Whittakers-Summer 2023
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- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of the Whittaker family of Odd, West Virginia.
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Mark, can I donate for a doctor for Ray?
@@jehouse61 they have already taken him to doctors. This is just a scam. These people are trying to get their money.
They need home healthcare in a bad way and someone to come on a daily basis to clean, do their laundry, take their trash out, help them bathe, etc. or else a new home isn't going to benefit them much. I mean it would for a while but it would be just a matter of time before it's in the same condition as the current home. Unfortunately, none of them have the mental capacity to take care of a home or themselves. I am in no way shape or form trying to be rude, it's just the reality. Yes Betty is the main caregiver but she's on the same spectrum as the others with the exception of being able to communicate a little better. They all receive SSI and Medicaid so that should cover those expenses. I don't have a clue why this hasn't already been put into place, maybe it has and they don't want any part of it, or maybe people just can't tolerate it. Who knows but I do wish them the best of luck.
@@jehouse61 I'd say they have taken Ray to a doctor but with his mental state, I doubt he will let anyone touch him much less attempt to give him any kind of shot and/or surgeries. That's just my guess.
If people want to donate to buy me a new house just lmk. Lmfao if life was that easy
I rarely have time to read comments on my videos, but yesterday I took a peak and after reading a couple very sweet comments, I decided to read more. After reading many comments yesterday (all of them very kind and compassionate) it made my day. I’m so proud of the community we’ve built here. I think this is my proudest moment since starting SWU.
Stay awesome mark!
❤️ Love this community! Thanks for all the hard work!
Thank you Mark ❤ for visiting this sweet family , and advocating for them 🙏💕💯
a interview with just the ladies of the family, some kind of shopping spree. ... that would be lovely, 🙂
I will be & thanks Mark for all u doing & good deeds! 👍 keep safe.❤️💖
Thank you for not judging this family and treating them with respect like they deserve. I am an accountant married to an aerospace engineer whom I share a 3 year old child with and we live really comfortably but it wasn't always that way for me. I was raised by a single mother who was struggling to make ends meet. Our house was falling apart, filthy, our couches all ripped up, and our showers were moldy. I was always too embarrassed to invite my friends over growing up from past experiences of having people over. They were always visibly uncomfortable they would try to hide but i can always tell therefore I never liked having anyone over. A lot of my aunts, uncle, etc judged our family and would say we were the poorest of the whole family. They eventually stopped inviting my mom over for family reunions because of course what could we offer at the time when we lived in poverty. It was such a hard time for me but now im grateful for it because now I know who my real friends are and it motivated me to give my mom a better life. My son has never known what poverty is like and will never know what it's like. It is sad how many people will humiliate you when you have nothing.
God bless you.
He definitely judges them.
@@wesleyfeltner5946 Thank you. God bless you as well.
I'm sorry you had to experience that but I'm happy you grew something beautiful out of it.
When your down most ppl wanna kick you in the nuts so you can't get back up it's sad but true it sucks honestly I kinds grew up the same way and that's why I'm such a hard worker now and when I'm not working I'm hustling mowing grass what ever I can to keep a cash flow coming in he'll I'll clean up cow shit if the moneys right lol
I felt so incredibly sorry for Ray as he continuously tried to point out his painful knee.If it is indeed arthritis, treatment can be sought to relief his pain.Imagine the agony he is going through without the ability to express it adequately..His body language and behaviour, however, clearly displays his continuous discomfort. As a nurse, I have such empathy for him, my heart breaks
I suspect the problem is menisci, who are two shock-absorbing discs of cartilage inside the knee joints.
The pain can be caused by this and a small operation can make him completely well. He will needs to take a x-ray to see how the wound is. Ray need something for his pains.
@@bell4textu973 I agree it needs investigation and diagnosis as you say, and meanwhile symptomatic treatment of his pain, untill a diagnosis and treatment can commence...totally agree
@@wendyvanzyl3064 It’s already been diagnosed, it’s arthritis. They say so in this very video ffs. Pay attention.🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤡
@@bell4textu973 Not sure if he can have OTC NSAIDS or not but the poor guy needs something. Plus, is there anyone who is responsible enough to give him the medicine when he needs it? Pain puts a damper on anyone. At 75 and pounding over the New England roads for 50 years, my body is shot.
Yeah he needs to see someone Ray doesn't seem like the kind of person to just complain if it weren't serious.
Please don't let Ray suffer. He should be on Celibrex ( arthritis medicine) he will have no more pain. Someone needs to take him to the doctor
@@Trumpwins-i2g yes they should take care of his. Knee
Someone needs to help them clean up this place 😢 no one should have to live like that.
They don’t have to….they choose to…..takes one person to supervise them to clean up…
I hope this shut all those haters up saying theye weren't capable of caring for an injured dog. He looks healthy and happy as can be
This family is so precious. They sure have relaxed and opened up a lot since I’ve first started watching. Timmy and Lorraine really have just blossomed, talking so much more. I sure hope they get the money they need for the new house. That will be such a big blessing for them.
I always get so excited to see updates on the family. I just love genuine they all are. The beginning of the video, when Lorraine came up saying and giving hand shakes and hugs just melted my heart. I truly love how the videos have made them happy and more and more people are looking out for them and saying hi and interacting with them.
Mark and Lauren are rockstars! Thank you and the Whittaker’s for giving us a video to bring a smile to our faces❤️
Nice to see the family doing much better, I can't help feel like Ray is not doing well I hope he can get some help with his poor knees . And Lorraine looks like she's doing much better. Thank you guys for sharing with us all
Wow almost $90,000 donated already toward a new home for them!! How amazing that would be!! It broke my heart to know Ray was hurting so bad … I wish a dr could see this video and know his pain. Mark what u r doing for this family is INCREDIBLE ❤️
90k? It says 3.5k What happened
@@originalxjack
I just now checked and it’s at $3322.00. But I have seen a few other comments stating it’s quite a bit higher than $3k - but those comments are several hours old now. So, yeah, what’s up with the donations changing I wonder?
I speak healing to Ray and life to this family go Jesus go
@@IDSnowman that makes no sense because I checked it the day I made this comment and it said $89k plus. That’s a huge drop … what happened?!?!
Mark the crook.
I pray that Betty writes down the family information, such as birthdays, etc, so that they’ll have it just in case something happens to her. She seems to be the family’s historian. I wish Mark would hire professional cleaners to come in and give the house a once over. It really needs it and dear sweet Betty is simply not capable of doing it herself. They had no reaction to mice being in the house, I thought that was rather strange. The house is probably bio hazardous by now. Betty really needs some help with the cleaning and the guys there can certainly take the garbage out daily.
Thought the same. I feel like, out of anything, regular house cleaning service and new furniture would be what they would benefit from the most.
The way Timmy and Lorraine light up when Lauren comes in makes me tear up 😭💗
Ray definitely needs to see a doctor about his knee. You can see it’s really bothering him, he has been complaining for like 2 years.
Ray hasn’t said a word about it. L
I hope Ray's knee pain is dealt with and his health gets better. Dude is a cool person 🙌🏻
It makes my whole day when Mark brings us back to see everyone . I love to see Rays face light up when he sees him . Thankyou for another great episode.
To really show your appreciation, why not donate a few dollars to the house fund?
@@dottieparker7274
Why the Hell would anyone take the time to make the comment you made is beyond me.
@@dottieparker7274strange comment
@@wesleyalan9179 🤣 Well Wesley Alan, because: 1) didn't take much time, it's Sunday and there's nothing to do in France on Sundays except go to mass (this is taking much longer), 2) 'ya never know, might add some cash for purchase of house (would've thought that's pretty obvious). Does this demystify?
@@dottieparker7274 YOU MY DEAR ARE FORGIVEN IN ADVANCE, LOL WE ALL KNOW YOU SUFFER GREATLY FROM A DEEP ROOTED MENTAL INSTABILITY AS IT SHOWS! YOUR ELDERS PARTICIPATED IN INCEST BREEDING THEREFORE YOU ARE A PRODUCT OF INCEST & MAL SEX PRACTICES! HENCE THE REASON WHY YOU MAKE FOOLISH COMMENTS & CANNOT FORMULATE AN INTELLIGENT THOUGHT OR CONTRIBUTE TO THE WORLD YOURSELF IN A POSITIVE MANNER! MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOU & FIX YOUR HEART!😇😇
Timmy is always busy. He’s either coloring, writing, or doing a word search. He’s always keeping his mind active. I love that. This family has really grown on me.
And always smiling to
I noticed that too, haha it's so adorable. In the Walmart one when he was so excited about the coloring book, my heart melted
Same here!
He’s got the mind of a child , I’m sure part of it’s because no one has ever taken the time to educate him , it’s nice to see him enjoying himself
@@glenalguire6960he’s the only one to graduate high school
Lorraine saying "hi" absolutely melted me. She doesn't ever talk, and the fact she got up, all excited and said hi to both of them. Just melted me
IKR! I teared up when she went to hug his assistant
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I think I heard Lorraine say "I'll take a hug!" after Lauren hugged Ray. I'm pretty sure she said "Come on in!" a few minutes before that. It was so uplifting to see this lovely lady open up and clearly verbalize what she's thinking. Amazing!
That speaks volumes. 😭
My favorite moment in the video. I felt so happy!!
I’ve never seen Lorraine be so talkative before the videos. That is so cool how she’s so happy to see you guys❤
Guessing she gets more verbal the more she gets comfortable with people. Guessing they've been through a lot, and tend to be (rightfully so) a bit hesitant of outsiders.
Timmy and his coloring book make me smile. Keeping his mind busy! Ray showing off his new pants so proudly… and then of course Lorraine comfortable as can be. Mark you are a absolute good hearted man for helping this family thrive again. ❤
Trust me things aren't as perfect as u make out 'They actually look super depressed to me i no that much as there doesn't look like much happiness n joy going on there sweetheart.
As true as that may be , watching their journey from the start of Mark meeting them they have come a long way. Sometimes we have to find the positive in bad situations to appreciate the growth we’ve made.
10:04 man i skipped randomly to some part to get it going there he is xd
@@davechristian7543 they are much happier than you. They live simply and care for each other ,they're not condescending in a TH-cam comment section .....
And they are cared for by others , much more than you can say for yourself
@@southphillylillyYou sound like a caring person. It'd be great if you could donate at least a couple of dollars to the house fund.
Oh my heart just about burst when Lorraine jumped up and greeted you both. The growth is incredible. We need more Marks in this world.
Me too! I swear she said "Hi, Marky." That was precious!
@@PianoGirl76 Yes, I also heard "Marky!"
She must have made Marks day ❤
I know, and she remembered the lady too I think her name is Lauren. That was sweet.
Me too 😍
Loraine sure came to life when she saw Lauren, I’ve never heard her speak before, it melted my heart. God bless you both.
I noticed how excited Lauren got...she did express her feelings of gradatude! Sweet!❤
@@wandarose4274 No, no no. Lorraine, not LAUREN. LAUREN IS A VISITOR!!!! 🤬
Yes, seeing Lorraine come alive and was so happy talking away and hugging you two ❤
yeah i also think that Lorraine is interested/ likes Lauren.
Lorraine talked more with her, when Lauren made breakfast in one of the videos
Yeah the hug was epic
If this family drank alcohol or there were a few alcoholics in this family, these documentaries wouldn’t even work. That’s what makes these video documentaries so wholesome. Love this family. They literally can’t be blamed for how they are. They didn’t choose this. They are doing the best that they can. God bless them and everyone that is helping them.
Betty has the weight of the world on her shoulders
@@paulakestel1007have you watched the more recent documentary videos from a couple months ago?
If they get the new house maybe we can all donate to pay for Betty to have a person come in a couple times a week to help her clean. Trying to take care of everyone has to be overwhelming for her . She's so precious.
If one of them has a charted diagnosed disability they may be able to get it paid for as well or at least help towards paying for something like that. Idk how it works with each state but I know I’m Missouri they have lots of help for people either on Medicaid or with disabilities that lots of people aren’t even aware of they can receive.
That’s such a good idea. They need another helper. It’s too much for her to do it all herself at her age
I agree. It would be a shame to get them a new house and
for it to end up like this one
And they deserve new furniture too!
@@Samiam88exactly.
I'm sure they all have disability checks, Social Services have people who will take them to the grocery store,help to keep the home clean and take them to Dr appointments. Someone's not doing their job at the County.
Poor Ray ! I think the reason that he’s laying on the couch isn’t isolation but it’s because of his knee. He could possibly need knee surgery or steroid shots or something to get him out of pain. He really does need medical attention. I also want to thank you Mark for all that you’re doing for them ♥️
Our country is filled with people like this and if it weren’t for people like you then no one would be getting the help and attention that they need
I was thinking the exact same, he’s isolating because he’s suffering with knees pain, he’s basically like a injured animal that would hide.
I think he was trying to show that his knee hurts due to him sleeping like that. Just my opinion
@@datwhitechocolateI thought these people had bought them All new beds a few years ago
ur not a doctor hun, get outta here
I hope he gets that sorted soon, i had sciatica in my knee and the pain was horrible, got corticosteroid injections and got rid of the pain. HELP RAY
There's something kinda comforting, knowing that no matter what's going on in the world, the Whittaker's and their dogs will be right there on the porch... Feel better soon Ray ❤
The feel better is highly unlikely.
Somehow you’re right 😂
I know, right. They're just always there on the porch, taking in the day while Ray screams at the passing cars, lol.
@@emdeejay7432 😂
@@TZLORD4892 Hope not...
Timmy going straight to heaven he just so happy and calm!
Timmy is going straight to heaven because of how he is.
@@ellachristina7730 did you come up with that , all by yourself ?🤦🏾🤷🏾♂️🤣🤣
He is sweet😌…Jesus is the only way to Heaven, hope He finds it
The first time I watched these videos I was so ignorant, I looked at these people as if they weren’t human. I admit that. This video really shows me what a strong, healthy family dynamic the Whittakers have. Not only with how they treat each other but their dogs too. Wonderful people.
🤭🤭🤭
I have to admit I was also
Thank you for joining us to the side of no judgement
It learns most of us a lesson that we shouldn’t judge anyone or any situation until we know for sure the bigger picture ❤
Wouldn’t the World be a better place 👍🏼
Growth. Love it ❤️
Look at Lorraine go!! I love that she’s talking more!! And Ray, ugh, my heart…he needs to see a doctor for his knee. He’s probably in so much pain. He laid down and that was it. He’s usually not like that. I’m so happy to see that go fund me total so far. I know that you’ll be able to get that money no problem. I’ll donate this Friday. So awesome for them to be able to have a new home with their own rooms. New bedding for Ray definitely. I love this family! You’re an angel mark. ❤
Edit: Ray is like begging for help by showing you his knee every time you go over to him. Please keep us updated if he sees a doctor. I hope he’s able to.
Yes I kept screaming in my head at the screen about how it’s SO obvious.
(I have epilepsy, and once after a grand mal seizure. I woke up out of a two week coma, unable to speak, unable to understand what people were trying to communicate to me like 80% of the time, I was brain dead basically, in constant fear.)
AND IN THIS VIDEO ITS ALLLL I SAW HAPPENING! He is hurting and needs help. He needs to go get a prescription from the doctors.
In the meantime, cold packs and a heating pad can help. This is heartbreaking. 💔
@@Thexanman999 oh wow! Glad you’re ok. I really hope at this point they’ve taken him to see a doctor.
Kenneth sure has been staying around a lot now. And other family members id say there getting a lot of there money .
He raped Lorraine and timmy was borns
When Ray pulled the seat up for you, I was just thinking how kind and respectful his heart is. ❤️ I hope he gets some help for his knee. I also hope they get that house next door, because they deserve a nice, clean home to live in. Let's make that happen!
I agree they deserve a nice, clean home as much as anybody does. But the problem arises with upkeeping it that way. They don't only need a new house to start fresh and accommodate everyone, they need someone who comes help clean it for them, too.
Who is gonna do that?
I am so touched by you Mark n ur assistant too!!! They obviously have love for u guys! 😊. It breaks my heart that one of the dogs lost his leg however he seems to manage very well! I hope the dogs get fixed too! Ray needs meds for the inflammation 😢. Anyhoo, I also believe that they would need someone w a good heart ❤️ to help keep their home more orderly! In time I guess 😊. Thank you Mark!!
I think a cleaning service would be more than happy to come in once a week to help with housework. Betty could use the help.
He needs his knee checked!!!
@@lifeoflw84 immediately
This family is a testament that happiness is a state of mind. They don't care that they don't have the best home, clothes, shoes, social standing etc . . . they are just happy for what they have and for being with each other. You can tell that they would do anything for each other. This was compelling and I thank you for bringing them to us.
They’re literally inbreds bro. They lack the intelligence to even care 😂
Sorry but they not used to anything else.
@@benbewustmaybe so but they’re is folks who are genuinely like that, the exception with the Whitaker’s is they have dreams and aspirations like all of us do, but are content for what they do have and can’t aspire to do better so what they have is appreciated more than anything else.. they have the basics and more importantly they have love for each something that’s severely lacking in this world.
Society would not be a happy place if everyone was like this, no matter your state of mind. People should need a license to have a baby.
@KillaBeatz33 Nice Simpson's reference. I think there's also an episode where Lisa gets dumb, finds happiness, only to lose it to being smart again.
You can see how much theyre life has improved since you started helping them. It makes me so happy to see them all smiling and exited to see you. You are a my hero.
I was sitting in a bout of depression that I'm working on after finally ending my dance with alcoholism, and have binge'd out on the videos of this family and the comments....and I want to express so much immense love to Mark for making these videos and shining such a beautiful light on the beauty of aspects of life often shoved into the darkness....and so much love to the people in the comments showing such immense compassion, empathy and humanity...you give me hope for the state of our species.....and to this family, thank you for showing that you can be happy just by being. Sometimes - probably all the time - that is just enough. We just tend to forget. This series has given me a deep remembering, and my soul thanks you all. If you're reading still, I don't know you but I love you anyway for being a human in this human experience with me, trying to figure it out and doing our best. You're doing great. Celebrate the little victories, and always be compassionate. Every story matters. Including yours. What an amazing channel........helping me remember what an amazing world....
Very well put. Same to you. When you have dark days come back to this comment and read it to yourself like someone who cares wrote it to you. We so often will say the best things others but the worst things to our self. Use this as a reference to love yourself and remind yourself
You matter too. There are many beautiful moments in ours days even the darkest ones. And we can always do something to pull out of our heads. Meditate, walk, draw, write, read, take a bath, dance, sing, journal, clean, the list goes on. One love. Proud of you for taking steps to stops drinking and loving yourself
As the person above me said, remember to be kind to yourself as well!!! I don’t know you either but Jesus loves us all even if that’s not your following❤
Well done with the alcohol. I was an alcoholic 20 years ago after my sister died but made it back. I can drink and stop it just like that. Unfortunately a member in my family did not make it back so I wish journey every sucess😊.
Thank you for sharing your story. Alcholism and depression are very hard to deal with. My father being 72 years and us losing my mother to cancer took the step of joining AA and get the help he needs. He has battled this from his early teens and we have lived through it all these years. Its tough but I want you to remember your loved, you matter, your strong and its a choice and if you are too overwhelmed to choose - always seek help. Keeping you in my prayers - God bless 🙏
Very well said, you are right on all counts.
What Mark has done here is to inadvertently allow most everyone who watches to connect with the deepest part of our humanity. Our ultimate goodness. It's a place so many have lost touch with and didn't even know it.
Much strength to you on your journey. :)
I love Betty. She keeps them all together and always happy! So glad you are able to help them.
Yep, Betty's my favourite 💖💖💖
I adore Betty and Lorraine to bits!❤
It would be such a relief for her to be in a house that’s easier to maintain and it will be easier to have a cleaning crew visiting the house once a week.
These couches had a long life, I think their time is done!
@@ValouQcagree! A gardener & a cleaner or 2, once or twice a week to help maintain would be ideal. I'd happily volunteer a day if I lived closer. Australia is a little too far away! 😊
Lorraine seems to opening up to you more and more and hearing her talk a ill bit just made my heart smile! And what a sweet gesture of Ray pulling u up a chair to sit and watch some TV with him! Everyone seems to be more happier now then they were at first...Betty loves her visitors. I would love to meet up with a bunch of subscribers and go down there and help out in anyway we can...maybe cleaning inside the house and porch and whatever fixing outside might need just to go do something to help Incase they can't get the new house they'll at least have a clean home to live in
I've said the same thing about wanting to go help them in some way.
I was just telling my husband that I know we're not able to help but it would be nice if someone would go and clean their house for them. It just breaks my heart seeing it in such bad conditions and I know they're not able to clean it up properly themselves.
I'd love to help them get the newer home xoxo ❤
I’ve been following you for a long time and what you have done for these people is nothing short of a miracle. With your money you could be sitting on a beach somewhere but you chose to do this. It’s amazing. Your amazing. All the best to you.
Beautifully said! 🥰
I agree!
I, probably like a lot of people, began watching this family as a kind of curiosity. Upon first glance, they may seem a little different than most people you'll run into in life, but they really seem to be nice, loving group. I actually cried at one of these videos, when he came back to visit and was greeted with smiles and hugs. It's good to be reminded that we shouldn't judge others unfairly.
She doesn't need to wear shorts over there tho.
Yeah we are all humans with feelings. We all breath, eat, and respect the same way! May Lord Jesus shield this family from all harm, and sickness and shower them with happiness and good health. In JESUS name I pray 🙏 Amen.
I love just sitting on the porch with you, listening to all the conversations. Watching the dogs play and nobody on their phone..they spend more quality time together than anyone...happy safe travels Mark💙🌎✌️
It's great, isn't it? A family actually being a _family!_ No cellphones or laptops seducing them into their own little separate worlds. I see nothing but warm familial love here. It's good to see. 😀
Amen
@@danmasters1568good eye
The no phone is the best part. The world was better in the 80s when very few had mobile phones. Now everyones lazy and schools have gone to hell as they can google anything. My kids never had a school book one time they could bring home, only had 4 in a classroom but stayed in classroom. Think it was for looks😂😂😂.
They have a closer family than I do! ❤
This is the first time I’ve seen Lorraine act that way. Was so eager to greet them and give hugs. So awesome. I donated for their home and I hope everyone else does too. It would help them so much and is a way to give back for them opening their life up to us.
Me too
I would donate too, but I dont own a credit card, and I'm not gonna use my debit card online ever
@@vaekkriinhart4347 lol
Lorraine likes women, she’s always been friendly with Marks assistant. I imagine she has a fear of men that she doesn’t know seeing as she was SA & had Timmy as a result.
@@vaekkriinhart4347well I e got news for you , if you ever have used that card?’if you you set a pin for it and authorized it- you HAVE used it online -
Timmy wouldn’t change his coloring book for pizza! Good boy! And all those dogs wagging their tails just melted my heart.❤️
Haven't seen anyone turn down pizza in a long while. Dogs are great very friendly. God bless them all.
does she have on pants?????? She keeps tugging on her shirt!! First of, how can a house in that area cost $219,000? No way. Not to discourage the people that may donate money, I hope that you are aware that this new house will look bad in a matter of years. However, might not smell this bad for a long time.
I live In the UK and think our current cost of living crisis is hard but when you see the most lovely family living like this it really makes you realize how lucky us Brits are. I've not much money but donated towards the new house. I hope rays knee can be treated too, felt he wasn't himself on this visit x thanks mark for your channel and letting people into such interesting lives such as the Whittaker's
Trust me these people are better of than any British person these days, or anyone anywhere else in the world.
@@matthewblackwood4704 I think you are probably right actually! Our government is trash in England! The amount of freedom the whittakers have sounds pretty enticing
They may be nice people, but let's not play dumb. This isn't your average Appalachian family, and the vast majority can work and achieve a much higher quality of life than can these folk.
@@matthewblackwood4704a
Maybe elsewhere in the world but definitely not better than any British person..
@@matthewblackwood4704 To have a life this uncomplicated in such a beautiful place would no doubt be a blessing in disguise of sorts, like going back in time. It reminds me of being around my grandparents in the early 70s ,in their home, with everyone in my family all around just laughing and talking.
But then you throw in the history of incest in the family, along with the dire destitution, possible SA and rampant, heroin and fentanyl, use all over the Appalachian mountains, and it takes much credibility away from that feeling that they really have anything better. To be honest, they are drowning. They are getting older and most of the weight of taking care of everyone falls onto Betty who I believe is in her 70s or 80s. That’s a lot of stress Mark is an Absolute angel. ❤
I just love your relationship with people, Mark. The donations are flooding in already! I can't wait to see the next update of them in their new home
I'm so excited for them!!! God bless them all! 😘
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Then the next update when they turn the house into something that can be used in a Saw movie
@jonathaninteriano8389 stop projecting your inner hate onto others, it's really not attractive!
They spent the house money already so they will be staying put
Mark you are an inspiration to mankind. You restore my faith in humanity more and more just by being so genuine and always willing to help those in need.
I can’t believe in 1 days there’s 77k raised already!
That’s absolutely incredible! I feel like they will be able to get that house before winter at this rate!
I thought the same thing but some of those donations are weeks even months old. It's still amazing though.
shit.. I could use a house now that I think about it.
@DereliqueMahBAWLS Are you big Ed from 90 day fiance?
Realistically wont they not look after it, considering the house they live in now is a crap shoot? They have time to clean, why not do it and then expect people to donate for a new house..
The trailer needs more work than just cleaning. plus it is small and there isn't enough room, poor betty sleeps on the sofa so others can have proper beds. @@GreenSlug420
@ 1:12 hearing ray’s scream at the passing by truck absolutely cracked me up. he’s adorable lol. i love this family so much.
I thought the exact same thing.😊
Same
😂same
😂😂😂😂 🙋♂️🙋♂️
Is definitely meme worthy! Gotta love Ray! 😂
Mark, I've noticed how comfortable the whole family has gotten with you now. It's like night & day from the start of this until now. You can see the happiness and pride when they are showing you things or explaining things to you. Really hell of a job you've done well with them. People really enjoy
watching the
family. (Or any regulars on your channel). I'm sure their dogs need vet care too. Id sure donate to that. I'm sure Timmy needs coloring supplies and colors/pencils. You are doing such a fabulous job out there. Safe travels.
Peoples moods change when they're offered free goods/money
@pippadot679, they trust Mark and I'm sure that's pretty hard for people who live out in the middle of no where to do. I know I thoroughly enjoy watching the Whittakers. I am an animal lover as well and I also would donate to send their pets to the vet.
@@colby8104don't be bitter. I'm not one to accept charity and I'm also not quick to give just for the sake of giving but I did give a little to them and I think it's great that others have. But I don't think it's all the money and free stuff that has made them nicer or more accepting to Mark. They're just simple country people like I am and the kindness comes from building a relationship with others and seeing that you can trust them. They'd be the same regardless if Mark helped them or not. But anyway it's nothing wrong with helping others especially those who have lived the majority of their lives with hardly anything. Remember it wasn't the Whittakers that asked for anything it was Marks idea to help them and his audience who chose to donate. So if you feel inclined to help then please do they definitely need it and deserve it but if not then don't be mean towards those who want to or have.
@@colby8104they have been the same since he met them with nothing in his hands.
@@prophez23👍you're spot on. I don't recall ever hearing them ask for anything whatsoever.
They need their own channel. Weekly or monthly videos. I can't get enough of this precious family. I hope they're able to get that new house. Sending love and prayers to the Whittaker family!❤
now that would be interesting
Netflix series would make money but the image would come off as exploiting them ?
@@_flyinlion_8995this, I rather occasional updates then them getting exploited and plus it can get too invasive.
@@_flyinlion_8995better off just doing TH-cam, Netflix notoriously doesn’t pay well.
I agree, Netflix would totally exploit them. Keep it wholesome and unfiltered and safe. Safe for them. Don't let anyone exploit them for money. They apparently have family and people keeping them physically safe?...let us be the ones who keep them internet safe🤍 -Sharee
Maybe this happened but if not they really need a resource helper to get them good care for Rays knee etc. I’m sure they qualify for resources/assistance. They need a case worker of some type. To help get health check ups dental work etc.
Wow, Lorraine! What joy to see her get up, smiling and hugging. Such true emotions.
It's so great to see Lorraine interact finally. Such sweet folks, so glad you are now considered part of their family.
Had the biggest smile on my face when she came in for the greeting and hug!!
Amazing how one day out to the state fair can bring out that kind of joy and confidence.
Nice to see how talkative Lorraine was! 🤗 I’m so happy they have visitors from all over the country. Mostly, I’m grateful that you came into their lives to share such innocence and family with all of us. Thank you for all that you do for them & the immense joy that you’ve added to their lives as well as your viewers. God bless you 🙏🏼🩵🩵🩵
i love Lorraine. shes definitely #1 in my book, always smiling and listening, happy to see others enjoying themselves.
Timmy did pretty good coloring his bear and blond girl.
@@pinkythechihuahua3156 Yes that was some very impressive coloring!! He loved how proud Larry was of him. 🤗
Sweet old ray just wants a bud to watch tv with
I adore Timmy. I’d guess that he has the mind of a 4-5 year but he’s always so happy when Mark visits. And he was so proud about his coloring book. And he did such a good job!
Yes and did you see him yesterday on the rides at the State Fair? He was brave enough to go on the Ferris Wheel and was so happy! Go Timmy. Maybe he’ll have new inspiration to draw what he saw there 😊
He actually graduated high school
It was really nice how his Timmy's older relative was praising Timmy's coloring. You could tell it made Timmy happy. Timmy's used to always be writing on paper or pretending to. If I remember correctly Timmy's went to school. Timmy's seems to be getting progressively worse as he ages. Did he have a stroke? I wonder if Timmy's has a progressive disease.
@@hannakinn I just thought he switched to coloring because he likes to write sometimes and color at other times. But you may be right as he might be struggling more and that’s why he is focused on coloring now.
Everyone graduates nowadays. They don’t fail anyone as long as they attend.
Love seeing these guys so content in their own little part of the world. And those dogs look happy and very well cared for too.
The way Ray just yelled and waved at the passing car, the things they do make me laugh & it's so great to see them all in good health! Bless them all
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Larry is unsettling. His sudden heavy appearance after money was given and his clear cognitive control and trust he has on the rest of the family is concerning. He is very sly and calculated in his speech and demeanor. He seems to be reaping the most benefit in a family that deeply deserves a better life.
I definitely agree with you .
Agreed, but I'm pretty sure that the money is not going directly into his hand. The person who filmed this is very aware of the situation and making sure that the money is going where it should be. He took them shopping and I believe he bought the other house for them.
@@DhdhdDhdhd-xt5uz I assume you haven’t watched the more recent videos; the money does end up going directly to them and Larry and his daughter just got found out for taking the families money under false pretenses. Really sad stuff
Mark- There are so many layers of thoughts and emotions that come up when I watch these folks.
The level of compassion and love that you demonstrate towards the Whittakers in a world ( and country) that is is sick with a lack of compassion is remarkable.
Can we chip in and find a cleaning/maintenance service for them? I know it’s hard up there, but if they get a new place they need someone to help them keep it up so it doesn’t get trashed.
Love and helping others is the only real thing that remains in this world long after we are gone.
In the meantime, they desperately need pest control to come in and someone to do cleaning.
I really wish I lived anywhere near their area I would be there to help them all the time. I love doing that kind of stuff for people. There's a couple different families I help in my area.
@@baublesanddollsI agree with you and Ray needs a doctor. He's in pain. I feel bad for him. ❤
What you have done and created here Mark, is nothing short of a minor miracle. Amazing reach and way more interesting than shooting glamour shots! Kudos to you!
Very humble ❤. Mark asked Betty if it'd make her happy if she got a new house and she didn't hear him correctly, but she says she's happy 😊. She's happy with her life the way it is. I wish there were more people in this world that just appreciated what they have at the moment and quit trying to compete with the neighborhood. Peace and love to Mark, Lauren and the Whittaker Family ❤
you should raise money for rays knee help
A new house next door?!? That would be wonderful! I wish for a helper for Betty. To help her scrub the floors and do smaller upkeep things in the home. That would be very helpful to this special family!
I wonder if Ray could be given some Motrin and Tylenol a couple of times a day. That knee pain has to be miserable.
Two Whittaker family vids in two days? Awesome! I see a few families like them in other parts of West Virginia and it makes me so happy that they're beating treated so well. That's the first time I've seen Lorraine talk and hug, shes such a sweetheart. Mark, you and Lauren are making the world a better place.
Is Lauren his sister?
Me too!! Such a treat. I was going to save it for super time but couldn’t resist in the afternoon!! ❤
She’s his assistant. She was interviewed on his channel.
@@baublesanddollsOh okay I thought she was his girlfriend first but then I saw some say she's his sister, so I was bit confused. The Whittakers seem to like her, specially Timmy and the one legged dog Jack.
it really was crazy to see how Lorraine reacted after all those videos in which she didn't interact with Mark at all.
it warms my heart to see Lorraine warm up to you so much over the years. She has been trying to communicate more and more with you.
Good to see...it's heartwarming to see Lorraine come out of her shell. 💖💖💖
Things are improving thanks to you Mark.
@@CassieShakespeareThe poor woman was raped in '79 and gave birth to Timmy. I can't begin to comprehend the magnitude of trauma that caused her. It's wonderful to see her come out of her shell and learn to trust someone outside of the family. It also speaks volumes about Mark's genuine kindness, patience and generosity. God bless Mark and God bless this precious family. 😊
@@danmasters1568omg do you no who did that to her? Was it a family member?
@@natasharush8604 IDK
You know what’s really amazing is not a single fight or back talking amongst them ….and not one curse word !! Where I’m well off and drop F-bombs all over the place. Puts some self evaluation of your life.
In our affluent, bored society, it takes a family like the Whittakers to remind us of what it takes to be happy. They never let adversity interfere with loving and supporting each other. They show us that, even in the worst of circumstances, we can still CHOOSE how we respond to life's challenges. Happiness is not a passive emotional state; it's a conscious decision & moral obligation to others. In many ways, the Whittakers are living a richer life than the Kardashians. Mark, you've done the Whittakers and all of us a great service!
what a lovely sentiment. I couldn't agree more ❤
So true!!!! We as a society can learn SO much more from families like this than the Kardashians!
Great statement, the Rich don't have any idea what love is all about sometimes. Less is more and it shows.
Poor Ray, you can tell that he really is in a lot of pain with his knee. Praying for the Whittaker’s.
It is really great how respectful and kind you are to them all, Mark!
He obviously needs a knee replacement
Now they should be able to get state funding for medical….new car, new house, clean up not so easy.
Poor man atleast get him some aleve oral tablets and some rub on anti-inflammatory gel or something. At least until he can see a doctor asap
Yes, I hate to see Ray in pain. Probably the extra walking at the fair aggravated his knee. He needs some anti inflammatory medicine. I bet he could learn to use some muscle rub when it hurts. Just have to be sure he washes his hands afterwards.
I pray Ray can get some help and relief from his knee pain. He needs a good heating pad
Unfortunately, I think the new house would just end up the same eventually. They need someone to come in on a regular basis to help keep it clean and healthy.
Exactly. A mansion would eventually turn into a pit if nobody takes care of it.
Is larry swindling them out of the money?
Somebody is
I believe so😮
My goodness Lorraine has become much more verbal.... I believe you are helping these people out very well mark..
I think she’s usually vocal at home but is getting more comfortable
I highly doubt he is helping them going once or twice a year
@@amilyon553i’m pretty sure he’s helping behind the scenes of course when he’s not physically there though, how many times does he physically have to be there ?
What you guys do for this family is unbelievable…you’re great human beings
Did the part get cut out of when Kenneth tells the reason he moved his building down the road.
He said that Ray and Timmy kept breaking in stealing his snack cakes and sodas.
😆
While watching this my husband pointed out how amazing it is that this family knows exactly what the other one is saying with out even having full words! Just beautiful I love the Whittakers and really hope everyone can pull together like Mark said even 5 dollars and help them get that new house!
Ur married to captain obvious ?? How cool
@@Blacktd-h1d Yet having good manners eluded you.
@@Blacktd-h1doh wow you're so clever and edgy 🙄 go away
The dogs are having as much fun as the people...The family!
@@Blacktd-h1dain’t no need for sarcasm.
Thank you Mark for the bonus time with the Whittakers. I honestly can’t get enough of this honest and wholesome family. I would love to see them move to Beverly Hills, but next door is just fine. I can’t think of a more deserving family. I am blessed to have spent time with them. Poor Ray, his knee is really bringing him down. I pray he finds relief. Somehow I can understand his and Timmy’s way of communicating, just one more surprise the Whittakers have blessed me with. Thank you Mark for bringing this blessing into my life.
It was a nice update
id watch that show!
Wait a minute. That house in poor, economically repressed WV, in the middle of nowhere is TWO HUNDRED NINETEEN THOUSAND DOLLARS??? Seriously?? I must live under a bubble of the only affordable housing left in the US
I thought that was very high also. Not trying to sound rude, but no one is going to pay that kind of money & live next to the Whittakers. The neighborhood seriously effects the price, if they want to sell they will take a lot less.
@@Harley57 Right? Central Illinois here, near Peoria. 1700 ft² with a finished basement, three bedroom brick ranch, fenced-in yard, huge rooms, big stone fireplace in a nice neighborhood. Not like a high dollar modern subdivision but a nice neighborhood where it's nothing but brick ranches. 111,000 dollars
They're scamming Mark.
Their family owns it and are offering to sell it to themselves for 220k
They're hustlers
@@ChristinaFromTH-cam That's the thing. I know he's very street smart because of all the work he's done in skid row but these people, it's in their blood. I know how hillbillies work. Their born scammers.
@@ChristinaFromTH-camyou called it
This family is the sweetest. They didn’t have a choice to be born the way they are but with the lack of education, finance n health they are really starting to fade out of the “surviving” stage and into “thriving” with all the help they are getting now. Look at em go! Loraine more social, Betty probably less stressed, ray getting some health help and tummy getting to enjoy the fun things in life. Mark u really did change some lives here and I’m sure Betty and Larry are extremely happy with the help they have now. Blessings to you and lauren! ❤
that 1 guy still ain't in jail for SA some lady in the woods
What guy do you keep talking about? @@mannykiller
@@mannykiller Who are you talking about?
@trustnone13 yea I'm curious too
TIMMY, NOT "TUMMY "...JESUS CHRIST
I love the affirmations they give one another. Like with Timmy’s picture, they encouraged & give positive affirmation! This family is precious!
It reminded me of my grandparents complimenting my coloring as a kid. You could tell it made Timmy so happy, so sweet.
I thought that too, they might now have much, but they have each other, and they absolutely sure do love one another, the way they where all genuinely proud of Timmy’s work 🥹❤️
I wouldn't mind sitting on the porch with this family. Such beautiful souls. Betty is an encyclopedia of the family history and everyone's ages. She's a real angel on earth taking care of everybody.
Yes she is a blessing to her family.
that 1 guy still ain't in jail for SA some lady in the woods
@@mannykillerWho ray? Of course hes not and never will be. When it comes to people with sever handicaps shit happens and its on the handler not the person. I work at a special needs camp and we have to be on top of the guys there especially ones that are new beacuse they can do some fucked shit sometimes and you just have to make sure to watch them because they dont know better. They dont know right from wrong. Also im sure they talked with the people up the road and figured out the situation to make sure it didnt happen again not to mention they said it happened a long time ago.
Ray just has a speech impediment, he knows right from wrong. Other than that he is just old and not that smart..@@mech0p
@@blackBrad18 Hes got more than just an impediment he's def got some severe intellectual disabilities and has the mentality of like a 6 yr old. So while he may no right from wrong on somethings its taken him almost 70yrs to get to this point. They said the sa happened a long time ago probably in his 20s-30s so you can assume what he knew was at the mentality of someone younger than that at that time. I mean even in the video they were talking about how wild he used to be.
Even today 219k seems outragous for a home like that in rural west virginia.
I also was thinking it was overpriced, even with six acres. I expected to see a real house when they were talking about the price, before they showed it.
They're scamming Mark
Their family already owns that and are offering to sell it to themselves for 220k from Mark.
"Imma hustler, baby" should play in the background when they open their mouths.
Would have been 79K just 4 years ago
I agree with you. I live I. Eastern panhandle WV and here, about 2 hours from DC, average house is about 200 thousand. No way that house should cost that amount. I am a retired teacher and have met other teachers from SW West Virginia. They have told me that 3 bedrooms and 2 baths costs about 35,000$. Now this was about 10 years ago.
The way they support Timmy with his drawing is great. I have come to enjoy this family alot.
All families could learn a thing or two from the Whittakers
its crazy how we 'normal' people envy something so beautiful that they have@@lez_ghozt
@@lez_ghoztlike what?
I agree, @matt684! Especially Larry. I’m pretty sure I heard him say how proud of him he was and how beautiful his work was. Timmy was beaming! Such a sweet family.
@@momto2342dude this family is the way it is because of unthinkable acts. Acts that haven't been normal in society since the 1500s.
There's a reason royal families who "kept it close in the family" eventually lost all power because their children couldn't function properly due to birth defects.
The look on rays face when he saw mark walk in was priceless and definately made my day. Your good people Mark, they are blessed to have met you
4:59. Ray his after this.
Ray seems to have come the furthest since meeting mark, hes proud of his new jeans even, from the first time meeting he wasnt bothered by anything, now he treats mark like family and is so talkative and relaxed and proud of himself, heartwarming ❤
And for that reason I'm gonna donate, I'm a mother of three, unfortunately raising them alone as life didn't turn out as expected for my family, but if I can spare a 10 I'll do it
Donating to rich people is dumb. He has more money then u no point
It was so sweet when Ray pulled up a chair so Mark could watch TV with him ... and then asked Marrk to check his leg ...🥲
Timmy and Lorraine have also really blossomed
They seem like very nice people. Wish someone would help them clean up that mess tho. Can’t be good for anyone to be living like that.
Mark, what you've done here is nothing short of a spectacle of the human spirit. This entire saga has been heartwarming, informative, eye opening, and fun. This family not only deserves respect, but they deserve to be seen in a different light that you've very much provided. They look happier and healthier than EVER. Thanks for sharing this experience with us.
PS - Glad to see Jack is OK!
💯 percent agree with you !!!!
I felt my perspective shifting throughout these Whittaker videos. In a time when “it’s all about me” this family reminds of of the strengths of unity. For all it disturbed me it equally enlightened me
Calm down
Well said. Mark has been a god send.
@@steverussel9842go play with a cat.
Lorraine's response to you two was precious. Of course, Ray is just adorable. I hope everyone donates. I agree, that house is overpriced for where it is. Sellers are just being greedy right now, but sometimes the greed is absurd like this one. The location simply isn't worth it. You have my donation. Good luck with finding them a home.
How heartwarming to see everyone so excited to see you. Even the dogs were excited and Lorraine actually got up, tried to speak and was hugging. What a difference you’ve made for this family. It’s so nice that Ray’s in clean clothes and excited to show his new jeans. I’m sure he feels so much better about himself. Tylenol Arthritis would really help him.
I’m betting that the asking price for that house is inflated because they know you help them and know you’ll pay more. I’m hoping it can happen for them and they get more realistic with the price. The house they’re in sadly needs to be condemned. If each subscriber donates $5 it would definitely help. Thanks for doing what you do. 👏🏻💖
I was thinking the asking price for that property is enormously inflated due to a kind of "famous by proxy" mindset of the owner. I wonder if it was built on spec. after the Whittaker's became so widely known. In any event $219 grand seems absolutely absurd. Will be interested to see what happens.
It looks to be a mobile home, no way worth $219K
Of course they're glad to see him - they want more money..
It might be or might not be considering it comes with a lot of land most likely. I don’t know too much about residential property in that area.
Looks like the land is worth more than the house
They should be so happy that Mark came into their lives. They do seem to take advantage of Mark ( he is full of love) they don't realize how much it costs to go to see them, and pay for all the things he does for them. The trips to Wal-Mart aren't cheap. They seem to expect it,
I wish we could see family pictures of all these guys including their parents back from the 60s and 70s.
Me too. Surely Betty has a family photo album
Mark you have given the Whittaker’s a great sense of normalcy that otherwise wouldn’t have happened. Your kind heart and generosity along with compassion make a huge difference in their lives. You’ve opened them up to a new outlook and can clearly see they love you in their own way. The fact that people come from everywhere to befriend and visit them shows that we still have kind people in this world. I realize you may not always get a fair comment from certain people but you taking time to open your heart says a lot about you as a person. I’m sorry I forgot the young lady’s name but she deserves credit as well. It takes a special person to have patience and good heartedness in a world with so much negativity. Thanks again from a friend in Telluride Colorado.
Just don't forget to Tell ur ride if u ever want 2 visit them Stewart
Did they know normalcy before Mark rocked up to their property? If not, how did Mark show them this if they didn't know that this existed and how did they learn something they didn't know anything about? Basically how did this inbred family learn normalcy and how did Mark make them understand that this was normalcy?
Unfortunately I think people “visit “ them for entirely the wrong reasons.
I'm really surprised that they don't have state case workers working with them. Like, personal caretakers for each person/ per household. Or, chore workers who stop by 2/3 times a week.
If they had chore workers & caretakers to help them either daily, or, a few times a week - their lives would be a lot more simpler & their home would be more organized, clean & livable!!! Not so ..... messy/broken/ & unclean.
Amazing to see the effects of friendship. From the first video to now, you can see how at ease the family has got with Mark. The engagement has increased noticeably.
It'd be amazing if you donated a few dollars to the purchase of the house.
Hope you can get enough for furniture too!
@@deborahrich2666 Amen! 👍
@@dottieparker7274 stop trying to extort people
I Think the more reasonable would be to put a modular home on thir property It could be done in just a few days and a lot cheaper
Love the positive comments ❤ I hope Ray feels better ! The dogs are so adorable ! I can’t wait to see this family again!
I live in Australia, came across these videos by accident, have watched all of them and so have some of my friends as well now, these people are probably happier than families that think they are much better off than the Whittakers, well I am much better off in money terms but I think they are much happier in life, a good life lesson for all I think, Good luck in the future for the Whittakers . Just donated a small amount of money to get them there new house, that would help them out so much, please help if you can. Cheers from down under.
The Whittakers now have a whole host of guardian angels thanks to this channel along with the locals that keep watch over them. Now they can live the rest of their lives in relative peace and have the essentials taken care of so they can be comfortable. What a wonderful thing to take them to the fair and give them a break from the routine of their lives and have some fun! I think the inability to communicate vocally for Ray, Timmy and Loraine belies the fact they actually understand much more than they can communicate back.
Ray is miserably in pain and in need of a doctor. That’s the reality of the whole episode.
4:59
Look at that fear and pain in rays eyes as
Mark completely wrecks his knee and Ray hides the rest of the time.
Ray was fine before mark mashed it.
They must not have health insurance. I feel bad for him. Advil is not cutting it. Not to mention the poor guy doesn't have a bed to rest in
I am not saying that we shouldn't help, it's clear they need assistance. I might be in the minority but I don't think it will be a good thing to give them a house to take care of. This isn't a statement of hate or anything and I apologize if it comes off that way. Seeing how close they are as a family is pretty amazing. But what happens to everyone when the two older that can take care of things pass away?
I'll be the first to say that I don't know the answer.
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Awww it warmed my heart so much when Larry was telling Timmy how good of a job he did on his coloring book. Timmy was so proud 🥹