YES! I knew in middle school I liked women but in highschool I started to notice I am attracted to men I prefer not to label myself to make it easier because sexual attraction is just so difficult to understand I love women too much nothing turns me off about them they’re all beautiful I want a girlfriend so bad Men piss me off sometimes they gross me out sometimes they say things that ick me but some men I can’t help but be attracted they’re cute sometimes Mens privates still gross me out but Ive never been grossed out by a woman they’re so lovely and I do truly feel more comfortable around women
first i wanna say i love your channel and tiktok✨most of the stuff you said in this video is how i’ve been feeling for a few years now! i’m really starting to think that im a lesbian, but im struggling with accepting it. i think comphet, religious trauma, and my families views have made me avoid looking deeper into my sexuality. i feel more comfortable identifying as bisexual, even though that’s not what i think i am. i read the lesbian master doc recently and i resonate with a lot of things stated.
I'm a bi woman but this video is just 👌🏼. I know I like men but sometimes I wonder if I really am just a lesbian and holding back lol. doesnt help that I just feel more attracted to women anyway on almost every level
One thing that helped me figure things out was viewing sexual attraction and romantic attraction separately, for me I’m pan and have no problem ‘doing things’ with people of any gender, but the thought of doing romantic things with men makes me gag - pan & sapphic romantically.
I assumed for the longest time I was straight, because something I didn’t understand about sexuality is that the type of attraction you feel towards different genders can be completely different. Attraction to men carries a level of heat which isn’t present for me in my attraction to women, like it’s very charged and stimulating, and with women it’s just that I can’t stop smiling when I see a really pretty girl. But I feel that I probably have a type when it’s for women, I’m attracted to people like Aubrey Plaza, Cathy Moriarity and Sonia Braga and I’m almost much more selective with women than men so I wonder why that is. If I had to gauge it I’m probably 85 attracted to men and 10-15% attracted to women, but even then I just don’t have very much desire to sexually consummate a relationship it’s like I want to be held or give very basic vanilla kisses it’s almost like a Christian hallmark type of sapphic attraction in a strange way. I wonder if there’s a part of me that conceptualizes female romantic relationships as love unburdened by disempowerment and power dynamics which does say something about my understanding of gender possibly being warped by media, but in the same breath I’m also very attracted to power both being under the thumb of somebody and having power over somebody. There’s just something very stimulating and attractive about power, I really want it and I guess that says something about me because people desire things which they lack. I’ve never perceived myself as having power over myself or my life, so I think I’m attracted to power through my romantic relationships with others with the unconscious goal in mind that they can liberate me from myself and my circumstances. You know it’s the white knight who saves you, the redemptive and omniscient power of love saves you from a thing you perceive as being too strong for you to save yourself from.
Me being lesbian was not due to my lack of experience, looking back in hs, the signs were there😂. In the end, my lack of experience was cos of my lesbianism.
THIS IS SO DAMN RELATABLE GIRL I FEEL SO SEEN RN😭😭
YES! I knew in middle school I liked women but in highschool I started to notice I am attracted to men
I prefer not to label myself to make it easier because sexual attraction is just so difficult to understand
I love women too much nothing turns me off about them they’re all beautiful I want a girlfriend so bad
Men piss me off sometimes they gross me out sometimes they say things that ick me but some men I can’t help but be attracted they’re cute sometimes
Mens privates still gross me out but Ive never been grossed out by a woman they’re so lovely and I do truly feel more comfortable around women
Sorry guys i’m taking this series way too personally 😅
OMG THIS IS LITERALLY ME
I get this exactly WORD for WORD😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
GIRL YOU'RE SO REAL
first i wanna say i love your channel and tiktok✨most of the stuff you said in this video is how i’ve been feeling for a few years now! i’m really starting to think that im a lesbian, but im struggling with accepting it. i think comphet, religious trauma, and my families views have made me avoid looking deeper into my sexuality. i feel more comfortable identifying as bisexual, even though that’s not what i think i am. i read the lesbian master doc recently and i resonate with a lot of things stated.
thank you so much!! hopefully we'll figure it out one day :)
the other day I saw a tiktok of a girl saying "I like men but I love women" and I'm like period girl 😻
I think my inner trauma and just disdain for men are just making me not want to be attracted to them even tho I am lol.
trueee
i might be bi, not lesbian, or i just hate/am scared of man i dont really know
i relate so bad you wouldn't how bad omg
the toothbrush is hilarious. also, when you said "most men are so embarrassing," I felt that so deeply. lol
I'm a bi woman but this video is just 👌🏼. I know I like men but sometimes I wonder if I really am just a lesbian and holding back lol. doesnt help that I just feel more attracted to women anyway on almost every level
i guess we'll just have to see what the future holds lol
One thing that helped me figure things out was viewing sexual attraction and romantic attraction separately, for me I’m pan and have no problem ‘doing things’ with people of any gender, but the thought of doing romantic things with men makes me gag - pan & sapphic romantically.
I assumed for the longest time I was straight, because something I didn’t understand about sexuality is that the type of attraction you feel towards different genders can be completely different. Attraction to men carries a level of heat which isn’t present for me in my attraction to women, like it’s very charged and stimulating, and with women it’s just that I can’t stop smiling when I see a really pretty girl. But I feel that I probably have a type when it’s for women, I’m attracted to people like Aubrey Plaza, Cathy Moriarity and Sonia Braga and I’m almost much more selective with women than men so I wonder why that is. If I had to gauge it I’m probably 85 attracted to men and 10-15% attracted to women, but even then I just don’t have very much desire to sexually consummate a relationship it’s like I want to be held or give very basic vanilla kisses it’s almost like a Christian hallmark type of sapphic attraction in a strange way. I wonder if there’s a part of me that conceptualizes female romantic relationships as love unburdened by disempowerment and power dynamics which does say something about my understanding of gender possibly being warped by media, but in the same breath I’m also very attracted to power both being under the thumb of somebody and having power over somebody. There’s just something very stimulating and attractive about power, I really want it and I guess that says something about me because people desire things which they lack. I’ve never perceived myself as having power over myself or my life, so I think I’m attracted to power through my romantic relationships with others with the unconscious goal in mind that they can liberate me from myself and my circumstances. You know it’s the white knight who saves you, the redemptive and omniscient power of love saves you from a thing you perceive as being too strong for you to save yourself from.
Me being lesbian was not due to my lack of experience, looking back in hs, the signs were there😂.
In the end, my lack of experience was cos of my lesbianism.
apparently there's a thing such as gynosexual which means being attracted to femininity so maybe that's what your experiencing??
Maybe the fact that a lot of gay men don't dislike their feminine side and will let it show. Or not. How would I know. lol
you should read the lesbian master doc i think it will clear up a lot of things for you 🕴🏾
I feel so seen and heard omg
4:19 not challengers and sense8 teas!! lmao u just like me fr, I like my boys a bit-
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Wwwww❤🎉
Will you marry me 😭😭😭