She is right. I have been to Ukraine many times, and dated many girls from dating sites and the ones i have dated are generally looking for a guy with money willing to spend money on them. The last girl i dated was very upset that i did not take her to the 'Chateau' in Kharkiv, a very expensive restaurant in Kharkiv. If a westerner wants to meet a serious Ukrainian girl, it is very hard to find her on the dating site. Better to go there and meet them in person.
My wife is from Ukraine & I dated extensively in Ukraine from 2016-2019. Part of the dating process is spending time together in person & getting to know her character. A perceptive man can usually weed out gold diggers pretty quickly.
BUT... the fact is, most women do this in all countries to ALL men regardless if they're from within or outside the country. This might seem isolated to some places, but it's not.
Valid point but it does depend on culture and intent. Most Slavic women are very family oriented, they want a family and need to know you can provide for it. This a female biological imperative that likely oredates culture. Is she and her offspring going to survive ? Ukrainian women seem more family oriented than say Poles or Czechs. After that it's just a sliding scale how much is "enough".
My mom married an American and that's how I ended up in California. I visited Kiev before the war. It's a beautiful city with lots to do. Good luck with your channel. :)
Being married is GREAT! But definitely not to an American woman, and maybe not to a Ukrainian woman either. I married a lady from the Philippines 19 years ago and we're doing pretty good. I may have gotten lucky, but once you consider women from outside the U.S. I feel that your chances definitely improve.
Eastern Europe, nope. My ex wife was born in the USSR. Present day Russia. We divorced four months after she got her US citizenship. It was 100% scam. Now I treat women from these counties like sand on the beach. The goal is to leave the sand on the beach. Not bring it home.
@@raymondmiller5098good luck with Slavic women then. They're not easy and I have the feeling you wouldn't have the patience to wait. Filipinas might be more your speed,
The American Dream can have different meanings, but most commonly it refers to the general belief that America offers people the opportunity to go as far as their work and abilities can take them. If you work hard and take advantage of what this country offers you, then you will succeed. There are no upper limits on what you can do. Many foreigners have proven this by coming to America with nothing and through hard work, or education, establishing themselves in the economic middle class. My grandmother was one of them. She came to America in the early 1900s with nothing but a 3rd grade eduction and she didn't speak English. She worked all sort of difficult jobs (plucking chickens, taking in laundry, cleaning houses, working as a seamstress etc.) but eventually saved enough money to start a grocery store with her sisters. She eventually owned her own home and succeeded in raising a family and even helping with her grandchildren's college education. When she died, dozens of strangers showed up at her funeral. We discovered that for years she had been feeding homeless people out of the back of her store, giving them whatever produce or day old items she couldn't sell. She loved this country and the opportunities it gave her. She also knew what it was to be hungry and have nothing. Today we call it "paying it forward." She just called it her American Dream.
I find Ukraine woman to be very beautiful, intelligent, hard working with family values. I think they live a hard life and never complain. It’s sad that there are not enough men for these woman and i wish them all to find true love and happiness
I wouldn't use them, I've been single all of my life, I'm nearly 60 now, that is just how it was meant to be, I'm not attractive to women in any way, shape or form, I wouldn't dare talk to a woman outside of work or profession, apart from friends or partners of friends as I am seen as offensive, why would I waste my time on dating sites to get rejected?
@@DoubleDuece-sk9md you are right. but there are still certain nationalities that value other things more. like love and loyalty and family. i think Filipinas are like that and maybe some other south east asian countries.
@@openbob6656 good point, can't believe I didn't think of that. Loyalty is my pm me Probably didn't think of it because its so ingrained inside me, to where it's a natural life given deep in my subconscious. Definitely agree with you about Asian culture in this regard to this as well.
I have been married to Slavic women, and I can't say that I have very much good to say about that experience. Yes, many are beautiful, sexy women, but the reasons that many of them want to immigrate to other countries or marry foreign men really are obvious. The first reason is purely economic. Places like Ukraine, Russia or any of the other former Soviet countries tend to not have very good economic opportunities for young women. Unless these ladies are willing to do work that can sometimes be considered immoral or even illegal, sadly there are not many good paying jobs in these countries. Most people take low paying work just to survive. All around them are indicators of the good life in advertising and media. They often ask themselves "Why can't I have that?" They believe the lies of media, so they become desperate. They may decide to marry a man in their own country who has similar problems of his own, or they look outwardly to foreign men who may have the promise of an easier life. If they are unwilling to be tied to a man who in their own country, in many instances a man who drinks too much alcohol to numb his own bad situation, she may turn to foreign men as an escape from these circumstances. Many of these ladies have good educations compared to America women, but they have little to no opportunity to use this to good advantage in their own countries. The second reason may be that there are not many marriage-minded men in these countries these days. As mentioned above, many men in these countries have problems with alcoholism or drug abuse to numb their own problems in life, and often these men are not loyal to one woman at a time because of the availability of so many single females looking to find a husband. War has taken its toll as well, and both Ukraine and Russia are losing marraige-aged men at an astounding rate. It is a problem of numbers. This third reason may not be a popular one to discuss, but it is a factor, so here goes... Because of the political history and culture that is derived from it, many folks from these countries have no problem with lying about anything to escape the conditions of their circumstances. The degradation over time of their society caused by wrong thinking Socialism has caused many there to think that they should use any means possible to get what they want in life, without regard for morals or even legal restraints. Lying, stealing, prostitution and even serious crimes are often no barrier to achieving whatever goals they want in life. They often think of these things as lessor sins to get a greater good. I am sorry if this offends anyone, but it is the truth. I am not claiming that the West has better morals or ethics, but in the case of the circumstances in these Slavic countries, it is a factor. If conditions here in America were to reach the same level of economic disaster, I am sure than there would be the same problems here with American men and women. We do not have any claim to moral superiority. This is merely the human condition. Let's face it, if these factors did not exist, these women would more than likely be extremely happy to remain in their own cultures, stay close to family and friends, and marry the available men right where they live. There are honest, virtuous and moral people in these countries, but the conditions in which they live can sometimes make even the most virtuous individual question their own ethics and do anything to escape the situation. Please understand, I am not saying that all Slavic women are bad. What I am saying is that the conditions are there for less scrupulous women in these countries to take advantage of naive, lonely men in the west.
If men are naive, that is their problem. Anyone looking for a spouse needs to be a good judge of character. You only get to know about a person's character when you spend time in person with them and see their behavior, particularly when things don't go their way.
Dated a 100% russian girl soon after she migrated to my country when the war started. I was 100% convinced she had money incentives to be with me, only to realize she had not. She shared and spent a lot of her own money in our relationship and was the most genuine person I have been with. Never used me for anything, and brought so much to the relationship. Western girls on average can not compete with how much she brought. The clearer aspect was... she had more money than me by a margin😂, and had MUCH richer men waiting behind, and she used one once to help me out. No western girl took as much care of me financially, emotionnally and humanly, it changed my perception of western women. Never asked me a dime. Vacations? She used as much money of hers for the two of us as she could. Groceries? While I was at work she spent her own money on groceries to cook me dinner. Although... her cooking skills are largely inferior to mine so I rather cook myself, but the effort was touching, so even if it wasn't so good, I always acted like it was. Unfortunately, at some point she couldn't renew her visa, so she had to go back home. She left me a pile of money to help me out before she left, although at that time my salary had just increased by a lot, but as usual she wanted to help. She's still one of my best and closest friend today.
I don't know how many Slavic women you have married but what you describe is a very old scenario, that dates back in the 80s. That is not reality today, AT ALL. I have traveled extensively in those countries: Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Latvia, Romania, Estonia, Slovakia, Czech republic... Today Eastern Europe cities are booming with nightlife, women dress in fashion and have money. People are all free to go wherever they want and do whatever they want, and most of them live way better than the average American. Just travel to the Pacific Islands or Indonesia and you will see what they are doing with the money that we send them: vacationing in luxury resorts. Last year I traveled to Spain and there were Ukrainian and Russian BMWs, Mercedes, Lambors, Ferraris, etc everywhere. I have friends married to Eastern Europeans and they confirm that the only places where electricity goes off frequently and they have some economical problems are in remote areas in Russia, so the same thing as today in some areas in California. Those women this video mentions are in the business of getting money from SIMPS as a way to get an extra income and afford a more expensive life. And yes, they are all bad, because the are scammers. That's the purpose of this video, to alert men about them.
Fell in love with a woman and her son (now our son) from Vinnytsia. Married for 3 years. Have to say that there were hard times. But, well worth it. You do have to watch out for yourself; it is not a short process for immigration. So both sides better be in it for the long haul. Money can become an issue. But, that subject is an issue in must relationships.
I’ve met a lot of Ukrainian women and the socioeconomic situations in any country is the determining factor in anyones struggle for a secure life, man or women’s lives, but especially women’s lives who also have their own personal assets to bargain and compromise with in order to achieve her level of desired survival, and depending on her values can bring her to certain levels high or low and that also determines her treatment of people men especially! I have met women in every country but the more financially disadvantaged she is the more she may compromise to the point of sociopathy and using people or the opposite as in good decent values and unwavering in her commitment to her moral character! So in any case, the true character comes out whether it be a shallow or superficial narcissist or a good decent human being who looks for a man’s good intentions and not his money first, but no matter those same behaviours are prevalent throughout the world and of course you see the trend in the western cultures where women who are financially independent and stable say they don’t need men and that culture is spreading so you now have OF’s and women’s other ways of compromising where her superficial side and wanting to be With only the best looking takes over and for a shallow superficial character, the variations are numerable! But whatever, I prefer a good old fashioned girl who is a decent human being that looks at a man’s character not his wallet first! because I want to know regardless of whether they are from the east or west,what they have to bring to the table besides their physical selves! 🤷🏽♂️
Your video popped up on my feed and since I am interested in Ukrainian/Russian woman I thought I would watch. I liked your content so I gave you a thumbs up and subscribed. I would love to hear about any Retired Americans living in Ukraine now. I am looking forward to watching your channel grow. ❤
I am married to a woman from Ukraine. Please listen American men, these women are not like American women. They don't like men who blah blah blah all the time, they don't like sensitive men, they have strong minds and don't complain a lot. They expect you to take control be a man. They love flowers, hugs and kisses. Lots of work but great family values and good people.
My wife is also from Ukraine and I think you are correct. Ukrainian women look for men in the traditional sense of the term - providers, protectors & problem solvers.
I was going to add the same. Most Ukrainian women are 8s and above compared to American women, they will continue to look good for you, have traditional values and are very feminine. Just respect their cultures and values. Also be a masculine man, which has mostly disappeared in the West.
Watched this last week while discovering your channel, and on sunday I randomly meet this ukrainian girl. Connection between us was super fast, we had an incredibly smart conversation punctuated by many great and genuine laughters (there's a point you can't fake, out of everything I know it was genuine). Lovely, lively, adorable, educated, cultivated and super smart. Disappointed by French men as she told me she pointed out that I stand out and seemed very happy to meet me. So she asked to see me again the same day at night after finishing her job, she took my number. Got herself all pretty for the date as you would expect from a slavic girl, we had a lot of fun while she was teaching me how to play pool (and beat her at the same occasion). She even held my hand while walking her home and it felt great, even perfect I'd say. She asked to see me again the next day (yesterday) or the following day (today) if she can't make it because she has late shifts at night that sometimes extend by 1 or 2 hours. But... We planned the night out during yesterday's afternoon, she gave me some details about her late shift schedule and we were supposed to meet around 2:30am because it extended to 2am. Unfortunately she had to cancel cause she needs sleep (she truly really did and so did I so good for me because the day before we hung out til 5am). But I noticed something a little bit weird, her schedule when explaining why she canceled had a detail that changed. She told me she had more work that was just added on her platter but at the same time told me it extended to 00:40... This discrepancy made it all feel off to me. I thought of a typo (yet a bit of a stretch), but I also realized I could be manipulated, worse, that she could be playing with multiple guys until she finds her proper "walking wallet" (worst case scenario, but also all speculation) and I started falling into strong skepticism today. I'm supposed to see her again tonight, but I'm less "enchanted" to do so now, as now I have a lot of doubts that are difficult to get rid of. I admit that most of my doubts come from watching this video earlier on, but still. Something feels off, and I'm usually accurate with my intuitions, yet ofc not 100% of the time Still what if I'm wrong and she indeed is genuine? Because right now I don't feel so comfortable and at ease. Might be a date where I'm pretty off tonight. Anybody got a trick to figure out if she's genuine towards her intentions with me or not? Cause I don't want to blow an opportunity based on fallacious speculation, and as a very straightfoward person I'm basically on the idea of simply asking her face to face this week. But it feels like very offensive to ask if I'm actually wrong. She has no idea if I got plenty of money or not, we didn't discuss money at all, we just told each other what job we occupy. She does know I'm not poor though that's all (as in "struggling"), but I'm afraid she expects me to be wealthy one way or another due to where we met (in the wealthiest district of Paris where she works). Tbh I believe she's be paid more than I am this year as I'm having a difficult year as a freelancer haha. But she doesn't know any of that... so difficult to be certain of what I'm dealing with...
Hi, thank you for sharing your experience 🤗 Unfortunately, the fact that she knows with certainty that you are very rich is not good for you. It's hard to tell if she's sincere from what you've said. You need a lot more information, some signs by which you would determine that she is not interested in you as a person, but in your wallet. It's hard for me to advise you on anything, because I don't have too much information. Try waiting and looking closer so you have more details 🤔 But if you've already got the alarm bell ringing about the time inaccuracy, you should definitely be wary. Maybe, of course, she doesn't speak English well, for example. But under no circumstances should you give her money if she asks you for it. Try to go on a date with her not to an expensive restaurant, but just to walk around the city, inexpensive cafes and so on. You might get more information 🤔
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica Hi and thank you for your reply. I think you misunderstood me a little, I'm NOT rich, even less "very rich" 😂. I'm just not poor, I have a decent income but isn't enough to not pay attention to my spending due to how my electricity and gas bills have multipled by 4 despite a large decrease in my consumption (thanks to the war). Last year was better for me than this year also in terms of income (I'm a freelancer and this year is terrible for me). What I was saying is that she has no idea whether I have money or not since we didn't speak about our respective incomes. We just met in the most wealthiest district of Paris, and she did believe early on that I live there (then I told her I live an hour away). This would be the only reason why she could think I have money, but I believe telling her I live an hour away is a clue I just earn decent money to live without begging, but nothing to brag about. The clue is that all the wealthy area are within 30min of access, living 1h away means I live in cheaper housings. I was also saying, judging by what her job usually pays out where she works, she could very possibly be making more money than I do by a margin, she's not poor. I certainly won't send any money, that's a certainty. I need to pay for a lot of stuff this fall to renovate my flat to decrease the bills for next year, I can't afford to send money. Like you said, based on clues if she's interested in me, so far she gave all the right signs, asked me a ton of questions about me with for exception what income I have, she did not ask. She was looking at me with sparkling eyes all night. Even by text she seems like she cares for me. But yeah, a smart scammer knows how to approach and make it feel right until the effort of making it look right becomes a burden and she slowly becomes cold and distant. Faking is tiresome 😂. This bell ringing is indeed very strong in my mind. I think this evening could be revelating if the plan to meet out isn't canceled and i get to tell her my actual financial situation. Or even if it is canceled, I would have a guess why that is. Now that I'm on my guard, I'm wary of any detail that can feel odd and suspicious. I'm lucky to be pretty smart when it comes to reading people and I barely ever fail. But when it comes to somebody you just met who made your head spin the day before, it's a bit harder to see clearly as you're either too optimistic or too pessimisic hence less realistic. Basically, blinded by love.
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica So... I got my answer, I was totally being played with. My bell ringing on monday evening was 100% accurate. Somehow I'm glad that even when my head spins for somebody, I'm still capable of spotting the little tiny odds that may appear. But to be honest watching your video last week was a boost in helping me out because as soon as I spotted the odd, I thought of your video. Thank you 🙏. To sum up how I was convinced she's playing with me and is probably doing the same to another guy right now is that when I texted her yesterday to confirm the meet up... well even this morning I still have no answer, and no, despite telling me the day before that she was going to work 12hrs straight yesterday, she definitely had time to at least say "sorry I can't", when I checked on whatsapp this morning she was online for a little while. 😅. But it hurts that she didn't even take the time to cancel. Absolutely no shit given for me after she, as I suspect, met another guy the very next evening who must be showing greater signs of wealth, and as I also suspect, it must be a guy she met monday's eve right before she canceled our meeting, hence the schedule discrepancy that I spotted (when you lie too much and are in a hurry, you mix things up). I went from having a lot of respect for her to feeling utterly disgusted. A roller coaster ride, when the ride went through the roof only to come down crashing hard. I thank god this didn't go any further by a single day. The shorter the experience, the shorter will the pain last. I must say, in one side of my life I have to deal with tons of scammers daily, purely financial scammers. I know gold diggers too. So I'm used to scammers, but the encounter on sunday went too quick in a moment where I was looking for love. Everything happened too quickly and seemed so genuine that it took me an extra 48hrs to realize I'm 100% getting played with. Hopefully somebody else than me is being fished now so she's sparing me the pain of being played for months and months on. This girl can act for real, didn't help that she played a victim card that attracted my empathy. I feel in utter disgust, completely played, and pretty bad with myself. But I think I'll be thankful of this experience in a week or two when the pain will have faded away. I had a 'too good to be true' encounter with my ex girlfriend, also a slavic girl. But the encounter and story played out very slowly, no head spinnings the first days, it took two months to develop into love, and even to this day she's still one of my best friend with whom I share beautiful memories that we still talk about. So I didn't pay attention to the "too good to be true" last sunday. Now I'll be prepared to spot any signs of "too good to be true" with ukrainian girls. Damn I'm fucking stupid. I think what hurts the most is that she was genuinely the most educated, most cultivated and smarted girl I've met in the west. Girls who gather all those skills in the West are rare so i still feel today like I'm gonna miss that the most, what amazing conversations we had and will never have again 😔. Tomorrow I have a super important gig, a client that's too important for me to feel "off", I have to work on myself today and expell the feelings as much as I can before tomorrow to be ready because I have to be at the best of myself for this client. Please continue making honest videos like this about realities of Ukraine and Ukrainian dating as it'll definitely help other people. 🤍
To be fair, most women in the west do this. They'll juggle a few guys until they find the one they want. They might be acting but typically they are genuine for the most oart unless they lie and say you're exclusive. Treat everyone you meet with skepticism until they prove what kind of person they are. Temper expectations and you won't be disappointed as much
4500 dollars is way above average monthly wage even in Switzerland or Norway, let alone in America with dozens of millions of homeless people and even more of those that have never had a full-time employment but even a full-time employment for the most part doesn't mean that much money!
Yeah I hear this number and laugh. It can't be right. maybe that number represents household income but not standard salaries. Lot of wealth in the states in the hands of a few people that skew this number. The average American is not making 0ver 50k per year. Not these days.
4500/mo is only 54k/yr. That's about median for the US. To give perspective, the average mortgage is $2850 a month, average rent is close to 2k. That's a national average obviously some places are more and some are less.
I am 72 and grew up in California. I left California in 2002 and live in Washington State now. California has a lot of problems. So does most of the U.S. The American Dream was a combination of the idea of Liberty and the successful pursuit of happiness. Owning a home has long been a big part of the American Dream. But it's a combination that reached its apex in reality during the late 1950s and early 1960s. The "Dream" has been disappearing, especially for Americans. Foreigners with money or in some cases, that our own government prefers over natives have upset the balance, and America, once a land "crowned with brotherhood" is now a land full of strangers out for their own share of a declining idea, meaning, the material they can acquire by any means. A lot of foreigners have been hired into low and middle government bureaus and there has been a huge amount of graft going on in some places, especially California.
The "American Dream" is simply an ideal where the equality of opportunity is applied to anyone, and everyone to be what you want to be and achieve all that you desire. We have problems of "equal opportunity" and problems with people who have no desire or drive and the government insists on "helping" them with aid....they just sit on a couch.
Thank you for sharing such meaningful feedback. 😻 The American dream is a powerful idea 💡 100% agree with you. Sometimes people take actions without assessing the consequences and the magnitude of those consequences. Or perhaps someone benefits 🤷🏼♀️
I was in a relationship with a Ukrainian woman for over 3 years, and ultimately we were engaged without specifying a date for a wedding. We lived 15 minutes apart and spent every weekend together plus dates in between. I was fine with the arrangement because her adult son was still living with her and she was still married to her ex. Plus, I still enjoyed spending time with my friends after work then going home alone to have some down time for myself. Meanwhile she was pressuring me to sell my house and move in with her so I could pay off her mortgage. Ultimate the imbalance of power became too great and I broke it off for good. While I miss some aspects of our relationship, I have no regrets. I still have a thing for Eastern European women, but I'm much more cautious about their motives and insecurities. They're not all the same. I've met some who don't have a hidden agenda and would make for a lasting committed relationship with the right man.
U.S. man here, appreciate the info. I think personally you have the best view of the American dream being freedom. Id love to move to Ukraine after the war but I'm in my thirties and don't have money saved enough to support a family. I don't know what I could do for work there making the same amount as here in the U.S. That's my delemia.
If you would like to work offline, there are excellent earnings for native speakers of American English in Ukraine, especially in private and elite English schools. Or you can work online for the USA and spend your money in Ukraine. Since prices are minuscule in Ukraine compared to USA, you will feel like a king and easily provide for your family 😌🤗 Thank you for your feedback 💖 That's very valuable to me 🤗
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica appreciate the info. Sorry your people are going through the war. My prayers are with ya. Hopefully when Russia finally loses Ukraine will join N.A.T.O. anyways stay strong U.S. and allies I'm pretty sure will give Ukraine the top weapons til the end. I think even a few Americas went over to fight even. Anyways hope you all stay well.
I've been married to a Ukrainian woman for 28 years, and I knew her for three more before that for a total of 31 years. I have no complaints. She's well-balanced, disciplined and smart.
Big part of the "American Dream" is to be able to own your own home, and Not simply rent it. This part of the "American Dream" is becoming increasingly harder to achieve...
Exploitation of people is heartbreaking, especially those who have a bad childhood or other factors that make them vulnerable. Pure evil. Thanks for your perspective.
Thank you, Mary. If those dating sites are not reliable for finding a Ukrainian wife, could you please recommend what someone from America should or could do to find one? Best wishes to you for all you do.
A very insightful view of the situation with Ukrainian women in Ukraine. People are people. Any criticism of Ukrainian women during a war by a murderous empire is fundamentally biased and unfair. It is actually a blessing that sexual tourism is minimal during this war. What matters here is supporting Ukraine against the Putler Nazi. I support all Ukrainian women and men. F anyone that doesn’t have empathy for Ukraine and its heroic people. Only the people who show the courage to fight for freedom can understand and judge.
I spent time out in Ukraine, mostly in the Carpathian mountains but also visiting many villages, it's a place I would happily live, especially in the outlying villages, I don't dislike the cities, I just like the peaceful life of the country, apart from shop and hotel staff, no one attempted to speak to me.
@@GoldKingsMan If its a good investment, why not, god for them. Investing also comes with risks, prior outcomes does not guarantee future results
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Hi Mary, your video is intelligent. I am an European man and I speak Russian and some decent Ukrainian as well. I lived in the Ukraine in two occasions (2007 and 2021) and I am sorry to tell you that my opinion of Ukrainian women is quite poor. Even when I have some Ukrainians female friends who have great personalities and a good heart, most women I met when trying to match or date demonstrated arrogance and disrespect, I felt often being targeted as кошелек/кишення or as a stupid scam victim and that they had very delusional expectations about what a European man can or really wants to offer. They were also mostly unable to understand common Western humanistic values and ethics (things like gender equality or respect to different opinions), although Slavs of course have their own values which can be fascinanting and inspiring sometimes, though a terribly long period of communism, economic deprivation and restriction of movements with low-quality education and scarce exposure to other cultures has led to a picaresque culture, a mentality of trying to abuse others and to a dehumanized view of people from other countries. One of my Ukrainian female friends in Kyiv 2007 told me "у этих людей поломались колен", and it has taken me years to fully understand what that means, but I think I now do. I really hope than the open borders and the chance to be hosted by Western countries will have an inmensely positive impact on young Ukrainian people, leading to progress in values and attitudes, and to a greater appreciation of what Ukraine intrinsically has to offer, which is a lot. However, this development happens at a very high human and moral price, because most of exhiled Ukrainians, women in the bigger part, are having a very hard life as refugees and feel sad and struggle for money and work, they miss Ukraine much and they do not really fit in a society they don't understand nor it understands them. The saddest fact is that most women won't find easily a foreign man that takes care of them, maybe love and protect, nor that they can love him sincerely, but it is even sadder that there might not be mathematically Ukrainian men for women who want someone from their same culture and with their same values.
I sympathize that you had an unpleasant experience for yourself. I realize that sometimes people can be disappointing. There are people with high moral values in Ukraine, true.. But even those without moral values respect our culture and customs. And one of the peculiarities of Ukrainians (including Ukrainian women) is to tell the truth to their face, even if it sounds rude 😅 Basically, she has the right to think whatever she wants and her opinion has a place too, as long as it's backed up with arguments, but it often comes out that it's stated in a rather unpleasant and harsh way. So it seems like a nightmare 😅👀 About the «гаманець» (purse)... oh, unfortunately, you are right and that's exactly what happens... many Ukrainian women try to win a "place under the sun" at any cost..... I think a person with an open heart like you will meet their beloved yet. Thank you so much for your feedback 💖
I am a fellow Content creator and American. I try to tell all my friends how nice ukrainian women are. I have dating a ukrainian women for a year once who I knew before that for 6 years. As an American a lot of us appreciate a more traditional and conserved women. In general it also seems to me that all the Ukrainian women I know go to extra lengths to look clean and well taken care of, all the way from nails to clean shoes (even if not expensive ones they will be clean and presentable) so with everything I have observed I would say personally I would not be apposed to marrying a Ukrainian women even the the path to citizenship for a foreign bride its kind of annoying and costly.
Why didn't you want to marry a Ukrainian woman? Because of the complicated path to citizenship? 🤔 By the way I have an acquaintance (who had me as a translator for meetings) who married an American, they got married and are very happy, she moved to America 🥰
@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica Its not that I didnt want to marry her. It is more complicated I would say. For me in my life I have to live in America for a few more years longer and if a woman would not want to move to USA for atleast a few years then it wouldnt work. So basically that is a complication. I am growing online businesses at the moment including a youtube channel which in the future will give me much more freedom to travel for extended periods of time especially with the USD exchange rate to hyrvnia. Im sure people read these comments so I would also like to say that if anyone who is a native speaker of Ukrainian, I would love to meet up online to further my education in the language. I am mostly self taught and I am very interested in learning more.
Hmmm, good) thanks for sharing. Best of luck with your youtube channel, may it all work out 🤗 If I have a suitable Ukrainian teacher with fluent knowledge of American, I will probably let you know 💖
What makes it difficult as an American man is to be able to tell which ones are in it for love and which ones are in it for money, there's just no way to tell ahead of time. That goes for any woman not just Ukrainian but not knowing the language or culture makes one more vulnerable i think.
You include a vacation in the expenses. I am 62 years old and have taken 3 "vacations" in my work life. Every day is a vacation if you live in the United States.
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica 3 in my WORK life, my dad was always taking us out west when I was a kid. I can see Europe on a tv show without the long, hot lines. In the US Air Force I saw the UK, especially London on some 3 day trips. I have also been...on business..to Estonia, Latvia (like to go again) Poland Romania, Nigeria, Japan, Indonesia, Sweden, Canada and Australia. All work...so not much time to sight see. I worked for Lockheed on the C-130...look it up...most popular regional military transport plane. I have lived in Chicago, Illinois, USA or the suburbs around it...the world comes to me.
Ukrainian women in my opinion are the finest and most nubile women on earth, for so many reasons and I know, as I've been married to one for 50 years! What's even more remarkable is the fact that I've wanted to marry Ukrainian woman since I was 13 years old! And I'VW never been disappointed!
Maybe should be looking at Australia. Our average wage is higher and our living standards are as good as America. Anyway, good luck as I am sure the situation in Ukraine is rather distressing
That was actually a very thoughtful video. In fact, I watched it to the end which is unusual for me when a video contains so many jarring video effects. (could you please at least avoid the shaking screen effect in future videos?).
I would never use one of those sites, I've looked at them but I wouldn't use them. Ukrainian women are beautiful I'm not going to deny that, I've been to Ukraine many times as I like the country, over here in the UK I have been ignored all of my life, it was the same over in Ukraine, I'm not tall, wealthy or good looking, I am not appealing to women
Andrew, not every woman is worth having for a wife, as you doubtless know. But the right thing to do is take a genuine interest in the well being of a woman and then hopefully the right things will happen. If all she wants is money, continue on in your search.
The term American Dream is a foundational principle in our culture. It basically means you have the opportunity to make your dreams come true here in America. Does not matter where you come from (legally haha) or who you are it’s all possible just work for it.
That's an awesome principle in the culture. I wish we had such a principle. I think beliefs like that lead to a prosperous society where development is developed and not so much sacrifice is involved.
💙💛Du bist so süß , ich bin Deutscher, ich möchte so gerne eine Frau aus der Ukraine kennenlernen. ich habe gesehen, es gibt eine Dating Seite für Ukrainische Frauen, Maria Dating. aber noch nicht ausprobiert... Ukrainerinen sind wirklich tolle Frauen und euer Land ist es auch... 😻💙💛
Went to Ukraine 3 times 2018 2019. Met many pretty kind ladies. I had a brief long distance relationship with single mom and of she expected me to send her money after we met 2 times in Odessa. Cut things off with her and didnt go back.
Not exactly I did send her money when she complained about needing money for this and that. I did spend 1 week with her and her daughter at an apartment we made meals together. If she was really serious she wouldn't kept asking for money all the time.
@@jasonrocksvegas My wife is from Odessa. I spent a lot of time in Ukraine from 2016-2019, met a lot of women & dated some of them to varying degrees. If you're interested in a Ukrainian wife, you have to accept the proposition that Ukrainian women want men in the traditional sense of the word - providers, protectors & problem solvers.
I strongly recommend moving to one of the many great Latin American countries, where, contrary to the common stereotypes, the quality of life can be way better than in the US. Money will go a lot farther and you would be surprised how modern and advanced many of the Latin American countries are. Many countries like Argentina, Brazil, Paraguay, etc.have large communities of Ukrainian and other Slavic descendants....
Ukrainian women all seem incredibly attractive, not just physically but their personalities seem great. I can see why foreign men used to travel to Ukraine to meet girls. I'm not sure how I feel about it, it all seems a bit exploitative. I suspect the demographics of Ukraine after the war will lead many Ukrainian women to seek to marry foreigners. Trump married a younger foreign woman.
With his money, he could had done that in any country. The "average" American man cannot give the lifestyle that many of these Ukranians want if she moves to America where everthing is 10x as expensive and almost impossible for the majority of first time home buyers to buy a house. So what you will have is some older retired or close to retired wealthy gentleman hooking up with a women 30 years or more his junior (like Trump) and due to that and culture , the marriage will not be truly happy or for "love". If Trump didn't have all that money, I'm pretty sure Melania would had left by now.
Btw, the American dream is the ability of anyone living in the United States regardless of race, sex, or religion to prosper with hard work and determination to achieve all that they want to be in their community. Being able to afford their homes, businesses, and a wonderful family, free to be successful in their own definition of success.
Your English is excellent, and I enjoyed watching your program! I find Ukrainian women to be very intriguing, and I’ve made a lot of effort to form friendships with a few. I got used to being asked for money regularly, but after sending plenty of money, I felt no closer to a meeting or having the kind of meaningful relationship I was seeking. At least I made plenty of effort, and it just wasn’t meant to be for me.
@@jonathanheyse5314 From 2016-2019 I spent a lot of time in Ukraine & dated a lot of Ukrainian women. Rule #1 of international dating: never send money to a woman you've never met in person. Sorry you learned that one the hard way. Best of luck to you.
Good analysis. I'm looking now for a Ukranian woman to marry. Where can I find a good matchmaker who will help older mature men find younger women? Any suggestions Mary?
What kind of age gap are you looking for? I dated extensively in Ukraine from 2016-2019. My wife is from Ukraine. If you're the same age as her father, forget it.
Thanks for your question! I'm already developing a whole manual for it! And I will make a video on this topic. There are many ways to find a Ukrainian woman for a relationship without scam. The question is which girl will be the right one for you 🔥
In fact, there are young Ukrainian women who could get into a relationship with an adult man with a big age difference. The question is what he looks like and what he is like))
Yes, of course. It will just be difficult to make sure that you don't get cheated. You need to know all the subtleties of the Ukrainian dating sphere in order not to fall for scammers.
You're English language is excellent 👌👍. In the year 1759 the french in Canada surender to English Canada. The french are still made 😮, they don't want to speak English.
I think it’s the same for the most western European country’s compared to Ukraine when it comes to salary. But the culture in Ukraine is much more similar to Nordic Europe, in the Nordics like Sweden, Norway, Denmark, and Finland the men earn as much money as the US men but the nordics are the strongest country’s when i comes to women rights and that women are treated in the same way as men, so my recommendation for Ukrainian girls is to move to the nordic Europe like Sweden and Norway
Everything she says about the dating sites is true. They churn letters to make money, go to restaurants where you pay for the both but her part is split between the establishment and her agency and you. Often if you buy gifts she goes to a Lombard (Pawn Shop) and sells it to make money, also when you send flowers they go to a flower shop to "rent" some flowers to take a photo to send to you and then split the money. The same thing is done with all the other items these agencies sell as gifts you can buy the girl. Also opening photos is expensive and the bottom line to all this is to strip you of your money as fast as they can. I have lived in Ukraine for 14 years teaching English and many of my students have verified all this for me and have told me that depending on how hard the lady works she can make 500 USD to 1,500 USD per month on just churning letters. And sad to say there are MEN pretending to be the lady you are writing to. Stay of sites like Russian Love Match, UA Dates, etc. Your money can be better spent on a personal trip with caution or just doing something local in your own town.
Hello Mary, your channel is very informative. I have been on this dating site called "Ukraine Bridal Agency" Is this a legitimate dating site? I have spent so much already and have corresponded with many women. Although I have not met anyone in person, I question its legitimacy. : ( I am from California and would love to travel to Ukraine and meet a good woman from this dating site. But I am afraid they will not be present when I show up in Ukraine. : ( Am I illusional to think there is a possibility of meeting someone genuine in Ukraine with this dating site? And what is it with them not wanting to share contacts? Everything has to be purchased for the safety and security of the individual. What about my security? Contacts can always be blocked should one not want to be called. Can you please shed some light on this? I feel it is a scam but I might be in too deep already : ( Thank you sooo much! I hope that at least I am contributing to the Ukrainian economy? : )) 😁
I think it is probably a scam. You really need to go and make male friends there... have them introduce you to their family and co-workers. I have a very good Ukrainian female friend that I met through a Ukrainian co-worker. You have to get to know them, have things in common, and be at similar places in life I think. If they looked like a model and are at the peak of their fertility (early 20's), it is probably a scam. Would you want to marry a much older woman if you were a 22 year old man? The dating sites will often find a very pretty young girl on VK or at a local university, pay her for writing foreigners emails, and pay her money if she recruits her best looking friends. Now days, most of the profiles and photos and emails are probably AI generated. I saw a video with good advice from a beautiful Russian blogger about this that used to be one of the girls paid to talk to much older foreign men on a dating site (even though she was already married with a kid). The advice was to find a small local dating agency website where the women do not look like models, are close to your age, and have something in common with you. There are a lot of such small agencies in Ukraine and Russia. You just need to search for them. If you travel there to find a wife, be careful of a common practice (that I would not even call a scam - just a cultural thing). Restaurants and night clubs will often pay young Ukrainian women to get older/wealthy foreigners to bring them in for dinner or drinks. The girl gets a salary for trying to invite the men and she gets a percentage of the money they spend on dinner or drinks for her (and often her female friends). Of course, this is only common in the cities and entertainment districts. This is not to say anything bad about Ukraine or Ukrainian women. Something very similar is common in Switzerland. A woman will sit next to you at a bar and talk with you, or dance with you at a club, and the bartender will then explain you owe her a drink for her attention. She will chose a very expensive wine or liquor (which will often be very watered down/not real alcohol) and she will get a percentage of the money you spend on her drink. This activity is common all over the world and not driven by the women but by the restaurants/clubs.
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica Only 2% of Americans and less than .0000001% of the world can have that. The top 5% in America earn $290K US a year. A poll has shown that the majority of American will feel secure if they make 400k a year. Taxes and insurance will cut your earnings in half at those salaries. No such thing as a worry free life.
If you mute this video and watch it, you will end up staring at her best weapons, her incredibly gorgeous eyes. This is the major attraction of Ukrainian women, they are very beautiful. I dated quite a few Ukrainian women after I moved there. I could only stand being with them until I found out that gorgeous eyes (or any other aspect of them) are like money, neither is sufficient for a solid relationship. Also, none of the ones I dated were thankful out loud if you give them things. They just expect it. Best advice is date her for at least 6 months before planning anything even semi-serious. There's a cultural habit in the Filipina women called tampo. It's the silent treatment. You better be ready for it too. The Ukrainian women have something similar but in reverse. You will get yelled at and insulted for an entire day, or longer, instead of getting the silent treatment. If you're from a latino culture, then you don't need to consider this point. If you have little self respect or you're a timid man, you will feel like you got pushed into a stump grinder, b-lls first. On the positive side, Ukrainian women are very resourceful and can pretty much take care of any job around the house or even the car! They can make delicious meals out of simple ingredients. They make themselves very beautiful with their sense of femininity. I personally will not take the frequent yelling though. In every apartment building I lived in, you could hear some woman screaming all day at their husband/boyfriend. Once woman came to my door from the floor below screaming at me for all the noise that I was making. My sin? I was surfing the internet...Another time the woman upstairs did stop yelling but that was because her husband died. Термін «американська мрія» простий, це гідна робота, будинок з білим парканом і сім'я. Ідея така: якщо ви наполегливо працюєте, то досягнете такого життя. Якщо у тебе є інші запитання, я готовий відповісти на них.
Thank you for the compliment and for sharing your interesting experience 🔥🤗 you're right, unfortunately, in most cases, Ukrainian women are primarily interested in money in a man, and yes, many are very demanding and expect gifts, maintenance, and so on. It depends more on the individual and the experience that has developed in general. But for many Ukrainian women I know, moral principles are far from the first place, and their development is not in the first place either. I think this is not only due to a lack of education in our culture and proper parenting, but also poverty. Women take on the role of the huntress and her prey is a rich man. Maybe it goes something like this.... 😞 Super clear explanation of the American Dream! Thank you so much for explaining 😍.
Well, yes, tourism is very important for Ukraine. It's a pity that we don't have such a strategically smart state to customize it to make it work well)
If you google search, there are websites that will calculate this for you (for any country). It is really interesting to look at. But, what I found visiting Ukraine and other places in Eastern Europe is that you will have to speak the local language or have a friend/guide because prices advertised in English for things like apartments are very different for locals and foreigners. I recall in Hungary apartments were advertised for ten times as much in English as Hungarian. I hope to retire early in Ukraine (not to find a wife, just because it is such a nice country with a great culture). But, I was there when the conflict started and it was obvious it was going to be bad. The problem is not the danger from the war. I was in Kharkiv and felt safe. But, it has had such an impact on the economy, infrastructure (electricity, cell phone service, and internet), and national debt. Unfortunately, I would still need to work and cannot afford to live off my pension/savings for probably another 7-8 years... even in Ukraine... especially because the US economy is very bad too and the US Government is going to cut interest rates - probably back to 0% while inflation remains very bad. So, I would need to work. I have worked overseas before (in Switzerland) and there are also major issues with trying to open a bank account (and such things) while being an American because of US Law/sanctions. You have to do very careful research and talk to a local before thinking about moving/employment.
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Can someone help me out here? I really want to know someone from a village or from country side.. I guess village girls might be good than city girls..
I think you're likely to be disappointed 🙈 As our Ukrainian proverb says: "You can take a girl out of the village, but you can't take the village out of her" 👀 But, of course, it would be wrong to generalize)
To me, the American dream is about the chance to have a child and family. Men are very different when it comes to money. I would love to take care of a woman and child. But, American women have been taught not to want that. TV shows and movies have taught them it is better to be single and independent. This is very sad! It is such a lonely life for them, especially when they are old and alone. I don't know anyone that likes 100% focus on their career/job... man or woman. It has gotten crazy in America - most men under 21 are virgins now, most do not go on dates, and do not ask women out. Those are the years you need to have children - women only have until they are 30 before it becomes difficult and dangerous for both, the baby and woman, to have a child. American births have dropped 20% just in the last 15 years. They are closing down schools where I live because there are no children to fill the classrooms. Like many American men, I want to move to Ukraine or Russia. But, by the time I will be able it will be too late for me to have a child as well. I think if I brought a Ukrainian woman to America, society and her American friends would teach her to hate men and children as well.
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I dated a Ukrainian woman for 5 years. How this worked you ask? Tough love. Yes, you take care of her but in control. Yu are in charge, not her. Yes, she likes nice things and to be treated like a lady. However, the cultural differences are HUGE...!!!! Most of these girls are married and with a child by the age of 22. Then divorced by 24. They are sexually active by age 14-15, and they do live a tough live. Regardless, I do not recommend a relationship with a Ukrainian, unless you are prepared to be a drill sergeant ( full metal jacket ). And to close, always have another one on reserve so she knows that you are the boss.
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica Sure thing. Our economy provides many opportunities to improve ones financial situation. Many immigrants come to America poor and become wealthy over time.
Freedom = to not be taxed, fined or forced. It should be the original American dream. Ukranians start to defend their own land too not be taxed, fined or forced by the jewish FSB regime.
It all depends on the length of service and the company. There are more money in government jobs, for example 👀 And I've been looking at the latest statistics 🤔
LoL all women demand financial stability. Why would a woman want to be homeless or live in need every month? I don't see that as a problem. One must set the parameters on what tolerance levels are acceptable. How much money is one willing to part with? Myself i have low tolerance levels for expenditures.
What is the situation regarding the ukrainian dating industry now? Not thinking about the honest women, but the industry operating the large amount of fake dating ads, and one had thousands of foregin men traveling to Ukraine to meet and spend lots of money on women that just had it as a job to communicate and meet with foregin men, to help support their familes
There are more people in the world that have more money than the notoriety of the average Americans and i think people should find out about them. I think the US is chosen because of political and economic, social life and the law. The law favors married women in very generous ways, compared to other places and in particular if the man is extremely wealthy.
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica The example i gave you is for those Ukrainian women who have chosen only the US because of several advantages mostly only available or disposable to women in case of divorce. In a situation of separation or divorce judgement the advantages obtained by a woman who has children is very very lucrative. Even though the divorce or separation laws in different US states varies from each other but are more or less almost the same, the fact is there is no other country known outside the US that has extremely gained notoriety for granting almost everything a woman wants from a man after marriage or separation, or ambiguous abusive relationship. Child support even without marriage is very lucrative for women in the US compared to any other country. Divorce judgement is another one that gives all at a minimum 50% of the man's totally wealth to the woman. In addition to child support if they have children. And the money payment's for child support are almost always way above roof and exaggerated in court decision, if the man don't pay he goes to jail. There are cases where the women obtain all. There are many more i won't elaborate here. But we know for a fact that women in general mostly from Eastern Europe are very well aware of these things. And definitely almost unanimously favor American men (wealthy people) for security and wealth that is easy to obtain in case she decided to go after obtaining her green card or American citizenship, or even earlier after they had children together. I am ready to answer ☝️ any questions you have for me .
Scamming is a full time job 👍 I think it's fine if they want to have relationships with men who are financially responsible. For me...I prefer to date women with kids...since I somehow forgot to have kids🙂. Obviously this means dating younger women as I will soon be 62. I have always enjoyed Eastern European people and the culture. I would prefer to live in Europe...but likely need to stay in the US. I visit Europe usually every year. Interesting video 👍. Thanks !
It's great that you get out once a year to travel to Europe. I dream of traveling around Europe too, but so far all I can do is survive in Poland 😂 Well it will be ok, things will get better someday 🔥 Thank you! I’m glad you like my video 💛🤗
The American Dream.... The idea that anyone can be successful, and free. It really resonates with poverty stricken people, the idea that one can get a job, work hard, earn enough money to afford a decent house in a decent town, and raise a family without fear of persecution. oddly enough the ones that tend to be successful at achieving the American dream are foreigners that have seen extreme diversity. I know a couple born Americans that went from poverty to financial independence, but I know far more Mexican and Chinese people that have done the same in America.
I would never want to be in a relationship where the woman was only motivated by money. (or prestige) That is a shallow and unfullfilling relationship and it only wastes the time and happiness of both people. I would want a Christian woman first, a conservative woman second and someone who is like me, who believes in fitness and a healthy lifestyle. I have worked out every day since I was in grade school. It is sad that many people will enter into shallow relationships with no real love and caring as the basis for the relationship. By the way, I would not coinsider the "American dream" to be living in Philadephia, with the level of crime there. My next book, due out by the end of this year, will be about how young people can build wealth. That is a better goal. Mary.......the term, the American Dream, means to be able to work hard, create a good income, buy a home and have a happy life, hopefully in a low-crime area. You are correct, the environment of freedom and everything in the Bill of Rights in the Constitution, is a part of it.
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The main thing is that both of you should be suitable for such conditions. If everyone is happy, that's super 😻💖
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica I know this Man.....he has a big "sausage"! That is why!
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She is right. I have been to Ukraine many times, and dated many girls from dating sites and the ones i have dated are generally looking for a guy with money willing to spend money on them. The last girl i dated was very upset that i did not take her to the 'Chateau' in Kharkiv, a very expensive restaurant in Kharkiv. If a westerner wants to meet a serious Ukrainian girl, it is very hard to find her on the dating site. Better to go there and meet them in person.
Yeah, I guess you're right. Unfortunately, that's the way things are 👀
Why would I bother? It’s a waste of time being the geek I am. I’d rather study. Women in general.. They’ve become pathetic. 😅
My wife is from Ukraine & I dated extensively in Ukraine from 2016-2019. Part of the dating process is spending time together in person & getting to know her character. A perceptive man can usually weed out gold diggers pretty quickly.
@@paulschmitz9175 Wish you both the best!
I'll sure that this hostess was just an interpreter. She seems so professional, serious, and competent. 🤣🤣😂😂
BUT... the fact is, most women do this in all countries to ALL men regardless if they're from within or outside the country.
This might seem isolated to some places, but it's not.
Valid point but it does depend on culture and intent. Most Slavic women are very family oriented, they want a family and need to know you can provide for it. This a female biological imperative that likely oredates culture. Is she and her offspring going to survive ? Ukrainian women seem more family oriented than say Poles or Czechs. After that it's just a sliding scale how much is "enough".
My mom married an American and that's how I ended up in California. I visited Kiev before the war. It's a beautiful city with lots to do. Good luck with your channel. :)
Last time I looked out the window here in the US not many of us men believe In marriage. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
Being married is GREAT! But definitely not to an American woman, and maybe not to a Ukrainian woman either. I married a lady from the Philippines 19 years ago and we're doing pretty good. I may have gotten lucky, but once you consider women from outside the U.S. I feel that your chances definitely improve.
Eastern Europe, nope. My ex wife was born in the USSR. Present day Russia. We divorced four months after she got her US citizenship. It was 100% scam. Now I treat women from these counties like sand on the beach. The goal is to leave the sand on the beach. Not bring it home.
Why buy the cow if the milk is free?
@@raymondmiller5098I would never date a girl if I knew I couldn't marry her. The relationship is without purpose at that point.
@@raymondmiller5098good luck with Slavic women then. They're not easy and I have the feeling you wouldn't have the patience to wait. Filipinas might be more your speed,
The American Dream can have different meanings, but most commonly it refers to the general belief that America offers people the opportunity to go as far as their work and abilities can take them. If you work hard and take advantage of what this country offers you, then you will succeed. There are no upper limits on what you can do. Many foreigners have proven this by coming to America with nothing and through hard work, or education, establishing themselves in the economic middle class. My grandmother was one of them. She came to America in the early 1900s with nothing but a 3rd grade eduction and she didn't speak English. She worked all sort of difficult jobs (plucking chickens, taking in laundry, cleaning houses, working as a seamstress etc.) but eventually saved enough money to start a grocery store with her sisters. She eventually owned her own home and succeeded in raising a family and even helping with her grandchildren's college education. When she died, dozens of strangers showed up at her funeral. We discovered that for years she had been feeding homeless people out of the back of her store, giving them whatever produce or day old items she couldn't sell. She loved this country and the opportunities it gave her. She also knew what it was to be hungry and have nothing. Today we call it "paying it forward." She just called it her American Dream.
Thank you for such an extended comment about your experience. I was very interested to learn about it 🤗💖
Wow, thanks for sharing such a great story. I really wish we could get back to community like this when America was truly great.
I find Ukraine woman to be very beautiful, intelligent, hard working with family values. I think they live a hard life and never complain. It’s sad that there are not enough men for these woman and i wish them all to find true love and happiness
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dating sites are terrible
Oh yeah.. 🥲
I wouldn't use them, I've been single all of my life, I'm nearly 60 now, that is just how it was meant to be, I'm not attractive to women in any way, shape or form, I wouldn't dare talk to a woman outside of work or profession, apart from friends or partners of friends as I am seen as offensive, why would I waste my time on dating sites to get rejected?
no matter what his nationality is. money is the most important for Ukranian women.
Mi pareja es ucraniana y no es interesada por el dinero
Hay de todo!
Not for everyone 🙏🏻
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@@openbob6656 I think it's universal to ever race of women not just one race lol, in my opinion anyway, could be wrong.
@@DoubleDuece-sk9md you are right. but there are still certain nationalities that value other things more. like love and loyalty and family. i think Filipinas are like that and maybe some other south east asian countries.
@@openbob6656 good point, can't believe I didn't think of that. Loyalty is my pm me Probably didn't think of it because its so ingrained inside me, to where it's a natural life given deep in my subconscious. Definitely agree with you about Asian culture in this regard to this as well.
I think you could very easily become the Ukranian version of The Filipana Pea. There is definitely a market for such a video.
I have been married to Slavic women, and I can't say that I have very much good to say about that experience. Yes, many are beautiful, sexy women, but the reasons that many of them want to immigrate to other countries or marry foreign men really are obvious.
The first reason is purely economic. Places like Ukraine, Russia or any of the other former Soviet countries tend to not have very good economic opportunities for young women. Unless these ladies are willing to do work that can sometimes be considered immoral or even illegal, sadly there are not many good paying jobs in these countries. Most people take low paying work just to survive. All around them are indicators of the good life in advertising and media. They often ask themselves "Why can't I have that?" They believe the lies of media, so they become desperate. They may decide to marry a man in their own country who has similar problems of his own, or they look outwardly to foreign men who may have the promise of an easier life. If they are unwilling to be tied to a man who in their own country, in many instances a man who drinks too much alcohol to numb his own bad situation, she may turn to foreign men as an escape from these circumstances. Many of these ladies have good educations compared to America women, but they have little to no opportunity to use this to good advantage in their own countries.
The second reason may be that there are not many marriage-minded men in these countries these days. As mentioned above, many men in these countries have problems with alcoholism or drug abuse to numb their own problems in life, and often these men are not loyal to one woman at a time because of the availability of so many single females looking to find a husband. War has taken its toll as well, and both Ukraine and Russia are losing marraige-aged men at an astounding rate. It is a problem of numbers.
This third reason may not be a popular one to discuss, but it is a factor, so here goes... Because of the political history and culture that is derived from it, many folks from these countries have no problem with lying about anything to escape the conditions of their circumstances. The degradation over time of their society caused by wrong thinking Socialism has caused many there to think that they should use any means possible to get what they want in life, without regard for morals or even legal restraints. Lying, stealing, prostitution and even serious crimes are often no barrier to achieving whatever goals they want in life. They often think of these things as lessor sins to get a greater good. I am sorry if this offends anyone, but it is the truth. I am not claiming that the West has better morals or ethics, but in the case of the circumstances in these Slavic countries, it is a factor. If conditions here in America were to reach the same level of economic disaster, I am sure than there would be the same problems here with American men and women. We do not have any claim to moral superiority. This is merely the human condition.
Let's face it, if these factors did not exist, these women would more than likely be extremely happy to remain in their own cultures, stay close to family and friends, and marry the available men right where they live. There are honest, virtuous and moral people in these countries, but the conditions in which they live can sometimes make even the most virtuous individual question their own ethics and do anything to escape the situation. Please understand, I am not saying that all Slavic women are bad. What I am saying is that the conditions are there for less scrupulous women in these countries to take advantage of naive, lonely men in the west.
If men are naive, that is their problem. Anyone looking for a spouse needs to be a good judge of character. You only get to know about a person's character when you spend time in person with them and see their behavior, particularly when things don't go their way.
Dated a 100% russian girl soon after she migrated to my country when the war started. I was 100% convinced she had money incentives to be with me, only to realize she had not. She shared and spent a lot of her own money in our relationship and was the most genuine person I have been with. Never used me for anything, and brought so much to the relationship. Western girls on average can not compete with how much she brought.
The clearer aspect was... she had more money than me by a margin😂, and had MUCH richer men waiting behind, and she used one once to help me out. No western girl took as much care of me financially, emotionnally and humanly, it changed my perception of western women. Never asked me a dime.
Vacations? She used as much money of hers for the two of us as she could.
Groceries? While I was at work she spent her own money on groceries to cook me dinner. Although... her cooking skills are largely inferior to mine so I rather cook myself, but the effort was touching, so even if it wasn't so good, I always acted like it was. Unfortunately, at some point she couldn't renew her visa, so she had to go back home. She left me a pile of money to help me out before she left, although at that time my salary had just increased by a lot, but as usual she wanted to help.
She's still one of my best and closest friend today.
I don't know how many Slavic women you have married but what you describe is a very old scenario, that dates back in the 80s. That is not reality today, AT ALL. I have traveled extensively in those countries: Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Latvia, Romania, Estonia, Slovakia, Czech republic... Today Eastern Europe cities are booming with nightlife, women dress in fashion and have money. People are all free to go wherever they want and do whatever they want, and most of them live way better than the average American. Just travel to the Pacific Islands or Indonesia and you will see what they are doing with the money that we send them: vacationing in luxury resorts. Last year I traveled to Spain and there were Ukrainian and Russian BMWs, Mercedes, Lambors, Ferraris, etc everywhere.
I have friends married to Eastern Europeans and they confirm that the only places where electricity goes off frequently and they have some economical problems are in remote areas in Russia, so the same thing as today in some areas in California.
Those women this video mentions are in the business of getting money from SIMPS as a way to get an extra income and afford a more expensive life. And yes, they are all bad, because the are scammers. That's the purpose of this video, to alert men about them.
@@alxmtncstudio2066do you work in the defense sector ? Did she ask you to bring your work home so she could ‘help’ you with it ?
Fell in love with a woman and her son (now our son) from Vinnytsia. Married for 3 years. Have to say that there were hard times. But, well worth it. You do have to watch out for yourself; it is not a short process for immigration. So both sides better be in it for the long haul.
Money can become an issue. But, that subject is an issue in must relationships.
Interesting experience you have 🔥 thanks for sharing 🤗
My wife is from Vinnytsia too. Been married 8 yrs.
Congratulations! My wife is from Odessa. Nothing worth having in life ever comes easy.
I’ve met a lot of Ukrainian women and the socioeconomic situations in any country is the determining factor in anyones struggle for a secure life, man or women’s lives, but especially women’s lives who also have their own personal assets to bargain and compromise with in order to achieve her level of desired survival, and depending on her values can bring her to certain levels high or low and that also determines her treatment of people men especially! I have met women in every country but the more financially disadvantaged she is the more she may compromise to the point of sociopathy and using people or the opposite as in good decent values and unwavering in her commitment to her moral character! So in any case, the true character comes out whether it be a shallow or superficial narcissist or a good decent human being who looks for a man’s good intentions and not his money first, but no matter those same behaviours are prevalent throughout the world and of course you see the trend in the western cultures where women who are financially independent and stable say they don’t need men and that culture is spreading so you now have OF’s and women’s other ways of compromising where her superficial side and wanting to be With only the best looking takes over and for a shallow superficial character, the variations are numerable! But whatever, I prefer a good old fashioned girl who is a decent human being that looks at a man’s character not his wallet first! because I want to know regardless of whether they are from the east or west,what they have to bring to the table besides their physical selves! 🤷🏽♂️
Your video popped up on my feed and since I am interested in Ukrainian/Russian woman I thought I would watch. I liked your content so I gave you a thumbs up and subscribed. I would love to hear about any Retired Americans living in Ukraine now. I am looking forward to watching your channel grow. ❤
I live and married a Ukrainian woman and love the country and as a retired man a great place to live
I am married to a woman from Ukraine. Please listen American men, these women are not like American women. They don't like men who blah blah blah all the time, they don't like sensitive men, they have strong minds and don't complain a lot. They expect you to take control be a man. They love flowers, hugs and kisses. Lots of work but great family values and good people.
My wife is also from Ukraine and I think you are correct. Ukrainian women look for men in the traditional sense of the term - providers, protectors & problem solvers.
Generally true for most Slavic women.
I was going to add the same. Most Ukrainian women are 8s and above compared to American women, they will continue to look good for you, have traditional values and are very feminine. Just respect their cultures and values. Also be a masculine man, which has mostly disappeared in the West.
Watched this last week while discovering your channel, and on sunday I randomly meet this ukrainian girl.
Connection between us was super fast, we had an incredibly smart conversation punctuated by many great and genuine laughters (there's a point you can't fake, out of everything I know it was genuine). Lovely, lively, adorable, educated, cultivated and super smart. Disappointed by French men as she told me she pointed out that I stand out and seemed very happy to meet me. So she asked to see me again the same day at night after finishing her job, she took my number. Got herself all pretty for the date as you would expect from a slavic girl, we had a lot of fun while she was teaching me how to play pool (and beat her at the same occasion). She even held my hand while walking her home and it felt great, even perfect I'd say. She asked to see me again the next day (yesterday) or the following day (today) if she can't make it because she has late shifts at night that sometimes extend by 1 or 2 hours.
But... We planned the night out during yesterday's afternoon, she gave me some details about her late shift schedule and we were supposed to meet around 2:30am because it extended to 2am. Unfortunately she had to cancel cause she needs sleep (she truly really did and so did I so good for me because the day before we hung out til 5am).
But I noticed something a little bit weird, her schedule when explaining why she canceled had a detail that changed. She told me she had more work that was just added on her platter but at the same time told me it extended to 00:40... This discrepancy made it all feel off to me. I thought of a typo (yet a bit of a stretch), but I also realized I could be manipulated, worse, that she could be playing with multiple guys until she finds her proper "walking wallet" (worst case scenario, but also all speculation) and I started falling into strong skepticism today. I'm supposed to see her again tonight, but I'm less "enchanted" to do so now, as now I have a lot of doubts that are difficult to get rid of. I admit that most of my doubts come from watching this video earlier on, but still. Something feels off, and I'm usually accurate with my intuitions, yet ofc not 100% of the time
Still what if I'm wrong and she indeed is genuine? Because right now I don't feel so comfortable and at ease. Might be a date where I'm pretty off tonight. Anybody got a trick to figure out if she's genuine towards her intentions with me or not? Cause I don't want to blow an opportunity based on fallacious speculation, and as a very straightfoward person I'm basically on the idea of simply asking her face to face this week. But it feels like very offensive to ask if I'm actually wrong. She has no idea if I got plenty of money or not, we didn't discuss money at all, we just told each other what job we occupy. She does know I'm not poor though that's all (as in "struggling"), but I'm afraid she expects me to be wealthy one way or another due to where we met (in the wealthiest district of Paris where she works). Tbh I believe she's be paid more than I am this year as I'm having a difficult year as a freelancer haha. But she doesn't know any of that... so difficult to be certain of what I'm dealing with...
Hi, thank you for sharing your experience 🤗 Unfortunately, the fact that she knows with certainty that you are very rich is not good for you. It's hard to tell if she's sincere from what you've said. You need a lot more information, some signs by which you would determine that she is not interested in you as a person, but in your wallet.
It's hard for me to advise you on anything, because I don't have too much information. Try waiting and looking closer so you have more details 🤔
But if you've already got the alarm bell ringing about the time inaccuracy, you should definitely be wary. Maybe, of course, she doesn't speak English well, for example. But under no circumstances should you give her money if she asks you for it. Try to go on a date with her not to an expensive restaurant, but just to walk around the city, inexpensive cafes and so on. You might get more information 🤔
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica Hi and thank you for your reply. I think you misunderstood me a little, I'm NOT rich, even less "very rich" 😂. I'm just not poor, I have a decent income but isn't enough to not pay attention to my spending due to how my electricity and gas bills have multipled by 4 despite a large decrease in my consumption (thanks to the war). Last year was better for me than this year also in terms of income (I'm a freelancer and this year is terrible for me).
What I was saying is that she has no idea whether I have money or not since we didn't speak about our respective incomes. We just met in the most wealthiest district of Paris, and she did believe early on that I live there (then I told her I live an hour away). This would be the only reason why she could think I have money, but I believe telling her I live an hour away is a clue I just earn decent money to live without begging, but nothing to brag about. The clue is that all the wealthy area are within 30min of access, living 1h away means I live in cheaper housings.
I was also saying, judging by what her job usually pays out where she works, she could very possibly be making more money than I do by a margin, she's not poor.
I certainly won't send any money, that's a certainty. I need to pay for a lot of stuff this fall to renovate my flat to decrease the bills for next year, I can't afford to send money.
Like you said, based on clues if she's interested in me, so far she gave all the right signs, asked me a ton of questions about me with for exception what income I have, she did not ask. She was looking at me with sparkling eyes all night. Even by text she seems like she cares for me. But yeah, a smart scammer knows how to approach and make it feel right until the effort of making it look right becomes a burden and she slowly becomes cold and distant. Faking is tiresome 😂.
This bell ringing is indeed very strong in my mind. I think this evening could be revelating if the plan to meet out isn't canceled and i get to tell her my actual financial situation. Or even if it is canceled, I would have a guess why that is. Now that I'm on my guard, I'm wary of any detail that can feel odd and suspicious. I'm lucky to be pretty smart when it comes to reading people and I barely ever fail. But when it comes to somebody you just met who made your head spin the day before, it's a bit harder to see clearly as you're either too optimistic or too pessimisic hence less realistic. Basically, blinded by love.
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica So... I got my answer, I was totally being played with. My bell ringing on monday evening was 100% accurate. Somehow I'm glad that even when my head spins for somebody, I'm still capable of spotting the little tiny odds that may appear. But to be honest watching your video last week was a boost in helping me out because as soon as I spotted the odd, I thought of your video. Thank you 🙏.
To sum up how I was convinced she's playing with me and is probably doing the same to another guy right now is that when I texted her yesterday to confirm the meet up... well even this morning I still have no answer, and no, despite telling me the day before that she was going to work 12hrs straight yesterday, she definitely had time to at least say "sorry I can't", when I checked on whatsapp this morning she was online for a little while. 😅. But it hurts that she didn't even take the time to cancel. Absolutely no shit given for me after she, as I suspect, met another guy the very next evening who must be showing greater signs of wealth, and as I also suspect, it must be a guy she met monday's eve right before she canceled our meeting, hence the schedule discrepancy that I spotted (when you lie too much and are in a hurry, you mix things up). I went from having a lot of respect for her to feeling utterly disgusted. A roller coaster ride, when the ride went through the roof only to come down crashing hard. I thank god this didn't go any further by a single day. The shorter the experience, the shorter will the pain last.
I must say, in one side of my life I have to deal with tons of scammers daily, purely financial scammers. I know gold diggers too. So I'm used to scammers, but the encounter on sunday went too quick in a moment where I was looking for love. Everything happened too quickly and seemed so genuine that it took me an extra 48hrs to realize I'm 100% getting played with. Hopefully somebody else than me is being fished now so she's sparing me the pain of being played for months and months on.
This girl can act for real, didn't help that she played a victim card that attracted my empathy. I feel in utter disgust, completely played, and pretty bad with myself.
But I think I'll be thankful of this experience in a week or two when the pain will have faded away. I had a 'too good to be true' encounter with my ex girlfriend, also a slavic girl. But the encounter and story played out very slowly, no head spinnings the first days, it took two months to develop into love, and even to this day she's still one of my best friend with whom I share beautiful memories that we still talk about. So I didn't pay attention to the "too good to be true" last sunday. Now I'll be prepared to spot any signs of "too good to be true" with ukrainian girls. Damn I'm fucking stupid. I think what hurts the most is that she was genuinely the most educated, most cultivated and smarted girl I've met in the west. Girls who gather all those skills in the West are rare so i still feel today like I'm gonna miss that the most, what amazing conversations we had and will never have again 😔. Tomorrow I have a super important gig, a client that's too important for me to feel "off", I have to work on myself today and expell the feelings as much as I can before tomorrow to be ready because I have to be at the best of myself for this client.
Please continue making honest videos like this about realities of Ukraine and Ukrainian dating as it'll definitely help other people. 🤍
@@alxmtncstudio2066Good for you to finally get the answer,but feel sorry
To be fair, most women in the west do this. They'll juggle a few guys until they find the one they want. They might be acting but typically they are genuine for the most oart unless they lie and say you're exclusive.
Treat everyone you meet with skepticism until they prove what kind of person they are. Temper expectations and you won't be disappointed as much
4500 dollars is way above average monthly wage even in Switzerland or Norway, let alone in America with dozens of millions of homeless people and even more of those that have never had a full-time employment but even a full-time employment for the most part doesn't mean that much money!
Yeah I hear this number and laugh. It can't be right. maybe that number represents household income but not standard salaries. Lot of wealth in the states in the hands of a few people that skew this number. The average American is not making 0ver 50k per year. Not these days.
Minimum wage in Switzerland is around 4,000€. Minimum wage, not average.
4500/mo is only 54k/yr. That's about median for the US. To give perspective, the average mortgage is $2850 a month, average rent is close to 2k. That's a national average obviously some places are more and some are less.
Pretty sad that western women have let themselves go so far that men are going overseas to find wives
I am 72 and grew up in California. I left California in 2002 and live in Washington State now. California has a lot of problems. So does most of the U.S. The American Dream was a combination of the idea of Liberty and the successful pursuit of happiness. Owning a home has long been a big part of the American Dream. But it's a combination that reached its apex in reality during the late 1950s and early 1960s. The "Dream" has been disappearing, especially for Americans. Foreigners with money or in some cases, that our own government prefers over natives have upset the balance, and America, once a land "crowned with brotherhood" is now a land full of strangers out for their own share of a declining idea, meaning, the material they can acquire by any means. A lot of foreigners have been hired into low and middle government bureaus and there has been a huge amount of graft going on in some places, especially California.
No man doesn't like been catfished...I'd love to meet a Ukrainian woman ..GOD BLESS FROM THE REPUBLIC OF IRELAND 🇮🇪 🙏
Thank you very much for your openess!!
Glad to be of help 💛
The "American Dream" is simply an ideal where the equality of opportunity is applied to anyone, and everyone to be what you want to be and achieve all that you desire. We have problems of "equal opportunity" and problems with people who have no desire or drive and the government insists on "helping" them with aid....they just sit on a couch.
Thank you for sharing such meaningful feedback. 😻 The American dream is a powerful idea 💡
100% agree with you. Sometimes people take actions without assessing the consequences and the magnitude of those consequences. Or perhaps someone benefits 🤷🏼♀️
You have hit the nail on the head with a 2 kilo cross ping hammer
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica American dream: expectations meets reality, but most women have an ever increasing expectations
I was in a relationship with a Ukrainian woman for over 3 years, and ultimately we were engaged without specifying a date for a wedding. We lived 15 minutes apart and spent every weekend together plus dates in between.
I was fine with the arrangement because her adult son was still living with her and she was still married to her ex. Plus, I still enjoyed spending time with my friends after work then going home alone to have some down time for myself. Meanwhile she was pressuring me to sell my house and move in with her so I could pay off her mortgage.
Ultimate the imbalance of power became too great and I broke it off for good. While I miss some aspects of our relationship, I have no regrets.
I still have a thing for Eastern European women, but I'm much more cautious about their motives and insecurities. They're not all the same. I've met some who don't have a hidden agenda and would make for a lasting committed relationship with the right man.
U.S. man here, appreciate the info. I think personally you have the best view of the American dream being freedom. Id love to move to Ukraine after the war but I'm in my thirties and don't have money saved enough to support a family. I don't know what I could do for work there making the same amount as here in the U.S. That's my delemia.
If you would like to work offline, there are excellent earnings for native speakers of American English in Ukraine, especially in private and elite English schools. Or you can work online for the USA and spend your money in Ukraine. Since prices are minuscule in Ukraine compared to USA, you will feel like a king and easily provide for your family 😌🤗
Thank you for your feedback 💖 That's very valuable to me 🤗
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica appreciate the info. Sorry your people are going through the war. My prayers are with ya. Hopefully when Russia finally loses Ukraine will join N.A.T.O. anyways stay strong U.S. and allies I'm pretty sure will give Ukraine the top weapons til the end. I think even a few Americas went over to fight even. Anyways hope you all stay well.
I didn't start dating in Ukraine until I was in my early 50's. You've still got time. Just get your financial house in order first.
I've been married to a Ukrainian woman for 28 years, and I knew her for three more before that for a total of 31 years. I have no complaints. She's well-balanced, disciplined and smart.
I met a US guy that went bride shopping for a Ukrainian wife and he had two kids with her and 8 years married and super happy.. so.. is that so bad?
Big part of the "American Dream" is to be able to own your own home, and Not simply rent it.
This part of the "American Dream" is becoming increasingly harder to achieve...
Exploitation of people is heartbreaking, especially those who have a bad childhood or other factors that make them vulnerable. Pure evil. Thanks for your perspective.
Thank you, Mary. What are some of the reputable websites that meetings can be arranged, please?
I'm already working on putting together sites like this 🔥
I need time to quality check, test and select. But pretty soon I will have a list 💛
Thank you, Mary. If those dating sites are not reliable for finding a Ukrainian wife, could you please recommend what someone from America should or could do to find one? Best wishes to you for all you do.
I am not American but found this video interesting. Ps: your English is really good 😊
Thank you very much! 🥰
I’m excited you liked it 🤗💖
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica keep up the great work. Greetings from 🇳🇴
A very insightful view of the situation with Ukrainian women in Ukraine. People are people. Any criticism of Ukrainian women during a war by a murderous empire is fundamentally biased and unfair. It is actually a blessing that sexual tourism is minimal during this war. What matters here is supporting Ukraine against the Putler Nazi. I support all Ukrainian women and men. F anyone that doesn’t have empathy for Ukraine and its heroic people. Only the people who show the courage to fight for freedom can understand and judge.
YOU ARE A COMPLETE IGNORANT !!!
I'm Vikash Ramdour from Mauritius Island and need a simple Ukrainian woman
Thank you, Mary
You’re welcome 🤗💛
I've been with my Ukrainian gf for 4 years now she's fantastic
Super! I’m glad for you 🔥😍
Good work and thank you for the information
You’re welcome! 😍💖
Its best to learn Ukrainian and visit in person.
Yeah, agree ☺️
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica and stay and live there too
I spent time out in Ukraine, mostly in the Carpathian mountains but also visiting many villages, it's a place I would happily live, especially in the outlying villages, I don't dislike the cities, I just like the peaceful life of the country, apart from shop and hotel staff, no one attempted to speak to me.
@@TensionalityEFex I heard lot of American money is being invested Ukraine way.
@@GoldKingsMan If its a good investment, why not, god for them. Investing also comes with risks, prior outcomes does not guarantee future results
Hi Mary, your video is intelligent. I am an European man and I speak Russian and some decent Ukrainian as well. I lived in the Ukraine in two occasions (2007 and 2021) and I am sorry to tell you that my opinion of Ukrainian women is quite poor. Even when I have some Ukrainians female friends who have great personalities and a good heart, most women I met when trying to match or date demonstrated arrogance and disrespect, I felt often being targeted as кошелек/кишення or as a stupid scam victim and that they had very delusional expectations about what a European man can or really wants to offer. They were also mostly unable to understand common Western humanistic values and ethics (things like gender equality or respect to different opinions), although Slavs of course have their own values which can be fascinanting and inspiring sometimes, though a terribly long period of communism, economic deprivation and restriction of movements with low-quality education and scarce exposure to other cultures has led to a picaresque culture, a mentality of trying to abuse others and to a dehumanized view of people from other countries. One of my Ukrainian female friends in Kyiv 2007 told me "у этих людей поломались колен", and it has taken me years to fully understand what that means, but I think I now do. I really hope than the open borders and the chance to be hosted by Western countries will have an inmensely positive impact on young Ukrainian people, leading to progress in values and attitudes, and to a greater appreciation of what Ukraine intrinsically has to offer, which is a lot. However, this development happens at a very high human and moral price, because most of exhiled Ukrainians, women in the bigger part, are having a very hard life as refugees and feel sad and struggle for money and work, they miss Ukraine much and they do not really fit in a society they don't understand nor it understands them. The saddest fact is that most women won't find easily a foreign man that takes care of them, maybe love and protect, nor that they can love him sincerely, but it is even sadder that there might not be mathematically Ukrainian men for women who want someone from their same culture and with their same values.
I sympathize that you had an unpleasant experience for yourself. I realize that sometimes people can be disappointing. There are people with high moral values in Ukraine, true.. But even those without moral values respect our culture and customs. And one of the peculiarities of Ukrainians (including Ukrainian women) is to tell the truth to their face, even if it sounds rude 😅 Basically, she has the right to think whatever she wants and her opinion has a place too, as long as it's backed up with arguments, but it often comes out that it's stated in a rather unpleasant and harsh way. So it seems like a nightmare 😅👀
About the «гаманець» (purse)... oh, unfortunately, you are right and that's exactly what happens... many Ukrainian women try to win a "place under the sun" at any cost.....
I think a person with an open heart like you will meet their beloved yet. Thank you so much for your feedback 💖
I am a fellow Content creator and American. I try to tell all my friends how nice ukrainian women are. I have dating a ukrainian women for a year once who I knew before that for 6 years. As an American a lot of us appreciate a more traditional and conserved women. In general it also seems to me that all the Ukrainian women I know go to extra lengths to look clean and well taken care of, all the way from nails to clean shoes (even if not expensive ones they will be clean and presentable) so with everything I have observed I would say personally I would not be apposed to marrying a Ukrainian women even the the path to citizenship for a foreign bride its kind of annoying and costly.
Why didn't you want to marry a Ukrainian woman? Because of the complicated path to citizenship? 🤔
By the way I have an acquaintance (who had me as a translator for meetings) who married an American, they got married and are very happy, she moved to America 🥰
@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica Its not that I didnt want to marry her. It is more complicated I would say. For me in my life I have to live in America for a few more years longer and if a woman would not want to move to USA for atleast a few years then it wouldnt work. So basically that is a complication. I am growing online businesses at the moment including a youtube channel which in the future will give me much more freedom to travel for extended periods of time especially with the USD exchange rate to hyrvnia.
Im sure people read these comments so I would also like to say that if anyone who is a native speaker of Ukrainian, I would love to meet up online to further my education in the language. I am mostly self taught and I am very interested in learning more.
Hmmm, good) thanks for sharing. Best of luck with your youtube channel, may it all work out 🤗
If I have a suitable Ukrainian teacher with fluent knowledge of American, I will probably let you know 💖
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica awesome, and thank you!
What makes it difficult as an American man is to be able to tell which ones are in it for love and which ones are in it for money, there's just no way to tell ahead of time. That goes for any woman not just Ukrainian but not knowing the language or culture makes one more vulnerable i think.
You include a vacation in the expenses. I am 62 years old and have taken 3 "vacations" in my work life. Every day is a vacation if you live in the United States.
Wow, 3 vacations in your life? 😯
What about traveling? Seeing the world and Europe? 😁 Or are you a homebody? 🤪
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica 3 in my WORK life, my dad was always taking us out west when I was a kid. I can see Europe on a tv show without the long, hot lines. In the US Air Force I saw the UK, especially London on some 3 day trips. I have also been...on business..to Estonia, Latvia (like to go again) Poland Romania, Nigeria, Japan, Indonesia, Sweden, Canada and Australia. All work...so not much time to sight see. I worked for Lockheed on the C-130...look it up...most popular regional military transport plane.
I have lived in Chicago, Illinois, USA or the suburbs around it...the world comes to me.
Being at war might have something to do with it. Their men are slowly dying in combat….
American dream ,HAVING A JOB THAT pays well, a home, a car ,saving money, kids
Thanks for the explanation 🔥🤗
of course it was coined before the age of materialism. the American dream is to be free of oppression and have opportunities.
WOmen and men use each other across the world. The question is what you are getting out of the situation and whether it's a two way street.
Yeah! Thanks for sharing your opinion 🔥
Ukrainian women in my opinion are the finest and most nubile women on earth, for so many reasons and I know, as I've been married to one for 50 years! What's even more remarkable is the fact that I've wanted to marry Ukrainian woman since I was 13 years old! And I'VW never been disappointed!
Wow, this is so cool! Thanks for sharing 😍💛
Maybe should be looking at Australia. Our average wage is higher and our living standards are as good as America.
Anyway, good luck as I am sure the situation in Ukraine is rather distressing
That was actually a very thoughtful video. In fact, I watched it to the end which is unusual for me when a video contains so many jarring video effects. (could you please at least avoid the shaking screen effect in future videos?).
I would never use one of those sites, I've looked at them but I wouldn't use them. Ukrainian women are beautiful I'm not going to deny that, I've been to Ukraine many times as I like the country, over here in the UK I have been ignored all of my life, it was the same over in Ukraine, I'm not tall, wealthy or good looking, I am not appealing to women
Oh, as we say in Ukraine, "for every product there is a buyer". You just haven't met the right soul mate yet))
Andrew, not every woman is worth having for a wife, as you doubtless know. But the right thing to do is take a genuine interest in the well being of a woman and then hopefully the right things will happen. If all she wants is money, continue on in your search.
The term American Dream is a foundational principle in our culture. It basically means you have the opportunity to make your dreams come true here in America. Does not matter where you come from (legally haha) or who you are it’s all possible just work for it.
That's an awesome principle in the culture. I wish we had such a principle. I think beliefs like that lead to a prosperous society where development is developed and not so much sacrifice is involved.
💙💛Du bist so süß , ich bin Deutscher, ich möchte so gerne eine Frau aus der Ukraine kennenlernen.
ich habe gesehen, es gibt eine Dating Seite für Ukrainische Frauen, Maria Dating. aber noch nicht ausprobiert...
Ukrainerinen sind wirklich tolle Frauen und euer Land ist es auch... 😻💙💛
Went to Ukraine 3 times 2018 2019. Met many pretty kind ladies. I had a brief long distance relationship with single mom and of she expected me to send her money after we met 2 times in Odessa. Cut things off with her and didnt go back.
So you're smart and didn't fall for it. Thanks for sharing your experience, it was very interesting to learn 🤗💖
Not exactly I did send her money when she complained about needing money for this and that. I did spend 1 week with her and her daughter at an apartment we made meals together. If she was really serious she wouldn't kept asking for money all the time.
@@jasonrocksvegas My wife is from Odessa. I spent a lot of time in Ukraine from 2016-2019, met a lot of women & dated some of them to varying degrees. If you're interested in a Ukrainian wife, you have to accept the proposition that Ukrainian women want men in the traditional sense of the word - providers, protectors & problem solvers.
Of course this is true everywhere. Being used to money isn't the same.
I strongly recommend moving to one of the many great Latin American countries, where, contrary to the common stereotypes, the quality of life can be way better than in the US. Money will go a lot farther and you would be surprised how modern and advanced many of the Latin American countries are. Many countries like Argentina, Brazil, Paraguay, etc.have large communities of Ukrainian and other Slavic descendants....
It would be cool if you offered coaching.
Thank you for the advice, I'll keep it in mind 🔥😍
I have found Ukrainian women rather amazing during my last 3 years of 90 day trips :) You are cute :) Would NEVER use a dating site..............LOL
Ukrainian women all seem incredibly attractive, not just physically but their personalities seem great. I can see why foreign men used to travel to Ukraine to meet girls. I'm not sure how I feel about it, it all seems a bit exploitative.
I suspect the demographics of Ukraine after the war will lead many Ukrainian women to seek to marry foreigners.
Trump married a younger foreign woman.
With his money, he could had done that in any country. The "average" American man cannot give the lifestyle that many of these Ukranians want if she moves to America where everthing is 10x as expensive and almost impossible for the majority of first time home buyers to buy a house. So what you will have is some older retired or close to retired wealthy gentleman hooking up with a women 30 years or more his junior (like Trump) and due to that and culture , the marriage will not be truly happy or for "love". If Trump didn't have all that money, I'm pretty sure Melania would had left by now.
Btw, the American dream is the ability of anyone living in the United States regardless of race, sex, or religion to prosper with hard work and determination to achieve all that they want to be in their community.
Being able to afford their homes, businesses, and a wonderful family, free to be successful in their own definition of success.
So happy to subscribe and like; I respect you ma’am. Have you heard the song by American Songwriter Chip Taylor entitled: “ Ukrainian Girl”?❤😊
Your English is excellent, and I enjoyed watching your program! I find Ukrainian women to be very intriguing, and I’ve made a lot of effort to form friendships with a few. I got used to being asked for money regularly, but after sending plenty of money, I felt no closer to a meeting or having the kind of meaningful relationship I was seeking. At least I made plenty of effort, and it just wasn’t meant to be for me.
Why would you send money to a woman you've never met in person?
@@paulschmitz9175 she was very convincing, but I learned and will never repeat that mistake.
@@jonathanheyse5314 From 2016-2019 I spent a lot of time in Ukraine & dated a lot of Ukrainian women. Rule #1 of international dating: never send money to a woman you've never met in person. Sorry you learned that one the hard way. Best of luck to you.
@@paulschmitz9175Thank you. That’s kind of you to say.
Yes, 100% correct rule 🔥🙏🏻
Good analysis. I'm looking now for a Ukranian woman to marry. Where can I find a good matchmaker who will help older mature men find younger women? Any suggestions Mary?
What kind of age gap are you looking for? I dated extensively in Ukraine from 2016-2019. My wife is from Ukraine. If you're the same age as her father, forget it.
Thanks for your question! I'm already developing a whole manual for it! And I will make a video on this topic. There are many ways to find a Ukrainian woman for a relationship without scam. The question is which girl will be the right one for you 🔥
In fact, there are young Ukrainian women who could get into a relationship with an adult man with a big age difference. The question is what he looks like and what he is like))
Just direct question.
Im men living in the USA. Korean guy. Can i get married with Ukraine women??
Yes, of course. It will just be difficult to make sure that you don't get cheated. You need to know all the subtleties of the Ukrainian dating sphere in order not to fall for scammers.
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica that’s what i thought. Those Ukraine girls speak either Korean or English fluently??
You're English language is excellent 👌👍. In the year 1759 the french in Canada surender to English Canada. The french are still made 😮, they don't want to speak English.
Mary I can say with confidence that you've unnecessarily put too much make-up - you're already beautiful enough!
I think it’s the same for the most western European country’s compared to Ukraine when it comes to salary. But the culture in Ukraine is much more similar to Nordic Europe, in the Nordics like Sweden, Norway, Denmark, and Finland the men earn as much money as the US men but the nordics are the strongest country’s when i comes to women rights and that women are treated in the same way as men, so my recommendation for Ukrainian girls is to move to the nordic Europe like Sweden and Norway
Everything she says about the dating sites is true. They churn letters to make money, go to restaurants where you pay for the both but her part is split between the establishment and her agency and you. Often if you buy gifts she goes to a Lombard (Pawn Shop) and sells it to make money, also when you send flowers they go to a flower shop to "rent" some flowers to take a photo to send to you and then split the money. The same thing is done with all the other items these agencies sell as gifts you can buy the girl. Also opening photos is expensive and the bottom line to all this is to strip you of your money as fast as they can. I have lived in Ukraine for 14 years teaching English and many of my students have verified all this for me and have told me that depending on how hard the lady works she can make 500 USD to 1,500 USD per month on just churning letters. And sad to say there are MEN pretending to be the lady you are writing to. Stay of sites like Russian Love Match, UA Dates, etc. Your money can be better spent on a personal trip with caution or just doing something local in your own town.
Hello Mary, your channel is very informative. I have been on this dating site called "Ukraine Bridal Agency" Is this a legitimate dating site? I have spent so much already and have corresponded with many women. Although I have not met anyone in person, I question its legitimacy. : ( I am from California and would love to travel to Ukraine and meet a good woman from this dating site. But I am afraid they will not be present when I show up in Ukraine. : ( Am I illusional to think there is a possibility of meeting someone genuine in Ukraine with this dating site? And what is it with them not wanting to share contacts? Everything has to be purchased for the safety and security of the individual. What about my security? Contacts can always be blocked should one not want to be called. Can you please shed some light on this? I feel it is a scam but I might be in too deep already : (
Thank you sooo much! I hope that at least I am contributing to the Ukrainian economy? : )) 😁
Hate to tell you… it’s a scam …all of them…even if you go, they won’t show…
I think it is probably a scam. You really need to go and make male friends there... have them introduce you to their family and co-workers. I have a very good Ukrainian female friend that I met through a Ukrainian co-worker. You have to get to know them, have things in common, and be at similar places in life I think. If they looked like a model and are at the peak of their fertility (early 20's), it is probably a scam. Would you want to marry a much older woman if you were a 22 year old man? The dating sites will often find a very pretty young girl on VK or at a local university, pay her for writing foreigners emails, and pay her money if she recruits her best looking friends. Now days, most of the profiles and photos and emails are probably AI generated.
I saw a video with good advice from a beautiful Russian blogger about this that used to be one of the girls paid to talk to much older foreign men on a dating site (even though she was already married with a kid). The advice was to find a small local dating agency website where the women do not look like models, are close to your age, and have something in common with you. There are a lot of such small agencies in Ukraine and Russia. You just need to search for them.
If you travel there to find a wife, be careful of a common practice (that I would not even call a scam - just a cultural thing). Restaurants and night clubs will often pay young Ukrainian women to get older/wealthy foreigners to bring them in for dinner or drinks. The girl gets a salary for trying to invite the men and she gets a percentage of the money they spend on dinner or drinks for her (and often her female friends). Of course, this is only common in the cities and entertainment districts. This is not to say anything bad about Ukraine or Ukrainian women. Something very similar is common in Switzerland. A woman will sit next to you at a bar and talk with you, or dance with you at a club, and the bartender will then explain you owe her a drink for her attention. She will chose a very expensive wine or liquor (which will often be very watered down/not real alcohol) and she will get a percentage of the money you spend on her drink. This activity is common all over the world and not driven by the women but by the restaurants/clubs.
"American Dream" is what ever people want it to be. Some people say that it does not even exist, that its just a dream. I don't believe in it myself.
Interesting comment, thanks for sharing! 🤩🙏🏻
For Ukrainians it is a calm and happy life without worries and with money 💰🤔
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica Only 2% of Americans and less than .0000001% of the world can have that. The top 5% in America earn $290K US a year. A poll has shown that the majority of American will feel secure if they make 400k a year. Taxes and insurance will cut your earnings in half at those salaries.
No such thing as a worry free life.
If you mute this video and watch it, you will end up staring at her best weapons, her incredibly gorgeous eyes. This is the major attraction of Ukrainian women, they are very beautiful. I dated quite a few Ukrainian women after I moved there. I could only stand being with them until I found out that gorgeous eyes (or any other aspect of them) are like money, neither is sufficient for a solid relationship. Also, none of the ones I dated were thankful out loud if you give them things. They just expect it.
Best advice is date her for at least 6 months before planning anything even semi-serious. There's a cultural habit in the Filipina women called tampo. It's the silent treatment. You better be ready for it too. The Ukrainian women have something similar but in reverse. You will get yelled at and insulted for an entire day, or longer, instead of getting the silent treatment. If you're from a latino culture, then you don't need to consider this point. If you have little self respect or you're a timid man, you will feel like you got pushed into a stump grinder, b-lls first.
On the positive side, Ukrainian women are very resourceful and can pretty much take care of any job around the house or even the car! They can make delicious meals out of simple ingredients. They make themselves very beautiful with their sense of femininity. I personally will not take the frequent yelling though. In every apartment building I lived in, you could hear some woman screaming all day at their husband/boyfriend. Once woman came to my door from the floor below screaming at me for all the noise that I was making. My sin? I was surfing the internet...Another time the woman upstairs did stop yelling but that was because her husband died.
Термін «американська мрія» простий, це гідна робота, будинок з білим парканом і сім'я. Ідея така: якщо ви наполегливо працюєте, то досягнете такого життя. Якщо у тебе є інші запитання, я готовий відповісти на них.
Thank you for the compliment and for sharing your interesting experience 🔥🤗
you're right, unfortunately, in most cases, Ukrainian women are primarily interested in money in a man, and yes, many are very demanding and expect gifts, maintenance, and so on. It depends more on the individual and the experience that has developed in general. But for many Ukrainian women I know, moral principles are far from the first place, and their development is not in the first place either. I think this is not only due to a lack of education in our culture and proper parenting, but also poverty. Women take on the role of the huntress and her prey is a rich man. Maybe it goes something like this.... 😞
Super clear explanation of the American Dream! Thank you so much for explaining 😍.
My wife is from Ukraine & we have never raised our voices to one another.
I would love to visit Ukraine. It's important to spend money and normalize travel to Ukraine for the tourism industry.
Well, yes, tourism is very important for Ukraine. It's a pity that we don't have such a strategically smart state to customize it to make it work well)
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Hi Mary, what is the cost of living in Ukraine compared to the U.S.? I imagine if you take that into consideration, it's probably a wash.
If you google search, there are websites that will calculate this for you (for any country). It is really interesting to look at. But, what I found visiting Ukraine and other places in Eastern Europe is that you will have to speak the local language or have a friend/guide because prices advertised in English for things like apartments are very different for locals and foreigners. I recall in Hungary apartments were advertised for ten times as much in English as Hungarian.
I hope to retire early in Ukraine (not to find a wife, just because it is such a nice country with a great culture). But, I was there when the conflict started and it was obvious it was going to be bad. The problem is not the danger from the war. I was in Kharkiv and felt safe. But, it has had such an impact on the economy, infrastructure (electricity, cell phone service, and internet), and national debt. Unfortunately, I would still need to work and cannot afford to live off my pension/savings for probably another 7-8 years... even in Ukraine... especially because the US economy is very bad too and the US Government is going to cut interest rates - probably back to 0% while inflation remains very bad. So, I would need to work.
I have worked overseas before (in Switzerland) and there are also major issues with trying to open a bank account (and such things) while being an American because of US Law/sanctions. You have to do very careful research and talk to a local before thinking about moving/employment.
pff you can heat a 1500 sq ft for $700 wood, $1000 coal, and $2500 in oil for 7 months heating season
People tend to value having needs met. Male and Female.
Thanks for the advise, so where to find Ukrainian girls not only interested in money?
Thank you for your comment 💖
I will figure out how I can fit all the valuable information and structure it into shelves, because there is a lot of it. I have a lot of experience (7 years) 🔥
I think I can help effectively, I just need a little time 🤗
Can someone help me out here? I really want to know someone from a village or from country side.. I guess village girls might be good than city girls..
I think you're likely to be disappointed 🙈
As our Ukrainian proverb says: "You can take a girl out of the village, but you can't take the village out of her" 👀
But, of course, it would be wrong to generalize)
Shit I haven’t seen any Ukrainians in the us personally
Golddiggers nothing else and always been like that
You are mistaken. I am living proof.
A calm and happy life without worries and with money shouldn't just be an "American Dream" but something available in all democratic countries.
Yes, but that's not the case in our realities now 🥲
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To me, the American dream is about the chance to have a child and family. Men are very different when it comes to money. I would love to take care of a woman and child. But, American women have been taught not to want that. TV shows and movies have taught them it is better to be single and independent. This is very sad! It is such a lonely life for them, especially when they are old and alone. I don't know anyone that likes 100% focus on their career/job... man or woman. It has gotten crazy in America - most men under 21 are virgins now, most do not go on dates, and do not ask women out. Those are the years you need to have children - women only have until they are 30 before it becomes difficult and dangerous for both, the baby and woman, to have a child. American births have dropped 20% just in the last 15 years. They are closing down schools where I live because there are no children to fill the classrooms. Like many American men, I want to move to Ukraine or Russia. But, by the time I will be able it will be too late for me to have a child as well. I think if I brought a Ukrainian woman to America, society and her American friends would teach her to hate men and children as well.
My wife is from Ukraine & we live in the U.S. Living in America has not changed her character.
So, how can a guy meet a real girl (future wife) from Ukraine or Russia?
Thank you for your question. Yes, it’s real.
I will figure out how I can fit all the valuable information and structure it into shelves, because there is a lot of it. I have a lot of experience (7 years) 🔥
I think I can help effectively, I just need a little time 🤔
I dated a Ukrainian woman for 5 years. How this worked you ask? Tough love. Yes, you take care of her but in control. Yu are in charge, not her. Yes, she likes nice things and to be treated like a lady. However, the cultural differences are HUGE...!!!! Most of these girls are married and with a child by the age of 22. Then divorced by 24. They are sexually active by age 14-15, and they do live a tough live. Regardless, I do not recommend a relationship with a Ukrainian, unless you are prepared to be a drill sergeant ( full metal jacket ). And to close, always have another one on reserve so she knows that you are the boss.
You don't need to be R. Lee Ermey, you just need to be a gentleman in the traditional sense of the word - a provider, a protector & a problem solver.
The American dream = the ability to go from poor to rich.
Super, Paolo! Thanks for explaining 🤗😍💖
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica Sure thing.
Our economy provides many opportunities to improve ones financial situation. Many immigrants come to America poor and become wealthy over time.
yeah well im not for sale... :p
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Freedom = to not be taxed, fined or forced. It should be the original American dream. Ukranians start to defend their own land too not be taxed, fined or forced by the jewish FSB regime.
8:00 average pension in Ukr of 141$. Indeed, I heard of ppl with pensions of 50 euros...
It all depends on the length of service and the company. There are more money in government jobs, for example 👀
And I've been looking at the latest statistics 🤔
Men and women are users and givers like you said finding a good one is like finding a needle ina haystake.
Ukrainian women sound just like American women, except they're not fat.
Brave joke 🙈😂
There are overweight girls in Ukraine too, but they are few in comparison to most of them, yes 👀😁
LoL all women demand financial stability. Why would a woman want to be homeless or live in need every month? I don't see that as a problem. One must set the parameters on what tolerance levels are acceptable. How much money is one willing to part with? Myself i have low tolerance levels for expenditures.
What is the situation regarding the ukrainian dating industry now? Not thinking about the honest women, but the industry operating the large amount of fake dating ads, and one had thousands of foregin men traveling to Ukraine to meet and spend lots of money on women that just had it as a job to communicate and meet with foregin men, to help support their familes
There are more people in the world that have more money than the notoriety of the average Americans and i think people should find out about them. I think the US is chosen because of political and economic, social life and the law. The law favors married women in very generous ways, compared to other places and in particular if the man is extremely wealthy.
Very interesting opinion 🤔. Tell me more about what you mean by the example please? I'm interested to know 🔥
@@UkrainianEyesOnAmerica The example i gave you is for those Ukrainian women who have chosen only the US because of several advantages mostly only available or disposable to women in case of divorce.
In a situation of separation or divorce judgement the advantages obtained by a woman who has children is very very lucrative.
Even though the divorce or separation laws in different US states varies from each other but are more or less almost the same, the fact is there is no other country known outside the US that has extremely gained notoriety for granting almost everything a woman wants from a man after marriage or separation, or ambiguous abusive relationship.
Child support even without marriage is very lucrative for women in the US compared to any other country.
Divorce judgement is another one that gives all at a minimum 50% of the man's totally wealth to the woman. In addition to child support if they have children. And the money payment's for child support are almost always way above roof and exaggerated in court decision, if the man don't pay he goes to jail.
There are cases where the women obtain all.
There are many more i won't elaborate here. But we know for a fact that women in general mostly from Eastern Europe are very well aware of these things. And definitely almost unanimously favor American men (wealthy people) for security and wealth that is easy to obtain in case she decided to go after obtaining her green card or American citizenship, or even earlier after they had children together.
I am ready to answer ☝️ any questions you have for me .
Scamming is a full time job 👍
I think it's fine if they want to have relationships with men who are financially responsible. For me...I prefer to date women with kids...since I somehow forgot to have kids🙂. Obviously this means dating younger women as I will soon be 62. I have always enjoyed Eastern European people and the culture. I would prefer to live in Europe...but likely need to stay in the US. I visit Europe usually every year.
Interesting video 👍. Thanks !
It's great that you get out once a year to travel to Europe. I dream of traveling around Europe too, but so far all I can do is survive in Poland 😂
Well it will be ok, things will get better someday 🔥
Thank you! I’m glad you like my video 💛🤗
I am on the hunt... looking for mine! I am perhaps too old for Mary... but is she single? hahaha
Hey Richard, thanks for the compliment, it's a pleasure 🤗😍
I'm in a relationship 😁
Hi Mary. You have pretty eyes 👀
Thank u 🤗☺️
The American Dream.... The idea that anyone can be successful, and free. It really resonates with poverty stricken people, the idea that one can get a job, work hard, earn enough money to afford a decent house in a decent town, and raise a family without fear of persecution. oddly enough the ones that tend to be successful at achieving the American dream are foreigners that have seen extreme diversity. I know a couple born Americans that went from poverty to financial independence, but I know far more Mexican and Chinese people that have done the same in America.
American Dream is no longer Mary, I am moving as soon as I sell all of my toys :)
I would never want to be in a relationship where the woman was only motivated by money. (or prestige) That is a shallow and unfullfilling relationship and it only wastes the time and happiness of both people. I would want a Christian woman first, a conservative woman second and someone who is like me, who believes in fitness and a healthy lifestyle. I have worked out every day since I was in grade school. It is sad that many people will enter into shallow relationships with no real love and caring as the basis for the relationship. By the way, I would not coinsider the "American dream" to be living in Philadephia, with the level of crime there. My next book, due out by the end of this year, will be about how young people can build wealth. That is a better goal. Mary.......the term, the American Dream, means to be able to work hard, create a good income, buy a home and have a happy life, hopefully in a low-crime area. You are correct, the environment of freedom and everything in the Bill of Rights in the Constitution, is a part of it.