You're in my head fr. I went out, tried to put myself out there and it was going great unitl I told him Im a virgin at 22, he was soo disapointed and said multiple times how much he hates to take people's virginity. Now I'm back in the house, hopefully next time 😂
Girl, I relate to SO much of this it's crazy. Growing up I never participated in all that relationship stuff and didn't care about it because tbh people really didn't make it look appealling. Yea I had crushes on both guys and girls, or watched some youknowwhat, but whenever someone wanted to take it further, I'd get that ick and cut things off. Eventually when I got to the age you are now, the same thing happened where I started really wanting to do it to get it out of the way/see what all the hype was about/do what everyone else was doing. I ended up just picking out a dude that was nice enough. So now it's 3 years later, I've had a few boyfriends (good and bad ones), and relationship-wise it was great and fun, but the physical part never hit me the way it seems to hit everyone else. I read a book last week called "I Am Ace" by Cody Daigle-Orians, and within the first 20% of the book I was like "Oh snap, this sounds like me." I've considered asexuality multiple times since like middle school, but never stuck with it because I liked to see stuff, but just not do it. Apparently, they got a name for everything and call that aegosexual! I still haven't been with a woman, tho, so part of me is wondering if I shouldn't rule that out yet? I honestly feel ridiculous being in my late 20s and suddenly being so confused about my sexuality.
girl this whole video feels like i was watching myself ramble about this subject😭like you said everything i feel into words, honestly thank you! it feels nice that there are people who also feel these things.
i'm literally so glad i've stumbled upon your video girl like damn!!!!!!!!!!! I'm turning 21 in september and it's so humiliating seeing all your friends and classmates getting involved in relationships and NOT YOU. meanwhile all they keep telling me is something like "ahh girl you just need to wait for a little while and you'll meet man of your dreams" hell no I will not, they've been saying this since I was like 16. also the problem is that I have recurring alopecia areata which leads me to being almost completely bald and I hate myself for it and also don't forget my beloved social anxiety which I also have🤩🤩🤩 i've been trying this last year so hard to find someone who is able to love me, but yeah, completely failed. one didn't even show up for a date, some of them were making fun of my alopecia, and others were looking only for an ons, probably cheating on their gfs. at this point I feel like i'm afraid and and disgusted of men, counting the times I've been harassed by them. a don't know. i feel like life is just being unfair to me, no matter how hard I try, sometimes I think I'm gonna die alone. idk. well at least there's still plenty of time which I can spend on doing the things I love. anyways i'm soooo comforted by learning about people who are losers like me and share their experience and also sorry if there are some mistakes cause english is not my native language😝
omg no don't apologize! thank you for sharing your story with me, i totally get it, it's so frustrating. you are so beautiful and kind, we will find our people one day
1:44 THISSSS!! I've just chopped it up to me being asexual, like hell nah to all that penetration bs Also, GIRL I FEEL U ON THAT PART ABOUT STEVE LACY 🤣🤣🤣
You are so real thank you for talking about this i’m 20 and I just started to get romantically involved with a man and I have never dated anyone before this is feels strange I’ve always hated penetration I’m a virgin but I never want a man’s thing inside of me it grosses me out too much
I appreciate you talking about this so candidly bc as a black woman who is 27 and is still a virgin (no dating/kissing/touching etc) , it's really hard to find people talking about virginity that aren't either creepy as fuck or feeds into purity culture/slutshaming which I'm not about at all. This is so bare and funny and relatable, i love it here. I feel less alone
Dear sister there's nothing to be ashamed of. You should be proud of yourself for not living the promiscuous life like so many out there in the streets🎉🎉
as a recent 20 year old who has been on like 4 dates max (the first guy didn’t work out he lied about his age 😟) i truly just want to get the experience over with to say that i have done it feel so far behind my other peers and such for not being in a relationship, no first kiss (kinda i was like 2 and 4 for my first kiss but im not counting them), or having sex. when i was younger my mom always made it seem like i need to focus on school instead of relationships (which i totally understand) but i wish i would’ve eventually gotten with somebody y’know. my sister always says she’s worried about me not finding someone and my parents think i’m a lesbian (i’m not but im definitely bisexual). i also kinda want to get it out of the way like you said but i don’t know with who and im not totally sure im ok with somebody seeing me butt ass naked. sorry about the rant but thanks for reading 🩷
i felt the exact same way until i got it over with already by getting fucked up on drugs and doing it with a very close friend, i don't regret it and i know also that i wouldn't have been able to do it if it weren't for those circumstances. however what i don't like the most is that it seems that wasn't enough... like you have to keep doing it otherwise it feels like you haven't at all, at least for me it feels like that, it also seems that at our age to have a relationship but not want to have sex is almost impossible lol and i'm a lesbian so men are not (entirely) the problem. anyways hope you figure it out and feel good with whatever happens! it really is not that big of a deal but at the same time it is, i hate that so much. also be careful! love u bye
Gorl, I can't relate more. I did it in the dark and to get it rid off. Now the pressure gone and I learned what I like and what I don't with this single intercourse
I'll be 33 soon and I'm still a virgin, and I don't think that, in all the years I've been on TH-cam, I had ever come across anyone talking about the experience of being a virgin until now. I never really wanted to just "ticket off the bucket list though", not sure if it's because I'm aro-ace, autistic, or a mix of both, but I legit just never gave a fk about getting laid. xD
liked, subscribed, clicked the bell, wrote a letter (arrives in two days), told my friends, told my parents, told my neighbours and tomorrow I'll tell the president - I'm grateful you made the jump from tiktok, hope to see more of you 🫶🏾
'I wanna do it out of curiosity' GIRL I FEEL YOU. It's sooooo real. wanna know what all this fuss is about fr.
exactly!!
i actually went and did it just for that😭 one of my top 5 regrets but #yolo
@@planetpsyche1722 omg 😭 now I’m scared even more…
saying "analyzing corn" instead of watching corn from now on
I felt you on doing it outta curiosity, im just extra terrified of peen and STIs and the risk of pregnancy even with a condom
girl you're so real for this love that you decided to upload on youtube too
it was highly requested so i decided why not😭❤️
You're in my head fr. I went out, tried to put myself out there and it was going great unitl I told him Im a virgin at 22, he was soo disapointed and said multiple times how much he hates to take people's virginity. Now I'm back in the house, hopefully next time 😂
omg what an a**hole??? at least you're not alone girl :(
"Hopefully next time"😂😂😂😂😂 lol word for word, bar for bar
Girl, I relate to SO much of this it's crazy. Growing up I never participated in all that relationship stuff and didn't care about it because tbh people really didn't make it look appealling. Yea I had crushes on both guys and girls, or watched some youknowwhat, but whenever someone wanted to take it further, I'd get that ick and cut things off. Eventually when I got to the age you are now, the same thing happened where I started really wanting to do it to get it out of the way/see what all the hype was about/do what everyone else was doing. I ended up just picking out a dude that was nice enough. So now it's 3 years later, I've had a few boyfriends (good and bad ones), and relationship-wise it was great and fun, but the physical part never hit me the way it seems to hit everyone else. I read a book last week called "I Am Ace" by Cody Daigle-Orians, and within the first 20% of the book I was like "Oh snap, this sounds like me." I've considered asexuality multiple times since like middle school, but never stuck with it because I liked to see stuff, but just not do it. Apparently, they got a name for everything and call that aegosexual! I still haven't been with a woman, tho, so part of me is wondering if I shouldn't rule that out yet? I honestly feel ridiculous being in my late 20s and suddenly being so confused about my sexuality.
girl this whole video feels like i was watching myself ramble about this subject😭like you said everything i feel into words, honestly thank you! it feels nice that there are people who also feel these things.
i'm literally so glad i've stumbled upon your video girl like damn!!!!!!!!!!! I'm turning 21 in september and it's so humiliating seeing all your friends and classmates getting involved in relationships and NOT YOU. meanwhile all they keep telling me is something like "ahh girl you just need to wait for a little while and you'll meet man of your dreams" hell no I will not, they've been saying this since I was like 16. also the problem is that I have recurring alopecia areata which leads me to being almost completely bald and I hate myself for it and also don't forget my beloved social anxiety which I also have🤩🤩🤩 i've been trying this last year so hard to find someone who is able to love me, but yeah, completely failed. one didn't even show up for a date, some of them were making fun of my alopecia, and others were looking only for an ons, probably cheating on their gfs. at this point I feel like i'm afraid and and disgusted of men, counting the times I've been harassed by them. a don't know. i feel like life is just being unfair to me, no matter how hard I try, sometimes I think I'm gonna die alone. idk. well at least there's still plenty of time which I can spend on doing the things I love. anyways i'm soooo comforted by learning about people who are losers like me and share their experience and also sorry if there are some mistakes cause english is not my native language😝
omg no don't apologize! thank you for sharing your story with me, i totally get it, it's so frustrating. you are so beautiful and kind, we will find our people one day
Just randomly stumbled across your channel
I think I’m gonna stay here now 😊
Welcome!!🤗
Literally same
1:44 THISSSS!! I've just chopped it up to me being asexual, like hell nah to all that penetration bs
Also, GIRL I FEEL U ON THAT PART ABOUT STEVE LACY 🤣🤣🤣
You are so real thank you for talking about this i’m 20 and I just started to get romantically involved with a man and I have never dated anyone before this is feels strange
I’ve always hated penetration I’m a virgin but I never want a man’s thing inside of me it grosses me out too much
Ugh right I hate the idea of dating men lol like I feel like it would be so awkward maybe im just lesbian or smth though
I appreciate you talking about this so candidly bc as a black woman who is 27 and is still a virgin (no dating/kissing/touching etc) , it's really hard to find people talking about virginity that aren't either creepy as fuck or feeds into purity culture/slutshaming which I'm not about at all.
This is so bare and funny and relatable, i love it here. I feel less alone
"Not even before, I do it all the time" my my my 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
Dear sister there's nothing to be ashamed of. You should be proud of yourself for not living the promiscuous life like so many out there in the streets🎉🎉
as a recent 20 year old who has been on like 4 dates max (the first guy didn’t work out he lied about his age 😟) i truly just want to get the experience over with to say that i have done it feel so far behind my other peers and such for not being in a relationship, no first kiss (kinda i was like 2 and 4 for my first kiss but im not counting them), or having sex. when i was younger my mom always made it seem like i need to focus on school instead of relationships (which i totally understand) but i wish i would’ve eventually gotten with somebody y’know. my sister always says she’s worried about me not finding someone and my parents think i’m a lesbian (i’m not but im definitely bisexual). i also kinda want to get it out of the way like you said but i don’t know with who and im not totally sure im ok with somebody seeing me butt ass naked. sorry about the rant but thanks for reading 🩷
i felt the exact same way until i got it over with already by getting fucked up on drugs and doing it with a very close friend, i don't regret it and i know also that i wouldn't have been able to do it if it weren't for those circumstances. however what i don't like the most is that it seems that wasn't enough... like you have to keep doing it otherwise it feels like you haven't at all, at least for me it feels like that, it also seems that at our age to have a relationship but not want to have sex is almost impossible lol and i'm a lesbian so men are not (entirely) the problem. anyways hope you figure it out and feel good with whatever happens! it really is not that big of a deal but at the same time it is, i hate that so much. also be careful! love u bye
thanks for the advice, love you too omg
The toothbrush idea , i love it
Gorl, I can't relate more. I did it in the dark and to get it rid off. Now the pressure gone and I learned what I like and what I don't with this single intercourse
“i dont wanna be 27 like you maam” damn😭
Funny and relatable 😂
I'll be 33 soon and I'm still a virgin, and I don't think that, in all the years I've been on TH-cam, I had ever come across anyone talking about the experience of being a virgin until now. I never really wanted to just "ticket off the bucket list though", not sure if it's because I'm aro-ace, autistic, or a mix of both, but I legit just never gave a fk about getting laid. xD
I'm turning 19 in a few months, and you've explained my thought process to a tea 🙌
I always thought you had been posting on youtube 😮but I am happy to start this journey with you
nope, just started! thank you for tuning in :)
It sucks
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3:48 you did this? So you have experience, no?
lol no i didn't
hahaah i love you
liked, subscribed, clicked the bell, wrote a letter (arrives in two days), told my friends, told my parents, told my neighbours and tomorrow I'll tell the president - I'm grateful you made the jump from tiktok, hope to see more of you 🫶🏾
😭😭😭 thank you so much! hopefully people watch me on here too
@@ShamillaCampbell1 fingers crossed because people can be so indecisive sometimes