As a security who did a lot of wedding events not all people want strangers especially people you hired to actually be at the wedding sure some are nice offer cake or something to eat but other then that they want the people to stick to what they’re hired to do
@AbsurdExistence-p4syou’re misinterpreting their comment. Generally people do feed the staff who are still working when food is done (not people whose jobs are done hours before though) but that’s not the same as having them be within the wedding
@AbsurdExistence-p4s makeup artists, hair people and florists typically leave when their job is done, which is before the event starts. People like photographers and DJs are usually served. Unless it was discussed beforehand, it's weird for a makeup artist to stay. Keep your comments about 'Western culture.'
I don't care what victim card she pulls. she overstayed her welcome, she was asked and paid to stay for 2 hours for touch ups. after that she should have left WITH her team. the fact that her team left without her says a lot. girl.... you were paid for the makeup and 2 hour touch up why are you staying UNPAID....
yeah the fact that she was using all the footage to promote her TT tells me it wasn't about how "lonely" or "heartbroken" she was. Like she got cheated on, she should be out with her girls at the club, not hijacking a stranger's wedding ffs
For real!! She’s treating it like it’s a business event? And not an important ceremony most people consider special, or holy(since this couple looked religious).
Her posing next to the bride in that one wedding prior to the viral one told me everything. Holy hell, I was completely taken back. She RUINED that girls wedding.
@@sarahg2653that especially, like getting a photo with them is.. weird but hey depending on if the person who hired her knows her style and wants that vibe.
@@st4rdyy which would be easier is she didnt put herself RIGHT in the middle of the pic! Its bad enough she was in the picture at all but to also put yourself right in the middle next to the bride is insane.
“i haven’t eaten anything except a bagel” GO HOME?!?? your client is not responsible for feeding you…and then that video when the bride and groom are having a private moment away from everyone and here she comes with the phone in her hand like girl you are doing WAY too much that bride is being too nice to you!
And she still uploaded the videos. After being kicked out. Sis got cheated on, lost her marbles when she attached herself to her job and blurred the lines. The wedding party wasn't meant to be her therapy.
Given how the stuff like the leg photo with the bridal party predates this fiasco, I have a feeling that this sort of thing was going on long before the breakup, and she’s just escalated - maybe not even related to the breakup but to the groom telling her that he didn’t like TikTok’s and wanted to minimize SM. It mostly seems like retaliation against a boundary being set to me, which is a big YIKES.
@@amypatterson7395 I kind of wonder if she was secretly a little excited about the breakup (in addition to being sad) because it gave her more stuff to post on TikTok for sympathy. Also, why the hell do people post paragraphs of text with nothing happening on TikTok, using it as their journal? I feel like the proper medium for long-ass stories about your personal life would be, I dunno, a BLOG? Or THERAPY?
She lacks boundaries, plain and simple, bringing good energy and making people laugh when she primarily works weddings is great, and she’s obviously good at her job as a makeup artist, but being a professional bringing good energy to a celebratory event and thinking that you and the bride are besties for the day are two different things; she isn’t beyond redemption, but she needs to take a hard look at the situation and understand where she went wrong, those are life lessons about professionalism
And hear and absorb the criticism... when EVERYONE is telling you that your behaviour is inappropriate, you have to think.... maybe it is me. Her style of behavior wouldn't be for me
@@OpalLeigh-il8yj Exactly and the fact she thought they would be on HER side instead of the Bride whom they.. knew personally..? Why in her right mind did she think they would side with a complete stranger 😂😂 she's actually so dumb.
Maybe that’s gonna be her new side hustle. She gets into the wedding venue as a makeup artist, then ruins all the photographer’s photos while taking her own, then tells the couple they can have the photos she took… for a price. She’s an evil genius.
True it’s like the time we hired a woman to clean our house and she thought she was part of the family, like girl just clean and leave 😭 we weren’t even rude to her but she was so freaking rude and dramatic.
Every time the bride thinks of her own wedding day she's just going to remember this BS that played out on social media for weeks afterwards. That's so frustrating and so sad
She also interrupted an important part of the Jewish ceremony called the Yichaud, when the bride and groom are allowed to be completely alone together for the first time together after the marriage ceremony. They were in the bridal suite and she barged in to retrieve her brush and bag.
Interesting, is that mainly a thing in Orthodox communities? it sounds like something done when a marriage results from courtship/arrangement rather than more modern dating
@@rowancook4369They don’t mean they never had a moment alone before getting married. It means quite literally the first moment alone as a married couple.
A few months before the wedding my husband and I spontaneously brought up how fucking gross we both thought cake smashing was. At our wedding, he was SO careful feeding me my forkful of cake. It's been sixteen years of besties with benefits and that respect is a huge part of it. 🤘
If my future husband smashes the wedding cake into my face then that’s an immediate divorce. If we’re getting married then he should definitely know that’s something I would absolutely hate and I’m not about to sign myself up for 60 years of him ignoring my boundaries.
those cake cutting clips where they're just waving around the knife carelessly and smashing whole cakes in someone's face is so anxiety inducing (some tiered cakes have sticks or skewers in them for stability, pls be careful)
It's so aggressive too. Like why would you treat your new spouse like that. Makes me scared for the future and how they act behind closed doors ya know.
most if not all tiered cakes have to have skewers in them for stability. It should be more likely for you to find skewers in tiered cakes than to not. If they're heavier they may even have segments of plastic tubing or another thicker material if they're really tall/heavy :(
The photo of her smack in the middle of the bridesmaids photoshoot (which she obviously IMPOSED herself 🤦♀️) with her entire thigh exposed, just left me ... SHOCKED to say the least. What??
the one with the “balls empty” groom was also really bad, in the full video he filled his entire vow with things of that inappropriate nature it was so cringey and… yikes
Those videos of men messing up their new wife’s hair, makeup, and dress makes my blood boil already (getting ready is NOT cheap) but throwing the cake is so dangerous and is a major red flag! Big wedding cakes can have wooden dowels in them and frosted cakes can be quite heavy as well. The cake stand could leave bruises, cuts, or shatter if it’s made out of glass. Not to mention that the knife could still be lodged in the cake when he throws it. If a man gets so pressed about a slice of cake smushed into his face that he escalates to throwing the entire cake at her in .2 seconds in front of their friends and family then I fear what he does behind closed doors.
@@braydenjames8957Molehill being the little bit of cake or about the whole issue at hand? I think people think you’re trying to downplay the whole issue.
@@EvnCie to imply abuse is happening because of a cake smash is absurd. it's planned almost every single time. And a woman's time and appearance is no more or less valuable than the man's. Get over it
@@Window4503 i think it's hilariously out of touch and immature to imply abusive behaviour over a cake smash which is almost always planned and to think a woman's time and appearance is more valuable or important than a man's.
My opinion, I think they were nice and like “you can have some food and cake if you want to” and then she decided she was besties with the wedding party and started getting in everyone’s pictures/way 😬
@@OpalLeigh-il8yjIt's like being kind to a person out of common courtesy and respect and expecting to move on after that, and then they start acting like you've shared a life-long bond with them and you're the only thing they have like ??? Wtf no
I've helped set up many weddings, not once have I heard anyone say "my bride"... not the catering, not the florist, not even the freaking wedding planner. Only one would have to be the groom, and even then it's rare. It's as if she's trying to take on a motherly role or something, a complete overstep and its actually gross to me. Okay, eat some snacks I guess if they allow you to-then LEAVE 🤢
Ngl, if someone told me "I don't like TikToks, but you can film some things at the wedding for yours" I'd take that as an invitation to do a little bit of my thing, mostly keep to my actual job, and I certainly wouldn't be trying to interview the Certified TikTok Hater on my TikTok lol. Just feels like it's really in line with this lady being kind of bad or somewhat pushy about reading the mood in a room tbh.
As a former MUA that did weddings, I saw something like this happen and the other MUA got sued for hell and back despite having in the contract they could film for their business insta. The MUA lost the case because it is a very clear assumption you are filming what you do, the makeup, not the whole wedding
It a takes a special kind of personality disorder to be told "the groom doesn't like tiktok" and your reaction is "I'm going to film the groom for a tiktok"
If I was part of the bridal party I'd be so weirded out too...like yes, your job is to make me look good AT THE WEDDING, not everyone is comfortable having images/videos of them blazoned online as part of an advertisement. Your role is to support your friend getting married, not to be a tiktok prop for the MUA.
its wild that people are so narcissistic that they think everything revolves around them but its even worse when its in a wedding setting i mean its one of the most important days of someone's life but no you just cant let someone have a day about them selves and you have to make it about you. (thanks for all the likes, I'm happy some people agree with me)
I have spent my life in the hospitality industry. The makup lady was completely out of line. Staff are not personalities at a wedding. One is there to perform the task for which they are hired. Unless the bride or groom directly express that staff can film, they should absolutely refrain. It is utterly rude and discourteous to film any person at any time without permission. Put down your phone and do your job. If one wants to utilize subtle footage to market their skills, ask for permission. Weddings are very stressful. Display conscientious empathy and do exactly what you are paid to do, go above and beyond. A wedding where one is not a guest is entirely inappropriate for main character mania.
I agree w u and a wedding where one is a guest is still entirely inappropriate for main character mania. Idk how she thought what she's doing is okay when none of the invited guests did those things
I have some photos from my wedding entrance with some guy from the cooking staff squatting and filming it on the background. To this day I don’t understand why he did this, if the cooking staff wanted videos from my entrance I would happily send them my wedding film.
reall like she acted like she was a guest and NOT just a makeup artist doing her job?? Like the good time and vibes belong to the couple and guests, defo not the staff lmao
@@CherryRabbitXOXA lot of the stuff she did would already be obnoxious if she were a guest. She’s merely paid to work the event, the event is not for her.
I think she should’ve realized where she went wrong when she said she was filming multiple TikTok’s the whole day with the groom who said he didn’t like TikTok or want phones at the wedding, and than also said she’s barely said anything to him, probably meaning the most she’s said to him were instructions for her promotional TikTok’s
When i first saw her 3 part series i had to pause like every 15 seconds from the second hand embarrassment and walk laps around my room. This whole situation is truly a horrifying watch😭
Ive seen people pointing out the groom had a yamaka or kippah on so the couples alone time could have been part of a Jewish tradition where the couple spends time alone (based when or where couples couldnt be alone before the wedding so they can get to know each other). The makeup artist mentioned she was yelled at the husband for coming in on their alone time and thats cause it maybe a nice tradition for their religion/culture
I used to work in the wedding industry, you HAVE to treat brides and their families LIKE family while respecting a professional boundary and some people cannot separate the two.
It seems like the makeup artist has an attachment/personality disorder. You see it in kids when they get crazy attached to an adult very quickly and at a very intimate level like hugging them, holding their hand, wanting to be next to them constantly (and it NOT being their parents or primary caregiver literally it can be anyone who shows them the smallest amount of attention). If this kind of behavior isn’t addressed by professionals when they’re young it carries into adulthood and this is a pretty good example. She’s overstepping her boundaries and thinking being the hired makeup artist invites her to be bffs and apart of the main show, it doesn’t and it’s not normal to act this way in this scenario (unless specifically requested)
My best friend is very much like this but we're young adults. She has a beautiful heart and never means it badly, but there are times when she grossly crosses boundaries with people she barely knows... I could see her in the makeup artists place in this video, and that makes me sad. I will try reading on what you mentioned and try to bring it up, I don't want her to be in this position...
Thank you for this. I’ve learned something very important today. I can make my own choices for myself. I could’ve watched the bridesmaid speech video, but I skipped it. No one’s forcing me. i can choose happiness, and i did.
i wished i was this smart because i have literally watched both her vow and the other grooms vow before and i recognized them as well, yet i kept watching anyway and relived the cringe 😭☠️
Ugh for real. That bridesmaid speech was awful 😭 and the grooms with their vows in front of their friends and family was gross, like Tati said “time and place”!
That video at the end makes my heart drop every time. If the groom hadn't moved his arm up, the bride would have been stabbed on her wedding day because of a drunken idiot guest.
Seriously I couldn't look away from the knife! How terrifying to watch your wedding tape back and see just how close cousin drunkard came to ending you on your wedding day?? I Seriously can't imagine
I just started working in weddings & this was actually helpful. I do flowers & I got a lot of people looking for me to get pictures of the flowers, but some of them I turned down & now I’m glad I did. I want advertising for my business, but a few clips & shots is enough
OH MY GOD!! that maid of honor speech was so bad, i felt the cringe seeping out of the screen and into my heart. ughhhhh who starts a speech with "not to sound racist..." aggghhhh so painful lol
@@Raven74408 I mean, there was that surgeon who was carving his initials into people's livers before tiktok. Or the many doctors/surgeons who took intimate photos of their patients and shared them around. Or the doctor who stole his patients cells, and proliferated them without permission or even knowledge of the patient (HeLa cells if you want to read about that one). There's always been doctors who breach their patients privacy. Tiktok just provides a new angle to do so, but the behaviour isn't new.
Those people didn’t do those things for an audience, though. They were for personal creepy reasons or unscrupulous professional advancement. It’s DEFINITELY worse.
The not being able to get rid of her because they were too polite is literally THE SINGLE REASON you have bridesmaids and pages at eeddings. It is their job to organise awkward things like this so that the bride and groom don't have to get their hands dirty 😂
I disagree, while it would be nice for friends to jump in and do the "dirty work" someone like this will just justify their presence by going "well the bride/groom didn't say anything so I'm fine". Look at her reaction to the groom saying she was getting on his nerves. You really think someone like that will listen to their clients friends? It's the bride and grooms day they need to be the ones to put their foot down. The bride shouldn't have said "you're not getting on mine he's just cranky" at that point she should've asked her to leave.
This personality is a dime a dozen. The only reason she’s even salty online over this is because someone finally drew strong boundaries on her cringey behavior.
i kinda feel bad for her - it seems like she doesn’t have friends and didn’t want to be alone for the night. why would you want to hang around a wedding of a stranger? especially if you arent being paid to be there/already finished the task you were paid to do
@@Lybrel waiters and cashiers are doing their jobs. this lady hung around long after she was done with the makeup and was acting like she was part of the friend group. do the makeup and get out of there. like how inappropriate would it be for the caterer to invite themselves to the after party? they’d be fired
Quite often in these types of situations it may feel like you have become fast friends. However, you should decline staying if you’re not going to be working. The bride not wanting to tell you that she wants you to leave seems normal. Once the groom says he doesn’t want someone that he doesn’t know and that the bride doesn’t know to leave then just leave. It’s NOT just about the bride as much as people say that
I think she meant well and thought she was livening up the party, but didn’t have the emotional maturity or the tools to process learning that she didn’t actually come off how she thought she did, so she coped by becoming overly defensive rather than burying herself in guilt and shame (like I would’ve-to be fair, not a particularly healthy reaction either). She’ll be fine, and hopefully she grows with each new mistake. We all make them.
> I think she meant well Enablers like you that treat criminals as well-meaning, child saints lead to this reinforced bad behavior. Freeloading a second movie in a theater is criminal trespassing, not a mistake, like you'd call it. So is this. The Tiktok commentor that joked it's like a Doordasher who stays for dinner got it wrong. It's like a Doordasher who burglarizes you.
The damage was still done. She ruined her client's wedding. She's a professional ffs, you'd think she'd know how to stay in her own lane. Hopefully she won't let her next "mistakes" affect future costumers.
She's milking all of this for tiktok clout, not really sure how that's indicative of learning any lesson. If anything it's positive reinforcement for her bizarre behavior
Every day I'm so happy I just got married on the beach in a simple, cheap, small ceremony. It's was so lovely. Also, my officiant and photographer didn't invite themselves to the after dinner haha Also, my husband actually loves me and would never smash food into my face or act aggressively towards me. We've been together 20 years and he's sweet to me.
oh to have a respectful partner who doesn’t care if the wedding is small & simple. if i ever get married one day, i would want it to be just our families & friends too ❤
I wouldn’t mind them having food or whatever, that happens but it’s very weird to be right in the action at the front row of the event and right between the main wedding people. I’ve seen tertiary people have a plate and sit down but it’s at the tables far from the bride and groom and they respectfully give those spaces to relatives and friends.
I used to be a make up artist, and I did bridal makeup, even if my contracts said I could film promo things, I would NEVEr think I had a right to film the whole ass wedding??? You aren't a wedding designer?? You are the makeup artist, you only would be filming the process then leaving!!!
Reminds me of when my mum's neighbour came to my graduation and ran unto the stage when i was given an award, if something like that happens in my weeding, I'm screaming
The wedding cake smash tradition originated in Ancient Rome. After tying the knot, brides would have barley cake crumbled over their heads, which signified male dominance and the promise of fertility. So yeah. There definitely is. Very thankful to be a lesbian. If my bride did that, I would be furious
Probably because the type of spouse who would shove your face into a cake is not the type of person to otherwise be loving, supportive and loyal partner. Especially on your wedding day. Where the cake likely cost a fortune, and your makeup took hours, and everyone you care about is there watching.
there is data that backs up that if you and your partner agreed ahead of time to not smash the cake, and then one of you does, the likelihood of divorce does in fact rise
I'm no wedding expert but is it typical for the makeup artist to stick around after the putting on makeup portion ?? I've been a wedding musician which often includes being Allowed to eat The wedding food But certainly never Interacted With guests And the bride like this
You want them to stick around for the main photos, but it’s best when it’s a photographer-MUA duo that work together so that mua knows what to look out for
She could absolutely not work that day, it's her company and she was not the only make up artist on site even. She could say she was sick and ask another MUA to go for her or try to be there the least time possible... The other MUAs that work with her left after doing their job, no reason other than recording tiktok content for her to stay
Exactly. Her employees are so much more professional than she is. And the fact that her past clients are coming forward saying she messed up their weddings with the same behavior, I doubt this has to do with her breakup and it’s probably just her self-centered personality.
It's crazy how this lady probably just threw her entire career down the toilet by how she responded to this... Like you said, a lot of people would actually like her personality and the way she handles herself at weddings. If this wedding party didn't like it and asked her to leave, she should have just let it go and not posted anything about that event. But instead, she decided to publically call them out, which is soooooo unprofessional. A lot of people probably would have been on her side and supported her if she had simply moved on and handled this with class.
I feel like she intentionally put herself in this situation so she can post it on TikTok. The whole recording to the scenery and recording the people she’s doing their makeup- yeah no very unprofessional
Omgg 🤦♀️ The one who wants his stomach filled and balls emptied 😬 ... did u see the bride's face? And the one that hardly put any effort in writing his vows, instead brushing it off as "we've come this far anyways" Yikes!😫
Oof and I thought the bridesmaid speech my friend and I did was cringey. 😭 Why did she focus on them being interracial like even making something up about his personality would have been better.
Oh christ, watching the groom and.... Best man? ... roughhouse over the cake while one of them is literally holding a knife gave me such anxiety. I don't blame the bride for bolting there, it looked like a disemboweling was imminent.
11:33 how hard is it just to say “you’ve been such a positive impact on me and your love together i can tell is unbreakable, i hope this marriage will flourish and become just as beautiful as you two together, god bless and amen”
I hate this type of Tik Tok dancing trends too so I understand the groom’s wishes. Man this just consolidated that having a wedding ceremony is just too stressful for my liking
Some extra context on the MUA who crashed the wedding: it was a Jewish wedding and she disrupted a very important private Jewish ritual after the ceremony. Then she says that the groom has no reason to be upset with her?! Have some cultural sensitivity.
If you find the full version it's so so much worse, and her vows are all "I'm sorry I'm not the most beautiful woman in the world but I will always love you". The bride publicly stood by him, I can't imagine being poorly humiliated in that way.
@@heartiko2681That's sad but honestly not surprising. The only way I can see a woman marrying a man like that is if they have low self esteem and don't think they deserve better.
@@heartiko2681 ive seen it so many times and it somehow always suprises me just how bad it was. It genuinely makes me sad that she replied to people defending him. And that one before it! If the person ordaining your wedding tells you ahould should be doing a take 2 you know you f'ed up
So she wasn’t even invited. The honest to god cheek of some people is just unbelievable. I would have asked her to leave once she was done. She was not invited. I understand you had just a crisis but don’t ruin anyone else’s day. I would have asked her to turn off her phone and leave.
Okay, but the fact that she thought the groom's lighter was "just a lighter" is like... Shawty what?? The lighter could mean something to him, but she wouldn't know because she literally doesn't know him. Like STAWP.
The picture of the guy you used for the reddit moderator bit is actually known to be a nice guy and people using this pic feels to be mocking the way he looks and stereotyping him 😬 His name is Jerry Messing.
Yeah wasn't the reason this picture kept spreading that someone just took a random picture of this guy from his facebook to make fun of him? I get that it's not common knowledge that Jerry is literally just some guy living his life but it sucks how literally the only reason he's the face of 'creepy weird basement dweller' jokes is bc he's a fat guy in a fedora.
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"making sure it isnt ruined by strangers" ...girl YOU'RE the stranger here
Fr, the "strangers" are the couple's friends and family
The call was coming from inside the house lol
She was so close to figuring it out 😂
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May I know who made your pfp? Or maybe it's you^__^?
Girl you weren't invited. You were hired to do a job and then you were supposed to leave. That bride had way more patience than I would have had.
EXACTLY. Hired. not invited.
I would be absolutely fuming
As a security who did a lot of wedding events not all people want strangers especially people you hired to actually be at the wedding sure some are nice offer cake or something to eat but other then that they want the people to stick to what they’re hired to do
@AbsurdExistence-p4syou’re misinterpreting their comment. Generally people do feed the staff who are still working when food is done (not people whose jobs are done hours before though) but that’s not the same as having them be within the wedding
@AbsurdExistence-p4s makeup artists, hair people and florists typically leave when their job is done, which is before the event starts. People like photographers and DJs are usually served. Unless it was discussed beforehand, it's weird for a makeup artist to stay. Keep your comments about 'Western culture.'
I don't care what victim card she pulls. she overstayed her welcome, she was asked and paid to stay for 2 hours for touch ups. after that she should have left WITH her team. the fact that her team left without her says a lot. girl.... you were paid for the makeup and 2 hour touch up why are you staying UNPAID....
yeah the fact that she was using all the footage to promote her TT tells me it wasn't about how "lonely" or "heartbroken" she was. Like she got cheated on, she should be out with her girls at the club, not hijacking a stranger's wedding ffs
Right. "I was on my feet all day" but why. YOU chose to do that
Sitting with the groomsmen!? Eating the food and having a drink?
It wasn’t unpaid, it was for content which makes her money
@@quinn799they meant unpaid as in the makeup artist didn’t pay to stay at the wedding and eat their food and whatnot
The makeup artist adding petty critiques on the wedding as if she is not at a deeply *personal* event??? You said WHAT about my cocktail hour???
right ?? so rude
For real!! She’s treating it like it’s a business event? And not an important ceremony most people consider special, or holy(since this couple looked religious).
Did you hear her say, "please don't get in my video," while filming the reception area!
@@Black_and_Green Ikr, the audacity
I was THINKING THE SAME THING! First of all the cocktail hour isn’t for you ma’am!
Her posing next to the bride in that one wedding prior to the viral one told me everything. Holy hell, I was completely taken back. She RUINED that girls wedding.
not to mention she (apparently) has done it before since a new pic of her posing next to a diff bride has resurfaced
Yes! What is she doing? And the pose, with her leg out like that? Sweetie. Please stop.
Nah fr I was immediately like "oh this is gonna be one of those pictures where you photoshop a specific person out.. 💀"
@@sarahg2653that especially, like getting a photo with them is.. weird but hey depending on if the person who hired her knows her style and wants that vibe.
@@st4rdyy which would be easier is she didnt put herself RIGHT in the middle of the pic! Its bad enough she was in the picture at all but to also put yourself right in the middle next to the bride is insane.
Imagine if the lady who made your gender reveal cake showed up in the delivery room to film a promotional video 💀
Lmfao The sequel series I have no doubt will come in the future
Shhhh dont give them ideas
We will come back to this comment in 4 years
Laaawwwd😂😂😂😂
do NOT give people ideas 🙏
“i haven’t eaten anything except a bagel” GO HOME?!?? your client is not responsible for feeding you…and then that video when the bride and groom are having a private moment away from everyone and here she comes with the phone in her hand like girl you are doing WAY too much that bride is being too nice to you!
Right?? When you hire people to work at your wedding, you feed them.
When you hire a makeup artist, you expect them to do makeup then leave.
i disagree, if she worked beforehand, I would say she could have one drink or some food and then leave. @@genericname2747
And she still uploaded the videos. After being kicked out. Sis got cheated on, lost her marbles when she attached herself to her job and blurred the lines. The wedding party wasn't meant to be her therapy.
Given how the stuff like the leg photo with the bridal party predates this fiasco, I have a feeling that this sort of thing was going on long before the breakup, and she’s just escalated - maybe not even related to the breakup but to the groom telling her that he didn’t like TikTok’s and wanted to minimize SM. It mostly seems like retaliation against a boundary being set to me, which is a big YIKES.
Bring back shame
@@elsagreen1476We have shame
It's just the ones who don't are the loudest 🙄
@@amypatterson7395 I kind of wonder if she was secretly a little excited about the breakup (in addition to being sad) because it gave her more stuff to post on TikTok for sympathy. Also, why the hell do people post paragraphs of text with nothing happening on TikTok, using it as their journal? I feel like the proper medium for long-ass stories about your personal life would be, I dunno, a BLOG? Or THERAPY?
Excellent way of putting it!
She lacks boundaries, plain and simple, bringing good energy and making people laugh when she primarily works weddings is great, and she’s obviously good at her job as a makeup artist, but being a professional bringing good energy to a celebratory event and thinking that you and the bride are besties for the day are two different things; she isn’t beyond redemption, but she needs to take a hard look at the situation and understand where she went wrong, those are life lessons about professionalism
And hear and absorb the criticism... when EVERYONE is telling you that your behaviour is inappropriate, you have to think.... maybe it is me.
Her style of behavior wouldn't be for me
I love your way of thinking
My introverted ass would be out the door right after putting the finishing touches on everyone. 🚪🏃♀️
Right?😂
Nah fr tho "Enjoy your wedding! Byeee" 🏃🏽♀️💨
I want a make up artist like you for my wedding 😭
So much yes. Even catering weddings, my introverted ass was always thinking "please just pretend I'm furniture" whenever anyone would approach me 😂
Take a piece of the cake!
She just tanked her reputation not just as a reasonable person but also as a business owner affecting all her employees too. Yikes.
Generous of you in so many ways
@@Lybrel that's what i was thinking 💀💀😭
I always wanna give the benefit of the doubt, but she tried to get people to harass that bride 😢 who was nothing but kind to her!
I would never hire her and would act like she doesn't exist.
@@OpalLeigh-il8yj Exactly and the fact she thought they would be on HER side instead of the Bride whom they.. knew personally..? Why in her right mind did she think they would side with a complete stranger 😂😂 she's actually so dumb.
She literally said “I’m catching what they are missing” with the photographer right next to her snapping photos of the bride.
They were only missing it because she was blocking them 😭
Maybe that’s gonna be her new side hustle. She gets into the wedding venue as a makeup artist, then ruins all the photographer’s photos while taking her own, then tells the couple they can have the photos she took… for a price. She’s an evil genius.
And
Sometimes people just assume everyone loves them…
Yes omg this!
True it’s like the time we hired a woman to clean our house and she thought she was part of the family, like girl just clean and leave 😭 we weren’t even rude to her but she was so freaking rude and dramatic.
@@tutu3909
Idk you sound a little entitled though…
💯! Like ... Beyoncè? 🤭
@@tell-me-a-story-who? The hired housecleaner?
I literally fell out of my seat due to 2nd hand embarrassment during that bridesmaid speech.
i feel so bad for the bride 😭 i would have cried if i were her ahhhh
I hadn’t even seen that part since I’ve had to see other peoples coverage since she’s deleted a bunch of stuff so I was just 👁️👄👁️
i cringed so hard like i might throw up just thinking about it
@@SPMunny That speech luckily wasn't from THAT wedding 😂.
I cringed so hard I had to skip it completely lol
not the "tears i didnt know i was holding" quote from every 2010's y/n fic lol
😂 right?! Like, if you're that upset, maybe you should GO HOME and decompress 🤣 holy sheeeeeit
exactly every time read this line in a book I. Fucking.close.it
Holy shit 😂
Every time the bride thinks of her own wedding day she's just going to remember this BS that played out on social media for weeks afterwards. That's so frustrating and so sad
I was thinking about that. I also was thinking how the mua painted the groom to be angry as well and can make people attack the bride husband
She also interrupted an important part of the Jewish ceremony called the Yichaud, when the bride and groom are allowed to be completely alone together for the first time together after the marriage ceremony. They were in the bridal suite and she barged in to retrieve her brush and bag.
Interesting, is that mainly a thing in Orthodox communities? it sounds like something done when a marriage results from courtship/arrangement rather than more modern dating
@@rowancook4369They don’t mean they never had a moment alone before getting married. It means quite literally the first moment alone as a married couple.
@@_toulouse Ohhh. My bad! thanks for explaining
@@rowancook4369 No problem!
What??? Oh man just when you think she can't get worse
A few months before the wedding my husband and I spontaneously brought up how fucking gross we both thought cake smashing was. At our wedding, he was SO careful feeding me my forkful of cake. It's been sixteen years of besties with benefits and that respect is a huge part of it. 🤘
I feel that, but then again I made my own cake! (Wedding on a budget. xD)
besties with benefits is how I'm tryna be with my bf 🥹
If my future husband smashes the wedding cake into my face then that’s an immediate divorce. If we’re getting married then he should definitely know that’s something I would absolutely hate and I’m not about to sign myself up for 60 years of him ignoring my boundaries.
@@aquatiger8wild
Finaly! Im not the only one thinking cake smashing is stupid.
those cake cutting clips where they're just waving around the knife carelessly and smashing whole cakes in someone's face is so anxiety inducing
(some tiered cakes have sticks or skewers in them for stability, pls be careful)
I saw a video were a bride started bleeding because she got cut
It's so aggressive too. Like why would you treat your new spouse like that. Makes me scared for the future and how they act behind closed doors ya know.
most if not all tiered cakes have to have skewers in them for stability. It should be more likely for you to find skewers in tiered cakes than to not. If they're heavier they may even have segments of plastic tubing or another thicker material if they're really tall/heavy :(
I find that smashing cakes into the face "trend" so childish & immature. Is it a Gen Z thing? 🤷♀️ .. *Not. Cool*
@@hitmanbangsyellowcrocs4213it's more of a gen x / millennial thing 😭😭
The photo of her smack in the middle of the bridesmaids photoshoot (which she obviously IMPOSED herself 🤦♀️) with her entire thigh exposed, just left me ... SHOCKED to say the least. What??
i just know the newlywed couple immediately hired someone to photoshop that picture right after they saw it cuz…
Im sure they took some without her and added her in just for fun@@mcsy98
Literally gross
Actually disgusting
It’s so weird. I have no idea why someone would feel this comfortable imposing this much on strangers
My bones hurt from the cringe that bridesmaid gave with her awful speech!!
real
honestly, my face hurts from the cringe of that speech
Yes if she was doing a speech she should have prepared something. It was mortifying
it just kept going.
the one with the “balls empty” groom was also really bad, in the full video he filled his entire vow with things of that inappropriate nature it was so cringey and… yikes
Those videos of men messing up their new wife’s hair, makeup, and dress makes my blood boil already (getting ready is NOT cheap) but throwing the cake is so dangerous and is a major red flag! Big wedding cakes can have wooden dowels in them and frosted cakes can be quite heavy as well. The cake stand could leave bruises, cuts, or shatter if it’s made out of glass. Not to mention that the knife could still be lodged in the cake when he throws it.
If a man gets so pressed about a slice of cake smushed into his face that he escalates to throwing the entire cake at her in .2 seconds in front of their friends and family then I fear what he does behind closed doors.
Talk about making a mountain out of a mole hill
@@braydenjames8957 It’s true though, shows his lack of humor and aggression.
@@braydenjames8957Molehill being the little bit of cake or about the whole issue at hand? I think people think you’re trying to downplay the whole issue.
@@EvnCie to imply abuse is happening because of a cake smash is absurd. it's planned almost every single time. And a woman's time and appearance is no more or less valuable than the man's. Get over it
@@Window4503 i think it's hilariously out of touch and immature to imply abusive behaviour over a cake smash which is almost always planned and to think a woman's time and appearance is more valuable or important than a man's.
When she said “DON’T try me” I literally died of second hand embarrassment 😭
I ran to the comments to get away from that moment
“My brides”
She’s so weird! I have a hard time believing anyone would invite a stranger to their wedding.
It's your client. Politely backoff after you're done with your job. Her makeup skills might look good but she seems unprofessional.
My opinion, I think they were nice and like “you can have some food and cake if you want to” and then she decided she was besties with the wedding party and started getting in everyone’s pictures/way 😬
@@OpalLeigh-il8yjIt's like being kind to a person out of common courtesy and respect and expecting to move on after that, and then they start acting like you've shared a life-long bond with them and you're the only thing they have like ??? Wtf no
I've helped set up many weddings, not once have I heard anyone say "my bride"... not the catering, not the florist, not even the freaking wedding planner. Only one would have to be the groom, and even then it's rare. It's as if she's trying to take on a motherly role or something, a complete overstep and its actually gross to me. Okay, eat some snacks I guess if they allow you to-then LEAVE 🤢
@@OpalLeigh-il8yjit reminds me of “If You Give A Mouse A Cookie” only that woman is far less endearing than a mouse.
Ngl, if someone told me "I don't like TikToks, but you can film some things at the wedding for yours" I'd take that as an invitation to do a little bit of my thing, mostly keep to my actual job, and I certainly wouldn't be trying to interview the Certified TikTok Hater on my TikTok lol.
Just feels like it's really in line with this lady being kind of bad or somewhat pushy about reading the mood in a room tbh.
As a former MUA that did weddings, I saw something like this happen and the other MUA got sued for hell and back despite having in the contract they could film for their business insta. The MUA lost the case because it is a very clear assumption you are filming what you do, the makeup, not the whole wedding
Even if you have permission to film you're still expected to ask permission to post each individual piece. This is a private event.
It a takes a special kind of personality disorder to be told "the groom doesn't like tiktok" and your reaction is "I'm going to film the groom for a tiktok"
If I was part of the bridal party I'd be so weirded out too...like yes, your job is to make me look good AT THE WEDDING, not everyone is comfortable having images/videos of them blazoned online as part of an advertisement. Your role is to support your friend getting married, not to be a tiktok prop for the MUA.
my irrational childhood fear of weddings was very much rational actually
its wild that people are so narcissistic that they think everything revolves around them but its even worse when its in a wedding setting i mean its one of the most important days of someone's life but no you just cant let someone have a day about them selves and you have to make it about you. (thanks for all the likes, I'm happy some people agree with me)
I blame TikTok. There’s too many people who think they are above criticism. She should’ve kept that on reddit
@melteddarkchocolate000 yeah I totally agree.
Gotta love the attitude of "they asked me to leave but no I am strong and do not deserve to be talked to like that"
@block4562 yeah, i don't understand how they don't realize that they are just ruining someone's day because they think it's all about them.
I blame social media.
I have spent my life in the hospitality industry. The makup lady was completely out of line. Staff are not personalities at a wedding. One is there to perform the task for which they are hired. Unless the bride or groom directly express that staff can film, they should absolutely refrain. It is utterly rude and discourteous to film any person at any time without permission. Put down your phone and do your job. If one wants to utilize subtle footage to market their skills, ask for permission. Weddings are very stressful. Display conscientious empathy and do exactly what you are paid to do, go above and beyond. A wedding where one is not a guest is entirely inappropriate for main character mania.
I agree w u and a wedding where one is a guest is still entirely inappropriate for main character mania. Idk how she thought what she's doing is okay when none of the invited guests did those things
the way the bride told her ahead of time that the groom HATES tiktoks and doesn’t want to be filmed and yet the makeup artist films him anyway… yikes
I have some photos from my wedding entrance with some guy from the cooking staff squatting and filming it on the background. To this day I don’t understand why he did this, if the cooking staff wanted videos from my entrance I would happily send them my wedding film.
The makeup artist got codependent with the wedding.
reall like she acted like she was a guest and NOT just a makeup artist doing her job?? Like the good time and vibes belong to the couple and guests, defo not the staff lmao
💯
@@CherryRabbitXOXA lot of the stuff she did would already be obnoxious if she were a guest. She’s merely paid to work the event, the event is not for her.
@@redencarnacion exactlyyy like shes acting as if she’s getting married 😭😭😭
Unbelievable. Even a few minutes in, i forgot she was a makeup artist and thought she was some photographer with how close she gets to people..
I think she should’ve realized where she went wrong when she said she was filming multiple TikTok’s the whole day with the groom who said he didn’t like TikTok or want phones at the wedding, and than also said she’s barely said anything to him, probably meaning the most she’s said to him were instructions for her promotional TikTok’s
Yes thank you like it’s HIS wedding just as much as the brides.
Also sounds like the bride complained to him privately 😭
When i first saw her 3 part series i had to pause like every 15 seconds from the second hand embarrassment and walk laps around my room. This whole situation is truly a horrifying watch😭
Fr
I'm glad I'm not the only one who puts down the phone and runs laps in my room when suffering from second hand embarrassment 🤣
I couldn’t get past the first couple minutes. I gotta have support and watch it with you guys on here.
Omg i thought it was only me who does that
What's her @?
That girl thinks shes all that. I hate people who insert themselves into places their not suppose to be.
Ive seen people pointing out the groom had a yamaka or kippah on so the couples alone time could have been part of a Jewish tradition where the couple spends time alone (based when or where couples couldnt be alone before the wedding so they can get to know each other). The makeup artist mentioned she was yelled at the husband for coming in on their alone time and thats cause it maybe a nice tradition for their religion/culture
I used to work in the wedding industry, you HAVE to treat brides and their families LIKE family while respecting a professional boundary and some people cannot separate the two.
„My fiancé(e), the makeup artist and me“ sounds like some movie tbh
She should do a wedding deal of MUA/Photographer if she really enjoys working like this.
How drunk was that bridesmaid?😬😬
I have so much second hand embarrassment
It seems like the makeup artist has an attachment/personality disorder. You see it in kids when they get crazy attached to an adult very quickly and at a very intimate level like hugging them, holding their hand, wanting to be next to them constantly (and it NOT being their parents or primary caregiver literally it can be anyone who shows them the smallest amount of attention). If this kind of behavior isn’t addressed by professionals when they’re young it carries into adulthood and this is a pretty good example. She’s overstepping her boundaries and thinking being the hired makeup artist invites her to be bffs and apart of the main show, it doesn’t and it’s not normal to act this way in this scenario (unless specifically requested)
Hit the nail on the head someone hand taught her to read the room
100%
Attachment theory is really outdated and disproven. She just had boundary issues. Let's put this attachment stuff to rest where it belongs.
My best friend is very much like this but we're young adults. She has a beautiful heart and never means it badly, but there are times when she grossly crosses boundaries with people she barely knows... I could see her in the makeup artists place in this video, and that makes me sad. I will try reading on what you mentioned and try to bring it up, I don't want her to be in this position...
@xbluebirdx better talk to her and help her with those boundaries then, you seem like a good friend
She's literally Michael Scott
Spot on 😂
LMAO😭😭😭
LITERALLLYY
Thank you for this. I’ve learned something very important today. I can make my own choices for myself. I could’ve watched the bridesmaid speech video, but I skipped it. No one’s forcing me. i can choose happiness, and i did.
If only I was so smart. I should have skipped the groom's speech because I already knew how horrible it was. Yet I made myself watch it again 😭
You're absolutely right. You're allowed to protect, shelter and distance yourself from things that might bring you imbalance.
If only i have a faster reflex. That part of the video stunned me so much that I simply couldn't keep up with my brain screaming at me to skip ahead.
i wished i was this smart because i have literally watched both her vow and the other grooms vow before and i recognized them as well, yet i kept watching anyway and relived the cringe 😭☠️
The bridesmaid’s speech was horrible and cringeworthy. The grooms speeches weren’t funny and it’s just embarrassing. 😳
Ugh for real. That bridesmaid speech was awful 😭 and the grooms with their vows in front of their friends and family was gross, like Tati said “time and place”!
Where is the timestamp
I would have simply left. I don't care if it's my wedding. Gross.
That video at the end makes my heart drop every time.
If the groom hadn't moved his arm up, the bride would have been stabbed on her wedding day because of a drunken idiot guest.
Seriously I couldn't look away from the knife! How terrifying to watch your wedding tape back and see just how close cousin drunkard came to ending you on your wedding day?? I Seriously can't imagine
Being invited to stay for the wedding and inserting yourself into the wedding are two very different things
What I'd give to see him react to the woman who vlogged a babies funeral on tiktok
A WHAT now???😱
WHAT
Didn't that girl also bring a bottle of alcohol for the mother as a gift? 😭
*EXCUSE ME*
@WaffleDoge yea, she did, sis said she didn't know if the mother liked bourbon or tequila like what
We have peaked at human narcissism
Idk about that. We’ll have peaked when it’s normal for people to claim godhood. Almost there!
Social media has made people way to comfortable with disrespecting others...
@@GarsnoosLiterally.
And the bride was a self-admitted people pleaser so imagine how much she wanted to say and just didn’t. The makeup artist took advantage of that.
Your clients aren’t responsible for your mental health, girl. She should’ve done her job, left, called her friends so she could go hang out with them.
She should really take her over bearing nature and become a wedding planner.
Are you kidding? She'd be in the bedroom with the bride and groom trying to make sure it was done right
@@binchicken3677this is also true 😂
I was thinking with all her filming, maybe she should just be a wedding filmographer 😬
@@binchicken3677This shouldn't have made me laugh as hard as it did 😂
weddings would be played by her scenarios in this case, I’m afraid. Imagine being instructed how to act and where to stand all day long
If my husband threw a $500 cake at me I would divorce him.
I just started working in weddings & this was actually helpful. I do flowers & I got a lot of people looking for me to get pictures of the flowers, but some of them I turned down & now I’m glad I did. I want advertising for my business, but a few clips & shots is enough
As long as you ask permission and take no for an answer you should be fine but yeah:)
Poor bride.. she didn’t have to heart to tell her how much she was stressing her, the groom and her wedding guests out..
OH MY GOD!! that maid of honor speech was so bad, i felt the cringe seeping out of the screen and into my heart. ughhhhh who starts a speech with "not to sound racist..." aggghhhh so painful lol
TikTok has really eroded people’s basic professionalism.
Nah, theres always been people like this. Its just that tiktok gives them a place to show their ass on a bigger platform
@@AlbinojackrusselDoctors were not dancing around and filming their patients before tiktok. It's definitely gotten worse since social media.
@@Raven74408 I mean, there was that surgeon who was carving his initials into people's livers before tiktok. Or the many doctors/surgeons who took intimate photos of their patients and shared them around. Or the doctor who stole his patients cells, and proliferated them without permission or even knowledge of the patient (HeLa cells if you want to read about that one).
There's always been doctors who breach their patients privacy. Tiktok just provides a new angle to do so, but the behaviour isn't new.
Those people didn’t do those things for an audience, though. They were for personal creepy reasons or unscrupulous professional advancement. It’s DEFINITELY worse.
The not being able to get rid of her because they were too polite is literally THE SINGLE REASON you have bridesmaids and pages at eeddings. It is their job to organise awkward things like this so that the bride and groom don't have to get their hands dirty 😂
I disagree, while it would be nice for friends to jump in and do the "dirty work" someone like this will just justify their presence by going "well the bride/groom didn't say anything so I'm fine". Look at her reaction to the groom saying she was getting on his nerves. You really think someone like that will listen to their clients friends? It's the bride and grooms day they need to be the ones to put their foot down. The bride shouldn't have said "you're not getting on mine he's just cranky" at that point she should've asked her to leave.
This personality is a dime a dozen. The only reason she’s even salty online over this is because someone finally drew strong boundaries on her cringey behavior.
i kinda feel bad for her - it seems like she doesn’t have friends and didn’t want to be alone for the night. why would you want to hang around a wedding of a stranger? especially if you arent being paid to be there/already finished the task you were paid to do
Exactly! She shouldve js gone home and gotten food not ruin peoples wedding..
Do you feel bad for your waiters that you imagine are lonely? Do you think about how many friends your cashier has?
@@Lybrel waiters and cashiers are doing their jobs. this lady hung around long after she was done with the makeup and was acting like she was part of the friend group. do the makeup and get out of there.
like how inappropriate would it be for the caterer to invite themselves to the after party? they’d be fired
@@Lybrel Do waiters typically sit down to eat with you?
@Lybrel
do you know of a thing called empathy?
"go back in there. Dont let anyone break gou down" It is the grooms day too! The bride clearly had plenty of support and was being polite
Quite often in these types of situations it may feel like you have become fast friends. However, you should decline staying if you’re not going to be working. The bride not wanting to tell you that she wants you to leave seems normal. Once the groom says he doesn’t want someone that he doesn’t know and that the bride doesn’t know to leave then just leave. It’s NOT just about the bride as much as people say that
I think she meant well and thought she was livening up the party, but didn’t have the emotional maturity or the tools to process learning that she didn’t actually come off how she thought she did, so she coped by becoming overly defensive rather than burying herself in guilt and shame (like I would’ve-to be fair, not a particularly healthy reaction either). She’ll be fine, and hopefully she grows with each new mistake. We all make them.
> I think she meant well
Enablers like you that treat criminals as well-meaning, child saints lead to this reinforced bad behavior. Freeloading a second movie in a theater is criminal trespassing, not a mistake, like you'd call it. So is this. The Tiktok commentor that joked it's like a Doordasher who stays for dinner got it wrong. It's like a Doordasher who burglarizes you.
so perfectly said
The damage was still done. She ruined her client's wedding. She's a professional ffs, you'd think she'd know how to stay in her own lane. Hopefully she won't let her next "mistakes" affect future costumers.
She's milking all of this for tiktok clout, not really sure how that's indicative of learning any lesson. If anything it's positive reinforcement for her bizarre behavior
Amen rootypoots
My makeup artist for my wedding literally wished me a good day and left immediately when she was done 🤣 anything else would have been so awkward
Aaaaand this is why we eloped. You can plan your perfect wedding, but as long as humans are involved, you'll never be sure what will happen...
Every day I'm so happy I just got married on the beach in a simple, cheap, small ceremony. It's was so lovely. Also, my officiant and photographer didn't invite themselves to the after dinner haha Also, my husband actually loves me and would never smash food into my face or act aggressively towards me. We've been together 20 years and he's sweet to me.
Awh~!! Here’s to 20+ more years to you~!🥂
@@r.coachman3499 thanks :)
oh to have a respectful partner who doesn’t care if the wedding is small & simple. if i ever get married one day, i would want it to be just our families & friends too ❤
I wouldn’t mind them having food or whatever, that happens but it’s very weird to be right in the action at the front row of the event and right between the main wedding people.
I’ve seen tertiary people have a plate and sit down but it’s at the tables far from the bride and groom and they respectfully give those spaces to relatives and friends.
I used to be a make up artist, and I did bridal makeup, even if my contracts said I could film promo things, I would NEVEr think I had a right to film the whole ass wedding??? You aren't a wedding designer?? You are the makeup artist, you only would be filming the process then leaving!!!
Yikes... imagine you're hired to do makeup then think you're invited to the wedding... no girl you were hired to do a job! Do it & go
"Weren't ruined by strangers" ?? Girl they invited these guests on purpose there are literally no strangers at any wedding??? 😂
No strangers apart from the makeup artist apparently
Reminds me of when my mum's neighbour came to my graduation and ran unto the stage when i was given an award, if something like that happens in my weeding, I'm screaming
My aunt decided to yell at my cousin at my brother’s graduation. It was so embarrassing. Why are people like this 😫
@@liliebilie because they might never be called out about their problematic behaviour that's why.
Definitely don't invite your Mum's neighbour to your wedding. 😬
Why
People say there's a correlation between grooms shoving their wedding cake onto their brides' faces and a high divorce rate.
The wedding cake smash tradition originated in Ancient Rome. After tying the knot, brides would have barley cake crumbled over their heads, which signified male dominance and the promise of fertility.
So yeah. There definitely is. Very thankful to be a lesbian. If my bride did that, I would be furious
@@breawycker Fellow lesbian here. My bride and I will be feeding each other cake.
Probably because the type of spouse who would shove your face into a cake is not the type of person to otherwise be loving, supportive and loyal partner.
Especially on your wedding day. Where the cake likely cost a fortune, and your makeup took hours, and everyone you care about is there watching.
there is data that backs up that if you and your partner agreed ahead of time to not smash the cake, and then one of you does, the likelihood of divorce does in fact rise
i’m having to take periodic breaks to get through this maid of honor speech holy shit
I'm no wedding expert but is it typical for the makeup artist to stick around after the putting on makeup portion ?? I've been a wedding musician which often includes being Allowed to eat The wedding food But certainly never Interacted With guests And the bride like this
No it's not typical. At most, they may ask you to stay for touch ups later on especially if the bride changes her look
Played at a few weddings and never even considered touching the food. It's money for a service, not a community event.
Ive been the sister in a lot of weddings ( i have 6 siblings ) it is not normal…
Im sure later in the evening is when she should come back. Not be there the ENTIRE day
You want them to stick around for the main photos, but it’s best when it’s a photographer-MUA duo that work together so that mua knows what to look out for
She could absolutely not work that day, it's her company and she was not the only make up artist on site even. She could say she was sick and ask another MUA to go for her or try to be there the least time possible... The other MUAs that work with her left after doing their job, no reason other than recording tiktok content for her to stay
Exactly. Her employees are so much more professional than she is. And the fact that her past clients are coming forward saying she messed up their weddings with the same behavior, I doubt this has to do with her breakup and it’s probably just her self-centered personality.
It's crazy how this lady probably just threw her entire career down the toilet by how she responded to this...
Like you said, a lot of people would actually like her personality and the way she handles herself at weddings. If this wedding party didn't like it and asked her to leave, she should have just let it go and not posted anything about that event.
But instead, she decided to publically call them out, which is soooooo unprofessional. A lot of people probably would have been on her side and supported her if she had simply moved on and handled this with class.
I feel like she intentionally put herself in this situation so she can post it on TikTok. The whole recording to the scenery and recording the people she’s doing their makeup- yeah no very unprofessional
Within 24 hours gang>>>>>>
Within 12 minutes 😶😶😶
Cringe
within the hour gang>>>>
For why tho
Within 30 mins
Never make a day not about you, about you.
The speeches and vows....YIKES! That was.....😬.. I couldn't imagine being the bride atm
Omgg 🤦♀️ The one who wants his stomach filled and balls emptied 😬 ... did u see the bride's face?
And the one that hardly put any effort in writing his vows, instead brushing it off as "we've come this far anyways" Yikes!😫
6:40 I hope to god they smoothed those roots. My cosmotolgy teacher would have had my head if a model looked like that 😭
Oof and I thought the bridesmaid speech my friend and I did was cringey. 😭 Why did she focus on them being interracial like even making something up about his personality would have been better.
i love black people 💀
She will be having a hard time booking clients from now on
I hope so. Bad behavior should have consequences.
Oh christ, watching the groom and.... Best man? ... roughhouse over the cake while one of them is literally holding a knife gave me such anxiety. I don't blame the bride for bolting there, it looked like a disemboweling was imminent.
That maid of honour speach 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Agonising 😭
I had to fast forward 😭😭
bruh every time you thought it was over she kept going 😭😭😭😭
"I'm the main character and you have to like me >:((("
WILL WOOD?
WILL WOOD??
11:33 how hard is it just to say “you’ve been such a positive impact on me and your love together i can tell is unbreakable, i hope this marriage will flourish and become just as beautiful as you two together, god bless and amen”
I hate this type of Tik Tok dancing trends too so I understand the groom’s wishes. Man this just consolidated that having a wedding ceremony is just too stressful for my liking
“Burst out in tears”
“Ignoring all my pain”
She said it like its her special day 🙄
Girl they're focusing on getting married.
She is exceptionally unprofessional and lacks boundaries. It just turned into a montage of reasons to not hire her.
This is literally why I'm never gonna get married😭 if I do it's gonna be a SMALL wedding, some close friends and some family.
Some extra context on the MUA who crashed the wedding: it was a Jewish wedding and she disrupted a very important private Jewish ritual after the ceremony. Then she says that the groom has no reason to be upset with her?! Have some cultural sensitivity.
The two grooms and their vows were super cringy and I felt 2nd hand embarrassment for the brides
Aside from the atrocious behavior of the MUA, the wedding was beautiful!! I love the flowers on the arch!
5:48 funniest thing about this is that SHE is the stranger😂
this is the type of situation where the waiter said "enjoy the dinner" and u said "u too" and the waiter ACTUALLY stays for dinner...
ok but ngl if my husbands wedding vows were that I lowkey would have postponed the wedding and thought twice abt the whole thing
If you find the full version it's so so much worse, and her vows are all "I'm sorry I'm not the most beautiful woman in the world but I will always love you".
The bride publicly stood by him, I can't imagine being poorly humiliated in that way.
@@heartiko2681That's sad but honestly not surprising. The only way I can see a woman marrying a man like that is if they have low self esteem and don't think they deserve better.
@@heartiko2681 ive seen it so many times and it somehow always suprises me just how bad it was. It genuinely makes me sad that she replied to people defending him.
And that one before it! If the person ordaining your wedding tells you ahould should be doing a take 2 you know you f'ed up
So she wasn’t even invited. The honest to god cheek of some people is just unbelievable. I would have asked her to leave once she was done. She was not invited. I understand you had just a crisis but don’t ruin anyone else’s day. I would have asked her to turn off her phone and leave.
My second hand embarrassment makes me never want to leave MY house again, I can’t imagine doing this and thinking it’s okay 😭
As someone who works in the wedding industry, this makes me feel so uncomfortable that I can't watch the video until the end 😭
I can handle cringe, but the levels here are PHYSICALLY hazardous 😭
Your comment needs more attention 😂😂
Okay, but the fact that she thought the groom's lighter was "just a lighter" is like... Shawty what?? The lighter could mean something to him, but she wouldn't know because she literally doesn't know him. Like STAWP.
The husband had to tell her to stop since the bride felt she couldn't.
The picture of the guy you used for the reddit moderator bit is actually known to be a nice guy and people using this pic feels to be mocking the way he looks and stereotyping him 😬 His name is Jerry Messing.
It's something society isn't quite up on yet. Due to him being overweight and filling in the "nice guy" fedora meme.
Becoming a meme has ruined most of those people’s lives, and no one ever thinks about it.
I read that a picture one of the victims of that 2011 mass shooting in Norway is used as a “neckbeard” photo online, which is super effed up.
Yeah wasn't the reason this picture kept spreading that someone just took a random picture of this guy from his facebook to make fun of him? I get that it's not common knowledge that Jerry is literally just some guy living his life but it sucks how literally the only reason he's the face of 'creepy weird basement dweller' jokes is bc he's a fat guy in a fedora.