Anddddd we're back with another suprise friday video! HE'S KILLING IT FOLKS. he. is. killing. it. You guys enjoyed the last LGBTQ+ video I did, so here's another for you. If you want another, make sure to click the like button. Also, my book is out in 4 days and my tour begins then too so AH see you all soon xo
I befriended a bullied bisexual girl recently (she is bullied bc it's the south and they are not as accepting here) and she recently asked me infront of my friends if I wanted to help her start a GSA (since I'm straight), and I said yes and one of my friends were pissed at me for saying yes and I cut her out of my life because I don't need that in my life
Anna F. hey, thanks. My best friend did that. It was the hardest thing we've ever had to do and we live in the north, but the shitty Pennsylvania north so. good luck.
I just came out as pansexual to my mom and I have my first girlfriend. I legit couldn't be happier bc I'm finally being who I am and a lot of it is bc of u con. I am a very young child and you helped me so much 😂. Thank you so much!! I also will be meeting you in Bethlehem!!
There's a GSA at my middle school which I'm in. I'm not gay I'm straight and I love supporting and being in this school and group activity. It helps so many kids at my school and around the world
This is a common substitution for what was previously more commonly known as the Gay-Straight Alliance. As the concept of fluidity of gender identity and expression became more commonplace and understood throughout the entire LGBTQ+ community, the community realized as a whole that the name "Gay-Straight Alliance" was problematic and exclusive. So, it is more common nowadays to find GSAs changing their names to the Gender and Sexuality Alliance.
An excellent change. Not only does it manage inclusion, it seems to be really a step towards establishing each letter as a separate entity with its own voice.
+Mkkio Harts - Ls, Bs, Ts, Qs and others strongly dislike that the mainstream has a tendency to call anything non-straight "gay". It's no picnic for the Gs either. I could say it's like living in Downton Abbey and then having to lease increasing chunks of it to the cast of Duck Dynasty, but I won't.
Actually, both bisexuals and pansexuals can be attracted to all genders. The difference is that many people choose to call themselves pansexual to show that gender doesn't affect their attraction to someone, whereas a bisexual might be more attracted to one gender than the other, or might be attracted to different genders for different reasons. In this way, pansexual is more of a political and personal label whereas bisexual is a more general label with lots more history and an established community.
gabriel. Mmmm super sorry honey and not to be a debby downer, but that's not correct. As a bisexual person who has been aware of their sexual identity for 7+ years, it's really aggravating when pan people or people who aren't lgbtq+ or even uneducated bi people put down or put out ideas that alter what bi actually is.
Nope! Pan means they love everyone regardless of gender. Bi is male and female. And poly is pan with limitations, meaning they love certain genders. Not all, but not just female and male.
actually, bi refers to atraction to primarily two genders, while pan is the atraction to guys, gals, and non-binary pals alike. pan could also be omni.
even though this video was uploaded three years ago, I just wanted to say thank you connor. it was this video that inspired me to start a GSA at my middle school a few years ago. it was such a life changing experience that i’ve decided to write my college essay about how this video led me to one of the most inspiring and incredible decisions of my life. thank you for being in my college application essay :)
I haven't watched your videos for a long time now, I guess since your coming out video or around that time, I don't know why. It just kinda didn't happen. And don't get me wrong, it wasn't because you are gay. But watching this video today and seeing how happy and confident you are now made me really happy. It kind of encouraged me to believe in the good times of life. Thanks Connor!
I hear "that's so gay" over 25 times a day. Wednesday May 17th is national day against homophobia. I talked to my principle and my High School will have host a pride day! :) Organize something at your school and take a stand.
Not every school allows it :( at mine (in England - a School that prides itself on allowing everyone to be themselves and be proud of it) I'm constantly told to not 'be so gay' to put it simply. To 'tone it down a bit'. We (me and my gays) asked the School if there could be a GSTA (gay straight trans alliance) but they took our comments (without saying anything LGBT, like they were afraid it would hurt us???) and completely ignored it. Sometimes making a stand works and that is so amazing but other times it's useless - what I'm saying is don't expect it to always work the first time, people need convincing a lot sometimes :(
I honestly love these videos. I am straight but I remember asking my mum how would she feel if I was gay. It opened up a huge discussion and honesty between us. That's what your videos do so thank you xx
MeMyselfAndIris it literally can be anyone. im bisexual and most of the time i need to get to know the person to like them. tbh they both are kind of the same because bisexuals dont reduce people to their genitalia but ya know if you read it on tumblr it MUST be true!
oh yeah totally! I'm kinda like you in that respect. It's so interesting that there are so many different ways to classify it because sexuality is a spectrum! 💕 It's really important to recognize that many different people have different definitions!
Well Bi is still two though. There is a sexuality that labels people who fall in love with some But not all genders! Pan, obviously, based as all. Idk I don't understand labels since I myself do not label anyone or myself really. I'm just a blob of me 😂 Honestly in my opinion everyone's different there's no point to labels.
+ConnorFranta okay but bisexuality is more like the duality that includes liking one's own gender as well as other genders (so it isn't necessarily limited to the gender binary). The pink on the flag represents attraction to one's own gender, the blue is other genders, and the purple is the sum of both into one sexuality. As for pansexuality... well, they have the saying "hearts before parts" for a reason, right? Pansexuals see a person more as a soul than as a body, and they tend to fall in love with or be attracted to a person's personality rather than their body, similarly to sapiosexuality (the attraction to intelligence).I feel like I should also mention that terms such as pan, poly, omni, pluri, ect fall under the bi umbrella, meaning that you are included in the B of LBGTQ(IA)+ if you fall under any of those identifiers and that they are non-exclusive. I hope this was helpful, if not, I highly recommend RJ Aguiar (+thenotadam) 's Ask a Bi Guy videos for a more detailed explanation, but yeah.
Well, she insults people because of who they love, so she doesn’t deserve respect, and if I were you she would already be out of my life, but just talk to her about it
6:10 As an open 15 year old, one who has been open for a little over a year, this little speech made me so happy. I've never thought about it but I just got so happy when he said that. Thanks Connor xxx
This kind of video is REALLY refreshing and make me feel good and smiling and a lot of positive emotions. It, as well make me see Connor as a guy you can relate to. Just keep being yourself, You're amazing
Riarkle_ Babe she called me after saying that she was the one who liked me (my friends had been giving me hints) and now we're together. couldn't be happier!
All of Connor's videos are so aesthetic and cute! I love his sweater and the tree with the lights. Also I love how open and honest he is about everything! His channel is such a great place to come for chill, aesthetic, lovely, lgbtq+ friendly content.
In response to that "use slurs to be cool" question. Any time someone on my facebook says something like "that's so gay" i explain to them that it is not the right connotation of that word and to rephrase or unfriend me because I don't want someone that bad in my life. But I usually hope they learn and grow to be better
I just want to say that your videos have been such and inspiration. I'm 23 and just recently accepted myself as being gay. Ever since coming out to myself and one of my coworkers I have been so much happier. I plan on coming out to my mom this week; i'm both scared and really excited.
Honestly Connor you've been my biggest role model even before you came out like I loved your videos and after you did I feel like im even more inspired by you 💓💓
Every question you answer I become more and more surprised at how you answer them EXACTLY how I would - this made me feel so much better about myself, thank you ❤️
I like how lighthearted these are. it makes it seam like hanging out and just talking about stuff. It's also so comfterable becuase you know that he gets and yeah,thanks conner:)
7:10 Me. Me everyday. I live in a pretty conservative community, so if I experience someone exhibiting homophobic or transphobic behavior, I make sure to act EXTRA gay.
I've been open about my sexuality since I was 8!!! (I'm gay, btw. and I'm now 13) And I love this! (rant coming up) I love that this was posted so randomly, yet it's so entertaining and very educational at the same time. I feel like since it's the 21st century, there isn't as many homophobes as the past generations (or decades, whatever), and more people are now accepting towards the LGBTQ+ community. Being gay, and not having such a big support system (seeing as almost everyone here in the Philippines is half-homophobic or just plain homophobic.), is sometimes really hard. That's why, when I grow up, I want to be someone like Connor. Someone very influential, yet very humble and educated. I also want to be someone that stands up for the LGBTQ+ community, and someone that educates people about said community. Still being 13, all I can really do is correct and educate my classmates, friends, and family about certain aspects about the LGBTQ+ community. Also, having typed this comment/rant that no one will probably read, I also want to tell people that, if you're still in the closet, please don't fight yourself. It'll only further confuse you and may cause you stress if you don't accept the fact that you're gay, lesbian, pan/bi (whatever you wanna call it), or asexual, etc. You be you, and surely, there's someone out there, be it you're best friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, or family, that loves you for you. Love from the Philippines! 😘😘😘
I have never heard of a GSA! im going to introduce it to my school i think because sometimes its hard at school if ur gay. Great idea to spread GSA in the world :)
First off: Connors hair is GORGEOUS. I don't think it's actually any different but DAMN. Second: whenever Connor talks so openly about sexualities and everything he's been doing and just him I feel so happy because he's come so far and he's such a good person and deserves everything coming his way. I always get that feeling where I'm either gonna cry really hard or laugh really hard (I'm sure someone knows what I'm talking about). Ugh Connor you slay me.
i'm pan (i think, i'm not sure how to label my sexuality yet ahh) and i think you pretty much nailed the explanation. i always explain it to people as "i just like people"
You're either bi if you're attracted to other people sexually or asexual if you're looking for a mental soulmate rather than sexual partner. The actual medical/psychological definition of pansexuality says that it's a sexual attraction to everything, not only people but also animals, objects etc. I don't think you're pansexual in an actual way.
I love that you shop in both sections! I totally do that too. I know it's a bit different societally (unfortunately), but it definitely is so freaking nice to not restrict myself to one area.
I came out just a few months ago, to all my classmates. It felt amazing. I'm only in high school, and your comment about young people being open with sexuality makes me feel so great. But... I live in the south...
Same. Honestly, the Bible belt sucks in terms of homosexuality. I kind of automatically told someone I was gay and instantly froze, and oh my fucking god I'm still so terrified. But they accepted me and like our entire table is pan, with one trans and two non binary peeps. Poor innocent straight guy got roped in to sitting with us but I think he's entertained by our gayness. God I hate most humans lmao
My school has a GSA, but we changed it so it was Genders and Sexualities Alliance so it'd be more inclusive. To everyone reading this have a great day/night, you are loved!
I recently came out to my mom and dad and I couldn't have even thot about coming out without u Connor ur so inspirational and I wish I could thank u enough but I can't you've made me so comfortable with myself ❤️ thank u so much for being u!!
Bisexual-attraction to 2 genders not always male and female, Polysexual-attraction to more than 2 genders just not all genders. Pansexual-attraction to all genders. And Polysexual does not mean dating multiple people at the same time. That is Polyamory which I'm not very educated on. Hope that helped someone!
Some bi people also define it as "attraction to genders same as their own and other than their own" and may be attracted to more than two. Source: I am one. This is where some of the confusion comes from because there is overlap but its common to consider pansexuality as attraction regardless of gender as well as attraction to all gender.
Admiration for the gay community as a whole for caring for each other, as it was, your coming out inspired me to do so and I've never been more comfortable in my own skin. Its been two and a half years since I came out (at age 14). If you do read this, you have my personal thanks. We love you Connor, thank you xx (ps come back to Britain and do something, a meet and greet would be nice XD)
Honey,u got the definitions for bi and pan sooooo right. One of the only people who can tell the difference. Ur amazing hun. Thanks for helping my friends understanding of the difference from the two.
Omg. Im about to cry right now. That was such a sweet thing to say. I'm just now starting to watch your youtube videos, and that... Wow. I am a teen, that is openly gay, And you saying " kids who are open about there sexuality are strong and corsages " That just made my day. 6:16
Anddddd we're back with another suprise friday video! HE'S KILLING IT FOLKS. he. is. killing. it. You guys enjoyed the last LGBTQ+ video I did, so here's another for you. If you want another, make sure to click the like button. Also, my book is out in 4 days and my tour begins then too so AH see you all soon xo
ConnorFranta killing it. Yas u go Connor 😂
K I N G
ConnorFranta I love you Connor
ConnorFranta P E R F E C T
ConnorFranta❤❤
I befriended a bullied bisexual girl recently (she is bullied bc it's the south and they are not as accepting here) and she recently asked me infront of my friends if I wanted to help her start a GSA (since I'm straight), and I said yes and one of my friends were pissed at me for saying yes and I cut her out of my life because I don't need that in my life
good you did that. no one needs toxic people who spread negativity in your life
I live in the South too. I wish I had the courage to create a GSA like you did, Anna F., At a Catholic School. Which is basically impossible lol.
Anna F. hey, thanks. My best friend did that. It was the hardest thing we've ever had to do and we live in the north, but the shitty Pennsylvania north so. good luck.
Awww that's really sweet. I'm proud. ❤
Good 4 u!!! 👏👏👏👏
the aesthetics. the cute tree. the fairy lights. the stripes. THE GAY. I love love love
hes a cutieee for sure
TBHBYRON cutie 😘😘
TBHBYRON ayyyyye
TBHBYRON heeeyyyy Byron!
I have accidentally found you again.
DUDE I JUST REALIZED CONNOR LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE THAT PERSON THAT VIOLET FROM THE INCREDIBLES HAD A CRUSH ON OMG
Helena K. Omg he does! I think his name was Danny or something
OH SHIT U RIGHT!
I AM SHOOKETH
Helena K. TONY RIDINGER
Helena K. Hahaahaa
Why do his videos always seem so calm and angelic
His face.
I want to hug it and show all the unconditional love in the world.
connor: sweet like honey
me: DONT NEED MONEY ALL I NEED IS YOU
Jen Dim HELL YEA
Jen Dim I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT THANKS FAM
EXCUSE ME WHO ASKED YOU
Rhiannon Brown OMG SAME I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT LMAAOOOO
when does he say this???!!!
I just came out as pansexual to my mom and I have my first girlfriend. I legit couldn't be happier bc I'm finally being who I am and a lot of it is bc of u con. I am a very young child and you helped me so much 😂. Thank you so much!! I also will be meeting you in Bethlehem!!
JessicaMary :)
There's a GSA at my middle school which I'm in. I'm not gay I'm straight and I love supporting and being in this school and group activity. It helps so many kids at my school and around the world
That's nice
What does GSA stand for. We have thing like that too!
Random Turtle Im late but im pretty sure it stands for Gay-Straight Alliance
Oh that makes sense thanks!
That’s amazing! As a very gay person, I wish that my school was that progressive!
I have a friend who is pan and they always say "it's the hearts not the parts"
My school tried to get rid and not let our GSA meet... they got sued
Justineelv no way. that's cool.
Thank god they got sued
anyone else love connor answering gay questions?
smashbyofficial i just love Connor talking lol
maira ahmed who doesnt
Why aren't you calling these Q and Gay's?
CLaire VO It's Matthew Lush's thing
Trevor Moran called his coming out video a "Q and Gay"...
oml yus trevor slay kween
Tyler Oakley does those 😊
Mi Amor Tyler Oakley actually does Q and Slay.
" Actually my girlfriend "
" Oh.... tell me about her"
Sadly that is not how my mom would react
Same
Natalie Marte yeah same I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 2 years and my best guy friend is who she thinks I’m dating ahaha
:(
Fuhrmanizer I know I’m late, but I can oddly relate.
Natalie Marte that’s sad I’m so sorry.
My best friend came out to his mom, this is how it went
Friend: Mom, I'm gay
His Mom: OH THANK GOD! YOU ARE TERRIBLE WITH WOMEN
Sarah Thompson she's a character 😂
😂😂😂😂 that just made my day
An Unknown Limelight-On_Mobile r/just happened
I’m dying 😂
eye-
connor is such an angel fUUUCK
i knowwww
Jada Ragner the word angel and fuck in one sentence...consecutively.... SHOOK...
why the fuck did this get 200+ likes
Jada Ragner 400*
Jada Ragner 600*
I like your shirt, Connor 😍 and of course this video is aesthetic af
where can I buy a cute, little connor? I need one as soon as possible
love you connor!💖
have to clone a fresh batch, but we'll see what we can do
same
+Blade Lord maybe we can find one at the supermarket!
Zoe Delane try hot topic I bought a Daniel Howell there and when it broke I returned it and got my money back or target
the gsa club at my school is called the gender sexuality alliance. More open and inclusive
oh wow i like that !
Amber Heard At my school we're called SAGA for Sexuality and Gender Awareness! Oh the inclusion
This is a common substitution for what was previously more commonly known as the Gay-Straight Alliance. As the concept of fluidity of gender identity and expression became more commonplace and understood throughout the entire LGBTQ+ community, the community realized as a whole that the name "Gay-Straight Alliance" was problematic and exclusive. So, it is more common nowadays to find GSAs changing their names to the Gender and Sexuality Alliance.
An excellent change. Not only does it manage inclusion, it seems to be really a step towards establishing each letter as a separate entity with its own voice.
+Mkkio Harts - Ls, Bs, Ts, Qs and others strongly dislike that the mainstream has a tendency to call anything non-straight "gay". It's no picnic for the Gs either. I could say it's like living in Downton Abbey and then having to lease increasing chunks of it to the cast of Duck Dynasty, but I won't.
Actually, both bisexuals and pansexuals can be attracted to all genders. The difference is that many people choose to call themselves pansexual to show that gender doesn't affect their attraction to someone, whereas a bisexual might be more attracted to one gender than the other, or might be attracted to different genders for different reasons. In this way, pansexual is more of a political and personal label whereas bisexual is a more general label with lots more history and an established community.
gabriel. Yeah that's not true. Bi people are only attracted to 2 genders (mostly male&female)
gabriel. Mmmm super sorry honey and not to be a debby downer, but that's not correct. As a bisexual person who has been aware of their sexual identity for 7+ years, it's really aggravating when pan people or people who aren't lgbtq+ or even uneducated bi people put down or put out ideas that alter what bi actually is.
Karoline yea cause there are only 2 genders :)
Nope! Pan means they love everyone regardless of gender. Bi is male and female. And poly is pan with limitations, meaning they love certain genders. Not all, but not just female and male.
actually, bi refers to atraction to primarily two genders, while pan is the atraction to guys, gals, and non-binary pals alike. pan could also be omni.
*sees video title*
*nods*
seems like a video for me
Magical Rainbow Bean basically
your username is evidence to this :)
Magical Rainbow Bean omg me
Magical Rainbow Bean me haha
connie is the cutest boy in the world
A friday video?!?! I am shook Connor.. ahaha
SAME SAME AAAAA
YESSSSSSSSSS
SpencerSteelman ahhhhr
shook. shooken. shooketh.
*Shocked
even though this video was uploaded three years ago, I just wanted to say thank you connor. it was this video that inspired me to start a GSA at my middle school a few years ago. it was such a life changing experience that i’ve decided to write my college essay about how this video led me to one of the most inspiring and incredible decisions of my life. thank you for being in my college application essay :)
I haven't watched your videos for a long time now, I guess since your coming out video or around that time, I don't know why. It just kinda didn't happen. And don't get me wrong, it wasn't because you are gay. But watching this video today and seeing how happy and confident you are now made me really happy. It kind of encouraged me to believe in the good times of life. Thanks Connor!
Agave Maria sounds sweet and sassy and boujee af you could win Drag Race with that personality I stg
I hear "that's so gay" over 25 times a day. Wednesday May 17th is national day against homophobia. I talked to my principle and my High School will have host a pride day! :) Organize something at your school and take a stand.
Rayney Rayney good for you! I'm glad you stood up!
Not every school allows it :( at mine (in England - a School that prides itself on allowing everyone to be themselves and be proud of it) I'm constantly told to not 'be so gay' to put it simply. To 'tone it down a bit'. We (me and my gays) asked the School if there could be a GSTA (gay straight trans alliance) but they took our comments (without saying anything LGBT, like they were afraid it would hurt us???) and completely ignored it. Sometimes making a stand works and that is so amazing but other times it's useless - what I'm saying is don't expect it to always work the first time, people need convincing a lot sometimes :(
THE LAST TIME I WAS THIS EARLY I WAS STILL IN THE CLOSET
con you not
you've left me ded
con you not I'm English so don't have a closet to be in..
and I'm straight
Con you like not
watching this made me remember your coming out video. so much time has flew by since then. youve grown so much as a person.
Loved this. So personal but also informative. KILLIN' IT!!
I miss damonandjo so much.
What if you called this series " Hardly Heterosexual: with Connor Franta"
more than anyone darlin' I'll totally watch that
helllll yes
that's very... omg i LOVE IT
haha it's cute
I love it!
literally everytime i hear his outro i wiggle my body to the beat
omg lol
ConnorFranta OMFG IM SHAKING YOU REPLIED
seth sivan omg same 😂 beatboxing works with it too xD
i was literally dancing to the outro as i read this wtf
i do wiggle....everytime with the little icon at the top also CONNOR FRANTA REPLIED TO YOU!! Ahh
i'd be so cool to see connor speak in high school gsa clubs tbh
Connor is adorable oml💕
I honestly love these videos. I am straight but I remember asking my mum how would she feel if I was gay. It opened up a huge discussion and honesty between us. That's what your videos do so thank you xx
For Bi versus Pan: a little correction for bisexual is that it can be two or more genders and any two genders-not just men and women 😊
MeMyselfAndIris it literally can be anyone. im bisexual and most of the time i need to get to know the person to like them. tbh they both are kind of the same because bisexuals dont reduce people to their genitalia but ya know if you read it on tumblr it MUST be true!
oh yeah totally! I'm kinda like you in that respect. It's so interesting that there are so many different ways to classify it because sexuality is a spectrum! 💕 It's really important to recognize that many different people have different definitions!
MeMyselfAndIris well bi means two so generally it is just two - well that's what I was told.
Well Bi is still two though. There is a sexuality that labels people who fall in love with some But not all genders! Pan, obviously, based as all. Idk I don't understand labels since I myself do not label anyone or myself really. I'm just a blob of me 😂 Honestly in my opinion everyone's different there's no point to labels.
What other genders are there?
i saw gay in the title and clicked so fast
also the new GSA deffinition is the Gender Sexuality Alliance
and ur mom sounds amazing
+ConnorFranta okay but bisexuality is more like the duality that includes liking one's own gender as well as other genders (so it isn't necessarily limited to the gender binary). The pink on the flag represents attraction to one's own gender, the blue is other genders, and the purple is the sum of both into one sexuality. As for pansexuality... well, they have the saying "hearts before parts" for a reason, right? Pansexuals see a person more as a soul than as a body, and they tend to fall in love with or be attracted to a person's personality rather than their body, similarly to sapiosexuality (the attraction to intelligence).I feel like I should also mention that terms such as pan, poly, omni, pluri, ect fall under the bi umbrella, meaning that you are included in the B of LBGTQ(IA)+ if you fall under any of those identifiers and that they are non-exclusive. I hope this was helpful, if not, I highly recommend RJ Aguiar (+thenotadam) 's Ask a Bi Guy videos for a more detailed explanation, but yeah.
Guys I am straight but my best friends makes homophobic comments and Idk that makes me uncomfortable...I respect her opinion but what do I do?
Respect people’s opinion so long as their opinion doesn’t disrespect anyone else’s existence
Bryn Renee state your opinion, see how they react. If they don’t agree, that’s fine. Just be nice and don’t disrespect their opinions/beliefs
Well, she insults people because of who they love, so she doesn’t deserve respect, and if I were you she would already be out of my life, but just talk to her about it
BURN HER WITH FIRE.....no that's mean but that was my first instinct
If you're straight, you shouldn't have to worry about defending your opinion. If you were gay and closeted that'd be a little less convenient
6:10 As an open 15 year old, one who has been open for a little over a year, this little speech made me so happy. I've never thought about it but I just got so happy when he said that. Thanks Connor xxx
finally a new connor vid!
Connor is so cute and I'm over here looking like a dying goose
dreamerem lol me tho
dreamerem Shiiit, I look like a dead frog 😂😂😂
connor thinks pansexuals are awesome?!?!?
never been happier to be pan
kritixblaze I know!!
kritixblaze I feel you!!
it's one of the best things ever ❤️
kritixblaze 💜💜💜
Me 2 I is a pan
when connor was explaining how happy he was about CK sponsoring him- made me so happy :)))
This kind of video is REALLY refreshing and make me feel good and smiling and a lot of positive emotions. It, as well make me see Connor as a guy you can relate to. Just keep being yourself, You're amazing
my best friend asked me out yesterday. 💜😁( i said yes)
THATS SO FUCKING CUTE I CANT,, MY HEARTTTTTTTTT
YAY
Eve W WHAT HAPPENED?!
Eve W yayyyy!!!!
Riarkle_ Babe she called me after saying that she was the one who liked me (my friends had been giving me hints) and now we're together. couldn't be happier!
ahh these videos are always so comforting to me i love them so much
conner is the reason why i came out, and i want to meet him so badly but i don't think i can.
i started crying when my mom said no, like i literally felt my world start crashing down around me.
Brianna Stanaford Connor*
*ConnOr
I also look at the men section as a girl ^^ I often like the men clothes (like jumpers and hoodies and stuff)
All of Connor's videos are so aesthetic and cute! I love his sweater and the tree with the lights. Also I love how open and honest he is about everything! His channel is such a great place to come for chill, aesthetic, lovely, lgbtq+ friendly content.
In response to that "use slurs to be cool" question. Any time someone on my facebook says something like "that's so gay" i explain to them that it is not the right connotation of that word and to rephrase or unfriend me because I don't want someone that bad in my life. But I usually hope they learn and grow to be better
ur videos are so aesthetic and gay it makes me so happy
WHEN I SAW THE NOTIFICATION I SCREAMED AND WENT "ITS ONLY FRIDAY"
lia is shook SAME
I just want to say that your videos have been such and inspiration. I'm 23 and just recently accepted myself as being gay. Ever since coming out to myself and one of my coworkers I have been so much happier. I plan on coming out to my mom this week; i'm both scared and really excited.
Honestly Connor you've been my biggest role model even before you came out like I loved your videos and after you did I feel like im even more inspired by you 💓💓
OMG UR HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL
Being pan is lovely! And yes, it means being attracted to people regardless of their gender. Sometimes referred to as being genderblind
Last time I was this early Congratulations was still in Hamilton
Doughnut tv ooooo
Every question you answer I become more and more surprised at how you answer them EXACTLY how I would - this made me feel so much better about myself, thank you ❤️
I like how lighthearted these are. it makes it seam like hanging out and just talking about stuff. It's also so comfterable becuase you know that he gets and yeah,thanks conner:)
I am loving these random uploads♥♥♥♥
I should be Educating myself SAME
7:10 Me. Me everyday. I live in a pretty conservative community, so if I experience someone exhibiting homophobic or transphobic behavior, I make sure to act EXTRA gay.
I've been open about my sexuality since I was 8!!! (I'm gay, btw. and I'm now 13) And I love this! (rant coming up) I love that this was posted so randomly, yet it's so entertaining and very educational at the same time. I feel like since it's the 21st century, there isn't as many homophobes as the past generations (or decades, whatever), and more people are now accepting towards the LGBTQ+ community. Being gay, and not having such a big support system (seeing as almost everyone here in the Philippines is half-homophobic or just plain homophobic.), is sometimes really hard. That's why, when I grow up, I want to be someone like Connor. Someone very influential, yet very humble and educated. I also want to be someone that stands up for the LGBTQ+ community, and someone that educates people about said community. Still being 13, all I can really do is correct and educate my classmates, friends, and family about certain aspects about the LGBTQ+ community. Also, having typed this comment/rant that no one will probably read, I also want to tell people that, if you're still in the closet, please don't fight yourself. It'll only further confuse you and may cause you stress if you don't accept the fact that you're gay, lesbian, pan/bi (whatever you wanna call it), or asexual, etc. You be you, and surely, there's someone out there, be it you're best friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, or family, that loves you for you. Love from the Philippines! 😘😘😘
What if you're 13 and you still have literally no idea what your sexuality is.. 🤔
Mylou vd it's okay, you just need to explore your sexuality.
Paige Robbie hi fellow Filipino and Army!! ~~ I’m bi and I loved your comment. fighting!! ~~
i love way when he was having a conversation beetween the "mum" and "daughter" how the mum reacted hes so lovley!
i just love how you always get so real about so many different kind of topics. i love you, con
Such gay
Much love
more gay questions with kian and jc
sam pottorf u misspelled pottorff
sry
sam pottorf lol its fine I was bored and it was just like reflex or something like that
I have never heard of a GSA! im going to introduce it to my school i think because sometimes its hard at school if ur gay. Great idea to spread GSA in the world :)
First off: Connors hair is GORGEOUS. I don't think it's actually any different but DAMN. Second: whenever Connor talks so openly about sexualities and everything he's been doing and just him I feel so happy because he's come so far and he's such a good person and deserves everything coming his way. I always get that feeling where I'm either gonna cry really hard or laugh really hard (I'm sure someone knows what I'm talking about). Ugh Connor you slay me.
Since I can't come out to my family I'll just come out to everyone here , hi I'm Chantelle I'm 13 and I'm pansexual :)
chantelle Walsh hello and pleased to meet you!
Hi well done welcome to the community
Hi chantelle, I'm Tadhg and I'm VERY gay. We always welcome a new member of the lgtbq+ community.
Well a big gay hello and welcome to youuu!!
Ur accepted and love❤️ if u ever need to talk to someone I’m here! :)
He got Pansexual definition right!! I'm so happy 😆
connor is literally killing me with these surprise videos :,,,,,)
i'm pan (i think, i'm not sure how to label my sexuality yet ahh) and i think you pretty much nailed the explanation. i always explain it to people as "i just like people"
You're either bi if you're attracted to other people sexually or asexual if you're looking for a mental soulmate rather than sexual partner.
The actual medical/psychological definition of pansexuality says that it's a sexual attraction to everything, not only people but also animals, objects etc. I don't think you're pansexual in an actual way.
I love that you shop in both sections! I totally do that too. I know it's a bit different societally (unfortunately), but it definitely is so freaking nice to not restrict myself to one area.
I came out just a few months ago, to all my classmates. It felt amazing. I'm only in high school, and your comment about young people being open with sexuality makes me feel so great. But... I live in the south...
Same. Honestly, the Bible belt sucks in terms of homosexuality. I kind of automatically told someone I was gay and instantly froze, and oh my fucking god I'm still so terrified. But they accepted me and like our entire table is pan, with one trans and two non binary peeps. Poor innocent straight guy got roped in to sitting with us but I think he's entertained by our gayness. God I hate most humans lmao
Did they judge you for it? Cause sister, you don't deserve that.
i didnt know that i needed connor being a supportive mom until now but yes
My school has a GSA, but we changed it so it was Genders and Sexualities Alliance so it'd be more inclusive.
To everyone reading this have a great day/night, you are loved!
Jessica Wang yeah that’s what my school did too :)
we have a gsa but it's "gender sexuality alliance" so it's not limited to JUST gay and straight people. :)
ALSO this video should be called "Q&gay" that would be amazing
Anyone who is gay inspires me to be who you are and to not let anyone change you. Connor, Joey, Daniel, Tyler, Shane. I love them all.
awww when he was talking about pansexuals and he goes “i love that. that sounds lovely.” MY PAN HEART MELTED
I heard, "Gay, Gay, Cute, Calvin Klein, Gay, Calvin Klein (x9), Gay, Cute"
Gay questions are the best questions 🌈
Nifemi Adetunji - Tru
we renamed our gsa to spectrum :") my fav woke place
I recently came out to my mom and dad and I couldn't have even thot about coming out without u Connor ur so inspirational and I wish I could thank u enough but I can't you've made me so comfortable with myself ❤️ thank u so much for being u!!
CONNOR PLEASE DO A ROOM TOUR OR MORE DESIGN VIDEOS also your fav book and decor and that kind of stuff :)
this was unexpected yay!💛💛
i knowww i get so excited every time he uplodes hehe :3
Bisexual-attraction to 2 genders not always male and female,
Polysexual-attraction to more than 2 genders just not all genders.
Pansexual-attraction to all genders.
And Polysexual does not mean dating multiple people at the same time. That is Polyamory which I'm not very educated on. Hope that helped someone!
Some bi people also define it as "attraction to genders same as their own and other than their own" and may be attracted to more than two. Source: I am one. This is where some of the confusion comes from because there is overlap but its common to consider pansexuality as attraction regardless of gender as well as attraction to all gender.
Connor's Drag name: Orange Franta/Fizzy Franta!😅
yass
Ayy Bby 😂😂
I'm pansexual so this was really nice to hear. You always make me so happy and you're such an inspiration! So proud of you for everything!
aw i haven’t watched connor in maybe 6 years but this was on my recommended and i just remembered how cute he is 🥺
i'm 14 and i'm very open about my sexuality!!! i am PANSEXUAL!!!!!! WOOOOOOOO!
Anyone else???? :))) xx
Jessica Fisher meeee!!! But I am a year younger than you and it kills me that the world doesn't like people being straight... that got deep 👌
Jessica Fisher meee toooooo
Sameeee but younger I'm 12🙈💫✨
RealGalaxy Fangirl OMG YAYY! and ikr!
YAASSS CON! I wore a gay pride shirt the other day and got made fun of it but screw them.
HannaShine TELL IT HUNNY! DO YOU, BE YOU, YOU'RE PERFECT!
OMG YES
Admiration for the gay community as a whole for caring for each other, as it was, your coming out inspired me to do so and I've never been more comfortable in my own skin. Its been two and a half years since I came out (at age 14). If you do read this, you have my personal thanks. We love you Connor, thank you xx (ps come back to Britain and do something, a meet and greet would be nice XD)
Omg there need to be third part.. i love that you are so honest and real about it..
Just came out to my friend, I was scared af but she was so nice omg I'm dyinggggggggggggggg
Nicely done. Glad it went well.
Let's get this straight, I'm not
I'm not original I know
Suga Daddy lol that whole comment was me
connor in stripes, thank youuuu
Honey,u got the definitions for bi and pan sooooo right. One of the only people who can tell the difference.
Ur amazing hun.
Thanks for helping my friends understanding of the difference from the two.
Omg. Im about to cry right now. That was such a sweet thing to say. I'm just now starting to watch your youtube videos, and that... Wow. I am a teen, that is openly gay, And you saying " kids who are open about there sexuality are strong and corsages " That just made my day. 6:16
*99% of you won't see this so... hi 1%! I hope you have the best day/night ever* 😘
Same to you sweetie! :)
same to you!!! ♥
same to you and everyone else! ^w^
sprinkleofstyle thank you :)
sprinkleofstyle THANKS SWEETIE