My ex was always playing the victim. When I told him that he was not a victim, he would suddenly go quiet and say, "Well, you're not a victim". Great comeback. 🙄
Thanks for this. I'm dealing with a narcissist right now who constantly accuses me of bs but refuses to get help for his insecurities and childhood trauma.
I will forever be grateful for what I have learned from you and your journey...it has saved me from myself and my toxic ex...happy and divorced....no contact...peace at last
Thank you so much Lee for being very helpful and explaining all the things about narcissistic behavior and being one to share the issues and helping yourself and others understand what are the behaviors to watch out for you have helped me and others understand and share your opinions about how to deal with narcissists thank you again and god bless you and for to share all this information with all of us!!!!
My 38 yr old stbx husband LOVES to play victim. I knew this was the reason he refused to get help and feared therapy so much. He never wanted to change or face the reality of how much a piece of sh*t he’d always been towards me & our kids.
I'm so sorry....but my ex narc is the same....yet from the beginning I called him a narc...a covert narc...I sent him articles to see who and what he is but ....he rejects it ... just love being a victim. May God bless you and your kids and help you 🙏♥️🌺
Thank you for staying on message despite any negativity. Narcissists are very sensitive to criticism. Most people are sensitive to criticism including myself. You’ve come far in your recovery to be able to stay on point and shield off toxic criticism. You inspire.
Mine still insists I chose to leave, even tho it was either leave or the alternative: be abused. He will do anything to hold onto his vision of himself as a victim.
Lee you literally answer ALL of the why why why questions I've had all of my adult life. You truly give me the closure I never received. Thank You Thank You Thank You!!!! A million times over.
Oh yeah Lee, and they like the lifestyle, chasing that high especially if there's histrionic traits..Watching that go down is a huge wake-up call..Thanks Lee YTB 🙏🏼💯👏🏻
I love that you are accountable so we can understand what is going on 🏆💯 you make it so much clearer not that I can ever do anything about the information for anybody else. POWER TO YOU YOU HELP ME ‼️
Lee, you do not have to explain. Those who know, know. We don't need your explanation. We know you're out here trying to help and lives. We know what you're using your platform for, and we wholeheartedly thank and support you.
I have question my ex narc have not had contact in 6 months and he contacted me stating he want to resolve with auto loan and after I replied he ghost again and then block me from seeing his fb profile which are not even friends on fb .. I don’t understand .. please help me understand what he is up to
Just keeping tabs... Just seeing if you have the same addy, phone number ECT.,.. it was his excuse to contact you. He never planned on fixing anything. It's his hold onto you ticket. If it gets resolved and nothing attaches you two then he has zero reason/ excuse to keep tabs on you.
Very ashamed of myself time flysheet when you realise you have looked and replayed lots of the same videos like a year ago to be sacked back time and time again I'm certainly not a weak woman but this is shamfel anyone else relate to this?rach
I used to say to the narc ...ooh yes, because you are such a poor victim. Everybody is harmimg you, and everbody is crazy except for you! Dude grow up, instead of wanting to be treated like a spoiled princess!! He would get PISSED... well was used that though 😂
Playing the victim is so unattractive. When you have way too much sympathy for them all it does is enable them.
My ex was always playing the victim. When I told him that he was not a victim, he would suddenly go quiet and say, "Well, you're not a victim". Great comeback. 🙄
Best comeback is; your right. I survived you. BYE
Thanks for this. I'm dealing with a narcissist right now who constantly accuses me of bs but refuses to get help for his insecurities and childhood trauma.
I will forever be grateful for what I have learned from you and your journey...it has saved me from myself and my toxic ex...happy and divorced....no contact...peace at last
Thank you, Lee, for making and sharing this video with everyone.
No problem
@@MentalHealness 🙂
Thank you so much Lee for being very helpful and explaining all the things about narcissistic behavior and being one to share the issues and helping yourself and others understand what are the behaviors to watch out for you have helped me and others understand and share your opinions about how to deal with narcissists thank you again and god bless you and for to share all this information with all of us!!!!
My 38 yr old stbx husband LOVES to play victim. I knew this was the reason he refused to get help and feared therapy so much. He never wanted to change or face the reality of how much a piece of sh*t he’d always been towards me & our kids.
I'm so sorry....but my ex narc is the same....yet from the beginning I called him a narc...a covert narc...I sent him articles to see who and what he is but ....he rejects it ... just love being a victim.
May God bless you and your kids and help you 🙏♥️🌺
the one I met used that he's a narc for me to not hold him accountable and to feel even more sorry for him
Thank you for staying on message despite any negativity. Narcissists are very sensitive to criticism. Most people are sensitive to criticism including myself. You’ve come far in your recovery to be able to stay on point and shield off toxic criticism. You inspire.
Thanks for sharing this one lee and narcissist don’t like getting help because they like playing the victim so that you can look like the bad guy.
Yassssssss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you are responsible!!! Wish my ex would grow up.
Today, my nex started crying on the phone for no reason due to decisions HE made. But of course, it was MY fault.
Mine still insists I chose to leave, even tho it was either leave or the alternative: be abused. He will do anything to hold onto his vision of himself as a victim.
It also applies to medical conditions. Easily treatable but he wouldn't get any attention without it so he doesn't do what he needs to.
Maybe he is giving up and is wishing the medical issue will kill him?
@@lorireed8046 I know of a few who are extremely careless with their health. Self sabotage big time.
Lee you literally answer ALL of the why why why questions I've had all of my adult life. You truly give me the closure I never received. Thank You Thank You Thank You!!!! A million times over.
Oh yeah Lee, and they like the lifestyle, chasing that high especially if there's histrionic traits..Watching that go down is a huge wake-up call..Thanks Lee YTB 🙏🏼💯👏🏻
I love that you are accountable so we can understand what is going on 🏆💯 you make it so much clearer not that I can ever do anything about the information for anybody else. POWER TO YOU YOU HELP ME ‼️
Keep doing your thing Lee!! ❤️❤️💖
Thanks so very much for this terrific video! I couldn't figure out why he loves being a victim.....
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾❤️❤️keep bringing it dawg!! U be spot on!
You are correct Lee
I appreciate your content, Lee. Thank you. From the UK
You’re welcome
It totally makes sense. 💜 Not a honey 🍯 drip 🤭
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So THIS is why my husband doesn't want to seek counseling!!! Now I will be handling this differently from now on!!!!
Lee, you do not have to explain. Those who know, know. We don't need your explanation. We know you're out here trying to help and lives. We know what you're using your platform for, and we wholeheartedly thank and support you.
Some ppl don't know this. That's why he educates everyone
Thank you so much
Thank You🎉
thats madness
Definitely can be
@@MentalHealness spot on
I have question my ex narc have not had contact in 6 months and he contacted me stating he want to resolve with auto loan and after I replied he ghost again and then block me from seeing his fb profile which are not even friends on fb .. I don’t understand .. please help me understand what he is up to
Just keeping tabs... Just seeing if you have the same addy, phone number ECT.,.. it was his excuse to contact you. He never planned on fixing anything. It's his hold onto you ticket. If it gets resolved and nothing attaches you two then he has zero reason/ excuse to keep tabs on you.
It's a form of what's called hoovering and also mind control.
Very ashamed of myself time flysheet when you realise you have looked and replayed lots of the same videos like a year ago to be sacked back time and time again
I'm certainly not a weak woman but this is shamfel anyone else relate to this?rach
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I want to show this to my Ex babyma she won't listen to this??
They generally don't want help.
I used to say to the narc ...ooh yes, because you are such a poor victim. Everybody is harmimg you, and everbody is crazy except for you! Dude grow up, instead of wanting to be treated like a spoiled princess!! He would get PISSED... well was used that though 😂
Did he excuse others bad behavior and you tell him to stop excusing other's bad behavior?
Telling a narc to “grow up”. 🤣🤣
Does Woke culture promote narcissism, or does Woke culture give narcissism behavior a pass