um.. unless you're trying to flash the cash, guys in the US generally do not share what they make to anyone unless it's your main family. We dont share with the dates, we dont share with our parents, we dont share with co workers or our clergy.
Good to know! Unfortunately a lot of times foreigners coming in Ukraine trying to impress ladies with their material stuff that they have, it comes across as trying to buy her and push decent Ukrainian lady away..
@@MatchGuaranty Most Western women want a 666 man. Making at least 6 figures. At least 6 feet tall. Has 6 pack abs. The difference I see with Ukrainian women is that they want (correct me if I'm wrong): Someone reliable. Someone confident. Someone who is stable and preferably has his own place. (This does not mean you have to make 6 figures.) Someone taller than her. (Of course, you need to have similar life goals and have matching personalities.) I feel this is more possible than the unrealistic requirements from a Western woman. Thoughts?
I'm watching out of interest, but if ukranian women get to match up with men and they are happy to... increase the population, slava. If it's a scam and the money goes to drones, slava ukraine
Your "clients" are a specific and narrow sliver of western men. Most western men don't talk about salaries or sex. Players do this. If you are encountering this, the western men you are meeting are players, the ones that are not interested in real long-term relationships. I don't talk about what happens in the bedroom or who has ever been there, particularly not with people I have never met. You are clearly meeting the players in the West.
Sex topic were rare exception in my client case .. But I decided to add this in educational purposes just to save other guys from this mistake..There is nothing wrong in those conversations its all about right timing
Many men today know marriage and making babies is a bad deal for those desiring lasting romance which is all about Passion (see Sternberg's triangle). Those who are traditional want a family and will even take the risk a second time being more of a provider than a hot lover.
This summer I spent two months in Ukraine. For six weeks I studied Ukrainian at the Ukrainian Catholic University. It was a great experience, but I also had a complaint about me being too positive, too many compliments from my second tutor. I changed tutors and a man was my second tutor. The last night in Ukraine, we as group went out, and the tutor who complained about me was there in our small group of six people. She have me a wonderful hug as we parted. I agree with you, that too many compliments can scare the ladies. So after this episode, when I met ladies, I just told them at the beginning of our conversation that I have a problem with giving to many compliments. It worked well and none of the ladies I talked with complained to me. But some of them agreed with what I said. I loved my trip there and will return next May or June for summer school again. I am 68 years old married to a Russian and we have a Ukrainian refugee living with us. Life can be complicated.
Sounds great! Seems like in UK its not a case as well .. But I had coaching calls with American men and they told me that even on dates locally women were asking directly how much they make and if he was not meeting criteria girls were leaving dates 😮
Hmmmm. I never did this or heard of it when I was dating my now wife back in 2014. She never asked and I never gave that info on salary. I don't even give my own kids that info. We never talked about sex either....I think you guys need to vet your clients better if that is happening. I did not go for sex vacation, I went to find a real woman, a good traditional woman who I could marry. I never was into sex tourism. That always seemed like a very dangerous thing to do. Rip offs and disease is all that will bring.
I'm retired, I can count on one hand the number of times I've discussed salary with anyone, even close friends & family. It is pretty taboo topic in Texas, also; I've been told not to even ask a Texan how many acres he owns, under the same too private for casual conversation umbrella.
Americans know that this is the number one thing that is important to woman in the USA. Ladies in the USA are conditioned and taught that men's value is what they can get from them. Most woman in the USA can financially take care of themselves and often do not think a man brings much value to them. This makes men understand that if they are not bringing economic advantage to the woman. They are not valued or respected. Younger men have the most difficult time with this. Because many of them are brought up in a single-family home without fathers. So, they do not understand their roles in a relationship. The main reason they want to seek out Ukrainian ladies or woman outside of the USA is the lack of respect most women in the United States give to men without large incomes. You will find that most younger men are looking for femininity and respect from ladies. Not masculine feminist attitudes and ideology. I was lucky and found my wife in Ukraine and she is not only feminine, brilliant and beautiful. But she respects me and other in her life primarily because of her upbringing and appreciation for what we offer one another. No matter what age you are. This is the fundamental qualities everyone is looking for. One of the main problems in the United States is we are not bringing up our children and our families with respect and dignity. Men in the United States who decide to look for a lady in Ukraine need to learn and understand the culture and upbringing. It is not perfect. But it is better than the USA.
Number 1 is actually totally understandable. I don't talk about money up front even though I am a financial professional. I typically talk about money for a living so I wouldn't want to talk about it in normal conversation or when dating. Totally understand this. Number 2, I completely agree with this one. Talking about intimacy is not something I would do early on in the relationship. Makes total sense. Number 3 I am a stoic myself. Stoicism is actually a key thing about me. Totally understand this. I don't think I would ever want to meet with a matchmaker to meet Ukrainian women because that seems almost predatory or something. It seems like you're taking advantage or something. But I find these things about women there totally understandable and reasonable. Honestly if it didn't seem kinda like taking advantage of tragedy or something I would be open to meeting a Ukrainian woman but I don't think I would go through a matchmaker I would probably just travel and hope to meet someone nice organically.
I don't either talk about money to any woman. I do tell them that I am general counsel in a multinational company with many years of experience. They are usually smart enough to read into that.
I don’t discuss my salary with others, unless we are colleagues working at the same workplace and we are in a job seeking situation. But I would never bring up the topic when dating anyone. I also don’t even go to anything related to sexual topics. I think many men in America are immature with women in current times. I think it might be due to our Hollywood culture and maybe our educational system.
One point to make. It depends on the situation. Here in the US; if you work for the Federal Government, State Government, Local Government Your salary/income is posted on-line for everyone to see! By law. It’s tax payers money, all you need is their first or last name. I work for the government. And, that’s the way it should be; full transparency. Another reason for this, is because if someone else is being discriminated against in the workplace (being way under paid) it’s normally women who are being victimized, and underpaid etc. So, the only way to know is to have open salaries. In some cases privately employees who work where there are Unions, find out by word of mouth And fight for equal pay in the workplace. However; it is interesting to note that some men, will not help other men, in the workplace with information that could help let them know they are being “underpaid”, yet they will brag to women about how much they make when it’s inappropriate. Some men are just jerks to everyone.
Older American men are the same as Ukrainian men especially in old time farm areas. If you're friend had moved there and stayed away from non traditional TV family topics she would have felt right at home. I an sorry for her. There are large areas of the USA called the farm belt she would have loved.
Most of those are weird to a lot of us too. I would dream of talking about sex, maybe in my 20’s when I was still a boy, certainly not as a man, it’s just inappropriate. I would never talk about my salary either. I know that does not impress any woman unless she is a gold digger. 😊
You must not live in the US, unless you're in Amish country or something lol. Seriously, women bring up sexual talk and salaries way more than men do. We're an instant gratification culture with no thought of consequences or long term ramifications.
I would suggest focusing on the hordes of Russians coming from the east and not Ukrainian men's preferences. Unless you expect this to go on for 20 years and plan to make more Ukrainian soldiers. Slava Ukraini!
Yes probably to reassure woman to feel secure next to him .. and its important too on one side, on other side with decent intention lady you don’t want to come across as trying to buy her bragging everything you have .. its a slippery road to attract low quality women (gold digger, opportunist etc)
yeah... american men are almost required BY LAW to discuss money and income .. if an american man is in a relationship and the relationship ends then the man must make some financial payment to the woman and any children of the relationship....so the american legal/justice system has what is called a "prenuptial agreement" which is an agreement between the man and woman before the relationship begins and then the man and woman know how much money is involved at the end of the relationship... so in america, most men will openly discuss income... most wealthy/above average income american men will not enter a relationship without a prenuptial agreement... if an american man is in a relationship without a prenuptial agreement then he is considered foolish ...
@@MatchGuaranty for the Ukrainian women, here's my advice... if a man "flashes" money, gold, gadgets or gifts then the man is what is called "ghetto rich" and he will not discuss his actual worth and the reason why is because he actually has little worth and any money he has is probably only temporary and will be gone quickly... an american "man of means/ ability/ talent/ skill/ knowledge" will discuss his actual developments and how his lady will be a part of and included within that... the american system is built on trust and inclusive... no secrets are allowed
In the west not being open with your partner about finances is seen as shady. It's something men do who like to maintain side pieces. In the west not discussing sex until you start having sex is how you get mismatched sexual partners. There is a difference between sex chat and discussing sexual expectations, so everyone is aware what each other wants. Sexual disfunction is a huge cause of divorce in the west. In the west men being unwilling or unable to express their feelings is a huge driver of toxic masculinity and domestic abuse. All those feelings will come out some way or another. Is it going to be during a healthy talk or as the back side of a hand is really the question. This is backed up by domestic abuse numbers where Ukraine is about 20% higher than the US and Western Europe.
Not discussing sex is true in countries of the former Soviet Union. The truth is that many of these women have been taught that sex is dirty; that's why you don't talk about it. An American man may assume that oral sex is a part of a gratifying sexual relationship, eventually, she'll balk. I speak from decades of experience. If you don't make your expectations known up front and make it known they are non-negotiables, you're likely to be disappointed. Of course, you'll eliminate the honest ones immediately. The dishonest women will go along for a while.
Per capire il perché di molte differenze di mentalità tra l' Occidente e l' Europa dell' Est ( mi riferisco a tutti gli stati che fecero parte dell'ex Patto di Varsavia ) , bisogna tenere conto che in Occidente , a suo tempo , c'è stato il 1968 con tutti i cambiamenti culturali che ha comportato e che sono stati ereditati dalle generazioni successive . Nelle dittature di quello che allora era il Patto di Varsavia , il 1968 è stato un anno qualsiasi . Per ulteriori spiegazioni, su Internet sono disponibili decine di documentari e informazioni sui fatti del '68 in Occidente .
That's the problem, the shining example is illustrated in this video. Women all over the world involve themselves in not critical thinking but "group-think". Do better.
It’s not an appropriate subject to talk or discuss online reasons is that there might be minor girls boy could possibly reading or watching this video.
I'm in shock at what you said at 5:38. Sex is pretty taboo in America, all you need to do is mention the topic of sex to see people move away from you and start to avoid talking to you. I have had *multiple* European friends confirm the prudishness of Americans was one of their unexpected cultural experiences coming to the United States. In the US sex is "ok" until it is real. If you make a joke about "dicks" and it doesn't involve real people or anything but very superficial display, it gets a pass. As soon as you become serious, that's when the shit hits the fans and you'll see how uptight Americans are.
What country are you talking about? China? I assume since you're talking in OUR language on OUR American website you are talking about OUR country - America. But the fact is that talking about salary is SO TABOO it is rarely spoken about even between close friends. I had a very good friend of 5 years, finally he really really wanted to know each others salaries and gave a bit of prefix speech before doing it. That's how taboo it is. It is the opposite in China. You get in a taxi and the taxi driver asks your salary, many American have huge culture shock going there. *THAT SAID* these Ukrainian women might be meeting weird American men, because I had a friend of a friend visit in Ukraine when I was there.. In the nightclub, he was 'accidentally' showing girls his cell phone which had his bank account balance on the screen. My other friend and I were talking about how he is looking to get kidnapped in some poor country eventually if he keep doing that (especially like Latin America, etc.). So he *did do this* but it is very abnormal for our culture. I hope you understand. For family? Also somewhat taboo. I have worked the same job now for 12 years. My parents have a rough idea that I'm paid very well, but ultimately they don't know and won't ask. They would be embarrassed to ask. But they could google it on glass door and have a good idea of the range.
Everything Im saying its different from person to person and relative from country to country.. I think cause of taboo topic in Ukraine is that some people got rich in can corruption way, while in usa TH-cam you can find a lot of inspirational wisdom for young entrepreneurs where people who succeed openly talk income, even strangers on the street giving short interviews like that .. th-cam.com/video/O5R1z_gPCSo/w-d-xo.htmlsi=cNQc_aip3g1g7VK7 Those channel would not be able produce content like that in Ukraine
dont torture youself watching our videos ) Some of our ladies registered with us for 5 years already, in reality very small percent of ukr gilrs open to marry foreiger and if they registerb with us they ask not to introduce to ukr man... I dont think its heathy to tell anyone what to do in life espesially if you never been in the same shoes
I want to come to Odessa Ukraine ,,Gorky park. And the Black Sea. Ride the trains and busses to see the city. Looking for Tetyana. The financial part must be talked about. Income to debt ratio. In America being married means you are responsible for your partner debt they create. My ex lost 2 houses. And nearly lost the 3 rd. Having a place to live and having a home are two different topics. To trust a person. Is very important. All problems and cards lay on the table. Responsibility and trust has to be there. When woman do not talk or tell. Divorce is going to happen. I see the profiles on dating sites. All seem to be divorced. A couple has to work together in a marriage daily. Openly with communication. Sex is the bonding act. The two Need::to relive stress and help each other be one . God explains topics on this in Bible study and church. Pleasure and Heath are number one in. sex. People think every one is compatible in sex. That is not true. Many woman in the US. Are opioid addicts induced by doctors. In teen years. 50 years ago. This pandemic has to be talked about. This opioid drug has killed a lot of people and poisoned many people , for life. Drug addicts can not function in a relationship. The drug kills the sex life over time numbing the person , the person does not enjoy sex. Do not hide these topics. If people hide or avoid discussion , they are wasting your life. I have lost 35 years of my life. Dealing with woman that are drug addicts and vodka drinkers.
I want to come to Odessa Ukraine ,,Gorky park. And the Black Sea. Ride the trains and busses to see the city. Looking for Tetyana. The financial part must be talked about. Income to debt ratio. In America being married means you are responsible for your partner debt they create. My ex lost 2 houses. And nearly lost the 3 rd. Having a place to live and having a home are two different topics. To trust a person. Is very important. All problems and cards lay on the table. Responsibility and trust has to be there. When woman do not talk or tell. Divorce is going to happen. I see the profiles on dating sites. All seem to be divorced. A couple has to work together in a marriage daily. Openly with communication. Sex is the bonding act. The two Need::to relive stress and help each other be one . God explains topics on this in Bible study and church. Pleasure and Heath are number one in. sex. People think every one is compatible in sex. That is not true. Many woman in the US. Are opioid addicts induced by doctors. In teen years. 50 years ago. This pandemic has to be talked about. This opioid drug has killed a lot of people and poisoned many people , for life. Drug addicts can not function in a relationship. The drug kills the sex life over time numbing the person , the person does not enjoy sex. Do not hide these topics. If people hide or avoid discussion , they are wasting your life. I have lost 35 years of my life. Dealing with woman that are drug addicts and vodka drinkers. Being open knowing the truth. Is Gods policy. Later.
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um.. unless you're trying to flash the cash, guys in the US generally do not share what they make to anyone unless it's your main family. We dont share with the dates, we dont share with our parents, we dont share with co workers or our clergy.
Good to know! Unfortunately a lot of times foreigners coming in Ukraine trying to impress ladies with their material stuff that they have, it comes across as trying to buy her and push decent Ukrainian lady away..
@@MatchGuaranty In most cases this will attract Western women to a guy.
Now I understand better why some western guys do this .. wrong strategy with decent Ukrainian ladies
@@MatchGuaranty Most Western women want a 666 man.
Making at least 6 figures.
At least 6 feet tall.
Has 6 pack abs.
The difference I see with Ukrainian women is that they want (correct me if I'm wrong):
Someone reliable.
Someone confident.
Someone who is stable and preferably has his own place. (This does not mean you have to make 6 figures.)
Someone taller than her.
(Of course, you need to have similar life goals and have matching personalities.)
I feel this is more possible than the unrealistic requirements from a Western woman.
Thoughts?
@@always90s correction, a 6668 man
The stench of the Ukrainian dating scam is still very strong in my mind.
Sure, you need to be cautious
Dating scams on every app and everywhere. Most men get no attention and women get too much attention.
I'm watching out of interest, but if ukranian women get to match up with men and they are happy to... increase the population, slava. If it's a scam and the money goes to drones, slava ukraine
@@drfill9210 IF your aunt had nuts she would be your uncle
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Your "clients" are a specific and narrow sliver of western men. Most western men don't talk about salaries or sex. Players do this. If you are encountering this, the western men you are meeting are players, the ones that are not interested in real long-term relationships. I don't talk about what happens in the bedroom or who has ever been there, particularly not with people I have never met. You are clearly meeting the players in the West.
Sex topic were rare exception in my client case .. But I decided to add this in educational purposes just to save other guys from this mistake..There is nothing wrong in those conversations its all about right timing
Many men today know marriage and making babies is a bad deal for those desiring lasting romance which is all about Passion (see Sternberg's triangle). Those who are traditional want a family and will even take the risk a second time being more of a provider than a hot lover.
Personally, I don't mind that Slavic chicks tend to dig guys with deep pockets. Think of it as a barter arrangement.
amen
This summer I spent two months in Ukraine. For six weeks I studied Ukrainian at the Ukrainian Catholic University. It was a great experience, but I also had a complaint about me being too positive, too many compliments from my second tutor. I changed tutors and a man was my second tutor. The last night in Ukraine, we as group went out, and the tutor who complained about me was there in our small group of six people. She have me a wonderful hug as we parted. I agree with you, that too many compliments can scare the ladies. So after this episode, when I met ladies, I just told them at the beginning of our conversation that I have a problem with giving to many compliments. It worked well and none of the ladies I talked with complained to me. But some of them agreed with what I said. I loved my trip there and will return next May or June for summer school again. I am 68 years old married to a Russian and we have a Ukrainian refugee living with us. Life can be complicated.
I married a Ukrainian woman and we're still together after 50 years, indeed the best years of my life! Cossack women are the utmost most!
In Canada we don't talk about it at all. You make what you make, and it's only your business. People know what your job is, but not your income.
Sounds great! Seems like in UK its not a case as well .. But I had coaching calls with American men and they told me that even on dates locally women were asking directly how much they make and if he was not meeting criteria girls were leaving dates 😮
@@MatchGuarantyit works better. More respect for one another.
Room to actually build a relationship.
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@@MatchGuarantyI'm not sure what type of women your clients dated in the USA, but most American women don't ask a guy's salary. It's ridiculous
@@scott4499 bummer Scottie
Hmmmm. I never did this or heard of it when I was dating my now wife back in 2014. She never asked and I never gave that info on salary. I don't even give my own kids that info.
We never talked about sex either....I think you guys need to vet your clients better if that is happening. I did not go for sex vacation, I went to find a real woman, a good traditional woman who I could marry. I never was into sex tourism. That always seemed like a very dangerous thing to do. Rip offs and disease is all that will bring.
I'm retired, I can count on one hand the number of times I've discussed salary with anyone, even close friends & family. It is pretty taboo topic in Texas, also; I've been told not to even ask a Texan how many acres he owns, under the same too private for casual conversation umbrella.
Americans know that this is the number one thing that is important to woman in the USA. Ladies in the USA are conditioned and taught that men's value is what they can get from them. Most woman in the USA can financially take care of themselves and often do not think a man brings much value to them. This makes men understand that if they are not bringing economic advantage to the woman. They are not valued or respected. Younger men have the most difficult time with this. Because many of them are brought up in a single-family home without fathers. So, they do not understand their roles in a relationship. The main reason they want to seek out Ukrainian ladies or woman outside of the USA is the lack of respect most women in the United States give to men without large incomes. You will find that most younger men are looking for femininity and respect from ladies. Not masculine feminist attitudes and ideology. I was lucky and found my wife in Ukraine and she is not only feminine, brilliant and beautiful. But she respects me and other in her life primarily because of her upbringing and appreciation for what we offer one another. No matter what age you are. This is the fundamental qualities everyone is looking for. One of the main problems in the United States is we are not bringing up our children and our families with respect and dignity. Men in the United States who decide to look for a lady in Ukraine need to learn and understand the culture and upbringing. It is not perfect. But it is better than the USA.
Thank you for your wise and encouraging words and sharing your experience ❤️
Number 1 is actually totally understandable. I don't talk about money up front even though I am a financial professional. I typically talk about money for a living so I wouldn't want to talk about it in normal conversation or when dating. Totally understand this.
Number 2, I completely agree with this one. Talking about intimacy is not something I would do early on in the relationship. Makes total sense.
Number 3 I am a stoic myself. Stoicism is actually a key thing about me. Totally understand this.
I don't think I would ever want to meet with a matchmaker to meet Ukrainian women because that seems almost predatory or something. It seems like you're taking advantage or something. But I find these things about women there totally understandable and reasonable. Honestly if it didn't seem kinda like taking advantage of tragedy or something I would be open to meeting a Ukrainian woman but I don't think I would go through a matchmaker I would probably just travel and hope to meet someone nice organically.
I don't either talk about money to any woman. I do tell them that I am general counsel in a multinational company with many years of experience. They are usually smart enough to read into that.
Great advice. Thank you. I can see that I match Ukrainian culture more than my own.
I don’t discuss my salary with others, unless we are colleagues working at the same workplace and we are in a job seeking situation. But I would never bring up the topic when dating anyone. I also don’t even go to anything related to sexual topics. I think many men in America are immature with women in current times. I think it might be due to our Hollywood culture and maybe our educational system.
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One point to make. It depends on the situation. Here in the US; if you work for the Federal Government, State Government, Local Government Your salary/income is posted on-line for everyone to see! By law. It’s tax payers money, all you need is their first or last name.
I work for the government. And, that’s the way it should be; full transparency.
Another reason for this, is because if someone else is being discriminated against in the workplace (being way under paid) it’s normally women who are being victimized, and underpaid etc.
So, the only way to know is to have open salaries.
In some cases privately employees who work where there are Unions, find out by word of mouth And fight for equal pay in the workplace.
However; it is interesting to note that some men, will not help other men, in the workplace with information that could help let them know they are being “underpaid”, yet they will brag to women about how much they make when it’s inappropriate.
Some men are just jerks to everyone.
Older American men are the same as Ukrainian men especially in old time farm areas. If you're friend had moved there and stayed away from non traditional TV family topics she would have felt right at home. I an sorry for her. There are large areas of the USA called the farm belt she would have loved.
Most of those are weird to a lot of us too. I would dream of talking about sex, maybe in my 20’s when I was still a boy, certainly not as a man, it’s just inappropriate. I would never talk about my salary either. I know that does not impress any woman unless she is a gold digger. 😊
You must not live in the US, unless you're in Amish country or something lol. Seriously, women bring up sexual talk and salaries way more than men do. We're an instant gratification culture with no thought of consequences or long term ramifications.
@@andrewcarlson2178 You are correct my friend. I live in the UK.
@@andrewcarlson2178 I live in the UK. Times have certainly changed since the 80’s.
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The unappropriate behaviour of men the match maker refers to seems to me to be unusual, at least in Europe.
I dont tell anyone my income...i do not ask anyone and have no idea what even my close friends make. Who tells women their income?!!!
Not you 😉 I don’t think it should be shady topic within husband and wife though
@@MatchGuaranty Of course..but men are sharing this early on? Maybe they are insecure about other stuff
@@ryanmatthew511I think whats driven them desire to add value of themselves, but it actually confuses decent ukr ladies and has opposite effect 😢
It is the first question western women asks
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Salary is important. Women in US want a guy to makes a lot. Not all but a lot do.
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西方男人之所以这么做，是因为如果他们身边的女人有工作，也有薪水，那么大多数时候，你会把所有的钱放在一起，支付所有费用，然后你们分摊剩下的钱，然后你把你的钱存起来，他把他的钱存起来，很多男人都这么做，或者他们可能想接近你。如果你告诉他们你的薪水，那个女人可能会去依靠你，说，好吧，你知道，我可以和这个男人在一起，因为他赚的钱更多，或者他赚的钱和你差不多，或者他可能能养活你，这也是另一回事。很多人会利用这一点来提升自己。财务上的投入也许可以赢得女孩的芳心。在美国，很多男人都这么做 😎
Which western men are you talking about?.
North America?, Western Europe?.
United States in my experience
@@MatchGuarantyI don’t know a single man who tells people his salary. Women should avoid such men. I live in the U.S.
Thanks beautiful
Pocket watching is generally frowned upon, hence the taboo.
I would suggest focusing on the hordes of Russians coming from the east and not Ukrainian men's preferences. Unless you expect this to go on for 20 years and plan to make more Ukrainian soldiers. Slava Ukraini!
It’s about ego, but they work hard. I guess they want to know that you’re a good provider that he’s a good provider I don’t know and an ego
Yes probably to reassure woman to feel secure next to him .. and its important too on one side, on other side with decent intention lady you don’t want to come across as trying to buy her bragging everything you have .. its a slippery road to attract low quality women (gold digger, opportunist etc)
By now truth is best,.
In the west men's value is in his pocket
yeah... american men are almost required BY LAW to discuss money and income .. if an american man is in a relationship and the relationship ends then the man must make some financial payment to the woman and any children of the relationship....so the american legal/justice system has what is called a "prenuptial agreement" which is an agreement between the man and woman before the relationship begins and then the man and woman know how much money is involved at the end of the relationship... so in america, most men will openly discuss income... most wealthy/above average income american men will not enter a relationship without a prenuptial agreement... if an american man is in a relationship without a prenuptial agreement then he is considered foolish ...
Thanks for sharing! So different from Eastern Europe 😱
@@MatchGuaranty for the Ukrainian women, here's my advice... if a man "flashes" money, gold, gadgets or gifts then the man is what is called "ghetto rich" and he will not discuss his actual worth and the reason why is because he actually has little worth and any money he has is probably only temporary and will be gone quickly... an american "man of means/ ability/ talent/ skill/ knowledge" will discuss his actual developments and how his lady will be a part of and included within that... the american system is built on trust and inclusive... no secrets are allowed
In the west not being open with your partner about finances is seen as shady. It's something men do who like to maintain side pieces.
In the west not discussing sex until you start having sex is how you get mismatched sexual partners. There is a difference between sex chat and discussing sexual expectations, so everyone is aware what each other wants. Sexual disfunction is a huge cause of divorce in the west.
In the west men being unwilling or unable to express their feelings is a huge driver of toxic masculinity and domestic abuse. All those feelings will come out some way or another. Is it going to be during a healthy talk or as the back side of a hand is really the question. This is backed up by domestic abuse numbers where Ukraine is about 20% higher than the US and Western Europe.
Not discussing sex is true in countries of the former Soviet Union. The truth is that many of these women have been taught that sex is dirty; that's why you don't talk about it. An American man may assume that oral sex is a part of a gratifying sexual relationship, eventually, she'll balk. I speak from decades of experience. If you don't make your expectations known up front and make it known they are non-negotiables, you're likely to be disappointed. Of course, you'll eliminate the honest ones immediately. The dishonest women will go along for a while.
Per capire il perché di molte differenze di mentalità tra l' Occidente e l' Europa dell' Est ( mi riferisco a tutti gli stati che fecero parte dell'ex Patto di Varsavia ) , bisogna tenere conto che in Occidente , a suo tempo , c'è stato il 1968 con tutti i cambiamenti culturali che ha comportato e che sono stati ereditati dalle generazioni successive . Nelle dittature di quello che allora era il Patto di Varsavia , il 1968 è stato un anno qualsiasi .
Per ulteriori spiegazioni, su Internet sono disponibili decine di documentari e informazioni sui fatti del '68 in Occidente .
I'm sorry this video is very suspect. Something is not sitting correctly about this.
Sorry for your impression) I was sharing things that I’ve experienced as international matchmaker trying to map a road of don’ts with explanations )
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I don't see it that way at all.
That's the problem, the shining example is illustrated in this video. Women all over the world involve themselves in not critical thinking but "group-think". Do better.
It’s not an appropriate subject to talk or discuss online reasons is that there might be minor girls boy could possibly reading or watching this video.
The salary up front is because of American dating culture.
Nonsense
He's right. I have experienced this too.
@@brealistic3542 you have met strange women. I have never experienced this. Hope you meet better ladies in the future.
Sweet talkers who get one thing and walk away are a problem the world over 😊
That might be your only option if you wait until after sex to find out about her "preferences."
1:59 yeah, a-ha-hah ))
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I'm in shock at what you said at 5:38. Sex is pretty taboo in America, all you need to do is mention the topic of sex to see people move away from you and start to avoid talking to you. I have had *multiple* European friends confirm the prudishness of Americans was one of their unexpected cultural experiences coming to the United States. In the US sex is "ok" until it is real. If you make a joke about "dicks" and it doesn't involve real people or anything but very superficial display, it gets a pass. As soon as you become serious, that's when the shit hits the fans and you'll see how uptight Americans are.
What country are you talking about? China? I assume since you're talking in OUR language on OUR American website you are talking about OUR country - America. But the fact is that talking about salary is SO TABOO it is rarely spoken about even between close friends. I had a very good friend of 5 years, finally he really really wanted to know each others salaries and gave a bit of prefix speech before doing it. That's how taboo it is. It is the opposite in China. You get in a taxi and the taxi driver asks your salary, many American have huge culture shock going there. *THAT SAID* these Ukrainian women might be meeting weird American men, because I had a friend of a friend visit in Ukraine when I was there.. In the nightclub, he was 'accidentally' showing girls his cell phone which had his bank account balance on the screen. My other friend and I were talking about how he is looking to get kidnapped in some poor country eventually if he keep doing that (especially like Latin America, etc.). So he *did do this* but it is very abnormal for our culture. I hope you understand.
For family? Also somewhat taboo. I have worked the same job now for 12 years. My parents have a rough idea that I'm paid very well, but ultimately they don't know and won't ask. They would be embarrassed to ask. But they could google it on glass door and have a good idea of the range.
Everything Im saying its different from person to person and relative from country to country.. I think cause of taboo topic in Ukraine is that some people got rich in can corruption way, while in usa TH-cam you can find a lot of inspirational wisdom for young entrepreneurs where people who succeed openly talk income, even strangers on the street giving short interviews like that .. th-cam.com/video/O5R1z_gPCSo/w-d-xo.htmlsi=cNQc_aip3g1g7VK7 Those channel would not be able produce content like that in Ukraine
Heavens, what DO you talk about?
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Please add some accent, you so confident, it really cool. Yes, this is not healthy when men hide money from family, and sped them on kurwa 😂😂😂😂
Oh geez - give me a break people- don’t get unevenly yoked in anyway - ✝️🌎✝️🕊️✝️
i fart a lot. is that ok with ukrainian women?
As long as she is madly in love with you, ahah
Yeah. …. But western men understand Ukrainian women very very very well. That’s why we don’t go there to get a wife. We go east or west east.
Western men do that because it is one of the most important things to modern western women.
You should be standing by your men who are fighting and dieing for you!!
I find this disgusting!
dont torture youself watching our videos ) Some of our ladies registered with us for 5 years already, in reality very small percent of ukr gilrs open to marry foreiger and if they registerb with us they ask not to introduce to ukr man... I dont think its heathy to tell anyone what to do in life espesially if you never been in the same shoes
I’m based in Lahore Pakistan looking for an educated ukeranian lady for marriage….
I want to come to Odessa Ukraine ,,Gorky park. And the Black Sea. Ride the trains and busses to see the city. Looking for Tetyana.
The financial part must be talked about. Income to debt ratio. In America being married means you are responsible for your partner debt they create. My ex lost 2 houses. And nearly lost the 3 rd. Having a place to live and having a home are two different topics. To trust a person. Is very important. All problems and cards lay on the table. Responsibility and trust has to be there. When woman do not talk or tell. Divorce is going to happen. I see the profiles on dating sites. All seem to be divorced. A couple has to work together in a marriage daily. Openly with communication.
Sex is the bonding act. The two Need::to relive stress and help each other be one . God explains topics on this in Bible study and church. Pleasure and Heath are number one in. sex. People think every one is compatible in sex. That is not true. Many woman in the US. Are opioid addicts induced by doctors. In teen years. 50 years ago. This pandemic has to be talked about. This opioid drug has killed a lot of people and poisoned many people , for life. Drug addicts can not function in a relationship. The drug kills the sex life over time numbing the person , the person does not enjoy sex. Do not hide these topics. If people hide or avoid discussion , they are wasting your life. I have lost 35 years of my life. Dealing with woman that are drug addicts and vodka drinkers.
I want to come to Odessa Ukraine ,,Gorky park. And the Black Sea. Ride the trains and busses to see the city. Looking for Tetyana.
The financial part must be talked about. Income to debt ratio. In America being married means you are responsible for your partner debt they create. My ex lost 2 houses. And nearly lost the 3 rd. Having a place to live and having a home are two different topics. To trust a person. Is very important. All problems and cards lay on the table. Responsibility and trust has to be there. When woman do not talk or tell. Divorce is going to happen. I see the profiles on dating sites. All seem to be divorced. A couple has to work together in a marriage daily. Openly with communication.
Sex is the bonding act. The two Need::to relive stress and help each other be one . God explains topics on this in Bible study and church. Pleasure and Heath are number one in. sex. People think every one is compatible in sex. That is not true. Many woman in the US. Are opioid addicts induced by doctors. In teen years. 50 years ago. This pandemic has to be talked about. This opioid drug has killed a lot of people and poisoned many people , for life. Drug addicts can not function in a relationship. The drug kills the sex life over time numbing the person , the person does not enjoy sex. Do not hide these topics. If people hide or avoid discussion , they are wasting your life. I have lost 35 years of my life. Dealing with woman that are drug addicts and vodka drinkers. Being open knowing the truth. Is Gods policy. Later.