I get being a stay at home mom or dad cuz usually they’re taking care of kids but being a stay at home bf/gf is a massive L since the breadwinner can just leave with no real repercussions
And as bad as it sounds, the sad reality is that he will simply trade her in for someone younger in a couple years. As she only provides her looks and "vibe" to the relationship, he has no real reason not to since he's got all the money/power here and plenty of options. Not a very good dynamic for her to be in.
@@solaire7046 I want a stay at home wife/girlfriend and I wouldn't do that. Finding a woman who actually wants to be a homemaker is pretty damn hard so I wouldn't throw that away. I honestly don't care if her days are easy as hell, as long as she makes my day easier and does the stuff around the house so I can relax after work.
as a woman, I cannot think of a bigger waste of space of a human than a "stay at home girlfriend" at least stay at home moms raise the next generation of humanity, but people who live this trend accomplish nothing in life
my sister is forever changed because of that stupid app. she rarely spends time with me because she’s too busy recording herself doing stupid trendy “dances”.
@@reallytheguy agreed, it’s just being at home and not doing anything that should have compensation spent towards their spouse. Same goes turned around, as stay at home dads are good and contribute to the family but stay at home husbands/boyfriends are a no no.
9:04 we just gonna skip over how she called the maid that cleans everything for her and removes what little labor and stress remains in her life "annoying" and "rude" ?
I remember seeing a video on this awhile back with a guy claiming to be a "stay at home bf." The video was him doing a bunch of chores and stuff and all of the comments were praising him for taking care of his women and the only thing I was thinking was "wow, this guy is doing the bare minimum? Holy shit." And "stay at home gf/bf" is not a thing. You're just jobless Edit: after watching this video I've put these people on a list. When I snap, I'm coming for them first
@@ambermartinez2616 in my experience, girls have no idea what a beautiful woman is. They seem to relate time it takes to "care" for themselves to how they actually look. News flash, it doesn't matter if you stick your face in a pound of oils and lubes every day, we can see through it
My mom stays at home and she’s amazing and does so much!! Because she is taking care of people!! She works hard and it is fulfilling for her! But someone without kids doing this is crazy imo.
stay at home girlfriend challenge: the only challenging part is convincing your boyfriend not to leave you after proposing the idea that you want to be a little parasite
i dont even understand how they can act like small, short tasks are such a huge deal and are time-consuming? A load of laundry takes like an hour or so (depending on how much you're putting in, and in her case, it's for 2 people) but she acted like it was a majority of her day....
She expects people to view minimum contribution as acceptable. Too bad for her we've accepted independence regardless of sex, since what she does doesn't amount to a damn thing.
I have reached that point of my life that I deleted each and every social media account and app from my phone. All I got left is youtube, but at least I control what I want to see here.
Yes you can be a stay at home girlfriend. As long as 1. House is spotless when I get home 2.all my laundry is done l 3. A fulfilling meal(not just salads) is ready for me when I get home 4. You don’t expect me to buy you expensive clothing, make up, or jewelry 5. You buy your own coffee
@@shawnseagraves1070 idk if there’s a deeper meaning behind this cause I don’t feel like putting thought into decoding this, but man would a wrestler gf be cool
I feel like the only situation where a stay at home is ok, is when there are kids involved. Both partners should have a job if they are living together. I can’t imagine just staying at home and doing nothing while my boyfriend pays the rent.
I don't want to limit it to kids, because I'd have no problem with a stay at home wife as long as she's taking good care of the house and me. My point is if you don't work and I come home to a pile of dirty dishes, laundry and an unmade bed and/or you can't spend time with me when I get home - that's when it becomes a problem. I make enough money for two (or more) people, and ngl I'd love to come back to a well kept home and a loving partner (who isn't also tired af from her work) after exhausting myself on a 12-hour workday. It's her choice tho, I'm not forcing her to pick anything.
@@mgk-metalgearkelly5054 I'm a girl, and the have no problem with being a stay at home wife/mother or working. In fact, I want to get married and work for a few years before having children (just to live a little before that, yk?) and then quit, raise and homeschool them. Devote everything to taking care of them, my husband, and the house and things he's given me. It knyl feels fair, and, as a girl, it's literally what i was born to do. Unlike most, I feel there's no shame in fitting into the role of "woman" and "wife". No, I feel pride. I'm happy to do that for them.
I'll never understand how people are so entertained on Tik Tok by other people just living an average life and doing normal every day things. Like this chick just opens the blinds and makes food and the video gets millions of views and thousands of likes
Me watching this as a wife and SAHM who: -got up at 5am to powerlift for 2 hours, make my kids and husband breakfast and pack his lunch for work, mowed the lawn, refinished the dining room chairs, deep cleaned the house, paid the bills and reviewed the budget, prepped meals for the week, wrote up a household and grocery shopping list, did laundry, read to the kids, colored with the kids, helped my 5yo with her schoolwork, dolled up for when my husband gets home from work,... 🧐 Like.... What even is this non-commital-lazy-nonsense.... Be a real woman. Marry a real man with traditional values. Make kids with that man. Stay at home and raise those kids. All in that order.
I have no idea how people live like this, life feels so empty whenever I'm not actively working or socializing, or at least getting something productive (not making the bed or opening the blinds)
“I would rather burn in the fiery pits than live in a world where I have to do the dishes once a day” *Never have I heard some so controversial yet so right*
true, my parents make me do the dishes whenever I came home. I'm gonna have to make an arrangement with my husband in the future that I will cook dinner literally every night as long as I don't have to do the dishes.
as a stay at home alone person, I can confirm my morning routine starts off with getting out of bed (10 mins) and then it's magically lunchtime, before I walk around in circles (20 seconds) and then I go to sleep. as you can see, a very fulfilling day
When I was unemployed and living on benefits I was truly miserable. Not having a job or something to focus on is true depression, don't get how these people can do it
I feel like these women could start their own business cleaning houses or something along those lines since it's what they're familiar doing for their boyfriends except they would actually get paid and be able to provide for themselves
I cannot see myself not working. I hate my job and it is very stressful- but not contributing to bills and groceries would be so much more stressful.💀 Even if my bf was totally fine with me leeching off of him, my guilt would be so bad. Also, if there’s no ring on the finger, that’s a lot of risk to take. These girls can do what they want… but following TikTok trend are so dumb.
And people say, men are selfish. I mean some are. But the man willing to provide everything even before marriage and not expecting in return from the girl is the most selfless human being.
Bro ive seen people that are not interesting at all and then i hear they have mad following on tiktok because they fake everything on there. Blows my mind
what happens when they break up?? she will be broke, jobless and potentially homeless. this life jusr is not gonna work out in the long run. also who doesnt wanna have there own money and finances? this is so stupid to me. and sounds so impulsive to do.
I think aiming to be content is fine, but i hate that it’s looked at as being a loser or a lame, but beats the alternative being depressed and angry at life but being content does just make you a NPC and time flies and you miss out on actually have a real life of your own
Facts like I'm in college and I've seen people get told "you don't have to go to parties to be happy, work on your future" and the other end saying "have fun right now and go out" And I'm like can I not do both? Like yeah I aim to be happy in the future but I'm trying to have fun in the present as well or I'll look back and regret not doing something fun. These are the good times and it's better to cherish them while also working for myself.
@@Watermelon74 i think things do come down to aiming for a designed or desired lifestyle but its hard to know what lifestyle you desire if you don’t go out and experience life hmm You know like how its difficult to learn a subject i think you can learn about yourself through experiences well what i mean is I been to a korean BQQ and i really enjoyed it so i would like that in my life but idk what im missing in life because i kind of don’t care but im trying to care now Im rambling but you kind of see how to understand other people better if you try to actually step into their shoes like people who say to travel i can see why they say that now and so on because i was forced to move around a lot and met interesting people But idk, time does fly i say do your utmost best in your studies and try to elicit the help of your professors even if it seems unorthodox they would be happy to see you succeed and be exceptional
@@justtekina6709 thanks for the advice 👍 there are times when I get arrogant and don't ask for help when needed. And that's true that you kind of do have to go out of your comfort zone to know what you desire most. Unfortunately some people commute in college and don't have time on their own, and when they do they're studying. Idk I'm just grateful that I have it easy but I can do better. Time management is a vital skill in life.
I don't think any lifestyle has meaning, I'd love to have a wife like this, someone who takes care of the house while I'm at work is ideal, then when I get home we do something like watch tv or go out to the park or go hiking. It doesn't matter what sort of lifestyle you live as long as you're not hurting anyone and you're enjoying it.
Bingo! People want to call her a "waste of space" welp she's taking a load off of her BF. She's cleaning up, cooking, spending time with him. We feel fulfilment differently.
@@Elliecham Girls like that are what I like to call "perfect", I'd love to be able to come home from work and not have to cook, clean, and do laundry. A girl that does all that is one in a million and they are the true prizes among people.
@@youngdolo8 You're shadow banned btw. I mean to each their own. Like I said on a different comment, people want to work, stay at home, be hobos/homeless, live in the jungle like Tarzan then fine. It's their lives and it's on them on how thry choose to live it.
In a bit of defense for the skiing bit, as someone who has lived near skiing hills my whole life and has been skiing for years, skiing can be good exercise for your legs and your core, especially when you ski on steeper hills (although the one's she was on didn't look very challenging) it can also take up a long portion of your day, depending on how long you stay on the hill.
It’s even more sad because these women aren’t chronically online, or artists, gamers, have hobbies, or do anything they atleast enjoy. At LEAST introverts who have no lives and stay on the computer all day (though still unhealthy of course) enjoy themselves temporarily. You can tell these women desperately want to live the lives of busy people, but can’t because they have nothing to do so it’s even more depressing
i feel like someone very industrious and resourceful could create a small business under this setup since they could devote a lot of time towards taking risks and developing skills and marketing an online presence without immediate repercussions (homelessness). but people with that ambition likely wouldn't want to be stay at home to begin with unless forced due to some injury or illness.
idk what's wrong with the first video, it all seems the normal thing you'd see in a relationship, traditional stuff of women staying home and taking care of it, am i missing something?
First girl great work with the laundry but there's a few things you're forgetting. Vacuuming, dusting, cooking 3 meals a day, grocery shopping, giving manz some COOCH, and a few others.
Have to disagree here. I agree that women shouldn’t leech off of a hard working husband but she was contributing and she kept the house clean and she was cooking and stuff, if she likes doing that I think that’s fine, and if the husband is cool with it too. Honestly the less people who have to be slaves to a job the better, it’s not like she did absolutely nothing and complained about her husband
I don't know which one I would hate more. Being a stay at home woman living all my life in the house or being someone who works a 9 to 5 every single day until my mid 60s. Both sound like a wasted life to me.
It’s almost like these tiktokers are reinventing the wheel. We have been told that traditional family structures, with a working man and a homemaker woman with a family is sexist and oppressive, and created a hustler culture which strains both to compete against each other. Now we’ve come to the point that these women want to return to that sort of more traditional way of operating things, but without the responsibilities of supporting a family too, as in providing for the home life. In fact it’s almost a corruption of that lifestyle, for there is no obligation, the girlfriend is just that, a girlfriend, not a wife who made a promise to their husband and vice versa, and especially if they seemingly won’t have kids in this situation, it’s just a corrupted lesser derivation of the traditional style of society.
you got a point . this is the reason why i deleted TikTok 3 days after installing and and advising every member of my family so they don't download it and its working .. now we are a happy family ^^.
I don't know what to think about this honestly. If she does all the chores, cleaning the house and i arrive to a nice cooked meal after a long day at work I'm happy. And if she is fulfilled by doing so and spending time with me on week end etc i don't see any problem. The only problem is if she's not fulfilled. But then it must be her that takes action to do what she wants to do in life
I mean....if I could snowboard every day I wouldn't complain too much. Or go hiking or something, but it would be bad I think to be so secluded from people constantly and never even have like a part time job kinda interaction.
This life sounds depressing. I am most happy when I do something productive like go to work. Not even going to school feels as rewarding as going to work and earning your pay.
I don’t really see a problem with this. if he has enough money to provide for her that’s his choice. it’s nicer as a boyfriend if your girlfriend is focused and cares for u while your working. it’s reallly up to the man
its fulfilling for someone out there people can do what they want. just encourage them to be happy. as someone with depression small tasks are a big thing so people are just being a bit too critical here.
Idk how they could stay sane for even a week doing this. I had a day of school off in the middle of the week, and I was sick so I couldn't do anything. That was one of the worst experiences of my entire life. It was depressing knowing I couldn't be productive. This is 10x worse. THEY CHOOSE THIS TORTURE.
Stay at home girlfriends - kind of a waste of space. Stay at home wives - fine as long as they do all the household chores every day. Stay at home moms - wonderful, we need more of these.
I like how they make making the coffee seem like a task all you do is grind the beans put in a filter and put water in then press a button and the grinding can be skipped cause you can buy pregrinded beans
TikTok trends feels like an alternate world that should never exist. TikTok makes me feel odd about the world.
it makes me violently angry
To be honest, they make the world look like it’s all sunshine and rainbows
Tiktok feels like what a modern day dystopian would feel like.
based jeremy
@@nicolasbolas2247 same
TikTok is cancer and you can't convince me otherwise.
You can see kids getting hurt on TikTok so that’s a plus but I guess even cancer has advantages
@@obi-wankenoli6073 Make a wish kids lmao
Tiktok is the route of all viruses and diseases exposing itself after all this time
Dont offend the ppl dying of cancer like that
@@Bithe_GetIt’s sarcasm, it isn’t supposed to be taken seriously
I get being a stay at home mom or dad cuz usually they’re taking care of kids but being a stay at home bf/gf is a massive L since the breadwinner can just leave with no real repercussions
Exactly
I would leave without any remorse
80% of divorces are initiated by women, so no.
And as bad as it sounds, the sad reality is that he will simply trade her in for someone younger in a couple years. As she only provides her looks and "vibe" to the relationship, he has no real reason not to since he's got all the money/power here and plenty of options. Not a very good dynamic for her to be in.
@@solaire7046 I want a stay at home wife/girlfriend and I wouldn't do that. Finding a woman who actually wants to be a homemaker is pretty damn hard so I wouldn't throw that away.
I honestly don't care if her days are easy as hell, as long as she makes my day easier and does the stuff around the house so I can relax after work.
as a woman, I cannot think of a bigger waste of space of a human than a "stay at home girlfriend"
at least stay at home moms raise the next generation of humanity, but people who live this trend accomplish nothing in life
The good point is that if those insane ppl was raising kids the kids would turn out worst than without a family
Metallica album gang
@@Cannon_The_Guy 🤘
Her life her choice
@@Traumatised311 nah its not her life we in the matrix
my sister is forever changed because of that stupid app. she rarely spends time with me because she’s too busy recording herself doing stupid trendy “dances”.
Rip
just break her phone lol
I'm so glad none of my siblings do that shit.
You can ask your wifi provider to block the app
Did you tell it to your dad ?
Those girls watched the morning routine scene from American Psycho for too many times and decided to recreate it without the exercise part
He’s literally me
I can't believe these girls would do that
or the getting a job part 💀
and theyre doing it the FUCKING entire day lmao☠️☠️
Typical insecure women behaviour of copying everything a man does without the responsibilities and hardwork part.
Moral of the story: If a girl is going to be a stay at home mom/wife/gf there needs to be some SERIOUS compensation for not being self sufficient.
Well being a stay at home mom you’re actually doing something all day
@@reallytheguy agreed, it’s just being at home and not doing anything that should have compensation spent towards their spouse. Same goes turned around, as stay at home dads are good and contribute to the family but stay at home husbands/boyfriends are a no no.
@@reallytheguy Like raising the next generation and keeping the home clean
You should only be a stay at home MOM. No kids? You work.
@@reallytheguy yeah imagine mothers who homeschool their children that's probably a lot of work
I’m a single mother of 3 kids with 2 jobs and I work my butt off constantly, these girls are in for a rude awakening
Keep up the good work ma’am
Respect to you ma'am
I’ve never done said this before but. Good job Queen 👑
You are a real woman!
I’m terribly sorry, you must be insanely sleep deprived
as a woman, agreed tbh, fake feminists are gonna get mad over this and when i saw this tiktok trend it was such an ick. 💀
But the video is 12 minutes long and i's been 4 minutes 💀
@@enikay236 watching this and commenting what you wanna say 💀
@@y9khvad I want to say that there is too many skull emojis on my screen
Feminism since 2016 has became a chinese fueled tool to divide us... single women are battling against families.
@@qk7x LOL
9:04 we just gonna skip over how she called the maid that cleans everything for her and removes what little labor and stress remains in her life "annoying" and "rude" ?
Damn I didn’t even catch that, why do they even have a maid if the girlfriends just sits at home all day watching movies.
Disgusting behavior as expected
i was looking for this exact comment lmfao. what a disgusting human being.
The guy should just leave her, it's clear that she is a parasite feeding off of him
Underrated comment
Must be nice living without any real responsibilities and counting activities like snowboarding and online shopping as the day's big tasks.
I’m literally still a teenager and I have 100x more responsibilities than these people lol
@@oliviasommerville4733 same 💀
I would love to make a parody of these, where the girl just sits alone screaming in her room for several hours.
now if you have female friends you could do this
do you?
@@lightsupportweapon yes
@@wespapes2054dewit
@@lightsupportweapon 🤓
that would be me if i were to be a “stay at home gf”. i’d go insane
I remember seeing a video on this awhile back with a guy claiming to be a "stay at home bf." The video was him doing a bunch of chores and stuff and all of the comments were praising him for taking care of his women and the only thing I was thinking was "wow, this guy is doing the bare minimum? Holy shit."
And "stay at home gf/bf" is not a thing. You're just jobless
Edit: after watching this video I've put these people on a list. When I snap, I'm coming for them first
You doing ok?
No need to put them on the list that's too cruel. Anything but the list
Stay at home gf is a thing, not a job however. But being jobless as a woman isn't that bad
@@Mkr123-12 the only people who should be "stay at home" are parents.
@@soli_van2383 I've got my potato peeler ready
Tiktok in general ruins women
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Was just thinking this
tik tok ruins everyone
@Chad 007 why don't you go there then
@Chad 007 yeah for your mum
For all the skin-care routines this woman does she still manages to end up looking like a pickled egg
Oh please...why lie about her appearance?? You might not agree with her life style. But, she's young & pretty. Don't lie dude
@@ambermartinez2616 Being young doesnt mean you're pretty though. How is me having a difference in opinion than you lying?
@@ambermartinez2616 Massive L right here.
@@ambermartinez2616 yeah i agree but face is the most subjective part of a women
@@ambermartinez2616 in my experience, girls have no idea what a beautiful woman is. They seem to relate time it takes to "care" for themselves to how they actually look. News flash, it doesn't matter if you stick your face in a pound of oils and lubes every day, we can see through it
My mom stays at home and she’s amazing and does so much!! Because she is taking care of people!! She works hard and it is fulfilling for her! But someone without kids doing this is crazy imo.
stay at home girlfriend challenge: the only challenging part is convincing your boyfriend not to leave you after proposing the idea that you want to be a little parasite
Fax
i dont even understand how they can act like small, short tasks are such a huge deal and are time-consuming? A load of laundry takes like an hour or so (depending on how much you're putting in, and in her case, it's for 2 people) but she acted like it was a majority of her day....
And a lot of that jour is just the machine doing its job.
@@wyattjohnson5181 Ikr? It's not like she's washing it by hand 😂😂😂
yeah, takes me about 10 minutes to sweep the house for clothes and 2 minutes to swap loads.
@@juliad8839 hey, if her significant other is dumb enough to let her leach, then it is their own fault.
She expects people to view minimum contribution as acceptable. Too bad for her we've accepted independence regardless of sex, since what she does doesn't amount to a damn thing.
I have reached that point of my life that I deleted each and every social media account and app from my phone. All I got left is youtube, but at least I control what I want to see here.
Bruh
I literally only use Snapchat out of necessity, I'd lose touch with half my friends otherwise. 💀
Things normal people do on the side without even realizing it. I would wither away creatively and emotionally if I lived like that.
Her entire daily routine is equivalent to just having a day off of work 💀
9:59 wow a life without work , kids, studying or anything else?? I can’t imagine what these people think about
Yes you can be a stay at home girlfriend. As long as
1. House is spotless when I get home
2.all my laundry is done l
3. A fulfilling meal(not just salads) is ready for me when I get home
4. You don’t expect me to buy you expensive clothing, make up, or jewelry
5. You buy your own coffee
Such a W
If they can’t fight back they aren’t good enough for you
@@shawnseagraves1070 idk if there’s a deeper meaning behind this cause I don’t feel like putting thought into decoding this, but man would a wrestler gf be cool
finally someone with a brain commenting on this video
Fat W
I feel like the only situation where a stay at home is ok, is when there are kids involved. Both partners should have a job if they are living together. I can’t imagine just staying at home and doing nothing while my boyfriend pays the rent.
I don't want to limit it to kids, because I'd have no problem with a stay at home wife as long as she's taking good care of the house and me. My point is if you don't work and I come home to a pile of dirty dishes, laundry and an unmade bed and/or you can't spend time with me when I get home - that's when it becomes a problem. I make enough money for two (or more) people, and ngl I'd love to come back to a well kept home and a loving partner (who isn't also tired af from her work) after exhausting myself on a 12-hour workday. It's her choice tho, I'm not forcing her to pick anything.
@@mgk-metalgearkelly5054 i respect you man
@@mgk-metalgearkelly5054 I'm a girl, and the have no problem with being a stay at home wife/mother or working. In fact, I want to get married and work for a few years before having children (just to live a little before that, yk?) and then quit, raise and homeschool them. Devote everything to taking care of them, my husband, and the house and things he's given me. It knyl feels fair, and, as a girl, it's literally what i was born to do. Unlike most, I feel there's no shame in fitting into the role of "woman" and "wife". No, I feel pride. I'm happy to do that for them.
Based
I can't imagine being the boyfriend ☠️
I'll never understand how people are so entertained on Tik Tok by other people just living an average life and doing normal every day things. Like this chick just opens the blinds and makes food and the video gets millions of views and thousands of likes
welcome to tiktok
Welcome to the weird side of the society
Me watching this as a wife and SAHM who:
-got up at 5am to powerlift for 2 hours, make my kids and husband breakfast and pack his lunch for work, mowed the lawn, refinished the dining room chairs, deep cleaned the house, paid the bills and reviewed the budget, prepped meals for the week, wrote up a household and grocery shopping list, did laundry, read to the kids, colored with the kids, helped my 5yo with her schoolwork, dolled up for when my husband gets home from work,... 🧐 Like.... What even is this non-commital-lazy-nonsense.... Be a real woman. Marry a real man with traditional values. Make kids with that man. Stay at home and raise those kids. All in that order.
Your life sounds horrid
@@user-mt2co8ip4uto the redditor like you oh it surely does. I bet you'd prefer to be passed around at a gay bar on a Saturday right?
Your comment about living life so our memories can have substance hit me really hard, Mr. Peanut. Thanks for that, needed to hear it.
I have no idea how people live like this, life feels so empty whenever I'm not actively working or socializing, or at least getting something productive (not making the bed or opening the blinds)
Everyone wants to be a stay at home, but society needs to happen, so we work
We’re the better for it too
It looked kinda fun, especially the skiing day. I just don't know why she looked miserable?
@@chloereed2434because she has the personality of an unfrosted poptart
“I would rather burn in the fiery pits than live in a world where I have to do the dishes once a day”
*Never have I heard some so controversial yet so right*
Touching the wiggly food and nasty grime of dishes 😭
true, my parents make me do the dishes whenever I came home. I'm gonna have to make an arrangement with my husband in the future that I will cook dinner literally every night as long as I don't have to do the dishes.
It's not that bad if you have a dishwasher. If you don't I'd agree with you.
@@alek124. Wear gloves.
That's how affairs happen. After a couple of years they will be dying to bring some excitement back into their lifes
as a stay at home alone person, I can confirm my morning routine starts off with getting out of bed (10 mins) and then it's magically lunchtime, before I walk around in circles (20 seconds) and then I go to sleep. as you can see, a very fulfilling day
Extremely efficient, well done.
You've inspired me to actually gain weight. I've always been underweight so i needed to gain weight, and im now doing exercise and being healthy :)
When I was unemployed and living on benefits I was truly miserable. Not having a job or something to focus on is true depression, don't get how these people can do it
I feel like these women could start their own business cleaning houses or something along those lines since it's what they're familiar doing for their boyfriends except they would actually get paid and be able to provide for themselves
why make more money when the dude obviously earns more then enough for both
And once again you are spitting straight truth
Tiktok purposely puts people against each other.. and they do not allow it in their own country.
Literally.
I cannot see myself not working. I hate my job and it is very stressful- but not contributing to bills and groceries would be so much more stressful.💀 Even if my bf was totally fine with me leeching off of him, my guilt would be so bad. Also, if there’s no ring on the finger, that’s a lot of risk to take. These girls can do what they want… but following TikTok trend are so dumb.
Women used to stay home because they had like a dozen kids and there was no washing machines etc so it took hours this doesn’t apply anymore.
@@Raya-ir4tm it takes like two or three hours a week for household stuff these days
Her keeping the house clean is nice and all but there needs to be more substance to her life
As a dude that works 2 days a week and stays at home pretty much the rest of the days I can confirm it is nowhere near an ideal life
Is there even a tiktok trend that DOESN'T negatively affect women
I know, all of these trends are just degenerate shit
tiktok is literally designed to negatively affect women
Why can't people just realize people will always try to look good in trends so they obviously fake shit up.
say peanut no one bats an eye. say poopcum society goes wild
this is a certified society classic
Wouldn't it be pisscum
And people say, men are selfish. I mean some are. But the man willing to provide everything even before marriage and not expecting in return from the girl is the most selfless human being.
Also foolish
I'd be so depressed if I were her ngl
They advertise it as if people were interested. It’s just trying to make people jealous.
“Stay at home girlfriend”
Translation: freeloader
lifestyle prostitute*
First girl cooked AND CLEAND dont take that for granted
If the man provides for her financially and she is a stay at home girlfriend then it's fair.
@@jujibuu9426 I could literally just go to a restaurant and it would be less expensive and less mentally draining
Bro ive seen people that are not interesting at all and then i hear they have mad following on tiktok because they fake everything on there. Blows my mind
Orangepeanut never fails to entertain !!
what happens when they break up?? she will be broke, jobless and potentially homeless. this life jusr is not gonna work out in the long run. also who doesnt wanna have there own money and finances? this is so stupid to me. and sounds so impulsive to do.
I think aiming to be content is fine, but i hate that it’s looked at as being a loser or a lame, but beats the alternative being depressed and angry at life but being content does just make you a NPC and time flies and you miss out on actually have a real life of your own
Facts like I'm in college and I've seen people get told "you don't have to go to parties to be happy, work on your future" and the other end saying "have fun right now and go out"
And I'm like can I not do both? Like yeah I aim to be happy in the future but I'm trying to have fun in the present as well or I'll look back and regret not doing something fun. These are the good times and it's better to cherish them while also working for myself.
@@Watermelon74 i think things do come down to aiming for a designed or desired lifestyle but its hard to know what lifestyle you desire if you don’t go out and experience life hmm
You know like how its difficult to learn a subject i think you can learn about yourself through experiences well what i mean is
I been to a korean BQQ and i really enjoyed it so i would like that in my life but idk what im missing in life because i kind of don’t care but im trying to care now
Im rambling but you kind of see how to understand other people better if you try to actually step into their shoes like people who say to travel i can see why they say that now and so on because i was forced to move around a lot and met interesting people
But idk, time does fly i say do your utmost best in your studies and try to elicit the help of your professors even if it seems unorthodox they would be happy to see you succeed and be exceptional
@@justtekina6709 thanks for the advice 👍 there are times when I get arrogant and don't ask for help when needed.
And that's true that you kind of do have to go out of your comfort zone to know what you desire most. Unfortunately some people commute in college and don't have time on their own, and when they do they're studying.
Idk I'm just grateful that I have it easy but I can do better. Time management is a vital skill in life.
Idk man id be down to be a stay at home guy if I get to being hot and do whatever the fuck I want, seems like a cheatcode
It's exactly what I do. Comes with its own rules and regulations though.
4:48 is this the first time OrangePeanut has actually chuckled?!?!
It’s one thing when you have kids to take care of, but just staying at home ain’t it
Funny how that's their lives and here i am studying until my eyes fall out.
I not too long ago subbed to your channel. I don't regret it one bit.
As soon as I drop in I see swole bro, 10/10 video already
I would actually prefer a stay at home girlfriend to cook and clean but only if she agrees to one day be a stay at home mother.
In the first womans life, it is as empty as her head. That is not a life. I would hate that to be my daughters existence.
I don't think any lifestyle has meaning, I'd love to have a wife like this, someone who takes care of the house while I'm at work is ideal, then when I get home we do something like watch tv or go out to the park or go hiking. It doesn't matter what sort of lifestyle you live as long as you're not hurting anyone and you're enjoying it.
Bingo! People want to call her a "waste of space" welp she's taking a load off of her BF. She's cleaning up, cooking, spending time with him. We feel fulfilment differently.
@@Elliecham Girls like that are what I like to call "perfect", I'd love to be able to come home from work and not have to cook, clean, and do laundry. A girl that does all that is one in a million and they are the true prizes among people.
@@Elliecham She is a waste of space. She does the bare minimum.
@@youngdolo8 You're shadow banned btw. I mean to each their own. Like I said on a different comment, people want to work, stay at home, be hobos/homeless, live in the jungle like Tarzan then fine. It's their lives and it's on them on how thry choose to live it.
Nah they have a maid and he's paying for basically everything
I just realized how much peanut's eyebrows move
Man you’ve grown a LOT. I watched you in 2019 when you had a few thousand subscribers and now your more popular and JACKED.
In a bit of defense for the skiing bit, as someone who has lived near skiing hills my whole life and has been skiing for years, skiing can be good exercise for your legs and your core, especially when you ski on steeper hills (although the one's she was on didn't look very challenging) it can also take up a long portion of your day, depending on how long you stay on the hill.
It’s even more sad because these women aren’t chronically online, or artists, gamers, have hobbies, or do anything they atleast enjoy. At LEAST introverts who have no lives and stay on the computer all day (though still unhealthy of course) enjoy themselves temporarily. You can tell these women desperately want to live the lives of busy people, but can’t because they have nothing to do so it’s even more depressing
i feel like someone very industrious and resourceful could create a small business under this setup since they could devote a lot of time towards taking risks and developing skills and marketing an online presence without immediate repercussions (homelessness). but people with that ambition likely wouldn't want to be stay at home to begin with unless forced due to some injury or illness.
These videos are what every other person on the planet does WHILE having a job or doing something worthwhile with their time.
"Stay at home girlfriend" Way to rebrand sugarbaby
There is only one thing TikTok needs. Chemotherapy
It needs to die
that's not funny
@@peqnii3404 it wasn’t a joke
@@mistawalker2985 well whatever it was it's rude
@@peqnii3404 it needs chemotherapy
I did not study all these years to become a stay at home girlfriend. I mean its best to stay independent, what if he decides to dump you.
idk what's wrong with the first video, it all seems the normal thing you'd see in a relationship, traditional stuff of women staying home and taking care of it, am i missing something?
Their attitude is not traditional tho , the expecte you to do job and house chores with them
Yeah you're missing that we live in 2023 not 1923...
@@kryptonite3781 the first women doesn't seem to? The dude is out working and she's taking care of the house
Trad stuff is cringe. It puts the whole burden on the man.
First girl great work with the laundry but there's a few things you're forgetting. Vacuuming, dusting, cooking 3 meals a day, grocery shopping, giving manz some COOCH, and a few others.
Have to disagree here. I agree that women shouldn’t leech off of a hard working husband but she was contributing and she kept the house clean and she was cooking and stuff, if she likes doing that I think that’s fine, and if the husband is cool with it too. Honestly the less people who have to be slaves to a job the better, it’s not like she did absolutely nothing and complained about her husband
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The chair is squeaking because Peanut is too massive from the progress of his gigachad transformation
I get if she was taking care of the kids but Dawg she alone 😅
I don't know which one I would hate more. Being a stay at home woman living all my life in the house or being someone who works a 9 to 5 every single day until my mid 60s. Both sound like a wasted life to me.
4:44 When a Chair disturbs ur vid 💀
thank you mr peanut for something to watch on the treadmill
Always enjoy Peanut's based takes.
Honestly my biggest issue is how if a boyfriend posted this kind of stuff the backlash would be 10x worse
It’s almost like these tiktokers are reinventing the wheel. We have been told that traditional family structures, with a working man and a homemaker woman with a family is sexist and oppressive, and created a hustler culture which strains both to compete against each other. Now we’ve come to the point that these women want to return to that sort of more traditional way of operating things, but without the responsibilities of supporting a family too, as in providing for the home life. In fact it’s almost a corruption of that lifestyle, for there is no obligation, the girlfriend is just that, a girlfriend, not a wife who made a promise to their husband and vice versa, and especially if they seemingly won’t have kids in this situation, it’s just a corrupted lesser derivation of the traditional style of society.
you got a point .
this is the reason why i deleted TikTok 3 days after installing and and advising every member of my family so they don't download it and its working .. now we are a happy family ^^.
this a certified doomed society classic
How would anyone even live happy like that
That liquid diet got my toilet crying
Orangepeanut become a boxer and when he walks into the ring the orangepeanut outro music should play
I don't know what to think about this honestly. If she does all the chores, cleaning the house and i arrive to a nice cooked meal after a long day at work I'm happy. And if she is fulfilled by doing so and spending time with me on week end etc i don't see any problem. The only problem is if she's not fulfilled. But then it must be her that takes action to do what she wants to do in life
Yes. This. ^^
I mean....if I could snowboard every day I wouldn't complain too much. Or go hiking or something, but it would be bad I think to be so secluded from people constantly and never even have like a part time job kinda interaction.
Well 1st girl's cooking, keeping the house clean, doing laundry etc. I don't see the problem here.
Me neither bro, I usually agree with him but in this video it seems like he's just hating, I'm talking about the first women
This life sounds depressing. I am most happy when I do something productive like go to work. Not even going to school feels as rewarding as going to work and earning your pay.
Soooo basically they just became a housewife. I like how feminism just came back full circle to traditional values.
I myself by just watching this kind of routine felt so depressed they dont do shit !
I don’t really see a problem with this. if he has enough money to provide for her that’s his choice. it’s nicer as a boyfriend if your girlfriend is focused and cares for u while your working. it’s reallly up to the man
its fulfilling for someone out there people can do what they want. just encourage them to be happy. as someone with depression small tasks are a big thing so people are just being a bit too critical here.
Idk how they could stay sane for even a week doing this. I had a day of school off in the middle of the week, and I was sick so I couldn't do anything. That was one of the worst experiences of my entire life. It was depressing knowing I couldn't be productive. This is 10x worse. THEY CHOOSE THIS TORTURE.
Bro I swear having nothing to work on for too long is the worst.
Stay at home girlfriends - kind of a waste of space. Stay at home wives - fine as long as they do all the household chores every day. Stay at home moms - wonderful, we need more of these.
Tiktok will ruin society
I like how they make making the coffee seem like a task all you do is grind the beans put in a filter and put water in then press a button and the grinding can be skipped cause you can buy pregrinded beans
But then when you say "women have it easier in life" they berate you for it lmao!
fr 😂😂
Lol, real talk no gender wars though😂
They cut out all the scrolling through instagram
I had a girlfriend who wanted to marry me but she wasn't going to put the effort of finding work so I left her and I think I made the right decision
you made a great decision👑
You most definitely did
You did
I guess it depends if she wanted to be a stay at home mother instead.