I love this show ,please kindly add your own subtitles if you can bcoz i feel like i miss some things when you speak in your mother tongue. TH-cam subtitles dont translate your language. Love from South Africa
A man who knows what they want remains as the most attractive aspect. A confused man will lead you down a path riddled with nothing but heartache and uncertainty.
Watching from East London in South Africa. This is the content I signed up for 😍😍😍. Also kiSwahili is such a beautiful language to listen to, though I only understood "Asante sana".
Yes and no. Yes if the two have dated, courted but the man is taking long to propose. The kind of move she will, take is to find out from the man the direction the relationship is taking not directly asking him to marry her. Direct approach will put the woman in a vulnerable position or be misconstrued to mean she is desperate for him. Its OK to ask a delaying man what's the way forward. Any relationship that qualifies in the basic criteria often binds faster than that with few unanswered questions or concerns if you may. A man delaying to propose is not fully convinced that she is the one. Or it could be that he is not ready for the reasons to do with his careless life(playboy) or his family attachment or money excuse. Otherwise if all factors remain constant, proposal should happen within a year not more. Too much waiting invites promiscuity so easily
@@pridemataps yes it is madam. Serious dating partners must set standards that are clear and open with a definite destination in mind. Only jokers like playing each other for long
I like the way Benjamin is Knowledgeable and Joyce, thank you for the show. I just discovered this channel a day ago and I really love the content, Interesting topics. Love from Canada
The egg never swims to the sperm. So, a woman must never chase a man! If he went silent for months, years my dear sister open your eyes and move on and don't show him you're interested to him. He will catch the car later when it's too late🙏.
🤦🏾♂️Ever thought of the risks men have to take? In some sense the mixed signals women send to men can bee seen as selfish. They want the Benefits of a potential relationship without putting their ego on the line
In this video, Benjamin stated that 'Men are to listen and let the women talk so they can get to know her'. However in another video he mentioned that a woman should not talk too much about herself, her ambitions goals etc because the man can easily pretend that he has similar; so women should let the man talk so she can observe and see what he is about. How can there be much conversation if the man is instructed to listen intently but as a woman I am instructed not to speak too much?
Getting to know you doesn't mean tell people what you want...he says don't tell men what you are looking for, talking about who you are isn't the same thing
I love the topic and the way benjamin approached it as a man...l wish l would get to talk to women too as a woman about this things very powerful...God bless.
@@brodemfamalam7178 After the first move, then? I take control of the relationship? Saying when to date and all? There's a reason why nature is what it is...
@@akinyiokeyo4618 🤨it could just be a 50/50 thing... I don’t see why these “gender roles” apply when women are mainly only the ones essentially benefit from it....as they don’t have to put their own ego on the line.
In my case, I am married living in Fiji. A Fijian woman living in San Francisco,love messaged my husband on 5/11/20. My daughter caught their messages and told me. When I asked him, he said that they they were only friends. I read their messages and they were becoming more than friends. They were saying to each other, "I love you", and sending each other kiss, heart emojis ect.... Is that ok for a woman to love message a married man?? She already knew that my husband was married.
Beloved, she can only do what your husband allows. You already know the answer to this but it seems that you may not be able/ready to face it. Ask yourself, would YOU love message a married man? Don't hold the wrong person accountable. Much love, strength, & courage to you beloved 🌹
As always, this was very insightful but the question of who should say “I love you” first was still not answered. Please can that be answered in another episode?
@@kaykay5605my broda,i am watching 4rm south africa, i dnt hear swahilli, it would be nice they speak only English bcoz Benjamin has wisdom lolly madikiza
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I love this show ,please kindly add your own subtitles if you can bcoz i feel like i miss some things when you speak in your mother tongue. TH-cam subtitles dont translate your language. Love from South Africa
Khangelwa Khathi ergonomic morning
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Please, can you guys speak more of English bcos I don't understand your local language. I just subscribed to your channel. Thanks ❣️
Found this channel last week, and I've been binging on this show 🙈🙈🙈🤗🤗🤗 Much love from SA
Welkam to this world of many things cz it's the best show u can ever learn.
Thanks 🤗🤗 I'm learning a lot.
Yeyi...been watching since late 2018
🤗🤗
We are in the same boat
Yes collar and dress! Joyce you look like a goddess.
This channel has healed me completely
Love is not looking into each others eyes it's looking in the same direction together. Wow! Been binge watching Benjamin from SA. Love it! 😍
A man who knows what they want remains as the most attractive aspect. A confused man will lead you down a path riddled with nothing but heartache and uncertainty.
Word!
In Ghana we say' is the dog that roam for bones not the otherwise.. i love this channel
But here we are talking about human beings not dogs......
Watching from East London in South Africa. This is the content I signed up for 😍😍😍. Also kiSwahili is such a beautiful language to listen to, though I only understood "Asante sana".
Sure kiswahili is good
Inbox me for free lessons 🤭
I like the way Benjamin laughs as he talks🙈🙈
That dress Joyce, you're looking gorgeous.
Follow your heart but carry your brain with you 🤣🤣🤣🤣 yaaassssss Zulu 👏👏👏👏👏
Benjamin is the best advisor of all the confusion w these men.. I love your show Joyce
I think this talks are needed much by the kind of generation we are in to help at least reduce the divorce rates in the world
Love this channel only saw it three days ago....all the way from S.A ♥️♥️♥️
Only found it today
Yes Ive found this channel last week and in enjoying listening.. thank you🙏
That outfit is lit., Joyce
Yes and no. Yes if the two have dated, courted but the man is taking long to propose. The kind of move she will, take is to find out from the man the direction the relationship is taking not directly asking him to marry her. Direct approach will put the woman in a vulnerable position or be misconstrued to mean she is desperate for him. Its OK to ask a delaying man what's the way forward.
Any relationship that qualifies in the basic criteria often binds faster than that with few unanswered questions or concerns if you may. A man delaying to propose is not fully convinced that she is the one. Or it could be that he is not ready for the reasons to do with his careless life(playboy) or his family attachment or money excuse. Otherwise if all factors remain constant, proposal should happen within a year not more. Too much waiting invites promiscuity so easily
Thank you I found your comments vry interesting
@@pridemataps yes it is madam. Serious dating partners must set standards that are clear and open with a definite destination in mind. Only jokers like playing each other for long
Listen to Benjamin just confirmed for me what man I want in my life and am not just dreaming he is somewhere out there
Love this program More of English is good. All the live here in Zimbabwe
People in this generation think they can change up everything love how he talks about submission
You are a keeper..too bad hakuna DM hapa 🤭
I like the way Benjamin is Knowledgeable and Joyce, thank you for the show. I just discovered this channel a day ago and I really love the content, Interesting topics. Love from Canada
A wise man indeed... Love from Nigeria
I don't want an antelope, I want a lioness. An antelope is prey to every other lion.
Benjamin is a supper star in doing the ssenga work.watching from Uganda
Sons who are raised by single mothers compete to be perused as well...
God bless you Benjamin for this wanderful advice for I have learned a lot since I started watching your messages
Thank you so much
This man is awesome! Much love from South Africa
Akikufinyia mfereji wako na wewe finya🙌🏼🙌🏼😹😹😹😹😹😹😹ya kwako
I am not settling.I will wait
Money can't replace the place of love
The egg never swims to the sperm. So, a woman must never chase a man! If he went silent for months, years my dear sister open your eyes and move on and don't show him you're interested to him. He will catch the car later when it's too late🙏.
Sure
🤦🏾♂️Ever thought of the risks men have to take? In some sense the mixed signals women send to men can bee seen as selfish. They want the Benefits of a potential relationship without putting their ego on the line
I wanna hear from Ben’s wife. What if he is like this on the show, but a pain at home 😬 just wondering. I like him here tho.
I think you're correct 😆 😄
Don't issue a threat, "One day I will marry you". Mr. Zulu, you're too hilarious.
Joyce has amazing accent
God brought this channel to me today and i have watched almost all videos on this channel same day. I can't love you any less Zulu
Mrs Wahiga I feel you 💯
Such a great episode!
I'm learning a lot. Thank you
In this video, Benjamin stated that 'Men are to listen and let the women talk so they can get to know her'. However in another video he mentioned that a woman should not talk too much about herself, her ambitions goals etc because the man can easily pretend that he has similar; so women should let the man talk so she can observe and see what he is about. How can there be much conversation if the man is instructed to listen intently but as a woman I am instructed not to speak too much?
Getting to know you doesn't mean tell people what you want...he says don't tell men what you are looking for, talking about who you are isn't the same thing
So inspire with your teachings
I love the topic and the way benjamin approached it as a man...l wish l would get to talk to women too as a woman about this things very powerful...God bless.
Very true
This is so true
Never ever he wont respect me.
No, the man should make the first move.
Why?
@@brodemfamalam7178 After the first move, then? I take control of the relationship? Saying when to date and all? There's a reason why nature is what it is...
@@akinyiokeyo4618 🤨it could just be a 50/50 thing...
I don’t see why these “gender roles” apply when women are mainly only the ones essentially benefit from it....as they don’t have to put their own ego on the line.
Not necessarilly
Thanks a lot , I've learnt a lot 🤓🤓
A needy character is a true turn off
I LOVE ZULU WHEEEWWWW
Joyce...me and you on the same side😂👌
But a woman also what she want. Guess this version on him was used when moi was a young boy
True naked I love this conversation together with those guyz
In my case, I am married living in Fiji. A Fijian woman living in San Francisco,love messaged my husband on 5/11/20. My daughter caught their messages and told me. When I asked him, he said that they they were only friends. I read their messages and they were becoming more than friends. They were saying to each other, "I love you", and sending each other kiss, heart emojis ect.... Is that ok for a woman to love message a married man?? She already knew that my husband was married.
Beloved, she can only do what your husband allows. You already know the answer to this but it seems that you may not be able/ready to face it. Ask yourself, would YOU love message a married man? Don't hold the wrong person accountable. Much love, strength, & courage to you beloved 🌹
Your husband is unfaithful ,wake up
Joyce Your cladding 💞💞
such interesting conversation
You got a unique name
Thank you
As always, this was very insightful but the question of who should say “I love you” first was still not answered. Please can that be answered in another episode?
This should not be an issue. Say it when you feel it
Should be the man. Men tend to fall in love faster.
Any can say first
Please Try to add some subtitles for us who cant hear you guys
The show is awesome
Love from Kenya
I hope, this channel will start to care about thier global audience..... English
English isnt necessarily global
@@kaykay5605my broda,i am watching 4rm south africa, i dnt hear swahilli, it would be nice they speak only English bcoz Benjamin has wisdom lolly madikiza
Hehe.. Being called all sorts of pet names the first day
So True Wow You Guys Are The Best That's Is Naked True .
Love the topic am taking notes
Here today and will stay
Please dnt break English character I mean some of us dnt understand swahili
I most certainly do not understand or speak African languages. Although I appreciate your language, I cannot follow at times.
Click on the video u will see a box with 3dots click there it will lead you.
@@maureenavilia1216 Thank you beloved✨
Enlightening episode
Cool