Side Effects of Skid Row with Shirley Raines | Small Doses Podcast

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  • @sharondixon2117
    @sharondixon2117 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    “You are not paying a penance you are living your purpose” 🙏🏽 Amazing interview lots of gems dropped 💎

  • @ilianac9087
    @ilianac9087 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "Broken things will cut you but it's about how you pick them up" God Damn that's a bar!!! Love you Amanda....Seales Squad!!

  • @NYdr
    @NYdr ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I hope Shirley finds herself in the office of the right therapist who helps her release the pain she carries and frees herself from the guilt that was never hers to clutch onto.

  • @Lzamora1
    @Lzamora1 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Thank you Amanda for having Ms. Shirley as a guest. Thank you Ms. Shirley for your vulnerability and sharing a bit of your story. I hope you look in to therapy and continue to grow as the Queen you are❤

  • @airplanefreak27
    @airplanefreak27 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    49:13 "If the people helping are not at their healthiest, they can't be at their helpiest" ❤

  • @dbrownn211
    @dbrownn211 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “Prayer comma never prayer period!!!” This was everything I needed right now. Amanda this by far is a favorite episode!!! 😍😍 Thank You!!

  • @robyn294
    @robyn294 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Being sold a dream and being dropped off in a nightmare." My goodness. This was an incredible analogy. 😔🙏

  • @normie9566
    @normie9566 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for having Ms. Shirley Raines. I started following her in 2020 while at home at the beginning of the pandemic. Every one watching Please donate when you can.

  • @Zeek509
    @Zeek509 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This episode was such a DELIGHT! I've been smiling from ear to ear this whole episode. Thanks Amanda and Shirley!

  • @jinae95
    @jinae95 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This podcast was so healing. I pray that Ms.Shirley finds that forgiveness within herself because she’s such a beautiful soul

  • @cstewart47
    @cstewart47 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Whew!!!!! The way this had me crying!!!!! Thank you for this conversation and your passion and compassion!!! Ms Shirley I pray God continues to bless you and you find your way to the other side of your hurt bc you are a blessing and a beautiful spirit!!!!!

  • @staceyclark9023
    @staceyclark9023 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Amanda. I really enjoyed this interview and I learned something. We still have angels in this world. Thank you Shirley. May God continue to bless you.

  • @bootifulbanshee4507
    @bootifulbanshee4507 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Habitual line stepper.” Love that Charlie Murphy reference.

  • @camiltb
    @camiltb ปีที่แล้ว +3

    55….ma’am Ms. Shirley, your purpose is keeping you all the way together and keeping you going ❤ I love this

  • @rashidacrutchfield2614
    @rashidacrutchfield2614 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I so enjoyed this. Thank you for the shout out about our work at Cal State University Long Beach and Long Beach City College! So much more work to do. Shirley thank you for your real talk and to Amanda for amplifying these important issues and the lives of folks experiencing homelessness. I truly appreciate the real challenge to the narrative of "choice". There is no "choice" when there are no good options. Quote of the day "there is skid row because there is racism." "Money has never been the issue, opportunity has been the issue."

  • @MSUBERA
    @MSUBERA ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was so beautiful to watch. Talk about SPIRIT MOVING! We’re blessed to be able to witness that in real time.

  • @weezawinters
    @weezawinters ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm sending this to friends who think that the homeless want to be living in the streets. This was so informative and necessary.

  • @msplbaker
    @msplbaker ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2 of the most beautiful souls! I wish I could like this a 1000 times! This was a therapy session for me too. Thank you Amanda for the wisdom and Shirley for the transparency. ❤❤❤

  • @flowerreyez6998
    @flowerreyez6998 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Shirley is amazing! Thank you for having her on!

  • @Koah1111
    @Koah1111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think the issue of therapy in this context the accessibility. As someone who has had their safe reflective space become inaccessible because of funding , it can do more harm than good at times if you are not prepared . In no way am advocating not to try, but just recognize that when people are not able to access what you need to get to a place of healing, it can retrigger and traumatize your wounds all over again. Shout out to everyone who chooses each day to show up for themselves in the littlest ways today, that will have the biggest impact tomorrow.

  • @jasminesmith9656
    @jasminesmith9656 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Amanda!!!! Your evolution is amazing and an honor to witness! In my house bawwwlllinngggg right now. I’ve been listening to this podcast since it’s start and this has got to be one of your most powerful episodes yet!! I am lovvvinggg being able to watch it here and really feel the energy of the room!! Thank you for doing your life’s work in our presence ❤❤❤❤

  • @TooMuchRamshackle
    @TooMuchRamshackle ปีที่แล้ว

    You two make me so proud to be a black woman. This was a very beautiful conversation and connection between you two. Thank you so much for being in service to your people. Sending love to both of you. Thank you!🤍

  • @carolyng7128
    @carolyng7128 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some at work listening to the pod. And I'm in tears, of both sadness and laughter. Because even though they're talking about serious problems in his country, both of these women are hilarious.

  • @DrShardeMDavis
    @DrShardeMDavis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been following her ministry for years. I loved this interview and the Queens Sistahs chat at the end. Beautiful from start to finish! Thank you for shining even more light on this amazing woman.

  • @beachlover9705
    @beachlover9705 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yall done made me tear up! This was beautiful

  • @laylawilson8807
    @laylawilson8807 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this lady!!! She is an angel on earth.

  • @diniquebunche4438
    @diniquebunche4438 ปีที่แล้ว

    This Queen is a national treasure. Thank you for all you do sis.

  • @thebrightideadevelopers4624
    @thebrightideadevelopers4624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It has been my experience that a lot of us women are afraid of vulnerability. To show that part of oneself, in front of ALL OF US, is STRENGTH. I pray that Ms. Shirley heals in totality.

  • @ivy.interlude
    @ivy.interlude ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was beautiful. Thank you Amanda and Ms. Shirley. Amanda, thanks for giving us visuals to go with the pod. Love the pink ass room and as a fellow cancer a good cry and a good laugh is always needed. Lots a love 💕

  • @justdoit7796
    @justdoit7796 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was BEAUTIFUL! I laughed cried and dreamed… and decided to go back to therapy 💜💜💜💜

  • @jaykim6734
    @jaykim6734 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Amanda!!!!

  • @NuyoCaliRican
    @NuyoCaliRican ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her and her vulnerabilities to be herself. BLESS YOU QUEEN!!!!!

  • @thehealer1489
    @thehealer1489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shes powerful. The ability to turn pain into medicine to heal herself and help others. ❤

  • @monique_6
    @monique_6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this conversation! As a person who grew up and lives in LA, Skid Row is an important issue that needs support and solutions. And thank you Ms. Shirley for sharing your story and purpose.

  • @bootifulbanshee4507
    @bootifulbanshee4507 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Treating others with DIGNITY and GRACE is the difference. Thank you for all that you do, Ms. Shirley!

  • @LTN9696
    @LTN9696 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a Beautiful conversation between two immaculate souls. Wishing every one peace and healing on y’alls journey.

  • @jamistew1182
    @jamistew1182 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really good interview. I live in LA not too far from Skid Row and the situation is FRFR! God Bless Ms. Shirley for doing incredible work!

  • @lovelytia1
    @lovelytia1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amanda 👏🏽the love and support you poured into her way great. Ms. Shirley I pray for your continued healing and walking in your purpose. Thank you for stepping up in this world to help people. It is inspiring and encouraging to continued to step up for all of us! 🤎

  • @StayTru4eva
    @StayTru4eva 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just as I you have to explode and feel the pain we don't want to deal with...
    I love how you are changing the world one day and action at a time!

  • @shanaparrilla978
    @shanaparrilla978 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That lady Ms . Shirley is an Angel such a gorgeous person.

  • @thanayi
    @thanayi ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode deserves an award🎉🎉🎉

  • @lifewiththekellys9670
    @lifewiththekellys9670 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an awesome conversation!! I’m glad you poured into her and I hope she realizes she committed no sin in regard to the passing of her son! ❤

  • @feliciaaahh94
    @feliciaaahh94 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Def one of my favorite episodes to date. Extremely moving and I’m inspired to keep on this path. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thank you for sharing your time together w us. Learned SO MUCH.

  • @yans21
    @yans21 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thoughtful and thought provoking episode.

  • @22221mm
    @22221mm ปีที่แล้ว

    Ms. Shirley is dropping gems. 🙏🏽

  • @tiseyblanks3330
    @tiseyblanks3330 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG... Thank you so much for this conversation! When I was a poor kid in the projects, I needed that candy! I need the sweets, the healthy and all that! Candy made me happy at that moment. 😋 I hate people policing people on assistance!

  • @Hustlefam11
    @Hustlefam11 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG...WHY YALL GOT MY CRY BABY CANCER A** CRYING. I LOVED THIS EPISODE!!!

  • @jessicaclay5070
    @jessicaclay5070 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Got me over here in 😢, DAMMIT! LOVE THESE TWO QUEENS!!!!!

  • @francescafox9014
    @francescafox9014 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely beautiful conversation💐. Amanda, thank you for inviting the lovely Ms. Shirley Raines into your space💐

  • @enji_jb2806
    @enji_jb2806 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First of ALL!!!! Bless the Prophet🙌🏾🙌🏾
    Amanda you are doing the Lords work. I’m not just saying that b/c it sounds good it’s facts Queen. Ik it isn’t easy but keep pushing💜

  • @michaelmclaughlin2544
    @michaelmclaughlin2544 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amanda,
    Please continue to be YOU. Continue to carry that Ida B Energy and platform incredible folks like Miss Raines. You may receive weird antagonism from the sphere nowadays, but just know: you will be written down in history as one of our greatest ancestors.
    All the Love. All the Life.
    Michael Jahlil

  • @ellejay4425
    @ellejay4425 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y'all got me laughing and crying in my cubicle. However, more importantly, I have donated a little something, something Queen! Queen, Sis I need you to continue to water YOUR SPIRITUAL GARDEN cuz we need you! Amanda, I love you this made up for your movie recommendation of EVERYTHING EVERYWHERE ALL AT AT ONCE. WTH an allegory movie about a bagel or fortune cookie. I'm in my 5th decade, I can't be wasting time on a 2+ hr movie. I'll catch up with you on the podcast from NY. Hugs 2 u both.

  • @justbeingsyd
    @justbeingsyd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This interview blessed my soul thank you, Amanda, for asking the hard questions and Ms. Shirley for being her authentic, loving self. When Amanda kept saying, but you were a babyyyy, I bawled and tears haven't fallen that easy for me in a while. ❤‍🩹Thank you again this truly blessed me, and I will financially tribute to Ms. Shirley's movement.

  • @sommerstylesboutique
    @sommerstylesboutique ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love love love this!!!! You Queens are a true gem in this world full of crazy. Beautiful episode to watch.💞😊🫂

  • @francine4651
    @francine4651 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shirley seems like a good person with great heart ☺️

  • @lashathomas9186
    @lashathomas9186 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saw this clip on Tiktok and ran over. Amazing episode! Thank you both!

  • @emilygorey2237
    @emilygorey2237 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shirley is such a radiant person.

  • @pansytarot
    @pansytarot ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an incredible segment. Love Shirley! Thank you for this episode

  • @nancycorreag
    @nancycorreag ปีที่แล้ว

    So many bars were dropped in this episode! Powerful!!!

  • @Enigmatiq1
    @Enigmatiq1 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was beautiful, Mands. And I love Miss Shirley so much. Such a beautiful soul.

  • @TheDkSkye
    @TheDkSkye ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just finished listening to it on the app but will definitely tune into the premiere here. It was such a good episode 💗👏🏾👏🏾✨

    • @Kollii111
      @Kollii111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!I came straight here after listening to the podcast and subscribed. Listening again ❤

  • @jonathand.b.9562
    @jonathand.b.9562 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank The Most High for this beautiful, amazing and important blessing. I loved this interview!!!!

  • @BCommentary23
    @BCommentary23 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this for Shirley. Appreciate her and her work.

  • @ultimatesportsmedicine4395
    @ultimatesportsmedicine4395 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have tons of love and respect for both you ladies :)

  • @sydneyhollaway5419
    @sydneyhollaway5419 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we get a part 2 ???? I loved this so much ..

  • @lifeofrandy
    @lifeofrandy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What I would do to be a fly on the wall in these interviews.
    BLACK WOMEN ARE MAGIC!!! 😍😘

  • @ludaboi19
    @ludaboi19 ปีที่แล้ว

    When Amanda Seals talks therapy…..YES

  • @reeesie
    @reeesie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a beautiful interview! I love both Queens!♥️🫶🏾💜

  • @joeyglowacki8690
    @joeyglowacki8690 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this. I have never been a fan of podcasts too much but I loved every minute of this. As someone who is the field of helping others hearing this vulnerability and willingness to learn from eachother meant so much. ❤

  • @pamelaforeman8263
    @pamelaforeman8263 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Shirley, thank you and Amanda for being ❤

  • @brittnipayne2259
    @brittnipayne2259 ปีที่แล้ว

    @42:02 I know I better get a "Side Effects of Being A Snake Charmer" 😂 😂

  • @classicwrehasha
    @classicwrehasha ปีที่แล้ว

    This was wonderful. Love to see the evolution of you Amanda, how you have poured into yourself and how you are showing up for others in the space you've created. much love

  • @dougiebyrd3015
    @dougiebyrd3015 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love to be tied to the mission with Beauty!

  • @francine4651
    @francine4651 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Amanda she's so real ❣️

  • @victorialatutalkingshop
    @victorialatutalkingshop 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this was truly amazing - thanks Amanda x

  • @heypretty123
    @heypretty123 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found your podcast/TH-cam channel by watching Jason Lee. I'm so glad to find you and this interview with Shirley Raines is amazing!!!

    • @TheAmandaSeales
      @TheAmandaSeales  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome! Thank you! Remember to subscribe 🙏🏽❤

  • @zeepickens9049
    @zeepickens9049 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *Don't take this personally @Amanda, but this video made me kinda' LIKE you! At any rate, thank you for bringing this wonderful woman👑to your platform! What a ✨**#RockSTAR**✨!!!! I look forward to working with her.* 🎬
    *#PS**: Subscribed!!!!* 😊

  • @TraeMich
    @TraeMich ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this!!!

  • @MrClamb22
    @MrClamb22 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Although i cried a little bit, Superb interview!❤❤❤

  • @kaywatson4402
    @kaywatson4402 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was such an amazing ❤ interview!!! yall both had me in tears!!

  • @Steve_Minaj
    @Steve_Minaj ปีที่แล้ว

    Remarkable woman!!Extremely important conversation.

  • @ysinyan1
    @ysinyan1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooooo Good! Blessings to you both.

  • @Rocioslane
    @Rocioslane ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m going to have to revisit this one because it’s too good! 🙏🏼💎♥️

  • @siesade
    @siesade ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a beautiful interview.

  • @ameliaberry285
    @ameliaberry285 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful interview ❤❤❤ to both you ladies

  • @shanaparrilla978
    @shanaparrilla978 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    55 ? I thought she was in her 30’s wow !

  • @nadasiarae
    @nadasiarae ปีที่แล้ว

    i honestly loved this SOO much! i could listen for hoursss

  • @BeckyBri12
    @BeckyBri12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her graphic looks so much like Raven Simone..uncanny..and still, it’s definitely Amanda

  • @fever4flavor
    @fever4flavor ปีที่แล้ว

    Amanda, I listen to Ms. Shirley and I feel her hurt for no mother should have to bury her child. She is truly hurting. I pray that she finds the "bestest" therapy for her. Someone who will walk her through this pain. Someone who will salve her hurt. She will never stop grieving, but pray she finds a means to grieve healthy.

  • @NicoleDeniseTV
    @NicoleDeniseTV ปีที่แล้ว

    This was soooo good. Thank you ladies ❤️❤️❤️

  • @llooney1313
    @llooney1313 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was such a wonderful conversation for the soul.😊

  • @kendramathis1703
    @kendramathis1703 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an amazing interview! So insightful and inspiring on both sides…

  • @ludaboi19
    @ludaboi19 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was an awesome episode

  • @MrBLUGOLD09
    @MrBLUGOLD09 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooooooooo many gems

  • @JazzandLaughter
    @JazzandLaughter ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Imma need one of them Small Doses Pillows 😍😍😍

  • @Darkdjinn79
    @Darkdjinn79 ปีที่แล้ว

    That trauma talk, I felt like she was personally attacking me. Lol

  • @TheJoyIsMyStrength
    @TheJoyIsMyStrength ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤ this was so good!

  • @DonnaDunlap
    @DonnaDunlap ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Shirley!!!!

  • @Alex________90
    @Alex________90 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fellow cancer sending love to all ❤

  • @DeeJones3001
    @DeeJones3001 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was awesome. Thank you both.