Dating, Money, Ukraine: Answered! 🇺🇸🇺🇦
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I am in Oshawa a short distance from my oldest daughter. We spent 7 hours driving and visiting relatives. We ended the trip with m 82 years young uncle she had not seen in 15 years ( I was there 9 days ago) . She was hesitant to go and mentioned a few times skipping him. I assured her she would be welcome and they had a great visit.
I mentioned your visit to comic con as something that inspired me to travel more. Keep on following your dreams wherever they take and I will follow.
I'm glad my videos have inspired you to travel more! Keep it up!
I feel you. I just turned 39 and I’ve been stuck at a horrible Corporate job for almost 11 years now. It’s the worst I never wish it on anyone. You get it. I’m going to sell my Jeep before the year is up and use all that extra money to save and hopefully move somewhere fun and exciting get debt paid down. I’m glad you were able to see how toxic Corporate job life is to people. Keep living it up for us still stuck! You give us hope. Have a great day Johnny
If you nomad somewhere, avoid industrial places in general. The energy of it carries outside the office doors. It has afflicted most popular places in the world - and that includes the dating and anything else that was once fun.
In most of Europe and North America and Asia, dating is a grizzly chore and so is nightlife.
The yin suck energy of modern industry is what's doing this.
Ironically even tourist industry is doing this, so don't treat tourism spots like anything but a tenuous trap.
I witness it in real time every Friday, where I am in a place with over 40,000 people per sq KM, and it can't even push 20% capacity in the hottest clubs in town on a Friday.
It's an industry borg. And therefore, even 40k people is still just rendered into a social famine. Which is one of the main, if not the most serious sub-optimal deprivation beyond the hierarchy level of purely physical need.
The outer core of 100% of our problems are from sub-optimal deprivation.
Sub-optimal deprivation happens to be a *direct consequence* of the artificial (and basically fraudulent) environment that is our corporate and industrial world.
One which replaced closeness with competition and natural with synthetic. And basically the sorriest excuse of a meta that this dogmatic and materialistic society has ever been responsible for. Given the technology at our access. There is no excuse for it. And yet it ravages.
Needless to say, the only way to adapt to a meta like this is follow the law of attraction, and have an imminent ticket out.
The more topsy that industry becomes, the more nature becomes a required ingredient as a cure.
Lest these imbeciles try to turn everything to symmetrical blocks of cement and glass in a grey world.
Everything is feast or famine.
That applies for all intents of dating, meeting and lifestyle.
If you need a serious sabbatical 12-24 months away from your country, snowstorms and typhoons ruin most places for 6 months a year.
Therefore it's all high season game. There is almost nothing you could call a permanent residence and have it be ultimately tolerable. Besides meditating in a desert and becoming that serious.
Most people are ego'ed out, too resentful, or not even trying. So you need a lot of patience for people. They are true gremlin lumps, and are equally dissatisfied with everything. Especially if they are in industry and/or the West.
Meeting strangers is brutal if you aren't ready to give them a fine tuning.
Nobody really knows how to act.
Generation Clown has basically abolished anything you could call organic meeting.
These are people who live inside groupchats and circle tables, like it's their space suit for social Mars.
You basically have to find people who are explicitly looking for what you offer.
Check out Cebu and Dumagette dating matchmaker VLOGs and see what I mean.
This is all identical to operating in concert and genre logic.
Trying this lifestyle without a plan is impossible.
The dating and mating world is a place of hyper snobbishness. With that understanding you can find your crowd.
Go to the WhenAndWhere net website to find out which cities have abysmal or realistic weather.
The most renowned destinations on the planet like Thailand and Mexico are lucky to squeeze 4 months of high season between weather and the social problems. Indnonesia has opposite Wet season from Philippines. Et cetera.
And that will be word to this conjob of a planet. This is just how things are. Let's take care of business
I began watching Bald & Bankrupt's TH-cam channel and I found out about you and your channel as a result well before the outbreak of the Ukrainian war. In watching your videos, I have been getting more and more interested in the cultures of the former Soviet eastern bloc nations of Eastern Europe and Ukraine in particular. I just thought you might want to know about that.
In 2008, the homeless situation in San Francisco wasn't nearly as bad as it is now. Thank God your folks are in a good area. Nobody wants to live in the city anymore. Love your shirt. ❤
What about the cost of living situation that caused the homeless situation? I get tired of this blaming the victims, blaming the visible effects of things rather than the actual causes.
Im from NYC area - anytime you are in a large city you will have homeless and crime. American cities are not like European cities - never have been and sorry to say never will
@@joeperkowskiAll Countries have homelessness. Look it up.
@@joeperkowski " sorry to say never will" I don't agree. When Americans mature and politicians and cops grow up things will get better.
@@zendoll1 Not all have involuntary homeless.
Johnny you don't know how many people you have helped, Be proud Brother. 🏹
Appreciated Matt.
While Johnny is in Ukraine, my soul is calm. Because this means that Ukraine is comfortable and attractive enough for such a successful and excellent person like Johnny, who has been everywhere in the world, to feel cozy and comfortable here, even despite the war factor. Thank you for everything you do for Ukraine, our beloved Johnny!
could not have said it better 👍
The person who first commented under this says what they say... Whereas I find this kind of statement bizarre as faaahhhk!
My daughter is looking for someone to marry, the second one. I'm going to send her on trips during her breaks from college so she can see the world. Going to send her to Greece, Korea, Thailand and maybe some Baltic countries. She wasn't sure if she wanted a college degree but she's enjoying getting a degree.
Washington, DC is a very interesting place to visit: Smithsonian Institute, Supreme Court, etcetera. Instead of a van you may want to consider sailing along the coasts in a 72 plus foot sailboat.
I'm making a sailboat and there are so many people giving me negatives:
you're bragging,
you don't know what you're doing,
make something 3 ft and then saying oh that would be switched to be like oh you're making a doll house,
get lost,
why would you want to make a sailboat?
Even my better half is saying he wants to buy a sailboat rather than use a boat I am making and says we don't need a wooden sailboat that's 72ft. I may sail the world alone on my big boat so I'll have to make sure it has servos that operate the sails if I have to handle the rigging single handed..
The problem is I'm female and it doesn't go well with men and women that I'm doing something that mainly men like to do which is woodworking and even then most woodworkers don't make boats.
Great Q&A Johnny, sorry I missed the live broadcast. I was wondering how often do you talk with your mom and dad?
A few times a week actually, every 2-3 days usually.
Fusion kitchen in Ukraine is like Chinese in US. It is not quite real Chinese. It is Americanized Chinese. In the most of the cases food is way different. But that's what people like in US and that's what Chinese/Taiwanese immigrants are cooking for US people
I think most people would be surprised by the high amount of shy and insecure people in this world. Even the mean girl/guy is probably dealing with their own insecurities. Good on you for being honest about it.
Couldn't agree more!
As a Ukrainian/American woman i really appreciate what you’re doing 😊….you fill my heart..your doing what I wish I could! THANK YOU…. Дуже дуже дякую ти є файні хлопці слава Україну героям слава!🇺🇦💪🌻
You've got a good lifestyle. The corporate life is miserable, pushing your own personality down just to fit in, slaving to afford ridiculously expensive housing in expensive cities. Don't give it up.
Definitely here to hear about how your doing, the Ukrainian People are in my Hearts , and you represent great people so checking in on yah
Thankyou for sharing your life with us You are such an encouraging person! I love seeing all the places you travel I’ve learned so much God bless you
Thanks for watching, i'm happy to be able to share!
It's so nice that you have given us part of your personal information. You are a sincere loving individual. Your nomadic life seems to work well for you. Thank you for all you do for Ukraine 🇺🇦 from Scotland
My parents traveled round the states on the greyhound busses in 1967 they did about 30 states I think. They couldn't believe how big it was compared to the UK . The worst mistake they made was crossing the border into Canada without realising into man's land in a friend's borrowed VW beetle without any passports with them. Luckily the guard let them back into the states.
It was my pleasure to donate to your truck fund.
Thank you for your support!
Hey, I concur about the vanlife. I’ve been thinking about doing it for 10 years but came to the conclusion that it was more cost effective living overseas. I still think about it but it’s no longer the same draw.
That was a good intro for any new viewer. Good looking tattoos and more would just mess the balance.
Yes. Do all the good you can in all the ways you can to all the living beings you can. Awesome video Johnny.
Life is but a vapor, that appears for a little time, and then vanishes away. Live in the moment, it took a long time for me to figure that out! I spent too many years saying I can't wait for this or that and didn't take time to enjoy and live in the moment! Now I am 67 and every year comes and goes faster than the last!
How long do you think it will take to get the patches for the truck donations?
I hope they'll come within a few weeks, but I honestly don't know. You can reply to the email confirmation from your donation and ask them, hopefully that'll push it along quicker as you deserve it asap.
@@JohnnyFD Thanks brother! Thanks for all you do for the Ukrainian people, which includes yourself. ❤
Love the way you mix in media reports during your videos. Keep up the good work!
😃👏👍Thanks for sharing some of your life story and helping supporting Ukraine Johnny💙💛❤💪
Thinking back to days when I was insecure, I missed lot of clues girls gave me who I thought I was not good enough they would want to date. I'm in my 50's now and married for long time. I found an old yearbook this girl in one of my classes back then would sign one another's yearbooks. She put her phone number in my yearbook, and I never called her. Looking back on it I wonder why I didn't I guess I just at the time assumed incorrectly that I was not really someone who anyone would want. What it comes down to is just being happy with your own life and you will project high self-esteem. Talk to them about other things and getting involved in activities that girls are interested in. Don't put so much pressure on to ask girls out just talk to them and be normal and nice. All you need is to look for clue's girl is interested in you. Do they go out of their way to talk to you?? When you do ask her out it will always be a yes. Forget dating apps they are stupid.
I wish I had this advice when I was in my 20's.
Your video was heartfelt and a joy to watch. Thanks for your honesty and service to Ukraine 🇺🇦. A true patriot to peace.
Johnny, I remember when I first met you, Mr Balt introduced you as his bodyguard. Heck I did not know, and Mr Bald is great on here also, then I heard you doing something or saying something, and you hooked me, your a good dude, and Honest. Thank you for your sight
Thanks for this episode. Really wise words that meant a lot to me.
Glad you enjoyed it!
16:15 I think u can make the review of the most cheapest/homemade restaurants in Ukrainian food and other food in Ukraine. I can suggest u the Ukrainian blogger named «Чуш», he mostly review the shawarma but he have also review the cheapest cafe (sltolovaya😂) in Kyiv mostly, but sometimes he has review from other cities)
You are such a nice person. Get a nice woman and have a kid. The most fulfilling thing that I experienced. And now we've became grandparents recently. This is even more delightful. ❤ to you
Thanks! Will try ❤️
Thanks for beeing honest about things Johnny. The good & the bad.
Johnny i really love your content i watch mostly all your vedios i enjoyed i give u like 👍 please roll out more vedios from ukraine 🇺🇦.
Johnny, back in the "good old days" it was a pain in the ass asking for a date. Same shit different decade..
Too many "rules" with no explanations... Sometimes it's like buying shoes. Some look good, some have the right price but if they don't fit..forget about it.. NEXT...
veritas! that’s the best!
As a new subscriber, I've thoroughly enjoyed your video as an intro!❤I'm from Mercado's ch. and I've seen you there, which led me here!!😅 You're an awesome guy and I can see how your friendship with the guys in Ua means so much to them!!! Keep doing what you do best, what gives to your Soul! Much love from NJ🥰🇺🇲🙏🏼🙌
Welcome!! And thanks!
You learn so much on these Q&As!! It’s interesting you used to work for Honeywell selling electronic security. I sell electronic security for a local installer in the UK! Have you heard of Ajax security. They are a Ukrainian company they had factories in Kharkiv and elsewhere in Ukraine 🇺🇦 they had to move the factories out at the beginning of the war but I believe they may have moved much of the business back to Ukraine.
I was in Ukraine with a friend from the US with Thai background before the war. He was struggling finding a decent girl there to get married. Girls there were interested in me (Italian looking guy) but not him (Asian looking). What he needed up doing, going to Vietnam and getting married. What’s your experience there? You may consider Far East like him if it’s challenging.
who was your fav DJ?
Panjabi MC
@JohnnyFD
was thinking Dj Dan being from San Fran
Philly guy so I am Josh Wink all day if you like dnb dieselboy also a Philly guy. your a good man.
No you can do van life for less. All the states have free state parks where you can put an rv and there is no fee. These free places have facilities and a ranger stays in these free campsites and makes sure everyone is safe.
Ill rent your place for a coupple of months, if the price is good. Im Norwegian, so the cold doesent bother me.
True vikings. =)
Vikings dont feel cold. We just turn blue, and die
That'll be an extra cleaning fee if you do. 😂
Don’t count on Russia stopping. The situation is too messed up.
I need a place for 2 weeks last two weeks of December. Are you renting?
Sorry, if I rent it, it'll be 1 month minimum.
@@JohnnyFD No worries. I hope one day we get to hang out in Kyiv. Love that city.
Johnny loved all your comments about dating and life in the US. I agree with everything you said and I am too also looking to soon moving somewhere else. I wish you the best I know you will find the right one for you. Bless ya mate!!
awesome, awesome, awesome! Thanks Johhny for sharing a part of your life with us! Take good care of yourself, stay strong, stay safe, stay real 💙💛
Everybody thinks im just Lars, noone knows all i did. Now im trying to accept cold water with my son and do winterbaths from ice this winter
Johny, I’m a disabled veteran who is an above knee amputee. I use a wheelchair most times and a prosthetic others. Would I have a hard time getting around?
Johnny, very interesting listening to you, i am currently living in the UK and any chance of you going to Nepal that's where I am originally from?
I've already been to Nepal: th-cam.com/video/pz9ROCqRbh4/w-d-xo.html
All 48 (?) states?
Yes, since you can't easily drive to Alaska or Hawaii. The Lower 48 States are all of the United States except Alaska and Hawaii.
🤣 love your honesty about the pickup artist horse 🐎 shit 💩 back in the day, I worked in nightclubs back then and knew people who bought into that greasy shit also, 🤣 you're a good man.
Everyone who was actively doing this told me he fell into depression or his life wasn't fullfilled
I would agree, but also depression or unfulfilled lives may also why they got into it in the first place. It's not much different than falling into drug use.
@@JohnnyFD that is a got point that a unfullfilled life can be a contributer into drugs or "pick art"
I wouldn’t say it’s hard to date in america depends on the state.I’ve gotten more dates in some states than others.but quality is better than quantity
Best advice indeed! Just enjoy the age you are at cuz damn it goes by so fast and once you are older, you regret living on the trying to get older when you're younger speed! Being young is a trreasure and a time to explore and experiment and not worry so much about the future. Savor every single day you are young and travel as much as you can as it will give you great insight for your older years in life is what I would say to the youth today.
Hi Johnny, Thank you for sharing as much as you did. I think having a language barrier in a relationship and a marriage may not be a bad thing. Just think about all the unnecessary arguments and conversations you two will avoid! So, it all depends. Have you considered to check out Finland or Sweden for a change? I know both are expensive places, but may be a nice change.
Finland is not his style of country. Quick visit here would be enough to make it clear. Sweden might be a bit more better choice for him but there are a lot more interesting countries to visit.
@@unreal4127 I think all of Western Europe minus Spain and Portugal is not his style. He's all about saving money in cheaper countries.
I really hope that he comes to Norway. We are maybe reserve in the beginning but warm up after a short time. We have an extra bedroom so it would be no expenses towards a hotel which is too expensive here. 😊 😊
There are thousands of Asian brough up in the US and hang out with a wrong group of peoplein their 20s. They dont see themself Asian and white American, spanish,black etc dont accept them either . America is segregated society divide by race and wealth, if you dont want get hurt and your pride stay with your own community or similar race and similar income group. It the same in Australia, Canada but not as bad as the US where a line clearly drawn for people to see. You are not belong here or you are not allow to come here and so on
Great job and awesome respect. Keep up the good word and spreading the truth. Cheers from a fellow American in Ukraine!
I love tacos Johnny! I figure the past is gone, the future isn't hear yet. You only rreally have the present.😎🇺🇸💙💛🇺🇦😼
When the war is over you will be able to live on the beach in Crimea, you can have both!
@JohnnyFD 😂I am having so much trouble with my access control panel rn. Just thought it was a coincidence that you brought up Honeywell. I just switched to Brivo but miss my Honeywell!
I'll send a tech right over. 😂I
Hi Johnny, not sure if you've mentioned this before but I was curious what the "FD" stands for?
It was my pen name from my first book: www.amazon.com/12-Weeks-Thailand-Travel-Workweek-ebook/dp/B00B1SASZ2
@@JohnnyFDwhat did you use to track your monthly income?
I used to use a google sheet every month to do my accounting and P&L. Now I just look and hope I'm not spending more than I earn. 😂
thumbnail is answering the question of what he considers to be his best physical feature
My question: Do you still have that red blazer from your clubbing days ;D
That is so cool to know your personal life. Good job in helping Ukraine! Love from Minnesota, USA!
Another great personal video. Thanks.
Really good video! Imagine if Johnny reported from a neutral perspecitve and read up on history! Would be a top hit overnight! 👏🏻
I can say as a retiree at 63, it's not wishing you were younger, it's regretting you didn't do more when you were.
I wanted to move to EU/Baltics, due to Bald. Ain't gonna happen now! Divesting of my home, my sm business assets, all my "stuff" would take years. So...
Thanks for sharing Johnny!
❤🇺🇲❤
I did come from bald and bankrupt been watchin him for over 10 years now
Was that an earring in your lip you look seedy in that pic Jonny glad you became a normal guy when you saw the light.
Hey, we all do stupid things when we're young, dumb, and insecure. 😂
Hey Johnny I'm a 44 year old average white dude, I was married for 13 years have 2 wonderful daughters 18 and 13 ,I'm a small business owner, pretty successful I think, I own my own home, on little over an acre of property, clean cut hard worker, it is almost impossible to find an down to earth, hard working female that you can trust let alone think about a future with, I've even given up on finding an attractive female I've tried them all not to sound shallow but I've been let down so many times I've given up, I'm seriously thinking about going abroad to try and find a partner but I don't want to be one of those middle aged Americans with young arm candy from a foreign country, 😅 I'm just really like you, I work extremely hard for what little I have just to get married and lose it all again, maybe you have some good advice let me know,
I advise not to work extremely hard just to get married and lose it all again. =) But honestly, in your case, just don't get married again, there's no point unless you want to have more kids.
Very based views!
Hey there, I have a serious question: I do have a very dear friend in occupied territory and I’ve been helping him with funds for almost a year now. But it does get hard sometimes and I really don’t want to stop aiding them. I tried making a GoFundMe but it’s just hard even after sharing it on social media because I understand many people don’t really believe if it’s real or not. I completely understand that. But because of that I just deleted the fundraiser. Would you recommend anyway I can help him raise money for his living situation? I usually just help with food but as it’s getting colder I want to ensure they have warm clothes and such.
Thank you for making these videos by the way. I’m glad there’s so much support for one another ❤
The best way is if they make videos every time the money is spent and acknowledge or thank the donors, that way they know it's real.
Thank you for always being so genuine. Maybe that’s where the shift happened. Wishing you health and safety and that all your dreams come true. 💐
We started watching your chanel and connected with you during war times in Ukraine 🇺🇦
We think you are authentic person, and we are happy to see your huge support towards Ukrainians. Thank you Johnny for your support and love Towards Ukraine 🇺🇦
You are a wonderful person ❤
We wish you all the best!!❤
Thanks Husky!
Ukrainians never give up on your homesteading lifestyle your dacha houses! I think that’s one of the coolest things about your culture. Y’all are very self sustaining people. Cherish that we lost it in America. Now we have to eat process food all the time. I want to find me a village, Ukrainian woman sell everything. I have here and come marry her. I’m sick of America. As long as I can, hunt one deer a year or two and have a little village house and be able to help the village may be a small one. I would be happy. I have lived in a very small town so I know how it is. It seems like to me the traditional Ukrainian girl definitely marriage material. You can’t find that in America hardly anymore. Lol I bet if I sold out I could help out a whole village. That’s what I plan on doing myself afterwards is buying one tractor-trailer, of metal roofing material for a village of houses that’s my goal and I’m about halfway there. I’ve just been rounding up on my purchases. One tractor trailer 15 to 20 houses.
Stay as you are Johnny ,you have done a lot for Ukraine and they will remeber you for sure .Slava Ukraine
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You're an authentic kind person. The NAFO truck will save lives. Thank you to all whom donated. Hope your desires will come to fruition. Love to you in your endeavors.
I hope so too! Thanks for your support and comments.
Thank you Johnny. Hopeful soon your AirBnB gets approved. God Bless!
So far, not even a proper reply from Airbnb. They've completely ignored my support requests about hosting in Ukraine.
Good video of HoLChurch House of life
Would you tell us the nearest metro station to the different places you visit in the city of Kyiv. Include the line color and number would be helpful. I would love to be able to buy and have shipped to the states a large metro map. Thank you, Dixon
Thanks for update. I feel you about the fusion food :) Authentic food is so much better.
8 - 9 hours drive here, will take me a long way into Germany.
Ive been out, doing someting i thought was life. money, countries. but i missed who Iam. i Never should tell any one what to do since i just know what not to do for me. A little suggestion try go back and spend time in lovley mongolia. Ive been there in sudden of secs but ive met peoples from there workingn in Krashnoyarsk. If you are from there as u say maybe its a piece you need. Peoples from there always had big hearts, always nice, always grow on u after u met them for hours. My tip do youtube storie riding all over Mongolia with a true tribe
Джони если тебя интересует твоя идентичность, тебе нужно определиться, кто Ты! (Амереканец, Монгол, Тайванец, и др. )
No it’s not Little Rock! 😂😂😂
What's wrong with Little Rock? 😂
Thanks for the info Johnny it will be included in your file ....Like # 172 ....Z
Been a subscriber for a long time now, love your videos. Thanks for pulling back the curtain and sharing your story.
Thanks Johnny good video
Johnny do you and Bald and bankrupt still hang out together still?
Watch the video, I answered it.
Thank you Johnny for sharing your video… you have made a great decision to live in Ukraine 🇺🇦… the living costs are so much cheaper in Ukraine than Canada and North America 🇺🇸… if people realised how much cheaper it is to live in Ukraine… everyone would move to Ukraine 🇺🇦
Canada IS North America. Just saying 😅
Dating's the most important issue
Is it? Tell me more (I'm serious)!
LOL haven't we all thought of VanLife.
I completely agree with you that fusion restaurants are B.S.! As a chef I abhor them, give me authentic regional cuisine please.
Being to picky is all wrong !!
Their's more to America than the Bay Area.
When are you coming home USA?
If i summend it down ....do a walkaboute in Mongolia
Johnny, did you ever consider visiting Mongolia and finding a wife there. It appears to be quite a modern country and will send you a TH-cam link on Mongolia
they will think Gengis Khan came back
12:39 And cue the #JealousMadeBitches as they start to comment in 3……2…….1…….
Oh wait, it wasn't 13...it was 14, I forgot one. 😂
th-cam.com/video/ZAIpGwaU9CU/w-d-xo.html
Donetsk Mariupol berdiansk
When I compare the person you were when I first started watching your channel with you now I realise how much Ukraine and this horrible war has changed you. You seem more thoughtful, and content with small pleasures. Your love for Ukraine is understandable as the people have tremendous courage and determination. I have been so impressed by how kind your new friends are to others and animals. It is strange that a war has really shown us how kind people can be.The way people pulled together to help the animals from Kherson after the flooding was so moving. Take care. Wendy
They say war changes us, but the truth is it just accelerates things.
Thanks for being so open. Your message about Bald clearly indicates you had a fallout and I don't blame you. Bald does not appreciate or value your friendship as you do with him. You treat him so well and he's pretty arrogant towards you sometimes and you do not deserve it. Good for you for choosing people that value and respect you!