16:55 I'm a dude and this just happened to me, both ways. Long story short, a girl that told me she loves me is now giving me the silent treatment after I told her I loved her too. I tried being patient, even set boundaries, gave her space to tell me anything I'm doing wrong. But now she's growing distant and I'm letting this have way too much power over me. this is extremely confusing last year I met someone that gave me everything I wanted (clear communication, honesty, actually made me feel welcome and told me she likes having me around). there was something about her that I didn't quite like, and maybe i was uncomfortable with how open/accepting she was with me. So i guess i did the same thing to her (except i didn't just stonewall, i communicated it).
that's fucking hurtful. of course it has power over you if the person you love and who says they love you all of a sudden withdraws without explanation. it's not a good sign as you stated yourself. she's struggling or choosing not to communicate and instead cuts u off. Ugh I feel for you man. I hope you have friends to talk to about this to process the hurt.
@Sabrina_zohar James Sexton's interview on the soft white underbelly TH-cam channel is absolutely amazing and very grounded down to earth. Honestly it's a lot of stuff I wish I knew before marriage
So, yoga is good for building the mind body connection? That's good to know. I need a lot of help with that. I think talk therapy has reached its limit.
@@Sabrina_zohar at some part in the video you were talking about black cat Golden retriever, and you're watching a TH-cam and they were talking about getting someone addicted to you using dopamine and you stopped watching I found a few videos like that they're absolutely horrifying
ahhh yes thank you for clarifying!!! That’s exactly what drives me insane about it!!! It is clickbait and very detrimental to a healthy and secure relationship!!
I just went through a breakup Tuesday and it was over a lack of accountability for breaking a boundary I set. Thanks for this episode
This episode has been so helpful. As a guy who is disorganized…. This helped so much. Sabrina, You’re amazing. You’ve helped so much
16:55 I'm a dude and this just happened to me, both ways. Long story short, a girl that told me she loves me is now giving me the silent treatment after I told her I loved her too. I tried being patient, even set boundaries, gave her space to tell me anything I'm doing wrong. But now she's growing distant and I'm letting this have way too much power over me. this is extremely confusing
last year I met someone that gave me everything I wanted (clear communication, honesty, actually made me feel welcome and told me she likes having me around). there was something about her that I didn't quite like, and maybe i was uncomfortable with how open/accepting she was with me. So i guess i did the same thing to her (except i didn't just stonewall, i communicated it).
that's fucking hurtful. of course it has power over you if the person you love and who says they love you all of a sudden withdraws without explanation. it's not a good sign as you stated yourself. she's struggling or choosing not to communicate and instead cuts u off. Ugh I feel for you man. I hope you have friends to talk to about this to process the hurt.
that's must be your karma because you treated the girl from last year the same way
@@acb0603that's not what karma means 🙏
I'm dealing with rejection right now. It sucks but I still value our friendship. Thanks for an amazing episode!
Wow what an episode. Spoke to my heart in current situation. Thanks for researching and sharing xx
If Sabrina is looking to adopt a 20 year old I volunteer 😂
I know during the last podcast you guys says that you were moving back into LA. Just wanted to wish you well and hope that you guys are safe.
I feel soo understood thank
You Sabrina I love your podcast ❤
Dude this is a great podcast!! I’m excited that I found you
So excited to have you in the family!🫶🏼
Always a pleasure to have some no BS advice❤ love you ladies! 💋 🎉
Happy to hear you’re looking at rings…… Congrats!
GET A PRENUP…..! In fact an interview with you and James Sexton would be AMAZING!
i second this
Hehe yes! Oh I’ll look into him thank you!!
@Sabrina_zohar James Sexton's interview on the soft white underbelly TH-cam channel is absolutely amazing and very grounded down to earth. Honestly it's a lot of stuff I wish I knew before marriage
I loveee you both
Wow. The dúo I needed.
My favs!!
Love the podcast!!!
So, yoga is good for building the mind body connection? That's good to know. I need a lot of help with that. I think talk therapy has reached its limit.
mention of the black cat theory - and her next video was about dopamine - who was that ?
Huh? Black cat and dopamine have nothing to do with the other so unsure the correlation but happy to clarify if you’d like to elaborate more.
@@Sabrina_zohar at some part in the video you were talking about black cat Golden retriever, and you're watching a TH-cam and they were talking about getting someone addicted to you using dopamine and you stopped watching
I found a few videos like that they're absolutely horrifying
ahhh yes thank you for clarifying!!! That’s exactly what drives me insane about it!!! It is clickbait and very detrimental to a healthy and secure relationship!!
People always default to physical abuse..
What about emotional
I know during the last podcast you guys says that you were moving back into LA. Just wanted to wish you well and hope that you guys are safe.