Love how OP in story 1 is keeping in contact with all his other relatives, it's only the parents and younger brothers that don't get to see him. Good luck for the future.
Oh man Jess must be an Olympian with the level of mental gymnastics she's performed throughout this trainwreck... And the level of projection, calling Kay a man stealer!! I mean, okay!! Go off then!! 😂😂😂
Truly, genuinely wealthy people, the old money type whose great grandkids will never ever have to work a day in their lives, are raised to be the custodians of said wealth. You won't find them flaunting anything. No designer brands, nor queueing up to buy the latest eyePhone. What you will notice however is that the clothes are always good quality, amd they always fit well. The watch is probably more expensive than your average Rolex, but it's not in any way flashy, just elegant and oozes quality. You've probably never heard the brand before. The car is quiet and comfortable - again clearly well-made and luxurious, but not in any way flashy. In person they'll be more polite and helpful than anyone else you meet.
@@zathtanks, and she had good reason to. The upside of her ex bf finding out is that he and their friend outed themselves as the mooches and golddiggers that they are.
When I found out one of my friends was wealthy I told him to keep that shit to himself cause there are absolutely people that will take advantage of that shit. I also try and pay for both of us whenever we hang out just because yeah, the money doesn’t matter to me
I had a wealthy friend I hung out with a little. The guy was really nice and his family made each of their kids earn their own wealth. But when my dad saw the house he was dropping me off at, I could tell my dad was fine with his daughter being alone with a wealthy guy alone even though with other guys I hung out with, he was not ok with. Personally, I just wanted to make sure me friend was well cause he was ill. We would spend time playing pool then he would news to go back to rest and I would take my leave. Years later we hadn't talked and decided to hang out. We would meet up up eat lunch together and I had a habit of sneaking off to pay the tab and he would wonder what happened to the bill only for the waitress to point out I paid already 😂😂😂. I'm not rich, but I had a job so I was happy to show I wasn't after his wealth. This was my way of thanking him when he saved me at once dinner where I was going to treat him for his birthday but I came up short on cash and we were at one of the valleys best restaurants. He paid the tab and I paid the tip.
The OP and Ashley story, I hate how so many redditors put all of the responsibility on OP, while she can do whatever she wants. Wonder how it would be if genders were reversed.
Its not just the gender reverse, i think OP did not mention everything what Ashley got up to and i dont get why they don´t see that OP did everything he could to keep the "relationship" between him and Ashley going when she put her other partners over him.
I genuinly don't get the thought process of the friends when they found out OP was rich: 'Why didn't you trust us enough to tell us you're rich' maybe because her finances are none of your business? As long as she's paying for her share that's all that matters, so why are you entitled to know how much money your friend makes? 'It's ok, OP is rich she'll pick up *our* tab' Nope, unless *she* agreed to it beforehand or drunk it herself she is under no obligation to pay for your greedy asses, especially not when her own boyfriend gets tipsy and uses her money as his money. If I was a part of that friend group I would be shaming the boyfriend and friends that think her money should be spent on them because she has it, because that is not how you treat someone you care about, she is not a cash-cow she's a friend so pull your head in and stop treating like her money as such a big deal you a-holes. Sorry for the rant, I have a friend from high school who's family is well off and just imagining her in that kind of situation brought out rage mode. If people change how they treat you (good or bad) because of your net worth, then they've shown *their* worth as friends so treat *them* accordingly.
For the Jess story, only an absolute asshole would keep out or advise someone to keep out. A marriage built on a lie is not a real marriage, Matt would be manipulated all his life if his spouse thought it would make her life easier.
Ashley is a fool he gave her what she wanted but she thought she'd have all the fun and he wouldn't polyamorous relationship are hard work both have to be confident in their love
Story 2. I'm not classist. But, it's because of people like this boyfriend why the wealthy should marry within their social group. At least the person isn't with them for their money.
Or at least try getting a feel for how'd they act on the first date, like ask them "what would you do if you were rich?" as a quote unquote "fun" question.
Having been the proverbial fly on the wall with different rich groups(I'm a custom tailor it happens) I would argue their form of um... wealthy exploitation is a different beast by by no means less(possibly more) destructive. The difference between these two points isn't their greed, but who has more ability to enact greedy impulses. OP sounds like a good person and is genuinely trying to just live her best life, and that can be hard when you are tied to money but don't want to be known or used for that. She's privileged so yeah... there needs to be that degree of self-awareness, but that doesn't mean she should just not try to broaden her horizons or find someone she meshes with outside her class circle.
My ex-boyfriend (do not ask) sometimes offers me to give me money when I complain about being broke because of an expensive depense, like my cat's surgery, but I just like to complain (I have economics because I try to be careful so I can pay my sisters' studies). I would feel so bad taking his money. Even when he offered me a tablet for my birthday I felt a little ashamed.
Story stream : even in big chat, it's shitty to say awful things. One difference is that bigger streamers have often mods to look for the chat and bad people quickly
Story 3: classic story of she wanted to open the relationship only on her end and knew OP would not be walked on, Ops girlfriend just wanted to cheat and not feel guilty, she's for the streets; she made the bed, she can sleep on it, to bad its outside.
Sounds to me like someone finally realised that the grass isn't greener. Had she agreed to permanently close the marriage when offered, she'd have been in a good position, but I don't think it's dawned on her yet that she's not in her 20s any more. From this point on, the only way for her is down. The wise move would have been to lock the guy down and actually build a life with him. Their "marriage" is as good as over. He should leave her to the streets.
Story 4, OP pulled a reverse uno on his (cheating) wife and it is beautiful.😂 This is classic karma for cheaters who want to get away with it and it backfires when the dates fail and their spouse/SO finds better people that may be potential new spouse/SO. Wife (ex) is never going change and will still try to skirt around the set rules that were set. Now OP can finally find someone who isn’t a worthless cheater.
Oh, the last story. The nerve of the brother and mother. Yall want to wish sickness and death on me and my child? Well if something happens to either one or both of us, I would be damn sure to take one or both of them down 6 feet as well. Like, wtf does/says that? I wouldn’t wish that on my worse enemy. To that to your own flesh and blood is ridiculous.
I’m slightly wealthy, way better off than most families around here. I had a lot of issues making friends growing up because they’d suddenly change after being invited to my house for the first time and seeing all we had. It sucks. I feel bad for that OP, because I’ve been there.
For story 2 i completely agreewith OP because honestly i hate the saying money changes you because most times than not money just shows who you really are and i personally think thing that jusr goes to show how great of a person OP was
I'mma be honest, I do not understand Open marriages. I can understand a polyamrous thing between like, 3-4 people if they're all into each other. But why even bother to get married to someone if you don't want to be exclusive? If you want to keep dating around and stuff, then just... don't get married in the first place? It just seems like a recipe for heartache al around
"I have a stream that's important to me and my fiancee and friends came into chat and completely destroyed it and drove off all of my viewers and followers, but I'm ok with it, because they all said sorry......" SMH
Open relationships are very rarely fully successful. 90% of the time, one person is the victim of manipulation and is not getting what they need from their relationship but feel railroaded into staying.
From my perspective as an old lady happy with my 40-year, completely monogamous marriage, the open relationship post is a slam dunk for his side. She had absolutely zero issues with the limited boundries of their relationship so long as she was the one calling the shots and having the majority of the fun. When he suddenly found his stride in the lifestyle and began to have fun without her, she suddenly demanded an exclusive relationship. Despite what she claims, at least in this season of their lives, neither of them are ready for monogamy. At least not with each other. Relationships are meant to be equitable and require open and honest communication. Without fairness, at least one partner will eventually develop feelings of resentment, and the relationship will ultimately fail. Or worse.
Whats with the random 1 frame pictures last videos? 7:12 on this one, then previous one had a random picture of a woman with no text. Damn jumpscares 😂😅
I sincerely hope you don't ever let your mother that wished death on your baby ever meet that babie. I'd never ever trust her with anything after that deranged disgusting wish.
So I don't do open relationships and I'm not sure the difference between singers and poly. But the swingers I know obey their relationship rules and if you was swinging behind your partners back you are just cheating. Doesnt seem like this is too far off
Open relationship is when you are together, but will go separately and see other people. Poly I’ve seen a few ways, either each partner has other long term relationships or the couple will include another into their preexisting relationship. Swingers are when 2 separate couples will trade partners or do a big foursome sometimes.
Story 3: OP does not understand streaming. She did not lose viewers because her finance and friends were idiots in chat, based on how she said she reacted to her BF I can confidently say she lost viewers due to her *reaction* to her fiance and friends being idiots in chat. Screaming at her BF after and calling her friend a b*tch during, this is likely the stuff that drove viewers away. Key piece of advice (that she won’t see and won’t help anyone here): if you make a big deal out of it then it becomes a big deal on stream, if you ignore it and just ban them then no one will care
in the first story I dont get how they like their kids that do nothing but play videogames all day more than the kid that is athletic, hardworking and generally doesn't even take up much of their money because they dont give him shit.
That couple... That's not a healthy polyamorous relationship at all. I don't think they can save what they have, she's extremely selfish and narcissistic. I agree she's very manipulative and OP needs to break up. She doesn't really care, she just wants control over him.
WTAF???? What sort of losers would destroy their family relationship over someone refusing to hand over a couple thousand pounds intended for their own child's education. Never mind the fact that approximately 2/3 of that money was gifted to their, yet to be born child by her husbands parents. Not a cent of it came from her family. I honestly can not imagine how that boy and his sister managed to grow into the responsible young adults OP portrays them as. Assuming he has been entirely truthful about this, I can only assume their aunt and uncle had a whole lot to do with it. Imagine being so pathetic and immature as a parent of two teens that you not only have failed to save a cent for their education but refuse to allow your children to work to earn their own savings? All that while inexplicably demanding the money set aside for someone else's child by people not even related to them. If I were OP's inlaw, I would offer to play the bad guy and "demand" legal control of the fund to prevent op's family from getting their nasty, sticky fingers on it. In their position, I wouldn't mind in the slightest if op's family hated me with every fiber of their beings. Those are clearly not the sort of people I would ever want in my life. And all that over a measly 2500 pounds. 🙄 Good Lord!
Story 4 gave me real toxic vibes. And I mean that from both sides. Although everyone can understand where op was coming from and how Ashley’s behavior was weird and distrustful, I still think that first series of comments between op and the Reddit people showed a bit of a toxicity from op. Even though I understand that it’s a poly relationship and all, she did feel hurt in someone with the scene she walked into and instead of op trying to hear her out and explain his side, he shut her down immediately and even argued with the commenters when they tried to show him he didn’t have the best reaction and he could’ve done better. At least now they are getting away from each other and are going to go their separate ways, maybe find something better for area h of them. Btw I just wanna point out that none of that excludes that Ashley was purposely trying to test his boundaries and overstep limits that op clearly traced. She is still in the wrong completely, but I just wanted to add that perspective because I did think ops reaction to the comments felt a bit too defensive and unwilling to try and see he could’ve done better
Girl I thought the same thing you explained everything that I was thinking down to a T lol 😆 I thought I was the only one lmao 😂 I’m glad they ended things both just weren’t meant to be anymore to much was done on both sides there was no more trust and when there no more trust that’s a recipe for disaster 😂
Story 5 “… I think I accomplished MY goal.” Like I understand OP was being protective of his older sister, but I still think he should’ve listened to the initial comments. Because he ended up acting on that only for his anger, and his sister’s boyfriend second. Because he should’ve talked to his sister first to save her the possible humiliation from bringing up that situation AND reminding her of a bitter relationship from the past. I understand he meaned well, but he should’ve gone by that in a healthier and less egotistical way.
You know why people who are REALLY rich have money? Because thy know how to spend it. They don't splurge, don't ostentate, keep low profiles and bugdet wisely.
So something I don’t do is ask people to pay for me I feel bad when I ask my parents taught me to ask people for money or to cover me and never pay them back is very tacky I was taught this at a young age so even if my friends are rich or not I feel super guilty to ask them to pay for my Red Bull so to ask for a 400+ dollar drink is crazy to me if I even though about that I might just have a heart attack and pass
The streaming story... good lord. Just following it was Herculean. Who gives a crap? I mean ok you did your stream, you had an issue, it won't be the last time. It just came off as whiny and childish to me. Maybe I'm mean but Geez.
Herclurlan is the right word. I was struggling reading it out loud too lmao. In a black a white perspective, OPs feelings were hurt and she had a problem with her boyfriend's and friend's behavior and that matters. But in a full color perspective, like you said, it just comes across as whinny and the way the story was told/presented just made me feel like I was listening to a teenager. - Narrator
To be honest, girls do have a harder time streaming because; on top of being compared to top streamers, they are constantly belittled due to being girls streaming, they are also constantly sexualized, and to top it all off, they are told that they play the games wrong. Not only is it embarrassing, but it also makes them feel inferior. Just wanted to give an FYI.
Funny how most of these open relationship stories end up going the same way. F asks to open, has as much fun as they want, M works on themselves and starts having fun aswell, if not moreso, F gets jealous, and wants to close the relationship. Clockwork.
I didn't like story 3 either and it was hard to follow and honestly its not even that bad. When I streamed on TikTok there were many many times people said I should unalive myself cuz im a plussize woman. Not sure if this video has the story about the rich girlfriend with shitty boyfriend(I've been listening for hours to these stories) but to ReallySparked, I ain't rich but I'll buy you ice cream 🍨🍦
Fewer steps. It's just lazier. "I want to cheat on you but don't want the effort of hiding it, so just accept it kay" Only good thing is to dump now, not later when finally figuring it out
I’d go more towards wanting both committed and non committed relationships at the same time if a second partner wasn’t already in mind when an open relationship is proposed.
Some people can do it and do it well, I'm friends with an open couple who are quite wholesome and lovely. But it's definitely difficult and requires full honesty. Some people are just incapable of being honest with their partners and themselves.
3rd story is so annoying and you started a month ago and got a website already? She sounds like she can't control her emotions and takes things too harshly imagine when she starts getting hate comments
Jess story. They are not meant to be. Who knows how many lies she fed him. OP is assuming that this is the only lie. I doubt it. Someone like this is borderline abusive.
I feel so bad for the last one what the hell is wrong with keeping your fund that you and your husband put into for your future baby then to be labeled selfish and that they would rather them not have this baby at all and the brother saying he’d teach them how to take care of others I’d say you’d be talking to air because there’s no way in hell you or mom are ever coming near me or my family just disgusting she was even kind enough to offer for them to do jobs around the her house to help but no and even in the update it seems like they did do the stuff around her house both her niece and nephew and had 1000 a piece but for those to to still be at it and wish ill on the baby and mom then to tell the family and get anonymous texts about killings myself or that the baby should die what sick ppl I’d screen shot every single thing on who said what make it public saying that these ppl are shaming me for wanting to keep the money that me and my husband put into a savings for are soon to be baby that they decided to ask when we told them we were pregnant 🤰 and that they didn’t understand why we weren’t going to and that we offered different solutions but that he turned down everyone that now they blasted to there fb and that these ppl are wishing me death and my unborn baby and I’d block them and just watch as I put there info and number out for them to harass lmao 😂 I know it’s against the law to do that and I’d probably get in trouble but I don’t mind lmao 😂 glad she blocked them there to toxic she just needs to focus on her and the baby
Story #2: All the hyphens, parenthesis, commas, ect. are considered proper grammar. If you can't handle reading correctly typed sentences, then I suggest you need to review remedial English.
And Does OP have a TH-cam channel or a Twitch account because I’ll like to Follow them because I would like to apply for Moderator my account name is Ethan the Midwestern Railfan
Love how OP in story 1 is keeping in contact with all his other relatives, it's only the parents and younger brothers that don't get to see him. Good luck for the future.
Oh man Jess must be an Olympian with the level of mental gymnastics she's performed throughout this trainwreck... And the level of projection, calling Kay a man stealer!! I mean, okay!! Go off then!! 😂😂😂
Yeah, if anything it's the other way around lol
Jess sure likes to project. All that would be needed is to stick a blu-ray disc in her butt so the family can watch some good movies.😂
I've had wealthy friends more than once. They never flaunted it. We never treated them differently.
Sounds like she’s trying to hide it
Truly, genuinely wealthy people, the old money type whose great grandkids will never ever have to work a day in their lives, are raised to be the custodians of said wealth. You won't find them flaunting anything. No designer brands, nor queueing up to buy the latest eyePhone. What you will notice however is that the clothes are always good quality, amd they always fit well. The watch is probably more expensive than your average Rolex, but it's not in any way flashy, just elegant and oozes quality. You've probably never heard the brand before. The car is quiet and comfortable - again clearly well-made and luxurious, but not in any way flashy.
In person they'll be more polite and helpful than anyone else you meet.
@@zathtanks, and she had good reason to. The upside of her ex bf finding out is that he and their friend outed themselves as the mooches and golddiggers that they are.
When I found out one of my friends was wealthy I told him to keep that shit to himself cause there are absolutely people that will take advantage of that shit. I also try and pay for both of us whenever we hang out just because yeah, the money doesn’t matter to me
I had a wealthy friend I hung out with a little. The guy was really nice and his family made each of their kids earn their own wealth. But when my dad saw the house he was dropping me off at, I could tell my dad was fine with his daughter being alone with a wealthy guy alone even though with other guys I hung out with, he was not ok with. Personally, I just wanted to make sure me friend was well cause he was ill. We would spend time playing pool then he would news to go back to rest and I would take my leave. Years later we hadn't talked and decided to hang out. We would meet up up eat lunch together and I had a habit of sneaking off to pay the tab and he would wonder what happened to the bill only for the waitress to point out I paid already 😂😂😂. I'm not rich, but I had a job so I was happy to show I wasn't after his wealth. This was my way of thanking him when he saved me at once dinner where I was going to treat him for his birthday but I came up short on cash and we were at one of the valleys best restaurants. He paid the tab and I paid the tip.
The OP and Ashley story, I hate how so many redditors put all of the responsibility on OP, while she can do whatever she wants. Wonder how it would be if genders were reversed.
Its not just the gender reverse, i think OP did not mention everything what Ashley got up to and i dont get why they don´t see that OP did everything he could to keep the "relationship" between him and Ashley going when she put her other partners over him.
During the entire story I just kept thinking "OMG the DSTs, is anybody gonna be tested for diseases at all?!?".
OP! It's frustrating how people just blame you without considering Ashley's part. 💔
well see, its reddit, thats the norm there
This situation is all too common with couples who open their relationships.
I remember the first story, good on the guy for getting out and uplifting his life
Only question I have is that it costs money to play sports. Who paid for them if the kid didn't have the money?
@@bornontherimofchaos Probably the parents since they were the ones forcing OP to play the, it wasn't his choice
@bornontherimofchaos, they funded it
Story 3: OP's partner went from BF to fiance to husband to fiance to BF again and again. Got confused for a second there.
I genuinly don't get the thought process of the friends when they found out OP was rich: 'Why didn't you trust us enough to tell us you're rich' maybe because her finances are none of your business? As long as she's paying for her share that's all that matters, so why are you entitled to know how much money your friend makes? 'It's ok, OP is rich she'll pick up *our* tab' Nope, unless *she* agreed to it beforehand or drunk it herself she is under no obligation to pay for your greedy asses, especially not when her own boyfriend gets tipsy and uses her money as his money. If I was a part of that friend group I would be shaming the boyfriend and friends that think her money should be spent on them because she has it, because that is not how you treat someone you care about, she is not a cash-cow she's a friend so pull your head in and stop treating like her money as such a big deal you a-holes.
Sorry for the rant, I have a friend from high school who's family is well off and just imagining her in that kind of situation brought out rage mode. If people change how they treat you (good or bad) because of your net worth, then they've shown *their* worth as friends so treat *them* accordingly.
For the Jess story, only an absolute asshole would keep out or advise someone to keep out. A marriage built on a lie is not a real marriage, Matt would be manipulated all his life if his spouse thought it would make her life easier.
Wow, Ashley is a serious piece of work 😑😑😑
Ashley sounds spoiled. She is just trying to manipulate the open relationship in her favor.
Ashley is a fool he gave her what she wanted but she thought she'd have all the fun and he wouldn't polyamorous relationship are hard work both have to be confident in their love
1:52 Those who came from shorts
Hero
LEGEND. Thank you!
Mad respect for my man Rory. Rory the real one.
Maybe he can give you money to but ice cream,
@@m310grass You think??? 😍
@@ABadPassword Maybe
Story 2. I'm not classist. But, it's because of people like this boyfriend why the wealthy should marry within their social group. At least the person isn't with them for their money.
Yea it's kinda gross when, man or woman, someone treats their SO like a bank account.
Or at least try getting a feel for how'd they act on the first date, like ask them "what would you do if you were rich?" as a quote unquote "fun" question.
Having been the proverbial fly on the wall with different rich groups(I'm a custom tailor it happens) I would argue their form of um... wealthy exploitation is a different beast by by no means less(possibly more) destructive. The difference between these two points isn't their greed, but who has more ability to enact greedy impulses. OP sounds like a good person and is genuinely trying to just live her best life, and that can be hard when you are tied to money but don't want to be known or used for that. She's privileged so yeah... there needs to be that degree of self-awareness, but that doesn't mean she should just not try to broaden her horizons or find someone she meshes with outside her class circle.
My ex-boyfriend (do not ask) sometimes offers me to give me money when I complain about being broke because of an expensive depense, like my cat's surgery, but I just like to complain (I have economics because I try to be careful so I can pay my sisters' studies). I would feel so bad taking his money. Even when he offered me a tablet for my birthday I felt a little ashamed.
Story stream : even in big chat, it's shitty to say awful things. One difference is that bigger streamers have often mods to look for the chat and bad people quickly
Story 3: classic story of she wanted to open the relationship only on her end and knew OP would not be walked on, Ops girlfriend just wanted to cheat and not feel guilty, she's for the streets; she made the bed, she can sleep on it, to bad its outside.
Sadly, she's his wife
Sounds to me like someone finally realised that the grass isn't greener. Had she agreed to permanently close the marriage when offered, she'd have been in a good position, but I don't think it's dawned on her yet that she's not in her 20s any more. From this point on, the only way for her is down. The wise move would have been to lock the guy down and actually build a life with him.
Their "marriage" is as good as over. He should leave her to the streets.
Story 4, OP pulled a reverse uno on his (cheating) wife and it is beautiful.😂 This is classic karma for cheaters who want to get away with it and it backfires when the dates fail and their spouse/SO finds better people that may be potential new spouse/SO. Wife (ex) is never going change and will still try to skirt around the set rules that were set. Now OP can finally find someone who isn’t a worthless cheater.
Story 1: hes a gigachad
Story 2: break up with him. As a Canadian, i hereby declare that we dont take responsibility for that rogue guy
Oh, the last story. The nerve of the brother and mother. Yall want to wish sickness and death on me and my child? Well if something happens to either one or both of us, I would be damn sure to take one or both of them down 6 feet as well. Like, wtf does/says that? I wouldn’t wish that on my worse enemy. To that to your own flesh and blood is ridiculous.
Jesus, OP and Ashley's relationship wads exhausting.
I legit STOPPED eating as soon as you started the second story. Lol. His partner and I have the same name😅
46:17
"I'll take CLIPPING for $1200, Alex."
Yeah, that story with Ashley... Op slapped a lot of band-aids on that bullet wound, but that was a hopeless endeavor.
Dump the guy. He only cares about your money. Just because she had money does mean she owes anyone anything. It's her money!
I’m slightly wealthy, way better off than most families around here. I had a lot of issues making friends growing up because they’d suddenly change after being invited to my house for the first time and seeing all we had. It sucks. I feel bad for that OP, because I’ve been there.
I listen to the narrator, but all i hear is yes-man from New Vegas😭😭😭
For story 2 i completely agreewith OP because honestly i hate the saying money changes you because most times than not money just shows who you really are and i personally think thing that jusr goes to show how great of a person OP was
Story one, I live 20 minutes from JMU. I hope OP makes a good life for himself here.
I'mma be honest, I do not understand Open marriages. I can understand a polyamrous thing between like, 3-4 people if they're all into each other. But why even bother to get married to someone if you don't want to be exclusive? If you want to keep dating around and stuff, then just... don't get married in the first place? It just seems like a recipe for heartache al around
"I have a stream that's important to me and my fiancee and friends came into chat and completely destroyed it and drove off all of my viewers and followers, but I'm ok with it, because they all said sorry......"
SMH
Open relationships are very rarely fully successful. 90% of the time, one person is the victim of manipulation and is not getting what they need from their relationship but feel railroaded into staying.
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@@taracrist8066 Correct*
3:29 for those coming from the short
I read the story about Jess, Kay etc, and i'm really curious how things will unfold.
Last story is nuts. Brother should let his kid get a fucking job
From my perspective as an old lady happy with my 40-year, completely monogamous marriage, the open relationship post is a slam dunk for his side. She had absolutely zero issues with the limited boundries of their relationship so long as she was the one calling the shots and having the majority of the fun. When he suddenly found his stride in the lifestyle and began to have fun without her, she suddenly demanded an exclusive relationship.
Despite what she claims, at least in this season of their lives, neither of them are ready for monogamy. At least not with each other. Relationships are meant to be equitable and require open and honest communication. Without fairness, at least one partner will eventually develop feelings of resentment, and the relationship will ultimately fail. Or worse.
Whats with the random 1 frame pictures last videos? 7:12 on this one, then previous one had a random picture of a woman with no text. Damn jumpscares 😂😅
Ikr? Just saw it and immediately went to the comments section to see if anyone else caught it.
I sincerely hope you don't ever let your mother that wished death on your baby ever meet that babie.
I'd never ever trust her with anything after that deranged disgusting wish.
finally a non ai voice reddit story thank god
7:20 it gets so funny love it. Who cares if he's gay or what he is he's doing well and is doing a great job.
Good day damn story 1 that sounds good and I think I’ve read it before exited for someone to actually read it for me so I can sit back and enjoy it
Op needs to run from the boyfriend because he is looking from a free ride story2,
Tf is a "stable poly relationship?"
So I don't do open relationships and I'm not sure the difference between singers and poly. But the swingers I know obey their relationship rules and if you was swinging behind your partners back you are just cheating. Doesnt seem like this is too far off
Swingers are poly basically😊
However rules differ relationship to relationship
Open relationship is when you are together, but will go separately and see other people.
Poly I’ve seen a few ways, either each partner has other long term relationships or the couple will include another into their preexisting relationship.
Swingers are when 2 separate couples will trade partners or do a big foursome sometimes.
Swinging is just what you call poly after age 45
To the money girl: just leave him i cant think of any relationship that gets weird because of money that ever recovered
And you would think in an open relationship there would be no cheating and gaslighting... Well... Some people just can't be honest...
Story 3: OP does not understand streaming. She did not lose viewers because her finance and friends were idiots in chat, based on how she said she reacted to her BF I can confidently say she lost viewers due to her *reaction* to her fiance and friends being idiots in chat. Screaming at her BF after and calling her friend a b*tch during, this is likely the stuff that drove viewers away. Key piece of advice (that she won’t see and won’t help anyone here): if you make a big deal out of it then it becomes a big deal on stream, if you ignore it and just ban them then no one will care
in the first story I dont get how they like their kids that do nothing but play videogames all day more than the kid that is athletic, hardworking and generally doesn't even take up much of their money because they dont give him shit.
I feel like we're missing part of the last story. It went from a reasonable discussion between siblings, to a split family outright hating each other
Last story. In a few years, OP's mother will be wondering why she never gets to see her grandchild.
That couple... That's not a healthy polyamorous relationship at all. I don't think they can save what they have, she's extremely selfish and narcissistic. I agree she's very manipulative and OP needs to break up. She doesn't really care, she just wants control over him.
3:38 for those coming from the short. :)
WTAF???? What sort of losers would destroy their family relationship over someone refusing to hand over a couple thousand pounds intended for their own child's education. Never mind the fact that approximately 2/3 of that money was gifted to their, yet to be born child by her husbands parents. Not a cent of it came from her family.
I honestly can not imagine how that boy and his sister managed to grow into the responsible young adults OP portrays them as. Assuming he has been entirely truthful about this, I can only assume their aunt and uncle had a whole lot to do with it.
Imagine being so pathetic and immature as a parent of two teens that you not only have failed to save a cent for their education but refuse to allow your children to work to earn their own savings? All that while inexplicably demanding the money set aside for someone else's child by people not even related to them.
If I were OP's inlaw, I would offer to play the bad guy and "demand" legal control of the fund to prevent op's family from getting their nasty, sticky fingers on it. In their position, I wouldn't mind in the slightest if op's family hated me with every fiber of their beings. Those are clearly not the sort of people I would ever want in my life.
And all that over a measly 2500 pounds. 🙄 Good Lord!
Story 4 gave me real toxic vibes. And I mean that from both sides. Although everyone can understand where op was coming from and how Ashley’s behavior was weird and distrustful, I still think that first series of comments between op and the Reddit people showed a bit of a toxicity from op. Even though I understand that it’s a poly relationship and all, she did feel hurt in someone with the scene she walked into and instead of op trying to hear her out and explain his side, he shut her down immediately and even argued with the commenters when they tried to show him he didn’t have the best reaction and he could’ve done better. At least now they are getting away from each other and are going to go their separate ways, maybe find something better for area h of them.
Btw I just wanna point out that none of that excludes that Ashley was purposely trying to test his boundaries and overstep limits that op clearly traced. She is still in the wrong completely, but I just wanted to add that perspective because I did think ops reaction to the comments felt a bit too defensive and unwilling to try and see he could’ve done better
Girl I thought the same thing you explained everything that I was thinking down to a T lol 😆 I thought I was the only one lmao 😂 I’m glad they ended things both just weren’t meant to be anymore to much was done on both sides there was no more trust and when there no more trust that’s a recipe for disaster 😂
Story 5 “… I think I accomplished MY goal.” Like I understand OP was being protective of his older sister, but I still think he should’ve listened to the initial comments. Because he ended up acting on that only for his anger, and his sister’s boyfriend second. Because he should’ve talked to his sister first to save her the possible humiliation from bringing up that situation AND reminding her of a bitter relationship from the past. I understand he meaned well, but he should’ve gone by that in a healthier and less egotistical way.
You know why people who are REALLY rich have money? Because thy know how to spend it. They don't splurge, don't ostentate, keep low profiles and bugdet wisely.
So something I don’t do is ask people to pay for me I feel bad when I ask my parents taught me to ask people for money or to cover me and never pay them back is very tacky I was taught this at a young age so even if my friends are rich or not I feel super guilty to ask them to pay for my Red Bull so to ask for a 400+ dollar drink is crazy to me if I even though about that I might just have a heart attack and pass
The streaming story... good lord. Just following it was Herculean. Who gives a crap? I mean ok you did your stream, you had an issue, it won't be the last time. It just came off as whiny and childish to me. Maybe I'm mean but Geez.
Herclurlan is the right word. I was struggling reading it out loud too lmao. In a black a white perspective, OPs feelings were hurt and she had a problem with her boyfriend's and friend's behavior and that matters. But in a full color perspective, like you said, it just comes across as whinny and the way the story was told/presented just made me feel like I was listening to a teenager.
- Narrator
Yeah I’m pretty sure the headache I have now is from me rolling my eyes so hard throughout the story. Like stfu who cares lol I’m sorry
To be honest, girls do have a harder time streaming because; on top of being compared to top streamers, they are constantly belittled due to being girls streaming, they are also constantly sexualized, and to top it all off, they are told that they play the games wrong. Not only is it embarrassing, but it also makes them feel inferior. Just wanted to give an FYI.
Funny how most of these open relationship stories end up going the same way. F asks to open, has as much fun as they want, M works on themselves and starts having fun aswell, if not moreso, F gets jealous, and wants to close the relationship. Clockwork.
Last story is crazy and vile. Wishing your own unborn grandchild dead over a couple grand what the actual fuck.
First story had multiple holes which made no sense, flew Into Dulles to attend school in Fairfax (George Mason) but full ride at JMU? (2hrs away)
€2500 does not sound like "going to uni" money.
Streaming story. None of these people are to get married. 🙄
Wonder if there’s more Updates on the first story.
I didn't like story 3 either and it was hard to follow and honestly its not even that bad. When I streamed on TikTok there were many many times people said I should unalive myself cuz im a plussize woman. Not sure if this video has the story about the rich girlfriend with shitty boyfriend(I've been listening for hours to these stories) but to ReallySparked, I ain't rich but I'll buy you ice cream 🍨🍦
why this random crying woman for 1 second here 7:12
First story had a worse story than Twilight.
7:23 what you said was crazy
this guy is so much fun
Why is everyone against the OP in the case of the sister who stole her boyfriend?
Op needs to dump this guy and drop the so called friends story3
The family in the first story sucks. From the first few minutes, I assume OP is an affair child or adopted or something.
But how often do you get sexually harassed on stream as a cis man vs as a cis woman?
Hey what’s the Riot act
Opening your relationships is just cheating with extra steps
And instant karma has a way of screwing over the cheater.😂
Fewer steps. It's just lazier. "I want to cheat on you but don't want the effort of hiding it, so just accept it kay"
Only good thing is to dump now, not later when finally figuring it out
I’d go more towards wanting both committed and non committed relationships at the same time if a second partner wasn’t already in mind when an open relationship is proposed.
Some people can do it and do it well, I'm friends with an open couple who are quite wholesome and lovely. But it's definitely difficult and requires full honesty. Some people are just incapable of being honest with their partners and themselves.
3rd story is so annoying and you started a month ago and got a website already? She sounds like she can't control her emotions and takes things too harshly imagine when she starts getting hate comments
7:11 to 7:12
Jess story. They are not meant to be. Who knows how many lies she fed him. OP is assuming that this is the only lie. I doubt it. Someone like this is borderline abusive.
i'm not watching these anymore because vertical video format
I like all the one girls complaining about the dude wanting expensive shyt from her because she got money when girls do the same thing
I feel so bad for the last one what the hell is wrong with keeping your fund that you and your husband put into for your future baby then to be labeled selfish and that they would rather them not have this baby at all and the brother saying he’d teach them how to take care of others I’d say you’d be talking to air because there’s no way in hell you or mom are ever coming near me or my family just disgusting she was even kind enough to offer for them to do jobs around the her house to help but no and even in the update it seems like they did do the stuff around her house both her niece and nephew and had 1000 a piece but for those to to still be at it and wish ill on the baby and mom then to tell the family and get anonymous texts about killings myself or that the baby should die what sick ppl I’d screen shot every single thing on who said what make it public saying that these ppl are shaming me for wanting to keep the money that me and my husband put into a savings for are soon to be baby that they decided to ask when we told them we were pregnant 🤰 and that they didn’t understand why we weren’t going to and that we offered different solutions but that he turned down everyone that now they blasted to there fb and that these ppl are wishing me death and my unborn baby and I’d block them and just watch as I put there info and number out for them to harass lmao 😂 I know it’s against the law to do that and I’d probably get in trouble but I don’t mind lmao 😂 glad she blocked them there to toxic she just needs to focus on her and the baby
woah so early! hows everyones night
It's going good! I should be sleeping but I'm recording the next video lol. One day I will have a proper sleep schedule like a real boy.
Cozy
What game is this that we are watching?
Back in the 60s 70s 80s it was Normal saying to have boys man up.
S2 yea can I be with op 😂😂😂 S3 same I didn't care rly I kinda wanna know the games she plays also too many big words also also ice cream
4 40 or 4 million viewers,you don't do that to friends
1:05:00 😂😂😂
People talking about crazy things on live show
7:12 WTF was that????
Story #2: All the hyphens, parenthesis, commas, ect. are considered proper grammar. If you can't handle reading correctly typed sentences, then I suggest you need to review remedial English.
I wouldn't be friends with a "secretly wealthy" person. I'm not your slumming spot and I'd never be friends with anyone keeping huge secrets from me.
Man tell Matt and k and no you would not be
😂❤❤❤
Jess is an ah
And Does OP have a TH-cam channel or a Twitch account because I’ll like to Follow them because I would like to apply for Moderator my account name is Ethan the Midwestern Railfan