What a lovely mother you have! My father died when I was four years old causing us to live in poverty for many years. My mother always looked beautiful even after having seven children. She had perfect posture and carried herself well. She was petite but no one noticed because of the way she carried herself. She was able to sew and made clothes for us and herself. My sister and I learned to sew doll clothes with scraps when we were seven. We both grew up to sew a lot of our clothes. My mother had her own sense of style. There were three main things I learned from her. The first one was that beauty and style are in the person not entirely in the clothes. I learned to wear my clothes not let my clothes wear me. I learned to sew and be thrifty while getting the best I could afford and lastly to have my own style and wear it with confidence.💕
I want to thank you for your kind words about my mother. The best things she taught me were by example. She taught me to be cheerful and grateful in adversity. She taught us to appreciate and love life in all circumstances. My life has been beautiful because of these lessons. I am fortunate to be her daughter. Thank you for a chance to talk about her.💕
Really touchy story. And beautiful. I could relate to many parts of it. Maybe you should also try to write books or short stories because when reading your post for a moment I was moved entirely to your place, your family, your bubble. Amazing! 🥰
All of this is so motivating. Even though my mother had a pretty serious birth defect she looked elegant. People couldn’t even guess what her arm and hand really looked like. When they did find out they were sometimes very cruel. They didn’t want people to know publicly that in fact their had admired a handicapped woman, and her 2 daughters enough to give them awards. I remember her glee when my father brought her an electric sewing machine. She kept the treadle machine to teach my sister, and me. Mother sewed left handed due to the loss of her right hand strength. Treadles can be used extremely slow- like slow motion. She would pump the treadle very slowly while we guided the cloth under the presser foot. All of your stories are very motivating, and thanks for sharing. I am now inspired by this TH-cam to learn how to use a serger type machine. I have changed all my younger styles into usable older styles.
what a lovely story. You sound like a very nice person and yes, you are right when you say that one should wear the clothes and not let the clothes wear them. Gosh, I'm feeling so inspired by all of these lovely messages.
Georgia, my beautiful mother, gave me the most important style advice that a woman can receive. To stand tall with confidence , respect and love myself with grace and integrity. My mama is my hero. 💗
Such a lovely tribute to your beautiful mother. Though my mother didn’t have much money, she did her hair and makeup daily and wore a pretty dress when my dad arrived home from work. She emphasized this to me as I grew up. I try to follow her example even though I’m not wearing a dress. My dad gathered everyone’s shoes on Saturday and polished each pair. After all, we needed to go to Mass looking our best.
I have accidentally turned on the cold water before I get out of the shower...it will definitely wake you up!.... I wish I had a mother who taught me about style, but my mother was not at all interested in these things. That is why I watch your videos!
My mum used to wear very conservative and “sensible” clothes (she was a librarian!) , but always looked well put together in good quality suits and tops. She looked after all her clothes and accessories and had them for many years. She passed away many years ago, and I wish I could tell her now how much I admired the way she always looked nicely dressed!
Your mother is lovely. I never had a woman to help me with style, ever. I watch and try to pick up advise, etc from women like yourself. I always hang up my clothing. Thank you for the heel demonstration. It is amazing. Thanks so much. What a tribute to your lovely mother. You are amazing.
I enjoyed this touching video also, but I am concerned that the advice on the correct way to wear heels may be misleading. I have read articles by podiatrists and general fitness experts who contend that the wearing of high heels throws off nature's millenia-evolved balancing of the stresses placed on weight-bearing joints and muscles from neck to toe. The unnatural distribution of the weight of certain body parts on muscles, tendons, vascular passages, and joints which have not evolved to bear a particular weight puts undue pressure on them while other muscles, etc., can atrophy somewhat because they are not used as much as they evolved to be. I understand that digestion can be adversely affected because of the misalignment of internal organs caused by unnatural weight shifts necessary for heel-wearers to keep their balance while moving. Please comment. Thank you in advance, Ms. Lecoeur.
I learned as a teenager not to throw clothes on the floor - my cat taught me! For my 15th birthday, I got a fabulous dove-grey wool coat with an enormous collar of Arctic blue fox. I threw it on my bed. It slid off and I left it on the floor. The cat had her kittens on it!!!
I just had my monthly phone conversation with a former coworker. She must be close to 80. She was mentioning that her older gal pals dress up for playing cards, dancing, socializing, going to the senior center, etc. What great role models !
I learned from my mom to always make an effort wherever you went. She didn't have much money but she was always stylish and well turned out. Lessons to live by.
I learned style tips from my grandmother. I always remember what she said about dress heels- invest in good heels and you only need three pairs. One in black, one in cream and one in navy. She said that would work with your wardrobe. She's been gone for many years now but I always remember her style advice!
I have loved this video more than any other. Such good advice, and so nice to see you passing on what she taught you. It is a very touching tribute, and as a person who is sentimental about the ladies who were influences on me, I feel lucky to have this glimpse of one who was an influence for you. Thanks, Marie-Anne. (and thanks to my mother, Teresa, and her mother, Elmerilda, especially.)
You are beautiful like your mother, Marie-Anne. I was lucky enough to have both a stylish mother and grandmother. Both women always believed in fixing their hair and having a good haircut. They also both believed in owning a good watch, a lovely ring and nice earrings and wearing them everyday. They loved silk scarves and wore them often under coats or jackets. They truly loved good outerwear. They had lovely coats because they said it was the first thing people noticed. They both wore lipstick all the time because they believed, “ Everything would be alright, just put a little lipstick on. “ I miss them both every single day and keep them close by putting on both the tea kettle, some lipstick and some good jewelry.
I always knew my Mother was in a good mood when she put on her red lipstick. She wore Revlon’s “Cherries in the Snow” Before she picked up my Father at the train station she applied her red lipstick and felt more like a beautiful woman than the mother of 4 little kids.
My mother also wore "Cherries in the Snow". I bought it recently and I just tried it the other day. I think I could wear it in the winter. She would also use a tiny bit on her cheeks if she didnt have rouge handy. I have one of her handkerchiefs that has her lip color on it. I cherish it.
Bonjour, Marie-Anne. Lucky you learning all of this from your mother. I can’t say I remember any from my mother. I will do the cold water on my face & I really take good care of my clothes. Thank You!💕
Oh the things my mama has taught me! Regarding style- whether one is home doing chores or out and about- always look presentable. Clothing, hair, makeup and jewelry must be given thought and effort to be feminine and chic. And when we look put together, we feel put together and we act accordingly.
I’ve worn red lipstick forever. My sisters used to tease me and call me Lucille Ball! 💄😂 My favorite shade is Very Cherry (635) in matte by Maybelline. For a warmer red, I like Carnal (‘Pure Color Envy’ 370) by Estée Lauder. Although I’m brave enough to wear red lipstick daily, I’m NOT brave enough to take a cold shower! Thanks for another great French Chic video. You and your mother are truly lovely ladies with exquisite style.
Beautiful pictures and sweet words of your mother🌹 I was raised by my fraternal mother ( mami I adore) she was a beautiful, simple lady, never wore any make up and keep her clothes immaculate - but I was told that my mother used to always look fabulous ( I only met her twice 1 I was 14 years old and 2 I was 42 years old) she was petite, slim with very fear skin and red hair - I did love my high heels 👠 and yes I do take good care of my clothes, all black some off white blouses and linen 😊
My mother taught me that taking care to be well-groomed and styled was one way to show respect to other people and occasions. She taught me also to arrive on time, and to really listen without trying to think of a clever response. And she was a truly brilliant seamstress!
Hello Marie-Anne. My mother did not teach me much about style or fashion because she was an orphan and grew up without her parents. So I saved my money and when I was 16 years old I went to modeling school. It was wonderful to learn all about fashion and makeup. I even taught my mom some things about fashion too. We were best friends together. ❤ 💋💋💋💋
Oh Marie-Anne, I always love your videos, but this was so beautiful and moving. Your mother looks beautiful and she sounds very wise too. My own mother was always a Tom boy and never interested in style, fashion, skincare or makeup. But her mother, my beloved Gran Margaret, was such an elegant woman. She was born in 1913, and lived until she was 95 years old. She taught me all of your mother's style lessons except how to walk in high heels, because she only ever wore flat or low heeled shoes! (she was 5'7" tall and my grandad was only 5'8" tall so she said it was rude to wear heels! 😂). She also taught me to sit up straight and never slouch. She hated jeans, but was the first woman in her family to wear trousers (she had long shapely legs and an hour glass figure!). She had a beautiful tweed trouser suit. She liked to wear a hat for church on a Sunday. She hardly ever wore makeup, but loved her red lipstick and had her hair "set" at the salon every week. She taught me how to shave the bobbles off woollen sweaters and how to tie a scarf. I could go on forever! She would have loved your videos too Marie-Anne!!! ❤️😘💕
I was not taught anything about style as a child & young woman...I am from a small town & we had no money for shopping...most of our clothes were second-hand. My mom did, however, always "fix" her hair & apply makeup, even if it was from the dollar store. I am now 55, & for the past 5 yrs. I have made it my business to study style & how to dress for my body shape...that is how I found YOU! You & I are of similar age, so I would never consider you a "mother" figure to emulate....but I do consider you a "style mentor" & I cherish all I have learned from you! Thank you for helping me to navigate my closet & walk out of it with confidence on a daily basis! 💖
I love this! Your Maman is beautiful! My father wore a uniform also. My mother taught me so many things. She dressed well until her final year and the staff at the memory care unit called her The Queen. She wore Love that Red lipstick. I wear it sometimes but I feel self conscious in it for daily wear. I remember lessons on taking care of my clothes, wearing little makeup, polishing my shoes, buying the best you can afford. She said cold water would make your hair shiny and close your pores so you didn’t have breakouts. She didn’t want me to wear heels because of my height. (I am 6’ and she was 5’3”. )However I did get some lower box heels in the 70’s and was so happy. She also sent me to a local department store for a course on being a young lady. We learned makeup, walking correctly, manners and flattering hairstyle. I miss her daily.
The one about choosing wisely is particularly relevant today for ecological reasons. Sustainability is essential to save resources. Vivian Westwood preaches it all the time, too.
All great lessons! My mother taught me what elegance and femininity was, like yours, my mom had her signature red lipstick lol She was a stay at home mom for 5 kids and yet I never recall seeing her looking frumpy or like a slob, she is my female role model.
my son does the cold shower at the end of his shower, he says it is good for your immune system, my mother made our clothes and we had beautiful clothes , she also taught us about skin care cleansing, toning and moisturizing , thanks for the good advice
Your mother is lovely and the wedding photo is beautiful. Thank you for sharing all this great advice. My mother chose wisely because she could not afford a lot (she was in her 20's during the depression) but she always looked good and well groomed. When I was a teen during the 1950's, I didn't have a large wardrobe but it was nice and I felt stylish.
As I have watched you, Marie Anne, I realized that my mom, who was Mexican and American with a French/German ancestry, knew the things you are teaching. She even looked alot like you, which makes me smile since she is no longer with us. I remember going to the mall when I was about 12 and having her explain about coordinating colors in outfits and other things that turned out to be timeless, classic and very French Chic style tips. She was often asked if she was French, in fact, and epitomized French Chic in every way. As I grew up and experienced life and some personal tragedies such as my mom's death due to cancer, I forgot alot of the things she taught me and got lost in terms of how I dressed and carried myself. I want to thank you for helping me to remember how to have classic chic style that is timeless and to remember to love and care for myself again. Also, thank you for reminding me of her every time I watch you. All the best and God bless. I look forward to your videos every week when they come out.
Hi Marie-Anne. I was able to watch at a decent time today. Your mother is stunning.....just as you are. I love everything you teach and I do 99% of it. EXCEPT FOR THE COLD SHOWER. I tried this several times and I cannot tolerate it. I think I would rather eat a worm. Your such a beautiful, elegant lady. ❤x❤x❤x❤ My mother was fantastic. She taught me: The manners and etiquette of the British people. The style of the French people and their natural approach to skin care. And the the passion, romance and the way they eat in Italy (my family roots are from Italy.) She also taught me about art, classical music, and ballet etc etc. I know that you are a great mother and teacher. Take care Marie-Anne💜x
My mother taught me to always take care of my clothes and everything else. She said that a V neck and A- line shape dress or skirt are the most flattering. She told me I don’t look good in chartreuse. Also that after five clothes are for evening wear only. At that time it was true, no bling during the day. She hated to see evening wear in a daytime casual setting. I do always wear lipstick. However red makes me feel like I stand out. I have always felt that red lipstick is too bright for me. I do have dark brown hair and eyes. I have never heard of the cold water rinse, perhaps in summer I will try. I have short hair. It is very special to have such sweet lessons from your Mom.
Marie-Anne, your mother is stunning! When I lived in Rome, I stayed with my aunt Margherita for a while before I found an apartment. She was widowed many years before and had to raise my two cousins on her own. She worked as a janitor in a school. She had to mop floors, empty trash bins, dust and polish, etc. Never once did my aunt ever look the part of a traditional janitor. She was always elegantly dressed. She never wore trousers, always a skirt and modest heels. She only wore lipstick and her skin was so dewey and fresh. She just knew how to put herself together. I admired her so much. I used to wear a lovely Chanel red lipstick way back in the 90's. Maybe it's time to start again? Splashing cold water on the face is classically good advice. Thank you so much, Marie-Anne. After seeing your mother's photo, I can see where you get your good looks from!
First, thank you for your quick and kind reply regarding makeup! I love this video! My mother wore red lipstick - she was always so chic. And she always made sure that I was all dressed up before we went out. I have been wearing red lipstick since my 20s. I’ve also been finishing my showers with cold water for over 30 years. I let the cold water run over my face so it tightens the pores. And I only use cold water to clean my face. I’m 70 now but people say I look much younger and can’t believe I have a 50 year old son! People are always complimenting me on how beautiful my skin is. People always thought my mother was my sister - so guess I got my good genes from her and my father who also looked young for his age (he was French). Where I fail is with my clothes. But your video has inspired me to declutter my closet and take as good care of my clothes as I do my skin! Thank you for your inspiration. ❤️
No doubt your mother is a remarkable and wise adorable lady. Just look at the gorgeous daughter she has! My first muse was as you know my grandma Mary. Among many lessons I learned from her these are my favorites: -Don’t follow trends, have your own style. -Always wash your face with cold water and keep it moisturized at all times. -Take care of your clothes and they will last for years. -Wear perfume just for yourself even at bed. -Walk elegantly because otherwise you will ruin what could be an elegant and chic style. As you can see these beautiful ladies had so many things in common and I’m so happy we honor them every day. What a beautiful and touching video Marie-Anne you certainly took after your mother in style, elegance and beauty. And we really owe her the gift of having you in our lives! A bientot!
A beautiful tribute to your maman. I grew in Montreal, Quebec. My mother wasn't French but she dressed like a French woman. She looked wonderful. But my father was French and had 3 sisters. And they knew how to dress as well. They would say one has to dress "comme il faut.
You look marvelous! Beautiful outfit!💗 Lovely video and tribute to your mother💐💗 My mom taught me to love myself...she tried to give me confidence I lacked. When we’d shop, she’d pick out things for me or she’d buy me things and say “It’ll look good on you!” I can wear pretty much anything bc she gave me confidence.💗
Ah! So sweet to remember our mothers! My mother had very good taste, which of course, didn’t listen to until I was an adult. I remember her trying to tell me that clothes should never fit skin tight! And that less is more, and to stick to classics...now I know she was right! She used to knit and sew, and she was very good at it!
Lovely video! My dear mother ( 1922- 2016) was not very much occupied with her looks, although she was a natural beauty and always was well dressed. She did not think it to be that important. She did not like perfume and make- up ( she only used lipstick like your maman) and jewelry and she hated silk. At parties she did wear some jewelry though. She could make our clothes herself when we were young and we were always happy with what she had made. It was rather trendy in those days ( 50's/ 60's) so we were very proud ;) My father had a very good job ( dutch railways) and my mother ( who later in life had a good job herself) accompanied him to foreign countries for international meetings. From the Netherlands to France, Italy, Germany and other European countries. She spoke four languages. They had official dinners at these occasions and my mother also often made festive clothes for herself and she looked beautiful. She made one shiny paisley top that her daughters including me later did wear until is was worn out. ;)) She also had a great cognac colored suede jacket that i wore later in life. In daily life my mother looked more casual with much dark blue and brown and burgundy , not my colors. I always wear light colors and pastels. Her mother, my grandmother ( 1895- 1985) , was much more chique and elegant in daily life. She spend much money in expensive shops on clothing and perfumes and jewelry. She always wore high heels. She loved alpaca and cashmere and silk. Her father had textile shops so she was raised with knowledge about good clothing. My grandmother never used any make- up. No lipstick for her. My mother and my grandmother both influenced my taste. I can make my own clothes ( sewing, knitting) and clothing for my children and grandchildren and love lipstick like my mother , but like my grandmother i prefer precious natural fabrics ( addicted to cashmere) and also love perfume ( always Estée Lauder) and beautiful soap like Roger & Gallet ;)) Forgotten: my FATHER also was a role model because he loved beautiful fabrics like tweeds (Harris tweed jackets) and lambswool and he did wear brogues...which i all love too!
I see now where you got your beauty and style. You asked us to share about our mother. My mother, Dorothy, was beautiful also. As a young woman, she was a runner-up in a local beauty contest. She also worked for a women's clothing manufacturer and received sample clothing pieces for her own use. There were 6 children in our family, so there was not a lot of money to spend on clothes. Mother would take me to rummage - second-hand clothing - sales, and show me how to look for quality labels. When I got my first full-time job in 1974 at age 19, in a law office, my mother loaned me some of her dresses so that I could look nice. These were one-color, shapely sweater dresses. I will never forget her generosity, because they were brand new dresses and she had not even worn them herself yet. It makes me tear-up/cry to think about it because she is gone now. And those dresses helped my self confidence so much. Thank you for everything, Marie-Anne. I will send you an email soon, since I am a new subscriber, telling you about my style journey, as you requested in your email.
Bonjour Lauren what a Chic and Elegant lady your dear mother was 🙏 Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories of her 😘 I look forward to receiving your email 😃
My mother in few weeks to became 104 years old, she is steal have manicure and pedicure, Love lipstick, use scarf e take care of her hear. She always smell great.My daughter and I trye to keep up with her.
Marie-Anne, Thank you for your videos. I have just started watching them and find that I can relate to them quit well, though I was raised in the Southwest part of the country, USA, where things are very casual. As I watch I find that this style is what I have always been attracted to. Could be because my Grandfather was French and my Grandmother was part French. My grandmother and my mother both loved their lipstick, (lipy sticky) as my grandmother called it. My mother was very big on caring for her clothes, she always emphasized never throw your clothes on the floor. Caring for your shoes was a must, never going out without your earrings and lipstick. I do slack in many of these aspects however I am excited to get back to caring for myself. Thank you again.
My mother had a wonderful sense of style and took very good care of her clothing. She always wore lipstick, had her hair "done" and her nails polished. I remember two beauty tips she always told my sister and I. Always wear rubber gloves washing the dishes, because the hot water and soap will ruin your hands. The other was stay out of the sun or at least wear a sunhat. Good solid tips from decades ago!
What a beautiful mother you have. You both look so much a like you could be twins. My Mother did not teach anything to me regarding clothes or fashion. I was sent away to boarding school at barely 14 and learned from an older student. who was well dressed. I have read magazines and listen to you. I have also learned by doing. I am still learning. What a wonderful memory of your Mom and how nice of you to share with us. This was a beautiful tribute to your beautiful mother.
Hello Marie Anne! Your mother is a beautiful woman with the kindest eyes! She must be a wonderful inspiration for you and not just in fashion, I am sure. I hope you will not mind if I mention something regarding the wearing of heels and leg muscles. My physiotherapist told me that wearing heels actually shortens and tightens the leg muscles. To stretch these muscles, you can go up and down on your toes 10 times once a day. This keeps them nice and loose for wearing heels! I do this myself so I can wear my heels at work without pain and I do very well with this simple exercise. Mille mercis for the lovely story about your mother - it’s so nice to hear.
This was a very bittersweet video for me, because my mother had many of the same dressing/style philosophies as your mother did, and I was always in awe of her fashion and make-up sense. Sadly, she passed and I miss her very much. She was beautiful...as you and your mother are. Thank you!
My mother didn’t teach me much about fashion but she was a hard worker and taught me sewing. I made my clothes when young and now I am most grateful because I can do simple tailoring and am making masks for my family and others. You have taught me so much about dressing well. I noticed it in others but never figured out that they were just being French chic.
First of all, I have to say that I love your skirt, it looks like something that I would wear to work. My mother taught me to choose quality, to take good care of my clothes, and also about walking in heels. She also taught me everything about skin care and makeup. She stressed the importance of no matter how tired I am, never go to bed with makeup on my face, and to take good care of my skin. She also taught me to be a lady, and present myself as someone with decorum and dignity. She was, and still is, a very beautiful woman, even in her 70's. She is my number one fashion icon. Thank you so much for sharing this, what a wonderful sentiment to all the ladies before us that taught us style, and all of the most fun aspects of being a woman 😀😀😀.
My mother taught me a lot as well, but when I was young I was a rebel. Now I miss her a lot and I'm trying to follow her style, which was simple, but always elegant. Thank you
For me , no one compares to Queen Fabiola from Belgium. Her beauty , elegance , style , compassion , intelligence , knowledge and capacity to put others at ease … true class , true elegance , high calibre lady she was . So strong and assertive , yet extremely gentle and poised . And her husband was the same , exactly the same … but the male version .
My mother taught me how to walk in high heels... she taught me to take care of my clothes and shoes and respect them.... I was NEVER allowed to have clothes on the floor... my mother taught me to always blot my lipstick... just a few memories from what you shared.
My grandmother is 83 and she retired about a year ago. She always wears heels, she never had a pair of sneakers in her whole life! Every single morning she put some makeup on, of course some red lipstick, than combs her hair, put some hairspray and perfume. I ve learned so much from my grandma abd i am so thankful!! ❤️❤️❤️ You are absolutely glowing, dear Marie-Anne, your mother is beautiful! ❤️
My mom, now almost 83, still wears red lipstick and for much of her life, it was her only makeup. For much of my life, lipstick of an earthier tone and tinted acne coverup has been mine. (My skin has never been super clear). In more recent years I added a small swipe of under eye cream, and that's it. I love that you did a tribute to your mother. I adore my mother. Like so many from past generations (and present), my mother had to sacrifice a lot for her family and she did the best she could with limited resources, time and energy. She worked part-time, earned a degree, and raised us all at the same time. She wasn't exactly stylish. She cut her own hair and bought inexpensive clothes. But she wore slacks, a blouse, and nice shoes, not sloppy things, which had already become common in the US, and she always looked dignified. I didn't appreciate this growing up in the 70s and 80s but I do now. Now she has a fantastic wardrobe and wears a bit of eye make up and powder, and still red lipstick. She always looks great.
I don’t wear high heels because I have a growth defect in my spine and also 20 years of illness has made my muscles very weak, but I do wear 2”” heels a couple of times a week, so I’ll try your tips and see what happens. I’d like to look incredibly elegant for the tiny bit of walking I can do in them! I don’t really have a mother figure for style, more like sister figures, including you and my friend D. I had a nice experience yesterday encountering a lady trying on dresses who is the same size and body type as me. We had a fun time advising each other and swapping dresses. I didn’t buy one but I did find a beautiful White Stuff skirt in a charity shop that is still on sale on their website. I think my love of a bargain did come from my mum, though! Love your parents’ wedding photo, so elegant and beautiful!
Just in general, if a person decided to use a cane. It would seem like a cane that is designed by an artist could be just as elegant of an accessory as heels. I'm imagining inlays and with a beautiful handle and tip. Just for ideas sake, very fancy pool cues could give an example of what an inlay is. Then a good metal color that suits you as part of it too, perhaps. I would also consider crystal as part of a handle. Consult an artist to find something perfect. I would find this accessory to be very impressive.
@@peaceonearth8693 There are some really nice vintage/antique canes out there, too, so it might be worth looking at Ebay and some of those vintage/antiques/bric-a-brac places, too. (My Nan nearly always wraps her walking stick with tinsel at Christmas just for the fun of it!)
A very nice tribute to your mother. My mother and grandmother came from the Philippines. They did not have much money to spend on clothes, however they both still were able to dress elegantly. My mother had told me that they would buy fabric and have a seamstress make their clothes. Into her 90's my grandmother continued to dress elegantly even though she was mainly in the house. She would wear a blazer , a dress, lipstick and simple colored nail polish. My mother would always wear tailored shorts, skirts and tops. My siblings have learned a lot from both of them on how to dress and look elegant.
Delighted to hear about your lovely mama. My mother was not elegant, I had to learn all on my own. But I taught my daughter to be poised, well-groomed and well-spoken. And she is more successful because of it at work and at home. Thanks for all you do for us!
Everything you mentioned is sadly not practiced here in Australia. I believe we are a style- less culture which saddens me. When I was growing up, my mother too, taught me how to be a lady and to carry yourself with style , the same thing I taught my own daughter. I’m 52 and still wear my high heels much to the shock of my peers of the same age. Thank you for your video. Xxx lily
How lucky you were to learn from your mother ! I don't remember any type of discussion of any kind about fashion or appearance from my mother . I had to figure out most of the things you are discussing on my own . Watching your videos has helped me to know I'm on the right path . I've been wearing a couple of shades of red lipstick more often the last couple of years - one is a little more orange red and the other a blue red . Previously I kept to more nude shades of lipstick . It's way toooo late for me to learn to walk in heels but I really enjoyed seeing the instructions !
I have fallen in love with Marie and her channel. I have found a huge shift in my mood, lifestyle, and energy by becoming more elegant. I find elegance today people associate it with "bouje". Where true elegance is modelled by Marie. Thank you!
The pictures of your Mother are lovely, as is your tribute 💕! My grandmother, born and raised in Paris, until she married my grandfather and came to the USA at a young age, taught me about the cold water on my face and to use fresh cucumber on it to help keep it clear from blemishes! Haven’t thought about that in years! I recall Grammy wearing lipstick 💄 but I don’t remember if it was red… my coloring would not support red lipstick but does a burgundy count? I prefer a more natural look as my professional career is behind me and I am more comfortable, at this stage of life, to not draw attention to myself. Merci Marie-Anne, as I access your past videos to continue my new style journey 🙏🏻
What a handsome couple your parents made on their wedding day!! Literally took my breath away when I saw them, and that's no exaggeration!! My Mother taught me to wear red lipstick, too, although, since I was young in the "natural look" 70's, her lessons fell on deaf ears for years, but, whenever I left the house, she would say, "Aren't you going to put on some lipstick?", Or, "You really need to put on some lipstick!"!! When I was in my 30's, I finally listened and started wearing Mom's favorite type of make-up!! My Maman's favorite lipstick was, "Cherries In The Snow", also, and she wore it on her wedding day!! Thanks so much, again, for the lovely tribute to your beautiful Maman, and, if she is no longer with you, I have perfect confidence that she is smiling down upon you, from the beautiful Heaven where she must definitely be!! God bless you, Marie-Anne, et A Bientot!!😍😍😍
How nice to hear about your mother. I suppose as a women that is the first women you learn from. Red coral lipstick, tweezers to form her eyebrow,, a little mirror to be able to see her shape and looks from behind was my mother's, never leave the house without. As she grew up during second World War she learn to sew, you know make changes, repair, etc. That is my legacy today. Above all my lipstick. It is nice to hear about our mothers what they did. Thank you for sharing. From Stockholm lots of regards, Lise
My mom, who is half-French, is 85 and still wears her red lipstick at all times. Even though she now wears flats or low-heeled shoes, she is always stylish and is turned-out well, from her hair to her shoes. She taught us girls to sew, and to take good care of our clothes so they would last a long time and look new. And, we knew how to iron our clothing. With shirts, start with the the back of the collar, move to the front of the collar, shoulder yoke, fronts, back, then sleeves & cuffs. That would make a great video lesson BTW! We knew the difference between pressing and ironing. Today, I still enjoy ironing (except for hubby’s jeans because he still wants a pressed crease!). 😤 Anyhow, ironing/pressing are good skills to have. Thank you for your informative videos, Marie-Anne.
My mother always taught me that quality is always worth investing in. I don’t mean name brands (she never was a fan of big name brands), but just simple, elegant quality items. These applied for most everything including bags, shoes, clothes, jewelry. Also the caring for one’s clothes, especially the delicate ones. She taught me how to hand wash them. Loved this video!
My Mom was an elegant lady (poverty notwithstanding). She was always properly dressed and had a great sense of style which has greatly influenced my life. She always advocated the 'less is more' motto- plain is better than printed , vertical lines to make one look tall, horizontal to increase width, plain top with printed bottom; plain botton with printed top and the list went on and on. I do appreciate your vlogs a lot and I keep on learning from you and wish you well in all your endeavours.
Your mother was so beautiful. She looks so sweet and elegant...My mother too, she didn't use a lot of make up, but she always wore a lipstick. She had different shades of red. She teached me that skin looks luminuos and perfect with the right shade of red, and not to go out without a lipstick in my bag. I miss her. This video is useful but also a tender idea, and one of your best. Thank you.
My mum always had very good taste , and knew what to wear and when to wear it . She taught me and my sisters to NEVER compromise on shoes and bras , as these will affect your back forever . We had only good quality clothes that we passed on from sibling to sibling, for years on end . They never lost color or shape, and many pieces were a classic , timeless even for children . Very versatile !
My goodness, you are so like your dear mother and she is so beautiful. My own dear late mother guided me in caring for my clothes, shoes etc but it was my paternal Grannie who first introduced me to face cream when I was 13 in 1966. She explained the necessity to care for my skin each and every day, and to wear a small amount of face cream each morning and night. Despite all the various varieties that have come on the market since 1966 that I have tried, I always come back to the brand that my Grannie first introduced me to and how to use it. My father however disliked lipstick intensely so I was a lot older before wearing my first one. I have yet to find a shade of red that suits me but I do love the pink/mauve shades. Thank you Marie-Anne for that beautiful insight into your Mother. Please tell her what a beautiful lady she is.
Marie-Anne Lecoeur Hello and a very Good Morning to you from the UK. The brand of face cream that my Grannie introduced me to is called ‘Astral’. At first, anyone seeing it or trying it, would think that it is a heavy cream, but the trick is ‘Less is more’ so I only apply it lightly. It just glides onto the skin and can be used from top to toe. Thank you for the hints with cold water, I tried it this morning and you are absolutely right, cold water is refreshing. 😱😀 xx
A lovely tribute to your beautiful mother, Marie-Anne. My mom taught me those same lessons and she wasn't even French! I miss her. She also told me not to marry anyone prettier than I, LOL. At three years old I adopted the kind lady who moved next door as a grandmother/aunt. She was originally from Mexico, almost never wore makeup and was very beautiful. She taught me by example, how inner beauty radiates outward.
I can’t believe it my mother was the same. She never wore any makeup yet so many people commented to me that my mother always looked so good and dressed up. But her secret was red lipstick. She was 83 when she died, I’m 60 this year and I bought my first red lipstick now I need to get brave enough to wear it. Thanks for your videos.
Carla, try patting it on, as a stain, first, and do the tiniest bit of it on you cheeks, too, so it looks cohesive on your face. Sometimes that helps one feel that the lips are not standing out as much because the color is repeated elsewhere on the face. Or, treat your lips with a drier, waxier type lip balm and rub a bit of the lipstick on top, so you only have a hint of the color. (I recommend a waxy, matte balm like the original Chapstick or some of the EOS, not a shiny, slippery one like Carmex or Vaseline. Those will the red look greasy, glossy, and childish, and worse, will likely make the color run out of the lip line.) If you're not used to full intensity red, "diluting" it a bit will give you all the lift and vivaciousness of the color, without making you feel uncomfortable. Third, experiment mixing the red with a nude or "brownish" lipstick that you know flatters your skin. Adding a flesh tone to a vibrant color often makes it more wearable. Once you're more used to wearing red, try applying your lipstick full on, letting it set for a few minutes, and blotting it with a tissue. I think this is a technique that works well for many of us, over 50 ladies. It gives us a "muted" version of a favorite color so it will not look like we're trying too hard, plus it helps the lipstick not migrate into the fine lines we all get around the lips. Finally, when you're wearing red, make sure to wear dark mascara in order to create balance. If you don't do this, it might make you focus too much on the bold color on your lips and make you feel it's just too jarring. Good luck experimenting!
About cold showers it is true , they help to firm the skin , blood rushes to the surface of the skin and makes it glowing and nourished and firmed . in Russia we go even further - we jump into an ice cold water or snow after sauna:) Your mother taught you right lessons , I admire her advise about how to walk in high heels .
Now I know where your beauty comes from...your mother. My mother, too, taught all your mother has taught you, including the red lipstick. She also taught that ironing clothing was a vital part of being well dressed. Never would we be allowed to go to public places in casual clothing. There was "play clothing, day-wear, and Sunday Best". Each served its purpose and was part of becoming a lady. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
What a lovely mother you have! My father died when I was four years old causing us to live in poverty for many years. My mother always looked beautiful even after having seven children. She had perfect posture and carried herself well. She was petite but no one noticed because of the way she carried herself. She was able to sew and made clothes for us and herself. My sister and I learned to sew doll clothes with scraps when we were seven. We both grew up to sew a lot of our clothes. My mother had her own sense of style. There were three main things I learned from her. The first one was that beauty and style are in the person not entirely in the clothes. I learned to wear my clothes not let my clothes wear me. I learned to sew and be thrifty while getting the best I could afford and lastly to have my own style and wear it with confidence.💕
I want to thank you for your kind words about my mother. The best things she taught me were by example. She taught me to be cheerful and grateful in adversity. She taught us to appreciate and love life in all circumstances. My life has been beautiful because of these lessons. I am fortunate to be her daughter. Thank you for a chance to talk about her.💕
Really touchy story. And beautiful. I could relate to many parts of it. Maybe you should also try to write books or short stories because when reading your post for a moment I was moved entirely to your place, your family, your bubble. Amazing! 🥰
All of this is so motivating. Even though my mother had a pretty serious birth defect she looked elegant. People couldn’t even guess what her arm and hand really looked like. When they did find out they were sometimes very cruel. They didn’t want people to know publicly that in fact their had admired a handicapped woman, and her 2 daughters enough to give them awards. I remember her glee when my father brought her an electric sewing machine. She kept the treadle machine to teach my sister, and me. Mother sewed left handed due to the loss of her right hand strength. Treadles can be used extremely slow- like slow motion. She would pump the treadle very slowly while we guided the cloth under the presser foot. All of your stories are very motivating, and thanks for sharing. I am now inspired by this TH-cam to learn how to use a serger type machine. I have changed all my younger styles into usable older styles.
what a lovely story. You sound like a very nice person and yes, you are right when you say that one should wear the clothes and not let the clothes wear them. Gosh, I'm feeling so inspired by all of these lovely messages.
I agree
Georgia, my beautiful mother, gave me the most important style advice that a woman can receive. To stand tall with confidence , respect and love myself with grace and integrity. My mama is my hero. 💗
I did not have anyone to get ideas from and that’s why am watching and learning from you
Such a lovely tribute to your beautiful mother. Though my mother didn’t have much money, she did her hair and makeup daily and wore a pretty dress when my dad arrived home from work. She emphasized this to me as I grew up. I try to follow her example even though I’m not wearing a dress.
My dad gathered everyone’s shoes on Saturday and polished each pair. After all, we needed to go to Mass looking our best.
I admire that trait in your Dad. Marie-Anne knows how to bring back the best in us. Thanks to you both.
I have accidentally turned on the cold water before I get out of the shower...it will definitely wake you up!.... I wish I had a mother who taught me about style, but my mother was not at all interested in these things. That is why I watch your videos!
I never had anybody, so thank you for sharing your knowledge, and thanks to your lovely mother too!!
@@MarieAnneLecoeur thank you!!!!
My mum used to wear very conservative and “sensible” clothes (she was a librarian!) , but always looked well put together in good quality suits and tops. She looked after all her clothes and accessories and had them for many years. She passed away many years ago, and I wish I could tell her now how much I admired the way she always looked nicely dressed!
Your mother is lovely. I never had a woman to help me with style, ever. I watch and try to pick up advise, etc from women like yourself. I always hang up my clothing. Thank you for the heel demonstration. It is amazing. Thanks so much. What a tribute to your lovely mother. You are amazing.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur You can be my little sister.
I enjoyed this touching video also, but I am concerned that the advice on the correct way to wear heels may be misleading. I have read articles by podiatrists and general fitness experts who contend that the wearing of high heels throws off nature's millenia-evolved balancing of the stresses placed on weight-bearing joints and muscles from neck to toe. The unnatural distribution of the weight of certain body parts on muscles, tendons, vascular passages, and joints which have not evolved to bear a particular weight puts undue pressure on them while other muscles, etc., can atrophy somewhat because they are not used as much as they evolved to be. I understand that digestion can be adversely affected because of the misalignment of internal organs caused by unnatural weight shifts necessary for heel-wearers to keep their balance while moving. Please comment. Thank you in advance, Ms. Lecoeur.
I learned as a teenager not to throw clothes on the floor - my cat taught me! For my 15th birthday, I got a fabulous dove-grey wool coat with an enormous collar of Arctic blue fox. I threw it on my bed. It slid off and I left it on the floor. The cat had her kittens on it!!!
How cute! Maybe not for the coat, but kitty had good taste!
Oh my!!!!!
That's an important use for your beautiful clothes. I'd be honored!!
So sweet !!!!
Minou, Minou, Minou....!!😂😂
I just had my monthly phone conversation with a former coworker. She must be close to 80. She was mentioning that her older gal pals dress up for playing cards, dancing, socializing, going to the senior center, etc. What great role models !
I learned from my mom to always make an effort wherever you went. She didn't have much money but she was always stylish and well turned out. Lessons to live by.
I like that. Always make an effort.
You don't need a million dollars to look like a million dollars :) this is what my mom said to me .
I learned style tips from my grandmother. I always remember what she said about dress heels- invest in good heels and you only need three pairs. One in black, one in cream and one in navy. She said that would work with your wardrobe. She's been gone for many years now but I always remember her style advice!
I have loved this video more than any other. Such good advice, and so nice to see you passing on what she taught you. It is a very touching tribute, and as a person who is sentimental about the ladies who were influences on me, I feel lucky to have this glimpse of one who was an influence for you. Thanks, Marie-Anne. (and thanks to my mother, Teresa, and her mother, Elmerilda, especially.)
You are beautiful like your mother, Marie-Anne. I was lucky enough to have both a stylish mother and grandmother. Both women always believed in fixing their hair and having a good haircut. They also both believed in owning a good watch, a lovely ring and nice earrings and wearing them everyday. They loved silk scarves and wore them often under coats or jackets. They truly loved good outerwear. They had lovely coats because they said it was the first thing people noticed. They both wore lipstick all the time because they believed, “ Everything would be alright, just put a little lipstick on. “ I miss them both every single day and keep them close by putting on both the tea kettle, some lipstick and some good jewelry.
beautiful memories to cherish!
I always knew my Mother was in a good mood when she put on her red lipstick. She wore Revlon’s “Cherries in the Snow” Before she picked up my Father at the train station she applied her red lipstick and felt more like a beautiful woman than the mother of 4 little kids.
I love that!
Wow ! Red lipstick sounds like a real magic !!!!
This sounds so romantical the train station. We do not have trains where I live. I need to try the Cherries in the Snow lipstick.
Carrie Moon-Dupree my mother always wore that color too. Revlon still makes it. It’s my favorite red along with Ruby Woo by MAC. 😊
My mother also wore "Cherries in the Snow". I bought it recently and I just tried it the other day. I think I could wear it in the winter. She would also use a tiny bit on her cheeks if she didnt have rouge handy. I have one of her handkerchiefs that has her lip color on it. I cherish it.
Bonjour, Marie-Anne. Lucky you learning all of this from your mother. I can’t say I remember any from my mother. I will do the cold water on my face & I really take good care of my clothes. Thank You!💕
„ Less is more” my mother told me! And I follow this advice in many ways❗️
Oh the things my mama has taught me! Regarding style- whether one is home doing chores or out and about- always look presentable. Clothing, hair, makeup and jewelry must be given thought and effort to be feminine and chic. And when we look put together, we feel put together and we act accordingly.
I’ve worn red lipstick forever. My sisters used to tease me and call me Lucille Ball! 💄😂 My favorite shade is Very Cherry (635) in matte by Maybelline. For a warmer red, I like Carnal (‘Pure Color Envy’ 370) by Estée Lauder. Although I’m brave enough to wear red lipstick daily, I’m NOT brave enough to take a cold shower! Thanks for another great French Chic video. You and your mother are truly lovely ladies with exquisite style.
Beautiful pictures and sweet words of your mother🌹 I was raised by my fraternal mother ( mami I adore) she was a beautiful, simple lady, never wore any make up and keep her clothes immaculate - but I was told that my mother used to always look fabulous ( I only met her twice 1 I was 14 years old and 2 I was 42 years old) she was petite, slim with very fear skin and red hair - I did love my high heels 👠 and yes I do take good care of my clothes, all black some off white blouses and linen 😊
My mother taught me that taking care to be well-groomed and styled was one way to show respect to other people and occasions. She taught me also to arrive on time, and to really listen without trying to think of a clever response. And she was a truly brilliant seamstress!
Your dear mother was a very Chic and Elegant lady Penelope 🙏
Hello Marie-Anne. My mother did not teach me much about style or fashion because she was an orphan and grew up without her parents. So I saved my money and when I was 16 years old I went to modeling school. It was wonderful to learn all about fashion and makeup. I even taught my mom some things about fashion too. We were best friends together. ❤ 💋💋💋💋
Oh Marie-Anne, I always love your videos, but this was so beautiful and moving. Your mother looks beautiful and she sounds very wise too. My own mother was always a Tom boy and never interested in style, fashion, skincare or makeup. But her mother, my beloved Gran Margaret, was such an elegant woman. She was born in 1913, and lived until she was 95 years old. She taught me all of your mother's style lessons except how to walk in high heels, because she only ever wore flat or low heeled shoes! (she was 5'7" tall and my grandad was only 5'8" tall so she said it was rude to wear heels! 😂). She also taught me to sit up straight and never slouch. She hated jeans, but was the first woman in her family to wear trousers (she had long shapely legs and an hour glass figure!). She had a beautiful tweed trouser suit. She liked to wear a hat for church on a Sunday. She hardly ever wore makeup, but loved her red lipstick and had her hair "set" at the salon every week. She taught me how to shave the bobbles off woollen sweaters and how to tie a scarf. I could go on forever! She would have loved your videos too Marie-Anne!!! ❤️😘💕
Darling woman then and now. Some people, as some things, are timeless in look, in attitude, and in perceptions. 💋
I was not taught anything about style as a child & young woman...I am from a small town & we had no money for shopping...most of our clothes were second-hand. My mom did, however, always "fix" her hair & apply makeup, even if it was from the dollar store. I am now 55, & for the past 5 yrs. I have made it my business to study style & how to dress for my body shape...that is how I found YOU! You & I are of similar age, so I would never consider you a "mother" figure to emulate....but I do consider you a "style mentor" & I cherish all I have learned from you! Thank you for helping me to navigate my closet & walk out of it with confidence on a daily basis! 💖
@@MarieAnneLecoeur I feel so lucky to have a French Chic Sister!!
I love this! Your Maman is beautiful! My father wore a uniform also. My mother taught me so many things. She dressed well until her final year and the staff at the memory care unit called her The Queen. She wore Love that Red lipstick. I wear it sometimes but I feel self conscious in it for daily wear.
I remember lessons on taking care of my clothes, wearing little makeup, polishing my shoes, buying the best you can afford. She said cold water would make your hair shiny and close your pores so you didn’t have breakouts. She didn’t want me to wear heels because of my height. (I am 6’ and she was 5’3”. )However I did get some lower box heels in the 70’s and was so happy. She also sent me to a local department store for a course on being a young lady. We learned makeup, walking correctly, manners and flattering hairstyle. I miss her daily.
Your mother is a very wise and beautiful woman!
I'm 30 and I love your videos. Could you make some general style videos too?
The one about choosing wisely is particularly relevant today for ecological reasons. Sustainability is essential to save resources. Vivian Westwood preaches it all the time, too.
Yes!
All great lessons! My mother taught me what elegance and femininity was, like yours, my mom had her signature red lipstick lol She was a stay at home mom for 5 kids and yet I never recall seeing her looking frumpy or like a slob, she is my female role model.
Your mother was so beautiful, just like you, Marie-Anne! What a wonderful video xx
my son does the cold shower at the end of his shower, he says it is good for your immune system, my mother made our clothes and we had beautiful clothes , she also taught us about skin care cleansing, toning and moisturizing , thanks for the good advice
Your mother is lovely and the wedding photo is beautiful. Thank you for sharing all this great advice. My mother chose wisely because she could not afford a lot (she was in her 20's during the depression) but she always looked good and well groomed. When I was a teen during the 1950's, I didn't have a large wardrobe but it was nice and I felt stylish.
A very beautiful lady. You take after her.
I'm 20 and I do EVERYTHING like your mum did!!! . Incroyable !
As I have watched you, Marie Anne, I realized that my mom, who was Mexican and American with a French/German ancestry, knew the things you are teaching. She even looked alot like you, which makes me smile since she is no longer with us. I remember going to the mall when I was about 12 and having her explain about coordinating colors in outfits and other things that turned out to be timeless, classic and very French Chic style tips. She was often asked if she was French, in fact, and epitomized French Chic in every way. As I grew up and experienced life and some personal tragedies such as my mom's death due to cancer, I forgot alot of the things she taught me and got lost in terms of how I dressed and carried myself. I want to thank you for helping me to remember how to have classic chic style that is timeless and to remember to love and care for myself again. Also, thank you for reminding me of her every time I watch you. All the best and God bless. I look forward to your videos every week when they come out.
Hi Marie-Anne. I was able to watch at a decent time today.
Your mother is stunning.....just as you are.
I love everything you teach and I do 99% of it. EXCEPT FOR
THE COLD SHOWER. I tried this several times and I cannot tolerate it. I think I would rather eat a worm.
Your such a beautiful, elegant lady.
❤x❤x❤x❤ My mother was fantastic. She taught me:
The manners and etiquette of the British people.
The style of the French people and their natural approach to skin care.
And the the passion, romance and the way they eat in Italy (my family roots are from Italy.)
She also taught me about art, classical music, and ballet etc etc.
I know that you are a great mother and teacher. Take care Marie-Anne💜x
Wow! A wonderful example for us all
My mother taught me to always take care of my clothes and everything else. She said that a V neck and A- line shape dress or skirt are the most flattering. She told me I don’t look good in chartreuse. Also that after five clothes are for evening wear only. At that time it was true, no bling during the day. She hated to see evening wear in a daytime casual setting. I do always wear lipstick. However red makes me feel like I stand out. I have always felt that red lipstick is too bright for me. I do have dark brown hair and eyes. I have never heard of the cold water rinse, perhaps in summer I will try. I have short hair. It is very special to have such sweet lessons from your Mom.
Marie-Anne, your mother is stunning! When I lived in Rome, I stayed with my aunt Margherita for a while before I found an apartment. She was widowed many years before and had to raise my two cousins on her own. She worked as a janitor in a school. She had to mop floors, empty trash bins, dust and polish, etc. Never once did my aunt ever look the part of a traditional janitor. She was always elegantly dressed. She never wore trousers, always a skirt and modest heels. She only wore lipstick and her skin was so dewey and fresh. She just knew how to put herself together. I admired her so much. I used to wear a lovely Chanel red lipstick way back in the 90's. Maybe it's time to start again? Splashing cold water on the face is classically good advice. Thank you so much, Marie-Anne. After seeing your mother's photo, I can see where you get your good looks from!
The 90s is way back???
Your mother was so beautiful and graceful. Your father is so tall!
First, thank you for your quick and kind reply regarding makeup! I love this video! My mother wore red lipstick - she was always so chic. And she always made sure that I was all dressed up before we went out. I have been wearing red lipstick since my 20s. I’ve also been finishing my showers with cold water for over 30 years. I let the cold water run over my face so it tightens the pores. And I only use cold water to clean my face. I’m 70 now but people say I look much younger and can’t believe I have a 50 year old son! People are always complimenting me on how beautiful my skin is. People always thought my mother was my sister - so guess I got my good genes from her and my father who also looked young for his age (he was French). Where I fail is with my clothes. But your video has inspired me to declutter my closet and take as good care of my clothes as I do my skin! Thank you for your inspiration. ❤️
No doubt your mother is a remarkable and wise adorable lady. Just look at the gorgeous daughter she has!
My first muse was as you know my grandma Mary. Among many lessons I learned from her these are my favorites:
-Don’t follow trends, have your own style.
-Always wash your face with cold water and keep it moisturized at all times.
-Take care of your clothes and they will last for years.
-Wear perfume just for yourself even at bed.
-Walk elegantly because otherwise you will ruin what could be an elegant and chic style.
As you can see these beautiful ladies had so many things in common and I’m so happy we honor them every day.
What a beautiful and touching video Marie-Anne you certainly took after your mother in style, elegance and beauty.
And we really owe her the gift of having you in our lives!
A bientot!
A beautiful tribute to your maman. I grew in Montreal, Quebec. My mother wasn't French but she dressed like a French woman. She looked wonderful. But my father was French and had 3 sisters. And they knew how to dress as well. They would say one has to dress "comme il faut.
You look marvelous! Beautiful outfit!💗 Lovely video and tribute to your mother💐💗 My mom taught me to love myself...she tried to give me confidence I lacked. When we’d shop, she’d pick out things for me or she’d buy me things and say “It’ll look good on you!” I can wear pretty much anything bc she gave me confidence.💗
Marie-Anne Lecoeur You do!! When we wonder, will this look good?- we just remember all u taught us💐 #wiseWoman
Own your walk esp. when one is wearing high heels.Thank you for a lovely video!
Ah! So sweet to remember our mothers! My mother had very good taste, which of course, didn’t listen to until I was an adult. I remember her trying to tell me that clothes should never fit skin tight! And that less is more, and to stick to classics...now I know she was right! She used to knit and sew, and she was very good at it!
Wow! Your mom is *very, very* beautiful! No wonder why you're so beautiful yourself. You look so much like her! ❤️❤️
Lovely video!
My dear mother ( 1922- 2016) was not very much occupied with her looks, although she was a natural beauty and always was well dressed. She did not think it to be that important. She did not like perfume and make- up ( she only used lipstick like your maman) and jewelry and she hated silk. At parties she did wear some jewelry though. She could make our clothes herself when we were young and we were always happy with what she had made. It was rather trendy in those days ( 50's/ 60's) so we were very proud ;) My father had a very good job ( dutch railways) and my mother ( who later in life had a good job herself) accompanied him to foreign countries for international meetings. From the Netherlands to France, Italy, Germany and other European countries. She spoke four languages. They had official dinners at these occasions and my mother also often made festive clothes for herself and she looked beautiful. She made one shiny paisley top that her daughters including me later did wear until is was worn out. ;)) She also had a great cognac colored suede jacket that i wore later in life. In daily life my mother looked more casual with much dark blue and brown and burgundy , not my colors. I always wear light colors and pastels. Her mother, my grandmother ( 1895- 1985) , was much more chique and elegant in daily life. She spend much money in expensive shops on clothing and perfumes and jewelry. She always wore high heels. She loved alpaca and cashmere and silk. Her father had textile shops so she was raised with knowledge about good clothing. My grandmother never used any make- up. No lipstick for her. My mother and my grandmother both influenced my taste. I can make my own clothes ( sewing, knitting) and clothing for my children and grandchildren and love lipstick like my mother , but like my grandmother i prefer precious natural fabrics ( addicted to cashmere) and also love perfume ( always Estée Lauder) and beautiful soap like Roger & Gallet ;)) Forgotten: my FATHER also was a role model because he loved beautiful fabrics like tweeds (Harris tweed jackets) and lambswool and he did wear brogues...which i all love too!
I see now where you got your beauty and style. You asked us to share about our mother. My mother, Dorothy, was beautiful also. As a young woman, she was a runner-up in a local beauty contest. She also worked for a women's clothing manufacturer and received sample clothing pieces for her own use. There were 6 children in our family, so there was not a lot of money to spend on clothes. Mother would take me to rummage - second-hand clothing - sales, and show me how to look for quality labels. When I got my first full-time job in 1974 at age 19, in a law office, my mother loaned me some of her dresses so that I could look nice. These were one-color, shapely sweater dresses. I will never forget her generosity, because they were brand new dresses and she had not even worn them herself yet. It makes me tear-up/cry to think about it because she is gone now. And those dresses helped my self confidence so much. Thank you for everything, Marie-Anne. I will send you an email soon, since I am a new subscriber, telling you about my style journey, as you requested in your email.
Bonjour Lauren what a Chic and Elegant lady your dear mother was 🙏 Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories of her 😘 I look forward to receiving your email 😃
My mother is a very elegant woman. She likes linen and simplicity. I love her style. Thanks for this video.
My mom taught me how to shop second-hand for stylish clothing. We had so much fun shopping for bargains and buying gifts for others!
My mother in few weeks to became 104 years old, she is steal have manicure and pedicure, Love lipstick, use scarf e take care of her hear. She always smell great.My daughter and I trye to keep up with her.
Marie-Anne,
Thank you for your videos. I have just started watching them and find that I can relate to them quit well,
though I was raised in the Southwest part of the country, USA, where things are very casual. As I watch I find that this style is what I have always been attracted to. Could be because my Grandfather was French and my Grandmother was part French. My grandmother and my mother both loved their lipstick, (lipy sticky) as my grandmother called it. My mother was very big on caring for her clothes, she always emphasized never throw your clothes on the floor. Caring for your shoes was a must, never going out without your earrings and lipstick. I do slack in many of these aspects however I am excited to get back to caring for myself. Thank you again.
Beautiful photo of your parents , you have a bit of both of them , I see your Father's eyes and your Mamma's smile .❤️
All good advice...one other thing...a beautiful smile will take you anywhere...💝💝💝
Would like to see Marie in various colors of lipstick, in addition to the bright red. Maybe we could vote on our favorites.
What about peony rose ? It is a lovely color for a brunet.
My mother had a wonderful sense of style and took very good care of her clothing. She always wore lipstick, had her hair "done" and her nails polished. I remember two beauty tips she always told my sister and I. Always wear rubber gloves washing the dishes, because the hot water and soap will ruin your hands. The other was stay out of the sun or at least wear a sunhat. Good solid tips from decades ago!
My mother gave me the same advice. After she died in 2008 I wrote in a notebook many of the things she told me so I wouldn't forget them.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Don't forget to use hand moisturizer having washing your hands and doing the dishes.
@@annfairfax9797 What a good idea! My mom died in 2009. We must be similar ages.
Priceless advise ! I stay away from the sun too , wearing hat and sunscreen !
Don't forget to buy a dishwasher 😉
What a beautiful mother you have. You both look so much a like you could be twins. My Mother did not teach anything to me regarding clothes or fashion. I was sent away to boarding school at barely 14 and learned from an older student. who was well dressed. I have read magazines and listen to you. I have also learned by doing. I am still learning. What a wonderful memory of your Mom and how nice of you to share with us. This was a beautiful tribute to your beautiful mother.
Gorgeous mother and handsome father ,Marie-Anne!
We give thanks for French Mothers and French Grandmothers
They knew what they were talking about.
Always quality clothing , and quality fabrics
Hello Marie Anne! Your mother is a beautiful woman with the kindest eyes! She must be a wonderful inspiration for you and not just in fashion, I am sure. I hope you will not mind if I mention something regarding the wearing of heels and leg muscles. My physiotherapist told me that wearing heels actually shortens and tightens the leg muscles. To stretch these muscles, you can go up and down on your toes 10 times once a day. This keeps them nice and loose for wearing heels! I do this myself so I can wear my heels at work without pain and I do very well with this simple exercise. Mille mercis for the lovely story about your mother - it’s so nice to hear.
This was a very bittersweet video for me, because my mother had many of the same dressing/style philosophies as your mother did, and I was always in awe of her fashion and make-up sense. Sadly, she passed and I miss her very much. She was beautiful...as you and your mother are. Thank you!
My mother didn’t teach me much about fashion but she was a hard worker and taught me sewing. I made my clothes when young and now I am most grateful because I can do simple tailoring and am making masks for my family and others. You have taught me so much about dressing well. I noticed it in others but never figured out that they were just being French chic.
First of all, I have to say that I love your skirt, it looks like something that I would wear to work. My mother taught me to choose quality, to take good care of my clothes, and also about walking in heels. She also taught me everything about skin care and makeup. She stressed the importance of no matter how tired I am, never go to bed with makeup on my face, and to take good care of my skin. She also taught me to be a lady, and present myself as someone with decorum and dignity. She was, and still is, a very beautiful woman, even in her 70's. She is my number one fashion icon. Thank you so much for sharing this, what a wonderful sentiment to all the ladies before us that taught us style, and all of the most fun aspects of being a woman 😀😀😀.
My mother taught me a lot as well, but when I was young I was a rebel. Now I miss her a lot and I'm trying to follow her style, which was simple, but always elegant. Thank you
For me , no one compares to Queen Fabiola from Belgium.
Her beauty , elegance , style , compassion , intelligence , knowledge and capacity to put others at ease … true class , true elegance , high calibre lady she was . So strong and assertive , yet extremely gentle and poised .
And her husband was the same , exactly the same … but the male version .
So so beautiful your mother!
My mother taught me how to walk in high heels... she taught me to take care of my clothes and shoes and respect them.... I was NEVER allowed to have clothes on the floor... my mother taught me to always blot my lipstick... just a few memories from what you shared.
Oh my mom taught me that too! Teens have nothing on our moms...
My grandmother is 83 and she retired about a year ago. She always wears heels, she never had a pair of sneakers in her whole life! Every single morning she put some makeup on, of course some red lipstick, than combs her hair, put some hairspray and perfume.
I ve learned so much from my grandma abd i am so thankful!! ❤️❤️❤️
You are absolutely glowing, dear Marie-Anne, your mother is beautiful! ❤️
My mom, now almost 83, still wears red lipstick and for much of her life, it was her only makeup. For much of my life, lipstick of an earthier tone and tinted acne coverup has been mine. (My skin has never been super clear). In more recent years I added a small swipe of under eye cream, and that's it.
I love that you did a tribute to your mother. I adore my mother. Like so many from past generations (and present), my mother had to sacrifice a lot for her family and she did the best she could with limited resources, time and energy. She worked part-time, earned a degree, and raised us all at the same time. She wasn't exactly stylish. She cut her own hair and bought inexpensive clothes. But she wore slacks, a blouse, and nice shoes, not sloppy things, which had already become common in the US, and she always looked dignified. I didn't appreciate this growing up in the 70s and 80s but I do now. Now she has a fantastic wardrobe and wears a bit of eye make up and powder, and still red lipstick. She always looks great.
We were fortunate in our mothers I think, you and I. 💖
I was taught all of these hints since I was very young. Thank you Maman.
I don’t wear high heels because I have a growth defect in my spine and also 20 years of illness has made my muscles very weak, but I do wear 2”” heels a couple of times a week, so I’ll try your tips and see what happens. I’d like to look incredibly elegant for the tiny bit of walking I can do in them! I don’t really have a mother figure for style, more like sister figures, including you and my friend D. I had a nice experience yesterday encountering a lady trying on dresses who is the same size and body type as me. We had a fun time advising each other and swapping dresses. I didn’t buy one but I did find a beautiful White Stuff skirt in a charity shop that is still on sale on their website. I think my love of a bargain did come from my mum, though! Love your parents’ wedding photo, so elegant and beautiful!
Just in general, if a person decided to use a cane. It would seem like a cane that is designed by an artist could be just as elegant of an accessory as heels. I'm imagining inlays and with a beautiful handle and tip. Just for ideas sake, very fancy pool cues could give an example of what an inlay is. Then a good metal color that suits you as part of it too, perhaps. I would also consider crystal as part of a handle. Consult an artist to find something perfect. I would find this accessory to be very impressive.
@@peaceonearth8693 There are some really nice vintage/antique canes out there, too, so it might be worth looking at Ebay and some of those vintage/antiques/bric-a-brac places, too. (My Nan nearly always wraps her walking stick with tinsel at Christmas just for the fun of it!)
Lovely sharing. Thank you. And… honor to your Mother. Without her you would not be sharing with us. Well done.
So beautiful Marie-Anne...my Mum definitely passed on well groomed hands and silk scarves
A very nice tribute to your mother. My mother and grandmother came from the Philippines. They did not have much money to spend on clothes, however they both still were able to dress elegantly. My mother had told me that they would buy fabric and have a seamstress make their clothes. Into her 90's my grandmother continued to dress elegantly even though she was mainly in the house. She would wear a blazer , a dress, lipstick and simple colored nail polish. My mother would always wear tailored shorts, skirts and tops. My siblings have learned a lot from both of them on how to dress and look elegant.
Delighted to hear about your lovely mama. My mother was not elegant, I had to learn all on my own. But I taught my daughter to be poised, well-groomed and well-spoken. And she is more successful because of it at work and at home. Thanks for all you do for us!
Everything you mentioned is sadly not practiced here in Australia. I believe we are a style- less culture which saddens me. When I was growing up, my mother too, taught me how to be a lady and to carry yourself with style , the same thing I taught my own daughter. I’m 52 and still wear my high heels much to the shock of my peers of the same age. Thank you for your video. Xxx lily
Ah Lily I think you are too harsh on Australia & Australians.But we agree on the sage advice of Marie-Anne Lecoeur.
How lucky you were to learn from your mother ! I don't remember any type of discussion of any kind about fashion or appearance from my mother . I had to figure out most of the things you are discussing on my own . Watching your videos has helped me to know I'm on the right path . I've been wearing a couple of shades of red lipstick more often the last couple of years - one is a little more orange red and the other a blue red . Previously I kept to more nude shades of lipstick . It's way toooo late for me to learn to walk in heels but I really enjoyed seeing the instructions !
@@MarieAnneLecoeur :D merci
My chic 87 yr old mother always has said “ we can’t all be beautiful, but we can all be smart.” Very true
I have fallen in love with Marie and her channel. I have found a huge shift in my mood, lifestyle, and energy by becoming more elegant. I find elegance today people associate it with "bouje". Where true elegance is modelled by Marie. Thank you!
I agree with the cold water tip. I have also heard that It’s important to rinse your hair with cold water to prevent frizzy hair.
Your mom is lovely.
The pictures of your Mother are lovely, as is your tribute 💕! My grandmother, born and raised in Paris, until she married my grandfather and came to the USA at a young age, taught me about the cold water on my face and to use fresh cucumber on it to help keep it clear from blemishes! Haven’t thought about that in years! I recall Grammy wearing lipstick 💄 but I don’t remember if it was red… my coloring would not support red lipstick but does a burgundy count? I prefer a more natural look as my professional career is behind me and I am more comfortable, at this stage of life, to not draw attention to myself. Merci Marie-Anne, as I access your past videos to continue my new style journey 🙏🏻
What a handsome couple your parents made on their wedding day!!
Literally took my breath away when I saw them, and that's no exaggeration!!
My Mother taught me to wear red lipstick, too, although, since I was young in the "natural look" 70's, her lessons fell on deaf ears for years, but, whenever I left the house, she would say, "Aren't you going to put on some lipstick?",
Or, "You really need to put on some lipstick!"!!
When I was in my 30's, I finally listened and started wearing Mom's favorite type of make-up!!
My Maman's favorite lipstick was, "Cherries In The Snow", also, and she wore it on her wedding day!!
Thanks so much, again, for the lovely tribute to your beautiful Maman, and, if she is no longer with you, I have perfect confidence that she is smiling down upon you, from the beautiful Heaven where she must definitely be!!
God bless you, Marie-Anne, et A Bientot!!😍😍😍
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Oh, I am so glad to hear that you still have your Maman, and I'll just bet that she is just as lovely as ever!!
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How nice to hear about your mother. I suppose as a women that is the first women you learn from. Red coral lipstick, tweezers to form her eyebrow,, a little mirror to be able to see her shape and looks from behind was my mother's, never leave the house without. As she grew up during second World War she learn to sew, you know make changes, repair, etc. That is my legacy today. Above all my lipstick. It is nice to hear about our mothers what they did. Thank you for sharing. From Stockholm lots of regards, Lise
My mom, who is half-French, is 85 and still wears her red lipstick at all times. Even though she now wears flats or low-heeled shoes, she is always stylish and is turned-out well, from her hair to her shoes. She taught us girls to sew, and to take good care of our clothes so they would last a long time and look new. And, we knew how to iron our clothing. With shirts, start with the the back of the collar, move to the front of the collar, shoulder yoke, fronts, back, then sleeves & cuffs. That would make a great video lesson BTW! We knew the difference between pressing and ironing. Today, I still enjoy ironing (except for hubby’s jeans because he still wants a pressed crease!). 😤 Anyhow, ironing/pressing are good skills to have. Thank you for your informative videos, Marie-Anne.
This is such a lovely tribute to your mother, Marie-Anne. She must be very proud of you.
My mother always taught me that quality is always worth investing in. I don’t mean name brands (she never was a fan of big name brands), but just simple, elegant quality items. These applied for most everything including bags, shoes, clothes, jewelry. Also the caring for one’s clothes, especially the delicate ones. She taught me how to hand wash them. Loved this video!
My Mom was an elegant lady (poverty notwithstanding). She was always properly dressed and had a great sense of style which has greatly influenced my life. She always advocated the 'less is more'
motto- plain is better than printed , vertical lines to make one look tall, horizontal to increase width, plain top with printed bottom; plain botton with printed top and the list went on and on. I do appreciate your vlogs a lot and I keep on learning from you and wish you well in all your endeavours.
Your mother was so beautiful. She looks so sweet and elegant...My mother too, she didn't use a lot of make up, but she always wore a lipstick. She had different shades of red. She teached me that skin looks luminuos and perfect with the right shade of red, and not to go out without a lipstick in my bag. I miss her. This video is useful but also a tender idea, and one of your best. Thank you.
Oh such a beautiful mother and daughter!!!
My mum always had very good taste , and knew what to wear and when to wear it .
She taught me and my sisters to NEVER compromise on shoes and bras , as these will affect your back forever .
We had only good quality clothes that we passed on from sibling to sibling, for years on end .
They never lost color or shape, and many pieces were a classic , timeless even for children . Very versatile !
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My goodness, you are so like your dear mother and she is so beautiful.
My own dear late mother guided me in caring for my clothes, shoes etc but it was my paternal Grannie who first introduced me to face cream when I was 13 in 1966. She explained the necessity to care for my skin each and every day, and to wear a small amount of face cream each morning and night.
Despite all the various varieties that have come on the market since 1966 that I have tried, I always come back to the brand that my Grannie first introduced me to and how to use it.
My father however disliked lipstick intensely so I was a lot older before wearing my first one. I have yet to find a shade of red that suits me but I do love the pink/mauve shades.
Thank you Marie-Anne for that beautiful insight into your Mother. Please tell her what a beautiful lady she is.
Marie-Anne Lecoeur Hello and a very Good Morning to you from the UK. The brand of face cream that my Grannie introduced me to is called ‘Astral’.
At first, anyone seeing it or trying it, would think that it is a heavy cream, but the trick is ‘Less is more’ so I only apply it lightly. It just glides onto the skin and can be used from top to toe.
Thank you for the hints with cold water, I tried it this morning and you are absolutely right, cold water is refreshing. 😱😀 xx
Your Mom was BEAUTIFUL!!! 😍
A lovely tribute to your beautiful mother, Marie-Anne. My mom taught me those same lessons and she wasn't even French! I miss her. She also told me not to marry anyone prettier than I, LOL. At three years old I adopted the kind lady who moved next door as a grandmother/aunt. She was originally from Mexico, almost never wore makeup and was very beautiful. She taught me by example, how inner beauty radiates outward.
I lived closed to Perpignan in my youth and red lipstick is adamant. I also like purple which I guess is a reminiscent of the 80 rebel in us.
I can’t believe it my mother was the same. She never wore any makeup yet so many people commented to me that my mother always looked so good and dressed up. But her secret was red lipstick. She was 83 when she died, I’m 60 this year and I bought my first red lipstick now I need to get brave enough to wear it. Thanks for your videos.
Carla, try patting it on, as a stain, first, and do the tiniest bit of it on you cheeks, too, so it looks cohesive on your face. Sometimes that helps one feel that the lips are not standing out as much because the color is repeated elsewhere on the face. Or, treat your lips with a drier, waxier type lip balm and rub a bit of the lipstick on top, so you only have a hint of the color. (I recommend a waxy, matte balm like the original Chapstick or some of the EOS, not a shiny, slippery one like Carmex or Vaseline. Those will the red look greasy, glossy, and childish, and worse, will likely make the color run out of the lip line.) If you're not used to full intensity red, "diluting" it a bit will give you all the lift and vivaciousness of the color, without making you feel uncomfortable. Third, experiment mixing the red with a nude or "brownish" lipstick that you know flatters your skin. Adding a flesh tone to a vibrant color often makes it more wearable. Once you're more used to wearing red, try applying your lipstick full on, letting it set for a few minutes, and blotting it with a tissue. I think this is a technique that works well for many of us, over 50 ladies. It gives us a "muted" version of a favorite color so it will not look like we're trying too hard, plus it helps the lipstick not migrate into the fine lines we all get around the lips. Finally, when you're wearing red, make sure to wear dark mascara in order to create balance. If you don't do this, it might make you focus too much on the bold color on your lips and make you feel it's just too jarring. Good luck experimenting!
Irai Rod Thank you I’m going to try these suggestions
About cold showers it is true , they help to firm the skin , blood rushes to the surface of the skin and makes it glowing and nourished and firmed . in Russia we go even further - we jump into an ice cold water or snow after sauna:) Your mother taught you right lessons , I admire her advise about how to walk in high heels .
Love it❤
You are lovely and so is your mother.
Now I know where your beauty comes from...your mother. My mother, too, taught all your mother has taught you, including the red lipstick. She also taught that ironing clothing was a vital part of being well dressed. Never would we be allowed to go to public places in casual clothing. There was "play clothing, day-wear, and Sunday Best". Each served its purpose and was part of becoming a lady. Thank you for sharing your experiences.