How I overcame alcoholism | Claudia Christian | TEDxLondonBusinessSchool

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  • A hugely successful actress who saw her personal life and career tested by addiction, Claudia shares her journey of overcoming alcoholism and offers fresh perspectives on alcohol use disorder treatments.
    Claudia Christian landed her first TV series at 18 on NBC’s nighttime drama Berringers and her first studio feature at 20 in New Line Cinema’s cult hit “The Hidden.” Over 50 films, hundreds of TV shows and 5 music albums later, Claudia has worked with George Clooney, Kirk Douglas, Faye Dunaway, Nicolas Cage and countless other luminaries.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @BA-de4pn
    @BA-de4pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3595

    Addiction is giving up everything for one thing. Recovery is giving up one thing for everything.

    • @Ranch.no.sweetpotatoesbitch
      @Ranch.no.sweetpotatoesbitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I love this.

    • @jamedlock83
      @jamedlock83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      can't tell you how many times I have pawned my stuff just to get beer. . . I pawned my vehicle for beer, and lost my vehicle. . I never lost my electronics though. I want to quit, but I just don't know how. . . . . Living alone sucks, with no friends. . . .

    • @PjPjPaul
      @PjPjPaul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I needed this

    • @cvmitchell9368
      @cvmitchell9368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you.

    • @52brittster
      @52brittster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I needed to read this comment

  • @colbycovington6073
    @colbycovington6073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3559

    I’m 90 days clean I am never going back please pray for me and other people struggling with this disease

    • @koichinishi9075
      @koichinishi9075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      One day at a time!!! It works when you work it!!!!!?

    • @mikeforcerer8537
      @mikeforcerer8537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @DelusionRU Hail Satan, I'm 3 years sober i didn't need jeebus. lol

    • @_SPOOK_13
      @_SPOOK_13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@mikeforcerer8537 Same here brother, i went from drinking spirits to heavy beer, after months i dropped to mid strength and then to light. At this point i was sick of my life, sick of drinking and had been for years, honestly i should have stopped years before this point because I'm quite sure that vomiting blood isn't normal, i think i stopped for 1 or 2 weeks and got right into it. My last weekend drinking was enjoyable, i had it planned, just chillout and watch youtube vids, relax at home, i bought 2 cartons of light beer and 2 hits of acid, great weekend and that was it.
      I felt great for the first month, that's when i started getting cluster headaches, they were nearly daily and very hard to deal with while driving a forklift, they faded away after 5 or 6 months. I think shortly after that i bought Anton LaVey book, Hail Satan Brother!! You've done well.

    • @ulthelth2899
      @ulthelth2899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      "As a person THINKS in their heart so are they." Proverbs 23:7
      How you think and view yourself not as an alcoholic but a new creation in Christ is the key. Alcohol and other drug addictions have a mental relationship and spiritual relationship addiction. You need to be a new person and according to the Apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 5 : 17 " Therefore if anyone is in Christ [that is, grafted in, joined to Him by faith in Him as Savior], he is a new creature [reborn from above and renewed by the Holy Spirit]; the old things [the previous moral and spiritual condition] have passed away. Behold, new things have come [because spiritual awakening brings a new life]. 18 But all these things are from God, "
      You need a brand new spiritual self and get rid of the old dead replacing it with God's eternal life of God. It's as easy as a simple prayer to accept Jesus and ask Him to come into you making you brand new spiritually and receive His eternal all encompassing sacrifice for the eternal forgiveness of any sin.

    • @blsbeserker8634
      @blsbeserker8634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Prayers...I'm over 2 years sober from alcohol. It gets easier as you go.

  • @BrownGeorge-pw2xo
    @BrownGeorge-pw2xo 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +82

    Alcohol and cigarettes addiction actually destroyed my life. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.

    • @NicoleCtirad
      @NicoleCtirad 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

    • @Bastianbishops
      @Bastianbishops 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Netherland. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them

    • @DonnHowes
      @DonnHowes 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Hey! Yes Dr.benfungi

    • @SusanaGomez-mp8sk
      @SusanaGomez-mp8sk 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      100% agree I used to have Psychosis and paranoid thoughts like "people thinking about me talking about me etc. Very odd behavior after getting off Adderall from 7-16. Antidepressants at 18-29. 31 now. I took way to much, but took about 20g of Gold caps (Psilocybin containing mushroom) I analyzed my entire life. The emotions that came out helped me understand behavior etc more. Wont ever need to do it again because I'm happy and contempt forever, but I wish more people did this to alter their perception of reality. Would help with healing much trauma

    • @AnnaRoth-pb8xv
      @AnnaRoth-pb8xv 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

  • @kayceeken5550
    @kayceeken5550 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +292

    Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to alcohol for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.

    • @KingBright-dc3dl
      @KingBright-dc3dl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      A lot of people have testified about this and I really want to give it a shot. I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels

    • @BekiLouis
      @BekiLouis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well

    • @KingBright-dc3dl
      @KingBright-dc3dl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Does mush_pharm ships?

    • @luther350
      @luther350 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shrooms was the best trip I had. It was an amazing experience.

    • @luther350
      @luther350 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tripping is not really bad but find a good mycologist Who will teach you the right things you need to know

  • @KanwarAnand
    @KanwarAnand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3045

    I'm 37 days sober.
    Goal is 365 days.
    Who thinks I'll do it?

    • @VAMR-vc7xg
      @VAMR-vc7xg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah, you can do it.

    • @neerajmoudgil7692
      @neerajmoudgil7692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      U will definitely

    • @darby_hudson
      @darby_hudson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      only you know

    • @susan1098
      @susan1098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think you can certainly do it😊Keep us posted. We are here to support you. You can do it 😊

    • @kitmcv
      @kitmcv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do mate.

  • @yvonnehernandez2111
    @yvonnehernandez2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3599

    I’m less then 24 hours sober & I am an alcoholic. I’ve been on a binge for about three months & I am so tired.. please keep me in your prayers 🙏

    • @beschi101
      @beschi101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Yvonne, how are you now?

    • @terra7145
      @terra7145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I have been on a binge for 5 years. First 30 days last month but I'm on another month binge since then, I NEED to keep trying :(

    • @yvonnehernandez2111
      @yvonnehernandez2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

      Thank you guys! I’m 7 days sober today & I’m doing okay. I’ve been taking Naltrexone since day two because I realized I wasn’t going to be able to get through this without medical treatment. I’ve also been journaling & reading AA literature along with scripture to keep a positive mindset throughout my day. I know now this time around that I wasn’t going to make it without meds, so I’m on the right path. Thank you all for your concern!

    • @yvonnehernandez2111
      @yvonnehernandez2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @ Terra You’re in my prayers 🙏

    • @sanramona1615
      @sanramona1615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I say a prayer

  • @EdgarSanchez-nu3kh
    @EdgarSanchez-nu3kh ปีที่แล้ว +136

    6 days clean …. Pray for me please .. Doing this for my marriage and my family ! I am 28 years old and I’m really struggling ! We got this !! Saddest thing ever

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq ปีที่แล้ว

      If willpower alone doesn't work for you, this method can. Do not ignore this science. Free support for The Sinclair Method is all over social media and podcasts today.

    • @EdgarSanchez-nu3kh
      @EdgarSanchez-nu3kh ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Michael-tr7uq stilll staying sober ! Thank you

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@EdgarSanchez-nu3kh Great, being alcohol-free is the best !

    • @claradontcara
      @claradontcara 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope you're still doing ok. Even if you aren't doing great, don't give up. You are YOUNG and have so many reasons to win this fight!

    • @lindahoffman2692
      @lindahoffman2692 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Edgar, I hope with all my heart that you are still winning your Battle! People don’t realize that often it’s necessary to give up far more than the alcohol - you may have to give up certain friends, activities, places even Family who are impediments to your Recovery! Not easy but SO worth it to keep what matters to you and to build your new life upon that success. You’re in my prayers 🙏💞

  • @southernaranch4882
    @southernaranch4882 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    38 years 9 months
    Clean and sober.
    The 12 steps of AA helped to clear away the wreckage. Taught me HOW to pray and be of Service to others. In the process of all of this .... God .... the best thing that could ever have happened.
    Thank you Lord for your patience and mercy.

    • @Mark-px8jt
      @Mark-px8jt หลายเดือนก่อน

      👍

  • @peacefull6096
    @peacefull6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3422

    Almost all mistakes I ever made in my life were under the influence of alcohol.

    • @elizabethvandyke1733
      @elizabethvandyke1733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Every single one

    • @R0FLC4T5
      @R0FLC4T5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      3 relationships. Each one worthy of a lifetime...gone.

    • @thomaspartington8526
      @thomaspartington8526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Same here mate all of my mistakes were through alcohol man.

    • @marianapopescu753
      @marianapopescu753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Me too.. And l am so ashamed 😔

    • @bethangee1348
      @bethangee1348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      "something bad doesn't happen everytime I drink but everytime something bad happens it's cause I've been drinking"

  • @garisonboy
    @garisonboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2221

    Who else is coming off an embarrassing drunken alcoholic binge while watching this

    • @umno925
      @umno925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Day one. Should have taken half the pill because nausea, but on a Saturday, which would have been a full day binge, I basically cut consumption of vodka in half. Go to a doctor cry your eyes out and ask about netroxane. They already knew about it and got cheap rx the next day. 38 yr heavy daily drunker

    • @daniluchison
      @daniluchison 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just start taking the pill.

    • @audreylee2675
      @audreylee2675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I was trying to talk myself out of picking up beer on the drive home

    • @stevendiaz7633
      @stevendiaz7633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not me, I am writing a paper about Quitting. But I understand coming here after binge drinking

    • @shaggystair9549
      @shaggystair9549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Audrey Lee take a pill... go buy your cold beer! Bet you don’t make it to 3... that is why Naltrexone is so awesome! You drink to undue the drinking... makes AA nuts! Because life is about having an internal argument for the rest of your life every time you pass a liquor store.
      I can’t live like that. I’m too weak.

  • @deereed1627
    @deereed1627 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +371

    For anybody who is going through alcoholism. Try to stop as soon as you can. I stopped mine immediately I did shrooms, my life changed.

    • @shokotatsuno-p5497
      @shokotatsuno-p5497 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Taking shrooms was 100% one of the most important experiences in my life. Everything has changed since my trip - I perceive - things differently.

    • @chaemchoiaromdee2229
      @chaemchoiaromdee2229 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      After my trip on shrooms I felt so safe and supported. It was amazing

    • @nicolereed578
      @nicolereed578 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But make no mistake: Psilocybin has a number of potential medical benefits.

    • @dorathyfoster1459
      @dorathyfoster1459 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We're do you source from?

    • @dorathyfoster1459
      @dorathyfoster1459 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      please how do I reach him ?

  • @Emrico35
    @Emrico35 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Hardest part to quit alcohol is social interactions.

    • @hdog24
      @hdog24 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this right here. social anxiety is so crippling and alcohol just makes it so much easier

    • @465marko
      @465marko ปีที่แล้ว +14

      For sure. When you realise that was a huge part of why you started drinking in the first place and why it "clicked" so well with you. It's brutal to have to learn at an older age how to interact with people without it.

    • @markyruss
      @markyruss ปีที่แล้ว +2

      On the first night or two, then you end up at home drinking away out it

    • @susanfisher3655
      @susanfisher3655 ปีที่แล้ว

      True that!

    • @mudpuddles
      @mudpuddles ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ive realized its better to be alone than to emotionally harm people with drunken words.

  • @Tresor2919
    @Tresor2919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3403

    I'm done with drinking guys I've lost so many years with my family please pray for me

    • @christopherclamour
      @christopherclamour 5 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Tresor Kalombo I’ve been working hard on sobriety the past year and a half. It’s actually so difficult sometimes and yes I have had some binges in that time but I tell you what, the best feeling in the world is waking up in the morning and knowing you didn’t drink the day before.

    • @MyDigitaLifes
      @MyDigitaLifes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      You are courageous by admitting it. I've lost almost anything 17 years ago. I'm sober since 2001 and you can be sober too. Try AA (Alcoholic Anonymous) it help a lot.

    • @wakeoftheflood2
      @wakeoftheflood2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I havent had a drink since 2008. It isnt easy at the outset, but I send you the good news that it does get easier, over time. Be well. Never too late.

    • @wakeoftheflood2
      @wakeoftheflood2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      One more thing Ill say...I still feel like an outsider when in social situations everyone else is drinking, or drunk, & Im not. I dont think that will ever go away, but it also gets easier. Or Ive just gotten used to it. Dont let that influence you negatively, stay with it, because its not worth throwing away your hard work just to be like everyone else.

    • @gloriamaryhaywood2217
      @gloriamaryhaywood2217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@christopherclamour Yes!....that certainly is the best feeling in the world! Although it's been years and years since my crazed drinking days, I can absolutely still relate to what you're saying!!😉

  • @ryandearmun
    @ryandearmun 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2613

    Alcohol gave me the wings to fly, and then took away the sky

    • @dinodude1100
      @dinodude1100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      that is sadly beautiful

    • @victoriabellanova2280
      @victoriabellanova2280 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I agree. I need to quit too!!

    • @fnulnu6507
      @fnulnu6507 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      "I need to" is not the same as I am. You can do it. Good luck.

    • @irock5624
      @irock5624 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      fnu lnu thank you for that, seriously!!

    • @victoriabellanova2280
      @victoriabellanova2280 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello Najib, I couldn't find this on line.

  • @strumminfuel4625
    @strumminfuel4625 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    Get your head straight if you plan on quitting. Mental illness and addiction go hand in hand. I started seeing a psychiatrist and my cravings are easier to recognize and control. 7 years sober, I nearly fell off in the last few weeks. Talking to someone helped big time. Stay strong, it gets better.

    • @datMNboi
      @datMNboi ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Stay strong. Proud of you.

    • @65vwbug87
      @65vwbug87 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      what did the psych say to help you? and good job by the way.

    • @strumminfuel4625
      @strumminfuel4625 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@65vwbug87 When I quit drinking I didn't go to rehab so I never learned what my triggers were, I found out that I drank to numb my anxiety, which was caused by not resolving other personal issues that are now resolved. I would recommend AA or rehab. Only 5 percent of people that try to quit succed. I'm not stronger than anyone, I had a great supportive family ❤️. I don't judge anyone, it's hard.

    • @65vwbug87
      @65vwbug87 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@strumminfuel4625 right on ! Just was wondering what they talked about. I wish your future continues to grow in health and clarity on your journey.

    • @nickisnyder3450
      @nickisnyder3450 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Naltrexone helps too.

  • @carolinafrancisco7662
    @carolinafrancisco7662 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +159

    I got f**cked up with alcohol for over 8 years. Also suffered severe depression. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. I will be 2 years clean after trying out a psilocybin treatment. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms. Saved my life honestly from addiction and depression.

    • @brendanfisher9686
      @brendanfisher9686 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      After doing some research, i've been looking to try shrooms for Anxiety. Just very difficult to get a reliable source here in Sweden. Really need!

    • @acostasantiago3340
      @acostasantiago3340 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! Very sure of raymycolx

    • @michealdavid7066
      @michealdavid7066 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I trust Dr. Raymycolx. Microdosing has been my personal savior. A small amount works wonders-just a cap or two keeps me balanced all day. It's like clearing the mind and refreshing the soul, though it's tough to explain, much like describing colors to someone blind from birth

    • @mariaclara4480
      @mariaclara4480 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alexanderkelly4562 Yes he's dr.raymycolx .Lsd and psilocybin are amazing teachers along its dmt mah dudes have safe trips all. Shrooms are blessings from nature

    • @gefferystones2814
      @gefferystones2814 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I was addicted to meth, opium, and alcohol. Also, I had bad depression. I took shrooms at a party, and afterward, my depression and addiction felt better, even though I didn't realize it then. Psychedelic experiences can help some people for a while, even if the effects don't last forever

  • @manueldelush9716
    @manueldelush9716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1089

    Today is going to be my first day of sobriety in almost 10 years. Alchohol has gone from being something fun to something that has taken away so much for me. Today is the day. Wish me luck

    • @uwsgrrl2308
      @uwsgrrl2308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Don't ever give up! Good luck!

    • @johnphillips9921
      @johnphillips9921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm on your side, Manny! John.

    • @manueldelush9716
      @manueldelush9716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@johnphillips9921 I made it 16 days before falling off. Its been a tough month but I'm starting 2022 off fresh and sober. Need to keep on going

    • @johnphillips9921
      @johnphillips9921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@manueldelush9716 Hi, Manny ! First thing: Don't beat yourself up. Falling happens to ALL of us who fight this demon. Whatever stage you are in, keep calm & carry on. Hang with truly sober people. Their presence will bolster your confidence. They stayed sober & so can you. Always remember, you are NOT alone! your friend, John.

    • @manueldelush9716
      @manueldelush9716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@johnphillips9921 thank you man, that really means alot. I have a great family around me so im luckier than most. It's being honest with myself I think is my biggest problem. Again thank you John
      Happy new year
      Danny

  • @reddiver7293
    @reddiver7293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1774

    She's right about the decade thing. I wanted to stop drinking. I tried and continually relapsed. It was hard and it was depressing. But somewhere after that ten years, I did stop drinking. And in six days, it will be 23 years without alcohol. And life got BETTER.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @SkimShark Mic
      Almost 2 months!
      Excellent!
      We all have our own routes to becoming sober.
      Lots of fellow brothers (I go mostly to stag meetings) and sisters in recovery. Lots of literature, lots of stories.
      Bottom line is not drinking alcohol.
      Please be aware of the Pink Cloud Syndrome as you deal with the issues that every Today brings.
      SkimSharkMic, proud of you!

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stats so awesome. You are part of a very RARE statistic! But I and sure you know that just by looking around.

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @SkimShark Mic if something changes, good to have some naltrexone around. Out of the 23 percent it’s doesn’t work for 10 percent is because of compliance. Which I totally do not get. How hard is it to keep a pill with you at all times? Honestly, I don’t understand that at ALL. I feel sad for the other 10 percent or so. Something about their receptors working differently or something. Good for you for not giving up and finding something that works for you. 👍😄

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @SkimShark Mic oh I also wanted to mention that I am 57 and had that same “after I made the decision” it was easy. Life got way better (everytime) until I slipped… it went exactly as she describes except slower for me. It would take me about a year or more to get back to drinking as often and as much as when I hit my personal bottom. I was sober once for 5 & 1/2 years in my 30s. 3 years in my 40s and a couple of years in my 50’s. OVER IT. I got the Nal and OH MY GOD… it’s a SOLID game changer for me.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@shellycaldeira For me, I would see my drinking like a movie. The beginning part was great, felt wonderful for about 45 minutes to an hour. The rest of the movie was all about everything I did not like about drinking. And I did not feel good at all. Fast forwarding that movie in my head really helped me resist any cravings I had.

  • @km3710
    @km3710 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    This is the most eloquent and well delivered Ted Talk I have ever seen. I have watched it at least six times today and counting, because it affected me so profoundly. When she said, "Please reach out and help others, be kind, share this message with others," I busted. I have struggled with AUD since I was 18 and have always passed out. I am now 38. I'm on the verge of being written up for my attendance at work, losing my apartment, and losing my job. I'm behind on bills. I have cried and cried and cried all day. Thank God I found rehab and my insurance will cover all but $650 of it. I have tried everything. And I am currently drinking as I write this. I think I've relapsed about 16 times and counting now. I don't know if rehab will work, but at this point I'm desperate. Desperate for answers, desperate for help, desperate for hope. Alcoholism runs on both sides of my family. I have never been able to control it. And I am at the end of my rope. It's either I get help, or I die. I wish more people understood the ins and outs of ANY addiction, and all that it entails. It is the most destructive, hellish problem I have ever had to deal with. I feel so alone and this woman has given me hope.

    • @km3710
      @km3710 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      On my second day of the Sinclair method and I’ve gone from 6 drinks a night to a maximum of 4. And then I’m just not interested anymore like she says in the video. Even that 4th drink I was nursing for a good hour plus. I feel like I have hope again. I will never give up.

    • @zanedietlin7645
      @zanedietlin7645 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You’re not alone. I’m with you. You can crush it, and so can I. There’s a lot of life to live. Fight the good fight ❤

    • @abhinavsabharwal2324
      @abhinavsabharwal2324 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Please attend meetings please

    • @carlyeckert4670
      @carlyeckert4670 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You can do this! I have faith in you. I will keep you in my prayers. 🙏 ❤

    • @marliprice1983
      @marliprice1983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      One day at a time ❤

  • @foreverfawn9774
    @foreverfawn9774 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    12 days sober and very grateful I went to get help. I’m only 22 and my blood pressure was at stroke level

    • @coltonjones2253
      @coltonjones2253 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong , I had 6 months and went on a month long bender this past month . Feel so disappointed in myself but. I’m going back to treatment tomorrow to give it another shot! I hope you can get a handle on your monster my friend ! Especially being so young . I’m 28 .. it gets harder even from being 22 ..

    • @Mark-px8jt
      @Mark-px8jt หลายเดือนก่อน

      well done!

  • @ellenreed6299
    @ellenreed6299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1218

    Been sober in AA 27+ years. Never have regretted it. Best decision I’ve ever made. Don’t miss feeling sick, guilty or embarrassed. It’s possible. Don’t give up. One Day at a Time.

    • @SiriusMogul
      @SiriusMogul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wow that gives me hope.

    • @stevecooper7038
      @stevecooper7038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      AA is complete nonsense. It does nothing to address the medical cause of AUD

    • @ellenreed6299
      @ellenreed6299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Nikola Tesla you are correct that AA does not offer medical advice, however millions of recovering people have their lives back due to complete abstinence thru A.A. the proof is in the pudding my dear.

    • @murrumbidgeekid
      @murrumbidgeekid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ellenreed6299 not only speaking from beyond the grave (thanks for your inverntions Mr Tesla) but I wonder if he has shares in this treatment style? No one is saying the system outlined doesn't work.. It obviuosly worked for the presenter. AA is another option.

    • @seriousstrawberry3064
      @seriousstrawberry3064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stevecooper7038 that is why one must see a psychiatrist

  • @leahevehumphries
    @leahevehumphries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1344

    50 days sober today!! So proud of myself, I never thought I'd be able to do it! I've had some strong cravings this past week but managed to overcome them ☺️✨
    Edit: it is the 26th of November 2022 and I never thought I’d get here again. I am once again 50 days sober!! 😁🥰
    Edit: as of the 15th of January I am 100 DAYS SOBER! Wow that has gone fast, I am so proud of myself! 🥰

    • @Lisa-ov8wx
      @Lisa-ov8wx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hi Leah hope your still doing well can you point me in the right direction please

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Lisa-ov8wx :( i am sorry to share this but i am not sober anymore. To be honest it has got worse and now i don't feel right when i don't drink. I really hope I can kick this habit. Life has its ups and downs and I trust myself to get through this and back to the other side. I wish you all the best. We've got this.

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Lisa-ov8wx thank you so much for commenting by the way. I needed this reminder that I need to get back on track.

    • @marianapopescu753
      @marianapopescu753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Be strong and keep moving forward. You can do it💪🤗

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@marianapopescu753 thank you, 11 days sober now - had my best sober moment ever last week when I saw my friends and ended up at a house party with them and didn't drink anything, even when one of them gave me a bottle of beer and another one offered me cider! (they didn't know I've been having issues, I didn't tell them yet). I am so proud of myself for that. 😍

  • @pisceandreams5893
    @pisceandreams5893 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I'm 37....I have been drinking since before I was even 18.
    Both parents alcoholics.
    I can only tell people that I drink to feel normal for a few hours a day.....and then it repeats day after day.
    I do function pretty regularly......I can talk anyone into believing the reasons I drink by pointing out how ridiculous this world can be on a daily basis.
    I desperately want to stop because it's not fair to the love of my life,, even though she doesn't know that it isn't fair.
    I will drink alone and not bother anyone,, unless they get in my way of me cracking beers at 8 at night until 6 or 7 or 8 in the morning.
    I can absolutely out drink anyone who tries at this game with me,, I do it to show them that this isn't a game at all when the opportunity presents itself.
    Wether I'm drunk or sober nobody can tell......But this eats me alive more than it does anyone else.
    I am confessing all this for anyone who may understand.
    I have actually found Jesus, I now know why we absolutely need him,, because even my love for God still takes a backseat to my addiction.
    I am drinking now even though I wake up every day and swear to myself I WILL NOT DRINK TONIGHT.....It's actually pathetic!!
    Like I said,, I drink to feel normal in this crazy world but that shouldn't be the case...... people like you and me have this ritualistic behavior......I have researched for so many years everything about this and I have found that many people with OCD use alcohol to shut their brains off.
    Also people who have closed head injuries suffer from severe depression and anxiety like myself,, amd i also have more than 1 closed head injury.
    I am confessing these details so anyone who reads this and understands the struggle knows they are definitely not alone.....and I need you to know that our families need us and the world needs us and that is why we are Spiritually attacked so heavily!
    I LOVE YOU

    • @Meemeeseecoo
      @Meemeeseecoo ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here, also 37. Finally got tired of drinking, gonna see a Psych on Wednesday, hopefully get help and figure this out. The drinking to feel normal part really hits home. Good luck, ur not alone.

    • @petemalelis3037
      @petemalelis3037 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      39 same story as above but 6 years sober. Jesus is key.

    • @quanburris6162
      @quanburris6162 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here. 35 years old. Tired

    • @markdelaney7326
      @markdelaney7326 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for sharing your story! There is hope.

    • @taz19741974
      @taz19741974 ปีที่แล้ว

      take NAC 600MG TREATS brain poisoning from the alcohol and treats ocd.

  • @rololoy2
    @rololoy2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I decided to become sober after years of alcohol abuse when one day I woke up at noon , with a terrible hangover and suddenly realized that I was 36 years old and I haven’t accomplished anything good in my life. It was a wake up call for me so I needed to change.

  • @moneymikegotuvideos312
    @moneymikegotuvideos312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    I'm at 3 and half weeks no alcohol. Amen thankyou Jesus

    • @lostboi3974
      @lostboi3974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm at 3 and a half years. If you stay the course, your life will be unrecognizable to what it is now. And I mean that in a good way.

    • @moneymikegotuvideos312
      @moneymikegotuvideos312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lostboi3974 thanks much love

    • @carnagedogg4294
      @carnagedogg4294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lostboi3974 TRUE,my psychologist saw me 3 weeks without a drink and still commented how i looked better when i saw him next time ,about 10 weeks with good food and exercise and you are at a good point

    • @lostboi3974
      @lostboi3974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carnagedogg4294 💪😎👍

    • @jarno_r
      @jarno_r 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It better be 4 and a half now boy

  • @jerry123456789101112
    @jerry123456789101112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +700

    I hear ya. 13 month coma. Liver psoriasis. Learned how to walk again. Learned how to say my own name. 6..... 6 years out of work. 9 years sober. You can do it.

    • @danieltaylor1784
      @danieltaylor1784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Well done brother

    • @ambermalone4543
      @ambermalone4543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wow I'm working on three years. After 45 years of hard drinking my last time I went out it was only for five days, but almost lost my life! My hands and arms don't work. My mouth dot-dot-dot. Don't form words very well. I can't even write my name. And I Stumble and fall all the time. I thank God for a AA in sobriety

    • @mnewt712
      @mnewt712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      jerry123456789101112
      Awesome! 😁🙌🏽

    • @millsykooksy4863
      @millsykooksy4863 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn!

    • @blairedawn8307
      @blairedawn8307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG

  • @DarlingtonFrancis
    @DarlingtonFrancis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I started doing drugs since my teenage. Got addicted to fentanyl for over 6 years. Fentanyl addiction actually destroyed my life. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 2 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.

    • @SandraJulia-lw3kd
      @SandraJulia-lw3kd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

    • @mattjeffery09
      @mattjeffery09 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.

    • @SharonFalcon-fj7nb
      @SharonFalcon-fj7nb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YES very sure of Dr.medshrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @nicholda436
      @nicholda436 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ive done shrooms last month in my house. It taught me how severely traumatized I was from alcohol. I healed from many mental traumas from my past and was able to forgive, let go. Shrooms to me is a remedy not a vice. I even felt more refreshed the morning after. So no hangovers. No depression mood for days. No anxiety.I now have a more calm mind

    • @FredaMartins
      @FredaMartins 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on Instagram

  • @jortiz0911ify
    @jortiz0911ify ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Im on my journey of sobriety . . . It’s only been 3 days and I’m praying to god for help to overcome this disease . . . I thought I had it under control but through my blindness it controlled me. I don’t have much money to do all the fancy stuff . . . But I’m not gonna give up I know god has more for me in my life. Keep me in your prayers. . . Thanx to all

    • @timburdsey
      @timburdsey ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You’ve got this, my friend. I believe in you and I know you can do it. Sending love from London.

    • @jortiz0911ify
      @jortiz0911ify ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@timburdsey thank you my friend . . . God bless you

    • @liammorley6727
      @liammorley6727 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jortiz0911ify I hope you're doing well Jesus. You've got this brother, let me know how it's going

    • @GeoffreyGuenther
      @GeoffreyGuenther ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll ask the people at my church tomorrow to pray for you. [DONE!]
      I can tell you with certainty that it IS a condition, not a moral failing.
      Your brain is fine, but it was adapted for 30,000 BC, before wine and beer were invented. Don't drink alcohol.

    • @dermothenley2663
      @dermothenley2663 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Take it day by day!

  • @annamorrison3480
    @annamorrison3480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    I am starting today, Hoping to never ever ever drink again. Struggling. Fingers crossed for me please!

    • @MRHBUCK
      @MRHBUCK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Be strong Anna! This is my first day sober after relapsing and it feels horrible. Just know that you’re not alone on this journey ❤️

    • @seemad4126
      @seemad4126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here.

    • @annamorrison3480
      @annamorrison3480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Starting day number 3! Embarrassed myself yesterday at checkout when I asked the cashier to actually put those three bottles of wine away (she already scanned them) as I changed my mind. The little victories!

    • @torycolvin9500
      @torycolvin9500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@annamorrison3480 That's a huge victory - I'm starting Day 4. Good for you -- don't be embarrassed - be incredibly proud of yourself for that. You can do it.

    • @codyleonard6948
      @codyleonard6948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Read "control alcohol the easy way" by Allan Carr. The guy is genius

  • @ouremberstillburninginside858
    @ouremberstillburninginside858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +834

    turns out by the comments nobody is here by accident, everyone was looking for this

    • @fadiyassine6257
      @fadiyassine6257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      4 days now. I don’t even know how I found this video.

    • @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892
      @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Let's say, you either have drunken alcoholic beverages at some time in your life, or you are an abstainer forever! Seems that's the reason! I'm not making light of it though, but if there's one thing I have, it's anti-triggers, odd.

    • @mirandadouglas2119
      @mirandadouglas2119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me..lol

    • @mohittiwari28
      @mohittiwari28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      True, for its day 1.
      Just pray for me.

    • @NatiLite
      @NatiLite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This comment gave me chills

  • @NativeGnosis
    @NativeGnosis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This video changed my life. Thanks to this video, I started taking Naltrexone and within a few weeks all cravings for alcohol subsided, and within months I stopped even thinking about alcohol. I'm so grateful for this video and for the work Claudia did to spread this information. Naltrexone gave me back my life.

    • @alisongraham3475
      @alisongraham3475 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where did you get the Naltrexone from please?

    • @NativeGnosis
      @NativeGnosis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alisongraham3475
      I got my first month's prescription from urgent care, then went to my GP for my refill. This enabled me to get the first bottle quickly while I waited for an appointment with the doctor.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@NativeGnosis, thanks for sharing

    • @pamw3163
      @pamw3163 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They should make it over the counter

  • @Conrad6900
    @Conrad6900 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I choose to become sober full time, what made me choose to make a turn around was the fact that it was affecting my life around me & especially my grandmother, she told me “turn things around or throw your life away to that stuff”, so I chose to take it to heart & stop drinking altogether in order to better myself & I’m a recovering alcoholic, I’m proud to say that “alcohol will never touch my lips ever again, I’m pro life for myself & for the better of better opportunities for myself”!
    First official commitment date: 12/01/2022 ❤🙏🏻💪🏻

    • @jamestaylor9537
      @jamestaylor9537 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I’m starting today 12/2/22, I’ve had enough of this. No one understands except the good people here. I pray for all of you and I love all of you.

    • @jerrylumpy5141
      @jerrylumpy5141 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeahhh,🎉🔥🤩. Happy for you.

    • @jerrylumpy5141
      @jerrylumpy5141 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@jamestaylor9537 you can do it. I stop for years and then start. Spent more time not drinking then drinking. But, drinking makes me so unhappy. Bad decisions and with binge drinking. Tomorrow is 6 months sober. Feel great.

    • @shadowfox_117
      @shadowfox_117 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good Job C A, never look back.

    • @shadowfox_117
      @shadowfox_117 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jamestaylor9537 you can do it, at least you did the most important thing acknowledging and now taking action...you can do it, my friend!

  • @uwsgrrl2308
    @uwsgrrl2308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    I am celebrating 33 Yrs clean & sober on January 5, 2022. It was the hardest thing I've ever done & it's the best thing I've ever done. I thank AA & my AA buddies for my sobriety.

    • @JustBrian1111
      @JustBrian1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You also gotta thank yourself. With help, yes. But you did it and keep doing it.

    • @uwsgrrl2308
      @uwsgrrl2308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@JustBrian1111 thank you

    • @angelagrabill3366
      @angelagrabill3366 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank you for your comment. I owe my life to AA and AA family too.

    • @TheMarrella
      @TheMarrella ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I see no comments thanking drugs for their sobriety,,,me too with AA have been sober 7 and a half years

    • @stevecooper6515
      @stevecooper6515 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You clearly don't understand the cause of Alcohol Use Disorder.

  • @kc476
    @kc476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +824

    I broke down into sobbing tears when she talked about how they think we need more punishment and to hit "rock bottom" to quit. It's so true, it makes you feel worse when you were already suffering.
    My heart breaks for every human being who has had to endure a soul-crippling addiction of any kind, that it even exists.
    Sending my love and prayers to everyone here. 💙🙏

    • @MARSBELLA1
      @MARSBELLA1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      me too - its awful and so cruel. Only we lose faith in EVERYTHING but only the most compassionate stay with us. AA doesnt work for us all and its so annoying they have to come onto a TEDTALK about another method and still go on about it. I drink because I am crippling shy. Thus I cant stand up at meetings and talk about my feelings. I KNOW that AA wont work for me but TSM WILL. We should all have the right to this medication. We can only hope - I pray for all addicts all the time. So few understand it X you are not alone

    • @manthakalyan6343
      @manthakalyan6343 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am going through the same

    • @frostie212
      @frostie212 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank u kc

    • @nolavegadaboss
      @nolavegadaboss ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @tiaduck9161
      @tiaduck9161 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      me too! i even made a short about it because it reminds me of my mother!!!

  • @clingyants
    @clingyants 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I did the Sinclair method. It is a miracle for me. First 3 weeks my alcohol consumption was reduced by 70% with more and more craving free days without alcohol. Thank you Claudia for stepping up.

    • @user-iv9xm3vd8p
      @user-iv9xm3vd8p 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you doing? I am exactly 3 months on TSM and drinking daily but always in compliance with naltrexone. I had my first sober day today without cravings today. I will only drink if I take the medication first. I want extinction.

    • @clingyants
      @clingyants 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@user-iv9xm3vd8p
      Hey there! After a month, feeling good! I usually have 4-5 days without wanting a drink, and then there's one day when I get cravings with less drinking than before. Also I can stop the drinking when I still have alcohol when it's a must. I've also noticed while resisted an urge, that the cravings only last about 1 hour instead of the 5-6 hours like it used to be. Progress! 🌟 Don't give up! Keep going! Our body must be different, you must have drank way more than me, I assume thats why it takes more time for you for the progress.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awesome !!

    • @NativeGnosis
      @NativeGnosis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-iv9xm3vd8p Extinction will come! Keep up with your compliance. Compliance is key.

  • @jordanaycox1984
    @jordanaycox1984 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This TedTalk saved my life. Successful treatment using the Sinclair method after a year of Naltrexone combined with normal drinking and positive reinforcement on sober days without Naltrexone. 4 1/2 years completely sober and without the help of the Sinclair Method's effect of causing an indifference to alcohol, I wouldn't be here today. Looking back it's hard to imagine that was even my life. Thank you for releasing me from my prison.

  • @FishGuts92
    @FishGuts92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1260

    To all those inflicted with alcohol addiction: I am sorry for all those who judge you and I am sorry for the hardships you face to get clean.
    Much love and good luck xo

    • @Marshallmallowlol
      @Marshallmallowlol 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      FishGuts92 thank you, this means a lot

    • @elliselite9828
      @elliselite9828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thank you love!

    • @nicholas70paul
      @nicholas70paul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nice :)

    • @aaronluevano8236
      @aaronluevano8236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank u so much for these words. God bless u.

    • @healthfreak18
      @healthfreak18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It's rare to hear things like this and what this woman is talking about. Usually people just kick you while you're down and think you're no good if you have an addiction, even after you get sober.

  • @udonnomi6958
    @udonnomi6958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +546

    I drank daily from age 20 to age 34. Tried to quit several times during those years and once was able to stay sober for 6 months. During those six months, there were intense cravings and a strong desire to drink at nearly all times. One drink ruined that sober period and plunged me back into my habit again. Alcohol absolutely ran my life, every last little thing revolved around my habit.
    To this day I do not know how I stopped drinking. I had resigned myself to my alcoholism and given up on any attempts to quit. One night I was fairly drunk and went to take another sip of whiskey, it tasted bad to me and I poured it out. Haven't had a drink since. It's been 1.5 years and I've had no cravings or desire to drink what so ever.

    • @princillerwilliams9996
      @princillerwilliams9996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I am fed and needs to stop this drinking for good

    • @IamMusicSauce
      @IamMusicSauce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am so so grateful for these moments

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Udon Nomi - Congratulations Darling! You Did IT!!!!

    • @Fearlessfighter0
      @Fearlessfighter0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      did u get any crazy side effects from not drinking?

    • @truejoyvette
      @truejoyvette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So happy to hear this! I am Believing this for my brother & loved ones. ♡ 🙏

  • @Prince-of-Whales666
    @Prince-of-Whales666 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I followed her advice and it changed my life. Incredible. I feel so happy now.

  • @jacobdaniel8239
    @jacobdaniel8239 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I struggle facing the fact that I don't want sobriety bad enough. That's the hardest part for me. Accepting that I want alcohol more than sobriety.

  • @peaceannie
    @peaceannie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +604

    I can't drink cause the next day I feel depressed. Not worth it.

    • @lnpiparo
      @lnpiparo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      That's exactly how I felt not to mention crushing anxiety accompanied by guilt. I was so worried about what I said the night before and if anyone could tell that I acted tipsy.

    • @natw5040
      @natw5040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      i feel so anxious the next day

    • @cynthiamarston2208
      @cynthiamarston2208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly plus the depressing yucky day lasts like forever and getting anything done just doesn’t happen. No wonder I ended up drinking again to escape all that and daily for years! Looking back I don’t know how I did that. Sometimes I think of the waste of my life and feel bad but it...darn bad!

    • @yaomang08
      @yaomang08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same here I felt worried for no reason the next day along with guilt and depression

    • @alexallen6286
      @alexallen6286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      As an alcoholic, I kind of see drinking as borrowing happiness from tomorrow. Sad part is you can never get out of debt.

  • @robertwiegman1
    @robertwiegman1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    I'm an alcoholic too and I've been sober now for 7 years :)

    • @masieldubois6882
      @masieldubois6882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Well you’re not an alcoholic anymore :)

    • @shototodoroki4816
      @shototodoroki4816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i was now am one week becoz of the lockdown

    • @TheWintergreenMan
      @TheWintergreenMan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Masiel Dubois it never leaves you. You have to remember that it can snap with a single drink.

    • @iNotJackieChan
      @iNotJackieChan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea, and I bet naltrexone had nothing to do with it lol

    • @jofearlesstaylorrussellrus9956
      @jofearlesstaylorrussellrus9956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🙏

  • @n00dles78
    @n00dles78 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I came across this video 7 months ago after hitting rock bottom. I got naltrexone shortly after. It has changed my life. Thank you, I really mean it.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congrats for finding TSM, understanding how it could help you and then getting the job done.

  • @annaburtenheim5310
    @annaburtenheim5310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    11months in 5 days. no drugs, no rehab, no friends, no AA. its been 6 years of alcohoism. and i had my first birthday without alcohol since i was 16. im now a 23 year old sober person.

  • @jacovandenheever6306
    @jacovandenheever6306 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I had my first drink when I was 14 years old. My father was an alcoholic. 34 years later and I'm still drinking, I can't stop. I thought that I was always in control, but now at age 54, I see how it ruined my life. I can't stop. I pray everyday to Jesus to help me.

  • @rickmelideo720
    @rickmelideo720 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    After 5 rehabs and countless detox's, I lost everything. Family, friends, my marriage and still fighting to get sober. I have a doctors appointment tomorrow and will ask him about this treatment. Im at the point, I will try anything.

    • @lisabucco7607
      @lisabucco7607 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Vivitrol please ask saved my life

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Naltrexone in pill form is most effective if you learn and commit to the method for 4-12 months. The Sinclair Method is all over social media. Do not let your family doctor talk you out of this method. They have very little training in addiction, especially TSM.

    • @markwilletts1252
      @markwilletts1252 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus Christ it’s so simple work a program of AA, it’s gonna be hard but it’s a very simple program.

    • @fonzarellyplay370
      @fonzarellyplay370 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had no idea you can use suboxine for drinking

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@fonzarellyplay370 , Naltrexone

  • @jlabeautyxo4188
    @jlabeautyxo4188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    I’m 46 months sober , ODAAT congratulations 🎊

    • @simoneg4397
      @simoneg4397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jennifer Leigh Arthur CONGRATS!!!!

    • @konstanting3400
      @konstanting3400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're star! Congratulations! ❤️

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Quit the counting. Get saved. Jesus loves you. He created you Jennifer. Have you ever created anything? Yeah. I know you know.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Prayers for Jennifer Leigh. God's love conquers all.

  • @aaronguerrero985
    @aaronguerrero985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    My sobriety date is Jan 28, 2018. Since then, I've been promoted at work, I've had raises, I got engaged, I got married, I got out of debt, bought a house, made amends to my loved ones, regained everyone's respect, and have become dependable again. Among many MANY other things. I live a disciplined life that I love. I'm not bored either, I LOVE MY LIFE. The blessings are endless. I'd be naive if I said that alcohol and drugs were not the problem. My journey was painful and difficult but believe me when I say that if I can do it, anyone can. Try it. Your life will change, for the better too.

    • @themindhelp9584
      @themindhelp9584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Keep going!!! I am so happy to read your beautiful story!

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's called the grace of God, man. And the prayers of your mom. Jesus, bro. Did you think it was you?

    • @doraho669
      @doraho669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Woow needed to see this

    • @whatwillbem6825
      @whatwillbem6825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then …there is hope for my 38 year old son…😔

    • @michellebrassart1324
      @michellebrassart1324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing! It gives me so much hope!

  • @user-zq7lu7jd1d
    @user-zq7lu7jd1d 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm bawling. My psych teacher had us watch this. As a 25 year old who started heavily drinking at an early age this really slapped me in the face but gave me hope. I'm 7 months sober now and I reeeeaaaaally resonate with the part where she was talking about being sober for 6 months and thinking "hey I think I can have one drink, I'll be able to control myself" Then spiraled. I keep having this same thought thinking I'd be able to come back with control. but I know that what happened to her is exactly what would happen to me. I just don't care about my li it at all when drinking. Surround yourself with people who care about you and listen to yourself, sober. It can save you from so much life changing damage.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Free info and free support for The Sinclair Method is all over social media today. I highly recommend the book by Roy Eskapa.

  • @stopandsmelltheroses104
    @stopandsmelltheroses104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Checking back in, im now 8 and a half years sober 🎉 Claudia i watch your talk a few times each year as reminder of the journey ive embarked on. ❤

    • @TheLemmer02
      @TheLemmer02 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Did you take naltrexone?

    • @Adrian-yi8fl
      @Adrian-yi8fl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@TheLemmer02I'm not sure if the original poster took Naltrexone but the Sinclair method is more than just taking Naltrexone. On the Sinclair method you would only take Naltrexone if you are going to drink and then take it one hour before your first drink. If you're at a point where you're going to have an alcohol-free day than you would not take Naltrexone at all that day.
      I'm doing that and already cut my alcohol down by 40%

  • @titanimagalasi5139
    @titanimagalasi5139 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    When she said she drank because she was physically addicted to alcohol and not cause of trauma or a bad life.. it's like she explained my life..

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I do hope you look into this method. It is groundbreaking in my opinion. TSM documentary 'One Little Pill'
      see the right margin in r/Alcoholism_Medication for more TSM resources
      The book by Dr. Roy Eskapa on The Sinclair Method explains this science and is important reading for everyone.

    • @susanfisher3655
      @susanfisher3655 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She owned her AUD. Anyone that wants to blame it on something WILL find anything. Until you own it, sobriety will be difficult.

    • @Meat_Waygu
      @Meat_Waygu ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know I really related to that. so many programs and help for people who have addiction because of past trauma or bad living. Nobody ever believes me when I tell them I'm addicted to alcohol because I enjoy the feeling it gives me not because I have had a bad life. I'd always tell people I drink because I'm happy and I like to and that was the honest truth, even though it doesn't change the fact that I have a problem with alcohol.

    • @stevegilmore3399
      @stevegilmore3399 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Meat_Waygu same here man, so hard to quit

    • @Charan-fs6vh
      @Charan-fs6vh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      9,m😅😮

  • @Sunnydayz2046
    @Sunnydayz2046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    After years of alcoholism I tried naltrexone and I am 1 year sober and am still going strong..it’s taken away all my cravings and I have absolutely no desire to consume alcohol...thank you for this video it really did save my life x

    • @cdunne208
      @cdunne208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Seems expensive. Does insurance cover it?

    • @chrissysmith1198
      @chrissysmith1198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I just picked up my subscription, binge drinker for 15 years here, I have hope 🙏🏻

    • @chrissysmith1198
      @chrissysmith1198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Chris Dunne how expensive is your alcohol and everything else it costs you like missed work ?

    • @ralphealking4071
      @ralphealking4071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where can I find naltrexone

    • @charlenethompson6406
      @charlenethompson6406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What about the mental and spiritual aspects of your recovery? Can you get that from that pill 😂

  • @marjoryyilmaz5910
    @marjoryyilmaz5910 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Now I can finally understand what my brother is going through. Thank You so much for enlightening me. I will be more patient and compassionate going forward...

  • @Notimp0rtant523
    @Notimp0rtant523 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Props to this woman. So often we believe highly successful people can’t have problems, or that they aren’t also grasping in desperation like those with fewer resources at their disposal. Drugs are one of nature’s true equalizers. It cares not who you are or where you come from. I’m with you, sister. Right here with you.

  • @ladylibra3404
    @ladylibra3404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    I had been battling alcoholism since my early 20s and I never wanted to take Naltrexone cause I thought I could do it myself ha! When I got to the VA hospital I was offered it again I took it and have been sober 8 years and counting 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @hownottobeanasshole5675
      @hownottobeanasshole5675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats!

    • @ryanburr5948
      @ryanburr5948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Got some input on monthly/yearly cost of Naltrexone, Lady Libra? I'm living in China as an English teacher. Wanting to take action.

    • @ladylibra3404
      @ladylibra3404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ryan Burr when I looked up the price it said about $50 for 30 days but I don't know what that dosage is I started at I think 50mg or 75mg the first year and weened off the second year be blessed 💫💫💫

    • @ryanburr5948
      @ryanburr5948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ladylibra3404 cool. advice for a Website for purchase? Again, I'm living in China for now

    • @michaelheery7427
      @michaelheery7427 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ryanburr5948 how you now?

  • @richardgadberry8398
    @richardgadberry8398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    Last drop I had was back in '94. 26 years sober.

    • @thomaspartington8526
      @thomaspartington8526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow man what an achievement . Well done 👍

    • @richardgadberry8398
      @richardgadberry8398 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thomaspartington8526 Thanks.

    • @thehomeboidrew8570
      @thehomeboidrew8570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@richardgadberry8398 I was born in 94 so that’s just insane to picture someone being sober that long lol Happy for you though!

    • @rudyferrell
      @rudyferrell 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did you do it?

    • @yome6132
      @yome6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are a strong man

  • @jeffkamen703
    @jeffkamen703 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I saw this video soon after it was posted, a couple thousand views. I have never had more than one drink since I first saw it. Now, I haven't had a drink in years! My goal is not abstinence, but I am never interested in drinking. Maybe one day... Thanks Claudia for spreading the word about TSM

  • @fuzzlewit9
    @fuzzlewit9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Very brave of her to be so open, and very well said. Kudos to her.

  • @daveclarke60
    @daveclarke60 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I got sober with AA ...28 years sober just for today...I hope everybody gets well soon

    • @BigWill2k
      @BigWill2k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      and no radical drugs needed

    • @shirleyandfrankfrye9696
      @shirleyandfrankfrye9696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well done Theresa. I am coming up for 32 yrs sober. AA helped me remain sober, up until today

    • @karacolclough3106
      @karacolclough3106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My mum, sober for 37 years, what a gift to grow up with a sober parent in AA

    • @natbarron
      @natbarron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m 3 days sober - wish me luck

    • @emresaka4934
      @emresaka4934 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@natbarron how is going dude?

  • @angelinehernandez4838
    @angelinehernandez4838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I have ruined my relationships with people because of alcohol. Thank you for this.

    • @ThePlutonicWay
      @ThePlutonicWay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear you 🙏

    • @ruhiab6390
      @ruhiab6390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have done so too.I hate myself more each day for it.The guilt and shame is too much.I have today decided to quit Alcohol.I am tired of not having control over my words and actions hence hurting people that I love and care about.I'll take it one day at a time
      So help me God.

    • @skii7602
      @skii7602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ruhiab6390 same here. Good luck!!

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jesus forgives you completely and holds nothing but open arms to you. Come to him as a child. Hope will not disappoint.

    • @xxyes8879
      @xxyes8879 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@duncescotus2342 Can JC also prescribe nalmefene? If not, his 'forgiveness' is no good to me.

  • @ryanmcneila1957
    @ryanmcneila1957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    34 days clean. Brother overdosed and passed away 37 days ago. Good luck to us all.

    • @nektariosvasilopoulos3841
      @nektariosvasilopoulos3841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sorry for your loss. Good luck.

    • @TheBubblybobby
      @TheBubblybobby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep my brother passed away at 39 from an alcoholic seizure and i took more seizures then him AA and good help saved my life 14 years sober ! And i feel like i'm on holidays with the things i went through on the friggin stuff ! :)

    • @tobyf4910
      @tobyf4910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ryan Mcneila: You gotta be willing to stop... It's not booze you gotta stop, it's the constant little voice in your head saying ''Just one more'' It's ALL psychological!!

    • @jessidipz1718
      @jessidipz1718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong 😇

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry to hear that Ryan. May he rest in peace. May you keep your's

  • @Llight-qg9tc
    @Llight-qg9tc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I'm 48hours sober. Stay strong (any one else who struggles) God be with you.

  • @wishicouldshowmyname5815
    @wishicouldshowmyname5815 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I realized I just wanted to forget my whole life at the end of the day. Work was a good day, but regret of most of my life made me forget it.

  • @bradleylatham8184
    @bradleylatham8184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I have literally lost everything and was recently diagnosed with multiple skin cancers. Alcohol Use Disorder is a progressive killer. For everyone who has this monster on their back, lets pray together.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Skin cancer is being healed by the power of Jesus Christ. Nice guy. He really is.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bradley, I have had many skin cancers. Any non-melanoma can be treated quite well and a full recovery is possible. And today can be one day you don't drink. Get to a meeting, brother. You can do this!

    • @bradleylatham8184
      @bradleylatham8184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@reddiver7293 Thanks for your vote of confidence.

    • @bradleylatham8184
      @bradleylatham8184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Branislav Malikovic YUP, because the sickness industry is in full swing.

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bradley, how are you love? Please let me know. I care!

  • @pablpfanque
    @pablpfanque 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1072

    Alcohol. Worst drug ever.

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It's a freakin' hideous drug.

    • @kerryarmstrong2876
      @kerryarmstrong2876 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Xanax is probably worse

    • @bitmx
      @bitmx 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No.

    • @peteryyz43
      @peteryyz43 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Espada: "tobaco"..What's that?: Is it more addictive than Tobacco?

    • @brianoneill2776
      @brianoneill2776 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheAnswersAreWithin alcohol is s depressant..it depresses the central nervous system

  • @scarlettvschultz
    @scarlettvschultz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thanks to this Claudia Christian talk I took the plunge and decided to get help and hopefully take naltrexone and today is the day of that journey. Thank you Ted talks and Claudia ✨

  • @Foryou2you
    @Foryou2you 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was so moved by her story. Definitely one of the best Tedtalk I've viewed. Well said!

  • @yahyaelalami5876
    @yahyaelalami5876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Im 3 days off. ❤ I hope i can do it for eternal life

    • @JuneGirl35
      @JuneGirl35 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Man don't quit. I'm drinking beer right now.

    • @liamlennox8401
      @liamlennox8401 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      how's it going so far?

    • @noreenalbright2245
      @noreenalbright2245 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you try the Sinclair ? naltrexone? It sounds like less triggers too.

    • @mrlucky4585
      @mrlucky4585 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I doubt it

    • @maureenperez9999
      @maureenperez9999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can.

  • @rubyandkenny
    @rubyandkenny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I was an alcoholic for twenty years of my life, it took a severe overdose where I almost died for the penny to drop for me, I said to myself I am not doing this anymore to myself and I am proudly five years sober, I did it all on my own, with willpower and the love of God xxx

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Proudly sober. Willpower. God. One of these three things deserves praise. What is the penny drop? You are lovely and unique. God is with you/

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@duncescotus2342
      You know you can look up the expression on the internet? Lol.

    • @gypsyfiresign1064
      @gypsyfiresign1064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Willpower is so 7nderrated. Our minds literally manifest our reality. That and surrendering your will to our Lord Jesus Christ can work miracles. I'm hoping these two powerhouses work for me

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sinead Brophy - That is Wonderful! How are you today love?

    • @Mark-pp7jy
      @Mark-pp7jy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gypsyfiresign1064 For the chronic alcoholic, "willpower" is an illusion. All the willpower in the world, won't change my genetic composition. I have a physical allergy to alcohol, and intellectual prowess will never cure me.

  • @josephbrassington9315
    @josephbrassington9315 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great to hear your story - I'm currently battling alcoholism myself and one day I hope to be in your position; better, sober and free from "the curse" of it

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is no real curse, you just have to understand how the brain learns and unlearns via a crazy reward system. Read the book she read, by Dr. Roy Eskapa. Fascinating.

  • @xsdom
    @xsdom ปีที่แล้ว +14

    14 years sober over here. Thanks to AA. 12 step recovery is without a doubt the best signed program for alcoholics to recover.

  • @Chico11661
    @Chico11661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    This vídeo literally saved my life. Never gonna be able to thank enough for this.

    • @musingsfromthewoodlands
      @musingsfromthewoodlands 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It was your own Response to the info, that saved your life. You give the credit away from yourself, own the credit. You are a powerful being of light, and your own guidance brought you to this point. Eternal blessings

    • @musingsfromthewoodlands
      @musingsfromthewoodlands 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Falafelpump rosh you done the work friend as did I, even tho I used the same phrase :Miraculous. WE ARE DIVINE 🌱🔥👣

    • @keithnorris8982
      @keithnorris8982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's truly such an amazing and simple solution to such a complicated problem.

    • @jorgeluisarmndo
      @jorgeluisarmndo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@musingsfromthewoodlandsNot too clear to me; is she still drinking and taking Naltrexone or TSM?

    • @jorgeluisarmndo
      @jorgeluisarmndo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@musingsfromthewoodlands Not too clear to me; is she still drinking and taking Naltrexone or TSM?

  • @josephpasquarella878
    @josephpasquarella878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Keys to quitting: find a more constructive hobby to fill the void, and do not take your friends and family seriously when they say “it’s ok to have just a couple”. Know that deep down almost everyone wishes they can quit like you did, and that you are doing something special and honorable by staying sober!

    • @ProactiveResilience
      @ProactiveResilience 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. (:

    • @tensegritywill
      @tensegritywill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Very well said. AA tells you to drop the ego but I believe a little healthy pride can keep you going.

    • @bencarter3166
      @bencarter3166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I can put it down for weeks at a time. But once I take that first pop the party is on. Best path to success is abstinence. Don't bargain with the booze as you'll lose every time.

    • @shanthilal6360
      @shanthilal6360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please try alcoholic anonymous meeting, really it works... Iam sober for 4 years

    • @Mark-pp7jy
      @Mark-pp7jy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Recovering from a fatal condition requires more than a hobby. It's called living to good purpose on a daily basis!

  • @teetrav
    @teetrav ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alcoholism is deadly I watched it destroy my family on every single level.

  • @ma13sa
    @ma13sa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am in AA fellowship and I am sober for the last 742 days.. one day at a time... no medications, no injections... I am not only away from alcohol but I am able to identify by defects of character...

  • @laceyj311
    @laceyj311 5 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    AA saved my life. I tried absolutly everything to stop and nothing worked. It took me a few tries because I wasn't willing enough. I use to couldnt go a day without drinking. My sobriety date is 11/15/16

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      AA works great for some people, Lacey. I'm grateful that it worked well for you. The mistake is in thinking that if it works well for one, it will work for everyone.

    • @merijn1902
      @merijn1902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Still sober?

    • @cathykidd6688
      @cathykidd6688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Glad it worked for you - but AA only has 5 - 8 % success rate.

    • @MrAxegrinder
      @MrAxegrinder 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cathy Kidd unfortunately you can’t measure the success rate of AA because not everyone that gets sober in AA will stay in AA. There’s no way of knowing.

    • @Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry
      @Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      There's no way of knowing if AA "works" because AA does not keep statistics, but also, as it is a spiritual programme, asking if it "works" is like asking if Catholicism or Judaism or Taoism "works". It works for those who desire to stay sober so much that they are willing to surrender their need to drink/use to their higher power on a daily basis, find a sponsor to work the steps with, and go to meetings regularly. And if that sounds like too much work for some people, then I guess AA won't "work" for them.

  • @morganmiklus1288
    @morganmiklus1288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    Randomly came upon this Tedx. I have been on Naltrexone for 7 months now after departing from treatment and my life and drinking habits have ultimately changed, so drastically that it's like a rebirth. Loved this video.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congrats Morgan !

    • @roseannamazzei7849
      @roseannamazzei7849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I just started them Monday. Good luck to you...

    • @ritabrito5040
      @ritabrito5040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Any side effects? I take anxiety medication, and wonder if I can take it.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ritabrito5040 , most people have no side effects. TSMers recommend starting with 25mg for a few weeks with food and water, before going to 50mg.

    • @ritabrito5040
      @ritabrito5040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Michael-tr7uq but I take anxiety medication. Don't know if they are compatible.

  • @charmainepriestman915
    @charmainepriestman915 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    21yrs sober sending love to everyone in it, trying to overcome it, and sober
    The struggle is very very very real

  • @thefool2007
    @thefool2007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Claudia gave an incredible Ted talk! Wow. She really shared her experiences and how she overcame AUD eloquently.

  • @charlesmiller9589
    @charlesmiller9589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    My Brother died from it, he was relatively young, I stopped last year it’s been tough but in October I’ll have a year Clean & Sober....12 steps and Praying 🙏 helps...

    • @athar0966
      @athar0966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really sad to hear , praying for you 🙏🙏

  • @hangsambo12
    @hangsambo12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    I have gone cold turkey and am 4 months sober today. I was a daily vodka drinker for ten years.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Drumguy What are u on about?

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** Oh, OK. That's nice. Thanks for the support.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ***** Why are you such an expert here? I've been to two rehabs, lost my job for drinking in work and been hospitalised numerous times. You don't like to see someone doing well? I'm still young.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh, I see, you're a more qualified alcoholic? Your a hateful person and I think it is you who is the dry drunk.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You goaded me into saying what has happened tho me by saying 'you don't need support'. I had to defend myself to a snob like yourself.As for bragging, I believe I mentioned a job and entering hospital. You however, have to one up or rather, million dollar that up, with your night club and three homes. As for stepwork, here's the age old AA fundamentalist, throwing rhetoric and bias at someone who believes they can achieve sobriety a different way. AA is not for everyone.You're bitter, still and a dry drunk, who can't empathise with someone trying to achieve the same goal, but by different means. Crawl back under your narrow minded rock and leave the people who want to actually do good alone.

  • @D64nz
    @D64nz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It works.
    Or it did for me at least. I made two changes to my life, and haven't had a single incident since. I use naltrexone when I drink and I switched to low alcohol (2.5%) beer. I went from the guy that always took a bottle to bed with me becase I couldn't miss out on one last drink for the night, to the guy that now loses interests halfway through a bottle, and has found ways to put the cap back on so it's not wasted, so I don't have to feel bad for tipping it out. more importnatly, I went from the angry drunk guy who yelled at my wife, to the usual kind and friendly guy I am any time I'm not wasted. Better yet, other than taking the pill, and omg the hoops you have to jump through to get them here in NZ is insane, it was effortless. It was a natural progression.
    A huge thankyou to Claudia, and the work she does. I can't even imagine how my life would have gone without this.

  • @sonny9054
    @sonny9054 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Saw this vid three years ago. Helped me greatly back then. But stress from work hit me big time and I can sincerely say that I ran away from this vid. I finally said quits to my job albeit it in six months advance, and that brought me back the strength to face this vid again and am glad for it. I’ve slowly started moving forward by seeing doctors, taking tests and meds, and readying myself for rehab. I’ve earned enough to retire, but still need to endure another five months at work. I am glad to be living in Japan, where I have no needs to worry for my medical bill, but will need the courage to march on for another few months.

  • @swst
    @swst 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I went to AA in 97 & thanks to the people there, my sponsor, family, friends & “The Man Upstairs” I haven’t had a drink since.

    • @jimogrady1131
      @jimogrady1131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      dave moore Those AA people are so Friendly & helpful. I had the worst time drinking 10 years & never built up a Tolerance 4-5 sips I was Buzzed. I think it had to do with me being only 5'6" Tall

    • @stevecooper7038
      @stevecooper7038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jimogrady1131 AA is bollocks & does nothing to address the medical cause of AUD

    • @52andattitude48
      @52andattitude48 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nikola Tesla Why thank you for your unsolicited input Mr. Tesla

    • @murrumbidgeekid
      @murrumbidgeekid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      1986 and counting.. :)

    • @revoksfn7354
      @revoksfn7354 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's no man upstairs there's a man right there

  • @Playlist25951
    @Playlist25951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I’m 10 years sober due to naltrexone. I had to do the research myself. It wasn’t offered to me by 20+ doctors. I had to ask for it which is sad IMO. I’m still frustrated by that. I destroyed half of my life due to addiction to pills and alcohol and I just needed one pill a day to cure it. I now own two houses and a small business. I’m still fixing mistakes from my past. Including family relationships.

    • @ballsey4521
      @ballsey4521 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful👏👏👏

    • @alexprior-byrne4597
      @alexprior-byrne4597 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well done lad x

    • @peenweinerstien3977
      @peenweinerstien3977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is fantastic!!

    • @buffster948
      @buffster948 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm really pleased for you, Ronnie, although I know it must still be pretty frustrating to have to keep making up for lost time and fixing the damage your addiction did...but, you are fixing it! You're free from the prison you made (and hopefully any trauma that may have led you there in the first place). I don't know you, so it feels weird to say I feel proud of you, but, I really do. Well done and thank you for being an example to others.

    • @mrsbelcher
      @mrsbelcher ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So you took one pill each day and your brain stopped asking for getting high? The lockdowns threw me in a very unpleasant drug addiction (Alcohol is the worst part of it) and since two years I'm failing to STAY sober. Managed to stay dry for a few weeks or a month from time to time, but I always relapsed due to cravings. I hate it so much.

  • @katienoneofyourbusiness1048
    @katienoneofyourbusiness1048 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Naltrexone worked for me too. The month I didn't get my shot though. Back to the obsessed alcoholic. I can't even work anymore. I'm 40 sleeping on my parents couch. I want that back again.

  • @freddiegeyser6534
    @freddiegeyser6534 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    After many "types of treatments " only to relapse again and again I can now with confidence state that , as with Claudia Christian, I joined a programme called SAHARA which also involves Naltrexone treatment by a doctor to detox and help to see the monster for what it is and then followed up with weekly counselling sessions. All at no cost !!!
    I've been sober for 120 days and still going strong, thanks to this treatment programme

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is there a webpage?

  • @piscessun3087
    @piscessun3087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    August 21,2020... Will be 7 years sober.
    LOVE A.A.❤️

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good for you Paula! Yesterday, 5/8/20 was my 26 year anniversary. With my home group via Zoom. Sobriety and being a part of the fellowship has been the greatest adventure of my life! My mantra today is, “Live in the problem, or live in the solution”. It’s really as simple as that! I wish you all the best!

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paula Trexler ,you are so beautiful ❤️ ❤️❤️ and I will be happy to know you

    • @mickduke5812
      @mickduke5812 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bill and Bobs legacy has saved millions of alcoholics-Well done-keep on keeping on!!!

    • @franco7928
      @franco7928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gemini did my first meeting on Friday, loved it and doing a different one this evening. 3 days now, and I'm not drinking today.

    • @piscessun3087
      @piscessun3087 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@franco7928 I was fortunate that the mental obsession and physical craving was lifted quickly... And once that is done... There is no reason to ever pick up.
      I found playing the tape forward very helpful on what always happened when I did pick up.
      Believe it or not I rarely think of drinking and it doesn't bother me if other people drink around me, I just know that I can't
      Same with cigarettes, I quit smoking after 19 years in June of '99... And I'm so grateful I don't smoke anymore as that too once the mental obsession and physical craving is lifted why smoke?
      3 days is huge especially if you drank everyday, which I did for years... Congratulations and keep going to meetings, speaker meetings were my favorite when I first went in the rooms.
      🥰👍... Easy does it!

  • @clammymccockleshell6075
    @clammymccockleshell6075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    To everyone who has commented on this video, I am rooting for you. I am sorry you struggle. I have faith in you and your strength. Good luck

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bad place to put your faith. Try the savior. But you have a soft heart. And that will never fail. So I commend you and say that God hears you for sure. Try not to take this the wrong way. I hope you understand. In other words, the strength comes from God through Jesus.

  • @WhyWouldYou821
    @WhyWouldYou821 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My psychiatrist mentioned this method to me just last week and then I found this TED talk! I'm pumped

  • @tracy262
    @tracy262 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thanks to AA and having a wonderful sponsor and meetings I don’t have to take a pill to stay sober. I have 26 years and am living my best life! AA works if we work it!❤

    • @Adrian-yi8fl
      @Adrian-yi8fl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      With the Sinclair method you don't take the pill if you don't drink. And you don't have to go to meetings everyday and whine about alcohol.

  • @jjwashburn60
    @jjwashburn60 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Drinking alcohol repetitively is like living life with the emergency brake stuck on , in the steering wheel all the way to the left, So you keep going in circles

    • @jonredd650
      @jonredd650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never heard it put that way before, but so true!

    • @millsykooksy4863
      @millsykooksy4863 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

  • @LaurieSomma
    @LaurieSomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    So powerful. I am 24 years sober from drugs and 4 years sober from alcohol. I almost let 2021 get the best of my sobriety but I DIDN'T!! Being sober is the best gift I have ever given myself.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bravo!

    • @chrissparks3254
      @chrissparks3254 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! Wel said. Sobriety is definitely an amazing gift. 4-2-17

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏼 So admirable!

    • @LaurieSomma
      @LaurieSomma ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davisholman8149 Thank you so much!

    • @wineasy9002
      @wineasy9002 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations Laurie. Hope you doing well in your life. 🙌

  • @blacklabel3980
    @blacklabel3980 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Been doing the TSM method for a week and have cut down from 8 high gravity beers a night to 1... it friggin works!

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congrats on finding TSM. Stay compliant until you reach PE.
      The 19th century German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer said, “All truth passes through three stages: First, it is ridiculed; second, it is violently opposed; and third, it is accepted as self-evident”.

  • @jacksputrid
    @jacksputrid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    “That’s just a billboard” every drinker here felt that.

  • @jessicamedrano7079
    @jessicamedrano7079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Thank you for this video. I grew up with an addict my father he died 2 years ago from alcohol and I've been drinking since I feel sad, lots of depression I hide for days don't return calls stop talking to friends and family .I turned into a monster and I'm trying so hard to get out!!! today I made the choice to stop for good wish me luck and lots of prayers.

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Best wishes for your new direction, Jessica! The Sinclair Method might be a good "Plan B" for you if Plan A doesn't go as expected.

    • @marcbelec6403
      @marcbelec6403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      im sorry for your liss, still quit?

    • @solanjedere
      @solanjedere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are u OK now?

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica Medrano - The fact that you wrote this Love says that you are so close! You are so brave and courageous! Thank you for this. Please, please, please, let me know how you are doing. I CARE!!!

  • @alisymington1076
    @alisymington1076 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I am glad she has found something that worked. For me, the journey would not be the same without the spiritual journey I have recieved through AA. If I had taken a medication route, I would not have had the opportunity to be the person I am today, surrounded by a community of people like me, and with a connection to something more than myself. A medication could work, but I hope this woman may find this wonderful path of growth in the future.

    • @fearsomebeard4290
      @fearsomebeard4290 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m an AA guy too and am now almost 12 years sober. I am an alcoholic with alcoholism. The twelve steps gave me a life beyond my dreams. I love being a sober member of Alcoholics Anonymous who attends at least 3 meetings a week, has a sponsor, has sponsees, has meeting commitments and is part of a home group. It’s a wonderful fellowship of people just like me who suffer from alcoholism.

    • @user-ok1xq5qm9t
      @user-ok1xq5qm9t 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As an atheist I completely cannot stand to be in AA, since you hear "god and higher power" every minute. I am trying to beat my way through discipline and medications and other self improvement stuff.

    • @tonelelone
      @tonelelone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ok1xq5qm9t I too am an atheist, and I have been sober in AA for almost 9 years.
      There is a place for the atheist, too.

    • @flautist02
      @flautist02 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ok1xq5qm9t higher power does not necessarily mean the Christian God. There's even a section in The Big Book that talks about atheism. God, in this sense, refers to God as you know it. A lot of people consider their higher power to be dogs or family etc.

  • @c.e.anderson558
    @c.e.anderson558 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    38 years ago I had had enough.
    I told my mom I was tired of the life of alcoholism .
    1984.
    No rehabs on every corner.
    Had to go to a state hospital.
    Went in Saturday night.
    3 days detoxing. Hallucinations.
    Woke up on Tuesday sober.
    28 days later went home.
    Gained 20 lbs.
    Never looked back . No AA. No shrinks.
    You have to make up your mind.
    You have to WANT to stop.

  • @InvisionTM2
    @InvisionTM2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I'm killing myself with alcoholism. I want so bad to get better,,, I'm tired of disappoint the love of my life. Thank you so much for sharing your history. Of all the substances I have used in my life, this is the one that's most dangerous and the one that made me more harm. The one that I'm still fighting and it's very hard to overcome. I wish everyone in this same battle the streng to overcome this.

    • @soucamillaribeiro
      @soucamillaribeiro 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We can get over this together

    • @user-jp3py2hl4p
      @user-jp3py2hl4p 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The full length documentary says it even better onelittlepillmovie.com (free to watch on Amazon Prime).
      This TEDx video and the documentary have changed the way I look at all addictions ! In 2017, there are good ways to cure these learned ailments. The methods are inexpensive and available now. Learn about them. Best to you.

    • @InvisionTM2
      @InvisionTM2 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      D:

    • @theselfmade806
      @theselfmade806 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your are not alone.. I'm fighting here with you.. everyday is a fight to get sober and stay sober...

    • @theselfmade806
      @theselfmade806 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@soucamillaribeiro yes we will.. there's strength in numbers

  • @live42Day
    @live42Day 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I just got 4 months sober. My whole life has improved in every way imaginable