy. Also wasn’t the mom disgusted by giving the daughter used underwear? Like what if op had some sort of disease or something, op wouldn’t advertise that and it could put the daughter at risk
She really should have just bought her daughter something if she wanted to cave in to the screaming and crying. If child insists she wants THOSE underwear, tell her tough luck, they're not her size. You can get something for you that fits you. If she's big enough that she's wearing an adult woman's underwear size--she's old enough to stop crying for someone else's underwear! Gross.
The mom has a record of breaking and entering. I'm sure she thought it was justified for the same reason she's giving here: learn to share. What she's sadly teaching her daughter is simple: the world doesn't want to share so you have to take it in order to teach them to just give it to you. It's a freaking cycle that she has no problem repeating.
Gonna say that if anyone complains about free food they are usually not in need of it to begin with. My church keeps a loaded pantry with many unperishables as well as lunch meat and breads. We have never had someone complain about what we give them. We usually give the ones needing help the same package every time. That way no one can complain what they get. We always get nothing but gratitude for what we do. We even opened a small garage next to our church with beds and 2 bathrooms for the local homeless to get out of the elements. Never had any issues.
Story 3: Food is food man.. I was homeless for years and I'm disabled so we don't have much. You will never hear me complain about free food. If it's something no one in the house will eat, we don't complain and just offer it up to someone else in our community who might not have a lot either.
She must have been living on another planet. The waitress (and waiter), will be dress as good as possible and they will put make up to a reception like this. It's freaking normal! And there are two reason for that : one, it's a wedding... does she expect waiters to look like trash? Two, if they have a bar and stuff like this, they will also get tipped and it's not secret to anybody that the social skill & good looking pay off for that kind of job. So, your cute waitress talk to your guess, gave them a good evening and you're unhappy of that.... wtf!!!
Story 4: I would absolutely have pressed charges on Karen for theft. She stole with malicious intent, and should be forced to not only pay restitution for the cost of the underwear but also do community service. She obviously knew better.
The cost of pushing it through to get restitution would be more than what the undies cost. I would do the charging so she’d have a record of more theft for when she goes all out and does something worth chasing her for restitution. She’ll get what’s coming unless she correct her ways.
Last story I have to wonder how unattractive the bride considers herself that she thinks someone in their standard work clothes/makeup can outshine her on her wedding day. Like goddamn.
Story one reminds me of my aunt honestly... My mom has 5 siblings, and this aunt was one of his brother's wife, so they're just in law's My baby cousin had passed away a week after he was born and everyone was devastated, because we knew they've been through many miscarriage and many complications before finally having my baby cousin.. But when my uncle called all of his siblings to tell the news, it was his sister in law who answered the phone... And what she said was heartbreaking and disgusting.. She said " so what if he's dead, just bury him then " It was the last day everyone talked to her..
Story #4 - Personally, I would be reluctant to babysit anyone's kids unless I knew them really well and I had another adult with me. There's too much liability in it these days.
Why would you let someone wander through your apartment unobserved to “look for a teddy bear” that you already knew hadn’t been brought over?? That OP seriously lacks boundaries and needs lessons in proper trust limits
Story 5: Oh, it's one of those "I asked for X but I really meant Y" customers. You ask for "Mustard," you get "Mustard," you ask for "Honey Mustard," you get "Honey Mustard." You don't say "Mustard" and expect "Honey Mustard," they're not psychics
I hate people like that. I have extreme anxiety when ordering and even if they give me the wrong thing, I'll go back and tell them "Sorry about the misunderstanding, but I didn't mention that I wanted [specific food setting] so would it be okay for you to remake it for me?" Cuz while I feel bad for messing up my own order and causing a bit of trouble, it costs nothing to be kind and gently clear up a misunderstanding, rather than expecting them to know what you want without telling them. I'll even pay for it if they need me to, but they couldn't know what I wanted if I didn't tell them, so they're not at fault here.
If someone doesn’t like the cake they received from a food bank make one from scratch. That will assure you get exactly what flavor, size, quality and icing you want. You may even get a lot of the ingredients from the food bank. It’s possible and their cake can go to someone who is just happy to have a cake. Period!
Story #6: Beware of the bridezilla. Shame on you for assuming your wedding “dress code” applied to the wait staff, especially if you didn’t discuss this with the caterer beforehand. Are you really that insecure about your looks?
BRIDEZILLA story was ridiculous. She is obviously super insecure about her looks to worry about the appearance o the waitstaff at her wedding. She must also be deeply unhappy in her life
It wouldn't surprise me if that Karen at the food bank wasn't gaming the system and just thought she'd be able to score some free food that she didn't need. Since the distribution was an honor system, Karens can easily sneak in, proud of the fact that they pulled one over the system!
Bride story, definitely the AH. Weddings are getting ridiculous. When brides start telling me what to,wear, beyond formal, informal one casual, that's when I decline the wedding. I guess requesting dark colors is ok, but minimal makeup, hair styles, etc, too much.
Story #2: It really sounds like grandma is showing early signs of dementia. Often, the 'social filter' is the first thing dementia patients lose, and if she was already an 'entitled princess', she's reverting back to an entitled princess child. I saw this a lot when I used to visit my dad in the dementia ward at his nursing home; women over 90 years old fighting about who owns which doll. It was a demoralizing sight...
Social filter like telling everyone about having a bath with bunch of underage kids and how they like his hair legs? Kiss his daughter in the mouth? Biting his wife's finger on the podium? Shouting during speech for no reason? Hmmm ....
My grandmother had Alzheimer's. My dad took her to shop for an Easter dress but she couldn't decide between two. He suggested she try them on and she said "No, a colored might have tried it on. They let them do that now." He was so embarrassed but he thought about it and realized she was raised in rural MO and was already a grandmother when the Civil Rights Act was signed in 1964. Her logical brain knew it wasn't right but her lifetime indoctrination overrode logic in the face of the disorder.
Story 3, I work with a bread company. We give the local Foodbank thousands of loaves of bread a month. Years ago, 20 or so, this Foodbank told our supervision that we were giving them too much bread and they will no longer take it!! They also had an executive that let it be known that she was making $75,000 a year! This is where it gets good. The same day that they didn’t want any more bread they were on the evening news pleading for monetary donations for the poor hungry homeless. I can understand an abundance of a particular item but from that day forward I have NEVER given to that Foodbank. New leadership did come in and asked for donations which they did get. I always check who I give money to and if they have an executive board that is paid, sorry, no money from me.
Happy Mom's Day for everyone. Bridezilla was TOTALLY out of line. If I was her mom, she would have had a discussion about treating staff badly. As for stealing the underwear, That would be the last time mom had a sitter, I would have to tell the entire town to not sit for her because there's no telling what else the kid will fixate on and the mom would steal it.
Underwear though is just gross. Who does that? That's so far from normal I'm pretty speechless. As for learning to share the mother is teaching the daughter the wrong way round, you teach kids to share their stuff not grab everyone else's and then claim it as your own smh. OMG the bride sounds like a complete loony what is it with people nowadays telling people how to look at their wedding? As for worrying about a server's eyeliner, I mean she isn't even in the photos! I don't think that marriage will last.
@@shendisackett Short answer: insecurity. The bride would've asked the groom two of the questions with no right answers within a month. This is why I prefer to stay single.
@@JamesDavy2009 I'm divorced because I chose badly! Being single does make things easier because I only have to worry about myself but you know if you choose well then marriage can be good. I know some people who are happily married from my age group. There was a group of 4 couples, every couple got married in time and only 1 couple are still together some 20 years later. My ex husband also really screwed me financially and then skipped the UK and moved to the US so I could have zero comeback on him. How they let him in is beyond me, I guess he lied on the forms.
If my mother had thrown such a tantrum and ruined my kid's birthday like that, she'd be cut out in a heartbeat. And, of course, she'd never get a present from me again.
Happy Mothers Day to all the mothers watching! And thank you Fluff and Stevo for another good video!!! Edit to add that when my Mum was younger she had a roommate who stole all her stuff including her underwear. People be wild.
She certainly was a Bridzilla. Can you imagine being married to such an insecure person? I’m quite sure she’s a total KAREN. I feel so sorry for her husband and everyone who ever comes in contact with her.
Story 4: I do believe her behavior was because the mom just doesn't want to say "No." And she already had a similar charge, so you'd think she at least consider the consequence of catching a second one
I mean. She can spend 50$ bucks on babysitting. Just buy the kid some leopard print underwear. I certainly would never want to wear a strangers underpants
We now live in a time when some people think stealing is just another way to get what they want and they do it all the time. Porch pirates being a prime example.
Don't forget that it's used... and probably used during an intimate act at that. That's disgusting, regardless of whether or not it is washed. I would need bleach and 10 mins of microwave time just to think about using normal underwear from a thrift store.
It doesn't surprise me that the Mom in this story already has a 'Rap Sheet' for B & E. The Daughter is just mimicking her Mother's actions; I see something I want, so I'll take it. That kid needs to be removed from her incapable bio Mother's care.
Yikes for the bridezilla story! If she was having the "perfect wedding" then how could she be so obsessed about how one of the catering staff looked? The husband and MIL were right about her acting crazy.
If I ever open any shop of any kind, I would put a sign that say: "In these doors your are in fact not always right. Matter of fact is you are in the wrong."
@@dee_dee_place I've seen plenty of signs in a lot of shops saying, "Abusive/violent behaviour will not be tolerated." You could also post a sign saying, "The customer is only right in matters of their taste."
Story 3: I've gotten a lot of food from food banks over the years. I volunteered at the one two blocks away for about three years but stopped when I moved after my apartment building was sold to an investment group to gentrify it and price it out of my range. I loved those folks, they saved me and my cat many times. On another note, the investment group lost funding and went bankrupt, but they displaced 80+ households to do it. I guess karma works?...
Story 2: apologize to grandma, and say in a way that implies malicious compliance that birthdays and presents are to be shared. Then get everyone else a better present than her on her birthday.
I'd agree but at the same time I have a feeling grandma may have dementia or Alzheimer's. They go to crazy drastics like that. My grandma yelled at me once my whole childhood and after she started getting dementia she started constantly snapping at me and we were always at each other's throats. Like one time ants were in the house bad and I went to go feed my dog around 8pm and I noticed they were all in her dog food so I ran out into the kitchen with the dish threw it away while apologizing to my grandma for needing to turn a light on and she snapped on me telling me I should've thought about it earlier even tho that makes zero sense since you can't predict that but in her mind she believed it was. I know it's not my grandma when she gets like that even tho it's extremely hard to fully accept when it's not a side you've ever seen before. UNLESS this grandma has always been that way, they probably should get her into a brain specialist because even if it isn't dementia/Alzheimer's, if this way of acting is new it could be something else serious going on. I think strokes can cause outbursts but I think that's more when they can't communicate like they want so they get frustrated and can only clear their frustrations with anger/ violence kind of like severely mentally disabled kids.
@@stephanieann6622 yeah im on your side, i feel like grandma might be doing that because my grandma when she was diagnosed with dementia she did something similar on my sister birthday when previously she was fine and would be the one buying present
@@carolinamendoza8092 it's sad really. It hurts a lot to see them go down hill. We recently had to put her in a care home for dementia and they seem really good. I just haven't been to see her since, my mom said everytime she goes grandma always asks about me so I know she hasn't forgot me I just worry the one time I can go will be the time she forget. I really haven't been going because I have a auto immune disorder and I'm sick constantly and you obviously don't want to make them sick especially when they get so far along they don't do anymore of their updated shots because they feel as if it's not worth it to make them suffer more but they do their best to keep them really healthy. I just worry if I go, they're going to get sick but I know deep down is my fear as well. It's like one day she's back to being grandma and the next she's really out of it and it's like the lights are on but no one's home if you get what I mean? Like their eyes are zonked out? Does your grandma as well hide things? When we had her here she was getting meal supplement drinks she was in love with because she can't eat very well due to her stomach and she would go through like 8-10 a day if we didn't hide them and she would literally yell at us and tell us she knows she didn't drink that many and one of us must have, or she would put some in places she thought we didn't see. She even accused us one day of hiding them because"I know the boxes were right here you're hiding them because you think I'm drinking too many" even tho the shipment hadn't come in yet and the boxes she was thinking of was from days before.has your grandma done similar things? It was really weird to me because one day she understands it's her dementia and that she forgets and the next she's so adamant and will yell and say "there's nothing wrong with me I know how many I've had" I just kinda figured it was gonna be a constant thing not where it flips back and forth ya know?
Story 2: Poor mom having to deal with a grandma like that. I hope it's not HER mother but at the same time I wouldn't be surprised. I'm glad OP's workplace helped her get a replacement for the destroyed book. I bet she really needed to get the absurdity of the situation off her chest too.
Killing her with kindness wasn't the high road if the lady had any sense of shame, rather it would compound the humiliation...which is such a delicious revenge. Of course, if she didn't have a sense of shame like most of these Karens, then the message of kindness likely just flew right over her head without a splash of irony.
My god that bridezilla sounds like such a nightmare to be around. Trying to police how people look, RANDOM people too not only her guests. Like, low shirt, jewlery and eyeliner. It's not like shes wearing a wedding dress herself. How insecure do you gotta be to not only kick someone tryna make a living out but to threaten police? What was she gonna say "shes pretty and I'm jealous" lmao ok. I hope her (if he still is) husband shamed her hard after that
Story 1: leave the group chat, start a new one and don't tell the aunt. Story 2: Grandma DEFINITELY has dementia because i cant imagine a granny being THAT entitled and still being a granny. Story 3: Can I have your name, ma'am, so we can be assuref that you never get another box of free food again. Story 4: how big is the 6 year old or how small is OP? The underwear shouldn't fit. Story 5: I would have filed an assault charge on the employee that burned me. Story 6: she's a catering server, not a cocktail waitress.
Yes. I am a assistant nurse in a nursing home, working with dementia. You are right, this is a clear case of sever dementia indeed. Depending of what kind of dementia it is, they can become violent (I had many cases, when I where hit by a cane or run over with a walker and ended up bruised) I think it's time for her to be in a good home, with experienced nurses.
Normally I only have something to say for one of these stories, but the first five are so outlandish that I have to say something about all of them! Story 1. Any grown adult who complains about a toddler getting all the attention, when said toddler is getting possibly life threatening brain surgery, deserves to be repeatedly slapped in the face with a dead fish! Story 2. Get over yourself, grandma! It's not your birthday, so what makes you think you're getting presents? Story 3. Leave it to a Karen to act super ungrateful when getting FREE FOOD! Like seriously? The food is free and you're still complaining? If someone gave me free food, I'd probably start crying in joy! Story 4. There's something really disturbing about a woman stealing someone else's lingerie and giving it to her young daughter to wear...like that is beyond creepy! Story 5. Hey lady, you didn't say you wanted honey mustard! OP was asking what you wanted on your sandwich because that's how Subway works, they need to know what you want on your sandwich! You don't get to tell OP to stop asking "stupid" questions and then get mad at her when she fails to read your mind! Story 6 was just kinda meh, so I didn't have anything to say about it. The events of the other five stories erked me much more.
OMG!!! That grandma needs to be put in mental hospital NOW!!! My grandmother would give all of us kids who had a birthday party at least two presents each to make us feel like we were not excluded. Now that she's gone we're going back to the traditional everybody gets cake and the birthday girl or boy gets all the presents because I'm fine with that I don't need it extra stuff.
I had a "friend" who stole the underwear from a set I bought from Victoria Secret. She ruined them because she had about a good 50 pounds on me. I just let her keep them. I wasn't putting them back on. 🤢🤢🤢
Grandma should be suddenly find herself on the receiving end of being no contact with the rest of the family for that BS! Underwear story: Exactly WHY would you allow someone who is basically a stranger to look around thru your home unescorted??? Server story: Yes bridezilla, YTA!!!
SOoooo are we just going to pretend Dark Fluff saying that the aunt in the 1st story should be labeled a Black Sheep didn't happen?... Lol, Happy Mother's Day to all the Moms out there.
EVERY TIME I think that I've heard everything a karen can do, I hear worse 3rd story: The "expiration date" is actually a "sell by" date, meaning that it is not legal to sell it by then. It doesn't mean that the food goes bad on that date 4th story: Never trust a person who says "Trust me, I'll pay you" Also, why would karen steal a pair of panties for a little girl and then lie to them and the police about it 5th story: As far as I know, no one can read minds. If it isn't to your satisfaction, don't blame it on the "sandwich artist" 6th story: OP IS THE AHOLE
Happy Mother's Day, the last one ....I'm surprised she allowed any women to her wedding....poor guy....but I think he knew what he was getting into though....
I hate bridezillas of any kind - just started the story and right away I knew what was going to happen. I have no idea what the brides if today are thinking but “get over yourself and your wedding”! It will be a very nice wedding if you weren’t so controlling, and pushy - telling people what to wear or nit, what makeup for ladies, etc. And then spending enough money for something that you could have had a very nice wedding and also have enough $$$ left for regular things that people need starting out! I’m so glad I was married back when brides were reasonable!!!!!
My thought on the second story is cut grandma out of your life. Don't visit, don't call. don't invite her anywhere. You don't need that kind of toxic in your life. Her price to be welcomed back is a sincere apology and a new book. The sincere apology will never happen. Also point out OP isn't the one to get the apology it's the grandchild.
I was thinking the Karen was going to call the cops on Opie and her boyfriend because she had leopard underwear and that her kid was wanting him because of that and turn it on them as being pedophilers or something like that. I do hope that CPS took the kid away and the mother was submitted for a mental health evaluation or at least parenting courses as requirement by The courts.
Grandma is forgetting the most important thing as you get older. The children are going to choose the home she goes to, and it will make Shady Pines look like a trip to Disney world.
As a person who needs the food bank I am ALWAYS grateful for whatever I get, because that means I am able to afford to live. It lets me pay my rent and bills, and leaves me with a small amount of money left over to buy those things (like the over the counter medicine and personal items) that I otherwise wouldn't be able to afford.
I feel like the last story depends on if her request for modest attire and make up was convayed to the venue before hand. But on the other hand idk why she wanted her wedding guests to dress like there going to a funeral.
We all know the bridezilla will be divorced in 6 months assuming her husband isn't a moron. Can you imagine her telling him the women he works with wear too much makeup and need to dress differently. The woman is mad as a hatter (expression comes from mercury in that job causing madness in the old days).
A friend of mine called once that she had a friend who was desperate for someone to babysit her son. The woman said her son was high energy and she woukd pay me 50 for it. The boy wasn't high energy he was a demon, he kept pulling my daughter's hair, kicked her when she wouldn't let him have her snack along with his, he bit me when I told him he couldn't pick up my guinea pigs. When his mother came to pick him up she said she left her purse in the car and if I follow her she'll pay me, she put her son in his carseat then jumped in her car and sped off. A month later she called me while I was at a support group meeting where I was a lead asking me to babysit and when I told her I can't work for free she said she was sure she paid me. She then asked if someone where I was could babysit, I told her it was a support group and I will not even ask them, hung up and blocked her.
Story #2: Grandma customer sounds like she has serious mental issues if she's willing to destroy her granddaughters birthday gift and cake because she's not getting gifts. Time to place her in a facility where she can be treated for this kind of madness.
Normally, I would hear entitled people steal a lot of common things such as Nintendo Switchs, phones, tablet/ipads, pets, sometimes toys, etc. but someone’s lingerie/panties now thats something new I ever heard.
Food Bank Cake: Pre-pandemic, we had to make use of a local foodbank. There was one afternoon when one of the administrators, who do the checking-out process, *INSISTED* I take this gorgeous sheet cake that had been donated, because my birthday was the day before FB-Distribution Day. It was awesome. And yes, some of the frosting was smeared, because donated supermarket bakery department cake... but it was delicious and my family was thrilled. I'll tell ya, I teared up at the food bank, and yes, hugs were given.
Story #6: wow! What an entitled bridezilla! Urgh! I hope the Man knows what He is leashing himself to!! That entitled pitch will ruin his life! Poor server. Is this bridezilla that intimidated by a waitress? OMG!! OP's now husband should consider that a bright Red flag and run!
I don't know what feels more unbelievable to me. The entitlement, the fact that underwear of a grown woman fits a young child or that they actually allowed this woman to rummage in their stuff to "look for something" without supervising her at all while at it.
story 2: something tells me it's time to either totally cut off all contact with dear old granny, or force her into a home. nobody who acts like that at her age deserves the comfort of a family
My step-nephew was a thief. Everyone, including his EM, knew it. I would have to hide my collectables, games, tennis shoes, belts, and hats to keep them from being pinched. Didn't matter where I hid my things, this kid would search until he found them. It was a continuous cycle of visit, steal, call, and return. Each time, EM would use the excuse that she thought it was something he bought with his money or that she bought for him. The 5th time, the kid took my coin collection, 2 hats, shirts, and all of my video games. I was away at college, so no one was there to monitor my things. He spent my coins at face value and sold my games to his friends for little or nothing. One hat was returned in unwearable condition. The rest was just gone. EM started with her excuses, but my mom, brother, and I gave her an earful about enabling her child, telling her it was going to lead to worse down the road. My brother divorced her. Presently, the kid, now 24, is serving 8 years for armed robbery. His EM is still making excuses, saying it wasn't him.
Story 2: Does the grandma maybe have dementia or something? No way a fully functional senior citizen would act that way about her own grandchild's birthday.
Concerning Granny Karen, her present should've been a casket. Concerning the EM and EK (the lingere thieves), I would've told them that I had a nasty yeast infection "down there" and that EK will need to be tested (I believe that certain infections can be passed on through shared underwear.) Al;so, kids' underwear comes in leopard prints and other cute prints iirc...
"She needs to learn how to share"
Well, here's Lesson #1 on sharing - you don't share underwear.
It’s outstanding how often on these DarkFluff stories that someone steals something, and then complains that the OP doesn’t share!
Sharing is caring, but I don't think sharing STDs is really nice.
Just how did a 5-year-old ( I think that was the age) wear an adult's underpants without it falling down on her?
@@olinewright6877 my guess is either she held them on with her hands, or OP is very petite
You don’t know what other peoples underwear have been through they could have lice they could have all sorts of other entirely nasty unmentionables that’s just not sanitary, at all!
Stealing someone's used underwear...for a child. Ew and double ew.
It also wouldn't even fit at all
Not only that but lingerie
Also, nice Cyber Chase reference.
I’d be going off on somebody for taking my underwear! That stuffs expensive! Especially in my size! I’d say , you’d really want me to share my used underwear with a child? That’s disgusting! The nerve of some people! I’m sorry but I figured out what she was after when she said she left the teddy bear. She’d didn’t leave no dang teddy bear. She was stealing the underwear. What a pos.
That grandma has to be on the verge of some type of mental illness to do what an entitled child would do. I mean, stuffing chunks of cake down her gut. I’d go NC completely unless she apologizes and then I’d have to think about it.
I agree. That’s just gross
Does Grandma Customer have dementia? Sure sounds like it.
It sounds fairly advanced, tbh. My grandma never did that, but she did set her hair on fire once, my cousin had to move in with her and keep an eye on her.
I have the same question. For everyone's sake, I hope she received the care she needed.
put her in a home
Nah, just an entitled narcissist...
That was my first thought
"I'm upset a tiny child is having skull surgery!" "Hold still, Karen. I have a baseball bat so you can have skull surgery, too!"
The grandma wanting "presents" sounds more like senility. Her childish response to not getting any sounds even more like it.
I was thinking that, too.
Now that you mention it, it does sound like it or she at least has some kind of mental issues. Cause her "revenge" sounds odd even for a Karen
I'd like to agree, but I've seen entitled blue-haired old bitter in their right mind consciously but lack moral and social tact.
Yuuuup, I would have straight up told the lady to talk to her mom's doctor, because unusual, immature behavior like this can be a symptom of several degenerative neurological conditions. It has a good chance of embarrassing the grandma into shutting up, and who knows, she might actually be ill.
Was thinking dementia as well. It also the only thing that makes actual sense in this story.
Story 1: I hope the toddler is doing well, and hope the operation is a success.
I also hope the operation of removing the aunt from the family is also a success because geez. I wouldn't want a kid to know one of their relatives was perfectly okay with them dying.
Last story. I think the bride has very low self-esteem that she would be that worried about how everyone else looks. SMH.
right like why be all bridezilla on our wedding day I got an idea how about go have fun and be with ur new hubby instead of obsessing over a waiter omg
I'd think "insecurity" as well. I get wanting to look good, but going full-on tyrant over the guests and staff's dress codes and physical appearance? That's a very big nope-out.
Honestly, I think she was looking for drama. None of her guests gave her anything to work with, so she was grasping at straws picking on this poor waitress instead.
Just a Karen; feel sorry for her temporary husband.
The mom literally could’ve gotten her daughter a leopard costume or a leopard printed shirt and I’m sure the girl would’ve been happy.
Also wasn’t the mom disgusted by giving the daughter used underwear? Like what if op had some sort of disease or something, op wouldn’t advertise that and it could put the daughter at risk
She really should have just bought her daughter something if she wanted to cave in to the screaming and crying. If child insists she wants THOSE underwear, tell her tough luck, they're not her size. You can get something for you that fits you. If she's big enough that she's wearing an adult woman's underwear size--she's old enough to stop crying for someone else's underwear! Gross.
But it's so-o-o-o much cheaper to steal it than to buy an outfit.
I'd have definitely told her I had herpes......heh...heh...heh.....👹
Karens aren't capable of such thinking.
The mom has a record of breaking and entering. I'm sure she thought it was justified for the same reason she's giving here: learn to share.
What she's sadly teaching her daughter is simple: the world doesn't want to share so you have to take it in order to teach them to just give it to you.
It's a freaking cycle that she has no problem repeating.
Gonna say that if anyone complains about free food they are usually not in need of it to begin with. My church keeps a loaded pantry with many unperishables as well as lunch meat and breads. We have never had someone complain about what we give them. We usually give the ones needing help the same package every time. That way no one can complain what they get. We always get nothing but gratitude for what we do. We even opened a small garage next to our church with beds and 2 bathrooms for the local homeless to get out of the elements. Never had any issues.
Story 3: Food is food man.. I was homeless for years and I'm disabled so we don't have much. You will never hear me complain about free food. If it's something no one in the house will eat, we don't complain and just offer it up to someone else in our community who might not have a lot either.
The bride in the last story is really a sad person. Hopefully she will like herself someday.
She's a Karen, their life's goal is to make everyone as miserable as they are!
She must have been living on another planet. The waitress (and waiter), will be dress as good as possible and they will put make up to a reception like this. It's freaking normal! And there are two reason for that : one, it's a wedding... does she expect waiters to look like trash? Two, if they have a bar and stuff like this, they will also get tipped and it's not secret to anybody that the social skill & good looking pay off for that kind of job. So, your cute waitress talk to your guess, gave them a good evening and you're unhappy of that.... wtf!!!
Story 4: I would absolutely have pressed charges on Karen for theft. She stole with malicious intent, and should be forced to not only pay restitution for the cost of the underwear but also do community service. She obviously knew better.
And made to pay for new ones after the kid had worn them. No telling either if the Karen had tried them on either.
The cost of pushing it through to get restitution would be more than what the undies cost. I would do the charging so she’d have a record of more theft for when she goes all out and does something worth chasing her for restitution. She’ll get what’s coming unless she correct her ways.
@@Elizabeth-rq1viYou think that wil happen? LOL
Last story I have to wonder how unattractive the bride considers herself that she thinks someone in their standard work clothes/makeup can outshine her on her wedding day. Like goddamn.
Story 6: wow! What an insecure bride to demand that others dress down to not outshine her and send a server home because of jealousy.
Story 6. The woman was a complete bridezilla, and was the AH here.
Story one reminds me of my aunt honestly... My mom has 5 siblings, and this aunt was one of his brother's wife, so they're just in law's
My baby cousin had passed away a week after he was born and everyone was devastated, because we knew they've been through many miscarriage and many complications before finally having my baby cousin..
But when my uncle called all of his siblings to tell the news, it was his sister in law who answered the phone... And what she said was heartbreaking and disgusting..
She said " so what if he's dead, just bury him then "
It was the last day everyone talked to her..
Story #4 - Personally, I would be reluctant to babysit anyone's kids unless I knew them really well and I had another adult with me. There's too much liability in it these days.
Why would you let someone wander through your apartment unobserved to “look for a teddy bear” that you already knew hadn’t been brought over?? That OP seriously lacks boundaries and needs lessons in proper trust limits
Story 5: Oh, it's one of those "I asked for X but I really meant Y" customers. You ask for "Mustard," you get "Mustard," you ask for "Honey Mustard," you get "Honey Mustard." You don't say "Mustard" and expect "Honey Mustard," they're not psychics
Or in this case, you refuse to respond when given a choice, you don't get to gripe later. LOL
At that point she should make her own damn sandwich.
I hate people like that. I have extreme anxiety when ordering and even if they give me the wrong thing, I'll go back and tell them "Sorry about the misunderstanding, but I didn't mention that I wanted [specific food setting] so would it be okay for you to remake it for me?" Cuz while I feel bad for messing up my own order and causing a bit of trouble, it costs nothing to be kind and gently clear up a misunderstanding, rather than expecting them to know what you want without telling them. I'll even pay for it if they need me to, but they couldn't know what I wanted if I didn't tell them, so they're not at fault here.
@@aduckofsomesort that's practically a war crime.
Exactly. Her husband has to read her mind, you dont.
If someone doesn’t like the cake they received from a food bank make one from scratch. That will assure you get exactly what flavor, size, quality and icing you want. You may even get a lot of the ingredients from the food bank. It’s possible and their cake can go to someone who is just happy to have a cake. Period!
Story #6: Beware of the bridezilla. Shame on you for assuming your wedding “dress code” applied to the wait staff, especially if you didn’t discuss this with the caterer beforehand. Are you really that insecure about your looks?
She would have scared the horses, in an Old West town!
At least the bride will go down in history as a horrible person and everyone will talk about her like that, I guess no one can outshine that.
Any dress code is that of the catering company, the client has no say in it.
@@the_once-and-future_king. She could start a new trend, with the bride being dressed in a virginal white straitjacket! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think it's a good assumption that this bridezilla received scorched earth responses, since she deleted her account/post.
BRIDEZILLA story was ridiculous. She is obviously super insecure about her looks to worry about the appearance o the waitstaff at her wedding. She must also be deeply unhappy in her life
Story 4: oh god that girl need help on social etiquette and the mother need to charge for theft and sexual harassment.
It wouldn't surprise me if that Karen at the food bank wasn't gaming the system and just thought she'd be able to score some free food that she didn't need. Since the distribution was an honor system, Karens can easily sneak in, proud of the fact that they pulled one over the system!
Bride story, definitely the AH. Weddings are getting ridiculous. When brides start telling me what to,wear, beyond formal, informal one casual, that's when I decline the wedding. I guess requesting dark colors is ok, but minimal makeup, hair styles, etc, too much.
Story #2: It really sounds like grandma is showing early signs of dementia. Often, the 'social filter' is the first thing dementia patients lose, and if she was already an 'entitled princess', she's reverting back to an entitled princess child. I saw this a lot when I used to visit my dad in the dementia ward at his nursing home; women over 90 years old fighting about who owns which doll. It was a demoralizing sight...
Social filter like telling everyone about having a bath with bunch of underage kids and how they like his hair legs? Kiss his daughter in the mouth? Biting his wife's finger on the podium? Shouting during speech for no reason? Hmmm ....
My grandmother had Alzheimer's. My dad took her to shop for an Easter dress but she couldn't decide between two. He suggested she try them on and she said "No, a colored might have tried it on. They let them do that now."
He was so embarrassed but he thought about it and realized she was raised in rural MO and was already a grandmother when the Civil Rights Act was signed in 1964. Her logical brain knew it wasn't right but her lifetime indoctrination overrode logic in the face of the disorder.
Story 3, I work with a bread company. We give the local Foodbank thousands of loaves of bread a month. Years ago, 20 or so, this Foodbank told our supervision that we were giving them too much bread and they will no longer take it!! They also had an executive that let it be known that she was making $75,000 a year! This is where it gets good. The same day that they didn’t want any more bread they were on the evening news pleading for monetary donations for the poor hungry homeless. I can understand an abundance of a particular item but from that day forward I have NEVER given to that Foodbank. New leadership did come in and asked for donations which they did get. I always check who I give money to and if they have an executive board that is paid, sorry, no money from me.
Happy Mom's Day for everyone.
Bridezilla was TOTALLY out of line. If I was her mom, she would have had a discussion about treating staff badly.
As for stealing the underwear, That would be the last time mom had a sitter, I would have to tell the entire town to not sit for her because there's no telling what else the kid will fixate on and the mom would steal it.
Underwear though is just gross. Who does that? That's so far from normal I'm pretty speechless. As for learning to share the mother is teaching the daughter the wrong way round, you teach kids to share their stuff not grab everyone else's and then claim it as your own smh.
OMG the bride sounds like a complete loony what is it with people nowadays telling people how to look at their wedding? As for worrying about a server's eyeliner, I mean she isn't even in the photos! I don't think that marriage will last.
@@shendisackett Short answer: insecurity. The bride would've asked the groom two of the questions with no right answers within a month. This is why I prefer to stay single.
@@JamesDavy2009 I'm divorced because I chose badly! Being single does make things easier because I only have to worry about myself but you know if you choose well then marriage can be good. I know some people who are happily married from my age group. There was a group of 4 couples, every couple got married in time and only 1 couple are still together some 20 years later. My ex husband also really screwed me financially and then skipped the UK and moved to the US so I could have zero comeback on him. How they let him in is beyond me, I guess he lied on the forms.
In what world is it okay for the bride to demand how people dress or do their makeup? Bridezilla needs to get overself.
If my mother had thrown such a tantrum and ruined my kid's birthday like that, she'd be cut out in a heartbeat. And, of course, she'd never get a present from me again.
Happy Mothers Day to all the mothers watching! And thank you Fluff and Stevo for another good video!!!
Edit to add that when my Mum was younger she had a roommate who stole all her stuff including her underwear. People be wild.
If that picky bride in the last story had poured a bucket of water over the poor server, we would have one of those crazy Bridezilla text stories! :D
But we got a Karen story instead.
She certainly was a Bridzilla.
Can you imagine being married to such an insecure person?
I’m quite sure she’s a total KAREN.
I feel so sorry for her husband and everyone who ever comes in contact with her.
well,most husbands of such bridezillas are simps...
Story 4: My daughter needs to learn how to share
Me: Ma’am that’s not sharing your teaching her to steal
Story 4: I do believe her behavior was because the mom just doesn't want to say "No." And she already had a similar charge, so you'd think she at least consider the consequence of catching a second one
I mean. She can spend 50$ bucks on babysitting. Just buy the kid some leopard print underwear.
I certainly would never want to wear a strangers underpants
And why would SHE be the one calling the police when SHE's the one with priors. The Dumb is strong in this one, mmm hmmm.
@@meh2510Now THAT's entitlement!
We now live in a time when some people think stealing is just another way to get what they want and they do it all the time. Porch pirates being a prime example.
What's a porch pirate? Sounds funny though I probably won't like what it means.
Story 4: What kind of a creep is ok with their child wearing someone else's sexy clothes?
What kind of creep is okay with their (under-age) child wearing sexy clothes at all?
Don't forget that it's used... and probably used during an intimate act at that. That's disgusting, regardless of whether or not it is washed. I would need bleach and 10 mins of microwave time just to think about using normal underwear from a thrift store.
Yea that mom is gonna give that kid a complex
It doesn't surprise me that the Mom in this story already has a 'Rap Sheet' for B & E.
The Daughter is just mimicking her Mother's actions; I see something I want, so I'll take it.
That kid needs to be removed from her incapable bio Mother's care.
@@bleachedkill my mom threw away any underwear we received through donation simply because she didn’t know their history.
Yikes for the bridezilla story! If she was having the "perfect wedding" then how could she be so obsessed about how one of the catering staff looked? The husband and MIL were right about her acting crazy.
Feel sorry for her husband; hope his next wife's better.
If I ever open any shop of any kind, I would put a sign that say: "In these doors your are in fact not always right. Matter of fact is you are in the wrong."
I'd make a sign saying...
Yelling,
Cursing,
&/or Violent Outbursts...
Gets You No Service In This Store!
@@dee_dee_place I've seen plenty of signs in a lot of shops saying, "Abusive/violent behaviour will not be tolerated." You could also post a sign saying, "The customer is only right in matters of their taste."
Story 3: I've gotten a lot of food from food banks over the years. I volunteered at the one two blocks away for about three years but stopped when I moved after my apartment building was sold to an investment group to gentrify it and price it out of my range. I loved those folks, they saved me and my cat many times.
On another note, the investment group lost funding and went bankrupt, but they displaced 80+ households to do it. I guess karma works?...
Story 2: apologize to grandma, and say in a way that implies malicious compliance that birthdays and presents are to be shared. Then get everyone else a better present than her on her birthday.
I'd agree but at the same time I have a feeling grandma may have dementia or Alzheimer's. They go to crazy drastics like that. My grandma yelled at me once my whole childhood and after she started getting dementia she started constantly snapping at me and we were always at each other's throats. Like one time ants were in the house bad and I went to go feed my dog around 8pm and I noticed they were all in her dog food so I ran out into the kitchen with the dish threw it away while apologizing to my grandma for needing to turn a light on and she snapped on me telling me I should've thought about it earlier even tho that makes zero sense since you can't predict that but in her mind she believed it was. I know it's not my grandma when she gets like that even tho it's extremely hard to fully accept when it's not a side you've ever seen before. UNLESS this grandma has always been that way, they probably should get her into a brain specialist because even if it isn't dementia/Alzheimer's, if this way of acting is new it could be something else serious going on. I think strokes can cause outbursts but I think that's more when they can't communicate like they want so they get frustrated and can only clear their frustrations with anger/ violence kind of like severely mentally disabled kids.
I will make her eat her own medicine but cranked up to 13.
Do it with everyone in the room while she watches.
Sounds like she already lost her marble. Better send her to nursing home.
@@stephanieann6622 yeah im on your side, i feel like grandma might be doing that because my grandma when she was diagnosed with dementia she did something similar on my sister birthday when previously she was fine and would be the one buying present
@@carolinamendoza8092 it's sad really. It hurts a lot to see them go down hill. We recently had to put her in a care home for dementia and they seem really good. I just haven't been to see her since, my mom said everytime she goes grandma always asks about me so I know she hasn't forgot me I just worry the one time I can go will be the time she forget. I really haven't been going because I have a auto immune disorder and I'm sick constantly and you obviously don't want to make them sick especially when they get so far along they don't do anymore of their updated shots because they feel as if it's not worth it to make them suffer more but they do their best to keep them really healthy. I just worry if I go, they're going to get sick but I know deep down is my fear as well. It's like one day she's back to being grandma and the next she's really out of it and it's like the lights are on but no one's home if you get what I mean? Like their eyes are zonked out?
Does your grandma as well hide things? When we had her here she was getting meal supplement drinks she was in love with because she can't eat very well due to her stomach and she would go through like 8-10 a day if we didn't hide them and she would literally yell at us and tell us she knows she didn't drink that many and one of us must have, or she would put some in places she thought we didn't see. She even accused us one day of hiding them because"I know the boxes were right here you're hiding them because you think I'm drinking too many" even tho the shipment hadn't come in yet and the boxes she was thinking of was from days before.has your grandma done similar things? It was really weird to me because one day she understands it's her dementia and that she forgets and the next she's so adamant and will yell and say "there's nothing wrong with me I know how many I've had" I just kinda figured it was gonna be a constant thing not where it flips back and forth ya know?
Story 2: Poor mom having to deal with a grandma like that. I hope it's not HER mother but at the same time I wouldn't be surprised. I'm glad OP's workplace helped her get a replacement for the destroyed book. I bet she really needed to get the absurdity of the situation off her chest too.
15:45 - OP’s manager must be really strong to be able to balance a safe ! Was she balancing it on her head or hand ?! 🤪🤪😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
XD I’m laying in my bed trying to picture that
Story 1: I would never allow that grandmother near the child again for any reason
Agreed. Dementia or not.
Killing her with kindness wasn't the high road if the lady had any sense of shame, rather it would compound the humiliation...which is such a delicious revenge. Of course, if she didn't have a sense of shame like most of these Karens, then the message of kindness likely just flew right over her head without a splash of irony.
The grandma is old, I'm sure she goes senile. It is a terrible thing, nice people turning evil or stupid or both. It happens to the best of us. :(
Did the grandma always act like this or was the behavior something new?
That grandma would never get another present...for any occasion ever
My god that bridezilla sounds like such a nightmare to be around. Trying to police how people look, RANDOM people too not only her guests. Like, low shirt, jewlery and eyeliner. It's not like shes wearing a wedding dress herself. How insecure do you gotta be to not only kick someone tryna make a living out but to threaten police? What was she gonna say "shes pretty and I'm jealous" lmao ok. I hope her (if he still is) husband shamed her hard after that
Story 1: leave the group chat, start a new one and don't tell the aunt.
Story 2: Grandma DEFINITELY has dementia because i cant imagine a granny being THAT entitled and still being a granny.
Story 3: Can I have your name, ma'am, so we can be assuref that you never get another box of free food again.
Story 4: how big is the 6 year old or how small is OP? The underwear shouldn't fit.
Story 5: I would have filed an assault charge on the employee that burned me.
Story 6: she's a catering server, not a cocktail waitress.
Yes. I am a assistant nurse in a nursing home, working with dementia. You are right, this is a clear case of sever dementia indeed. Depending of what kind of dementia it is, they can become violent (I had many cases, when I where hit by a cane or run over with a walker and ended up bruised) I think it's time for her to be in a good home, with experienced nurses.
Ok Karen, we see your attitude on story six, just like the bride.
Normally I only have something to say for one of these stories, but the first five are so outlandish that I have to say something about all of them!
Story 1. Any grown adult who complains about a toddler getting all the attention, when said toddler is getting possibly life threatening brain surgery, deserves to be repeatedly slapped in the face with a dead fish!
Story 2. Get over yourself, grandma! It's not your birthday, so what makes you think you're getting presents?
Story 3. Leave it to a Karen to act super ungrateful when getting FREE FOOD! Like seriously? The food is free and you're still complaining? If someone gave me free food, I'd probably start crying in joy!
Story 4. There's something really disturbing about a woman stealing someone else's lingerie and giving it to her young daughter to wear...like that is beyond creepy!
Story 5. Hey lady, you didn't say you wanted honey mustard! OP was asking what you wanted on your sandwich because that's how Subway works, they need to know what you want on your sandwich! You don't get to tell OP to stop asking "stupid" questions and then get mad at her when she fails to read your mind!
Story 6 was just kinda meh, so I didn't have anything to say about it. The events of the other five stories erked me much more.
Story 5: Karen was trying to get a second sandwich for free!
@@nancyomalley6286 Typical 😒
The insecure bride, on your next wedding day. Things will go much better.
Bold of you to assume she will get married again. 🤣
That marriage will not last to the paper anniversary.
Hopefully he'll wise up and get a normal wife next time.
Wedding story sounds like someone is a tad jealous.
That was my thought. Possibly the young server was just prettier than the bride and she couldn’t stand it.
Karen strikes again; I just hope the husband gets a normal woman next time around, because yiu know this marriage isn't going to last long.
I have learned that more often than not, being nice to people like this makes then more angry, and that makes it all the more funny.
Karens don't think like you and me.
Story 1: No problem at all if she's annoyed by all those messages about the little boy - just throw her out of the group and block her!
OMG!!! That grandma needs to be put in mental hospital NOW!!!
My grandmother would give all of us kids who had a birthday party at least two presents each to make us feel like we were not excluded. Now that she's gone we're going back to the traditional everybody gets cake and the birthday girl or boy gets all the presents because I'm fine with that I don't need it extra stuff.
I had a "friend" who stole the underwear from a set I bought from Victoria Secret. She ruined them because she had about a good 50 pounds on me. I just let her keep them. I wasn't putting them back on. 🤢🤢🤢
Grandma should be suddenly find herself on the receiving end of being no contact with the rest of the family for that BS!
Underwear story: Exactly WHY would you allow someone who is basically a stranger to look around thru your home unescorted???
Server story: Yes bridezilla, YTA!!!
Good afternoon and Happy Mother's day to any moms relaxing with some Dark Fluff today.
SOoooo are we just going to pretend Dark Fluff saying that the aunt in the 1st story should be labeled a Black Sheep didn't happen?... Lol, Happy Mother's Day to all the Moms out there.
She might have dementia
@@jacthing1She might just be a witch!
i'm actually thinking what i heard him say is "block sheep",since everyone should block her in their lives...
EVERY TIME I think that I've heard everything a karen can do, I hear worse
3rd story: The "expiration date" is actually a "sell by" date, meaning that it is not legal to sell it by then. It doesn't mean that the food goes bad on that date
4th story: Never trust a person who says "Trust me, I'll pay you"
Also, why would karen steal a pair of panties for a little girl and then lie to them and the police about it
5th story: As far as I know, no one can read minds. If it isn't to your satisfaction, don't blame it on the "sandwich artist"
6th story: OP IS THE AHOLE
Happy Mother's Day, the last one ....I'm surprised she allowed any women to her wedding....poor guy....but I think he knew what he was getting into though....
I hate bridezillas of any kind - just started the story and right away I knew what was going to happen. I have no idea what the brides if today are thinking but “get over yourself and your wedding”! It will be a very nice wedding if you weren’t so controlling, and pushy - telling people what to wear or nit, what makeup for ladies, etc. And then spending enough money for something that you could have had a very nice wedding and also have enough $$$ left for regular things that people need starting out! I’m so glad I was married back when brides were reasonable!!!!!
My thought on the second story is cut grandma out of your life. Don't visit, don't call. don't invite her anywhere. You don't need that kind of toxic in your life. Her price to be welcomed back is a sincere apology and a new book. The sincere apology will never happen. Also point out OP isn't the one to get the apology it's the grandchild.
It could be dementia/Alzheimer's. Oftentimes people suffering from them can have child-like behavioral regression as their frontal lobe is damaged.
Story 2: The grandma's attitude and behavior are mind-boggling. You'd think that, at her age, she would know better.
4:05 - 4:07 “I’d better be getting presents at this party”.
A gift, by definition, is NEVER to be expected.
I was thinking the Karen was going to call the cops on Opie and her boyfriend because she had leopard underwear and that her kid was wanting him because of that and turn it on them as being pedophilers or something like that.
I do hope that CPS took the kid away and the mother was submitted for a mental health evaluation or at least parenting courses as requirement by The courts.
Story 2: It's possible the grandma is showing signs of dementia. Doesn't excuse her, behavior but could explain it.
Grandma is forgetting the most important thing as you get older. The children are going to choose the home she goes to, and it will make Shady Pines look like a trip to Disney world.
Story 2: Wow. Just wow. That poor little girl. I hope that this causes a time out.
As a person who needs the food bank I am ALWAYS grateful for whatever I get, because that means I am able to afford to live. It lets me pay my rent and bills, and leaves me with a small amount of money left over to buy those things (like the over the counter medicine and personal items) that I otherwise wouldn't be able to afford.
I feel like the last story depends on if her request for modest attire and make up was convayed to the venue before hand. But on the other hand idk why she wanted her wedding guests to dress like there going to a funeral.
Because she's THAT insecure!
It's sounds like grandma customer needs to put in a home, for dementia patients.
I love how Bridezilla deleted her account for the last story. What a C
People in these stories should really stop teaching their kids that it's ok to steal.
Story 5: I’m more concerned about that coworker who thinks it’s funny to touch someone with searing hot metal!
We all know the bridezilla will be divorced in 6 months assuming her husband isn't a moron. Can you imagine her telling him the women he works with wear too much makeup and need to dress differently. The woman is mad as a hatter (expression comes from mercury in that job causing madness in the old days).
Last story: Heard this one plenty of times now, and I still shake my head at the Bridezilla that is OP.
Every lie we tell incurs a debt to the truth.
Sooner or later, that debt is paid.
-Valery Alekseyevich Legasov.
I haven’t even heard the stories yet, Fluff, and I am already shaking my head and going “What.”
Heard the story. What!
A friend of mine called once that she had a friend who was desperate for someone to babysit her son. The woman said her son was high energy and she woukd pay me 50 for it. The boy wasn't high energy he was a demon, he kept pulling my daughter's hair, kicked her when she wouldn't let him have her snack along with his, he bit me when I told him he couldn't pick up my guinea pigs. When his mother came to pick him up she said she left her purse in the car and if I follow her she'll pay me, she put her son in his carseat then jumped in her car and sped off. A month later she called me while I was at a support group meeting where I was a lead asking me to babysit and when I told her I can't work for free she said she was sure she paid me. She then asked if someone where I was could babysit, I told her it was a support group and I will not even ask them, hung up and blocked her.
Why would someone who was arrested previously call the police? Not exactly Professor Moriarty we're dealing with.
Story #2: Grandma customer sounds like she has serious mental issues if she's willing to destroy her granddaughters birthday gift and cake because she's not getting gifts. Time to place her in a facility where she can be treated for this kind of madness.
Grandma destroying little girls birthday gift sounds a lot like dementia.
Normally, I would hear entitled people steal a lot of common things such as Nintendo Switchs, phones, tablet/ipads, pets, sometimes toys, etc. but someone’s lingerie/panties now thats something new I ever heard.
Story 6 is absolutely hilarious. There’s no way that loser bridezilla thought we’d side with her.
Absolutely delusional.
Food Bank Cake: Pre-pandemic, we had to make use of a local foodbank. There was one afternoon when one of the administrators, who do the checking-out process, *INSISTED* I take this gorgeous sheet cake that had been donated, because my birthday was the day before FB-Distribution Day. It was awesome. And yes, some of the frosting was smeared, because donated supermarket bakery department cake... but it was delicious and my family was thrilled. I'll tell ya, I teared up at the food bank, and yes, hugs were given.
Story #6: wow! What an entitled bridezilla! Urgh! I hope the Man knows what He is leashing himself to!! That entitled pitch will ruin his life! Poor server. Is this bridezilla that intimidated by a waitress? OMG!! OP's now husband should consider that a bright Red flag and run!
I don't know what feels more unbelievable to me. The entitlement, the fact that underwear of a grown woman fits a young child or that they actually allowed this woman to rummage in their stuff to "look for something" without supervising her at all while at it.
story 2: something tells me it's time to either totally cut off all contact with dear old granny, or force her into a home. nobody who acts like that at her age deserves the comfort of a family
Story 2 - WOW... just WOW!!!🤯
Story 2: Grandma would immediately begin to get literature on various nursing homes - only bad ones!
You just made my Mother's Day!!! 😊😊😊😊
My step-nephew was a thief. Everyone, including his EM, knew it. I would have to hide my collectables, games, tennis shoes, belts, and hats to keep them from being pinched. Didn't matter where I hid my things, this kid would search until he found them. It was a continuous cycle of visit, steal, call, and return. Each time, EM would use the excuse that she thought it was something he bought with his money or that she bought for him. The 5th time, the kid took my coin collection, 2 hats, shirts, and all of my video games. I was away at college, so no one was there to monitor my things. He spent my coins at face value and sold my games to his friends for little or nothing. One hat was returned in unwearable condition. The rest was just gone. EM started with her excuses, but my mom, brother, and I gave her an earful about enabling her child, telling her it was going to lead to worse down the road. My brother divorced her. Presently, the kid, now 24, is serving 8 years for armed robbery. His EM is still making excuses, saying it wasn't him.
Story 2: Does the grandma maybe have dementia or something? No way a fully functional senior citizen would act that way about her own grandchild's birthday.
A choosing beggar at a food bank. How sad is that?
I would sue the underwear thief for a false report to Police, and press charges.
Yikes, that says it all "she needs to learn to share, and you didn't"
In her mind... Learning to share, is learning how to take things from people
Concerning Granny Karen, her present should've been a casket.
Concerning the EM and EK (the lingere thieves), I would've told them that I had a nasty yeast infection "down there" and that EK will need to be tested (I believe that certain infections can be passed on through shared underwear.) Al;so, kids' underwear comes in leopard prints and other cute prints iirc...
The server was distracting because the bride was entitled didn't trust her husband...
spare a thought for the cops that had to listen to a story about Leopard print underwear