Europe's 80 Year Olds Share Their BIGGEST Mistakes
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I ask retired Italian seniors in their 60s, 70s, and 80s what their biggest mistakes and regrets are, how it feels to be their age, what advice they'd give to someone younger than them, and so much more. Filmed in Milan, Italy.
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I’m 76. One word of advice for those younger. Don’t postpone something you want to do, because one day you may be too old to do so and regret it.
Thank you so much for sharing!
What's so horrible about regretting something ?
God bless everyone
@@stoicepictetus3875that it never came to life in real life is horrible indeed
Hi young'uns! I'm 53. START A PENSION. NOW.
''Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction'' that was beautiful 🥰
Agree. That really moved me.
5:47 🥹 so well stated
That was a massively phenomenal statement!!
My favorite statement of all. Heed this advice and you will not be sorry. Such wisdom!
Fr that hit
The best advice I heard on this channel was that if someone is willing to teach you something for free you should listen well. Sometimes when someone gives us advice we take it personally as an attack when they are just trying to teach us something they know.
Bro I moved from Vancouver to Italy this year. I’ve noticed the Italians know how to relax in a totally different way. Italians really understand how to do nothing. And I mean that as a good thing
The Balkans where I moved to from U.S. is the same. These people know how to relax, enjoy life. Total opposite of U.S. why I live here permanently now. I tell my American family members, friends in the U.S. about this great lifestyle and the first words out of their mouth always is, 'I could never live like THAT!!!'. One actually told me, 'When I'm on the road, I yell at slow cars to get out of my way, I got things to do'. She has been retired for 20+ yrs! That's how corporate brainwashed most Americans are, and she admitted so.
Joe, you learnt the meaning of il dolce far niente 😅😅😅. Do you like it more? I moved from Montreal to Italy in 2019 and I couldn't wait to return to Canada. And so I did. I think it depends of where in Italy. I was in the North, I found it quite boring. From Canada, I love both Montreal and Vancouver.
@@dianabalan A lot depends on your age, maturity level. If you find bars, night life, malls, shopping, more interesting then the ancient architecture, a slower paced life that most Americans have zero interest in, along with different lifestyles, cultures, languages they should remain in U.S., that is so toxic and boring to me!
@@wanderingwarrior5626 hi. No, I'm not into that all. I'm actually European by birth and very close to Italy. Used to be my super soul country. But I lived there enough (and in many other places on all the continents) to know it's not the same to live and to visit. I find living there quite challenging. I absolutely love art, and I think that's one reason to cherish Montreal and I also adore nature and here, Vancouver wins. Canada is a very interesting mix of Europe with N America. On the other side, if we talk about Europe, Spain impresses me the most for living. And Poland is a beautiful surprise, too.
The way I see it, a country is an entire package, you can't take just one aspect into consideration, neither only the bad or the good. And for me, Italy is not a winner overall, sadly. Neither US.
But Canada, Spain, maybe Australia, NZ etc are - talking about long term! (Short term there are maaaany countries worth trying, there is a huge list).It depends on the field of work and necessities, expectations, openness to the world, age of course (I'm middle aged).
In the end though, everybody is different and that's great.. there's a place under the sun for each of us ☀️
@@dianabalan You have the right frame of mind. A open mind! Very hard to find in many countries now, especially the U.S., where I'm from. Almost no one there is interested in knowing about, visiting other countries. I've been to over thirty countries, lived in five. I'm capable of adapting to most countries, people, so never a problem for me to live in another country. Keep on the path you are. That most will not take! Preferring the well worn safe route.
I'm 66. Inside every old person is a young person who is wondering what the hell happened! What I like most about being this age is the wisdom I have gained from my many mistakes. If you learn from your mistakes you never have to suffer the consequences from them again because you don't repeat them.
What's funny is that you can NOT pass your wisdom to the younger generation because they will think your ideas are obsolete. They have to experience the same things themselves and draw conclusions to learn, and by the time they learn they are old too
Great Scott!
66 isn't old.
90 is old.
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@@Kitiwake90 is getting old.
I am now 60 years old. Time has gone by so quickly that I don't know how it could happen that I'm now considered old by other people. People sometimes make comments like that. Sometimes I think of the fairy tale of Sleeping Beauty. Have I perhaps spent all these years in Sleeping Beauty's sleep and suddenly woken up old?
The greatest "gift in life" is to find that one person to spend it with. Whether it's a He/He or She/She or Male/Female relationship as long as you find that one person to spend time with, life is special. My greatest accomplishment in life, was finding that one person who I love more than anything else in the world. The Children we had together are the second best accomplishment for sure!!!!
At 83, i regret not doing or trying things. I do not regret anything i tried, learned, experienced.
Thanks much for your comment. Love and best.
“Love is not looking in each other’s eyes, it’s looking together in the same direction” ♥️
Starts with looking into each other's eyes, it leads to your heart and mind taking life's journey together.
Endurance is more important than truth because without endurance there can't be any truth. And truth means going to the end like you mean it. That way, death itself comes up short when it grabs.
-Henry Charles Bukowski
From the poet Rumi
I really appreciate how this guy approaches people with an open heart and as equals. He seems to be a genuinely friendly young man. He will hopefully grow old, too. Not everyone does, remember that. Some people do not get to be even 10.
Thank you so much
💯 with you, I've had 3 childhood friends who didn't hv the opportunity to celebrate their thirtieth b/day & one not even her twentieth
When you are young, you don’t realize how much baggage you are carrying from your childhood. This contributes to self-sabotage and making choices against your own best interest.
As an Italian Living in America my best words of wisdom would be to slow down and smell the roses. When I was younger I was always busy working and always get busy with a lot of other things. I never really slowed down . Life goes by so fast that one day you wake up you're an old man or an old lady. Adopt the slow food movement that was pioneered by the Italians and French. Be grateful for every day good and bad and again most importantly slow down and smell the roses and enjoy the simple things in life.
Thanks much, I agree, so valuable to spend time in quiet contemplation within.
I'm 65. Your series has helped me reflect and ask myself the questions you ask your guests. What do I regret? I regret not spending more time nurturing a friendship that was important to me. I was busy raising kids on my own. But that's not an excuse. I hope to live a lot more years and always take the time to be there and listen to people around me.
You got this
I turned 60 last year. In 2017 I was in a hospital thinking I was dying. Those 7 days of thinking in that hospital bed made me get out and do things I’ve always wanted to do. I bought myself a mustang convertible. I went to Hawaii and to Havana.
The memories of those trips come back to me every time I get into my car. I don’t regret doing those things I regret having to almost die to do the things I really wanted to do.
I’m so happy that this new series has popped up on my YOuTube. At 81 I am conscious of time passing and that the end is coming near, but as I see it, to live every day with something special in it, something to look forward to, take exercise seriously and keep in touch with friends and especially my granddaughter is the best way to be.
It is not the end.. it is moving to a different phase to the next level of existence of beyond what is physical. It is the time when we disembark our bodies to give it back to Mother Earth. The loan that we must repay her. Then move on to something more beautiful.. there is no end.. my greetings 😊
When you are young you cannot see yourself getting older. Then snap, you're there and you're looking back wondering where time went. A cliche, but you have to make the most of every minute. Wise words in this video from the couple 😮
no matter how well you live your life, old age sucks. I'm 75.
I'm Italian and i'm so proud for that wises words!
Love your work man!
Respect!
Thank you so much Vincenzo!
almost 63, a few years ago i had the opportunity to ask a man in his 90s what his 'life lesson' was. he said "be kind."
why we are not is an increasingly important consideration.
I think learning a new language is one of the best way to make our life better. It is not only beneficial for mental health but help us open the another view.
really love that couple.. such a bless that you can stay in a marriage for more than 40 years. they also wear matching outfits, how cute 🥹 the husband seems very patience. the wife is very wise
One of the most important lessons of this is to hear what they say. They still feel 18-20 inside. You don't change, you are the same person. Your body has fallen apart but you are the same person and it happens so quickly. One day you are young and you turn around and you are middle aged. Turn around again and you are old, but inside you are the same person. You just step back in sadness because you realize that you are deteriorated, old, and undesirable. Priorities change because your position in society changes.
Love listening to what older people have to say. They keep us connected to the world before social media and just simpler times that kept values, principles and morals alive and kicking.
The couple speak incredible English. I adore the Italian culture and wish us English would adopt it more.
Just because you're old doesn't make you wise. No regrets, life is an adventure full of ups and downs, twists and turns. You may want to do differently, but living in regret is just an option. Live in Love, acceptance, expansion of all that is ❤
The goal in life is to not have too many regrets and when you make mistakes to learn from them and try to fix damage. That way you are not carrying too heavy a burden. We should net regret too much because everything that has happened in your life is largely decided by circumstance. Hopefully you try to do the best you can with what you have. You can not regret too much of the past because it has made you who you are today. The good and the bad. If you have learned from your experiences and are trying to do better you are on the right path.
Love this content. We should pay more attention to older people. They are a gift.
Thank-you.. We have lived long enough to have learned from our failures and mistakes…We all have them… Mistakes are the best teachers
The 80+ year old couple look amazing. That's what I aspire to, if I ever reach that age.
I love how the old gent is reading a newspaper and not reading news on a phone. In America, I don’t see that anymore. I love it.
Unreal
My father always says “el espíritu no envejece.” Your soul never ages….
You don't have think about regrets because otherwise you don't live well! Thank you, this really helped me.
My wife is exactly like the woman in that couple, albeit, we're 25+ years younger. We'd look forward to you interviewing us when you are about our age now.
God willing 🙏🏽 Best wishes to you & yours 💛
Sprout !
I’m 62. My mother is 89. I’m fit for fight. Have a wonderfull job being a news TV photographer for 31 years working with all the young people at my TV station.
But age make you start thinking.
I have so much respect for your channel that you can’t imagine. I could say a lot more. But that´s from the bottom of my heart.
Love from Denmark
Jesper
Another quality video I've found on TH-cam 😊.
Realizing your worth is really hard when you are too focused on giving your 100% to others but not giving at least half on yourself.
such beautiful and intelligent elderly Italian people
Yes, young peoples love of money, buying expensive things to be happy, impress others, enough is never enough, following others, no original thoughts, quick fixes that fix nothing permanently, drink, drugs, lying, cheating to get what they want, be popular, fit it!
I love it that most people nowadays get younger at heart and in their minds.
When I was a child in the 1960s, old people were different. At 60, they were old, felt old and wore clothing for old people. And they were very conservative, not accepting other cultures or ways of live, not to speak about sexualities.
Even - due to advances in medicine - the bodies work like younger ones.
Not really. I knew lots of people then around 70, even 80, who were still vivacious, very healthy, and living each day to the fullest. And they were interested in other cultures, liked to travel and learn.
There are no regrets in life! Life is a school ....we come here to learn and grow ......and most of all experience life on Planet Earth. We all walk on different Paths....but arrive at the same DESTINATION.... Thus we come here to help each other and walk each other HOME!!!😍🥰....Try to be POSITIVE even in a negative situation...... Feel pain...Accept pain and RELEASE!!!......1💖
another good job for this video. very raw, human and organic new subscriber here. BLESSINGS to you more!
Love your videos, great thought provoking content. I totally agree with slowing down and just be. I had to move out of the big city of Sydney into a small coastal town to do that. Sea breeze, being close to nature and beaches with little traffic makes so much difference. Love it here now! ❤
I live in Switzerland and I have enough of commuting in overcrowded trains, working in an office in the city and paying crazy rents. I will try to move and work in a small city or a village. Or in the mountains.
i loved these deep and honest answers. such a deep connection can evolve from such a simple question between two strangers. magical. thank you for these insights. I hope to create something similar one day
Love is like a mirror.. U get what u give. ❤️
5:38 the old man gave the opinion and how the lady reacted , that's all what it takes for agood marriage, the thing is having fun together , supporting and having a chearfull life is the key to happ y marrage
My advice to younger people is. I can sleep with Pain. I can sleep with Hunger. I can sleep in Discomfort. But i cannot sleep with REGRET. So never live with REGRET.
What a fun surprise that this was in Italy! I love Italian. Thanks for sharing these beautiful interviews with us❤
I love Italy too, what is your favourite place in italy?
Spending more time with my elders and asking more questions. So many things I don't know about my grandparent and parents. Now I'm the elder and no one is asking me questions. ❤
Used to live there for decades! Because an Italian man living in the city fell in love. Lasted 26 years but then he passed on. My story about him is on my main video on my channel.
I'm 70, every mistake you made when younger, large or small haunts you in old age.
yes, and it's very hard not to dwell in the past.
I’m addicted to your video interviews Will. Keep up the amazing work!
7:34 I like this guy. Take all your chances. Have no regrets
Thank you, Will, from a 79 year old lady. We have learned so many things the hard way. I just wish I could pass this knowledge on to younger generations, and they would listen. But we all have to make our own mistakes to learn the lesson thoroughly.
@ConfusedRiver-ff6lh Yes, I am. Why?
I am a 69 year old Italian woman and this one touched my heart. Thank you.
These are the very best videos, so so simple but we learn so much from. You should write a book. Advice from the world's oldest and wisest people. I'm talking Japenese, Italians etc etc.
There was before knowing this channel and there is now. I feel blessed.
My 81 year old father is a narcissistic bully who never made a mistake in his life, lays all the blame and takes all the credit. Good advice comes from good people and has nothing to do with age.
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Will, These interveiws are going to help me get through a very difficult time, dont know just unexpectedly felt my mind expanded deeply to feel abit better
I got you ❤️
From one Will to another---Thanks for posting this.
Amazing life journey from Italy 🇮🇹 ❤️
I'm 58, I lost the love of my life when I was 25 because I was too stubborn and had too much pride to forgive 💔
Such a beautiful language. They look so much younger than their age. Their muscle time is envied. I can't believe that lady runs and dies gymnastics at her age. Lovely video. ❤
Bro those are upper middle class or middle class people.If you reach out to the lower or poor,you will hear totally different story.
You can't reach out to the poor, they died under a bridge a while ago.
@@jurgen9568😂 don't be so mean
And what kind of advice could they have told you? How to stay poor? No point.
@@hunpat4916 this is not about poverty all the time. Some might have mental health issues or severe betrayal case too. Still some of them has courage to overcome those situation. That’s my point.
@@AS004-xf4jcthey just look normal people in the central park of Milan, Parco Sempione. A lot of people here are like that... unfortunately young people tend to be much worse off than elderly people here, though.
Bless everyone.
❤❤❤thank you sprouht for making extremely amazing contents for us💖💖💖
Thanks for sharing. Great video.
Rare to see a video with actual value on TH-cam. Elderly should be listened to more often. Very refreshing.
Agreed!
I'm turning 80 in July and am amazed how much snow shovelling I've been able to do these past weeks! Either it's gonna kill me or I'm gonna be the next Superwoman! ;)
My regret is that I got to really know God so late in life and, as a result, made many unwise decisions :(
Just wonderful, my Italian neighbours 🇭🇷 💚🤍❤️
Thank you for this content 🙏🏿🤲🏿🤝🏿
These are deep questions and produce good thoughtful responses.
love your content! this is something that younger people should watch.
The youngs are busy tik tokking 😂
There seemed to be a common through line of not dwelling on the past or regrets. It's a waste of the time we have now to love people and enjoy life.
They speak the truth.Think about what you do,take all the consequences in consideration.That way will have less regrets.
Hey man. where can I purchase one of those It`s a mindset t-shirts?. They`re awesome. Keep up the good work, your videos are always inspiring and uplifting, food for thought.
00:57 *🌟 Life reflections and physical well-being*
- Reflections on life balance and past mistakes,
- Importance of physical activities like daily exercise and sports,
- Perspective on aging and staying mentally youthful.
02:11 *🌊 Embracing life and maintaining relationships*
- Advice on embracing the present and staying connected,
- Importance of friendships and family bonds,
- Personal reflections on nurturing relationships despite distances.
04:10 *🤔 Lessons learned and regrets*
- Regrets about not listening more when younger,
- Insights on trust, reflection before action, and learning languages,
- Reflections on life choices and friendships.
06:15 *💬 Empathy for younger generations*
- Empathy towards younger people facing challenges,
- Reflections on youth and societal changes,
- Importance of not having regrets in life.
08:15 *🌍 Final life advice*
- Advice on kindness, listening, and living without regrets,
- Encouragement to build meaningful relationships and stay active,
- Emphasis on lifelong learning and travel for personal growth.
Interesting. I never really thought how one stays "young in mind" but "old in body"...very interesting.
these people have their priorities together- refreshing
This is a great video. I'm happy you have chosen to get the wisdom of the older folks who have lived a long life. I'm 65 this year and I've taken great care of myself. And it has paid off, I'm not on any medication nor do I have to replace my joints, hips, knees, etc. I love Italy and visited a few times for a month each time. All of Italy is beautiful but my favorite is florence❤. Italians do know how to live and cherish they're old people. Unlike America. I don't have many regrets but I am not a typical American, I shop for my food everyday like Europeans, I eat fresh foods and very little meat. I walk everywhere cause I live in chicago , in the city and can walk everywhere, I also have a dog which keeps me active. Thanks so much for your videos, I will watch more of them!!❤❤❤❤
My biggest regret is not giving my son a sibling…it was a lonely childhood for him
I gave my daughter a sibling for the same reason but they are constantly fighting. It doesn’t always goes how you think it will
@@Rapha187 I understand.. I have 2 sisters. One, is my best friend & the other ~not so great
@@Rapha187😂
@Rapha187 Eh. None of my adult friends are close friends with their siblings. I have an older sister and, when we were growing up; she wanted nothing to do with me. 😅
God bless the Italians, I love being Italian.
Very interesting. Thank you for interviews and for uploading.
Last one just nailed it,,,study,sports,friends, health etc,,
The 80+ couple are just fabulous. At 77 they help me see being old isn't so bad. Perhaps it's different if one still has a partner.x
Being old is most definitely bad.....illness, loneliness, little money, friends all dead, physical ailments that keep coming. You have to be tough to age and it isn't for everyone. Trouble really starts around seventy for those in the western and European countries who are asymptomatic of disease. One day you're at the racetrack, the next you're in the hospital. And so it goes......
@@peterandreadakis3851one day at a time, tomorrow may not come
Wow, those people were amazing. Definitely worth listening to 🙌
I want to be like the couple one day. You can just tell that is what we all hope to find.
Thanks for the video. I really enjoyed it and learned from it.
Determine what your values are at an early age, before other people overly influence you. Throughout your life, examine those values to see if they still hold true for you. Commit to them and this will help you avoid the wrong people and the wrong environments.
Apparently love is also never letting your husband speak.
He was shy to speak because his English isn't very good.
I can got something to learn from you the difference between being alone & a being family in every content since I watched you..... cheers 😊
The more you travel the more you learn that's gold advice right there
Agreed!
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From my own point of view, you need to invest smartly if you need the good things of life. so far i've made over $255k in raw profits from just 6 months into the market from my diversified portfolio strategy and i believe anyone can do it you have the right strategy, mutual funds takes long time but investing smartly is the key for short term. Most of us tend to pay more attention to the shiniest position in the market to the cost of proper diversification.
What kind of answers do you expect? 'Ah yes. If only I had sold my stocks when the market did this, I would have cashed in and had a radically better life' .
Perhaps the young interviewer might best be advised by seniors; 'I'm no genius just because I'm old. Also there are no magic bullets I can point you to, that would radically change the person you are and the lot you were born with. Nor can you control all of the events that you inherit in your time. Just make the best of them in your own way and be grateful for what you have.' Job done.
Amazing video lots of interesting answers take care
I love how the husband let the wife talk and being such a gentleman
I just love these vids. ❤
Slow down. Enjoy the moment your'e in. If it's not a good one, look forward to those to come. In the end, family and friends will be what mattered. Life and years go too fast. Enjoy those in your life and take time alone too, outside inhaling the fresh air. Years fly, slow them down by being aware of the little joys of life. Remember too, no matter what, your love and kindness are never wasted. ....Italian American Senior citizen.
Love your channel!❤
That 81 / 87 couple looking fresh af
My biggest regret is that I didn't have enough self respect to leave my husband earlier than after 18 years, so that I could have the chance of finding someone else who would love and respect me and I could have more children with him. All of a sudden, my baby maker shut down, I turned 50 and I couldn't have any more children.
@ConfusedRiver-ff6lh I'm not. I found my now husband 5 years after my divorce, got married in 2 months. Love grew in time, we're best friends now. Sadly, by the time I met him, I was too old to have kids anymore. But we have each other, I have my daughter, he has his own children, and we're each other's biggest support system. We're going to be together 13 years this year. I still wish I would have been braver and left my first husband way earlier, not suffer neglect and verbal abuse from him just to "keep the family together ". Not having anyone to talk to about what I was going through, being basically on my own in my adopted country (I wasn't born in the USA), made me doubt that I was doing the right thing. Like a victim, (yes, hindsight is 20-20) I always thought that I must be doing something wrong, that if only I worked harder and did more, he would treat me better.
Best advive I can offer, prepare for old age. You will need a lot of money to pay for your care givers. In the last years of life is when you need the most help, the most care. Care is very expensife.
Agreeing to this interview.....
Love it❤️❤️❤️Please,do more like this!We can learn a lot!✌️🌹❤️😊💯
I'm 27. I'm feeling lost trying to decide on a career path. I feel like I have no interest in any of them, but I need to pay my bills and save for retirement somehow. :(
This comment is me to a tee
@@colin6673just keep working at any job, bringing in the money to pay the rent etc. Try not to feel like you need to compete with or prove anything to anybody else. With time your true path may become clear. During the time you are not at work, if possible engage with all the things you enjoy doing. I've spent decades in frequently boring fairly low paid jobs. My most valued memories do not include work
Is there anything that you are good at or that you enjoy doing that you can monetize slowly as you work on getting better at it? Maybe thinking along those lines would help, all the best