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Homosexuality is found in over 1,500 species. Homophobia is found in only one. Which one seems unnatural now? My friend sent me a picture saying this so credit to whoever said this.
ArtemisHunter123 ! Haha have u ever thought that thats cause humans are the only ones who know how to think advancely? Hmmmm Animals don't give a f*** about sexuality, heck they don't even know what's straight and what's not. So what's your point? That we should be dumb like animals?
Evan Chong the point is to show that being gay is normal, natural and found outside of humanity, so it isn’t just “for attention” or a “social construct”.
I came out as bi to my cousin and they asked what that meant so I said it means I like girls and boys, and all he said was " now you can get rejected by twice as many people"
Is it bad that I'm muslim but I support gay rights ? I don't understand how you can hate someone for something they were born with. Many people say I can't be muslim if I support the lgbtq+ community
im muslim and i support the gay, it just depends on your perspective i think. many would say you can't be muslim and still support the lgbtq+ community, but i don't see it that way, soooo idk, i just do me
More useless than Dan howell's belt being muslim doesn't mean anything. Thats like me saying I'm christian but support gay rights. There is nothing wrong with it. What many of your specific group believes doesn't have to represent what you personally believe, and many Muslims and christians alike feel the same as you do. People need to stop placing everyone in this little cookie cutter space.
me: mom im *picture of a frying pan* mom: you're cooking? mom: you're frying? mom: what?? me: mom,, im PAN mom: pan???? mom: what do you mean pan??? mom: i have pan.. (bread in our language) me: no,, mom im PANSEXUAL mom: ohhh mom: hahah lovely
I'm 18 and I still haven't come out even though I've been knowing I'm bi since I was 10. it's scary to think of rejection and not being accepted and that's what's kept me from coming out to my family. I've come out to my friends when I was 15 and I'm always comfortable around my friends but with my family it's like I'm living as a person that I am not.
drios871 if you haven't come out yet I just want you to know that you shouldn't worry. Just be yourself. You don't even have to bring it up so it is a long conversation. Just mention something about maybe a celebrity crush to them or something like that.
Im not going to tell my family im bi unless I have a girlfriend, atm im in a straight relationship. I just dont think they need to know if it isnt relevant
THE WAY HE LOOKS IS ON NETFLIX!!! I started watching it earlier today, but I was put off by the different language so I stopped pretty quickly, but now I'll definitely watch it!
DUDE IT'S SO GOOD THERE'S A LITTLE BIT OF INAPPROPRIATE PARTS BUT THERE'S NOTHING MAJOR IT'S SO GOOD IT'S ONE OF MY FAVORITE MOVIES AND THEN THERE'S ONE MOVIE ALSO ON NETFLIX (it's in another language sjsjsj) IT'S CALLED BOYS THAT ONE'S GOOD TOO NYNSKANA.
omg this is so hilarious, basically I have a group chat with four of my friends, and I was talking to them abt an internet friend i made who happened to be rlly cute and i just mentioned that he was pansexual and suddenly my friend was like 'same' and we were all just silent for a bit and a little confused and then she said again 'i'm pansexual' and then i said 'actually, i'm polysexual' and then my other friend said 'me and ***** are both bisexual' so basically four of us came out on the same day whoo and we want to have like a coming out party to all our families which would honestly just be rlly funny so yeah.
Firstly The Way He Looks is on Netflix and is the CUTEST and also this is the nicest video to watch. I've come out to people and then they've gone, "I actually don't know my sexuality so maybe you can be my gay mentor/Oh hey me too!" and it's one of my favourite things but SUCKS when the person you're coming out to is the girl you have a crush on saying that she's pansexual/not sure but likey girls and I'm like DON'T MAKE THIS WORSE UUGH!
I can't come out to my family... They always talk about how gay people "are the spawn of satan". They are crazy, insane, need help, confused. They need to find the lord. I just cry. Nobody knows.
Find amazing people who support you. The crap that was written down in the bible that says being gay is satanic was written by some crusty old hags thousands of years ago. Jesus would love and support anyone. He made us each to be individuals and loves you so much💜I wish you the best. You're perfect and just try to stay strong💜
Thanks guys. I'll try. I would love to find people in real life who would support me, but I don't want to talk to people at the school. Someone I trusted with my life, for years, was telling my secrets to people. I can't trust anyone anymore. If I found someone not in contact with people at school who were as accepting as most of the Internet community I would be extremely happy. Thanks again for being supportive, you guys are great!
When you said you realised you were gay and "hid it and hid it and hid it" I thought you were saying HIT IT and I was like WOAH Connor we don't need to know about your grindr hookups 😂😂😂
the way you described your first gay kiss ,AWWWWH my heart ❤😭 btw I'm so sorry I'm laate xc and your right there are a lot of straight attractive people😭😭😭
I was texting one of my middle school ex girlfriends, we were talking about the play she's in and stuff and out of nowhere she goes "Are you straight?" I replied "Nah"
OH MY GOSH so there was this book I read in 8th grade it's called: Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets Of The Universe. This book was simply so cute and such an original but the twist was the main characters were for gay for each other (sorry spoiler). It was so unexpected and surprising because as a bi girl I've never thought there would be an LGBT book for teens because...well, some peoples in the world don't accept us people.
Oh my god, I so recommend “all the things we do in the dark,” it’s an _amazing_ story, though it is pretty inappropriate... really good story and there is a plot twist where a lot of the main characters are bi or pan and it’s sooooooo good.
This is completely my opinion but I don't think you should haved to 'come out' I think if your gay you should just bring your boy friend or girl friend home and people will accept you and not judge for every little thing that's different or unique about you. I honestly just think you should be accepted as you are and treated the same as every one else around you is being treated, and I know that no body has the same kind of people in their life to accept them as they are but i think every one should be accepted no matter sexuality, colour, opinion etc.
Why do people think girls are supposed to be with guys and guys are supposed to be with a girl and can a guy just date a guy or a girl date a girl with out being judged. I hate when my Lgbtq people get judged. Also I have lots of Lgbtq friends yay.
Yeah of course you can go! As long as you don't offend anyone and actually support them! I've gone twice and it's pretty awesome, just like a big colorful party on the street!
When you read that question, all I could think was "The Way He Looks," I'm so glad you said it. It's available on Amazon and it is one of my favorite movies.
I saw the cutest fucking gay couple in the Victoria and Albert museum and I really hope they didn't think I was giving them a weird look, I just couldn't help but observe how adorable their happiness was infectious. That was random sorry. I'm proud of you Connor!
ok so I was at universal studios and I went to the frozen sing-along and me and my friends were sitting next to the CUTEST gay couple and it was so cute and they kinda look at us weird but that was probably bc we were a bunch or teenage girls singing the songs at the top of our lungs...
at the pentatonix concert i saw 2 guys being the cutest couple ever. they left the concert a few minutes before it ended and were standing in front of me so had to walk past me. when they walked past me i was like YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTEEEEE AHHHHHH
So this reminds me of when I was in Chicago and I not only saw a gay couple (there were many there, so it wasn't all that off), but one of them reminded me of a friend and I finally realised that weird feeling. That was the day I discovered my gaydar, because that one friend was actually pansexual. Sadly, I wasn't his type, but hey it was an experience! (Another friend of mine who was there kept wondering what I was looking at and was really confused, and I think one of the guys noticed me giving them weird looks but it wasn't like a death glare or anything. My face was extremely red and it was a little awkward because I wasn't out at the time either.)
When Connor recommended 'The Way He Looks' I connected to the deepest part of the universe and cried for a split second... almost collapsed my lung in the process. That film is absolutely fucking amazing. Everything about it is literal goals and perfection. Top marks Connor, my favourite film that EVERYONE in the comments should at least watch... twice.
I'm straight and I'm not a homophobe but i live in an extremely homophobic environment and they scare the fuck outta me so i act like i am just like them 'a fuckin homophobe' and its killing me lol.
I live in a place like that too. The worst part is when you have gay friends who have to act like they're homophobes. That's just destroying some people I know.
"The Way He Looks" is such an amazing movie!!! I just watched it for the first time a few days ago and I fell in love with the characters and the progression of their relationship.
I'm honestly very proud of you. Haha like you coming out as gay actually helped me. I am an 8th grader (13 years old) and last year, I ended up liking a girl. I thought something was wrong with me. I had seen your "Coming Out" video and I finally had the confidence to come out to my friends and most of my family. By now, I am completely comfortable with myself. I tell anybody that I am pansexual. I even explain to them what it is. Thank you so much Connor 💖
Eu nao quero voltar sozinho is the short version that came out before and is what "The way he looks" is based upon. The Way he Looks is actually Hoje eu quero voltar sozinho.
CONNOR NO I CANT OMG I was watching the video n I accidentally clicked the button which put the video onto the TV and my family saw the fucking video title n they were like "What are you watching" "um is this suitable" etc. and my heart stopped and now I want death pls help
OH MY GOD. Another person that watched The Way He Looks. It's honestly such a good low budget movie, as well as Boys. Both are on Netflix! Please watch!
+LaurenBrynna Yes, the Brazilian film "The Way He Looks" is a very good film. Another one that is terrific is the Mexican movie "4 Moons." Also, "Were The World Mine" is cute. Last, but not least, if you have not seen "Shelter," be sure to watch it. You will be glad that you did.
Here’s a quick reminder for any closeted people watching this video. I’m 26 and a lesbian. I didn’t come out to family until I was 21. It’s never too late to come out, nor is there ever a rush to do so. Please come out in your own time, when you are ready.
One of my favourite LGBTQ+ movie is probably "Pride". If you haven't seen it, I recommend it. This is the first time I'm properly stating this seriously. And none of you will read this but I want to get it off my chest. I'm Bisexual. Thanks. Have a good day 💗
I've always wanted to see that movie just never had the chance. And omg yay!! Saying it out loud (or typing whichever) for the first time is incredibly hard. I'm proud of you!
I first watched you 3 years ago. The first video was "signs a guy doesn't like you" Wow I did not know this is who you are. You're amazing and I wish you and everyone watching a wonderful year!
if you support the LGBTQ+ community, you're an ally!! of course you're welcome at Pride! :D it's great that you want to go, I hope you have fun next year!
I used to hold my friend hand when we were walking and people would look at us like "What are they doing?" and then walk away from us. They didn't even knew if we were or not a lesbian couple and still they would jugde us. So we decided that if they came at us asking if we were a couple, we would tell them "No, we're just friends, and you are been rude and prejudiced". Kisses from Brazil
Connor made me look at gay people differently like I always had respect for them but I'm more open minded like their jus like straights I have a new view on it tkx conor
Hey Conner, you give me inspiration every single day in so many ways, so I just want to thank you for giving us these videos. (Also, today might be the day I ask that cute girl out!)
I feel the handholding thing but more for kissing than handholding, because two "girls" holding hands can be seen as bestfriends and not a couple (My significant other is an adab demiboy, but I am a cis girl). When kissing in the halls of our Southern school (Upper South, but still...the South), there is almost always someone who will stop at the halls and stare or look offended, but no one really has commented on it, except one occasion where I missed my significant other's lips and they had to rub the area for my "accident" and some girl said "Ugh, rubbing away your lips as if you're disgusted?!" However, that doesn't mean my halls are free of homophobic abuse, just not directed at me or even someone else just...the community. More than once, I had to yell at someone for freely saying "Ugh, gay people are disgusting!" "That's so gay!" or the f-slur and not always just the shortened part...Their arguments are, more often than not, "They make me uncomfortable!" Well, news flash, _we're_ being normal; _you're_ making _us_ uncomfortable.
I KNOW I'M 3 MONTHS LATE BUT IDC! The Way He Looks is SUCH an amazing movie I've watched it like 5 times and it's beautiful and heartwarming. Please watch it if you haven't already!
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HI CONNOR I LOVE YOU
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I couldn't buy the shirt cause, sadly, I had spent all my money but at least my mom gave me some and I already donated. Thanks for all connor xx
Love you
I'd love to see more videos like this
"ugh God there are so many attractive straight people"
THERE ARE SO MANY ATTRACTIVE GAY PEOPLE I MEAN LOOK AT URSELF CONNOR UR HANDSOME DAMMIT
True. XD
IKR! hes HELLA FINE
SO TRUE
K8lyn Shaw Ikr
At my school almost all the attractive boys are gay, the third time that happened my friend and I were really heartbroken :')
I came out as bi to my bestfriend by pointing to the "Bi" symbol on the periodic table and saying "hey look! i'm on the periodic table!"
i love you 😂
U are officially my new favourite person 💚⭐️😂
I'm a chemistry student
I would have probably taken it literally and said something stupid like "You fool, human body doesn't contain Bismuth" haha
That's amazing
That is AMAZING!!!!!
Homosexuality is found in over 1,500 species. Homophobia is found in only one. Which one seems unnatural now?
My friend sent me a picture saying this so credit to whoever said this.
ArtemisHunter123 ! Haha have u ever thought that thats cause humans are the only ones who know how to think advancely? Hmmmm
Animals don't give a f*** about sexuality, heck they don't even know what's straight and what's not.
So what's your point? That we should be dumb like animals?
+Evan Chong You really have to come here a whole year after this comment was posted and say this?
Evan Chong He's only invalidating the "Homossexuality is not natural" dumb argument people still use.
Evan Chong the point is to show that being gay is normal, natural and found outside of humanity, so it isn’t just “for attention” or a “social construct”.
ArtemisHunter123 ! Nice pfp
IS CONNOR WEARING AN EARRING IS NO ONE ELSE NOTICING THIS
yes
Ikr
+Morgan Johnson Lol nope I don't have it
I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE COMMENTING ABOUT THIS
I noticed it and I flipped out
I came out as bi to my cousin and they asked what that meant so I said it means I like girls and boys, and all he said was " now you can get rejected by twice as many people"
burnnn... but srsly, sorry dude
Luke Ryder bruh this speaks to me on a spiritual level 😂
Is it bad that I'm laughing? 😂
lol
basically I means that it'll be awkard with both genders
i don't get why some people are homophobic. why would you have anything against people loving who they want to?
Totally agree xx
Preach Girl Preach!!
religion....my parents r homophobic but im a lesbian sooooooo trust me its hard
AMEN!!
ikr! Why would people try to prevent others happiness?!
Is it bad that I'm muslim but I support gay rights ? I don't understand how you can hate someone for something they were born with.
Many people say I can't be muslim if I support the lgbtq+ community
im muslim and i support the gay, it just depends on your perspective i think. many would say you can't be muslim and still support the lgbtq+ community, but i don't see it that way, soooo idk, i just do me
More useless than Dan howell's belt hey. Gay muslim here lol 😂
More useless than Dan howell's belt being muslim doesn't mean anything. Thats like me saying I'm christian but support gay rights. There is nothing wrong with it. What many of your specific group believes doesn't have to represent what you personally believe, and many Muslims and christians alike feel the same as you do. People need to stop placing everyone in this little cookie cutter space.
Becca Scott very well said 👍🏻
I just thought I would get shit for it though
'My first gay kiss was amazing'
He didn't mention names, but we all thought of one person.
We all now :3
+Sumyia Nasim ikr
me tho
TRXYE :3
yesss!!
Omg, I'm French and the way you say "c'est la vie" is so beautiful with your accent ! I didn't know it was something American people said ! :)
Comment ai-je fait pour rater ce moment ? -_- Je vais direct revoir la vidéo x)
il le dit quand? jai pas entendu?
chui tunisienne heyy
+yasmine kharrat française!!!
7:52 :)
When he say his first gay kiss was amazing :DD
+TheSassyCat :D he did say his first gay kiss. 3:22
Why is connor such a queen?
Sarah is trash not sure I'd like to know too
Sarah is trash *king
because he is him
Genetics?
Well, the AMAZING singer Queen was bi, so it kinda fits in a way...
Connor describing his first gay kiss got me crying... and I'm in a coffee shop. God I'm so emotional
your face is the sweetest thing I've seen
*your
same
+Cait Mcdonald that's exactly what they said
ikr😍
YOUR HAIR. YOUR EARRING. YOUR FACE. I LOVE.
UGH. Boys with earrings fuck me up so bad 😳😳 Connor should try dyeing his hair a fun color, I would live for that.
For REAL I'm like why the heck do hot guys always end up gay. But I still love you Connor😊😊😊
I feel you it's amazing
I came out to my mom and she said I know.
LightscameraKooper :! Same, it was really awkward cuz my mum was like ' I already know you told me when u were 6 and I saw u kissing ur posters 🤦🏽♀️
LightscameraKooper :! Dammit your mom rocks!
LightscameraKooper :! Sameeee
same
Ор интересно как она узнала ор
The way he looks is a Brazilian movie and its adorable 🌈
very very adorable
Open my snapsssssssssss
OMG WHEN HE SAID THAT I FREAKING GASPED IN THE MIDDLE OF CLASS
same I was like AH I just watched that
literally one of the cutest movies ever
me: mom im *picture of a frying pan*
mom: you're cooking?
mom: you're frying?
mom: what??
me: mom,, im PAN
mom: pan????
mom: what do you mean pan???
mom: i have pan.. (bread in our language)
me: no,, mom im PANSEXUAL
mom: ohhh
mom: hahah lovely
+sadgrill that's how I'm coming out now, thank you
Can we please make this a series?
I'm kind of down for that !
Definitely down for that.
+ConnorFranta yeah you should 😀 btw love you❤❤❤
yes please!
Yeah do it Connor!! :D
my friend is gay and i still believe he is awsome no matter what
YES THE WAY HE LOOKS IS SO GOOD
p.s. it's on netflix
love your profile pic
yes😍
Ikr I love that film
I don't usually watch long talking videos except for certain youtubers like Connor and superfruit and dodie
Legit was just watching along Dodie vid right after a long Superfruit vid XD
ptx_obsessed SUPERFRUIT
who else loves connor??
who doesn't..?
Who doesn't 😭
me✋
MEMEMEMEME AF
Meh
I'm 18 and I still haven't come out even though I've been knowing I'm bi since I was 10. it's scary to think of rejection and not being accepted and that's what's kept me from coming out to my family. I've come out to my friends when I was 15 and I'm always comfortable around my friends but with my family it's like I'm living as a person that I am not.
I'm also bi. I don't know how i came out. I mentioned my (now ex) girlfriend at dinner lmao : /
Same and I'm also bi and I found out when I was 10
drios871 if you haven't come out yet I just want you to know that you shouldn't worry. Just be yourself. You don't even have to bring it up so it is a long conversation. Just mention something about maybe a celebrity crush to them or something like that.
Im not going to tell my family im bi unless I have a girlfriend, atm im in a straight relationship. I just dont think they need to know if it isnt relevant
I told my mom I was bi and she said
"me too!" 😂💖
Same !!!
mom goals
WOW!
Janeth Garcia amazing
I just got so unnecessarily excited and happy reading your comment, that's so awesome I'm so happy for you
Can't believe you watched "The way he looks"!!!
Tem no Netflix?
tem sim
omg..I loved that one!!! its one of my favorites.. plus I love Brazilians
Perdido Nos Livros / Eduardo Cilto I loved that's movie!!!
Edu 💖💖💖
THE WAY HE LOOKS IS ON NETFLIX!!! I started watching it earlier today, but I was put off by the different language so I stopped pretty quickly, but now I'll definitely watch it!
DUDE IT'S SO GOOD THERE'S A LITTLE BIT OF INAPPROPRIATE PARTS BUT THERE'S NOTHING MAJOR IT'S SO GOOD IT'S ONE OF MY FAVORITE MOVIES AND THEN THERE'S ONE MOVIE ALSO ON NETFLIX (it's in another language sjsjsj) IT'S CALLED BOYS THAT ONE'S GOOD TOO NYNSKANA.
I love that movie to death
I'll watch Boys later then. I loved, The Way He Looks too. It's so cute, and yeah there are a few appropriate parts but not too many. It was amazing
TotalWeirdo what's the movie like?
I am so far in the closet I'm hanging out with the skeletons.
Cole Freer I feel your pain
Cole Freer, I'm so far in the closet I'm in Narnia.. Help.
Don’t be scared!! You can do it!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 I’ve got faith in you
@@crystalvitagliano6381 same. Its honestly really frustrating, but I don't want to lose my family :/
-Lil Orinoco-, hope life gets better! Best of wishes to you!
i'm a gay question
how do i gay answer this comment...
by gay contemplating it first
Gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay gay YAH GAY we are all gay
i just wanted to gay reply to this gay question
gaytru
omg this is so hilarious, basically I have a group chat with four of my friends, and I was talking to them abt an internet friend i made who happened to be rlly cute and i just mentioned that he was pansexual and suddenly my friend was like 'same' and we were all just silent for a bit and a little confused and then she said again 'i'm pansexual' and then i said 'actually, i'm polysexual' and then my other friend said 'me and ***** are both bisexual' so basically four of us came out on the same day whoo and we want to have like a coming out party to all our families which would honestly just be rlly funny so yeah.
thats so cute
This is definitely how I want to come out 😂
May i ask what polysexual is?
It's when you're attracted to multiple genders, but not all
This comment is so funny and made my day 😂😂😂
Firstly The Way He Looks is on Netflix and is the CUTEST and also this is the nicest video to watch. I've come out to people and then they've gone, "I actually don't know my sexuality so maybe you can be my gay mentor/Oh hey me too!" and it's one of my favourite things but SUCKS when the person you're coming out to is the girl you have a crush on saying that she's pansexual/not sure but likey girls and I'm like DON'T MAKE THIS WORSE UUGH!
Please make more of these.
+ThisIsNotMe i can't find it on netflix
its ssooo good
it's so so good like this same
Make more of these
Connor Falling for straight people is me everytime 😂
Tiana Harinoro Same! 😂💔
You should do these more often!! (:
I also have a beauty channel and I'd love if you guys could check it out! ♡
*Slides in that self-promo*
+Lynn Does Voice Acting Ikr lol
xD
yesss
I can't come out to my family...
They always talk about how gay people "are the spawn of satan". They are crazy, insane, need help, confused. They need to find the lord. I just cry.
Nobody knows.
aw thats awful. im sorry you are in that situation. just make sure you are there for yourself. the only true friend you have in life is yourself
Thank you. Hopefully one day they'll change they're minds.
Find amazing people who support you. The crap that was written down in the bible that says being gay is satanic was written by some crusty old hags thousands of years ago. Jesus would love and support anyone. He made us each to be individuals and loves you so much💜I wish you the best. You're perfect and just try to stay strong💜
Stay strong the internet community will always be there for you 💛
Thanks guys. I'll try. I would love to find people in real life who would support me, but I don't want to talk to people at the school. Someone I trusted with my life, for years, was telling my secrets to people. I can't trust anyone anymore. If I found someone not in contact with people at school who were as accepting as most of the Internet community I would be extremely happy. Thanks again for being supportive, you guys are great!
I came out to my mom for Labor Day weekend. Best decision of my life so far!
CONGRATS!
good for you!!❤
bahahhahahahahah c': I found out i was Bi when i was 11 ;DDDDD HEHEHEHHEHU
itz emma Msp same
Thank you guys! ❤️
When you said you realised you were gay and "hid it and hid it and hid it" I thought you were saying HIT IT and I was like WOAH Connor we don't need to know about your grindr hookups 😂😂😂
Oliver Céleste dude I thought the same thing!😂😂😂😂
Me too!!! 😂
Same tho
I came out today so this video is perfectly timed
congrats !!
Congratulations!! Did all go well?
maribelle Thank you! It went really well! :)
hooray !
Congrats! Did it go well
the way you described your first gay kiss ,AWWWWH my heart ❤😭 btw I'm so sorry I'm laate xc and your right there are a lot of straight attractive people😭😭😭
For some reason I am almost always fortunate enough to fall in love with gay guys... I have no Idea why, but I am not complaining
diego .
YESSSSSSH! 🌚🌚🌚🌚
as a gay girl flirting with girls is frustrating. "You look cute!" "aww that's so sweet" nononono I'm being gay with you...
I was texting one of my middle school ex girlfriends, we were talking about the play she's in and stuff and out of nowhere she goes "Are you straight?" I replied "Nah"
Connor talking about his first kiss with a guy made me so happy. You’re amazing, I love you
I loveee your videos Connor!
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when he said icons i thought they meant profile pictures lmao
I was like "oh yea I have plenty in my folder - ohh."
OH MY GOSH so there was this book I read in 8th grade it's called: Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets Of The Universe. This book was simply so cute and such an original but the twist was the main characters were for gay for each other (sorry spoiler). It was so unexpected and surprising because as a bi girl I've never thought there would be an LGBT book for teens because...well, some peoples in the world don't accept us people.
Momo Kurana you should read 'More happy than not', 'History is all you left me', and 'They both die in the end' they are SOO GOOD and by Adam Silvera
I LOVE THAT BOOK I GOT IT FOR MY BIRTHDAY A FEW YEARS AGO AND I LOVE IT
Oh my god, I so recommend “all the things we do in the dark,” it’s an _amazing_ story, though it is pretty inappropriate... really good story and there is a plot twist where a lot of the main characters are bi or pan and it’s sooooooo good.
This is completely my opinion but I don't think you should haved to 'come out' I think if your gay you should just bring your boy friend or girl friend home and people will accept you and not judge for every little thing that's different or unique about you. I honestly just think you should be accepted as you are and treated the same as every one else around you is being treated, and I know that no body has the same kind of people in their life to accept them as they are but i think every one should be accepted no matter sexuality, colour, opinion etc.
Why do people think girls are supposed to be with guys and guys are supposed to be with a girl and can a guy just date a guy or a girl date a girl with out being judged. I hate when my Lgbtq people get judged. Also I have lots of Lgbtq friends yay.
Just saying, Connor, this actually helped me thanks!
Can I go to a pride festival if I'm straight???
of course. why not
Either you are gay OR support LGBTQ than sure but if people don't fuck them, am I right🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
I went to a pride festive when i was 12 and questioning and it was awesome but go for it
Yea you should totally go. My mom went when she was straight and ended up getting a girlfriend. So you never know what might happen
Yeah of course you can go! As long as you don't offend anyone and actually support them! I've gone twice and it's pretty awesome, just like a big colorful party on the street!
"c'est la vie" you're too cute when you speak french
When you read that question, all I could think was "The Way He Looks," I'm so glad you said it. It's available on Amazon and it is one of my favorite movies.
LAST TIME I WAS THIS EARLY BARB WAS STILL ALIVE... RIP BARB
OH GOD
O my god lol
gotta love stranger things
TOO SOON
DID U JUST RUINED STRANGER THINGS FOR ME OR????? I FUCKING HATE U NOOOOOO
When he said "QandGay" did anyone else think of Matthew Lush?
I did
Yup
Yess
YES
Does anyone know if Connor addressed Matt asking him to be his bf?
I saw the cutest fucking gay couple in the Victoria and Albert museum and I really hope they didn't think I was giving them a weird look, I just couldn't help but observe how adorable their happiness was infectious. That was random sorry. I'm proud of you Connor!
omg I do that all the time when I see gay couples, i literally just cant help myself
ok so I was at universal studios and I went to the frozen sing-along and me and my friends were sitting next to the CUTEST gay couple and it was so cute and they kinda look at us weird but that was probably bc we were a bunch or teenage girls singing the songs at the top of our lungs...
Same thing happened at Dollywood for me
at the pentatonix concert i saw 2 guys being the cutest couple ever. they left the concert a few minutes before it ended and were standing in front of me so had to walk past me. when they walked past me i was like YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTEEEEE AHHHHHH
So this reminds me of when I was in Chicago and I not only saw a gay couple (there were many there, so it wasn't all that off), but one of them reminded me of a friend and I finally realised that weird feeling. That was the day I discovered my gaydar, because that one friend was actually pansexual. Sadly, I wasn't his type, but hey it was an experience! (Another friend of mine who was there kept wondering what I was looking at and was really confused, and I think one of the guys noticed me giving them weird looks but it wasn't like a death glare or anything. My face was extremely red and it was a little awkward because I wasn't out at the time either.)
I find it cute how you tell stories of this stuff with confident and it's just so funny. Your so inspiring
When Connor recommended 'The Way He Looks'
I connected to the deepest part of the universe and cried for a split second... almost collapsed my lung in the process. That film is absolutely fucking amazing. Everything about it is literal goals and perfection. Top marks Connor, my favourite film that EVERYONE in the comments should at least watch... twice.
I agree 100%! I love that movie so much! I've watched it 6 times since May.
"The way he looks" it's a Brazilian cute movie s2
I love that film
Renan Oliveira I just watched it a few days ago but I thought it was in French??
your earring is so cute
love you!!
ooo phandom
ikr😍
more phandom yass
Omg I never noticed that
Dan says he's not gay, so did Shane and Joey and look where they are now...we're waiting Dan😂😂
Cat Warrington I swear Dan already came out as Bi?
Twenty Øne Ølivias when?
Creative Cupcake thephandirectory.tumblr.com/post/54141399671/wait-when-did-dan-say-he-was-bi
Cat Warrington Shane is bisexual
The wait has paid off , dan (sort of) came out now :)
fuck i just kept staring at Con's earring for the whole entire video
same
Once you see it, you can't unsee it
Samd
dammit... should've read this AFTER the video!!
Mee too it's so cute I love it !!! 🙀💖💖😂💜
I'm a bi boy (12) . And I'm coming out to my parents on the 23rd because it's national bi awareness day then. hope everything goes well
good luck! proud of you !
good luck! hope everything goes well! proud of u
Thx so much guys
I'm proud of you, I wish you all the best darling❤️
i hope everything goes well. i'm proud of you xx
As a phan trash, I hope Dan and Phil will come out just in time for their wedding in 2022.
SAME
SAMEEE
As donald trump trash i hope they dont.
they still living together?
Baltax Totally.
Every time I have a crush, I find out that he's straight...
Cheshire Cat sAme 😢 (except girls always being straight lol I’m les)
that sucks for me cuz i’m a fujoshi :c
The Way He Looks is my all time favorite film. It's just so good and so cute and wonderful ugh.
I'm straight and I'm not a homophobe but i live in an extremely homophobic environment and they scare the fuck outta me so i act like i am just like them 'a fuckin homophobe' and its killing me lol.
I live in a place like that too. The worst part is when you have gay friends who have to act like they're homophobes. That's just destroying some people I know.
Brian Scott omg im so sorry this must be so horrible for you
Watching some of them beat themselves up like that is yeah, pretty terrible, but I don't have it nearly as bad as they do.
Brian Scott i wish it gets better for you all , this really broke my heart.
As soon as they leave Highschool or even if they just leave the one I'm at it'll get better for pretty much all of them.
i am a muslim and i love lgbt community ❤️
+
Eliza pancakes Dil Howlter
Hi five! I basically don't care cause its not a big deal, I'm just like "You like a boy? Cool dude. You do you"
Just like me!!
Sameee
"The Way He Looks" is such an amazing movie!!! I just watched it for the first time a few days ago and I fell in love with the characters and the progression of their relationship.
I am planning to come out to my friend/roommate....fingers crossed.
Wish u all the luck :)
Anjali Avasarala ***** thanks
Gl if they don't accept u they're a 💩
good luck!!!
Yay good luck...!
you should make this a series
I'm honestly very proud of you. Haha like you coming out as gay actually helped me. I am an 8th grader (13 years old) and last year, I ended up liking a girl. I thought something was wrong with me. I had seen your "Coming Out" video and I finally had the confidence to come out to my friends and most of my family. By now, I am completely comfortable with myself. I tell anybody that I am pansexual. I even explain to them what it is. Thank you so much Connor 💖
The Way He Looks is my favorite movie!! I'm so happy you recommended it!
I love 'The way he looks'!!! (It's Brazilian btw)
ME TOO.
YES
yes yes
eu não quero voltar sozinho!
Eu nao quero voltar sozinho is the short version that came out before and is what "The way he looks" is based upon. The Way he Looks is actually Hoje eu quero voltar sozinho.
CONNOR NO I CANT OMG I was watching the video n I accidentally clicked the button which put the video onto the TV and my family saw the fucking video title n they were like "What are you watching" "um is this suitable" etc. and my heart stopped and now I want death pls help
my life is fucking over like no lie Jesus Christ I'm almost sobbing
ooh im sorry hope it's fine
Where is the problem
aww hunny dont cry craft
oh i hope everything works out. good luck, friend
Jongens is also a really sweet, gentle movie. You should totally watch it. The cinematography was very good and the pacing was so nice.
My favorite movie! 😍
It's so good
IKR!
I’ve watched your videos since the beginning, and you helped me gain the confidence to finally come out
OH MY GOD. Another person that watched The Way He Looks. It's honestly such a good low budget movie, as well as Boys. Both are on Netflix! Please watch!
Dying lmao What's the cover look like? I want to watch now that you mentioned it
Lauren Brynna THE WAY HE LOOKS IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOD
+LaurenBrynna
Yes, the Brazilian film "The Way He Looks" is a very good film. Another one that is terrific is the Mexican movie "4 Moons." Also, "Were The World Mine" is cute. Last, but not least, if you have not seen "Shelter," be sure to watch it. You will be glad that you did.
Lauren Brynna boys is so good and under appreciated
TH-cam I AM 5 DAYS LATE I TOLD YOU TO NOTIFY ME
literally same
Typical Phangirl
Everytime dan or phil make a video, i miss it by about a day because of TH-cam NOTIFICATIONS
H
Gay
you might not have clicked to the bell next to the subscription button.
i love his honesty. especially about that I'm not gay video, it takes courage to admit you're wrong.
Here’s a quick reminder for any closeted people watching this video. I’m 26 and a lesbian. I didn’t come out to family until I was 21. It’s never too late to come out, nor is there ever a rush to do so. Please come out in your own time, when you are ready.
One of my favourite LGBTQ+ movie is probably "Pride". If you haven't seen it, I recommend it. This is the first time I'm properly stating this seriously. And none of you will read this but I want to get it off my chest.
I'm Bisexual.
Thanks. Have a good day 💗
wait is that ur coming out? if so, CONGRATS!!!! if not and i misunderstood, then still congrats for being prouddddddd af
I'm bisexual as well. Saying it feels weird.
I've always wanted to see that movie just never had the chance. And omg yay!! Saying it out loud (or typing whichever) for the first time is incredibly hard. I'm proud of you!
I SHIP CONNOR WITH THE GUY IN THE BACK IN THE CAR
Same
WHAT?! omg SPILL THE T! who is it!?!!one1!
or did you mean the boy mentioned in this Q&A. bummer 😒
Who else is early??? Connor i think it's awesome you are raising money for your birthday!
YEE
hi Julia, I am subcribed to you, I love you so much! and we both love Connor! 😊
ikr!!
THE WAY HE LOOKS IS MY FAVORITE MOVIE!!!! Ugh it's such a beautiful film!!! 😭💓
Q & Gay needs to be a thing
It is a thing. Tyler Oakley and Matthew lush have been doing them for ages.
Of course not as a challenge, as a serie.
Pretty sure Tyler has a q and slay and tons of other youtubers have q & a's
I love u Connor, my eternal crush
you like him?
Thai Hoa Nguyen Xuan who doesn't?
The way he looks !!! Is !!! So !!! Good !!!! Watch it !!!!! If you want a good movie!!!
I first watched you 3 years ago. The first video was "signs a guy doesn't like you"
Wow I did not know this is who you are. You're amazing and I wish you and everyone watching a wonderful year!
can i go to Pride even if i'm not in the LGBTQ+ community? i want to go and support others but idk it's just a question
definitely!!! all are welcome as long as you arent against LGBTQ+ :)
Dude yeah, totally. Pride is for supporters and those in the community.
Yasss
if you support the LGBTQ+ community, you're an ally!! of course you're welcome at Pride! :D it's great that you want to go, I hope you have fun next year!
yeah you could totally go, just remember it's about the LGBTQ+ community, not you being an ally :)
I used to hold my friend hand when we were walking and people would look at us like "What are they doing?" and then walk away from us. They didn't even knew if we were or not a lesbian couple and still they would jugde us. So we decided that if they came at us asking if we were a couple, we would tell them "No, we're just friends, and you are been rude and prejudiced". Kisses from Brazil
sorry haha *homophobic
Hey portuguese(language) fam xd
hey xd
I support all love. You're such an inspiration to all❤️
This is the third video of Connors I've watched and omg he's amazing
god his teeth. I am forever jealous.
LOVE when people make LGBT+ related videos :D !
makes us so happy!
Thanks Connor, love yeh!
-Philip & Shawn
Connor made me look at gay people differently like I always had respect for them but I'm more open minded like their jus like straights I have a new view on it tkx conor
Ellen Flanagan good for you :)
Yay, thanks you :)
Hey Conner, you give me inspiration every single day in so many ways, so I just want to thank you for giving us these videos. (Also, today might be the day I ask that cute girl out!)
I have the same problem Connor ( somewhat ). I'm straight, and when I get a crush on a guy, I then find out they are gay. EVERY TIME. 😂.
+ there are so many attractive gay men out there too
4 real same
Omg same
im about to come out as trans to my brother, hope it goes well.
How was it?
Good luck! :)
Good luck! Let us no how it goes?☺️
good luck babe!
Good luck
"The way He Looks" is from Brazil. And its from 2014 not that old...
Ps.: They have it on netflix.
+Tiago Fonseca Thanks dude! :D
Talvez ele tivesse falando do curta? Não sei hahahah masssss esse filme
Gabi Mekhi Melhor de todos ♥♥♥
he meant that the movie has an old vibe
You should make a part 2!! Much love from Mexico❤️❤️❤️
I have been waiting for this since i suggested it like last year yay
So happy you finally filmed it!
I feel the handholding thing but more for kissing than handholding, because two "girls" holding hands can be seen as bestfriends and not a couple (My significant other is an adab demiboy, but I am a cis girl). When kissing in the halls of our Southern school (Upper South, but still...the South), there is almost always someone who will stop at the halls and stare or look offended, but no one really has commented on it, except one occasion where I missed my significant other's lips and they had to rub the area for my "accident" and some girl said "Ugh, rubbing away your lips as if you're disgusted?!" However, that doesn't mean my halls are free of homophobic abuse, just not directed at me or even someone else just...the community. More than once, I had to yell at someone for freely saying "Ugh, gay people are disgusting!" "That's so gay!" or the f-slur and not always just the shortened part...Their arguments are, more often than not, "They make me uncomfortable!" Well, news flash, _we're_ being normal; _you're_ making _us_ uncomfortable.
I KNOW I'M 3 MONTHS LATE BUT IDC! The Way He Looks is SUCH an amazing movie I've watched it like 5 times and it's beautiful and heartwarming. Please watch it if you haven't already!
Sara Rahimpour I’m 2 years late
I saw 'The way he looks' and now is one of my favorite movies. Thank you 😊