This remind me of my step-father who, surrounded by all the women of the family said "Attractive women never have a personality, the plain ones are always more interesting". And then he was gone and we were all left wondering if he meant we were dull or ugly.
It's a tutorial on how to get laid. If y'all want girls to be nice to you, get your mind outta the gutter and be genuinely nice. Like if I had a dime for every man who pretended to wanna be friends and then tried to hook up in the course of 3-5 days, I'd be a millionaire. Thankfully though, not all of you're like that. Learn from your peers who have genuine girl friends and you'd have girls coming from all sights. Believe it or not, our bar for men is extremely low. Just be nice like they said. But be genuine. Don't try to pull up the 'I'm a nice guy so fuck me', cuz that's not who a 'nice guy' is. Also looks only matter for first impressions. It's a fact if you're attractive you'll have more girls approaching you. But that doesn't mean they'll stay. Unattractive guys do get women if they're genuine.
hey peanut, i dont know if youll see this but im a very average looking girl- not really known for my appearance, but i really appreciate this. it gives me a little hope in this world full of material items of girls who want rich bfs and boys who only want girls for their appearance/physique. it makes me feel better that maybe i can find someone who will want to be closer with me despite my appearance and like my personality so thank you.
"I've only dated 4-5 girls" "I'm no longer a virgin" "I'm still a teenager" "She's most attractive girl I've ever met but she's boring so I stayed away from her" This man is already living the life that most of guys struggle to achieve
I don’t know man. Losing virginity & dating isn’t really considered an achievement in my eyes… I’d rather live my life the religious way and save myself for my future spouse.
Ngl im a girl and low key average, never dated anyone etc bc everyone just cares about looks. Hearing someone say that personality matters nearly made me cry.
Been 5 months, have you dated anyone yet? Not trying to pry, just curious. Also no shame if u haven't yet, I haven't either-and REAL people DO care about personality. Most genuine human beings, that is ❤
@@FIamboyance yo I forgot about this comment:) I haven’t but not for the reasons you may think, I’ve been focusing on myself a lot and overall just stopped caring about those types of things, a few people did come my way (mostly old crushes) but I rejected them as I now know my value:)
you know I, as a girl, am very awkward at first and an absolute shit texter, but if im talking to a guy im into face to face I push past the awkwardness so im not some miserable npc. my fellow ladies, a tip for you if you dont know what to say: just spit out the first thing on your mind whether that's a sport you do, ur pet, school classes, or what you ate for dinner last night just ANYTHING and if the guy is attracted to you in the SLIGHTEST you two will get a real conversation going. that simple. Edit: spelling
Are you also an introvert?? I’m an awkward introverted girl but mostly because I don’t have a strong inclination to hang out with boring people I don’t like, and that’s most people I know. Ik once I expand my horizons a little I’ll have a great time but I just use my solitude to read, learn languages, play music etc. it’s much more productive than hanging out with someone and hating every minute of it. Been there done that.
@@jellyfrogfish yes awkward introvert right here ✋it gets tough sometimes haha but hey by learning new cool things we become actually interesting people haha
@@amonkhet9086 ikr? like i’ve found that a weird conversation about a mutual hatred of raw broccoli is the kind of conversation that stick with you way more
You seemed older, but you being 19 gives me hope that there are still free thinkers out there right now and for the future. You remind me of myself in many ways, like in the ideas, beliefs, and the process of thinking you hold, even though I’m a bit younger than you. I appreciate being able to see a glimpse of what my future may hold and it’s honestly inspiring to know that I’m going to be well off. Keep being cool, thank you Peanut!
I just feel terrible for there girl. Imagine how boring and miserable your life would be if you had no personality, no remarkable qualities and no traits beyond your looks.
I have a classmate with this EXACT personality. Every time I talk to him or ask him a question: “yo what’s your favourite genre” he’d be like: “eh, anything”.
Watching this as a woman gives me hope that men will start setting standards for themselves and not settling for random hot girls with nothing to offer. Seriously, they aren’t worth it. And it’s not worth it to us women to waste our time with guys with no personality who act like jerks but look good. We all need to demand better for ourselves, and be better.
Honestly man. Like one of the top things in my standards is to JUST DO SMTH INTERESTING. If you’re a brick wall, then you have nothing to offer to me but your body, and what I search in a relationship isn’t just carnal desire. W peanut
I actually had a related experience to this recently in my life. I started talking to this girl from one of my classes and I saw that she was pretty average looking like myself so I thought it'd be a good match and we were into the same hobbies even. This girl did exactly what you described in the video just standing there, saying nothing and even when playing sports that we both liked it was the same. I tried constantly to start up conversations but couldn't hold them because of her brick wall conversational attitude. I 100% agree that the thing to look for in girls is personality and even though that's what I was trying for, you can't tell how they're going to be before you actually spend time with them.
I once had a girlfriend that was also very pretty, but she had a lack of empathie and would never ask me about my life. So yeah I broke up with her. So boys always first get to know each other
i dated a girl like that in my early 20's, she went completely psycho on me and i had to get a pfa on her just to stop her from banging on my door at 3am.
Damn, I was dating a girl exactly like this. At first I was like what am I doing wrong? It got to the point where I couldn't be myself around her. It took me four months to snap out of it and realize what was happening. All that time and energy wasted but I learned a valuable lesson. Hold out hope y'all there's someone out there for all of us!
Orangepeanut, just wanted to let you know that this video helped me so much. As a girl myself, I have to agree with orangepeanut on this one. When I was younger, I will admit that I was a very unnattractive kid and I actually had to have a personality to have friends. When I got older in my last years of high school, I had transformations and I actually became attractive. People actually started talking to me and making more effort than I ever have in my entire life when I was younger. As a result, I did not try anymore. I forgot my personality and who I was, and there's days where I still feel this way. I did not have to try anymore for people to approach and be attracted to me to the point where I forgot how to act. I was so ashamed of myself. Now, I am in college and I am actually making more of an effort to be interesting and fun to be around with people at school and work; it has been working great so far. Then I made friends with a girl at work and she's one of these girls. Now I know what it's like to be with people like this and I cannot stand people like this. They drive me crazy and I already get bored very easily. Many attractive girls are the most boring people you will meet, but not all of them. As a thanks to Tony, I can say that I am not one of those girls anymore. This video made me remember my personality, everything I have been through, who I was and who I am today; who I can choose to be.
I relate to this a lot. I was close to one girl for about 2 years, and she was GORGEOUS. She was so freakin dull though. We split up because she started claiming she was “non-binary”, completely changed her appearance and made herself objectively uglier. I didn’t support it because it’s a telltale sign of narcissism and delusion, and I was right. She would demand use of her “preferred pronouns” and wanted to control how everyone thought and looked at her, accept her fake identity, and play into it. I was having none of it and cut ties. I made her hate me so she is less likely to ever reach out again, and I’ve never been happier. Be careful out there bros 🤙
Woahh, no. They was being theirself, and being non-binary isn’t a “fake identity” you just really got some fucked up prejudice or something. That’s not a W or some coolness to you, you’re the problem.
@@FiendEnder you're defending the "non-binary" part whilst using the word "she" instead of the given preferred pronoun. Seeing y'all being against yourselves indirectly is funny
I have never been to America, so I can't speak for sure, but this seems like something that happens more than often there with teenagers. Since your fanbase is comprised mainly of other kids your age it's good to see you spreading the good advice around.
In general attractive people feel no need go be funny or have a personality since people would talk to them simply if they looked good whereas unattractive people need to be funny to actually befriend people. My advice to attractive people is once you've deceloped a good personality and have a good face everyone will 100% start flocking to you
i'd say people that are born naturally very attractive* cause someone that's attractive that also have a personality likely has one because they were average or even ugly during high school and had to develop a personality
This happened to me literally ONE TO ONE, the same thing. I was asking questions and carrying the conversation like crazy and she didnt say anything interesting, only basic one sentence answers. No personality at all
Wow this video is really good. So, Im an attractive Brazilian girl (19 yo), but from 13-16 I was kinda ugly. I got bullied in school for my hair, my big glasses and for being super thin. But even so, at 15 a guy started to like me for who I was and he was my boyfriend for years. Now that I'm pretty it annoys me that most men literally don't care about my personality whatsoever. We need more men like peanut to teach other men that a boring, pretty face has no value. Oh and btw beauty goes away with age.
@@user-zd8nj5nv1s when I said having only a pretty and boring face means nothing, I wasn't saying that you shouldn't exercise, be healthy and take care of your appeareance. Also, true friends don't stick to you because you're attractive, they like because of who you are. Yeah cool that you get more girls but believe me, as soon as you get older and uglier, all these chicks will fly away if you don't have any content inside. And yes, personality IS totally involved to what you give to people. If you're nice, kind and smart, of course you'll be giving good things to others, such as help, advice, good moments.
@HAMRADIO I really don't believe that when your looks soared, your friends and the girls you get soared simultaneously. judging by your response, it is likely that your confidence was the reason you were able to be where you're at now. I've seen a lot of fat and short guys with amazing personalities and a great social prescence. you may have just been hiding your personality through your insecurities as a kid and only having the confidence to express them when you liked yourself better. If not, and you do think your personality is dull and boring, I hate to break it to you but your friends and the girls you date are very likely fake and not going to stay with you for long. Obviously, looks play a role, but it's *not everything.* like lala said, the moment you grow old, ugly, and possibly even poor, they'll leave as fast as they came to you. Sure, you'll have all the glory now, but soon enough, you'll realize you're 100% in the wrong.
@HAMRADIO I agree. you're defintely treated much differently. i think my stance was that yes, like the girl in the video, your looks got you a lot of friends and girls. the only problem was if they liked you for you or your personality and looks. I think i may have misjudged you here though. I thought you were implying that the reason they're close friends with you was because of your looks.
@HAMRADIO yes, personality intersects with looks, but it looks dont overtake personality. you're only confident, fat, and arrogant if you base your personality off your looks. if you're genuinely an amicable guy, you wouldn't recieve that loner backlash. even though you wont necessarily be surrounded by top teir, hot men and women, its not as if you'll be friendless either. It's also a matter of who you're with. if those around you judge you by your looks, you'll obviously ONLY have friends if you're handsome. but that's not always the case. you're generalizing the fact that everyone will treat you poorly because you're fat and ugly. well that's only if you give them no reason NOT to (more specifically, if you don't do anything). you will obviously be judged more and maybe even bullied. its because no one knows who you are. also, your claim is quite flawed. though you could argue that the lonely kid is always ugly because of the fact that they are undesirable, that doesn't mean the ugly kids are always lonely. that was what my point is.
@@Professor_Sex guilt tripping everyone to watch a video of them burying their dead puppy. Like fr? You want clout by using your dead puppy? Let him rest at least in death.
100% agreed, I also learnt this the hard way. I dated this guy who was like the most handsome guy I have ever met. But he had a personality of a brick wall, super immature and dumb asf. No hard work put in, just the "talk the talk" kinda guy. I later regretted getting into a relationship just by judging him by looks and I broke up with him within 2 months. Now, no lie that looks still be a concern for me, but way more than that I care about the guy's personality, his lifestyle and his morals.
Man your stories are very cool! The feel so real compared to some other ones and there's even a good lesson in it. I'm sure a lot of us would like more stories of your life, dear Peanut
I’m kinda in the same boat I’m 21 starting university this year getting my life together, going to the gym and focusing on myself, and I ain’t going for girls who don’t give me back what I give them, conversations, opinions and goals, I want a girl who is interesting not a plank of wood, oh well
I dated a girl who took minutes to answer a question which was what’s your hobby, and ended up saying it’s “philosophy” (though I haven’t seen her enjoying a single of philosophical thing) for a couple of months and it was HELL. So basically, people who have no hobby are the big red flag in my opinion. 🎉
It happened exactly the same thing to me some months ago except the girl was not even that pretty (she was good looking but not the best I had been with) the only reason I kept hanging out with her was because I felt lonely, and by that I mean I felt lonely for being 19 and never had a girlfriend. Things were going fine, me putting all the work she was so boring but I was pushing my self off because maybe I needed to lower my standards and be more mature. I was wrong, liking someone should be easy and not forced, thats what I should have thought but instead I kept seeing her until I got sick for 2 weeks and she left me for some other dude. Now I feel glad that it happened that way because otherwise I would be stuck in an meaningful relationship. I still fell lonely time from time but I take it as normal, I fell good
Orangepeanut, I don't know if you'll see this but I'd like to say thank you. Watching this video made me realize that you were perfectly describing me. i need to fix my issue before i fumble a chance i have
This just proves that even when the girl makes the first move, no matter how attracted she is to you, you will still have to do most of the work during the “talking” stage. Especially attractive ones since they’re used to guys already chasing them, they never needed a personality in the first place.
I’m an autistic girl and it seems like either way the “psychological tricks” would go under my radar regardless. To get a girl, you have to ask her directly. If she says no, don’t take it personally. If she laughs, fine, but she’s not the one for you in either situation. The last thing to tell yourself is that all girls are the same. Some people, women and men and everyone else alike, have bad apples or people who are not interested. Going into the mindset that all girls will play you is going to yeet you into a rabbit hole that is difficult to get you out of. Be strong and honest with your partner, and find someone that loves you for you. Don’t ever change for someone else.
I see what you're saying 100%. But, like everything else in life, things take work sometimes. The more you hangout, the more you show of yourself to them, the more of your "interesting" world you show them, the more they may be encouraged to come out of their shell and give you some insight into what they like and who they might really be.
Agree w u on almost everything as a woman but I have to say, I went on my first date a month back and my answers to certain questions were unfortunately similar to this girls' that you are talking about since I was really nervous but on the second date we started getting a lot closer and had so much fun together and I could open up more. Overall it's not good to fully judge a person based on the first few moments but obviously it could be that this girl genuinely had no personality as it seemed her life was already more "stable" than mine is for example.
In all seriousness though, I agree that you should date a person rather than an empty shell of skin. I have kind of a similar story: For context, I was doing a first aid course last summer and these other guys doing the course tried to teach me how to pull baddies. When I refused they called me gay which pissed me off, so I decided to go along with their plan. They put me on their snap story, and I got added by 3 guys (who didn’t talk at all) and one girl. She would only give one word answers to everything I asked/said making it impossible to start a conversation, especially since I didn’t know what we had in common and what conversations would be engaging for us. I remember specifically going online and finding a website with 100+ convo topics and sending her the link, telling her to pick one (probably bad rizz, but I wasn’t interested in “pulling” to begin with). She said “kk” but didn’t pick one. So I just gave up. Keep in mind she added me first, so it’s natural to think she would attempt to push the conversation into motion. But oh well. Theres more but it’s not relevant to the video topic.
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 Depends on context. With my bfs. If it were cheesy stuff I'd rather start the flirting. With friends. I expect them to text first. With strangers, I prefer being the one to approach. It feels awkward when someone I don't know tries to start a conversation. But if I do it, I'm already mentally prepared for what's to come. In group projects, I like people following my lead, It gets annoying otherwise. And if I find a guy attractive, I'd rather make the first move than have him try to hit up a conversation.
This is why I'm glad I had a glow up later in life. I have niche hobbies, skills, and humor I've developed being a quiet artsy kid. I know what colors look good on me how to coordinate outfits applying my own artistic twist to fasion fundamentals. I wouldn't trade anything over the humbling that being a late bloomer brings ❤️
bc of the halo effect they can get away with it, they've life on easy mode. i wouldn't say personality matters more than looks but the lack of it can be a problem.
To be fair to the girl, I never know what to say when people ask me about my hobbies or what I do. Because it’s literally nothing. I go to class (sometimes), and spend the rest of my time at home in my room on TH-cam or watching sports. I almost never interact with people or go anywhere apart from that
Two Incredible quotes from this video: "Life is full of experiences, why turn them down?" "I don't want a trophy wife. I want a wife I can hoist a trophy up with."
It is amazing how this story relates to mine, i had a girlfriend for a couple months, she was pretty but was as dry as the Sahara dessert, with a blank face waiting for me to make a comment, after i had been talking the whole time getting 3 word responses. So we ended up fortunately not working out and me wasting money and time on this female for months. So orange peanut i feel you bro a mid women with a good personality outweighs an attractive women with 0 personality
Me as a girl being called "unattractive" throughout middle school , had to actually build a personality to talk and make friends and now after I started taking care of my looks , highschool is pretty well Haha
OMG man, that's how exactly it is for me, even if there's a girl that is so attractive, I talk to these girls and then I see nothing going on with them, life wise and personality wise, they bore me to death, they start getting very unattractive for me instantly.
“I don’t want a trophy wife, I want a wife I can hoist a trophy with” orange peanut dropping nothing but facts
Bravo Peanut
@M Y T H I C A L N O V A no
@M Y T H I C A L N O V A car sex
I want to be that wife for him
@@orangepeanutsimp same
"What movie should we watch?"
"I don't mind."
"American Psycho it is!"
Nah it’s either gon be The Godfather or The Joker
@MYTHICALNOVA2005lmao L bozo
@M Y T H I C A L N O V A skill issue lmao🤓🤓
@@ukrainium_92 alright but that’s fucked up, don’t say that bro
@@lepau2702 I think it's fucked up to use a puppy for views, also its probably a bot anyway so i agree with the L
This remind me of my step-father who, surrounded by all the women of the family said "Attractive women never have a personality, the plain ones are always more interesting". And then he was gone and we were all left wondering if he meant we were dull or ugly.
💀😂😂
Im going to say ugly since he is around family members so calling them beautiful would feel weirder than interesting
Did he come back...?
I'm sorry but the way your comment ended made me laugh
bro what
seems like poor peanut ran into a NPC 😔
Truly a moment of all time.
You had me at “Stay away from girls”
Certified Sigma
Nah he had me at stay
Same women scare me
Had me at
@@George_Fl0ydbro your dead
Every 'how to meet a girl' tutorial :
Be nice to girls all the time
Peanut: No, that's a bullshit, girls should be nice to us in return as well
Neither of these statements happened
@@masongreen1371 These aren't statements just summing up
@@ebonywine yes neither of them are realistic.
Yeah thanks for the comment
It's a tutorial on how to get laid. If y'all want girls to be nice to you, get your mind outta the gutter and be genuinely nice. Like if I had a dime for every man who pretended to wanna be friends and then tried to hook up in the course of 3-5 days, I'd be a millionaire.
Thankfully though, not all of you're like that. Learn from your peers who have genuine girl friends and you'd have girls coming from all sights. Believe it or not, our bar for men is extremely low.
Just be nice like they said. But be genuine. Don't try to pull up the 'I'm a nice guy so fuck me', cuz that's not who a 'nice guy' is.
Also looks only matter for first impressions. It's a fact if you're attractive you'll have more girls approaching you. But that doesn't mean they'll stay. Unattractive guys do get women if they're genuine.
hey peanut, i dont know if youll see this but im a very average looking girl- not really known for my appearance, but i really appreciate this. it gives me a little hope in this world full of material items of girls who want rich bfs and boys who only want girls for their appearance/physique. it makes me feel better that maybe i can find someone who will want to be closer with me despite my appearance and like my personality so thank you.
@@retna1x363 or maybe you're just a loser lol
@@retna1x363 who let the sped kids out 🤦♂️
@@doesntmatter2732 fr bruh. The school must’ve rang or something
@@retna1x363 I ain't no simp but you clearly did not watch this video. L.
@@retna1x363 hell nah with the edgy sigma shit 💀💀
He is the guy who stood up for us men when we all were doomed by girls
@Don't Read My Profile Photo i aint readin allat
@Don't Read My Profile Photo no one can become famous with spamming.
@@Skipper-rn2ji average TikTok comment 😭
@@Wertyber ik, normies trend hopping with "allat" slang will die in like 5 months
Y'all acting as if girls are some sort of other-dimensional entity here to harm you lol. Cringe 😂
"I've only dated 4-5 girls"
"I'm no longer a virgin"
"I'm still a teenager"
"She's most attractive girl I've ever met but she's boring so I stayed away from her"
This man is already living the life that most of guys struggle to achieve
if u ever talk to a boring girl no matter how cute she is you will notice bra its a big turn off
This is such a sad comment 😂.
I don’t know man. Losing virginity & dating isn’t really considered an achievement in my eyes… I’d rather live my life the religious way and save myself for my future spouse.
@@7arb-f-15 3aash me too
I respect how humble our little orange peanutty friend is
Protect orange peanut at all costs
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69th like
@@coltify5785 noice
Actual chad. One of the last men on this planet who won’t hit a dumb hoe just because she looks good.
factual
Ngl im a girl and low key average, never dated anyone etc bc everyone just cares about looks. Hearing someone say that personality matters nearly made me cry.
Been 5 months, have you dated anyone yet? Not trying to pry, just curious. Also no shame if u haven't yet, I haven't either-and REAL people DO care about personality. Most genuine human beings, that is ❤
@@FIamboyance yo I forgot about this comment:)
I haven’t but not for the reasons you may think,
I’ve been focusing on myself a lot and overall just stopped caring about those types of things, a few people did come my way (mostly old crushes) but I rejected them as I now know my value:)
Imagine she saw this video 💀
IM THE GIRL 😡😡😡 HAHAH I’m joking
@@emilymeyers6069 lol
@@emilymeyers6069 XD
@@emilymeyers6069 lmao
you know I, as a girl, am very awkward at first and an absolute shit texter, but if im talking to a guy im into face to face I push past the awkwardness so im not some miserable npc. my fellow ladies, a tip for you if you dont know what to say: just spit out the first thing on your mind whether that's a sport you do, ur pet, school classes, or what you ate for dinner last night just ANYTHING and if the guy is attracted to you in the SLIGHTEST you two will get a real conversation going. that simple.
Edit: spelling
I bench 225
Are you also an introvert?? I’m an awkward introverted girl but mostly because I don’t have a strong inclination to hang out with boring people I don’t like, and that’s most people I know. Ik once I expand my horizons a little I’ll have a great time but I just use my solitude to read, learn languages, play music etc. it’s much more productive than hanging out with someone and hating every minute of it. Been there done that.
As a guy you are absolutely right, having a random conversation about nothing meaningful is still a 1000 times better than having no one
@@jellyfrogfish yes awkward introvert right here ✋it gets tough sometimes haha but hey by learning new cool things we become actually interesting people haha
@@amonkhet9086 ikr? like i’ve found that a weird conversation about a mutual hatred of raw broccoli is the kind of conversation that stick with you way more
Protect this man at all costs.
edit - thanks for even more likes lmaoo much appreciated
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Fym buddy have you seen his body pics- he can protect himself 💀
@@jellybean4583We need to protect him from the globalists
You seemed older, but you being 19 gives me hope that there are still free thinkers out there right now and for the future. You remind me of myself in many ways, like in the ideas, beliefs, and the process of thinking you hold, even though I’m a bit younger than you. I appreciate being able to see a glimpse of what my future may hold and it’s honestly inspiring to know that I’m going to be well off. Keep being cool, thank you Peanut!
Wdym he seems older? Bro still looks 16😂
@@floatyseagull9472 he is 1 day older than me lol
@@floatyseagull9472bro I'm 18 and I look like I'm 6 years older than him
He may look his age but he def comes off more mature
Yeah, I think the same way and I'm 14.
This is another dating hood classic from orangepeanut👍
An approved ghe*to relic
I just feel terrible for there girl. Imagine how boring and miserable your life would be if you had no personality, no remarkable qualities and no traits beyond your looks.
that's why you can make a personality
Maybe ignorance is bliss? Hopefully for her
I have a classmate with this EXACT personality. Every time I talk to him or ask him a question: “yo what’s your favourite genre” he’d be like: “eh, anything”.
@@JRzby242 know his hobbys? i like most music genres but id say I still got a personality
@@JRzby242 Yall still young chill
"Yo bro u wanna snort this line?"
"You know what, life is full of experiences, why not?"
Watching this as a woman gives me hope that men will start setting standards for themselves and not settling for random hot girls with nothing to offer. Seriously, they aren’t worth it. And it’s not worth it to us women to waste our time with guys with no personality who act like jerks but look good. We all need to demand better for ourselves, and be better.
Heck yeah!
exactly 💯
Becca over here spitting FACTS 🔥🔥🔥
One of the realest producers on youtube, I rarely feel that a creator is actually human and not some npc robot shit. Keep up the work brother
Honestly man. Like one of the top things in my standards is to JUST DO SMTH INTERESTING. If you’re a brick wall, then you have nothing to offer to me but your body, and what I search in a relationship isn’t just carnal desire.
W peanut
I actually had a related experience to this recently in my life. I started talking to this girl from one of my classes and I saw that she was pretty average looking like myself so I thought it'd be a good match and we were into the same hobbies even. This girl did exactly what you described in the video just standing there, saying nothing and even when playing sports that we both liked it was the same. I tried constantly to start up conversations but couldn't hold them because of her brick wall conversational attitude. I 100% agree that the thing to look for in girls is personality and even though that's what I was trying for, you can't tell how they're going to be before you actually spend time with them.
Yeah watch out next time. It happens with most guys.
8:30 "I don't want a trophy wife. I want a wife I can hoist up a trophy with" actually a really cool quote
When she says "I listen to pretty much everything/anything", that's your first red flag.
facts lmao
But I actually almost do - RnB, pop, reggae, gospel, rap, broadway & the occasional rock music. But yeah she could've expanded on that answer
@@pweetyliciouse same, it’s not a good idea to judge people immediately
@@iliketogrowplants just a joke 😜
@@pweetyliciouseno one asked🤯
One extra thing. SHE NEEDS TO HAVE OPINIONS. Opinions form your personality. If you don't have opinions, you're blander than ChatGPT.
I once had a girlfriend that was also very pretty, but she had a lack of empathie and would never ask me about my life. So yeah I broke up with her. So boys always first get to know each other
You made a good choice my dude. Nothing worse than a "friend" who doesn't ever care about your wellbeing...
this is why i subscribe to orangepeanut
i dated a girl like that in my early 20's, she went completely psycho on me and i had to get a pfa on her just to stop her from banging on my door at 3am.
You literally described my last relationship
If you text and she responds 2 days later with less than 3 words, move on King
bro is more well adjusted and realistic about women than my 53 year old father 💀 kudos to you peanut!
"Ladies, dont run from me, I just watched how to get a girlfriend on youtube"
@MYTHICALNOVA2005skill issue
Unfortunately met a lot of people like this through + post college. When you grow up attractive you don’t need to develop a personality or interests.
Damn, I was dating a girl exactly like this. At first I was like what am I doing wrong? It got to the point where I couldn't be myself around her. It took me four months to snap out of it and realize what was happening. All that time and energy wasted but I learned a valuable lesson. Hold out hope y'all there's someone out there for all of us!
Orangepeanut, just wanted to let you know that this video helped me so much. As a girl myself, I have to agree with orangepeanut on this one. When I was younger, I will admit that I was a very unnattractive kid and I actually had to have a personality to have friends. When I got older in my last years of high school, I had transformations and I actually became attractive. People actually started talking to me and making more effort than I ever have in my entire life when I was younger. As a result, I did not try anymore. I forgot my personality and who I was, and there's days where I still feel this way. I did not have to try anymore for people to approach and be attracted to me to the point where I forgot how to act. I was so ashamed of myself. Now, I am in college and I am actually making more of an effort to be interesting and fun to be around with people at school and work; it has been working great so far. Then I made friends with a girl at work and she's one of these girls. Now I know what it's like to be with people like this and I cannot stand people like this. They drive me crazy and I already get bored very easily. Many attractive girls are the most boring people you will meet, but not all of them. As a thanks to Tony, I can say that I am not one of those girls anymore. This video made me remember my personality, everything I have been through, who I was and who I am today; who I can choose to be.
I relate to this a lot. I was close to one girl for about 2 years, and she was GORGEOUS. She was so freakin dull though. We split up because she started claiming she was “non-binary”, completely changed her appearance and made herself objectively uglier. I didn’t support it because it’s a telltale sign of narcissism and delusion, and I was right. She would demand use of her “preferred pronouns” and wanted to control how everyone thought and looked at her, accept her fake identity, and play into it. I was having none of it and cut ties. I made her hate me so she is less likely to ever reach out again, and I’ve never been happier.
Be careful out there bros 🤙
When you have no personality you try to go with the current trends blindly in order to distinguish yourself.
Sad.
I feel bad for some certain paths some people usually youngster ones may take
Woahh, no. They was being theirself, and being non-binary isn’t a “fake identity” you just really got some fucked up prejudice or something. That’s not a W or some coolness to you, you’re the problem.
@@FiendEnder you're defending the "non-binary" part whilst using the word "she" instead of the given preferred pronoun. Seeing y'all being against yourselves indirectly is funny
@@NOZH777 fuck I didn’t even notice that 😭😭😭 my bad, let me fix that.
This was actually a hilarious story. Thanks for the advice as well peanut
"Stay away from girls-" done🗿
Sooo truuueee🤣🤣🤣
LMAAAAAO NAH YOU WRONG FOR DIS 😭🤦♂️
SPEAK YO SHIT BOYE 🗣💪🔥🤑💯💯
Bro has multiple personalities 💀
Most normal replies I’ve ever seen
I have never been to America, so I can't speak for sure, but this seems like something that happens more than often there with teenagers. Since your fanbase is comprised mainly of other kids your age it's good to see you spreading the good advice around.
These red flags and turn offs are at an unprecedented amount
In general attractive people feel no need go be funny or have a personality since people would talk to them simply if they looked good whereas unattractive people need to be funny to actually befriend people. My advice to attractive people is once you've deceloped a good personality and have a good face everyone will 100% start flocking to you
And all ugly people assume their personality is fantastic just because they are ugly
i'd say people that are born naturally very attractive* cause someone that's attractive that also have a personality likely has one because they were average or even ugly during high school and had to develop a personality
“There was a ballsack on the screen and that was pretty cool.” Wow! Incredible lmao
just the sheer amount of Ws in this video is insane.
Omg you’re 19!!! it’s a baby!!!
(Edit: I’m 21)
“Beauty fades, dumb is forever.” - judge Judy
I respect and trust people who tell a life from their actual experinces not from stupid theories and one of them is Peanut
This happened to me literally ONE TO ONE, the same thing. I was asking questions and carrying the conversation like crazy and she didnt say anything interesting, only basic one sentence answers. No personality at all
Bro she doesnt like you i swear sigma youtubers spread good messages but have the most autistic communities
That just means you were being boring. Girls don't like boring interview question type shit conversations.
@@sagar1992 talk for yourself. Why do you care what women want?
@Jar Jar Binks I think you dropped this 👑 well said, don’t ever change for a women. If she act cold, don’t talk to her ever again.
@Jar Jar Binks It's a man's job to lead the conversation and keep it interesting.
This is certainly one of the most Orangepeanut videos
This is definitely one of the orangepeanut videos of all time
Wow this video is really good. So, Im an attractive Brazilian girl (19 yo), but from 13-16 I was kinda ugly. I got bullied in school for my hair, my big glasses and for being super thin. But even so, at 15 a guy started to like me for who I was and he was my boyfriend for years. Now that I'm pretty it annoys me that most men literally don't care about my personality whatsoever. We need more men like peanut to teach other men that a boring, pretty face has no value. Oh and btw beauty goes away with age.
@@user-zd8nj5nv1s when I said having only a pretty and boring face means nothing, I wasn't saying that you shouldn't exercise, be healthy and take care of your appeareance. Also, true friends don't stick to you because you're attractive, they like because of who you are. Yeah cool that you get more girls but believe me, as soon as you get older and uglier, all these chicks will fly away if you don't have any content inside. And yes, personality IS totally involved to what you give to people. If you're nice, kind and smart, of course you'll be giving good things to others, such as help, advice, good moments.
@HAMRADIO I really don't believe that when your looks soared, your friends and the girls you get soared simultaneously. judging by your response, it is likely that your confidence was the reason you were able to be where you're at now. I've seen a lot of fat and short guys with amazing personalities and a great social prescence. you may have just been hiding your personality through your insecurities as a kid and only having the confidence to express them when you liked yourself better.
If not, and you do think your personality is dull and boring, I hate to break it to you but your friends and the girls you date are very likely fake and not going to stay with you for long. Obviously, looks play a role, but it's *not everything.* like lala said, the moment you grow old, ugly, and possibly even poor, they'll leave as fast as they came to you. Sure, you'll have all the glory now, but soon enough, you'll realize you're 100% in the wrong.
@HAMRADIO I agree. you're defintely treated much differently. i think my stance was that yes, like the girl in the video, your looks got you a lot of friends and girls. the only problem was if they liked you for you or your personality and looks.
I think i may have misjudged you here though. I thought you were implying that the reason they're close friends with you was because of your looks.
@HAMRADIO yes, personality intersects with looks, but it looks dont overtake personality. you're only confident, fat, and arrogant if you base your personality off your looks.
if you're genuinely an amicable guy, you wouldn't recieve that loner backlash. even though you wont necessarily be surrounded by top teir, hot men and women, its not as if you'll be friendless either.
It's also a matter of who you're with. if those around you judge you by your looks, you'll obviously ONLY have friends if you're handsome. but that's not always the case. you're generalizing the fact that everyone will treat you poorly because you're fat and ugly. well that's only if you give them no reason NOT to (more specifically, if you don't do anything). you will obviously be judged more and maybe even bullied.
its because no one knows who you are.
also, your claim is quite flawed. though you could argue that the lonely kid is always ugly because of the fact that they are undesirable, that doesn't mean the ugly kids are always lonely. that was what my point is.
@HAMRADIO I’m a guy…
Orange Peanut being the opposite of a simp for 10 straight minutes
don't worry peanut you can date me I have a great personality
@MYTHICALNOVA2005 why are you asking everyone this
@@orangepeanutsimp what did they ask
@@Professor_Sex guilt tripping everyone to watch a video of them burying their dead puppy.
Like fr?
You want clout by using your dead puppy?
Let him rest at least in death.
@@Tushar_Talwar_09 oh I investigated their channel
apparently their name is matthew too
@@orangepeanutsimp def a bot
This is one of the realest videos you ever made Peanut.
100% agreed, I also learnt this the hard way. I dated this guy who was like the most handsome guy I have ever met. But he had a personality of a brick wall, super immature and dumb asf. No hard work put in, just the "talk the talk" kinda guy. I later regretted getting into a relationship just by judging him by looks and I broke up with him within 2 months. Now, no lie that looks still be a concern for me, but way more than that I care about the guy's personality, his lifestyle and his morals.
Man your stories are very cool! The feel so real compared to some other ones and there's even a good lesson in it.
I'm sure a lot of us would like more stories of your life, dear Peanut
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I see you all over the place and man, you spit facts everywhere you go.
I’m kinda in the same boat I’m 21 starting university this year getting my life together, going to the gym and focusing on myself, and I ain’t going for girls who don’t give me back what I give them, conversations, opinions and goals, I want a girl who is interesting not a plank of wood, oh well
I dated a girl who took minutes to answer a question which was what’s your hobby, and ended up saying it’s “philosophy” (though I haven’t seen her enjoying a single of philosophical thing) for a couple of months and it was HELL. So basically, people who have no hobby are the big red flag in my opinion. 🎉
ever since birth, i was scared of girls.
Dude, I was kinda In a situation like this. You've opened my eyes. Yikes.
i dated a girl like this once im glad someone else can relate
It happened exactly the same thing to me some months ago except the girl was not even that pretty (she was good looking but not the best I had been with) the only reason I kept hanging out with her was because I felt lonely, and by that I mean I felt lonely for being 19 and never had a girlfriend. Things were going fine, me putting all the work she was so boring but I was pushing my self off because maybe I needed to lower my standards and be more mature. I was wrong, liking someone should be easy and not forced, thats what I should have thought but instead I kept seeing her until I got sick for 2 weeks and she left me for some other dude. Now I feel glad that it happened that way because otherwise I would be stuck in an meaningful relationship. I still fell lonely time from time but I take it as normal, I fell good
Orange with the wisdom again
It's why I always preferred women were as weird or, even better, weirder than me.
mate this guy is one hell of saviour for boys
I'm pretty sure you watched "You Don't Mess with the Zohan" lol
It's miraculous that she asked you out first lol that was her most active moment of her life
Orangepeanut, I don't know if you'll see this but I'd like to say thank you. Watching this video made me realize that you were perfectly describing me. i need to fix my issue before i fumble a chance i have
This just proves that even when the girl makes the first move, no matter how attracted she is to you, you will still have to do most of the work during the “talking” stage. Especially attractive ones since they’re used to guys already chasing them, they never needed a personality in the first place.
A bad relationship is the easiest way to screw up the rest of your life. Good advice, and goodonya for knowing what you want.
Peanut really out here giving better advices than 90% of TH-camrs whose existence revolves around these things
You dropped these: 👑🧠
I’m an autistic girl and it seems like either way the “psychological tricks” would go under my radar regardless. To get a girl, you have to ask her directly. If she says no, don’t take it personally. If she laughs, fine, but she’s not the one for you in either situation. The last thing to tell yourself is that all girls are the same. Some people, women and men and everyone else alike, have bad apples or people who are not interested. Going into the mindset that all girls will play you is going to yeet you into a rabbit hole that is difficult to get you out of. Be strong and honest with your partner, and find someone that loves you for you. Don’t ever change for someone else.
I feel for you man. Luckily for me, I found a woman who is beautiful inside and out. Once you find one like that, you hold on for dear life! 😅😅
I've never seen someone be so self aware
I see what you're saying 100%. But, like everything else in life, things take work sometimes. The more you hangout, the more you show of yourself to them, the more of your "interesting" world you show them, the more they may be encouraged to come out of their shell and give you some insight into what they like and who they might really be.
Agree w u on almost everything as a woman but I have to say, I went on my first date a month back and my answers to certain questions were unfortunately similar to this girls' that you are talking about since I was really nervous but on the second date we started getting a lot closer and had so much fun together and I could open up more. Overall it's not good to fully judge a person based on the first few moments but obviously it could be that this girl genuinely had no personality as it seemed her life was already more "stable" than mine is for example.
“Life’s full of experiences why say no?” Good quote peanut
W peanut. Always spittin facts.
I’ve just came across your channel & you’re funny, dude. You’re one of the few that hasn’t had their brain vaporised by this fake red pill 💩
In all seriousness though, I agree that you should date a person rather than an empty shell of skin. I have kind of a similar story:
For context, I was doing a first aid course last summer and these other guys doing the course tried to teach me how to pull baddies. When I refused they called me gay which pissed me off, so I decided to go along with their plan. They put me on their snap story, and I got added by 3 guys (who didn’t talk at all) and one girl. She would only give one word answers to everything I asked/said making it impossible to start a conversation, especially since I didn’t know what we had in common and what conversations would be engaging for us. I remember specifically going online and finding a website with 100+ convo topics and sending her the link, telling her to pick one (probably bad rizz, but I wasn’t interested in “pulling” to begin with). She said “kk” but didn’t pick one. So I just gave up.
Keep in mind she added me first, so it’s natural to think she would attempt to push the conversation into motion. But oh well.
Theres more but it’s not relevant to the video topic.
I expect girl to do the first move lol
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 Nothing wrong with that ngl. As a girl, I'd prefer having the lead in many cases.
@@almogxchq5282 Some examples?
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 Depends on context. With my bfs. If it were cheesy stuff I'd rather start the flirting.
With friends. I expect them to text first.
With strangers, I prefer being the one to approach. It feels awkward when someone I don't know tries to start a conversation.
But if I do it, I'm already mentally prepared for what's to come.
In group projects, I like people following my lead, It gets annoying otherwise.
And if I find a guy attractive, I'd rather make the first move than have him try to hit up a conversation.
@@almogxchq5282 i like that, most women won’t approach a guy. Let’s say you 2 are together, so you want your man to lead?
This is why I'm glad I had a glow up later in life. I have niche hobbies, skills, and humor I've developed being a quiet artsy kid. I know what colors look good on me how to coordinate outfits applying my own artistic twist to fasion fundamentals. I wouldn't trade anything over the humbling that being a late bloomer brings ❤️
This guy tells the meaning of life
There is nothing new under the sun no joke
Orangepeanut is a personality guy 🥰
bc of the halo effect they can get away with it, they've life on easy mode. i wouldn't say personality matters more than looks but the lack of it can be a problem.
Love you peanut
thanks for the advice
To be fair to the girl, I never know what to say when people ask me about my hobbies or what I do. Because it’s literally nothing. I go to class (sometimes), and spend the rest of my time at home in my room on TH-cam or watching sports. I almost never interact with people or go anywhere apart from that
get a hobby
Do a sport, maybe one that you're watching
get indoor hobbies like crafting, building blanket forts, or reading graphic novels. that's what i do anyway.
“My wiener is wilting” had me dead
Orange peanut never fails to disappoint us 🔥🔥
Yep! The sooner you realize the better
Better things always wins in the long run
Personality
Two Incredible quotes from this video:
"Life is full of experiences, why turn them down?"
"I don't want a trophy wife. I want a wife I can hoist a trophy up with."
Me and my gf broke up about two months ago. Looking back I’m very thankful she was very original and fun to be around.
To be fair at least she was the one to ask you out, so she’s not a complete shell
It is amazing how this story relates to mine, i had a girlfriend for a couple months, she was pretty but was as dry as the Sahara dessert, with a blank face waiting for me to make a comment, after i had been talking the whole time getting 3 word responses. So we ended up fortunately not working out and me wasting money and time on this female for months. So orange peanut i feel you bro a mid women with a good personality outweighs an attractive women with 0 personality
Me as a girl being called "unattractive" throughout middle school , had to actually build a personality to talk and make friends and now after I started taking care of my looks , highschool is pretty well Haha
Bro just speaks facts nonstop
OMG man, that's how exactly it is for me, even if there's a girl that is so attractive, I talk to these girls and then I see nothing going on with them, life wise and personality wise, they bore me to death, they start getting very unattractive for me instantly.
bro this reminded me of my ex who barely EVER even spoke a word irl and only had a really basic personality over text. rs🙏
Thank you peanut 🥜
@M Y T H I C A L N O V A i just did, sorry bro
You do NOT know how much I needed to hear this. And right on time, too.