That's why after you got A Man who isn't after that who isn't eventually mistreats you then after realize hoped you control your emotional shit to keep the clingy guy😂😂😂😂😂
The part at the end about being present, and not being caught up in the past, is exactly what I needed right now. When we dwell on the past we lose our power and trick ourselves into lower self esteem (if you’re thinking about mistakes you made). Instead we simply need to shift all of our attention to the only place that actually exists: now. Thanks Apollonia
As always, compelling content. I want to point out the high-end production values Apollonia is employing, her videos are really top-notch. Her set is outstanding, the white walls and curtains off-set with the wood shelving, the books, the art objects, the flowers, lights and plants, and Apo looking chic, sleek and wonderful in that flowered jacket and white shift, with her hair, makeup and nails perfectly done. Add in changing camera angles and the quality really shows through! Brava!
Creating memories is what we live for, but having them could do us bad. Before, I used to remember good old times a lot and I felt sad and weak because of nostalgia. I used to get very emotional because of my memories. Now, I keep them under a lock and I am as strong as a rock. A time will come when all I have left will be memories, this is when I'll set them free again.
You just pin-pointed the root of my problem, Illusional thinking in the past and future. That helped me understand what it means to be in the present moment. Thank you so much Apollonia Ponti!
But that's what you want. The sexy with the crazy girls is not worth the trouble after. Becareful who you sexual bond with. Ideally it should be your wife
I disagree I think it’s the opposite. Women shouldn’t make all these rules which means they aren’t going to be flexible in a relationship. Men having emotion is what real women see as a value.
21 yrs married! She needed space! It's been 3 weeks since we seen each outher ! Yesterday we cried talked got frustrated etc and then we loved on each outher without all that extra the point I'm making is I'm learning all that you spoke on ! When she left to go back to stay at her mom's she texted me a very kind message on all the things you spoke about! I want to keep learning about what a woman feels and wants in her man! Tha k you
I literally used some of Apollonias advice today with my partner and literally within half an hour my partner was like “never leave me” I was like dayum! Apollonia know her shizzle!
They are not. Do you think your ancestors knew all about this? Yet they managed to procreate. All the men had to focus on was being a man, surviving hunting,farming , training with weapons ect. The women would come to them. It's women who choose, men just have to the move once she signals interest. I am not saying don't approach women, but approach them with the mindset of getting to know them first, let them seek your validation.
Ignoring your weaknesses is like ignoring the cracks in the wings of a plane. Fix yourself before you wreck yourself. And mistakes are a bruise not a tattoo...learn the lesson and move on. Self-pity is an excuse we give ourselves to stop trying.
I have learned so much from your videos, products and one on one coaching. I just know one day I am going to find the right person for the right reasons. Thank you Ms Ponti.
Awesome content. The Ponti system works. You just need to listen. This information is never taught in school and usually you would pay a steep price for it. Keep up the excellent job. GEMINI'S RULE
I don't feel like the world owes me anything. I appreciate, love and value everything that is done and provided for me. I don't take anything for granted and I consider myself to extremely blessed beyond measure. I know they'll never see this, but I want to tell all of my loved ones thank you for everything you do for me. It's hard but I will get it together soon and then I'll be able to give back to everyone one small step at a time.
Yes this is no BS! 👌🏼 Thank you Apollonia for your honesty and helping "boys" to be secure men and develop independent confidence!! Greetings from Norway!! 🇳🇴
That’s the reason why most of us can’t get into any type of relationship I’m not saying all but most females expect us to have a emotional control but being rejected several to dozens of times can let alone do damage to men themselves. I get we are supposed to be strong and have masculine but we also have feelings too that can be hurt from just words it’s self and it’s actually kind of fucked up in a way where no one alone not even women have emotional control but to expect this in a man is just ridiculous
Apollonia you are a godsend. You have given me something to meditate on. You have made me look at life in general in a broader perspective. All the best in your future endeavours. Don't stop uploading more videos.
Rt. Last one to ever fz me. Now has the cheatng love if her dreams. I went spiock zone and with your help I realize that her men ho's are tag your it. Since I been a widower for three years met 2 yrs ago. I know how to just let go and of th bad and concentrate on what makes me haply and not put a relationship first.
She had u wearing a metaphorical dress? That statement would seem to indicate she had u right where she wanted u the situation would seem to imply she loved a weak man. Not good for a man I admit. But it does seem to contradict ur point
i've seen lot of bullshit women dating coaches that just project their unrealistic male fantasies when they speak to their online audience. You are the ONLY ONE so far that is spot on.
This video was soooo good and revealed alot about women I never really thought of. I have boight a few of your ebooks and lately have watched a ton of your videos in regards to better communicating and understanding the psychology of a woman's thoughts in regards to men. I deeply appreciate how you focus on the emotional connection with women so that once establised its deep rooted to where all the other desires will follow through. Great video!! Also my video request is how to approach women...in the gym. Having difficulty with this lately lol
What I’ve learned is what another woman sees as “needy” and emotional is another woman’s soulmate. Don’t force it if she wants you to change find another mate.
Surely this whole BEING WITH A WOMAN and 100% about what you want or desire is projecting the impossible on that woman...and that it surely works both ways. Level of expectations v sometimes harsh reality seems like something worth acceptance of doesn't it. Human beings fall short of expectation in so many ways as bars are set so high in society...we can't all run the 100m in under 10 seconds.
What if I'm broke all the time because I financially take care of her? What if my own goals can't be met because I'm hindered from them by keeping her life stable?
at the end of day,,im realized that...women only pleased with guy who satisfied them in every sort of way. They aren't capable to accept guys just the way they are
Do you have a video/can you do one on how to maintain an attractive masculine and purposeful presence around a woman? I know someone who is kind, has a strong bond with her family, and is strong, and certain of what she wants from life.
This is so true glad u sad it woman what men how works with them not sit watch t v i met a woman how is own her own bussin and would not go out with me she sad i would bring her back so i worked hard a forced on life i do not know what will happin put i can not think about things we sad to each orher or how we met just thinking day by day ringing ever cople of week thanks for the video keep up the great work
Apollonia, can you touch on the dismissive avoidant type? I'm a good guy, but I'm struggling between an avoidant wife and an attentive co-worker. Please help
It's simply manly to control your emotions even if your face or tone of voice shows you're angry you still maintain control and do not explode only men can control their emotions at will women like men therefore they love it
Hi Apollonia. Ive been watching your content for some time, but i have one question that i havent been able to get the answer to: what do you do/say when she contacts you, after no-contact, and she tells you she misses you? Clearly, returning the “i miss you” isnt exactly the best idea. Ive imagined myself in that position, but i dont know what the appropriate response to her would be? Ive been told a lot that when that does happen, is that if she really means that, to set a date and time, and talk about it in person. What do you recommend? Thank you:)
She wants “Emotional Control” i live the way of bushido (mastery of self) my Girl at the time left because I was too “Cold” she wanted a dude she can control and there are no Strings on me.
Another great video. Being too needy and clingy will make even the most whole hearted, honest, loyal woman run away.
Fact 💯
Facts I experienced that
Yep
That's why after you got A Man who isn't after that who isn't eventually mistreats you then after realize hoped you control your emotional shit to keep the clingy guy😂😂😂😂😂
Look I'm all for the women losing interest in a clinging man BUT that doesnt mean she has to break the mans heart to get that point across
The part at the end about being present, and not being caught up in the past, is exactly what I needed right now. When we dwell on the past we lose our power and trick ourselves into lower self esteem (if you’re thinking about mistakes you made). Instead we simply need to shift all of our attention to the only place that actually exists: now. Thanks Apollonia
GF: Hey, you are much more mature now... what happened?
Me in my head : “Apollonia Ponti”
@Shield Liger lol...i hear you
Being needy in a relationship is the last thing you should do. Thanks for all the insights!
As always, compelling content. I want to point out the high-end production values Apollonia is employing, her videos are really top-notch. Her set is outstanding, the white walls and curtains off-set with the wood shelving, the books, the art objects, the flowers, lights and plants, and Apo looking chic, sleek and wonderful in that flowered jacket and white shift, with her hair, makeup and nails perfectly done. Add in changing camera angles and the quality really shows through! Brava!
How about women start exercising some emotional control?
Lmao apolonia looks like she can be a bitch 😂
Women can't do any Wrong, even a Fight created by a Woman against another Woman is a Man's fault, atleast she would say its her Dad's to blame.
How bout women start exercising. !
Creating memories is what we live for, but having them could do us bad. Before, I used to remember good old times a lot and I felt sad and weak because of nostalgia. I used to get very emotional because of my memories. Now, I keep them under a lock and I am as strong as a rock. A time will come when all I have left will be memories, this is when I'll set them free again.
You just pin-pointed the root of my problem, Illusional thinking in the past and future. That helped me understand what it means to be in the present moment. Thank you so much Apollonia Ponti!
Never let a fish teach you how to fish. Good luck men.
Like this presentation. Married with one woman for 23 years and you are spot on.
After I turned 35 I finally figured out that all my problems were my fault and nobody elses. It's actually a very liberating and freeing feeling.
Being present in the moment that is great mindset when dealing with women
Women with low self-esteem and daddy-issues don't choose men with emotional control, only confident women do...
I can personally attest to this. Then they demand a man be more emotional (otherwise how can I tell you care)
But that's what you want. The sexy with the crazy girls is not worth the trouble after. Becareful who you sexual bond with. Ideally it should be your wife
I disagree I think it’s the opposite. Women shouldn’t make all these rules which means they aren’t going to be flexible in a relationship. Men having emotion is what real women see as a value.
@@Thefishingcaddy bro, that's what the fuck he said .. lol... read it again
21 yrs married! She needed space! It's been 3 weeks since we seen each outher ! Yesterday we cried talked got frustrated etc and then we loved on each outher without all that extra the point I'm making is I'm learning all that you spoke on ! When she left to go back to stay at her mom's she texted me a very kind message on all the things you spoke about! I want to keep learning about what a woman feels and wants in her man! Tha k you
I literally used some of Apollonias advice today with my partner and literally within half an hour my partner was like “never leave me” I was like dayum! Apollonia know her shizzle!
Women are exhausting. I rather stay single
They are not. Do you think your ancestors knew all about this? Yet they managed to procreate. All the men had to focus on was being a man, surviving hunting,farming , training with weapons ect. The women would come to them. It's women who choose, men just have to the move once she signals interest. I am not saying don't approach women, but approach them with the mindset of getting to know them first, let them seek your validation.
@@MONKEYSCHANNEL327 Sadly, the game has changed a lot.
Just gota find right one, it can heaven or hell, mostly hell lol
Well said!
@@XS_Sanz very true social media has definitely influenced how to get women
....... Another great video! Good job Signorina!
Happy Sunday Apollonia and great video today. Stay safe and sending my love your way from Miami, Florida 💘
Ignoring your weaknesses is like ignoring the cracks in the wings of a plane.
Fix yourself before you wreck yourself.
And mistakes are a bruise not a tattoo...learn the lesson and move on.
Self-pity is an excuse we give ourselves to stop trying.
I have learned so much from your videos, products and one on one coaching. I just know one day I am going to find the right person for the right reasons. Thank you Ms Ponti.
Awesome content. The Ponti system works. You just need to listen. This information is never taught in school and usually you would pay a steep price for it. Keep up the excellent job. GEMINI'S RULE
This is Great 👍 TY Apollonia!
Thank you Apollonia. You getting better in bringing us great content each day and really appreciate what you do 👍🏿. Stay blessed
I lost her recently anyway because she said I was insecure not realizing that her actions caused my insecurities.
Let her go she probably was a loose woman and she couldn’t get away from it with you. I had this happen to me and I’m so glad I moved in.
I needed to hear this today, my emotions have been crazy lately and it's affected my relationship with my woman
Update?
@@lyndenmaluleke8085 lmao I feel like he overpursued and she left him for Tyrone the personal trainer
@@bestprimal9790 oooff😂😂😂😂
@@bestprimal9790 hahahhahaa its always Tyrone
Awesome video ma'am, ur contents always inspire me positively, pls keep d good vibes coming
I don't feel like the world owes me anything. I appreciate, love and value everything that is done and provided for me. I don't take anything for granted and I consider myself to extremely blessed beyond measure. I know they'll never see this, but I want to tell all of my loved ones thank you for everything you do for me. It's hard but I will get it together soon and then I'll be able to give back to everyone one small step at a time.
Yes this is no BS! 👌🏼
Thank you Apollonia for your honesty and helping "boys" to be secure men and develop independent confidence!!
Greetings from Norway!! 🇳🇴
That’s the reason why most of us can’t get into any type of relationship I’m not saying all but most females expect us to have a emotional control but being rejected several to dozens of times can let alone do damage to men themselves. I get we are supposed to be strong and have masculine but we also have feelings too that can be hurt from just words it’s self and it’s actually kind of fucked up in a way where no one alone not even women have emotional control but to expect this in a man is just ridiculous
Facts bro it’s so one sided
Apollonia you are a godsend. You have given me something to meditate on. You have made me look at life in general in a broader perspective. All the best in your future endeavours. Don't stop uploading more videos.
Emotion control. I learned that years ago from an old mentor (Thank u Leonard Nimoy)
Thank you so much for this insight. Your videos are very much appreciated. Take care.
Really needed this positive energy
This new setting is impressive, good idea!
What of Emotional Power? Self Potential; Inner strength. Prowles.
You're powerful. You've inspired me to create my own Channel...🙌🙌🙌
I like your personality and videos Apollonia very educative.This is the reason i always listen to you to learn something new
Good to see you again AP.
Always helping us 'build' ourselves..... lovely.
Give your weaknesses to GOD, He will bear them and make you strong!
He gave me a woman with 4 children! She says I can be there dad, so I get fathering growth through her.
He gave me a woman with 4 children! She says I can be there dad, so I get fathering growth through her.
Women just don't like weak men. I lost my last love because she had me wearing a metaphorical dress....
Yeah and mine had me carrying her purse ffs. Imagine that in a mall.
Rt. Last one to ever fz me. Now has the cheatng love if her dreams. I went spiock zone and with your help I realize that her men ho's are tag your it. Since I been a widower for three years met 2 yrs ago. I know how to just let go and of th bad and concentrate on what makes me haply and not put a relationship first.
She had u wearing a metaphorical dress? That statement would seem to indicate she had u right where she wanted u the situation would seem to imply she loved a weak man. Not good for a man I admit. But it does seem to contradict ur point
Always be the man! Period and if she doesn’t like your masculinity find another woman.
Amen, brother!
Great content encouraging as always
Great content in this one Apollonia. Nice change seeing you standing too
I find myself completely a different person
Because you helped me out to be a better person.
She never fails to educate
Thank you Apollonia!! You are always loved
Thanks, Apollonia I needed this today.
i've seen lot of bullshit women dating coaches that just project their unrealistic male fantasies when they speak to their online audience. You are the ONLY ONE so far that is spot on.
This is so inspiring, again. Thank you.
Thanks for the advice
You've changed my life
fuck what women want, I would rather be myself and overflow with emotions when i feel like
Greetings Ms. Ponti ✋ - great advice! Thank you for sharing, respect your point of view. You make it sound so simple, maybe cause it is. 🤗
5:55. Exactly!!
This video was soooo good and revealed alot about women I never really thought of. I have boight a few of your ebooks and lately have watched a ton of your videos in regards to better communicating and understanding the psychology of a woman's thoughts in regards to men. I deeply appreciate how you focus on the emotional connection with women so that once establised its deep rooted to where all the other desires will follow through. Great video!! Also my video request is how to approach women...in the gym. Having difficulty with this lately lol
And what's your skills ?
FAQ;
What can you do yourself?
What meals you can cook?
What social qualities you have?
Can you be the lady?
Very beautiful and very knowledgeable...hello apollonia
What I’ve learned is what another woman sees as “needy” and emotional is another woman’s soulmate. Don’t force it if she wants you to change find another mate.
EXACTLY RIGHT.
Exactly, "Love is in the eye of the beholder".
And what about vulnerability..!
Excellent content, thank you apolonia
Thank you Apollonia this video is helpful
Apollonia . i may need to book a coaching session with you. Your Amazing
I love you Apollonia ❤️
This was strong vidoe.
It’s about money social and status
This. This I needed
You are helping me a lot,
I am just waiting for the result.. 😃
Ohh Man.... You're doing a great job Appollonia... keep it up ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thanks a ton
Surely this whole BEING WITH A WOMAN and 100% about what you want or desire is projecting the impossible on that woman...and that it surely works both ways.
Level of expectations v sometimes harsh reality seems like something worth acceptance of doesn't it.
Human beings fall short of expectation in so many ways as bars are set so high in society...we can't all run the 100m in under 10 seconds.
What if I'm broke all the time because I financially take care of her?
What if my own goals can't be met because I'm hindered from them by keeping her life stable?
Then you got the wrong woman
Watch the dont lose your power video.
Appollinia ponti... I hope u also have a good love life because u always sound like yours is so perfect
Hi Apolonia. Great information in this video. Where do I download the E book you mentioned at the end?
Thank you.
Well done Apollonia.Bye 4 now
Nice vid apollonia
Very nice 👍 video i love your tips ❤️❤️❤️
I have tried everything to make sure my partner gets her needs are taken care first why can't ladies give guys what they need.
Thank goodness I'm happy being single.
at the end of day,,im realized that...women only pleased with guy who satisfied them in every sort of way. They aren't capable to accept guys just the way they are
What about when you have dreams and goals I was going to the gym Study IT doing lots of stuff now I’m fat and depressed because I’ve got a woman
What if you're married how does that apply how can you make her fall in love with you after 33 years
If you're married and you already invested invest in your time keep treating her the way you did when you first meet and don't ever stop dating her
Our partner can't resolve our problems but don't have to face them alone
speaking true wisdom girl 💯👍🤙
Do you have a video/can you do one on how to maintain an attractive masculine and purposeful presence around a woman? I know someone who is kind, has a strong bond with her family, and is strong, and certain of what she wants from life.
Love your video so much thank 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
Awesome video! Also cute top😊
Thank you very much
Great video thanks
Glad you enjoyed it
She speaks her mind out lol. gj
This is so true glad u sad it woman what men how works with them not sit watch t v i met a woman how is own her own bussin and would not go out with me she sad i would bring her back so i worked hard a forced on life i do not know what will happin put i can not think about things we sad to each orher or how we met just thinking day by day ringing ever cople of week thanks for the video keep up the great work
It's been a week since I watched her 1st lesson.. Now I'm a Casanova..
you have some nice coaching; i like to have a one on one coaching about a long distance relationship;
A great one
Apollonia, can you touch on the dismissive avoidant type? I'm a good guy, but I'm struggling between an avoidant wife and an attentive co-worker. Please help
Wow. I have no emotional control. I'm going to die alone. There's a turn up for the books.
Thank you
It's simply manly to control your emotions even if your face or tone of voice shows you're angry you still maintain control and do not explode only men can control their emotions at will women like men therefore they love it
Hi Apollonia. Ive been watching your content for some time, but i have one question that i havent been able to get the answer to: what do you do/say when she contacts you, after no-contact, and she tells you she misses you? Clearly, returning the “i miss you” isnt exactly the best idea. Ive imagined myself in that position, but i dont know what the appropriate response to her would be? Ive been told a lot that when that does happen, is that if she really means that, to set a date and time, and talk about it in person. What do you recommend? Thank you:)
I really want to talk you respected Mam...I need an advise
What if you separate from the woman to take some time alone and she never calls for over a month.Whats your suggest, what do you think ???
She wants “Emotional Control” i live the way of bushido (mastery of self) my Girl at the time left because I was too “Cold” she wanted a dude she can control and there are no Strings on me.