A Bible Lesson on Anger | How To Control Your Anger
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2024
- Pastor Josh Surratt shares a Bible lesson on anger and the formula that James 1:19 gives for how to control your anger.
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“Righteous anger doesn’t justify unrighteous responses.” -Josh Surratt
Thank you for this video I needed to here this today.
Hey just Gonna steal this quote real quick😊
Righteous anger? Is there such a thing?
@@FrankJoe324 it means that you get angry at things that should make you feel this way, for example when someone disrespects God and mocks Him, says His Name to complain instead of talking to Him and praying, when people misinterpret the Bible and teach it to people (false teachers) etc. It's like when Jesus saw that people didn't show God the respect they should show Him. Jesus got angry because they began to trade in the Holy Temple - a place that should be used to spend time with God. I hope that my answer helped you. God bless you :)
That's so true
I have been out of control with anger lately and absolutely hate it.
Me too
me too.
Me as well.
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Me too!!💙💙💙
And ur angry that u are angry
Dang
Same
Lately I have been so angry. So sad. So resentful. So incredibly depressed. I just want my heart healed.
Same
@@Godlywoman88praying for all of us, anger has been getting the best of me also
Same i am so sick of this world i wanna out of here my only reasons why i am keep going is jesus and my family my life is only waiting that jesus is comming back this world is so evil and it is so hard to be good but i try my best because i love jesus so much❤✝️
Amen
I feel you exactly what I feel
my kids can instantly send me into anger, Lord please send a kind heart to help me understand and bring more patience in my heart. in Jesus name Amen
amen. your children love you.
Lord help me with my anger, I surrender to you
Amen
God help me.
Right now I am so overwhelmed by lies and hate and betrayal all around me...and I am just furious about those who have done this to me.
Praying for God to heal my heart 😔💙💙
I hate this feeling.
Me right now. I’m just mad. This sermon helps
This describes my situation and behavior as well. I'm ashamed. I hope God heals and softens our hearts. Let us not become like those who hurt us, and may God also help us to forgive and let go.
I pray that I can be healed too❤ pray you guys are able to release your pain.
Prayers in Jesus name ❤❤
I know how you feel! I too have been wronged. I will pray for you! For God to heal your heart and mine!
Lord Jesus, please heal my anger.
I'm right there with you brother, I'm so angry all the time, depressed, unable to control anything
Amen! I need help with my Anger. The scripture is the way! Praise LORD God!
I admit I have anger issues
KaraokeTaylorxsingsfan I'm praying for you I know how you feel I'm feeling angry alot pray for me as well.
I ain't got a problem with anger I got a problem with idiots
Me too
Someone said if u squeeze an orange what comes out of it ? OJ...why? Cuz thats whats inside of it
So similarly when we get pressed and lash out we're quick to say it's cuz of him or her or what they said, but couldn't we say the same thing about ourselves ? We lash out cuz thats what we have inside...anger
I have this problem and I need Jesus to help me , It also doesn't help as a man if u have no other good hearted men to talk to
Same
I am raising my nephews. God gave me them to raise for a reason. I don't think I have ever been as angry as I have been raising them. We generally have a good relationship but man, there are those moments. I don't have children of my own, so I am still predominantly wandering in this parenting thing. It has been a journey, Lord please help me.
„Anger is the part of yourself that loves you the most. It knows when you are being mistreated, neglected, distespected. It signals that you have to take a step out of a place that does not do you justice. It makes you aware that you need to leave a room, a job, a relationship, old patterns, that do not work for you anymore. Learn to listen to your anger and make it your bestfriend. Then it will leave.“
This Paragraph is stuck with me. You do not get angry without a reason, but neither should you let the anger control you. Anger comes when you feel misunderstood oder mistreated. If you listen to that closely you will understand that you have to let some things go and by that the anger will leave you as well. 😊
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So helpful now, thank u ❤
Very helpful for me! Thank you for this.
Perfect
I feel like my head is gonna explode sometimes and everyone around me stresses me out beyond words I am trying Jesus help me
I would like to promise God, that I will have no more anger, but I don't want to break a promise to God.
Ephesians 4: 26-27
26 Be angry, but sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath,
27 Neither give place to the devil.
Lord Jesus, help to get closer to you and heal this anger issue that is a burden to me...
I can't control my anger issues I can't stay calm everytime I get upset angry I start to cry cause I feel alone like some dark spirit just consumes me into a dark place and am alone and I do is cry for help am afraid of been alone But I'm stupid and self centered why is it so hard for me to make friends Sometimes I'm just afraid of losing them and afraid of opening up maybe it's cause am afraid they might take advantage of my weakness betrayel me I try to be nice and calm and kind sometimes I feel like I'm just driven by rage and pain why is it so hard for me to let go of the pain I don't even know if I can trust myself every day all my life I have been putting up a fake smile to hide my real pain and loneliness I have deep inside me I'm afraid of being alone am scared I don't trust myself enough to trust others I feel like anger makes me strongly feared and respected by others but that's just on the outside , inside am alone ,all alone and I have always been like that everytime I try to tell someone I fail I just walk away ...... thoughts run in my mind always messing with my head telling
God please help take my anger away and thank you for this. I needed to hear this ❤this is what I’ve been going through with my kids thanks
i used to be very angry. a hateful, toxic and chaotic person with little to no peace or trust in my heart for anyone. when i turned my life to God and went all in, i started to notice that my anger was being redirected towards something else other than people. like, instead of using that anger on someone who 99% didnt deserve it, i got mad at myself for sinning or doing/behaving ungodly. started using the anger to better myself; which is helping me in my process to be aligned with God and have a close relationship with Him - which will further allow for more fruits to be birthed. it's a process !
Dear lord thank you for your salvation and I deeply apologize for my wrong doing I promise it’s not intentional please forgive me
Righteous anger doesn't justify unrighteous responses.
This teaching has been helpful, Thank you.
I feel like i'm outside of my body when i'm angry and I have no control. That's the one thing that I have issues with. Then I feel so guilty afterwards.
I struggle with anger like when my wife verbally attacks me, says stuff about my kids/grandkids, controls every aspect of my life or the tailgaters who bully me on the road or when people make my job difficult. I blow it, yell, cuss and throw a fit. Daily I repent. Lord please forgive me, deliver me and help me. In Jesus Mighty and Powerful Name Amen!
I'm full of anger , it's the worst 😔
Me too, God help us.
My anger comes from feeling everything I do isn't enough for some people. I can do 99% right yet they focus on the 1% wrong. It's frustrating and frankly I'm sick of it. Why bother?
I can relate💔
Let me follow this conversation. I may end up learning something as well.
You're not alone I have been living with those types of behavior's over 50 Year's and I think enough is enough now it's sad to know when your own people hate you and you've been there for them almost all your life 😏
Same here
May God deliver me from the spirit of anger
I’ll keep that with me forever man! My righteous anger gives me no right for an unrighteous response. Instead, we should pray for God to be the one that will repay those that I’ve done evil. This showed me so much. Thanks brother.
I struggle lol I'm a Christian disabled vet T.B.I(traumatic brain injury) I was injured in 2015 I can't work or drive and haven't seen a friend or the woman I love in years I pushed her away because I don't feel like I can give her what she deserves I'm on a fixed income I regret my actions....
God bless you!
It gonna be ok. God is bigger than all of our past actions. You may remember regrets, but if you truly begged God to forgive you, he will forget any and all sin 💯
Behold the Son of God. He will transform you and your life..by beholding we become changed. Pls my brother don't keep looking at your past failures because it will keep you in darkness. Look to Jesus the author and finisher of our faith. Phillipians 4:13 . I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me. ❤
Message taken seriously.
This has taugh me to step back and reconsider what I say before I say. sometimes I say things without meaning it fully. like I rapid fire my thoughts without thinking about it. thank you :)
Father, thank you for your will spoken in human words through your human messengers, the prophets. Thank you for the Holy Spirit, who makes these messages more than just words. When I open your Scriptures, I ask that your Spirit brings them to life in me, with deep conviction and powerful hope. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen Shalom.
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Thank you for this message! GOD and his son Jesus has called upon me to check my anger and learn to not be so agitated. I thought that I didn't have a problem and I could control it until I stumbled upon James. It was pride in the end and that is not of GOD, but of the devil. May GOD whose name is Jehovah and his Son Yashuah Ha Mashiach guide others in learning to control our anger. For anger amongst ourselves is not a spirit of GOD, but it is a spirit of the evil one.
Dear God, the day yoi deliver me out of anger, bitterness n rage, i will come back here and testify of your Goodness🙏
Dear Lord l kicked in a church door because of my anger 😢😢😢. I was so stupid back then 😢😢😢. Lord pray for me ❤❤❤.
I needed this .I appreciate you helping me with scripture. I'm not perfect but I went to my daughter's graduation last night and people disappointed me on many level and I was upset and sad and tried my hardest to be patient but the rudeness of others was overwhelming .men pushing for seats over elderly parents letting children cut people in line then taking that spot the language being spoken the open bottles of alcohol being drunken in line to the graduation ceremony the half naked clothes people were wearing.i just kept saying WHY in my head the aggressiveness of people towards others ..when we sat down after two hours of patiently waiting I looked at the arena and thought I was in some type of pit of sin I was deeply saddened and confused as to who needed prayer and who would spit in my face .I sat quietly and my wife was surprised I didn't say anything I clapped 👏 for every student graduating as was hopeful that they were the future and we were going to be the past .I sat and prayed and asked God please protect these graduate's from this world this pit of sin and in Jesus name I hope they all have successful lives and find you ❤️
Life is scary but life is more scary without God in your life 🙏
Jesús only know I’m trying to control my anger out Burt forgive me father for my actions I’m trying 😢
Anger has been on me and a emotion of burden I have carried, I really hate it, this day, because of my anger i burst out and yelled at my classmate..She cried because some blamed her at the reason for my outburst, I really hate it, I apologised so many times..And sit there in guilt, shame and regret
3:17 😂😂😂 Brother, I have the same horrible "gift." 😂😂😂
Thank you. God bless all of us🙏
I hate the fact that I am in constant anger and this is because, my younger brother has a vendetta against me because, he thinks I am the favoraite yes, I tried everything even apologizing for nothing, and the whole constant drama fest over little things is making me crazy I can't go a day fearing something is gonna start between us. its insane and its draining me both spirtually and mentally. to the point where I AM NOW giving into my fits of rage because he rather listen to the voices in his head then me.
This was helpful for me, thanks a bunch. God Bless.
Amen I needed this
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I need this GOD🤦🏻♂️
I love the way he speaks and his humility. I struggle with anger a lot, and it’s been an ongoing thing I work on for years.
We don’t battle flesh and blood. Thank you. That’s so true and helpful.
I love Jesus and pray that he can help me learn to control my anger. I never thought it would be this tough.
I need help with your prayer because I really want to get back at someone who recently hurt me and I want to backhand them but I need your prayers at forgiving this person n
Very wellspoken and well explained
My anger is my tragic flaw
Ooh My God Thank youuu soo muchh !I have faith that God will help me with this quick anger of mine!🙏
I have a anger issue right now and don’t like it but in my defense I just quit smoking even though that’s not an excuse thank God I’ve been delivered from smoking I must add
Thanks for being real brother, Amen 🙏
Thank you
My anger has been with God and life. I've even denounced my faith at times b/c of it.
Dear Godly, It's difficult.
Thankyou
Amen!
Exceptional Break down of the Verse and effeciently explained ! Thank you this really spoke to me and I know I needed this
God loves u
God help me with this
I needed that.
Thank you for the kid scenario. I so needed this teaching today ❤
Lord help me for I have been rather “short” as of late. I always calm quickly after i find myself in the tempests of anger but they often are short and intense. It’s often the little things like the wife nagging me etc but I want to change this behavior with every fiber of my being… please help me lord for I am in need of salvation and deliverance
He loves you. God loves you.
The good news based on the comments here Im reading is the fact we all have a godly sorrow and hatred for our anger and sin which means were mostly in step with Gods values and we acknowledge that the law is good. We all looked this up and i hope we can all implement this as best as we can.
My family was abusive and narcissists and corrupt. The unbearable pain they caused me. They ruined school, they caused me my mental health, they are emotionally and verbally abusive and very non self reflective. The amount of abandon and invalidation/gaslighting. I told God I hope they die, burn, I hate them. I have all this rage and God doesn't want me to have feelings? After all that. They ruined my life and all I want is to make them feel as I did? Am I committing blasphemy when I'm mad at God for my existence? Hating my family? Cussing. The sorrow and abandonment, the hollow weeping that they devalued and invalidated. They ignored me when I was down. They kicked me when down. My stepdad turned off my heat this past Christmas. Just to spite me. They physically, verbally and emotionally and even financially abused me my whole life no cap. How can I live independent and become married one day and move on? I'm so damaged. I weep internally. Is God mad when I said I hope they burn in hell? I hope they die? I'm trying so hard but my hurt is surfacing. I feel volatile and resentment. How can I forgive a lifetime of pain and hurt? Torment. I'm rebuking Satan, but my pain still stands. I forgive them but I keep taking it back. Any prayers? Anything to cure this? Has God left me?
Hey, I just wanted you to know that I love you. God doesn't hate you or has left, because how you feel towards your family. In fact He calls all of us to bring our pain and sorrows to Him and give it all to Him. But what does that mean? What does that look like? I have childhood trauma myself and I'm a military vet, so I have trauma from my deployment to Iraq. It took a long time to forgive the people that caused my childhood trauma and it took awhile to forgive the people that tried to kill me in Iraq. Eventually I did though. I realized that holding on to all that anger and hate was hurting me and so I had to let it go by saying "God I'm putting this in your hands. I forgive these people that have done me wrong, so here take this and do with it what you will." After that I moved on. In the Bible God could've destroyed Nineveh like He did Sodom and Gamora. However, He used Jonah to send a message to them to tell them "Hey if you don't repent from your wicked ways, God will destroy you in 40 days." Instead of killing the people of Nineveh, God chose to forgive them, and if God can forgive not only the people of Nineveh, but every person who has ever lived and will live, then I can forgive a few people that has done me wrong, including my family. I hope this helps.
@@therealesttsalagi3920beautiful comment ,it helped me ,thank you
I stand with you. When I read your comment it was like you had written down what is in my mind , what I have been through.
It was like a mirror image.
It’s hard , I’m they haven’t stopped me loving that’s one thing they’ll never take and it’s the most important thing of all.
I wish I could hug you x
I think your articulation of your exact feelings are what God wants to hear. I have struggled with many of the same feelings my whole life except I am a bitter root who has tried to get to the bottom of why I am so angry. It is defeating to try so many things to release these feelings or deal with them but it is like an invisible hand on my life. Maddening. I don’t share the very valid reasons you have to be angry. I recently am seeking to just talk to Jesus about it as a friend and acknowledge I am broken without hope apart from him to either get past whatever my screwed up emotions are or to accept them as a cross to bear to love others who are like me. When I pray for me about it, I am going to ask God to remind me of your comment and pray for supernatural healing. May He bring peace that transcends understanding to you.
I am a person with that and trust me it's so worse than ever before. May God guide me now i am trying to be slow in anger since it makes me curse and cursing when angry makes me feel satisfied ik that's from the devil and may God forgive me..
Its very very hard when people just have to have a problem or only want to tell you your feelings dont matter while telling you nobody cares about thier feelings im so stuck
Men who are watching this, please make sure to not let your anger get the best of you and not let this go on another moment. It will lead your children to wrath; I've set the wrong example, and I will be spending the rest of my life proving I have changed in the Power of the Almighty.
I wanted my parents to be like that desperately.. I cried in secret many times.. my parents love me but they never asked me what's going on even when they saw me cry ..
I was in edge that I thought if they aren't like how they should okeyy be how u r hurt me forever ..
I will make Jesus my dad and mother instead ..
I was breaking down I was so deep I didn't like to be borned in this world ..
But Jesus did change me ..
But today I feel like I am feeling the same pain again becouse of my family .😵💫
My anger is so fast that i react before i even realize what is happening. This is road rage and anger towards my fellow lazy workers.
I feel like I get angry so easily and I’m trying to work on it, feels like my whole family does too so we definitely have our work cut out for us 😅 But honestly I feel like my immediate trigger is when my mom basically explodes with anger towards my siblings and I, it makes it really hard not to get angry back
I’m a Christian and when I feel I’m being mistreated in any way it sets me off so fast I try to control it but I end up destroying the house and repeatedly hitting things when I’m upset and wake up the next day with bruises. (I’m in therapy btw)
My anger is in the world I'm tired of seeing injustices I'm tired of bad people winning & good people suffering
I need a prayer i need self control in my life i tend to find myself getting easily agitated and having horrible thoughts in my mind for some reason run rampant
I’m a husband/father/church leader…and I struggle with anger. It’s been a battle
It's the 1st time since Jesus christ I acknowledge myself getting mad and know it's the not the will of Jesus and acknowledge I have to correct this.
i have anger to and its bad. but i just dont want this anger in me. i believe you cant get into haven with a angry in your hart. im trying to change it but i don't know how. but now i understand what he is talking about. so im going to try this slow step that he is talking about.
I just don’t trust people, but I trust Jesus
Please I need im scaring my family with this problem
God bless you. I also have a major problem with my anger and my mom. I love her, but. Sometimes, she irritates me and and I blow up, and then afterward, I feel terrible. I am trying to have more patience and repenting, but it certainly isn't easy, but keep trying and repenting, and you will get their eventually.
I don't just choose to be angry, but when people don't appreciate me for all my efforts. Then when I speak I can't control it.
It feels like I am being overwhelmed by anger, so much, that I feel like I'm gonna do something that I'm gonna ABSOLUTELY REGRET!!! The hell should I do?!
I have been so angry and full of desire for revenge against two neighbours who did wrong . I try to follow the bible but then the anger explodes as they both get away with doing wrong. My heart feels heavy and I want peace and know my anger is not righteous nor my response. This feels like a battle im losing
My husband kidney transplant pray please help me
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easier said than done
I have anger issues too. It’s annoying
At 0:01 second, at start. The three simple steps sound promising, as one should simplify life, then deep doctrine.
Is there a source of coaching or boot camp to develop tolerance or deal with frustration?
The words are nice, but sometimes life is too real.
A half an hour ago I just lashed out on my mother because I left my dogs leash at my work. I had ta run all the way back in the heat ta get my dogs leash. My mother says that I make her life hard and I admit it I do. I need ta start changeing. I can't allow this anger ta live inside me anymore. What can I do?
Bro my dad freaking took my keys now ima be hella late to my friends party and I’m so freaking mad right now i just said I had to look up something to calm me down
One thing that really gets me angry is technology issues. Whether it’s computer problems, slow internet, trying to set up a smart tv or just going through hard yards of installing Trend Micro on my laptop, my anger really increases even to the point where I am ready to pick up my laptop and toss it out in the street.
Remember!
for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
James 1:20
I need help with my anger.
It's harder for me to control my anger because I'm autistic
I have anger
A.D.H.D. makes thise extra difficult. My mother was a prescribed, controlled substance (Diet Pills -1967) while pregnant, abuse survival from 0-5 years old and up.
We will get angry, when your limit over .so how can we control our anger if your limit is over?
I have been out of control with anger management Gosh I don't like it at all
Ive just reacted badly for my husband lying to me ,he says he has nothing to apologise for for me hes missing the point now hes gone to bed not feeling remorseful or upset but me im upset because ive allowed myself to be angry with him i think the real reason is i wouldnt lie to him so i feel he is disrespecting me by lying to me and when hes caught out on a lie he downplays it or uses another to cover it up which causes me to be frustrated which makes me angry but i cant see how i can approach any issue wheh he does this without feeling hurt or angry to him its not a big deal but to me i feel why would you do that now im not happy with myself for becoming angry and I'll be upset all night with myself where he will go to sleep and contuine not thinking its that important i often feel my feeling's are dismissed by him
Righteous anger doesnt justify unrighteous responses
Did I miss what he said how to control your anger?
I was terrorised by my Dad during my childhood. I wish death to him and have an incredible flaming screaming ball of flaming anger in my heart towards him. I need Gods help. God loves us
I'm the same. In God we trust
I get overly angry because the caretakers in my life just roll over and take disrespect and get fucked over. And then I'M the bad person for compensating for them. I'm so sick of it.
In the heat of the moment it’s extremely hard. I almost feel uncontrollable. I need therapy frfr
Angry at the fact you're angry, a perpetual cycle of junk... it's HELL.