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I like watching your channel but the English subtitles are a major distraction. What's the point of English subtitles when the narrative is in english? Using the excuse that some people speak english as a 2nd language doesn't make any sense considering they all watch english with subtitles in their native language not english subtitles because it makes absolutely no sense. I have travelled extensively and there are absolutely no countries with the exception of the US that posts english subtitles if the narrative is in english.
Women seem to want the guy they can't have or the guy they want to mold into someone they want. When they get that guy or try to control him or have caught him. They are bored and move on to the next. They need the constant dopamine rush.
You are such a different person than Myron, the followers for each of you are completely different categories of people, don't stoop down to his level, it's obvious that he is worried about losing face.
Sadia is correct in that women’s options shift as they get older. The thing that Sadia doesn’t say here is that as the women get older, they don’t want the older men. They want men their own age, however, the men their age (30-45) tend to look for younger women, and that is the ‘wall’ that is spoken about.
@@rf4537 It’s more common overseas. In Latin America, men ages 40 - 55 have access to women ages 25 - 35. Especially, if the man is fit, fairly decent looking (5 or greater), and financially stable.
@@rf4537Also, a man who wants children. Life is about trade-offs. Men are forced to accept that reality. Yet women think that doesn't apply to them. Buckle up for turbulence ahead, lol
She is right about wives starting to go full mommy mode and forgetting she is also a wife and neglecting her hubby. I had set an exit date in my marriage and my wife realized i was emotionally detatching and realized her mistake in the relationship snd she did a 180. Now 27 yrs and happy.
@@shawnfallahi5616 but her mentality is for provision for herself and children, so it better include intimacy with husband or she may find herself a single mom with only half the time with her children.
Sadia is 100000% correct when she says men find nurturing women highly attractive. I fell really hard for someone who had this quality and I always was seeking it out with women I started to meet after her.
Not only is Sadia's understanding of male/female dynamic so expert, she's so real and practical about it too. The part about "you don't need a pyschologist, you need pt .... you're too overweight to be here" hits so hard. That's so honest and real. They way she can break down a complex topic down to basic things is so impressive and I feel like I've leveled up just listening to all of this.
Not every woman wants top 10 guys. Y’all are so delusional from watching this red pill. In reality, women date and marry those of their class and circle.
She is brilliant. She offers a different and realistic perspective in many issues. She cleared up so many issues I have been wondering for while. The world is in need of more women with a brain like hers.
@@32AA32 and why the hell not..do you expect women to sit on the coach so you can cheat on her. And throw her life away. The best years of her life. FOR YOU 🤡
Sadia, your words of wisdom have helped me subconsciously for a while, but now after a little "wake up call" and sitting through a whole podcast i think im ready, thank you!
Well....wealthy men can and do attract the top 1% of attractive women. Even when and if the wealthy dude is 20 plus Years older and is fat and ugly, he's STILL getting the top 1% attractive women chasing em down
Sadia is a very wise woman. She understands that both sides are different, deeply flawed and have work to do. I love an impartial view on the dynamics of relationships.
“For a a woman, the offers are endless.”Three points: If you live your life online, it’s true that there can be endless connections -and not just for women-yet nothing can replace the personal human interactions, the human touch. There is a big difference between chatting online and living together in matrimony. Second: The paradox of choice is that more choice you have, the more you are bound to go for no option at all. So I am not sure why men should “wake up” or why she says they overestimate themselves? Men and women are not two separate groups, they are one. What one does directly affects the other. Lastly: “Respect your body. Go to the gym.” There are people who go to gym every day and still die of a heart attack because they eat junk. So it’s not that simple. Nutrition actually accounts usually for over 80% of health, 20% is physical activity.
My ex girlfriend was a gym instructor (airobics classes), and she brought me to one of there AW events, it was silly much nonhelthy stuff, they basicly trained hard soo they could eat lots of junk acasionally. Soo you are soo right! And I don't know if all that training stress is excactly 100% healty. If it is endless why all makeup and operations first.
You like skinny dudes??? 😂 once you get past a certain age you lose 10% of your muscle mass per year. I hate it if I don't look hot with my clothes off for, for my woman and I expect her to be hot and in shape for me. Of course there are people who like skinny sex, and others who like chubby sex 😂😂😂😂😂 but that ain't me.
whats more likely to happen you die of a heart attack as an active person or you die of a heart attack as someone that never gets off their ass? no one said going to the gym makes you immune to an pre existing conditions or mortality in general its just healthier and more visually acceptable in general than being overweight. what working out does is increase your RMR which allows you to burn more calories which makes the 80% more effective. if you dont want to go to the gym just say so...i would love it if more people didnt it would be alot easier to get stuff done in there lol so please spread your logic to as many people as possible lmao...
It depends, some still have that young girl (look) in their 40s but until you get up on her and get to know her past her self representative, she’s just for sex and love bombing you to hook you.
Because 87% of women believe that they deserve a man that's in the top 5% of men. Well...the top 5% of men are able to have the best pick of the litter...this means that by the time these delusional woman are in their mid to late 30s....find themselves still single...haha. now, they have to settle for a man that she NEVER gave the time of day to her entire adult life. Because of this, it's caused MANY married men(good men) to have a wife who doesnt respect him, doesnt love and care for him like a good wife should/does. It's sad (for the man)
Pills( blue, red , yellow , green, black )are needed. I can't wait until she gets married. Sadia is a princess who needs to live and get some experiences.
Facts! This is ruining the world and lives. It is truly sad. On one hand, we have men and women lying to their single audiences by giving them bad advice, and then going home to their husband or wife. While on the other hand, single people are following the bad advice that is guaranteed to keep them single forever and lifelong consumers of this type of content, by listening to other singles. It proves that being educated doesn't equate to being intelligent. I really hate this for us.
Wow amazing Sadia. There's so much to learn from her when I listen to her pouring out a lot of practical ideas so fluently and spontaneously. A perfect role model for most women!
I'm am up at 330am every day, working out at 4am, at work at 6am as a Journeyman Lineman. It's not just CEO's that do this. Honestly I hate working out and if I had to do it at 5pm I wouldn't do it. So I get it done and over with before the day starts. I'm 47 and look better than I did when I was 20 because Im consistent, watch my food intake and rarely drink.
Almost no CEOs actually do this. They want YOU to do it, because it's good for their profits. It's a simple manipulation that so many fools fall for. However, if you're self-employed, that's different
13:30 i didn’t drink until my 2nd semester of freshman year in college. i used to talk to all the girls sober and could interact fine (of course i had approach anxiety but would get over it after the first few). 1st semester junior year i was averaging 3 blackouts a week. my reliance on alcohol to approach girls became so bad that i literally told myself that i had to be on the edge of blacking out before i had the confidence to approach them. i’m 2 years graduated and 8 months sober and learning to be my authentic self without alcohol in social situations where i want to approach a girl. still working on it, but i’m so much more confident and proud of myself because i decided i didn’t want to rely on something to let me do what i want to do.
It is most beautifully explained for middle age people. It covers so many subjects, it get me thinking for many hours. Every one 17 and anwords should watch this!!! I will show my girls when they grow up. p.s. I have learned a lot about my self too. Many many thanks :)
I’m 59 I’m kinda short… but I’m fit.. very physically fit actually and if I were 6’2” I would be slaying the ladies in all ages ..I’m actually getting more women now than I did when I was in my was in my 20s-30s-40s.. I was married for a decade.. but it was actually after that marriage ended that I started attracting more attention from women.. I work out 3 times a week, all muscle groups and women look. More than ever before.. I don’t know why… maybe it’s because women around my age see their other options and they didn’t take care of their bodies.. but I get younger women too.. I’m seeing a 27 year old woman who I met a few months ago.. and she’s exceptionally beautiful.. everyone stares at her…and she’s mentally attractive too, in fact I’m falling hard for her,.. but there is another young one pretty much the same , that I just got a number for…also in her 20s maybe closer to 30.. all I can Sysco to the men out there… get your body into good physical condition.. the best you can..you’ll be amazed
I was asked at a dance club what i was having as he wanted some because he saw he do happy dancing and in high spirit. I told him it was H2O. He did not believe me. If you are confident, love yourself snd live a healty in and fit lifestyle, you don't need drugs to make you good. Period!
When I had my own apartment, I didn't have a TV or a phone line connection or even an internet connection. And I got more things done in my life if I needed the internet for online banking I went round to my parent's house and used their internet to pay bills. I read more books listen to music got better as cooking food, my fitness got better I enjoyed dating more had no distractions, even had a basic mobile phone talk and text. I miss those days.
I disagree with her assertion on women as they age. Statistics shows the age bracket where women are productive and after which they depreciate by nature which some of them are trying to slow down by doing aurgumentation to any part of their body. As the woman ages the attraction diminishes. Using psychology to analysis human behavioral actions sometimes goes in tangent to the reality.
@@martian.07_I think she knows because in one podcast she ascertain that she was misled with the norm of going to school, empower yourself, make money and be independent and missing out one of the part of life, bonding in relationship with someone within your age bracket. She is just trying not to hurt someone people's feel by sitting on the fence.
As a Man who had plenty of women I must say: save this woman. Save Saidia. Feminine energy through the roof, intelligent, conservative. The type of woman I would marry immediately. So Saidia I am coming for you 😁
Sadia, you make WAY too much good sense ! Keep it up though. Definitely we are ALL looking for that connection. I probably knew that already but it's great to be reminded. Many thanks.
Hi Sadia! You are one of the wisest women I've ever heard speak. From listening to your podcasts I am pretty sure your wisdom is due a lot with having been reared by both your mother and father. And your parents did a wonderful job instilling their values with you. I wish more people will listen to your words of wisdom. Thank you for being such a beautiful human being. You are a great beacon of light in this world full of so much ignorance and darkness.
That's exactly what I think, but I believe a lot of what she said intuitively comes so normal to her becouse of her muslim family background, as myself being muslim, I can so relate to what she explains and approve myself due to same sort of mindset always within the islamic communities, one advising the other continuely to avoid personal pain and built healthy relationship. so thanks to Sadia and the host making this podcast available to humanity.
Personal observations and analysis have nothing to do with upbringing. Her parents probably haven’t noticed any of this and probably couldn’t reach her conclusions.
@@AA-nb2kyLOL Muslims don’t talk about building healthy relationships. Nor do they talk about love. Most Muslims come from cultures where it’s all about duty and some cultures force duties towards in laws, without love and respect in return. It’s not a muslim thing at all which is why most Muslim countries have awful records on women.
Sadia thank you for your work. Many questionable situations which happened with previous partner became more clear to me now. I learnt a few things and I really need to set more boundaries.
I really enjoyed her fresh perspective and deep inside lotta good wisdom, even though as humans, if we are really using half our minds, this information that’s being displayed here is a neat wisdom and understanding deeper consequences of our actions, especially when it comes to partnership, and the need for connection is so diluted now bye our phones and social platforms it’s all illusion, and we have more depression in the world than ever now so that should be enough to send the signals to the brain that whatever is happening is not good for our complete well-being
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@@peterwilliams6361 You are disgusting. You post this exact same thing in countless videos. Same exact words from both people meaning it's a scam. God will judge you for your wickedness.
“When men come to me saying they feel lonely, if they’re overweight, I say you need a personal trainer not a psychologist. You’re too fat to be here.” Facts. Overweight folks should be taxed extra for their irresponsibility and the economic damage that produces to our health care system.
Same goes for men too. I don't even like MYSELF when I'm fat, lethargic and out of shape. My hormones, testosterone, feels DEAD. I like to stay active, keep the blood and endorphins flowing.
I am in my 50s and if I were single, I would not desire a woman below 30 other than sex. (Don't ridicule me for being honest). I will rather be with a woman over 40s who is successful and who can stimulate my mind with common interests, mindset and experiences. I don't even mind if they have children. Sadia's third eye is always open.
What I realised is that psychology is an interplay of various systems. Sadia has not only built an extensive understanding of all these systems but she’s figured out how they influence each other and drawn all the relationships. She’s hectic. In life, we meet defining professionals. People who show you what real competence is. Sadia was that force for me - within the field of psychology. I thought it was quite a lot of BS till I listened to her longer podcasts/interviews
A bit of googling and a few sources say that she's 35. I don't know what a well-adjusted 35 year old woman sounds like - I'll check then decide from there
You are achieving your goal. Listening to you on top of a recent connection gives me the deep confirmation that I should delete material that has had its claws in for too long. Thank you. ❤
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched in a long time . She is really smart and beautiful and not showing her body attributes like most girls do on the internet nowadays but the guy had the best questions really good content.
Sadia really needs to build her spirituality. The physical is different from the spiritual as we see now. Sex is physical, Emotion is spiritual, so a mans main physical goal is sex, so it will be so contradicting to mention a mans sexual desire to his emotional cravings because everyones spiritual level is different, just how she speaks more of masculine correction as feminine, showing her spiritual imbalance.
I love your suggestion about alcohol being pseudo confidence. And yes, then because it’s natural for human beings, that if somethings good then more is better, this ends up being a trap that causes people to over drink make fools of themselves, and eventually become addicted, and then narcissism usually sets in. The Bible is very clear that we are to remain sober, when we live intoxicated, we literally lose portions of our brain that serve to protect us, and pre frontal Cortex etc, dull and we then drop our inhibitions . At this point, then people often sin, or do acts of unrepentant sin that then gets that person judged, and when a person is judged in the courts of heaven, they are handed over to the devil, and the devil now owns them and the devil only comes to steal, kill and destroy them.. remaining sober, keeps us in touch, hearing the still small voice of the Holy Spirit that does Guid us , guides our conscience . In a nutshell, this is the reality
They can't be endless. A 21 or 22 year old chick has men of every range to pick from that will take her seriously depending on her looks and behavior. A good looking 50 or 60 year old woman may have younger men that will smash, but they overwhelmingly wouldn't take her seriously long term.
this video is jam packed with important caveats that are needed in the modern society,sadia is a woman that women should look up to.i actually want to make reaction videos to unpack and to further divulge into the things she is taking about
I don’t hate it, I just know she wrong about certain things; and I am ok with her being wrong because most of what she says is valid. Chew up the meat and spit out the bones is what I say.
wow Sadia not only you have a beauty and highly intellectual you use your brain to help & model people troubling understanding the problems in modern society not knowing the underneath the traditional culture still much needed till these days. You delivered your words so clear what’s good & bad for society whats valuable or not.
Sadia, you've made good choices not only because you were reared that way but because of you are. Some people with the same religion and culture and parental structures will still go out and do whatever. So kudos to you
@@josephfreeflowingnatural8907 when she mentions George Clooney as a man of high value...I deduce that this woman has not had a happy romantic relationship and has not yet found the right man for her....talking about her failed marriage brings us nothing .... the important thing are her ideas, when I searched for her on google I discovered that she is Pakistani, I understand her way of analyzing ... women in Muslim countries grow up with a lot of complex ... the proof is that she says that masculanity is to have limits bondries .... her ideas are interesting for women like her not for women who were born in developed countries where the woman has had almost all her rights for centuries
Sadia the only woman that ever told me this about people pleasing and setting boundaries. Else it's only made sense out her mouth. Fact is I've learned all this through hard experience and the woman not going to tell me this in the moment nor help me improve in the time we spend together. Even naturally doing this women got a way of reducing boundaries or letting you ruin yourself. I see my partner slipping imma correct them and help keep them at their best. I'm done here.
"The offers are endless." - Over 35, it's harder biologically to have children. That's what they are talking about. Not about having offers or not having offers.
What Sadia is talking about in the beginning is what I call the illusion of options set forth by dating apps and social media. It’s sexual attention women are getting post 30 not relationship attention.
What can I do as a woman, to be more attractive? I'm 19 years old, but I don't want to be the one who has to cross the wall losing me, being like the rest! Sadia is becoming my mentor, Thank you for the content👏🏻
Sadia you are extremely brilliant.. you really dealt with this topic with great understanding of what should and should not. Thank you for helping out… I got my answer to my problem watching this podcast and I’m going home to be a better Boyfriend 😊
I’m 55 and stopped inviting girls 20-30 to holidays about 3 years ago. Instead I go to places with a vivid nightlife (Mykonos, Ibiza etc) and hookup with girls there which saves me money. Even if I was to start inviting girls to holiday again, I would never invite anyone above 30. There is just no need for it as there are more than enough younger ones. So yes, a 30+ woman will still get laid but she will find it increasingly difficult to get something in return.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
But basically she is just saying everything we talks constantly on Red Pill podcasts. And she is quite manipulative in some points when comes up to this topic.
This woman is speaking facts. So much wisdom on so much different topic, maybe she'll be the one to solve the great crisis of our generation in a changing world (celibacy/hikikomori/lack of love/OF) ???!
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I like watching your channel but the English subtitles are a major distraction. What's the point of English subtitles when the narrative is in english? Using the excuse that some people speak english as a 2nd language doesn't make any sense considering they all watch english with subtitles in their native language not english subtitles because it makes absolutely no sense. I have travelled extensively and there are absolutely no countries with the exception of the US that posts english subtitles if the narrative is in english.
I'm from somalia
Name dirir Mohmoud
I'm excited for your amazing programme and very attractive topics
Isit make me pleasure.
Women seem to want the guy they can't have or the guy they want to mold into someone they want. When they get that guy or try to control him or have caught him. They are bored and move on to the next. They need the constant dopamine rush.
i was gonna suscribe to your patreon but then I watched the video and you said that you'd have someone in india responding.. .
You are such a different person than Myron, the followers for each of you are completely different categories of people, don't stoop down to his level, it's obvious that he is worried about losing face.
Sadia is correct in that women’s options shift as they get older. The thing that Sadia doesn’t say here is that as the women get older, they don’t want the older men. They want men their own age, however, the men their age (30-45) tend to look for younger women, and that is the ‘wall’ that is spoken about.
plenty of old 40s hit me up online and in my 20s and theyr hot cougars looking for young overseas husbands
Unless that old dude meets her intellectually and physically at her age
@@rf4537 It’s more common overseas. In Latin America, men ages 40 - 55 have access to women ages 25 - 35. Especially, if the man is fit, fairly decent looking (5 or greater), and financially stable.
@@rf4537Also, a man who wants children. Life is about trade-offs. Men are forced to accept that reality. Yet women think that doesn't apply to them. Buckle up for turbulence ahead, lol
Facts this will hit Sadia hard aswell cuz i feel she still believes she has endless options which is not true. @@30minutesLess
She is right about wives starting to go full mommy mode and forgetting she is also a wife and neglecting her hubby. I had set an exit date in my marriage and my wife realized i was emotionally detatching and realized her mistake in the relationship snd she did a 180. Now 27 yrs and happy.
This is why you don't get married. have kids and pay child support if you want a family. Everything is temporary including relationships.
@@raddadizationit's all good, she is now 55, I'm 51 and she enthusiastically jumps my bones nightly.
@@johnjefferson1260good stuff man 🙏💓
Glad she was able to see the signs
a womans biology isnt to take care of YOU, ..instead it is for her offspring. But it sounds like some correction happened, and you are blessed :)
@@shawnfallahi5616 but her mentality is for provision for herself and children, so it better include intimacy with husband or she may find herself a single mom with only half the time with her children.
Sadia is 100000% correct when she says men find nurturing women highly attractive. I fell really hard for someone who had this quality and I always was seeking it out with women I started to meet after her.
Not only is Sadia's understanding of male/female dynamic so expert, she's so real and practical about it too. The part about "you don't need a pyschologist, you need pt .... you're too overweight to be here" hits so hard. That's so honest and real. They way she can break down a complex topic down to basic things is so impressive and I feel like I've leveled up just listening to all of this.
The offers are endless but not with the top 10 dudes that she likes, she is now forced to change her tastes
… and be resentful about it.
Tastes change anyway as you age. A 40 yo woman does not want anything serious with a 25 yo manchild.
Ues but a 40 years top man dont want a 40 old years woman but a 25 one
Not every woman wants top 10 guys. Y’all are so delusional from watching this red pill. In reality, women date and marry those of their class and circle.
@@christinah2109 and that's whu you have 50 percent divorces
She is brilliant. She offers a different and realistic perspective in many issues. She cleared up so many issues I have been wondering for while. The world is in need of more women with a brain like hers.
Totally AGREE.
💯 Amen 🙏🏻
That's how women from middle east think
Yeh. You watch the video and BAM you become irresistible.
@@32AA32 and why the hell not..do you expect women to sit on the coach so you can cheat on her. And throw her life away. The best years of her life. FOR YOU 🤡
Sadia, your words of wisdom have helped me subconsciously for a while, but now after a little "wake up call" and sitting through a whole podcast i think im ready, thank you!
You can only attract what you are. One must be the desire they seek. High value people desire high value people, so always seek to be your best self.
Well....wealthy men can and do attract the top 1% of attractive women. Even when and if the wealthy dude is 20 plus Years older and is fat and ugly, he's STILL getting the top 1% attractive women chasing em down
Well spoken brother! ✨❤
Hundo.
Sadia is a very wise woman. She understands that both sides are different, deeply flawed and have work to do. I love an impartial view on the dynamics of relationships.
It’s not impartial at all
@@AshnesssHaha, the man didn't see it but you do 😂
“For a a woman, the offers are endless.”Three points: If you live your life online, it’s true that there can be endless connections -and not just for women-yet nothing can replace the personal human interactions, the human touch. There is a big difference between chatting online and living together in matrimony.
Second: The paradox of choice is that more choice you have, the more you are bound to go for no option at all. So I am not sure why men should “wake up” or why she says they overestimate themselves?
Men and women are not two separate groups, they are one. What one does directly affects the other.
Lastly: “Respect your body. Go to the gym.” There are people who go to gym every day and still die of a heart attack because they eat junk. So it’s not that simple. Nutrition actually accounts usually for over 80% of health, 20% is physical activity.
My ex girlfriend was a gym instructor (airobics classes), and she brought me to one of there AW events, it was silly much nonhelthy stuff, they basicly trained hard soo they could eat lots of junk acasionally.
Soo you are soo right! And I don't know if all that training stress is excactly 100% healty.
If it is endless why all makeup and operations first.
You like skinny dudes??? 😂 once you get past a certain age you lose 10% of your muscle mass per year. I hate it if I don't look hot with my clothes off for, for my woman and I expect her to be hot and in shape for me. Of course there are people who like skinny sex, and others who like chubby sex 😂😂😂😂😂 but that ain't me.
Sleep/Rest = 60%
Diet = 30%
Physical Fitness/Gym = 10%
whats more likely to happen you die of a heart attack as an active person or you die of a heart attack as someone that never gets off their ass? no one said going to the gym makes you immune to an pre existing conditions or mortality in general its just healthier and more visually acceptable in general than being overweight. what working out does is increase your RMR which allows you to burn more calories which makes the 80% more effective. if you dont want to go to the gym just say so...i would love it if more people didnt it would be alot easier to get stuff done in there lol so please spread your logic to as many people as possible lmao...
What Sadia is pretending to herself is that the offers get less lucrative as the females smv drops….
Sadie thank you. Dropping so much untold truth. 100% many need to hear this.
Attention a women gets at 22 is just not the same at 44.
It depends, some still have that young girl (look) in their 40s but until you get up on her and get to know her past her self representative, she’s just for sex and love bombing you to hook you.
thank god
You know the truth... I hope alot of women will not live in delusion
Because 87% of women believe that they deserve a man that's in the top 5% of men. Well...the top 5% of men are able to have the best pick of the litter...this means that by the time these delusional woman are in their mid to late 30s....find themselves still single...haha. now, they have to settle for a man that she NEVER gave the time of day to her entire adult life. Because of this, it's caused MANY married men(good men) to have a wife who doesnt respect him, doesnt love and care for him like a good wife should/does. It's sad (for the man)
Sadias coping hard because she knows this deep down hence why ain’t married….
She has a very high IQ. She puts other influencers to shame with her articulation, knowledge, and insight.
Pills( blue, red , yellow , green, black )are needed. I can't wait until she gets married. Sadia is a princess who needs to live and get some experiences.
Facts! This is ruining the world and lives. It is truly sad. On one hand, we have men and women lying to their single audiences by giving them bad advice, and then going home to their husband or wife. While on the other hand, single people are following the bad advice that is guaranteed to keep them single forever and lifelong consumers of this type of content, by listening to other singles. It proves that being educated doesn't equate to being intelligent.
I really hate this for us.
This is a really new perspective. Thank you for the podcast
Wow amazing Sadia. There's so much to learn from her when I listen to her pouring out a lot of practical ideas so fluently and spontaneously. A perfect role model for most women!
I'm am up at 330am every day, working out at 4am, at work at 6am as a Journeyman Lineman. It's not just CEO's that do this. Honestly I hate working out and if I had to do it at 5pm I wouldn't do it. So I get it done and over with before the day starts. I'm 47 and look better than I did when I was 20 because Im consistent, watch my food intake and rarely drink.
Almost no CEOs actually do this. They want YOU to do it, because it's good for their profits. It's a simple manipulation that so many fools fall for. However, if you're self-employed, that's different
Almost no one has the discipline that you do. a CEO is nothing special, just a busy guy or gal. Doing what you do is exceptional.
If there's one takeaway ive learnt watching Sadias videos is the importance of self respect. Take care of yourself.
Wow, great Information!!! Thank you both so much!!!
She is simply incredible. What a good teacher. I’ve learned a lot
I don’t like minimizing men’s need for intimacy as being a “baby”. Spoken like a true female…
Yeah she's absolutely full of it.
So sensitive 😂
13:30 i didn’t drink until my 2nd semester of freshman year in college. i used to talk to all the girls sober and could interact fine (of course i had approach anxiety but would get over it after the first few). 1st semester junior year i was averaging 3 blackouts a week. my reliance on alcohol to approach girls became so bad that i literally told myself that i had to be on the edge of blacking out before i had the confidence to approach them. i’m 2 years graduated and 8 months sober and learning to be my authentic self without alcohol in social situations where i want to approach a girl. still working on it, but i’m so much more confident and proud of myself because i decided i didn’t want to rely on something to let me do what i want to do.
the indian guy on Big Bang Theory had the same issue.
Ok groomer
Congrats! Good for you! 🎉 I still contend alcohol is one of the worst drugs out there
This women is so unbelievably intelligent. Listening to her videos gives me so much confidence in my relationship with my partner.
Thank you Sadia.
Actually really appreciate this content
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It is most beautifully explained for middle age people. It covers so many subjects, it get me thinking for many hours. Every one 17 and anwords should watch this!!! I will show my girls when they grow up.
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I have learned a lot about my self too. Many many thanks :)
I’m 59 I’m kinda short… but I’m fit.. very physically fit actually and if I were 6’2” I would be slaying the ladies in all ages ..I’m actually getting more women now than I did when I was in my was in my 20s-30s-40s.. I was married for a decade.. but it was actually after that marriage ended that I started attracting more attention from women.. I work out 3 times a week, all muscle groups and women look. More than ever before.. I don’t know why… maybe it’s because women around my age see their other options and they didn’t take care of their bodies.. but I get younger women too.. I’m seeing a 27 year old woman who I met a few months ago.. and she’s exceptionally beautiful.. everyone stares at her…and she’s mentally attractive too, in fact I’m falling hard for her,.. but there is another young one pretty much the same , that I just got a number for…also in her 20s maybe closer to 30.. all I can Sysco to the men out there… get your body into good physical condition.. the best you can..you’ll be amazed
Are you planning to get married/commit like Sadia suggests?
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She has one of the most pleasant voices ive ever heard. Easy to listen to.
I was asked at a dance club what i was having as he wanted some because he saw he do happy dancing and in high spirit. I told him it was H2O. He did not believe me. If you are confident, love yourself snd live a healty in and fit lifestyle, you don't need drugs to make you good. Period!
"This crypto broke" That was hilarious. Did clarify the point you were making tho! Another awesome conversation! 👏
When I had my own apartment, I didn't have a TV or a phone line connection or even an internet connection. And I got more things done in my life if I needed the internet for online banking I went round to my parent's house and used their internet to pay bills. I read more books listen to music got better as cooking food, my fitness got better I enjoyed dating more had no distractions, even had a basic mobile phone talk and text. I miss those days.
Finally a woman speaks the truth you go girl I hope you get so popular that other women strive to be like you and people’s live will get better
Thanks for sharing the wisdom Sadia.
I disagree with her assertion on women as they age. Statistics shows the age bracket where women are productive and after which they depreciate by nature which some of them are trying to slow down by doing aurgumentation to any part of their body. As the woman ages the attraction diminishes. Using psychology to analysis human behavioral actions sometimes goes in tangent to the reality.
Because she herself in 30, so she has to defend it.
@@martian.07_ You're telling me that she's not attractive enough for you? You have access to even more attractive women? 🤣🤣🤣
@@martian.07_I think she knows because in one podcast she ascertain that she was misled with the norm of going to school, empower yourself, make money and be independent and missing out one of the part of life, bonding in relationship with someone within your age bracket. She is just trying not to hurt someone people's feel by sitting on the fence.
As a Man who had plenty of women I must say: save this woman. Save Saidia. Feminine energy through the roof, intelligent, conservative. The type of woman I would marry immediately. So Saidia I am coming for you 😁
I agree, she has a good blueprint that other woman should follow.
@@MagoCeltaa lot of us already know this, we just are home living our happy lives not in the club or on OF to be found
@@Jackielikeskillersmiles i dont go to clubs, i prefer to go to the bank :)
I feel like I'm in therapy (and I need it)! This woman is wonderfully deep and insightful!
Sadia, you make WAY too much good sense ! Keep it up though. Definitely we are ALL looking for that connection. I probably knew that already but it's great to be reminded. Many thanks.
That’s when she is well maintained., follows diet, and exercises regularly and stays in shape, stays fit., then she will always be desired..
Nope you be surprised how much even ugly girls get attention
If she doesn't. Nobody wants her at 15 25 or 35
So it's a given - people should TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES, nah?
Hi Sadia! You are one of the wisest women I've ever heard speak. From listening to your podcasts I am pretty sure your wisdom is due a lot with having been reared by both your mother and father. And your parents did a wonderful job instilling their values with you. I wish more people will listen to your words of wisdom. Thank you for being such a beautiful human being. You are a great beacon of light in this world full of so much ignorance and darkness.
That's exactly what I think, but I believe a lot of what she said intuitively comes so normal to her becouse of her muslim family background, as myself being muslim, I can so relate to what she explains and approve myself due to same sort of mindset always within the islamic communities, one advising the other continuely to avoid personal pain and built healthy relationship. so thanks to Sadia and the host making this podcast available to humanity.
yep and I was up on the moon last night with Miss World
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Personal observations and analysis have nothing to do with upbringing. Her parents probably haven’t noticed any of this and probably couldn’t reach her conclusions.
@@AA-nb2kyLOL Muslims don’t talk about building healthy relationships. Nor do they talk about love. Most Muslims come from cultures where it’s all about duty and some cultures force duties towards in laws, without love and respect in return. It’s not a muslim thing at all which is why most Muslim countries have awful records on women.
I enjoyed the learning , always feel I'm left with a different perspective which gives greater clarity so thanks again Sadia
Sadia thank you for your work. Many questionable situations which happened with previous partner became more clear to me now. I learnt a few things and I really need to set more boundaries.
wow, Sadia is actually genuinely brilliant!
this interview and her wisdom have blown me away, why haven't i heard of her before?
Don't make a difference how old a man gets....he always gonna have options..
Great video, thanks.
I learned so much! Thank you for this talk! Truly spoke to me!
This woman is incredibly sharp.
This is A high value woman. Her father would be proud.
This entire conversation goes both ways. If you’re considerate, and your nurturing to a woman, she will melt as well.
I really enjoyed her fresh perspective and deep inside lotta good wisdom, even though as humans, if we are really using half our minds, this information that’s being displayed here is a neat wisdom and understanding deeper consequences of our actions, especially when it comes to partnership, and the need for connection is so diluted now bye our phones and social platforms it’s all illusion, and we have more depression in the world than ever now so that should be enough to send the signals to the brain that whatever is happening is not good for our complete well-being
Hi Sadia you are brilliant every word comes out from your mouth its like Nail on the head thank you for your wisdom learning a lot 🙏
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is *Victoria Lee hess*, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@@peterwilliams6361 You are disgusting. You post this exact same thing in countless videos. Same exact words from both people meaning it's a scam. God will judge you for your wickedness.
Glad I found your channel.
Darren Lee was excellent here too! Looking forward to looking up rest of podcast
“When men come to me saying they feel lonely, if they’re overweight, I say you need a personal trainer not a psychologist. You’re too fat to be here.” Facts. Overweight folks should be taxed extra for their irresponsibility and the economic damage that produces to our health care system.
Not women.
And they should fly first class or get two adjacent seats if flying coach
Sadia's gym views are spot on. If your body and fitness is not in the right place then your hormones and mental state is not going to be either
Same goes for men too. I don't even like MYSELF when I'm fat, lethargic and out of shape. My hormones, testosterone, feels DEAD. I like to stay active, keep the blood and endorphins flowing.
Salams. Love this conversation , simply love it ! :) :)
Your Spot on , I don't drink or smoke , my friends do, the more they drink, they. Become different people, !!
I am in my 50s and if I were single, I would not desire a woman below 30 other than sex. (Don't ridicule me for being honest). I will rather be with a woman over 40s who is successful and who can stimulate my mind with common interests, mindset and experiences. I don't even mind if they have children. Sadia's third eye is always open.
So based! Smart woman. Love the sobriety talk especially.
Connection is the key, it opens the door to your inner self and your partners. Rest is superficial but important and reinforces the connection.
Super! Thank you!:)
Sadia. God has truly blessed you with wisdom with relationships. Love listening to you. God bless you 🙏
The lady cracked the code of human relationships pretty well. She really knows a great deal of things, despite her age. She must be very talented.
What I realised is that psychology is an interplay of various systems. Sadia has not only built an extensive understanding of all these systems but she’s figured out how they influence each other and drawn all the relationships. She’s hectic.
In life, we meet defining professionals. People who show you what real competence is. Sadia was that force for me - within the field of psychology. I thought it was quite a lot of BS till I listened to her longer podcasts/interviews
whats her age? she must be late 30ties. You should have a lot of experience at that age.
@@humanbeeing4962 oh damn.. okay.. I don't know why I didn't factor age into my analysis. I actually have no idea how old she is
A bit of googling and a few sources say that she's 35. I don't know what a well-adjusted 35 year old woman sounds like - I'll check then decide from there
@@thaboshikwambanemany many miles 😂
The Alcohol section really hit me hard. Thanks for that
… Got it!
stay focus on self goals & improvement
I would’ve loved to have Kevin Samuels and Sadia in one room.
Hectic stuff.
That would have been interesting indeed. At least then he couldn't hang up on her lol
@@don220486 He only hung up on the unruly ones.
Right! she has way too many strong opinions on why a man does what but she’s never been a man so… yeah, that would be something to hear
You are achieving your goal. Listening to you on top of a recent connection gives me the deep confirmation that I should delete material that has had its claws in for too long. Thank you. ❤
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched in a long time .
She is really smart and beautiful and not showing her body attributes like most girls do on the internet nowadays but the guy had the best questions really good content.
Other than her extensions eyelashes and nails ...sure I agree.
I appreciate her perspectives
Sadia really needs to build her spirituality. The physical is different from the spiritual as we see now. Sex is physical, Emotion is spiritual, so a mans main physical goal is sex, so it will be so contradicting to mention a mans sexual desire to his emotional cravings because everyones spiritual level is different, just how she speaks more of masculine correction as feminine, showing her spiritual imbalance.
True statement about alcohol.
It's not the use of alcohol that causes the problems but it's the ABUSE of alcohol that does.
I love your suggestion about alcohol being pseudo confidence. And yes, then because it’s natural for human beings, that if somethings good then more is better, this ends up being a trap that causes people to over drink make fools of themselves, and eventually become addicted, and then narcissism usually sets in.
The Bible is very clear that we are to remain sober, when we live intoxicated, we literally lose portions of our brain that serve to protect us, and pre frontal Cortex etc, dull and we then drop our inhibitions . At this point, then people often sin, or do acts of unrepentant sin that then gets that person judged, and when a person is judged in the courts of heaven, they are handed over to the devil, and the devil now owns them and the devil only comes to steal, kill and destroy them..
remaining sober, keeps us in touch, hearing the still small voice of the Holy Spirit that does Guid us , guides our conscience . In a nutshell, this is the reality
They can't be endless. A 21 or 22 year old chick has men of every range to pick from that will take her seriously depending on her looks and behavior. A good looking 50 or 60 year old woman may have younger men that will smash, but they overwhelmingly wouldn't take her seriously long term.
this video is jam packed with important caveats that are needed in the modern society,sadia is a woman that women should look up to.i actually want to make reaction videos to unpack and to further divulge into the things she is taking about
Sadia is challenging the Red Pill movement and men HATE it.
How is she challenging?
I certainly don't hate her. No movement is perfect.
I don’t hate it, I just know she wrong about certain things; and I am ok with her being wrong because most of what she says is valid. Chew up the meat and spit out the bones is what I say.
She’s probably filling in some of the gaps of it but I doubt she has problems with some of the issues with the red pill movement.
oh Sadia, the same and I live in Poland where everyone in my young time had to drink....I SO UNDERSTAND YOU.I was the ackward one..
Psychology is literally common sense .
wow Sadia not only you have a beauty and highly intellectual you use your brain to help & model people troubling understanding the problems in modern society not knowing the underneath the traditional culture still much needed till these days. You delivered your words so clear what’s good & bad for society whats valuable or not.
I quiet my mind and listen to its infinite wisdom. I did notice how many thoughts & actions are driven by desire 😮
You are Amazing. You give me better outlook in relationships
Sadia is so wise.
Sadia, you've made good choices not only because you were reared that way but because of you are. Some people with the same religion and culture and parental structures will still go out and do whatever. So kudos to you
Except her short marriage that lasted a month. Not good judgment on her part. She never talks about that part of her life.
What is her religin ?
@@josephfreeflowingnatural8907 when she mentions George Clooney as a man of high value...I deduce that this woman has not had a happy romantic relationship and has not yet found the right man for her....talking about her failed marriage brings us nothing .... the important thing are her ideas, when I searched for her on google I discovered that she is Pakistani, I understand her way of analyzing ... women in Muslim countries grow up with a lot of complex ... the proof is that she says that masculanity is to have limits bondries .... her ideas are interesting for women like her not for women who were born in developed countries where the woman has had almost all her rights for centuries
The demand for a woman decreases as her age increases. This is not disputable.
Yeah that seemed like a hard cope
And women are less inclined to even want a man the older they get. Happy alone with their dogs and cats. Men are the ones who usually can’t be alone
Sadia the only woman that ever told me this about people pleasing and setting boundaries. Else it's only made sense out her mouth. Fact is I've learned all this through hard experience and the woman not going to tell me this in the moment nor help me improve in the time we spend together. Even naturally doing this women got a way of reducing boundaries or letting you ruin yourself. I see my partner slipping imma correct them and help keep them at their best. I'm done here.
Wow thank you!
"The offers are endless." - Over 35, it's harder biologically to have children. That's what they are talking about. Not about having offers or not having offers.
What Sadia is talking about in the beginning is what I call the illusion of options set forth by dating apps and social media.
It’s sexual attention women are getting post 30 not relationship attention.
She knows it. Her jab at Myron says it all.
Attractive milf who gave u sexual attention - u will SIMP for relationship sooo BAD. So STOP THE CAP
100%!
And the tier of men that’ll give her attention as she ages, decreases A LOT
Thanks for the subtitles 😊
What can I do as a woman, to be more attractive? I'm 19 years old, but I don't want to be the one who has to cross the wall losing me, being like the rest!
Sadia is becoming my mentor, Thank you for the content👏🏻
Sadia you are extremely brilliant.. you really dealt with this topic with great understanding of what should and should not. Thank you for helping out… I got my answer to my problem watching this podcast and I’m going home to be a better Boyfriend 😊
I’m 55 and stopped inviting girls 20-30 to holidays about 3 years ago. Instead I go to places with a vivid nightlife (Mykonos, Ibiza etc) and hookup with girls there which saves me money. Even if I was to start inviting girls to holiday again, I would never invite anyone above 30. There is just no need for it as there are more than enough younger ones. So yes, a 30+ woman will still get laid but she will find it increasingly difficult to get something in return.
What has been your experiencing inviting a woman 20-25 on holiday? Was it worth it?
how many STDS are you harbouring that you have collected over soo many years?
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
I definitely learned "this and that and the other"
Incredible. What a healing message. And she's not "red pill" or this or that pill, she's just correct. So refreshing.
But basically she is just saying everything we talks constantly on Red Pill podcasts. And she is quite manipulative in some points when comes up to this topic.
@@Consultant31 How is she at times manipulative? Can you give some examples? Genuinely curious.
"Money only attracts emotionally unavailable women ". The truth said by a beautiful woman. This is gold 😅
Presentation matters. Attraction for me is more about an appropriate presentation, confidence, self respect, and a sharp mind.
What's she saying hits straight to my core!
It's not "endless" if you want to start a family. If you're just talking about sex, then sure, it's "endless"
With modern fertility treatments, surrogates etc it’s actually endless.
I think Sadia is off the mark on several points here. Seems a little compromised or overly invested.
Or you lacking experience and knowledge.
This woman is speaking facts. So much wisdom on so much different topic, maybe she'll be the one to solve the great crisis of our generation in a changing world (celibacy/hikikomori/lack of love/OF) ???!
I love this woman