He may want one but not if you have sex with him and give him everything that he can get from a relationship without a commitment. You can tell he is serious if you take sex out of the equation and he stays in contact with you anyway.
I like your videos cause your honest without being condescending. I have a male friend that is the same way and I can listen to his advice without feeling like I am being belittled and have to defend myself. Good job
You have helped me so much especially when I think back to all other relationships I've had. Now I understand a lot about the mistakes I've made. You are wonderful.
But now a days if you show interest a lot of men entertain it but for so long. They could act like they like you on Friday and the next Sunday act like you don't exist.
That's a good question. Don't focus on a guy until you are spending time together then focus because at some point he is going to have to do the same thing or you will lose interest in him. In general things are not going to be equal though and men are going to have to do things that women don't and vice versa that's just how relationships work. But the focus thing is really for the person that is looking for a relationship and doesn't want to be distracted.
that's very true I really had to control my temptations to have sex with somebody before a relationship,I think the best way to avoid sex is to always meet up with that person in a public place to conversate instead of going to their place to spend time together because 9 times out of 10 a man will have sex on their mind and will try to get it any way they can
Angela Ochuko yeah I try to reject every invitation over to his place, when we just met. And my ex bf wanted to come over and he came once, but I know I need to say no to those proposals, because then they just want to hang out, and will never invite you on a date, even thr guy i really like im going to have to say no.
Yes, I agree that it's not all about looks because there are so many attractive women that can't find a date. That's what I was trying to say that no matter what a woman looks like it's still tough to find a guy.
Good video, Chazz. I think "the chase" can be overdone. However, If a man calls me Friday afternoon for a Saturday night date I'll tell him I already have plans. I don't want him to think I have nothing better to do than sit around all day waiting for him to call. AND agree with you that sex too early is a very bad idea. Men tell me that sex is never, ever, a way to catch and/or keep a man.
Some guys may do that but even if they did at least the girl would get all of the benefits of being in a relationship before he got what he wanted and the guy would be less likely to do that if the girl made him earn it a little more just because it would be too much trouble.
This staying focused thing really hit me. The way you explained it is the way I have ALWAYS thought of it, but people always say "you need to date more than one person." I've done that in the past when I wasn't serious about anybody and I know what kind of relationships I had with those guys, very shallow. So I always feel like, "if I go back to dating multiple men, I'll have shallow relationships, but I want a serious one." But SO many people say "date more than one man" and I'm ALWAYS thinking "but how is that going to get me married??" Lol. I'm rambling but, I'm glad to hear you say that, because that's what I've always felt I should do if I meet someone I actually like.
Wow! That's what happened with me & my bf...sex early, but then we had a relationship, but every time we got together , he expected it every time. There were times I just wanted to chill & cuddle, & even if we started that way, it always lead to sex. You gave me so much insight into that situation! Great advice!!
I agree with you. I am glad you found your channel. So many other dating channels and books are promoting games for sake of Chase and i am sick of hearing/setting that stuff.
I have watched your videos for the first time this weekend and your really truthful and it makes alot of sense what you are saying because of that. thank you
Of course girls can ask guys out, women have just as much right to choose as men do. There's no time limit, just things to do to make sure that he is serious and you are comfortable with what you are doing.
I agree with a lot of your thoughts on men and women in relationships , it's very refreshing to hear a real man's prospective on the subject , keep up the good work!
Real problem is that a dude will mislead a female to believe that he wants a relationship to have sex, knowing that sex alone is a relationship in womans mind.
That’s such a good point about staying in chase mode. Even if it’s not intentional on our part as far as playing hard to get.. When you finally realize you have feelings and make changes for them, they go back to the chase.. if you really want to date, you’ve got to make sure you’re making the time for them. I am guilty of this. Thank you
Hello Chazz, My name is Cj Randolph. I have been watching your videos for almost the last two weeks. I have subscribed to your channel. I would like to personally thank you for giving me and other women the vital information to men, dating, sex,and relationships. It has been enlightening for me to listen to your views. It has answered many questions I have had about the opposite sex (men). Lastly, I would like to thank you, for giving me another good reason, to stay celibate and single for the rest of my life. God Bless. #Relationships are complicated.
Cj Randolph My thoughts exactly. I can't deal with all of this stuff. It's too much for me. In one video he says don't sleep with someone before you are in a relationship with them, but in another video he gives tips on sleeping with someone on the first date. So which is it?! I just can't.....
Baking Breakdancer Those two don't contradict. If a woman wants to build a relationship with a guy, don't rush into sex. But if you're a guy that's just looking to get laid, and nothing else, then he explains how to do it.
I texted a guy a couple of days after we slept together to say hi. He never responded back. So I figure he just doesn't give a sh!t. So I stopped contacting him. I feel like I'm put in the position to play hard to get. I'm not going to chase somebody who doesn't respond to me. I'm not going to waste my time.
You were right to just accept it & move the hell on, but he didn't put you in a position to play hard to get. You can't play hard to get after he already had you.
Thanks, I have really enjoyed your video's. I have realized so many mistakes I have made in relationships. you have really helped me to see it's not has hard as I made it.
Chazz, I have a niece who met a guy on line they talk for two years than he came to new york to visit her .He asked to marry her, hung out around friends and family appeared to be sincerely prepared to began his new life with her than she found out that he was a fraud; he went to take a shower left his phone it rang she the fiance so she answered and it was the baby mom-ma he just had a new born baby and apparently was still residing with this woman. WOW!!! what type of crawler is this guy...
If someone really loves you it is IMPOSSIBLE for them not to give you something. It may not be diamonds and furs but they want to give you for the pleasure it gives them. Think of those you cared for in the past. You gave them, yes you DID. ( smile) You made them a pie, saved them some of your cake, gave small or little gifts, etc.
Wow this was a great video. I have always done the No Sex on the First Date rule...Never done it and never will. I don't understand where the message where this was a good thing came that this was the thing to do. The focus part too. Never heard it put that way and makes a lot sense. Thank you thank you for posting this
i find it hard to believe that the majority of women actually want relationships. They want validation, yes, but it seems like they're way too caught up in maintaining male orbiters in the friendzone.
lol! I've made 2 of these mistakes. Playing hard to get, and not staying focused. Both mistakes were made in the same relationship. It hurt really bad when the relationship fell apart. I learned more about myself, it made me address some things I was running from (baggage i had b4 i met him). And it taught me to handle others with more care.
First time seeing your video and I love it, see lots of it in a day, lol And all of them are cool, what you said is so true, and funny!! Thanks for sharing and look forward to your video in the future :)
Wow this vid help alot. Just getting over a BS booty call relationship. Everything you have said been there and done that it's nice to see I am not alone with these kind of problem. By the way your vids are very helpful much appreciation to you.
I'm sorry this box sounds Ike guys can have their pick of women to choose from but women can't. double standard. somebody correct me if I'm wrong but that's what this feels like
+Dorothy S you're wrong. Here's the problem, both sexes think the other has it easier, but that's not necessarily true. At the end of the day, if you're highly attractive, male or female, you can afford to be picky.
+Dorothy S yeah i know what you mean....I love his videos, but i have to say i felt some kind of way with the double standards as well. oh, Chazz is usally right on point with stuff, but the beginning through me off. LOl! but no body gets it right all the time. I just took what I needed and left the rest. I can agree to disagee. :)
This is my favorite video. For me, it was the most informative. It preached like the gospel to me. It made sense and I see that I have made many mistakes repeatedly. A man who chases is in player mode. That clicked!!! I look forward to dating and making better decisions with better outcomes!
#2 just hit me. That was my situation!!! I always tried to juggle maintaining relationships with friends and family. Now when I look back, my own gf would drop me for their guy smh
info that every woman needs to know however I dated my husband for 6 months in fact lived with him and he tried to have sex with me but I was not having sex outside of marriage, the one time we had sex, I told him it was over because I could not lower standards with living with a man who I was also sexual with. Well, he married me and we stayed married for over 10 years. Then after being divorced for 2 years we remarried. So, I do not think that it is necessary to have sex within a 3 month time span. I feel if a man really wants you he will wait for you and if he doesn't maybe he is not the one. In fact emotional relationships are stronger and binds you to one another much more than sexual relationships!
Most of man here have free milk..because they often sure it is normal.. even married men have FREE MILK - women do everything- working, buy her wedding ring, wedding dress, flowers..just to having "husband" -RIDICULOUS
Absolutely, stay focused. I never agreed with talking to more than one guy. My personal opinion its a turn off because believe me, you are making each guy/ girl an option.
I just started talking to a guy that works two jobs and he is almost like a workaholic. We met online and we also met in person and he really liked me. He also kissed me the first like 10 minutes after I started talking to him. It was cool. Anyway he text a lot more than he calls. He text me everyday and calls like once or twice a week. I told him to start calling me more and he understood. Anyway I almost got mad at him for texting a short answered text and I panicked and though he trying to blow me off. I told him it just sounded very nonchalant. He said it wasn't. Anyway i basically told him politely I didn't want to talk to him any more. Then hours later I ended up calling him to tell him I was sorry and we needed to communicate better and we are currently doing okay. We've only seen each other once like 4 weeks ago but still texting really sweet text and his phone calls are always sweet too. Its basically his schedule working two jobs and he sees his son on weekends that takes up all my time to get to know him better. So basically how do I date this nice guy that is a busy workaholic?
100% on point. Thank you for this. As a lady living a celibate life style .. Should you tell the guy your dating exclusively or wait until your in a relationship with him ?
So true my brother....especially the pat about waiting until you are in a relationship. That is key....a man has to yearn for your and miss you.....then there is the emotional attachment. If he is not emotionally attached to you.....and you sleep with him. This usually does not end well for the woman. I'm just saying.
Yesss Preach The advice are so good and even my mom tells me those stuff too I have questions thoe How do I know if a guy really likes me ? Are good morning text that important?
For me I agree with the fact that you have to prove yourself reasonably before sex. However,on the issue of focusing on a man who has not proved himself to be in love or committed to going exclusive is a no no.While on the issue of playing hard to get , most men like the chase and value what they have worked hard for.You should not play hard to get, but be hard to get.That way if the man finally gets you he will appreciate you.
extremely good points, as a British male stripper I come across 6 types of women 1. conversationalist 2. banter babe 3.fast lane fakers 4. fast lane takers 5. jealous hater 6.racist hater lets look at number 3, they sell the prospect of wild sex in order to get my attention but the really want a long term relationship when they would be better off being real and make that clear from the start, at least number 4 is honest with what she wants, contrary to belief number 4 is very rare 90% that comes onto you are number 3
He may want one but not if you have sex with him and give him everything that he can get from a relationship without a commitment. You can tell he is serious if you take sex out of the equation and he stays in contact with you anyway.
I like your videos cause your honest without being condescending. I have a male friend that is the same way and I can listen to his advice without feeling like I am being belittled and have to defend myself. Good job
You have helped me so much especially when I think back to all other relationships I've had. Now I understand a lot about the mistakes I've made. You are wonderful.
That's exactly why I do this, thank you for letting me know that I have helped you in some way, that really makes my day.
Tina Lyn aml
But now a days if you show interest a lot of men entertain it but for so long. They could act like they like you on Friday and the next Sunday act like you don't exist.
@shana Blue right! It's crazy! smh
That's a good question. Don't focus on a guy until you are spending time together then focus because at some point he is going to have to do the same thing or you will lose interest in him. In general things are not going to be equal though and men are going to have to do things that women don't and vice versa that's just how relationships work. But the focus thing is really for the person that is looking for a relationship and doesn't want to be distracted.
that's very true I really had to control my temptations to have sex with somebody before a relationship,I think the best way to avoid sex is to always meet up with that person in a public place to conversate instead of going to their place to spend time together because 9 times out of 10 a man will have sex on their mind and will try to get it any way they can
Yes. I learned the hard way. If he says I will come to you. Oh hell no!
I definitely agreee sweetie. if a woman go to my house its about to go down.
Angela Ochuko unless you are having a gathering where lots of people are there ...
Too many sheep men exist....yucky
Angela Ochuko yeah I try to reject every invitation over to his place, when we just met. And my ex bf wanted to come over and he came once, but I know I need to say no to those proposals, because then they just want to hang out, and will never invite you on a date, even thr guy i really like im going to have to say no.
Sex is kind of like that, once you cross that bridge then you can't really go back.
Gold
Thank you and thanks for all of your positive feed back on my vids I really do appreciate it.
I think the saying "Women play hard to get because men play hard to Keep " is very true..
I'm so relieved that I've found this video before I had a chance to mess everything up...! Thank you!!
Yes, I agree that it's not all about looks because there are so many attractive women that can't find a date. That's what I was trying to say that no matter what a woman looks like it's still tough to find a guy.
Good video, Chazz. I think "the chase" can be overdone. However, If a man calls me Friday afternoon for a Saturday night date I'll tell him I already have plans. I don't want him to think I have nothing better to do than sit around all day waiting for him to call. AND agree with you that sex too early is a very bad idea. Men tell me that sex is never, ever, a way to catch and/or keep a man.
Dang you changed my perspective! We need more guys like you in LA
I really appreciate you doing that, thank you for your support.
Love the honesty you have, sometimes it's hard to hear but really wakes me up. thank you.!
I'm glad that I could help.
Actually surprised at your dating knowledge. You are smart!
Thank you, just keep liking and sharing the videos and it will happen.
This was probably one of the best videos you've done!!! Great message!!
Some guys may do that but even if they did at least the girl would get all of the benefits of being in a relationship before he got what he wanted and the guy would be less likely to do that if the girl made him earn it a little more just because it would be too much trouble.
You have great insight regarding relationships. Very impressive!!
This staying focused thing really hit me. The way you explained it is the way I have ALWAYS thought of it, but people always say "you need to date more than one person." I've done that in the past when I wasn't serious about anybody and I know what kind of relationships I had with those guys, very shallow. So I always feel like, "if I go back to dating multiple men, I'll have shallow relationships, but I want a serious one." But SO many people say "date more than one man" and I'm ALWAYS thinking "but how is that going to get me married??" Lol. I'm rambling but, I'm glad to hear you say that, because that's what I've always felt I should do if I meet someone I actually like.
I relate to that.
Thank you! So glad I found your channel! The things I've heard sting a bit but shed's a whole new light on my mistakes! Appreciate it!
Just want to say that you are so on the dot about this! Thank you!! :) I appreciated this video
That G.I Joe shirt is the bomb!
made a vid on that and will post if in just a few.
Thank you, I hope you keep watching and subscribe.
Wow! That's what happened with me & my bf...sex early, but then we had a relationship, but every time we got together , he expected it every time. There were times I just wanted to chill & cuddle, & even if we started that way, it always lead to sex. You gave me so much insight into that situation! Great advice!!
Yeah, I can buy that.
I agree with you. I am glad you found your channel. So many other dating channels and books are promoting games for sake of Chase and i am sick of hearing/setting that stuff.
Thank you.
Thanks for the great information. Love the old school GI Joe t-shirt by the way.
thanks
That's usually how it happens.
Chaz, thanks for sharing your life experience with us. You have so much common sense.
I have watched your videos for the first time this weekend and your really truthful and it makes alot of sense what you are saying because of that. thank you
Of course girls can ask guys out, women have just as much right to choose as men do. There's no time limit, just things to do to make sure that he is serious and you are comfortable with what you are doing.
thanks I hope you keep watching and subscribe if you haven't already.
awesome this has relped me alot especially if i reflect on my mistakes in the previous relationships the video has opened up my eyes
I agree with a lot of your thoughts on men and women in relationships , it's very refreshing to hear a real man's prospective on the subject , keep up the good work!
Real problem is that a dude will mislead a female to believe that he wants a relationship to have sex, knowing that sex alone is a relationship in womans mind.
That’s such a good point about staying in chase mode. Even if it’s not intentional on our part as far as playing hard to get.. When you finally realize you have feelings and make changes for them, they go back to the chase.. if you really want to date, you’ve got to make sure you’re making the time for them. I am guilty of this. Thank you
Hello Chazz,
My name is Cj Randolph. I have been watching your videos for almost the last two weeks. I have subscribed to your channel. I would like to personally thank you for giving me and other women the vital information to men, dating, sex,and relationships. It has been enlightening for me to listen to your views. It has answered many questions I have had about the opposite sex (men). Lastly, I would like to thank you, for giving me another good reason, to stay celibate and single for the rest of my life. God Bless. #Relationships are complicated.
Cj Randolph My thoughts exactly. I can't deal with all of this stuff. It's too much for me. In one video he says don't sleep with someone before you are in a relationship with them, but in another video he gives tips on sleeping with someone on the first date. So which is it?! I just can't.....
Baking Breakdancer Those two don't contradict. If a woman wants to build a relationship with a guy, don't rush into sex. But if you're a guy that's just looking to get laid, and nothing else, then he explains how to do it.
Baking Breakdancer
What's the difference between showing you like someone and being thirsty?
Wow, that's a great question that I need to do a video about.
askchazzellis Please let me know when you post it. I am interested in your perspective on the subject.
Its a VERY fine line. Yes, I'd like to see a video about this one.
Kyra Stubbs He did that video in November
I texted a guy a couple of days after we slept together to say hi. He never responded back. So I figure he just doesn't give a sh!t. So I stopped contacting him. I feel like I'm put in the position to play hard to get. I'm not going to chase somebody who doesn't respond to me. I'm not going to waste my time.
you go girl!
You were right to just accept it & move the hell on, but he didn't put you in a position to play hard to get. You can't play hard to get after he already had you.
Sagenikov
What if you wanna take it slow ? I’m still trying to get to know him. Not sure if I want him to be my man...
Keep in mind she had him too, women sleep with guys and dump them too! It works both ways.
If you think a nut is a benefit, bruh, you a squirrel. Lol
😀😁😂 gal..
thanks for keeping it real chazzellis
You're right Chazz. I been there done that. It's hard to build a relationship with a guy that's serious when you're running around with everyone else.
Thanks, I have really enjoyed your video's. I have realized so many mistakes I have made in relationships. you have really helped me to see it's not has hard as I made it.
Chazz, I have a niece who met a guy on line they talk for two years than he came to new york to visit her .He asked to marry her, hung out around friends and family appeared to be sincerely prepared to began his new life with her than she found out that he was a fraud; he went to take a shower left his phone it rang she the fiance so she answered and it was the baby mom-ma he just had a new born baby and apparently was still residing with this woman. WOW!!! what type of crawler is this guy...
Great job well done.
If someone really loves you it is IMPOSSIBLE for them not to give you something. It may not be diamonds and furs but they want to give you for the pleasure it gives them. Think of those you cared for in the past. You gave them, yes you DID. ( smile) You made them a pie, saved them some of your cake, gave small or little gifts, etc.
Very good sound advice. Well done.
Wow this was a great video. I have always done the No Sex on the First Date rule...Never done it and never will. I don't understand where the message where this was a good thing came that this was the thing to do. The focus part too. Never heard it put that way and makes a lot sense. Thank you thank you for posting this
i find it hard to believe that the majority of women actually want relationships. They want validation, yes, but it seems like they're way too caught up in maintaining male orbiters in the friendzone.
lol! I've made 2 of these mistakes. Playing hard to get, and not staying focused. Both mistakes were made in the same relationship. It hurt really bad when the relationship fell apart. I learned more about myself, it made me address some things I was running from (baggage i had b4 i met him). And it taught me to handle others with more care.
First time seeing your video and I love it, see lots of it in a day, lol
And all of them are cool, what you said is so true, and funny!!
Thanks for sharing and look forward to your video in the future :)
Nice vids but cant help but wonder why do you always sound congested?
Wow this vid help alot. Just getting over a BS booty call relationship. Everything you have said been there and done that it's nice to see I am not alone with these kind of problem. By the way your vids are very helpful much appreciation to you.
This advice is on point. So true
Man I WISH I saw your videos 3 months ago!! Great advice... subscribing.
I loved this..you really helped clear things up..:)
Ladies have to keep their options open too lol is funny that is normal to society and the dating world when guys keep their options open.
smh how'd u get so wise my friend, i keep forwarding my peeps to you! i hope to see you blow up.
I agree with u wholeheartedly!!!! Very good advice..
your sooo right same thing i did I missed out on a good guy
Chaz that was some good advice. I really appreciate your thoughtfulness. What you saying is true.
I'm sorry this box sounds Ike guys can have their pick of women to choose from but women can't. double standard. somebody correct me if I'm wrong but that's what this feels like
+Dorothy S you're wrong. Here's the problem, both sexes think the other has it easier, but that's not necessarily true. At the end of the day, if you're highly attractive, male or female, you can afford to be picky.
right. usually I agree with Chaz but he lost me in this video. Double Standard for sure.
+Dorothy S yeah i know what you mean....I love his videos, but i have to say i felt some kind of way with the double standards as well. oh, Chazz is usally right on point with stuff, but the beginning through me off. LOl! but no body gets it right all the time. I just took what I needed and left the rest. I can agree to disagee. :)
+Dorothy S lol ditto. I feel the same.
Dorothy S there are just more women than there are men, so men have way more choices than women do
Very good video..loved it
Thank you, and I appreciate you watching and always leaving great comments Apostolicqueen17
This is about 50% correct..........
This is my favorite video. For me, it was the most informative. It preached like the gospel to me. It made sense and I see that I have made many mistakes repeatedly. A man who chases is in player mode. That clicked!!! I look forward to dating and making better decisions with better outcomes!
I FUCKED UP
LOL
#2 just hit me. That was my situation!!! I always tried to juggle maintaining relationships with friends and family. Now when I look back, my own gf would drop me for their guy smh
You're talking about the "conqueror"
info that every woman needs to know however I dated my husband for 6 months in fact lived with him and he tried to have sex with me but I was not having sex outside of marriage, the one time we had sex, I told him it was over because I could not lower standards with living with a man who I was also sexual with. Well, he married me and we stayed married for over 10 years. Then after being divorced for 2 years we remarried. So, I do not think that it is necessary to have sex within a 3 month time span. I feel if a man really wants you he will wait for you and if he doesn't maybe he is not the one. In fact emotional relationships are stronger and binds you to one another much more than sexual relationships!
flgirl fool
My pleasure, grade A material compared to other TH-camrs
Great video!!!
Most of man here have free milk..because they often sure it is normal.. even married men have FREE MILK - women do everything- working, buy her wedding ring, wedding dress, flowers..just to having "husband" -RIDICULOUS
Absolutely, stay focused. I never agreed with talking to more than one guy. My personal opinion its a turn off because believe me, you are making each guy/ girl an option.
I love and appreciate your advice and feel its all on point. I have subscribed and like your videos with donations coming soon : )
wow!!! u hav a new subscriber. This is the best explanation i hav eva gotten regarding guys & dating. THANK :)
Thank you, I appreciate that.
i like how you explained playing hard to get vs. being thirsty
I just started talking to a guy that works two jobs and he is almost like a workaholic. We met online and we also met in person and he really liked me. He also kissed me the first like 10 minutes after I started talking to him. It was cool. Anyway he text a lot more than he calls. He text me everyday and calls like once or twice a week. I told him to start calling me more and he understood. Anyway I almost got mad at him for texting a short answered text and I panicked and though he trying to blow me off. I told him it just sounded very nonchalant. He said it wasn't. Anyway i basically told him politely I didn't want to talk to him any more. Then hours later I ended up calling him to tell him I was sorry and we needed to communicate better and we are currently doing okay. We've only seen each other once like 4 weeks ago but still texting really sweet text and his phone calls are always sweet too. Its basically his schedule working two jobs and he sees his son on weekends that takes up all my time to get to know him better. So basically how do I date this nice guy that is a busy workaholic?
trena b how did this playout? My guest it was a waste of time. Am I right?
100% on point. Thank you for this. As a lady living a celibate life style .. Should you tell the guy your dating exclusively or wait until your in a relationship with him ?
Very helpful!
So true my brother....especially the pat about waiting until you are in a relationship. That is key....a man has to yearn for your and miss you.....then there is the emotional attachment. If he is not emotionally attached to you.....and you sleep with him. This usually does not end well for the woman. I'm just saying.
ok so if you have sex too soon we give the wrong impression, but if a guy do the same is ok........LOL
You made my day with this video thank you ! :)
Yesss
Preach
The advice are so good and even my mom tells me those stuff too
I have questions thoe
How do I know if a guy really likes me ?
Are good morning text that important?
Thank you,
I'm glad you liked it.
you are awesome...I love this
wow. very insightful.
I also look forward to the video that tells the difference between thirsty and showing someone you like them.
Sad but Oh So True
For me I agree with the fact that you have to prove yourself reasonably before sex. However,on the issue of focusing on a man who has not proved himself to be in love or committed to going exclusive is a no no.While on the issue of playing hard to get , most men like the chase and value what they have worked hard for.You should not play hard to get, but be hard to get.That way if the man finally gets you he will appreciate you.
This explained a lot about the first month thing, lol. I wondered if he was just fickle.:)
accurate information!!!
Thank you.
But how do i get out of the friends with benefit situation...? :(
I have started developing feelings for the guy ugh help
extremely good points,
as a British male stripper I come across 6 types of women
1. conversationalist
2. banter babe
3.fast lane fakers
4. fast lane takers
5. jealous hater
6.racist hater
lets look at number 3, they sell the prospect of wild sex in order to get my attention but the really want a long term relationship when they would be better off being real and make that clear from the start, at least number 4 is honest with what she wants, contrary to belief number 4 is very rare 90% that comes onto you are number 3