I'm a compassionate GIVER. Thanks God for this kind of attitude. For me it's a blessing. My dream is to help less fortunate people in our town. May God help me and bless me more in order to continue giving 🙏🙏🙏
I thought compassion means empathy... But someone said it means love. And few told me it means kindness! Now i know its all of that! Thank you for the clear explanation.
I think Compassion is extremely lacked in today’s society and I think this is a great point to make when talking to other people. I think the kids and pets example was great because most everyone can relate to both of those examples.
I’ve made to decision to Meditate on God’s 5 characteristics as per Ex 34:7 Week by week starting from 1st Feb So I started to search for a deeper and clearer meaning on compassion. Your video is exactly what I needed! I’m also pursuing MBA HRM as well. Thank you so much 👍
Thanks! You know, we've grown like 20000 subscribers in the past 12 months. So, it's moving in the right direction. But, if it grew even faster, I wouldn't complain! :-)
Sir and friends Compassion is through my eyes, the :perspective of Knowing that it is your actions so NOT your REACTIONS that form your perception of reality
I have to write an essay about compassion and what it means by not giving a textbook definition. Needless to say, your video has helped me understand compassion in a new light, thank you!
I think I learned this best in my church. I believe Jesus teaches us best about this. I wasn't great at this when i was in active drug addiction. Now in sobriety, and through a lot of hard work I'm doing pretty good learning to become better. Thank you! This stuff is helping me through this rough patch of life and is making me become a better person. I am happy to follow you till I'm ready to lead on my own.
My dog is a senior (17 yo). He can no longer go up and down stairs, doesn’t bark, partially deaf and blind, and has dementia. We carry him out 4-5 times a day down stairs to allow him outside to pee/poo. It’s taxing and we can no longer leave him alone without him getting stuck somewhere for hours but I feel such a strong pull towards giving him the best end of life care and love. He served me for so long through so many of my milestones. I want to give that back so we cart him around in a stroller and he travels with us everywhere which means we can only travel by car… I haven’t been on a plane in years.
Thank you so much! Yes..sometimes I want to sit in my favorite chair and read a book..but pups is there and looks so cute and happy that I'm happiest sitting beside her and watching over her while I read my book. I know it'd be more comfortable..but that loses meaning and importance when I watch her as my heart wells up with love and happiness. Your video makes so much sense! Thank you so very much!!
I haven't really thought about compassion but this video helped and took notice of it. So this was very helpful to keep in mind and I liked the example you gave of the dog.
Yes, I needed to understand the meaning of the word more fully, and you did an excellent job of explaining that, I believe I have compassion, I tear up at the smallest sad thing, BUT I am very eager to alleviate another's hurts, however, sometimes I feel I'm too OVER THE TOP, and I feel as if others may interpret my actions as controlling....Thank you sir..:)) Shalom.
SERIOUSLY The world at large has never lacked compassion & empathy more than now when society needs it the most & the instances in which it’s ever shown is when its people from the same tribe. LOVE ONE ANOTHER. It’s humanity 101
I love to work in the humanitarian and helping other people but people around me always say to me go make money instead of this you will live sad. I always say to them happiness is when you give is not when you earn.
I am also working to this process with my own family. It's been really hard for my kids after the divorce and I am endeavoring to work through my compassion centers to help them. I shared your video on my personal page and I want to thank you for helping people in this area. There is a great need for compassion in the world right now
I am 15 years old, I never had a pet, But I really feel the compassion about the other form of lives around me even if it is an ant or any other kind of Animal. I really feel bad when they are in some trouble. Who else feels the same?.
I think I developed more compassion as I got older as much as I want to help people it's very hard to trust people and assume they will not take advantage of your kindness
As always, another great video with amazing insight! I have really been following your channel since you launched and it just keeps getting better all the time! As for pets, we have many, mostly goats and they sure are a lot of fun! Thanks again and GOD bless!
yes maybe goats are rulers, but in reality, it is in more reference about sheep for: " ... The one that is lost from its destiny, needs good help and advice to find a correct path back to our ever loving Lord God Our one and only true Father of heaven and earth and all that is seen and unseen.
Really, thank you for your efforts. I'm so grateful for what I've learned from you. I wanna ask you to make a video about "How to accept all kinds of people and how to deal with their different personalities". Thanks in advance.
How do you treat people and other living entities who can do nothing for you in return? A truly kind and compassionate person will not want anything in return from others. Their happiness is in pleasing the Supreme Lord, not in being praised or acknowledged. If we are given some praise or gift, we can immediately give thanks to the Supreme Lord.
I suffer with compassion. It hurts so much and at times it’s hurt for days. Some times it’s so strong I can’t shake it off for many days. I’ve hurt for others at times where my whole body hurt. All I could do is lay in bed in agony tossing n turning uncomfortably with thoughts of the person suffering flash back and forth in my mind. This lady was beat and stomped in the head in a ally behind a bar on a cold and icy night she was raped and left naked and barely hanging on to life. That story sent me into a deep state of compassion where I was in tremendous pain for her. I couldn’t stop thinking about what her final thoughts laying there was. Was she scared did she feel the cold ? Did she think this is it for me I’m hurt bad??? Another example was a two year old who was raped and strangled. It hurt so bad. I was unable to even walk because my legs were so weak. I kept wondering if she called out for her mom or daddy was she scared? Did she cry and not understand why he was hurting her. Did she feel all the pain.
People who who humiliate me and then do something nice to me afterwards aren't what I'm looking for. I want people who who humiliate me to admit that I don't want them or anything they have to offer and I just want them punished. Someone's mean to me I hit them in the face boom done it's over. Then they leave me alone. Nothing crazy I'm so reasonable. If someone loved me they would be able to let me go if they hurt me. They would admit that they wronged me and turn away because I want them to. People wrong me then force help on me amd I hate it they don't give me what I want. They don't even ask if I want their help they don't care about what I want. I only want people in my life who are nice to me in the first place. Something is obsessed with judging me and its rude
Hey Alex... How are you? I just took your Free course on udemy (Listening skills for Leaders) I applied the principles ; 1-I listened people without interrupting them 2-took genuine interest 3-made eye contact... Smiled... etc. But i have one problem Whenever other person finishes the conversation to say Goodbye most of them say to me... Sorry if this conversation make you feeling bore??? So why everyone say this to me at the end of the conversation...? What does it mean? Waiting for your answer and upcoming 3 parts of compassion series Thanks
You know, I've never had people apologize like that about being boring in a conversation. I'm not sure what it means. What do you think? Do you look interested (or bored) when you are in those conversations?
I wonder whether you are just sitting and listening or being an active listener. An active listener nods and adds little encouraging comments whilst the other person is talking, such as: really? go on... that's fascinating... uh huh... right... yes... I know what you mean... All these interjections encourage the talker to feel you are hearing what they are saying and interested in their content.
I can see how you'd put these together. They have some similarity but important differences, too. Selfless means unselfish, or more concerned about the needs of others than one's own needs. Compassions is explained in the video but has more to do with caring about what others are going through and wanting to help, especially when the other person(s) are hurting.
@@alexanderlyon Some people say Compassion means just doing what is needed in the situation, No more and No less. It is the state of mind in which there is no room "self". For example in our workplace, someone might try to hurt us due to pride or some sort of comparative thoughts. If the mind is able to see the whole activity and still remain calm, then it could be referred to as a compassionate mind. Consider the real-time case of Lionel Messi, he is very composed in situations where other players tried to poke him. Still, the mind is composed because there is no room for self inside. In your video, you have mentioned things related to self-satisfaction, empathy, and pains due to conflict. In which there is a lot of room for self. It means there is room for anger in such a state of mind. The main point I want to say is that Compassion is a state of mind in which there is no room for self. Therefore, I can say it means to be "selfless". Maybe my view is limited or different from your analysis.
Dog's are amazing. My dog I talked about in the video died very suddenly (at age 3) last fall. I was incredibly sad. We have a new puppy now but I sure do still miss my Golden Retriever.
Still no examples. Can we hear what compassion sounds like ? Or look like ? We all know it exists, but to apply it needs to be a better “example”. The example with pets said “feelings” and needs to be “cared for”, it fills you with compassion, but what is the act? And what is the use of compassion? I feel compassion with pets but that doesn’t mean I’m applying it the way you’re doing it which I assume is the way I’m trying to
Hi, Eyeroc. As mentioned, this video is the first in a series. I give plenty of other examples and information in the follow up videos that get more practical. This video just defines it. Feel free to take a look at Compassionate Leadership and Compassionate Communication, two other videos in the series.
One thing about compassion is a gift that the good Lord God Our Holy Father of heaven, and it is easy to ser from two different ideologies. 1. Why did not God destroy the evilness of Lucifer, for the power of Creation is not destroying ones creations. 2. We as humans say, " Do not take my kindness as a sign of weakness!"
Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) were instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.
Passion,,[this is an example],," I look at my husband and remember the passion we shared when we were first married.".......COMpassion, listen to the tutor, he explains the meaning..O.K.? hope that helps. :))
One thing about compassion is a gift that is of the Good Lord God Our Holy Father of Heaven whose only begotten is Jesus Christ and it is easy to see from two different ideologies. 1. Why did not God destroy the evilness of Lucifer: From the power of "Creation" is not destroying one's creations. 2. We as humans say, " Do not take my kindness as a sign of weakness!"
Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) were instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.
Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) was instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.
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I'm a compassionate GIVER. Thanks God for this kind of attitude. For me it's a blessing. My dream is to help less fortunate people in our town. May God help me and bless me more in order to continue giving 🙏🙏🙏
I thought compassion means empathy... But someone said it means love. And few told me it means kindness! Now i know its all of that! Thank you for the clear explanation.
Well said!
I think Compassion is extremely lacked in today’s society and I think this is a great point to make when talking to other people. I think the kids and pets example was great because most everyone can relate to both of those examples.
Thanks for sharing, Joseph. I'm glad the examples helped.
To me ,pets (dogs )are more then ownership ,they too have sacrificed for us . Thank you for reminding us a great example of the word compassion .
Children who grow up with pets having more compassion as adults - so very, very true. It should almost be compulsory that kids grow up with pets.
pets=love?
interesting indeed pets=food?
@@interestingindeed3169 yes basically that
Thank u... I'm a pet mom to three beautiful fur babies. And compassion is something that I resonate with now more at a deeper level.
That is true every person is fighting a battle in their own story
I’ve made to decision to Meditate on God’s 5 characteristics as per Ex 34:7
Week by week starting from 1st Feb
So I started to search for a deeper and clearer meaning on compassion.
Your video is exactly what I needed!
I’m also pursuing MBA HRM as well.
Thank you so much 👍
I don't understand why this channel with amazing and important information don't have more subscribers, you deserve it! With you I am learning a lot.
Thanks! You know, we've grown like 20000 subscribers in the past 12 months. So, it's moving in the right direction. But, if it grew even faster, I wouldn't complain! :-)
@@alexanderlyon all the best wishes for you it's important that people can get the skills for having better communication with others!
Sir and friends
Compassion is through my eyes, the :perspective of Knowing that it is your actions so NOT your REACTIONS that form your perception of reality
Those little kids are so cute!! Thanks for sponsoring them.
I have to write an essay about compassion and what it means by not giving a textbook definition. Needless to say, your video has helped me understand compassion in a new light, thank you!
I think I learned this best in my church. I believe Jesus teaches us best about this. I wasn't great at this when i was in active drug addiction. Now in sobriety, and through a lot of hard work I'm doing pretty good learning to become better. Thank you! This stuff is helping me through this rough patch of life and is making me become a better person. I am happy to follow you till I'm ready to lead on my own.
But I also love it how he puts jerks in their place. It's awesome.
My dog is a senior (17 yo). He can no longer go up and down stairs, doesn’t bark, partially deaf and blind, and has dementia. We carry him out 4-5 times a day down stairs to allow him outside to pee/poo. It’s taxing and we can no longer leave him alone without him getting stuck somewhere for hours but I feel such a strong pull towards giving him the best end of life care and love. He served me for so long through so many of my milestones. I want to give that back so we cart him around in a stroller and he travels with us everywhere which means we can only travel by car… I haven’t been on a plane in years.
Thank you for sharing your story. I used to have a very old dog too. It's a challenge but worth it.
Thank you so much! Yes..sometimes I want to sit in my favorite chair and read a book..but pups is there and looks so cute and happy that I'm happiest sitting beside her and watching over her while I read my book. I know it'd be more comfortable..but that loses meaning and importance when I watch her as my heart wells up with love and happiness. Your video makes so much sense! Thank you so very much!!
You are so welcome, F Gon. I'm glad the dog/pet example was helpful. Thank you for your encouragement.
Just to say I love my dog he makes me smile and fill with love when I look at him.
I haven't really thought about compassion but this video helped and took notice of it. So this was very helpful to keep in mind and I liked the example you gave of the dog.
I'm so glad and also happy that the dog example helped. :-)
Yes, I needed to understand the meaning of the word more fully, and you did an excellent job of explaining that, I believe I have compassion, I tear up at the smallest sad thing, BUT I am very eager to alleviate another's hurts, however, sometimes I feel I'm too OVER THE TOP, and I feel as if others may interpret my actions as controlling....Thank you sir..:)) Shalom.
Glad it was helpful, Pippin. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Compassion is respect
SERIOUSLY
The world at large has never lacked compassion & empathy more than now when society needs it the most & the instances in which it’s ever shown is when its people from the same tribe.
LOVE ONE ANOTHER.
It’s humanity 101
I love to work in the humanitarian and helping other people but people around me always say to me go make money instead of this you will live sad. I always say to them happiness is when you give is not when you earn.
I realized I’m not compassionate but I’m very empathetic, deff have to work on being more compassionate
I am also working to this process with my own family. It's been really hard for my kids after the divorce and I am endeavoring to work through my compassion centers to help them. I shared your video on my personal page and I want to thank you for helping people in this area. There is a great need for compassion in the world right now
Compassion is connecting when we authentically extend to, help, or empathize with another person
Thank you very much for this! Supporting you from far away! Keep up the good work.
Much appreciated, Mariah.
I am 15 years old, I never had a pet, But I really feel the compassion about the other form of lives around me even if it is an ant or any other kind of Animal. I really feel bad when they are in some trouble. Who else feels the same?.
After reading all these pleasant comments, I subscribed to your channel, Goodluck..
I have compassion for homeless people and stray dogs. I feel sorry for them, for not having a home to live in and for their hunger
Well explained. Thank you. Worth the time! I got great value from this.
Glad it was helpful, Brent.
I think I developed more compassion as I got older as much as I want to help people it's very hard to trust people and assume they will not take advantage of your kindness
As always, another great video with amazing insight! I have really been following your channel since you launched and it just keeps getting better all the time!
As for pets, we have many, mostly goats and they sure are a lot of fun! Thanks again and GOD bless!
Thanks, man. I appreciate it. It's true, you were one of the first subscribers. Goats rule!
yes maybe goats are rulers, but in reality, it is in more reference about sheep for: " ... The one that is lost from its destiny, needs good help and advice to find a correct path back to our ever loving Lord God Our one and only true Father of heaven and earth and all that is seen and unseen.
@@rgortega1285 amazing stuff man
I searched compassionate men in TH-cam and it was just a bunch of men bashing women lol wtf. This is the first relevant video.
Really, thank you for your efforts. I'm so grateful for what I've learned from you.
I wanna ask you to make a video about "How to accept all kinds of people and how to deal with their different personalities". Thanks in advance.
Good idea.
How do you treat people and other living entities who can do nothing for you in return? A truly kind and compassionate person will not want anything in return from others. Their happiness is in pleasing the Supreme Lord, not in being praised or acknowledged. If we are given some praise or gift, we can immediately give thanks to the Supreme Lord.
I suffer with compassion. It hurts so much and at times it’s hurt for days. Some times it’s so strong I can’t shake it off for many days. I’ve hurt for others at times where my whole body hurt. All I could do is lay in bed in agony tossing n turning uncomfortably with thoughts of the person suffering flash back and forth in my mind. This lady was beat and stomped in the head in a ally behind a bar on a cold and icy night she was raped and left naked and barely hanging on to life. That story sent me into a deep state of compassion where I was in tremendous pain for her. I couldn’t stop thinking about what her final thoughts laying there was. Was she scared did she feel the cold ? Did she think this is it for me I’m hurt bad??? Another example was a two year old who was raped and strangled. It hurt so bad. I was unable to even walk because my legs were so weak. I kept wondering if she called out for her mom or daddy was she scared? Did she cry and not understand why he was hurting her. Did she feel all the pain.
As well as i am concerned, the individuals who has compassion to environment they are environmentally friendly , could you check please.
Cool explanation
We were given the name of a young man through Compassion. We are not able to take on this additional child.
Great explanation.
Thank you
You're welcome!
thank you for your video.
You are welcome, L S.
How do I inculcate among my team members the ability to take responsibility for their work/ contribution
compassion helps for life changes
People who who humiliate me and then do something nice to me afterwards aren't what I'm looking for. I want people who who humiliate me to admit that I don't want them or anything they have to offer and I just want them punished. Someone's mean to me I hit them in the face boom done it's over. Then they leave me alone. Nothing crazy I'm so reasonable. If someone loved me they would be able to let me go if they hurt me. They would admit that they wronged me and turn away because I want them to. People wrong me then force help on me amd I hate it they don't give me what I want. They don't even ask if I want their help they don't care about what I want. I only want people in my life who are nice to me in the first place. Something is obsessed with judging me and its rude
Hey Alex... How are you?
I just took your Free course on udemy (Listening skills for Leaders)
I applied the principles ;
1-I listened people without interrupting them
2-took genuine interest
3-made eye contact... Smiled... etc.
But i have one problem
Whenever other person finishes the conversation to say Goodbye most of them say to me... Sorry if this conversation make you feeling bore???
So why everyone say this to me at the end of the conversation...?
What does it mean?
Waiting for your answer and upcoming 3 parts of compassion series
Thanks
You know, I've never had people apologize like that about being boring in a conversation. I'm not sure what it means. What do you think? Do you look interested (or bored) when you are in those conversations?
I wonder whether you are just sitting and listening or being an active listener. An active listener nods and adds little encouraging comments whilst the other person is talking, such as: really? go on... that's fascinating... uh huh... right... yes... I know what you mean... All these interjections encourage the talker to feel you are hearing what they are saying and interested in their content.
I want one of these for gentleness.
Ah, interesting!
A rare commodity.
I need to be compassionate
Nice that compassion, any compassion for me also
I thought compassion means "selfless"
I can see how you'd put these together. They have some similarity but important differences, too. Selfless means unselfish, or more concerned about the needs of others than one's own needs. Compassions is explained in the video but has more to do with caring about what others are going through and wanting to help, especially when the other person(s) are hurting.
@@alexanderlyon Some people say Compassion means just doing what is needed in the situation, No more and No less. It is the state of mind in which there is no room "self".
For example in our workplace, someone might try to hurt us due to pride or some sort of comparative thoughts. If the mind is able to see the whole activity and still remain calm, then it could be referred to as a compassionate mind. Consider the real-time case of Lionel Messi, he is very composed in situations where other players tried to poke him. Still, the mind is composed because there is no room for self inside.
In your video, you have mentioned things related to self-satisfaction, empathy, and pains due to conflict. In which there is a lot of room for self. It means there is room for anger in such a state of mind.
The main point I want to say is that Compassion is a state of mind in which there is no room for self. Therefore, I can say it means to be "selfless".
Maybe my view is limited or different from your analysis.
💜
I had a dog, named maliky and i miss him so much we had to give him away because we had to move out our house in a apartment and I wonder if he is ok.
Dog's are amazing. My dog I talked about in the video died very suddenly (at age 3) last fall. I was incredibly sad. We have a new puppy now but I sure do still miss my Golden Retriever.
I came here because somebody told me ion show compassion and idek what compassion is 😭😭
Sir,could be love synonms of compassion?
Yes, definitely. Compassion is a type of love. But, there are lots of other types of love so they are not exactly the same meaning.
@@alexanderlyon thanku sir
Still no examples. Can we hear what compassion sounds like ? Or look like ? We all know it exists, but to apply it needs to be a better “example”. The example with pets said “feelings” and needs to be “cared for”, it fills you with compassion, but what is the act? And what is the use of compassion? I feel compassion with pets but that doesn’t mean I’m applying it the way you’re doing it which I assume is the way I’m trying to
Hi, Eyeroc. As mentioned, this video is the first in a series. I give plenty of other examples and information in the follow up videos that get more practical. This video just defines it. Feel free to take a look at Compassionate Leadership and Compassionate Communication, two other videos in the series.
Sir good evening
Kindly find my granddaughter's sponsor for her studies she don't have father thank you so much
One thing about compassion is a gift that the good Lord God Our Holy Father of heaven, and it is easy to ser from two different ideologies. 1. Why did not God destroy the evilness of Lucifer, for the power of Creation is not destroying ones creations. 2. We as humans say, " Do not take my kindness as a sign of weakness!"
its just a part of lovin kind
Dogs n african birds,i think if all people have compassion ,theres no war in our world.
Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) were instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.
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and also the BUDDHA's teaching.
Passion or compassion?
Passion,,[this is an example],," I look at my husband and remember the passion we shared when we were first married.".......COMpassion, listen to the tutor, he explains the meaning..O.K.? hope that helps. :))
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One thing about compassion is a gift that is of the Good Lord God Our Holy Father of Heaven whose only begotten is Jesus Christ and it is easy to see from two different ideologies. 1. Why did not God destroy the evilness of Lucifer: From the power of "Creation" is not destroying one's creations. 2. We as humans say, " Do not take my kindness as a sign of weakness!"
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Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) were instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.
Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) was instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.