It’s awful how Violet is being disregarded here, so she has to try desperately to protect both her unborn child and Anthony who’s being forced to make this choice.
My thoughts exactly! Those doctors may have thankfully saved little Hyacinth and Violet, but they suck for disregarding her and what she wants and tried to force Anthony to make a choice.
@@chloehanna9225 Eloise said it on Season 1 episode 2 she explained that she doesn't want to be a mother because of the traumatic experience of her mother giving birth to hyacinth.
He was scared and his father just died and he is the lord of the house. This doctor is asking him who he would prefer to save when he's ignoring the woman whose life is actually being questioned and she knew if he let them leave the room the doctor would influence him as he's still just a child. And even if it were a choice for the lord of the houses decision would be undoubtedly to save them both so he could only let her choose because it is her choice as it should be. But it's also what his father would've wanted
He's 18, He just lost his dad, could have very easily lost his mom (the death rate for women giving birth during this time was horrific and not good until modern medicine started becoming what it is in the 1940s/50s) and would have 7 younger siblings to worry about, you understand Anthony a lot better in season 2
By far one of my favorite scenes in Bridgerton, the atmosphere is just a masterpiece with Daphne's singing and Violet's screaming and the whole chaos going on
@@agenttheater5 I agree. My father had to make this decision when I was born (my mother had incredibly severe pre-eclampsia, called toxemia then, and they weren't confident she would survive) and was quite rude in telling me at age 11 when I found out that at the time he spared no thought for my life. I understand why, I always did. I don't blame him for placing priority on my mother. But to even bringing the matter up at all...it's a very callous thing.
0:23 Awwwwww Daphne is singing Lavender's Blue to Eloise and it's adorable how before Anthony is forced to tend to them Benedict is holding and guiding little Gregory who can already walk
Still my favourite episode of season 2. We actually got to see the depth with which Violet loved Edmund and how this love it affected the choices and lives of each of their children. This is my most watched episode yet.
I think there should have been a scene where Anthony and Hyacinth have a heart to heart talk about Edmund just like the one with Gregory. We didn't see much scenes between them but their bond must be more special than other siblings. As Edmund died before Hyacinth were born Anthony must have been stepped out as a father figure to her more than a brother.
The doctor is entirely disrespecting Viloet, despite her being the one that’s giving birth. She’s trying to save her unborn, Anthony her child from being forced to face an awful decision, and stop all of them becoming orphans. (Also Antony who’d run the family and look after all of his siblings (including a newborn)). She knows from experience that the birthing is going wrong and the doctors trying to gaslight her. Even standing is her natural instinct to use the help of gravity. She’d probably discussed it at length with Edmund during her other six pregnancies on her decision. It’s not just Edmunds love that would pick her, but also his respect for her decision and consideration for all of the other children
@@Iheartfairytail3nonsense. C-section is commonplace now. And induction is far safer and faster than abortion. Abortion is anti-woman. Nothing more cruel and disempowering than causing a vulnerable woman to tear her own heart and body apart because of medical dis-information for bloody profit and NO support post procedure. And what's worse than this is when a woman is having a natural miscarriage she can't even get support then because there's no money in it, and letting her lose the baby is more profitable because then they can sell you a pill and a DnC. They don't care about women OR babies. Not then, not now. It's all about profit - more now than then. We're actually going backwards by way of moral humane care - stopping these bloody profit mills is the way to provide humane care again.
Yeah but also with deathrates dringend bitte you can Kinder unverstanden how that came to be. If you dont love the wife you will not feal sadabout the death
What Anthony never understood from all of this grief is that I’m sure Violet would have gone through it all over again because being with Edmund despite losing him too soon was worth it
It should be the mother’s choice and hers alone. Disgusting to ask someone to make that kind of choice for a woman against her will. It’s her body and her baby. Her choice is the only one that matters.
@@helene4397 But that’s obviously a different conversation, so your comment isn’t relevant. And I’d hope in that situation the pregnant person would’ve talked about it with their partner or other loved ones beforehand so they’d know what she wanted in that situation. But if someone is unconscious and has been choosing to carry their pregnancy to term, then the baby should probably come first. Because that’s what a good parent does.
@@ATWTMVTVFTVSGAVRALPS true but I’ve noticed he does tend to defer to his mothers advice. In that moment you are probably right Anthony was probably overwhelmed and confused but he respects his mothers opinion and advice even though he’s technically the one responsible for the estate and I guess children.
The song that daphne is singing to Eloise. If you ever watched the Cinderella 2015 movie. Ella sings Lavender's blue dilly dilly, this song at the end of the movie when she's trapped in her room. Anyone who hasn't watched cinderella, the 2015 movie, you should.
I haven't read all the books yet but I can see when kate gives birth in the tv show, anthony losing his mind a little. He would tear down his home to save his wife.
Question : Is the reason shes mad and says the choice is obvious because it’s obvious she want to live or because it’s obvious she wants her newborn to live and to die for him?
Honestly, I could see it going either way. But I kind of have a feeling that it's because she wants to live. She mentions that Edmund loved her so much that the choice wouldn't even have been a question, meaning that he would choose her. But at the same time, I could see her wanting to die to be with Edmund again. I think the reason she held on was because on the inside, she was afraid of death like we all are but also because she didn't want to orphan her children.
I think it’s cause that’s her eldest son and not her husband. She raised him and gave birth to him. I do think Edmund always preferred her choice in matters like that though, but I think she was still traumatized over loosing him to consider that Anthony had to make all the hard choices despite being so young
She’s saying her husband would choose her no question because he loved her that for her late husband it would be an obvious choice. But for her son it’s near impossible.
I am watching this for the 5th time and god no I feel so sorry for Violet but also Anthony is so young. Yes he is the oldest but I have read that he is 18. 18 is so freaking young. I don’t know how much time had passed between the death of his father and this scene but he still struggles to be the head of the house. Also good that he lets Violet choose. I also have watched a scene where Violet said “I wished for the kindness of this child that should have killed me so I am with my husband” something like this or along those lines. Why does it feel so wrong why.
Yhis scene is so goood bexause it highlights very real norms of the period, plus chikdbirth is being shown in a very realistic way (and by someone who never experienced it, no less)
I still wonder what exactly she meant with „it would not be a choice, he loved me so much“. I guess it would mean to save her and kill the baby, since they also have a lot of children already and maybe more important a lot of sons.. but still, I can‘t imagine saying to kill the baby.
That's what it mean. She don't want to burden Anthony in guilt of choice because it was obvious that her husband will choose it. And it may be sad but completely fair choice because mother life is always more important than the baby
Bruh he was a child and they wanted him to choose his mother or his sibling. Anyone who loves their family would’ve struggled making that decision. Albeit he did it out of fear he chose correctly by letting his mother choose as she’s the one giving birth
Ok Bunny put yourself in his shoes lost a father due to a deathly allergy at a very young age still. All the house head responsibilities forced all upon you at once and a doctortells you have to make a choice that could end up not only killing your mother but your infant sibling as well. Which could happen even if nothing was done. No one can make a call like that after experiencing trauma. Only a child wouldn't understand Anthony's struggle
Bro he was 18, he watched his father die randomly in his arms… Did not have time to grieve and was still in shock, and suddenly he is made Viscount plus is now responsible for all his other siblings. Now he is nearly losing his mother at childbirth and is being forced to choose between his moms life or his unborn sibling… Like come on, no wonder he is the way he is
@@misosoupbowlI understand your opinion but it’s not only regarding this situation where he has to choose his mother or his unborn sibling in general I find him very indecisive or confused in season 1 he drove off every suitor that came daphnes way only to choose lord berbrooke and he claimed he had done his job as a brother and commanded his sister to fall in with lord berbrooke he chose such a creepy elder guy for his sister who is literally as delicate as a flower didn’t even consider that she was not ready to marry him he despised Simon for a being a rake while he literally was just like him he also dumped siena the moment his mother confronted him about her I know people like but I just that character very annoying I feel that Collin and bennedict are much better elder brothers than Anthony I mean that’s what I feel everyone is entitled to their own opinions and considering this situation of violet like you’ve just lost a parent how can one even imagine losing another one to child birth it just astonishes me he didn’t say save my mother
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She deserves an Oscar for this. This scene always brings me to tears. 🥺😢😭
which episode is this may i ask?
@@dustyydawnn Its Season 2 episode 3
Yes
(Ummm actually 🤓🤓) Emmy*
Oscars are for movies. Emmys for tv/series.
You don't get Oscars for tv shows smh lol... Emmy's are the correct award
"He loved me so much, this wouldn't even be a conversation". WOW.. I NEED Violet & Edmund's story
It’s awful how Violet is being disregarded here, so she has to try desperately to protect both her unborn child and Anthony who’s being forced to make this choice.
My thoughts exactly! Those doctors may have thankfully saved little Hyacinth and Violet, but they suck for disregarding her and what she wants and tried to force Anthony to make a choice.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly That was just how it was, it was the husband's choice or whomever the man of the house was. Unfortunate but how it was.
Always felt that way too! She should be treated with respect as the matriarch of the Bridgertons.
It's more of "she's not in her right mind to make decisions right now".
@@Alexandra_B.G. Yeah, but when it comes to this particular decision, she’s the only one who should get to decide.
I love Daphne singing to Eloise like she referenced in season 1
Wait I don't remember Daphne saying that what episode did she say that
@@chloehanna9225 ep. 2
@@chloehanna9225 Eloise said it.
@@chloehanna9225 Eloise said it on Season 1 episode 2 she explained that she doesn't want to be a mother because of the traumatic experience of her mother giving birth to hyacinth.
That's the same song Lily James sang in Cinderella.
Anthony was smart when he ordered the doctor to do what violet wants. And thank God that doctor was able to save both violet and hyacinth
Oh good they both lived.
He was scared and his father just died and he is the lord of the house. This doctor is asking him who he would prefer to save when he's ignoring the woman whose life is actually being questioned and she knew if he let them leave the room the doctor would influence him as he's still just a child. And even if it were a choice for the lord of the houses decision would be undoubtedly to save them both so he could only let her choose because it is her choice as it should be. But it's also what his father would've wanted
Honestly, it had less to do with the doctor. He was telling you, "you shouldn't be standing." Violet saved herself and the baby.
He's 18, He just lost his dad, could have very easily lost his mom (the death rate for women giving birth during this time was horrific and not good until modern medicine started becoming what it is in the 1940s/50s) and would have 7 younger siblings to worry about, you understand Anthony a lot better in season 2
This part was heart-wrenching, Violet (the actress) did a superb job
By far one of my favorite scenes in Bridgerton, the atmosphere is just a masterpiece with Daphne's singing and Violet's screaming and the whole chaos going on
I feel as this give a perfect opportunity show the bond between the youngest and Anthony's bond. She never knew her father Anthony stepped up
What the movie name???
The father's name was Edmund not Anthony, Anthony was the name of the eldest son.
@@misssakura098 Anthony stepped up as a father figure
I don't think Hyacinth should ever be told that Anthony was asked to decide between her life and her mothers life.
@@agenttheater5 I agree. My father had to make this decision when I was born (my mother had incredibly severe pre-eclampsia, called toxemia then, and they weren't confident she would survive) and was quite rude in telling me at age 11 when I found out that at the time he spared no thought for my life.
I understand why, I always did. I don't blame him for placing priority on my mother. But to even bringing the matter up at all...it's a very callous thing.
0:23 Awwwwww Daphne is singing Lavender's Blue to Eloise and it's adorable how before Anthony is forced to tend to them Benedict is holding and guiding little Gregory who can already walk
Hyacinth Stormborn of the house Bridgerton
Lol yesss
Omg!
Ha! NICE
OMG
That fits perfectly
Still my favourite episode of season 2. We actually got to see the depth with which Violet loved Edmund and how this love it affected the choices and lives of each of their children. This is my most watched episode yet.
Which episode bro?
@@alvarezassyiammi1458 episode 3 of season 2
I think there should have been a scene where Anthony and Hyacinth have a heart to heart talk about Edmund just like the one with Gregory. We didn't see much scenes between them but their bond must be more special than other siblings. As Edmund died before Hyacinth were born Anthony must have been stepped out as a father figure to her more than a brother.
Daphne singing to Eloise 🥺
The doctor is entirely disrespecting Viloet, despite her being the one that’s giving birth. She’s trying to save her unborn, Anthony her child from being forced to face an awful decision, and stop all of them becoming orphans. (Also Antony who’d run the family and look after all of his siblings (including a newborn)). She knows from experience that the birthing is going wrong and the doctors trying to gaslight her. Even standing is her natural instinct to use the help of gravity. She’d probably discussed it at length with Edmund during her other six pregnancies on her decision. It’s not just Edmunds love that would pick her, but also his respect for her decision and consideration for all of the other children
This really shows how little they care about women, she is giving birth but she is not there. Her life at risk and doesn't get to choose.
Well we’re going back to those days now. In the U.S at least
:(
@@Iheartfairytail3nonsense. C-section is commonplace now. And induction is far safer and faster than abortion. Abortion is anti-woman. Nothing more cruel and disempowering than causing a vulnerable woman to tear her own heart and body apart because of medical dis-information for bloody profit and NO support post procedure. And what's worse than this is when a woman is having a natural miscarriage she can't even get support then because there's no money in it, and letting her lose the baby is more profitable because then they can sell you a pill and a DnC. They don't care about women OR babies. Not then, not now. It's all about profit - more now than then. We're actually going backwards by way of moral humane care - stopping these bloody profit mills is the way to provide humane care again.
Yeah but also with deathrates dringend bitte you can Kinder unverstanden how that came to be. If you dont love the wife you will not feal sadabout the death
she's not in her right mind to make decisions
What Anthony never understood from all of this grief is that I’m sure Violet would have gone through it all over again because being with Edmund despite losing him too soon was worth it
I’m pretty sure he does understand since in season two she SAYS this to him almost word for word
Damn!!!! I know it's not real. But even I felt her pain. I wanted to cry with her.
Yes. She doesn’t even have a child but it’s unbelievable how she carried this scene.
I cried with her very loudly
It should be the mother’s choice and hers alone. Disgusting to ask someone to make that kind of choice for a woman against her will. It’s her body and her baby. Her choice is the only one that matters.
What if the mother cannot make the choice? Then it falls to other ones around her in this situation.
@@helene4397 She clearly could make the choice. Seeing as she was awake and talking. Get a grip.
I did not mean in the situation of Violet Bridgerton. I was thinking some situation in which the mother is unresponsive or something similiar.
@@helene4397 But that’s obviously a different conversation, so your comment isn’t relevant. And I’d hope in that situation the pregnant person would’ve talked about it with their partner or other loved ones beforehand so they’d know what she wanted in that situation. But if someone is unconscious and has been choosing to carry their pregnancy to term, then the baby should probably come first. Because that’s what a good parent does.
I CRIED SO HARD IN THIS SCENE😭
She seems so conflicted… whether to live like Edmund wanted or die to be with him again…
This could’ve become a a Viserys and Aemma situation
I usually don’t cry because of shows but this scene made me sob
Good for him letting momma be boss. So sexist he was still a child.
I think he was just confused and doesn't know what to do because all the responsibility went to Anthony
@@ATWTMVTVFTVSGAVRALPS true but I’ve noticed he does tend to defer to his mothers advice. In that moment you are probably right Anthony was probably overwhelmed and confused but he respects his mothers opinion and advice even though he’s technically the one responsible for the estate and I guess children.
The song that daphne is singing to Eloise. If you ever watched the Cinderella 2015 movie. Ella sings Lavender's blue dilly dilly, this song at the end of the movie when she's trapped in her room. Anyone who hasn't watched cinderella, the 2015 movie, you should.
I knew that song 😍
Absolutely heartbreaking when she cries out that Edmund should be there
This scene helped explain Anthony’s trauma. He was so supportive of his mom despite it.
Ruth Gemmell is superb!
Who is Ruth Gemmell
@@adellianaura7910 The actress who plays Violet
I haven't read all the books yet but I can see when kate gives birth in the tv show, anthony losing his mind a little. He would tear down his home to save his wife.
Beautifully acted scene
I bawled so hard watching this scene. Not only as a mother, but a mother who gave birth to a breech baby. 😭
My God that was an amazing performance, the emotional rollercoaster was traumatic.
This was the most painful birth for violet she just lost her husband
oh hell no screw this doctor for putting pressure on Anthony & for not listening to violet
Underrated scene
Which s and eps?
Dannng that acting, made me cry
In the books when Violet was giving birth to Hyacintn was kick, easy and withouth any complications.
The acting in this scene is incredible. The pain in her voice.
Imagine Bridgerton without hyacinth... Ohhh noooo
Perder al esposo es un Gran dolor . Yo lo sé pero en ésas condiciones aún es peor. Está madre me cae muy bien
Wait, the song Daphne is singing is the one from Cinderella? 🤔
Yes. Maybe it was a song from that time period
Lavender’s blue dilly dilly.
Its an old folk song first.
My baby was not “in position”. It took 32 hours to get him out. You bet I cried my eyes out while watching this scene.
Question : Is the reason shes mad and says the choice is obvious because it’s obvious she want to live or because it’s obvious she wants her newborn to live and to die for him?
Honestly, I could see it going either way. But I kind of have a feeling that it's because she wants to live. She mentions that Edmund loved her so much that the choice wouldn't even have been a question, meaning that he would choose her. But at the same time, I could see her wanting to die to be with Edmund again. I think the reason she held on was because on the inside, she was afraid of death like we all are but also because she didn't want to orphan her children.
I was also wondering. But also maybe she meant he loved her so he would give her the choice?
I think it’s cause that’s her eldest son and not her husband. She raised him and gave birth to him. I do think Edmund always preferred her choice in matters like that though, but I think she was still traumatized over loosing him to consider that Anthony had to make all the hard choices despite being so young
She’s saying her husband would choose her no question because he loved her that for her late husband it would be an obvious choice. But for her son it’s near impossible.
The choice is obvious that Edmund would want to save them both. If Edmund were still the viscount he would obviously choose them. He trusts his wife.
I am watching this for the 5th time and god no I feel so sorry for Violet but also Anthony is so young. Yes he is the oldest but I have read that he is 18. 18 is so freaking young. I don’t know how much time had passed between the death of his father and this scene but he still struggles to be the head of the house. Also good that he lets Violet choose. I also have watched a scene where Violet said “I wished for the kindness of this child that should have killed me so I am with my husband” something like this or along those lines. Why does it feel so wrong why.
Yhis scene is so goood bexause it highlights very real norms of the period, plus chikdbirth is being shown in a very realistic way (and by someone who never experienced it, no less)
How old was he when his dad died?
He was 18
Can someone please give a transcript of this ?
0:22
Proof show Daphne is only a year apart from Eloise
A month or two after his husband died....
0:22 daphne singing for eloise 🙁
Omgoo
What is the drama name is
bridgerton on netflix
So Violet was saying that it would be the mother over the child?
Which season and episode is this?
season 2 episode 3
Season and eps pls?
season 2 episode 3
I still wonder what exactly she meant with „it would not be a choice, he loved me so much“. I guess it would mean to save her and kill the baby, since they also have a lot of children already and maybe more important a lot of sons.. but still, I can‘t imagine saying to kill the baby.
That’s exactly what she meant. Edmund would have chosen her everytime over a baby when they have so many already.
That's what it mean. She don't want to burden Anthony in guilt of choice because it was obvious that her husband will choose it. And it may be sad but completely fair choice because mother life is always more important than the baby
Woman is crying over a man that ain’t even there…sis if he loved you, he’d be there.
Edmund had died at this point. That's why her son, Anthony, was the lord of the house
He did love her, then he died before she gave birth
girl did u even watch it?
@@hyunlixxie2662 no my mom sent this shit to me...she liks the show. i hate it
Anthony is incapable of anything 👎🏻 I do not like him at all.
Bruh he was a child and they wanted him to choose his mother or his sibling. Anyone who loves their family would’ve struggled making that decision. Albeit he did it out of fear he chose correctly by letting his mother choose as she’s the one giving birth
Ok Bunny put yourself in his shoes lost a father due to a deathly allergy at a very young age still. All the house head responsibilities forced all upon you at once and a doctortells you have to make a choice that could end up not only killing your mother but your infant sibling as well. Which could happen even if nothing was done. No one can make a call like that after experiencing trauma. Only a child wouldn't understand Anthony's struggle
Bro he was 18, he watched his father die randomly in his arms… Did not have time to grieve and was still in shock, and suddenly he is made Viscount plus is now responsible for all his other siblings. Now he is nearly losing his mother at childbirth and is being forced to choose between his moms life or his unborn sibling… Like come on, no wonder he is the way he is
@@jojomuppet1820I’d choose my mother in a heartbeat
@@misosoupbowlI understand your opinion but it’s not only regarding this situation where he has to choose his mother or his unborn sibling in general I find him very indecisive or confused in season 1 he drove off every suitor that came daphnes way only to choose lord berbrooke and he claimed he had done his job as a brother and commanded his sister to fall in with lord berbrooke he chose such a creepy elder guy for his sister who is literally as delicate as a flower didn’t even consider that she was not ready to marry him he despised Simon for a being a rake while he literally was just like him he also dumped siena the moment his mother confronted him about her I know people like but I just that character very annoying I feel that Collin and bennedict are much better elder brothers than Anthony I mean that’s what I feel everyone is entitled to their own opinions and considering this situation of violet like you’ve just lost a parent how can one even imagine losing another one to child birth it just astonishes me he didn’t say save my mother