What is the best way to discipline a 1 year old?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ส.ค. 2024
- You asked a really good question, one that's actually age old. How do you discipline a one-year-old? Because it's so hard when they don't really have the developmental skills to understand everything that you're telling them but they're asserting their independence and getting into things they shouldn't and they like to throw tantrums. So it can be difficult. I have one myself and I hope that the tips I give you will also be helpful to me. One of the best things you can do for your child is to let them learn consequences naturally. Of course, this applies to situations that won't harm them. For example, we all know that toddlers like to play a game where they throw things off their high chair and what's our instinct? To pick it up, right? Say that your child's throwing cookies off their high chair and if we just give them more, then they're never going to learn that that's bad behavior. But if we just don't give them anymore cookies and once they're all on the floor, they're on the floor and gone, your child will quickly learn that in order to have cookies, they can't throw them. This applies to maybe breaking a toy, too. If your child is rough with toys and you keep replacing them and not really doing anything to let them know the behavior's not okay, then they will just keep being destructive and so you've got to break into that cycle and not give them more toys when they break them and when they're broken, they're gone. There's also logical consequences and again, this is better applied once your child gets a little bit older but it doesn't hurt to start younger because at one point, they will start to understand more than you think. So let's say that your child doesn't want to pick up their toys. You start to say "if you don't pick up your toys, then you can't play with them for the rest of the afternoon" and you can take them away if they choose to throw a tantrum about it. They'll quickly learn that that behavior does not get them what they want. You may find yourself in situations where withholding privileges or items is helpful. For example, especially as your child gets older, they may have a favorite toy and if you take that away as a consequence for certain behaviors, then they'll start to learn that that behavior is not okay and they'll do it because they want the toy back. But obviously don't withhold things that the child needs like meals and those sorts of things. You can also start implementing time out between the ages of 1-2 but it's usually best received between 2-5. But again, it doesn't mean you can't start trying it. Pick a time out spot and a lot of parents feel like the room is not necessarily the best spot because they want that to be an inviting place, not a place where they're put when they're in trouble. Designate a spot in your house that's the discipline chair or whatever you want it to be and when your child acts out, you can put them there for one minute if they're one year of age, two minutes if they're two years of age and so on. It's hard to keep a toddler in one spot for one minute but they'll learn again that this is not something we want to do, especially because they have a short attention span and again, hopefully, it will serve as incentive to be better in the future. Above all, your attitude towards discipline is going to rub off on your child the most. For example, one of the things we're tempted to do when our child freaks out is yell and scream back at them, but we can't teach them to be calm and to overcome their angers and those sorts of things when we're showing anger. So we can't fight a tantrum with a tantrum. So be firm and be consistent. Those are two important things for us to remember as parents when we're trying to discipline our kids. Good luck with everything and I hope these tips helped. If you have any other questions for me in the future, feel free to ask them on our Facebook page at intermountainmoms and recommend us to your friends and family, too.
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Thanks for the video, new mom here 😖, it’s so hard he did his first tantrum and I was so confused didn’t even know what to do.
Oh, I finally got an idea why my 1 year old boy starting whining more. I have never thought about throw a cookie from high chair and get more cookies is an issue. That's why throwing food from high chair turns to be a game, he thinks it's funny. Thank you so much for making this video.
You should start being a youtuber
Thank you
yep the same thing my 1year old does, she throws her food on the floor from her high chair table.
I have a cousin that has bad behavior. She doesn’t listen, she’s into everything, and she gets mad and throw stuff when I tell her no and I just ignore her.
Thanks madam
liquid blue a child is only "one year old" for a day she has to cover a wide area also because kids have such different personalities .She can only generalize for some of the points that she makes.
I used to babysit for a lady that had a two year old and the two year old would hit the dog with a toy and every time he did his mother would be like oh what am I going to do with him so when she left every time he hit the dog with a toy I take the toy and put on the top of the fridge by the end of the day he's no longer was hitting the dog with toys and his mother was wondering how I did it
This would be helpful if my son did that. He doesn’t care if I give him food or not, he’ll still throw it when he’s done eating. I don’t know how to address that because obviously my “nos” don’t work. What do you do if your one year old throws your phone or glasses? I take it away, he’ll throw a tantrum but forget later. And do it again.
Im thinking about getting parenting classes to teach me to deal with this stuff
CAN YOU STAY ON THE SUBJECT OF A 1 YEAR OLD .
EXACTLYYYYYY!
Maam i want to know the method how to train toddler or kids to help with chores ... there are list of chores for each age but i dont now how to begin n how to stick to n how to gradually do it ... plz help me with this ...
Example & model. By showing example will encourage instead of just saying “Hey clean up your toys” at this age they don’t necessarily know what that means so we definitely have to model. But it shouldn’t be an expectation as they are still little!
My baby's cousin spilled my Sprite on the bed and i legit am disappointed.
My sons fits are getting so bad. Now my daughter is 8 months old so she’s getting in that stage too
Be consistent with using the strategies with both of them. 8 months isn’t too young.
My 3 year old time out works. My 1 year old thinks it's a game and laughs. He either thinks being told off if funny or he has a tantrum. 🙄
Put him in the quiet corner and disconnect, don’t look at him don’t talk to him, just make sure he’s safe.
Because 1 year's old don't understand yet
@@winning3329 yes my point.
Out of all my babies. 6. 4 boys 2 girls. My 1 year old (youngest) daughter is upset like all the time
My 14months old starts hitting me, pulling my hair or throwing things on my face.. How can I stop him from doing that?
My son is 20 months and started doing that too! He even slaps himself when angry. I don’t know what to do 😩
Put in time out and walk away don’t pay no mind and then when time out is up explain to them why you put them in time out like “ I know your upset you were in time out, but you can not hit me or throw things at me its not nice” ( if the child keeps walking out of the time out spot keep putting them back until they accept that they have to do time out but do not React to them leaving the spot because that’s what they are looking for out of you ) you need to have a firm tone
Straight face, no eye contact no talking, and out him down when he pulls on your hair or throws things.
My daughter is one and doesn't like to chew her food. Nothing wrong with her , she will chew sometimes but most of the time she won't. I'm scared she will choke and often does. Advice?
SAHM Life show her yourself how to chew. Like chew very slowly in front of her face to demonstrate and then gulp when done and be like hmmm. And do that for a while
Try speaking with a occupational therapist I know a lot of them come to your home and help u and observe them and will know if there is a reason that she doesn’t want to chew her food.
And it’s free . The program is called early intervention. See if u have this in your area. It’s free
@@smoothiesummers1245 she may need services. Also that is a sign of a possible speech delay. My son was that way and we started late...3 years old. Best you start early. My pediatrician recommended early intervention. Ask her doctor and she will refer you.
It's easy to say too keep calm after you stay with the baby NON-STOP!
Except that I think that the tips with the food and toys are very good and I'm always doing this with my baby and workes because he understand that he's doing something wrong!
I also think that 1 minute is way too short ....I keep him 5 minutes so he can understand that he did something wrong! In 1 minute he doesn't even realizes why is he there! (sorry for my english)
Are you talking about a one year old? How does a one year old makes the connection?
My one year baby he doesn't allow to feed him... While feeding he cry and close the mouth ... If we try a finger to open his mouth and feed him by force .. he throw out the milk by air pressure from his mouth...
Pls help me and suggest good Idea for feeding milk or same other food without any force..
Maybe try baby led weaning? No force needed (and no force should be needed, it'd cause stress around food for kids).
Same problem here
For us it really helped distraction! We give our boy a toy he’s interested in and he’ll play with it while we feed him. Best of luck!
Distraction works really fine here, I play videos on TH-cam of nursery rhymes and my son got really entertained with the cartoons. Never force a child to eat, cause it can be very stressful for baby and he /she can vomit.
Forcing a child to eat can make them choke.
Try giving your child soft foods it can feed themselves.
Hi how about when eating time ? He only try the food if he doesn’t like it he will not open his mouth lol
Have a eating schedule and if he doesn’t eat at that time move to the next eating time.
I would take her advice with caution. I am a board-certified behaviour analyst. Most of her suggestions are punishment based. This is not how you change behaviour in a positive way. It's important to teach a skill and then provide positive reinforcement. Punishment based consequences can work temporarily but they also have negative side effects. I would use caution with them. For example if a child needs to learn to clean up it would be more productive to model the behaviour or to physically assist the child to clean up then provide positive reinforcement. I am wondering what makes you qualified to provide this type of information.
Bijoux the video is about discipline
I found the video helpful. As a "board certified behavior analyst" I would exercise more tact when criticizing someone else.
Lol! Oh get over yourself she’s not criticizing....Everybody does things different so she’s explaining what she would do differently according to what she’s learned with her degree....🤦♀️And her example makes a hell of a lot more sense than what was said in the video… It worked with my kids!
The fact that she’s currently a mother of a toddler makes her credible.
I like your approach better than punishing a baby!
my one year old boy bites us, how do we deal with that?
Dontdalla Bite him back of course not to where he's gonna bleed or leave a bruise but hard enough to make him twitch a lil, tell him that's not nice, say Ouch and soon he will stop
Never bite a child or shout at a child. They are so little. Be calm. Firm and repetitive. Mummy doesn’t like that. Sit them beside you safely for one minute and do not give attention then take them back cuddle and say Mum doesn’t like that. Reinforce positively with good safe boundaries but never hurt or bite or scream at a child!!!! Ridiculous advice.
Sammy Sweetheart ahahhaha 😂😂 bite him back
Dontdalla slap him on the hand but not to hard or pinch him on the hand but again not too hard
Smoothie Summers | Wtf!
HOW CAN YOU HOPE THAT THE INFORMATION YOU GIVE WILL HELP YOU, YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THAT IT DOES . ESPECIALLY BEFORE TRYING TO TEACHING OTHERS .
This video ia too old to be reccommended. It is 7 years old and things like positive dispiline in my mind should be more reccommended. Putting a child in a corner for feeling their emotions is not a good thing. It only teaches them that when they are mad about something they will not be seen. And that they should be ashamed of their emotions. When they are angry, sad or frustrated their parents are not there for them but a chair and a corner is. Look up Igor Gabor for more on these side affects
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My thoughts exactly. A 1 year old cannot comprehend timeouts. That’s why I genuinely only agreed with the natural consequences until I started looking at her funny🤨😂
I literally remember being a child and my mom not being there for me lol the accuracy of this post 👌
@@IndependentIncomeIdeas this is for one year olds. If you remember being one year old, you’re a liar
I think tapping them (not hard of course) to get their attention and make them understand you mean "no" or "it isn't nice" is acceptable
That's like someone coming up to you speaking a different language and slaping you in the face and you don't understand why.
Children that little don't understand.
@@winning3329 tapping and "slaping" are not the same thing and it's quite disturbing that you can't discern between the 2.
1 year old baby won't understand this kind of discipline until they are around 3 maybe
logica you would be surprised
1 year olds doesn’t understand a lot of talking because they are in the cause or effect stage. So discipline has to be quick and age appropriate 😊
I would make a baby with Nurse Dani
This approach is outdated. I prefer the Montessori philosophy for discipline.
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Caligula Germanicus that could be probably because you dont have a child required to discipline. Am i right?
The longest neck I've ever seen.
Horrible advice. Smh.