"Allah knows that we are naturally sexually appealing". This statement was such a beautiful eye opener and insya Allah carrying this knowledge with us can hopefully make intimacy easier for husband and wife. May Allah reward you with kheir for providing information that can potentially keep marriages together, Ameen.
This was very informative and needed. As I prepared for my wedding I browsed much of the internet for tips and information on consummation and failed to find anything useful. I wish our communities would hold more lectures and sessions of information, specifically on topics of marriage and intimacy geared towards married couples and young adults. I also grew up holding negative views on sex, as a result of the way I found out how babies were 'created'. Over a decade went, and my desire to start a family turned me towards the path of seeking marriage with little knowledge on the matter of intimacy. This long forgotten teenage fear eventually lead to marital problems.
Assalamualaikum Sister, While I appreciate the intention to educate female Muslims on this delicate and sensitive topic of intimacy, I would like to address that it was way too unnecessarily explicit and failed to preserve the Islamic view on modesty. The speaker might have tried to familiarize us with the physiology and the act of intimacy and remove shame and taboos regarding intimacy within Muslim females, but it did the exact opposite because of the unnecessary personal details on this topic. It's no longer a discussion on intimacy from an Islamic perspective but has become on the same level as the non-Muslim conversations you can find online. If you search online, the education on intimacy is full of content from a non-Muslim perspective and not the Islamic framework and guidelines. This discussion is the same as the non-Muslim ones, as it’s being unnecessarily explicit. I understand that some topics will be a bit explicit, but what was discussed was definitely avoidable and unnecessary for the purpose of educating, especially in a public setting. Remember, anyone with internet access can easily find learning material on the topic of intimacy. The main reason for us Muslims to watch and listen to such discussions on your channel or any Islamic channel is to learn the Islamic guidelines on such matters and how to tackle issues regarding intimacy without any shame shackling us but at the same time not compromising the Islamic standard of modesty. May Allah reward you all for the good intention you have to educate Muslim females on subjects as delicate and sensitive as intimacy. May Allah also forgive us for our shortcomings and teach us and give us the ability to do things in a way that He approves and is pleased with. Ameen.
Mashallah, Sister. You described the problem with this discussion so politely yet firmly. I completely agree with you. It felt extremely inappropriate, and as a fellow Muslim, I felt very uncomfortable and almost lost my temper. Yes, we need to teach our female Muslim girls about sex and sexual health, but that doesn’t mean we should resort to explicit graphic examples from our own personal experiences with our spouses. This is absolutely forbidden. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Among the most evil of people before Allah on the Day of Resurrection will be a man who comes to his wife and has intercourse with her, then he spreads her secrets" (Narrated by Muslim, 4/157). It was reported from Asma bint Yazid that she was with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and men and women were sitting with him. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked, "Would any man say what he did with his wife? Would any woman tell others what she did with her husband?" The people kept quiet and did not answer. Asma said, "Yes, by Allah, O Messenger of Allah, they (women) do that, and they (men) do that." He said, "Do not do that. It is like a male devil meeting a female devil in the road and having intercourse with her whilst the people are watching" (Narrated by Abu Dawud, no. 1/339; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Adab al-Zafaf, p. 143). These two hadith emphasize the severity of revealing private marital matters. I can’t believe this conversation took place, forgetting these very basic principles and etiquettes from these hadith. The video lacked substantive information and primarily focused on personal experiences and explicit details. It will be a big problem if young Muslims living in the West or in non-Islamic environments listen to this and think that delivering sex education in this manner is acceptable. May Allah protect us and our children. I appreciate how you pointed out that the main reason we watch these videos is to get Islamic guidelines, which are not available online compared to the non-Muslim versions of sex education. However, if these videos do not adhere to the Islamic standard of modesty, as you mentioned, there’s no need for us to watch and listen to them. There are plenty of discussions made by Westerners that are more informative and conservative. Modesty is not just about covering the body; it’s also about how we speak and discuss such topics. The topic of vaginismus was important, but the video provided limited educational value on it. I hope Sister Naima considers removing this video from her channel and opts for a more modest discussion with another guest on this topic and other sex-related issues, viewed through the lens of Islam rather than the Western perspective. Our children will encounter a lot of information on sex education due to Western propaganda every day, but as an Ummah, we must take responsibility to teach them about these sensitive yet important issues without compromising our standards of modesty as Muslims. I apologize, for this big text, but it was important to address the issue.
With all due respect, Its not appropriate for a Muslim sister to expose their intimate affairs, that too, so graphically on a public platform like this. I think the key message could have been conveyed without it
Agreed. There shouldn't have been any description of what specifically went on in the bedroom. Furthermore, this information should be accessible in women-only spaces and not publicly accessible. It is useful, but there is a place for it.
This video was very helpful and the details are very important for young girls like myself to get some understanding on what to expect. You coming here as a man and having the audacity to criticise when it has nothing to do with u. This mentality of keeping hush hush on a very natural thing is what leads young women to be afraid and not learn and be clueless about a natural human thing. This video was clearly not intended for u. Keep your close minded self elsewhere.
@@sakeenalewis703why when Muslim women talks about a natural human thing it’s a problem? Why should this be done somewhere else? There was nothing wrong with this. Stop being so narrow minded. People like you are the reason why so many Muslim women are uneducated about their bodies and sex in general. Grow up.
@@leenacoubear7258 Calm down. Whether this has anything to do with me or not is not your business. This is publicly accessible so you have no business to tell men they don't belong here. Unless you have an issue with principles of Islam on privacy regarding intimacy, there's no reason for you to get triggererd. I am not opposing the message, just the way it was conveyed
@@fokiralomgir2563don’t tell me to claim down. the video was for women. Only women are watching this. The aspect of privacy on intimacy is not the same here. This video is informational. It’s not as if she’s gossiping about her sex life. She’s providing knowledge for women. Stop trying to dictate what she should do. Do u say the same for Muslim men who have the same videos on TH-cam? There are many Muslim men who have the same videos and I never see comments like this but when a Muslim women does it she has to do it somewhere else? It’s annoying, TH-cam is a free accessible public platform so it makes sense to post videos like this over here. telling her to post it somewhere else is creating exclusion. I don’t understand why u as man clicked on the video was it was not intended for you simple. Stop trying to make sex a thing that Muslim women should keep quiet about.
I skipped viewed first 8 minutes and I have decided to politely exit. On another note, totally independent to this, maybe consider a podcast format? I’m not entirely sure if video necessarily conveys any extra information. Later when you get a bit more involved in your channel, you can introduce cartoon characters that you and your guests can voice. That might make your videos more engaging and maybe easier to view.
@@alphauno6614 U need to retrain urself to listen to real people talk. Perhaps you have what people call the 'Cocomelon Syndrome' where you can only watch a video if it's highly stimulating.
@@sbk6052 That might be true but the reason I left was the nature of conversation especially coming out of the mouth of a Muslim. Not saying it’s wrong but saying I felt it was best if I left.
@AlphaUno somewhat agree with you . Dunno why she's talking about what turns her on . Intimate personal matters should've been left out. Other then that, seemed okay to me
"Allah knows that we are naturally sexually appealing". This statement was such a beautiful eye opener and insya Allah carrying this knowledge with us can hopefully make intimacy easier for husband and wife. May Allah reward you with kheir for providing information that can potentially keep marriages together, Ameen.
This was very informative and needed.
As I prepared for my wedding I browsed much of the internet for tips and information on consummation and failed to find anything useful. I wish our communities would hold more lectures and sessions of information, specifically on topics of marriage and intimacy geared towards married couples and young adults.
I also grew up holding negative views on sex, as a result of the way I found out how babies were 'created'. Over a decade went, and my desire to start a family turned me towards the path of seeking marriage with little knowledge on the matter of intimacy. This long forgotten teenage fear eventually lead to marital problems.
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Assalamualaikum Sister,
While I appreciate the intention to educate female Muslims on this delicate and sensitive topic of intimacy, I would like to address that it was way too unnecessarily explicit and failed to preserve the Islamic view on modesty. The speaker might have tried to familiarize us with the physiology and the act of intimacy and remove shame and taboos regarding intimacy within Muslim females, but it did the exact opposite because of the unnecessary personal details on this topic. It's no longer a discussion on intimacy from an Islamic perspective but has become on the same level as the non-Muslim conversations you can find online.
If you search online, the education on intimacy is full of content from a non-Muslim perspective and not the Islamic framework and guidelines. This discussion is the same as the non-Muslim ones, as it’s being unnecessarily explicit. I understand that some topics will be a bit explicit, but what was discussed was definitely avoidable and unnecessary for the purpose of educating, especially in a public setting. Remember, anyone with internet access can easily find learning material on the topic of intimacy. The main reason for us Muslims to watch and listen to such discussions on your channel or any Islamic channel is to learn the Islamic guidelines on such matters and how to tackle issues regarding intimacy without any shame shackling us but at the same time not compromising the Islamic standard of modesty.
May Allah reward you all for the good intention you have to educate Muslim females on subjects as delicate and sensitive as intimacy. May Allah also forgive us for our shortcomings and teach us and give us the ability to do things in a way that He approves and is pleased with. Ameen.
Mashallah, Sister. You described the problem with this discussion so politely yet firmly. I completely agree with you. It felt extremely inappropriate, and as a fellow Muslim, I felt very uncomfortable and almost lost my temper. Yes, we need to teach our female Muslim girls about sex and sexual health, but that doesn’t mean we should resort to explicit graphic examples from our own personal experiences with our spouses. This is absolutely forbidden.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Among the most evil of people before Allah on the Day of Resurrection will be a man who comes to his wife and has intercourse with her, then he spreads her secrets" (Narrated by Muslim, 4/157).
It was reported from Asma bint Yazid that she was with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and men and women were sitting with him. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked, "Would any man say what he did with his wife? Would any woman tell others what she did with her husband?" The people kept quiet and did not answer. Asma said, "Yes, by Allah, O Messenger of Allah, they (women) do that, and they (men) do that." He said, "Do not do that. It is like a male devil meeting a female devil in the road and having intercourse with her whilst the people are watching" (Narrated by Abu Dawud, no. 1/339; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Adab al-Zafaf, p. 143).
These two hadith emphasize the severity of revealing private marital matters. I can’t believe this conversation took place, forgetting these very basic principles and etiquettes from these hadith. The video lacked substantive information and primarily focused on personal experiences and explicit details. It will be a big problem if young Muslims living in the West or in non-Islamic environments listen to this and think that delivering sex education in this manner is acceptable. May Allah protect us and our children.
I appreciate how you pointed out that the main reason we watch these videos is to get Islamic guidelines, which are not available online compared to the non-Muslim versions of sex education. However, if these videos do not adhere to the Islamic standard of modesty, as you mentioned, there’s no need for us to watch and listen to them. There are plenty of discussions made by Westerners that are more informative and conservative.
Modesty is not just about covering the body; it’s also about how we speak and discuss such topics. The topic of vaginismus was important, but the video provided limited educational value on it. I hope Sister Naima considers removing this video from her channel and opts for a more modest discussion with another guest on this topic and other sex-related issues, viewed through the lens of Islam rather than the Western perspective. Our children will encounter a lot of information on sex education due to Western propaganda every day, but as an Ummah, we must take responsibility to teach them about these sensitive yet important issues without compromising our standards of modesty as Muslims.
I apologize, for this big text, but it was important to address the issue.
With all due respect, Its not appropriate for a Muslim sister to expose their intimate affairs, that too, so graphically on a public platform like this. I think the key message could have been conveyed without it
Agreed. There shouldn't have been any description of what specifically went on in the bedroom. Furthermore, this information should be accessible in women-only spaces and not publicly accessible. It is useful, but there is a place for it.
This video was very helpful and the details are very important for young girls like myself to get some understanding on what to expect. You coming here as a man and having the audacity to criticise when it has nothing to do with u. This mentality of keeping hush hush on a very natural thing is what leads young women to be afraid and not learn and be clueless about a natural human thing. This video was clearly not intended for u. Keep your close minded self elsewhere.
@@sakeenalewis703why when Muslim women talks about a natural human thing it’s a problem? Why should this be done somewhere else? There was nothing wrong with this. Stop being so narrow minded. People like you are the reason why so many Muslim women are uneducated about their bodies and sex in general. Grow up.
@@leenacoubear7258 Calm down. Whether this has anything to do with me or not is not your business. This is publicly accessible so you have no business to tell men they don't belong here. Unless you have an issue with principles of Islam on privacy regarding intimacy, there's no reason for you to get triggererd. I am not opposing the message, just the way it was conveyed
@@fokiralomgir2563don’t tell me to claim down. the video was for women. Only women are watching this. The aspect of privacy on intimacy is not the same here. This video is informational. It’s not as if she’s gossiping about her sex life. She’s providing knowledge for women. Stop trying to dictate what she should do. Do u say the same for Muslim men who have the same videos on TH-cam? There are many Muslim men who have the same videos and I never see comments like this but when a Muslim women does it she has to do it somewhere else? It’s annoying, TH-cam is a free accessible public platform so it makes sense to post videos like this over here. telling her to post it somewhere else is creating exclusion. I don’t understand why u as man clicked on the video was it was not intended for you simple. Stop trying to make sex a thing that Muslim women should keep quiet about.
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I skipped viewed first 8 minutes and I have decided to politely exit. On another note, totally independent to this, maybe consider a podcast format? I’m not entirely sure if video necessarily conveys any extra information. Later when you get a bit more involved in your channel, you can introduce cartoon characters that you and your guests can voice. That might make your videos more engaging and maybe easier to view.
Cartoon characters? Perhaps, we should pass on that.
@@Base. like an animation. Could be anything. Animate animals if you want
@@alphauno6614 U need to retrain urself to listen to real people talk. Perhaps you have what people call the 'Cocomelon Syndrome' where you can only watch a video if it's highly stimulating.
@@sbk6052 That might be true but the reason I left was the nature of conversation especially coming out of the mouth of a Muslim. Not saying it’s wrong but saying I felt it was best if I left.
@AlphaUno somewhat agree with you . Dunno why she's talking about what turns her on . Intimate personal matters should've been left out. Other then that, seemed okay to me