This documentary was made in 2012 or 2013. Ten years ago is an eternity ago financially. Everything is extremely worse now. An updated documentary is practically mandatory.
@@markb2007 they may not be hiring at it, but legally they could. That’s the federal minimum wage. It hasn’t increased to accurately or adequately reflect inflation in YEARS.
I worked in retail once again this past year. It was literally soul crushing. The toxic co-workers, the toxic customers, not having a life outside of work because of the crazy hours I was working. The day I quit, I literally got sick. My body was like sit down NOW! it’s so hard to maintain self care in those types of jobs real talk.
Same here! I worked as a cashier at a grocery store for 8 months, my coworkers were extremely nice, so were most of the costumers, but the boss wasn’t always nice. I also had to go to school after work (I’m in an adult school, to get my high school diploma because I want to go to college and become a journalist) and it took a toll on my mental and physical health. I developed symptoms of anemia because of all the stress that I had to endure at work and the fact that I never had time to sit down and eat real meals during my shifts. I quit that job (because it was too much for me), it was the best decision I ever took.
@@melissa-annefrigon7973 you know that’s a lot of people’s origin story? I worked 40 hours a week and went to school 36hrs a week. Driving to work after school holding one eye open with my hand. Now 20 years later working 50hrs a week turning wrenches…..I couldn’t be happier. The stone sharpens some while others crack.
@@MrBobbo18 50hrs a week? I did more then 60 in michelin star restaurant and i can tell you it was not worth it... Good experience but health is more important then money and now i do 38 hrs a week and earn more then when i did 60+ hours a week... How long can your stone be sharp? Your body is not a robot..
My sister was a server (waitress) for many years. It's very difficult physically carrying those heavy trays. And she said it so well, tips depend on how much people like you when you serve them. Also always working weekends & holidays is tough especially if you have kids and/or a partner. She finally opened her own coffee/dessert/sandwich/ gelato shop (plus event catering) 10 years age & is doing well. 🙏
Low wages are usually attached to low skilled jobs. It doesn't matter how hard the job may be physically, if you can be replaced easily in a job by someone without much training you will earn less.
That's incredible! Nice to hear a success story. Is she paying her employees a "living wage" and offering health insurance as well as tuition reimbursement? Just kidding!
Just came across this video. Almost in tears. I live in Chicago and know the places they're showing. Just to see these hardworking people struggling like this is so heartbreaking. I hope and pray they're in a better place now.
This was a contrived plot , called the Powell memorandum in 1971 thanks to greedy Republicans it has devolved the United States of America into two camps, the learned and the ill informed, just what they wanted while they continue to pilfer the wealth and treasure of the middle class right under your eyes..........Since the end of WWII, the government increased wages every year to keep up with inflation. It was a rare year that the government didn't raise wages because of fears of deflation/stagflation. It was one reason we were able to weather the DECADE of double-digit inflation in the 1970s, caused by the Vietnam War and geopolitical embargoes and upheavals in the Middle East. Almost ten years of inflation that climbed over 14%. And Americans are whining over eight months of 8.2% inflation. I can understand why.....! In 1980, Republicans entered with trickle-down economics and filibustered yearly wage increases. We've only had SEVEN wage increases in 42 years and just one in 13 years. Meanwhile, Republicans have given corporations and the mega rich three massive tax cuts, bailed out Wall Street and corporations TWICE using tens of trillions of taxpayer dollars, given corporations over-generous subsidies and cut estate taxes for the wealthy. Republicans have transferred 38 trillion from the middle class and the poor to corporations and the Uber wealthy in the last four decades. That's why Americans can't buy homes these days and why a piddling 8.2% inflation rate is driving people to their knees.This should be the last time a Republican runs for anything, this cancer is about to eat itself !. RUN the Republicans completely out of American Politics, they have earned nothing and stole the American Dream from all of us.
This was a contrived plot , called the Powell memorandum in 1971 thanks to greedy Republicans it has devolved the United States of America into two camps, the learned and the ill informed, just what they wanted while they continue to pilfer the wealth and treasure of the middle class right under your eyes..........Since the end of WWII, the government increased wages every year to keep up with inflation. It was a rare year that the government didn't raise wages because of fears of deflation/stagflation. It was one reason we were able to weather the DECADE of double-digit inflation in the 1970s, caused by the Vietnam War and geopolitical embargoes and upheavals in the Middle East. Almost ten years of inflation that climbed over 14%. And Americans are whining over eight months of 8.2% inflation. I can understand why.....! In 1980, Republicans entered with trickle-down economics and filibustered yearly wage increases. We've only had SEVEN wage increases in 42 years and just one in 13 years. Meanwhile, Republicans have given corporations and the mega rich three massive tax cuts, bailed out Wall Street and corporations TWICE using tens of trillions of taxpayer dollars, given corporations over-generous subsidies and cut estate taxes for the wealthy. Republicans have transferred 38 trillion from the middle class and the poor to corporations and the Uber wealthy in the last four decades. That's why Americans can't buy homes these days and why a piddling 8.2% inflation rate is driving people to their knees.This should be the last time a Republican runs for anything, this cancer is about to eat itself !. RUN the Republicans completely out of American Politics, they have earned nothing and stole the American Dream from all of us.
@@Spoiled_horsegirl curious how much you get? always wondered how much trusts from some people are. like 40 grand a year? 50k? 100k? just makes some of us wonder lol
The Australian ''Lucky Country'' modelled itself on the ''American Dream''. But now we have have the same tragic nightmare evolving here.. My body is broken from 40 years of manual labour, no home of my own and no assets. I dont even own a car. At 63 I am 4 years away from being granted the Aged Pension, but I can't afford the rent, so I suspect I shall be homeless in a few years... I hope I will still have the strength to carry on.
“People look at UFO’s, and convince themselves they are not real; People look at Politicians, and convince themselves that THEY are real.” Didn’t get the name
It might cut into the bottom line of the companies who stuff their pockets full of cash via lobbyists & special interest groups. So its not that they dont care. They're literally paid/bribed to keep people poor.
Exactly. Most of them are old enough to remember when making minimum wage was nearly enough. Its as though they are frozen in that mindset. Everything is more expensive and wages don't match up.
It'll never get better either. Not as long as they keep taking "campaign contributions" (aka bribes) from these corporations, in order to keep our pay as low as possible.
I have had maybe hundreds of friends in the service industry, and I've asked all of them why they choose to work a job where their income is inconsistent and mostly based on the whims of customers. I've never, and I mean never, in twenty years gotten a straight answer. At this point I just say you guys love your job, appreciate the general lack of responsibility, and it's not as bad to you as it looks to people like me on the outside. That's it, that's all I got at this point. Because a lot of you guys are smart, but that seems like a pretty dumb setup to me 🤷🏾
This' taking place cos u r giving permission to your president & politicians to rob u high & dry 'm sorry to say that as it sounds cruel but unless each of u play a part in stopping your hard earned, sweat & blood money going down the drains in the TRILLIONS as Biden gives away to Ukraine, Saudi, Utopia, Uganda, Afghanistan & all the illegals he allows in with open border policies but disregarding hard working Americans, there's little hope regardless of D or R taking office as none is looking out for "ordinary" Americans who give them such liberty to abuse everyone except their own pockets...
Watching videos like this keeps me humble. I had to work 2-3 jobs just to get by and now I’m able to take care of my household without much fear of not having enough. Going through those struggles helps me not to take what I currently have for granted and know that things can go right back to the way they were. So I stay grinding and keep that hunger and ambition in order to keep moving forward. I do my best to let people know that financial problems can be temporary if you’re willing to do whatever it takes!!
Have you heard of Dave Ramsey and Ramsey Solutions? Learn to better utilize your hard earned money! I'm a single mom and each month I have a budget and look for ways to cut back, save and form a community with others to help each other. I admire your efforts to keep your family & household a float. This is what real men do: sacrifice for their family! You're awesome 👌
I dont think that way of working works for everyone, getting hit by the car, having a disability, getting serious ill having a child to take care for, wish there was a beter system in the usa for those people
I'm right there with you. I worked 2 and 3 jobs from 18 to 39. Finally make enough I can work one job and not worry about if I have to buy a new tire then I won't eat for 2 weeks, or if I get sick and miss work, I can't pay my rent. Never built credit, because I had no clue how. People would tell me no you can't buy this because you have no credit, go build credit. But when no one will give you credit how are you supposed to build credit? But in my 40's I figured it out. I now am building a nice credit score to hopefully buy a house in a couple years. I always remember to stay humble and remember where I came from. And the young kids at my work, I encourage them to build credit while young, and tell them how. That was my problem no one to tell me how. My parents were always the kind if they wanted or needed something they saved up for it and never wanted to be in debt. Not realizing that they weren't building credit that way. But they had Noone to tell them either. We have to help educate the young people.
My 2 cents: if you were not born into wealth or privilege, or you don’t live in a European country with great social welfare systems, in order to “succeed” you have to make a series of well thought out/calculated decisions. Finish school, get a skill, if you can’t afford college start off at a community college, join the military, hold off on having children. When you start earning money save/invest. Keep your skills sharps, be flexible enough so you can pivot if you need to change careers. Nothing I just mentioned is easy, but that’s life. I wish our system was different, but it’s not and until something changes, we have to set ourselves up for success because the government will not do it for us.
Double up on jobs at 16. Marriage to someone similar, first baby, and buy a house in cash by 22. Teaching kids and grandkids how to replicate this model.
It's literally the worst model possible, and completely dependent on no outside factors like having some kind of medical emergency that puts you in crippling debt or worse. Also, what you mentioned "if you can't afford start of at a community college," well what if you can't afford community college? And what if you're not physically fit enough to join the military, or don't want to? Should someone have to go to battle to just get a decent education and make ends meet? And its not "just life," America is specifically crafted to be this way. There's literally a million other models of how a society can work, and you mentioned them (European countries with great social welfare system). It's not "just life."
@@zolyguy well, what should we do until the US adopts the European social welfare system? (Which I have nothing against). I agree the system is crafted this way. I agree capitalism is America sucks. I agree most people are one medical disaster away from financial ruin. However, how many people in the documentary had a medical illness that hampered their progress? None. So, again I ask, what do we do while we fight for change? Shouldn’t we put ourselves in the best position to succeed? Community colleges offer free courses, free scholarships. My husband couldn’t afford college so he went into the military and got a “free” education. Was it his first choice? Maybe not. But it was a decision he made, that benefited him (us) later. Life is filled with decisions you have to make. I’m an immigrant, so I wrote the book on starting at the bottom. I’m not talking about the disabled, the elderly and the sick, and like I said, I know most are one paycheck away from homelessness. However, we can’t blame everything on the system. Somethings yes, but not everything.
You are exactly correct! I grew up in extreme poverty and knew i didn't want to continue living like that! Great motivator. Did research and watched documentaries like this. Found out what you stated and lived by it. Went to Uni for tech, and now I'm 28 and make $112k and still budget/save a lot for the future to ensure there is a good net.
And it still may not work in my circumstance it's working right now but I know many in which it didn't and it makes me sad alot. But I try to help where I can
My husband and I got married really young but we didn't have our child until 14 years later. I am glad we were able save lots of money, bought a house and we don't have to live from paycheck to paycheck.
@@Duran762 Pfft I wish one of my parents stole $250k from me. I got abandon in the middle of college and working full time wouldn't cover the cost of finishing. Couldn't go the military route as my one parent was a narcissist who put some labels on me. That got me locked out of that option indefinitely since I was in 7th grade. I even tried and scored a near perfect score on the Asvab test. Some people don't belong becoming parents in the first place.
Takita and DJ, working so hard! I truly hope they are in a better place today. They are providing a great life for their kids. It is so important for kids to experience that love and commitment.
There is nothing great about struggling and walking in the cold because their parents are poor. As a couple they wouldn't have to strugle so much if they were childfree. Maybe community college would have been an option for them without those kids.
Much respect and good! Trades are definitely the place to be if college isn't right. College was for me, got an engineering degree and now at 28 make $112k, fully remote, barely work 5hrs/day. But I'm fairly unique and most college degrees are worthless. I'm teaching this to my aunt's, uncle's, and cousins. Either a worthwhile degree in college (undergrad max) or a trade. That's about it.
As a Latino it sucks because you’re responsible for your parents bad decisions because they didn’t take into account like hey I’m going to get old one day. And assume their kids will take care of them. My sister and I are breaking that cycle it’s not fair to your kids. That mentality needs to stop.
YIMBYs & gentrifiers (who are damn near one and the same anyway) wanna take the access to public transportation all to themselves and hoard it away from working class ppl like those shown here who need it the most……
you guys can do it. after university i didnt have the family for support so i became homeless. i was working and eventually got an apartment. i started paying off my student loans by eating rice and beans. i dont have any children and i dont have a mortgage or vehicle so that helped. i live in a very expensive city and a car is not necessary. you guys have the support so you are on your way.
It is. I'm in tears and just thanking God that I'm in a blessed position to bless other people. I used to be in those same situations, which was difficult. We must always remember where we were to know where we were going.
College is not the only way out, especially when you have all the responsibilities of running a household. Many times young people are pushed into college so hard that they have no choice. They don't realize the importance of what they study and end up wasting so much time, effort and money in a hope and dream that is very unlikely to happen. A little bit of help and guidance can go a very long way in getting a better paying job which would change everything. Then a little more guidance and advice on not squandering that little bit of a lifeline on a nice car before it is affordable as well. College is not the only way and it very often hurts people more then it helps. Be careful and wise with decisions, it will effect things well into the future.
Its a split between tip jobs, formal college, trade jobs, and 6 week certification jobs. The best out of high school for survival bucks has to be tip jobs. These tip jobs are easily earning 2-2.5 x minimum wage. 6 week certification jobs may usually pay a shiny penny above minimum wage at the hire (1.1-1.3x min wage) for just 6 weeks , but from what I've heard its better use as a stepping stone to advance their career as after the initial nice hiring bump, and the next year's decent hourly bump to hook them in, it may slow down quite a bit. Trade jobs are a give or take. Probably the slowest start up in all of them, the most mind to hand work combo, but wage decently increases if you know your worth. Keep in mind I am talking in general as a collective not any one's personal experience. I knew a guy who got paid 80 an hour, but its at his dad's shop.
@@Passionate_Potato absolutely!! The government for the biggest part is responsible for all this mess. Willing to fund wars but fail to create stable jobs and income for it's people.
I worked in 13 Walgreens stores in Central Florida... The company ABUSES good hardworking employees and makes the most pathetic people management (who get intimidated by anyone who can do their job better than them and will do everything to keep you down)! Something is SERIOUSLY wrong with this company! The stores are totally rundown and neglected! A 360 is needed in this badly run organization!
Sounds like most low paying dead end jobs to me. I worked at Target up on the Northeastern coast of the USA in 2009-2014. Same issues and barely above $10/hr after years. I quit after taking on the store team leaders job and managing 40 different coworkers on top it. 6 days a week while also having to train one of the executives from Target Canada. Prior to Canada expansion failing for Target.
Retired active duty AF, college student, I worked at a Walgreens for about 6 weeks in FL. As nice as I am/was at the time, the manager didn't like my ideas of cleaning/restocking at the end of the day. She wanted it done in 30mins, all the while attending to the last customers who buys 20 odd items and then locking the door. I told her that's too much because you can't control the customers coming in loitering. So I eventually quit and went to toys R us in a mall, easier, simpler work environment.
As a former Walgreens customer I totally agree. Management has always come across as incompetent, even hostile at times, and lacking knowledge of the chain's policies hence I don't even ever shop at Walgreens anymore.
I feel for Emilia. As someone who worked in construction, she's absolutely right that it's hard to go from making $80,000 a year down to something significantly less. I made more money than I ever had in my life (upwards of $110,000), but what they make you give is so much more. Either you're home every night and broke, or you're traveling the country, only spending maybe two weeks home out of the year. You also pay with your body. I'm only 30, but I can tell you my knees, shoulders and wrists are absolutely shot.
And here i work for a local automobile workshop as a mechanic for like 3 dollars(1500 rupees) per day. Doing all hardwork pulling transmissions, engines. No life insurance, no retirement plan just the pay enough to survive day. Worse thing is country went belly up recently. The inflation through the roof. It's a dogs life here.
@@KP-hi1om Piss poor advice. So NOW u managed unhappy ppl? How about treating ppl like human beings with dignity & respect, paying them a living wage, & having universal healthcare (so workers aren't stapped to a job FOR healthcare). 🤔 Think about it! It's UNAMERICAN for ppl to LIVE like these ppl. How about asking the elite, "how much profit IS profit, & how much is GREED?
@@riceburner4747 How about you become a business owner in your community so that you can uplift people and pay them a "living wage" and great benefits. Or you can elect politicians that will support that. Or get a marketable skill that pays well with benefits. Or STFU and stop complaining like a lazy entitled broke person. Or keep doing whatever you are doing. The bottom line is no one, including the government, is giving you anything. You have to carve out your own destiny. Good luck. Oh yeah what do you have to say about ppl making a living wage that are barely getting by because of bad financial decisions? Just curious.
I lost my job due to the COVID economic impact and haven't been able to find a job in my field for a year +. I took seasonal job to pay bills but retail jobs are physically demanding and it's hurting my knees. The only difference for me are that I graduated with 2 bachelor s degrees without debit and I'm still proud of it. Eating lots of ramen noodles, campus food bank. Only eating out when there's coupons special etc. I never want any kids, this life is hard enough, why bring another life into this world when I can hardly survive with degrees? It's not a politically correct thing to say, but the Walgreens couple have 2 kids knowing their financial situation... The couple who said moving into parents home as an adult is hard, in many other cultures in different countries, there are multiple generations family under one roof. I'm not saying they shouldn't buy their own home, but save until they have more funds and access the housing market, interest rates etc. Moving into new home cost money, buying furniture etc which might lead to more debt.
This' taking place cos u r giving permission to your president & politicians to rob u high & dry 'm sorry to say that as it sounds cruel but unless each of u play a part in stopping your hard earned, sweat & blood money going down the drains in the TRILLIONS as Biden gives away to Ukraine, Saudi, Utopia, Uganda, Afghanistan & all the illegals he allows in with open border policies but disregarding hard working Americans, there's little hope regardless of D or R taking office as none is looking out for "ordinary" Americans who give them such liberty to abuse everyone except their own pockets...
@@randzopyr1038 -yes correct too much social media instagram only showing unending consumerism is the reason of course some cases might be genuinely not well off but the ones that have money and spend on luxuries big house big school for small kids should also think before doing so many people in new gen even in well off jobs do not have kids now i mean current new gen so when the hus/wife already know they are not having money from before then i do not know why they had kids is it societal pressure
@@yashgandhi4163 Yes I agree, most of the working class have the same sentiment. Dreaming doesn't mean having plenty of money. It's about being free, doing things you love. Having a dream and doing our passion keeps us alive and happy.
@@leonore3349 Is resignation to one's fate considered virtuous? Perhaps so. I think that there are things within her control that she could change, which would lead to better outcomes for her future self.
I have a relatively useless associate's degree in Spanish, but then went to get a bachelor's in accounting which is pretty useful. Working on master's degree now. There are degrees that are pretty good out there like accounting, engineering, nursing for example.
When the one woman was talking about being the youngest and taking care of her parents...I feel that. I do most of everything for my parents. Three older brothers and one sister and due to their own circumstance's, moved away, disabled, incarcerated...its me that does most everything. It's exhausting and maddening.
In 2019 i started to get help at home. I have MS and am experiencing significant disabling symptoms, so in minnesota there are decent social programs that cover home services like cleaning help and food prep and more. I remember a young woman who took care of her disabled mom and a special needs brother and she had just had a baby. Its heart breaking to have needs in an economy like this.
God Bless the people like these folks who are underpaid but so essential to making our world go round. You are noticed and we appreciate all you do. Now is the time for you to be paid your fair share...if you are working, there is no reason why you should have to struggle...
🐂 💩...there IS a reason they should struggle... it's called the free market in labor... if you can only do work that requires little/no skill and anyone can do with minimal training, then you're not going to be paid enough to live comfortably... As it should be.
@@edwardroy3401 totally disagree with you. Not everyone can afford to be in the position where they can be trained to do jobs that require this ''skill"...I'm not saying that those with skills shouldnt be able to access higher paying jobs, but what I am saying is, people who work hard shouldn't have to worry about their bills or when they are going to eat next. This is obviously just down to a fundamental difference in how you and I think...thats fine..
I do believe that these folks are working hard. But most of them are working hard at dead end jobs. The one dude has been at a two year school for four years. They are willingly taking jobs that pay next to nothing. How can you champion mediocrity?
@@KP-hi1om Yeah, I watch these "poor in America" documentaries, and I know they want me to pity the subjects and blame capitalism. But it's obvious that 90-95% of their problems are bad luck, bad genes, and especially bad life choices, like dropping out of school and/or having multiple kids they can't support...like that's some entitlement. They're often suffering the consequences of their own self-inflicted mistakes.
@@edwardroy3401 bingo. Well said. American society has its winners and losers. This is one of the few countries where you can be born poor and become rich.
my main takeaway for this is that birth control in ALL forms should be free and widely available! My (ex) partner and I waited til we were in our late 20's to have a child. We were definitely able to afford it and it was STILL hard and was (and IS) expensive - even while living below our means and making 2-4x what these families are making. Children are an 18+ year long emotional and financial responsibility, and people really need to think before having them!
Here in La there are so many free birth control clinics to a point where I was amazed at how the nurses where pushing them on me and borderline annoyingly so. I’m married and using natural but I appreciate the effort in at least encouraging women to avoid unplanned pregnancies especially in low income areas
I don't believe in birth control. Sex is not for self pleasure, it's only for having children. If you are not married and can't afford children then you shouldn't be having sex, it's as simple as that.
I wanted till I was almost 30 to have a child 9 years ago ,9 years later I still have one child.. rent and everything too expensive not to mention food.. to maintain the lifestyle I do I can only have one child even though I wanted too and I want to retire at minimum for 55 or 60 so I might just only have one it’s insane how folks manage with three kids is insane
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become". - Steve Jobs -
I was right there 10 years ago too. I listened to audio books every chance I got, found some grants/scholarships to pay for part of school, and worked plenty of overtime while going to school full time. Fast forward until now and I'm a successful accountant. It feels weird to be valued, as every human should be, but I know the work I put in to get here. For all those feeling hopeless, you can do it too and it's worth it for a STEM degree or a trade journeyman credential!
The problem is intelligence bro, thats something innate and you are born with. Especially with STEM field is a huge requirement. You need to hit the genetic lottery ( being born with aptitude to solve problems, understand math/complex issues) AND work very hard, that will set you up with some bit of luck as well. But many people just dont have this...
I am glad that my 18 year old daughter works in that industry. She sees how hard it is. She hears people in their 40s complain about joint and back pain and low wages. It reinforces how important it is to get an education or trade.
I’m also confused about why 18-year olds decide to have several children, when they have no education and then have to work for a pittance? In Sweden, where I’m from, the average age for having your first child is 34, when you’ve got your life into place.
Similar here in Finland it's around 30. I'm 33 and my partner and I only have cats. He has an amazing job and I am back in university trying to become a Dr. I grew up with my older sister and single mother who worked hard, but we didn't have much. My mother was 18wheb she had my sister and 21 when she had me. We struggled terribly. As such, I vowed to never have children unless I had a good partner, and a stable career of my own incase things went wrong. I simply never wanted my children to have to be so hungry like I was as a child. My sister and I would eat the wood from the wood chip wallpaper as we were so hungry. I like to try and make and set myself sensible forward thinking goals which, I'm turn, allow for s prosperous future. But, essentially everyone is free to make their own decisions in life..we are all here to learn and grow and love etc.✨🫂💖
America's culture is very different. Kids are often conditioned by parents and the media that they should move out right after high school/college and do everything on their own, even if they have no financial safety net. At least that's how it was when I was a kid (born in the late 80's). Personally, my old man kicked me out of the house at 19, that was back in the early 2000's, and I was even working two jobs at the time. The best advice he could give me, after graduating high-school, was to get a job at Wal-Mart and work up the ladder to become a manager. Some years later, I ended up joining the military, so at least I don't have to struggle too much on the civilian side. Still no kids to speak of, because raising a family is expensive and I have to travel a lot, plus I also enjoy peace, quiet and some semblance of personal freedom. Back when I was a teenager, it was considered common to start having an active sex life by your late-teens and twenties. Even today, many people start getting married in their early-mid twenties. It's just a very different way of living that's slowly starting to change.
@@LumiSisuSusi -yes you are very correct the new gen should either have no kids or if they still want then 1 child is ok i am saying this just for a simple reason that in such a case at least you will not be worrying about the basic necessities not being there . of course some one has a lot of family support both help and money then it is a different case
@@I.D.I.O.C.R.A.C.Y. WHY WOULD ANYONE BLOCK A FOOL?. YOU ARE AMUSING AND A BLOCKHEAD, NOT A COMMONLY FOUND COMBO. KEEP POSTING YOUR IRRELEVANT, I'LL THOUGHT-OUT OPINIONS AND IF I FIND THEM AMUSING, I'LL LET YOU KNOW, BY GOLLY, I'LL LET YOU KNOW. 🙂
There’s nothing wrong with living with your parents if it’s for mutual a benefit. I had family that all lived together because they couldn’t afford to do it alone.
I am an Eastern European and I feel sad watching that people are struggling to meet ends in one of the supossedly richest countries in the world. It is the fault of the corporations and the government to keep the working class poor without social benefits. Let me give you an example of France with 40 days paid leave annually, with maternity leave of 1 year and so on. Even in my country Bulgaria when you have a baby the mother is entitled to 2 years maternity leave with almost the whole salary paid each month. Living in the US and being poor is Shame on the government!
we have a military to pay for! Who else is going to bully other countries! /sarcasm but no seriously we don’t have many social safety nets that even “poor” countries have because we spend more on our military than most countries entire GDP + tax revenue combined. Sad state we are in.
I feel for the very devoted hard-working latina daughter. You can tell she's a carrier empath. She is compelled to help out due to emotional obligation and she's feeling awful for feeling understandable resentment about the situation.
Her parents looked after her as a child when she was sick etc. Now she's got to give that back and she's not ready? Maybe they should have said the same when she was a child. She needs to grow up. She's a grown woman and a mother now. Spoiled.
The server at the beginning breaks me, my mom is also a server and has worked like that my whole life. She did whatever it took to put food on the table pay the rent put cloths on us..and it has only gotten worse over the years. I see how tired she is and it hurts..
Takira and her husband are hard workers and good parents. My hat is off to them for feeding that many mouths and trying so hard. Good genuine, hard-working people.
I sympathize with them, nine years of working retail was challening to say the least. Began my first retail position at exactly $7.25 and nearly ten years of grocery experience my waged only increase to $15. I understand their fear, their struggle, and their fervent hope for better opportunities because it was those were at the forefront of my mind everyday.
What's sad and unacceptable is these low wage hard workers usually don't get or aren't eligible for any kind of assistance. You gotta be lazy and refuse to work to get help sadly. Totally respect these hard workers. What's scary is this generation when they retire if they can ever retire. No pensions no 401ks and a SSI system going broke. Scary
I don't like that rule because I refuse to live in a world where you can be too poor to make a family. If there's any point to the meaning of life I'm pretty sure passing on your legacy is closer to the answer than a paycheck. That said tho I think a better version of that rule should be "You're never allowed to use your children as an excuse for not being further along in life". Children can be hard and very involving, but they're not an insurmountable obstacle to success. But if you're the kind of person that finds reasons faster than results, your children will be a replenishable source of stories and excuses for why you're not where you want to be
@@nutzky I'm sorry, but you knew I meant having children in the context of replying to your comment, substituting two cats is a non-responsive answer from you. Moving on to the rest of your reply, it is dripping with cynicism, contempt, and loathing. In that regard I'm going to keep this reply brief and probably just leave it here on my part: in reality if all you got to do in this world was scold your child over some Elmer's glue then you were one of the lucky souls that had that chance in existence. That's, life. I'm sorry that _that_ , and the human race, disappoints you Have a good one
@@PaperRaines "Passing on your legacy" is a pretty dumb excuse to bring more impoverished children into the world. We absolutely do live in a world where you can be too poor, and many, many people are too poor to have families. If you think that who you are, where you live, and what circumstances you're born into don't matter, than you're not living in reality. "Pushing yourself hard enough" is not a guarantee of a better life for anyone anymore, unless you're born into the right circumstances.
@@heilseitan5838 I'll reply to you since you don't have as much contempt for poor people as the original poster. I'll repeat that nobody can tell you what the actual point of being born and this existence is, but I can't go along with it has something to do with how much money you work for. That's woefully shortsighted in my view. If there even is a reason to justify any human being born and eventually dying one day, that reason would be at least you had children. That's the thousand foot view, closer to the ground level there's more to do and more to accomplish, and those things should optimally be valuable enough that you're not impoverished With that said, poverty is a very complicated issue that goes beyond sole individual decisions. I don't think a solution to complex socioeconomic systems and their outcomes should be the consequences of forgoing having children. I'm not naive, I get that not being able to afford comfort for a family is a problem for the family and society, what I'm not agreeing with is the burden for our devastating capitalistic economies should be on humans that will never be born and their would be parents. We have to do better than that for each other as humans, we're not just statistics on a spreadsheet Or fodder for Internet arguments. We're talking about human beings and the only trip through this life they'll ever have
DJ's story about the basketball scholarships is heartbreaking. I wish all of them the best! But one thing I have to point out. Having children is a huge responsibility. It's so much more than the love and fuzziness. You gotta be reasonably prepared before letting go of birth control.
Heartbreaking and very relatable! A lot of us make it to college, but when the finances aren't right, it makes it that much harder to STAY IN/FINISH college.
@@amtiffany9 that might be true but it's still way cheaper than raising a child, isn't it. Plus, is it really that important to do it, even without protection?
I'm 66. When I was about 18 and getting ready to graduate high school my Father said he could get me a job at Kodak where he worked. That was considered a very good job in my area at the time. My brothers and sisters all went to work there and have done well even though Kodak hasn't. But for me that didn't look attractive. I instantly knew what my entire life would be if I went down that path. Exactly what income I'd get. I also didn't like the idea I'd be so dependent on 1 company. My Father thought Kodak would grow forever. Instead I joined the Army to get money for college. That's more risky than a factory job. Then a high paying job in Alaska for 6 months to get some money. Then college. For my major I looked at want ads and saw the most ads for high paying jobs was something called "computers". I loved drawing, painting and would have loved to just take Fine Arts in college...but I knew college was training for earning money and knew I wasn't that talented to make a good living as an artist. I knew other more talented artists struggling. So Fine Art was my minor. Ended up dropping out to take a job creating Atari 2600 games. Fun, intense, paid well and everyone told me I should get a serious job instead. I stayed with it and ended up working in tech startups. No big scores, but fun, pay was very good and once in awhile some bonuses and small stock payouts. I see most people starting out taking the easy path. They don't see it as "easy" because they have nothing to compare it to. These can be well paying jobs for a single 18 year old but these jobs have very limited upside income because they're low skill. To make increasing income you need to be doing something that requires an increasing skill. A factory worker on a line for 3 years vs 15 years is worth about the same to an employer.
I worked service jobs, minimum wage and tips, for years. I was 39 when I started working at a bingo hall and I loved the job. Still minimum wage and tips, but fun. Then the closures started. I went through 9 closures with them and decided at the age of 41 I needed to do something different. My beloved niece recommended I enroll in an office skills school she was going to. I did and 2 weeks after graduating I got a job with the county I lived in. It wasn't easy, but I stayed with them for 18 years, retired at 60 and now have a pension and Social Security and make more than I did when I was working. It's never too late!
I can’t believe Elizabeth couldn’t understand that having an expensive ring shouldn’t be a priority in your situation. You can always get a different one after you’ve acquired a roof over your heads. I felt SO sorry for Jose. You can get a silver band for $15. I did and still have it 35 years later. I love it just the same because monetary value shouldn’t dictate how much someone loves you. The jewelry companies and consumerism have made us, particularly women, believe this. I guess Elizabeth has every right to want that ring but it was bizarre that it took her so long to figure out why Jose might have a problem with it. She never considered his feelings, saying she gets paid more, which is a fair point, but she wouldn’t even discuss it. This is what I want and that’s that, which was demeaning to Jose, I think. But then he even apologized when she complained that he wasn’t happy enough. “I’m sorry I came off like that.” And he was sincere, in spite of the $3,131 that was spent. You have a good man, there, even if you did pay for half the ring. I have much compassion for your situation, which I can relate too, and how hard you both work to make it. I wish you nothing but good things. Jose’s son, Ayden is super cute.
@@genxx2724 She didn’t even seem to modify her superficial, greedy behavior even though it was being filmed for others to watch. Just don’t understand how someone could be so clueless. Wish my husband was as compassionate and calm as Jose.
@@hollyrose6334 I think he might be flat, rather than calm. The most friendly, animated, and engaged we saw him was when they were out for drinks with their friends. And that might have been due to alcohol.
@@hollyrose6334 Regarding the house purchase, she said the ZIP Code in Montgomery County adds another $20,000. Well, her engagement ring was $15,000. We all make choices.
6:00 I was a line cook for many years, then ran a pizza place in a college town (football Saturdays!). Not having weekends/holidays off, needing to work when everyone else was relaxing and celebrating, was one of the main reasons I switched to tech. That, and the money.
I worked pizza for 5 years in college and I actually loved it. I only ever worked part time though, then I made it into tech after college. I could never work a true 40 hrs, especially for only pizza money
@@francisgerman5672 It is easy to start and learn because everything needed to learn is free online. The tech field is not easy, though, for most people. But if the work gets done and someone keeps at it, there should be little to no cost.
Exactly, i came from poverty. I never wanted to continue this life. As such went to Uni, got a tech degree (did research to ensure high starting pay), and jumped jobs every 2ish years. Now 28 and making $112k fully remote. Still sacrifice things to ensure i have a good savings, down payment, and emergency fund.
@@djm2189not tryna sound like a hater but making 100k nowadays isn't good anymore and is still considered poor and poverty level since middle class isn't a thing anymore
@@gregkareem9824 oh bud don't worry I 100% fking agree with you! It's so sad! Yet many don't even make this. At this point idk what I'ma do. Either get a partner that makes the same so we'd hit over 200k or I'ma move myself to Mexico. Work remote so I can do that.
My sister waitressed for over 30 years in a diner in Queens. Greek owned of course! The worst customers were an ethnic group that finds fault with everything, constantly sending stuff back to the kitchen or refusing the item after they eat half of it. Management is afraid of them. They'll come in with 8 people make a mess and monopolize the waitresses' time. They'll run up a tab of $200 to $400 with drinks and toss a $10 or $20 bill on the table even though the receipt shows a minimum of 20 percent on tables with 6 or more people. When she goes to the manager as they're paying he lets them get away because he's afraid of them. And he won't reimburse her either. And she has to split her tips with the bus boys. Sometimes they give these tables to a waitress they want to get rid of. The diner eventually got rid of all the American waitresses and employed illegals. The whole kitchen was illegals by the time he sold the place. It was torn down to build apartments. He took his millions and bought another place down the street. My sister was the last American there. She retired and moved back to Arizona. We rented a truck and I drove her there with her belongings. She can't work any longer. Her back, legs and feet are shot. She gets disability and goes to a pain management clinic for medications. The diner owner kept two sets of books and paid the waitresses in cash and check. That affected her disability because all of her income was not shown. It's crooked by everyone including the staff but all these diners do it and you can't get a job unless you agree to go along with it.
Curious what ethnic group you’re referring to? I shouldn’t assume but I’m guessing it’s bp. Bp also have a terrible experience working in the restaurant industry and as customers. Bp are statistically earn 25% less in tips for “good” service and are exposed to witness the overwhelming bias and racism their coworkers will show for black customers. I’m black and am used to terrible service. I never complain, tip 20%+and am patient about everything but of course I’m the lowest priority because the server doesn’t expect a tip anyway. I’ve witnessed my white coworkers lie about black guest not paying their checks so they can pocket the cash. I had a lot of experience as a server/bartender and bp never stood out to me as being problematic compared to other groups. All groups to me seemed to have their fair share of problematic diners. I’m not discounting others personal experiences but I just didn’t see it enough myself to understand why it’s a stereotype.
I struggle to feel bad for the lady with 16k debt. She doesn't need a motorcycle or the insurance for it. Sell it, pay your debt, and make moves towards eliminating that debt.
I was thinking the same thing. It stinks that she lost her construction job but many people experience job loss. Look how many were out of work during the pandemic. And if she is working weekends she has at least one day off during the week when everyone else is working. Weekends are part of retail & service professions. It is no secret. At least she has employment.
@@gabyz.2585 She can but that is an expensive hobby and she says she is having trouble making ends meet. So if she chooses to keep it she is choosing the bills that go with it.
It was really sad to hear that she was 50 and she was still broke. Financial planning is actually extremely important to have from a very young age which we don't learn.
Yup! I came from poverty and wanted to change my life. Now I'm 28, 112k income, and net worth of 100k. I still sacrifice and save where I can to ensure an even better net. Do splurge on life experiences though, but in moderation. Just had a 10 day cruise to Alaska, was awesome and no strain on finances!
I noticed the common denominator is most of the people had kids when they weren’t financially ready. There is a saying that poor family planning can lead to poverty, and this is the perfect example of that.
I haven't watched it yet - but my initial feeling is being working class isn't an bad thing, seems the media portray is as a failure or something to transition from but working class are very important because we all need services, things made, built, fixed. I think the problem is that working class people/trades are no longer being paid a decent wage/salary. I grew up in a working class family and everyone in our extended families, mostly factory workers, home helps, etc... were able to buy their own home & take a cheap holiday somewhere every year, not just surviving but actually enjoying life. It's not like that anymore.
Today, the French rioted because the government wants to increase the retirement age. Striking is basically their pastime. Workers need to strike more.
@@inuhundchien6041 the workforce in France can afford to strike so often because their healthcare isn’t dependent on them having a job. The workforce in the US has their healthcare dangled in front of them like a carrot. I know when I’ve participated in work stoppages, aside from loss of pay, negotiations were always rushed in fear of employees losing their health benefits. Employers know this, so they’ll wait them out so unions can concede on unfinished business. Forcing union members to vote on approving an unfavorable contract just so they don’t lose insurance. 😢
My heart goes out to Elizabeth. I understand certain cultures do this but I am Mexican and I would never want to burden my kids. I want to leave a legacy. Good for both Jose and Elizabeth grinding and making their lives happen.
I totally get what Elizabeth said about her parents' culture, not from the US but I grew up the same, half with dad's parents and half with mom's dad, even if both parents had degrees and good jobs and could have easily rented their own place, and neither grandparents needed constant care or any other help. A lot of kids in my country can't wait to move to the big city for college to get out of the small town and the parents' house but it's trickier when you grow up in the big city. Luckily my parents understood my need to move out and we get along great not being in the same house. Also YES YES YES to De'Jaun's mom, free education has a ton of benefits. Drawbacks too, college is kinda like 3 more years of high school and then there's a ton of people with degrees that don't mean that much anymore, so you still gotta grind. And the quality of free education is not always great at least where I'm from. But that's a long, long debate. It sucks to see when someone has so much potential but gets his wings cut off.
With the couple that was buying a house, It was his child from a previous marriage. But yea, I didn’t see any fathers around in the other family with two kids.
To the guy who did two tours in the military: Thank you for your service. But sir, you got a job paying $17 an hour which may not be the best but it is much better than minimum wage and you are complaing about the hours? You will still see your son, you are not going back overseas. Feeding him & keeping a roof over his head is important, too. Man up and be grateful while you work towards better things. We all have to start somewhere. Stop looking at what is wrong and start saying thank you for what is right.
Ugh, the guy that tore the ligaments in his shoulder and lost his scholarship! I wish these young athletes could negotiate with these colleges that they can finish their educations and keep those scholarships if they get a sports related injury. So unfair of these greedy universities.
I never knew they would just take a scholarship away, with all money they make I honestly wouldn’t think they care to do that, heartless world we live in.
Ever stop to think why the people we depend on are the people we don't wish to see? It's like we don't want them to know how important they are so we won't have to feel grateful while they get to act ungrateful
The series turns an intimate lens on this group of 21st-century American dreamers as they fight against all odds to thrive when it takes everything they have to simply survive. Characters represent geographically and ethnically diverse multigenerational Americans. As Emilia celebrates her 50th birthday, she takes stock of her career as a waitress and struggles to hold onto her house. DJ gets frustrated with the working conditions at Walgreens and starts talking to his co-workers about how to make a change. Clerical worker Jose and his girlfriend Elizabeth look for a way to move out of their parent's basements and give their son his own bedroom.
How old is this documentary? You are essentially publishing misinformation by reposting information nearly 10 years out of date!? You risk being reported for misinformation if this documentary isn't clearly date stamped. As I will do so. Either that, pr change the title to include year of production.
@reneekatz666 Yes. It's grossly outdated . Years have passed. The statistics are old, the poverty is much worse. So many things different now. And they are passing it off as 2023!? They are lazy posting old,outdated, misleading content. It should be date stamped so viewers have proper context.
💘 luv this doc!!! It is SO real! It does 👎 not portray the subjects as VICTIMS, but as 'victims of circumstances' that were honestly attempting to work to overcome those circumstances. The high cost and availability of an opportunity for post secondary education (BIG EDUCATION ie, THE EDUCATIONAL. INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX) and its supporters are the TRUE VILLAINS in this story. Educations through student loans is one of the biggest FAILURES in 🇺🇸 American education since 'separate, but equal'. All of the subjects of this documentary are 'real' working 🇺🇸 American everyday HEROES.
There was a time when I was single that I was working three jobs. It wasn't because I had a family to support. It was because I knew that one day, I would.
I wouldn't know what to tell a young person today on how to make a living. Everything is so different from when I was young. However, there is a time in your life early 20's "or younger" when you need to decide on learning a trade, going into the military or going to college... and receiving degree in photography or basket weaving 101 isn't the answer. Your degree needs to be something important "Engineering, Finance Computer Science" etc. It's going to be tough! These are the what I call the "Paying your Dues years". Its not fun and it takes GUTS!! It's hard hard work and most people don't want to do it. But you do it and you will become successful. Never quit... NEVER!
Takita seems to me to be a great mother! A type of mother I wish I could have had. I would have known love, knowledge, caring and gave her complete respect and proud to be her child. Takita is a wonderful woman to be around. She does not yell at her kids, and she instills in them love and respect. Takita deserves more from society and have more, if I could give her money I would.
The first lady spoke to me. My dad worked security jobs or factory jobs and did drill with Air National guard on weekends. This meant I hardly ever saw him as a child and had very few down/fun times with him.
Elizabeth's mom Ana said wise words, "I don't care what you wanna be, but be." I love that. Then she continued, "If you wanna sweep the streets, do it, but with a diploma. You'll be the boss of all the street sweepers." " You have to talk strong to them" This is a great series, I watched the 4th one first not knowing that there were 1-6, so now im watching in order. I'm enjoying watching them
I worked 35 years in the restaurant industry. I loved directing the kitchen in a controlled chaos environment. Having a cigarette on the back step watching people pulling boats etc on the weekend was hard though. Truly we are a band of people that didn’t quit fit into 9-5 or “normal” society. We were a family who spoke the same language
I wish things were easier for those on minimum wage. I pray they don't give up. I hope God gives them the strength to reach the end. God bless you. KC Comanche tx
This' taking place cos u r giving permission to your president & politicians to rob u high & dry 'm sorry to say that as it sounds cruel but unless each of u play a part in stopping your hard earned, sweat & blood money going down the drains in the TRILLIONS as Biden gives away to Ukraine, Saudi, Utopia, Uganda, Afghanistan & all the illegals he allows in with open border policies but disregarding hard working Americans, there's little hope regardless of D or R taking office as none is looking out for "ordinary" Americans who give them such liberty to abuse everyone except their own pockets...
I went through the same thing as the young hispanic woman did .I have 3 brothers and 3 sisters ,.I had to step in and take care of her, because if I did not, then she would have had to be put in nursing home. I am in my mid fifties, and am not in good health, and I am not well off financially either. Everyone else always had excuses why they could not help. So I was my mothers only caregiver for 15 years, with no help from siblings. My mother had lived such a hard life., and I wasnt about to let her end up being neglected in some nursing home, because that is what happens to people with Dementia. When a parent has Dementia, the whole family should help out on a regular basis, and not lay it all on one person. There are ways to make it work. For example, those family members with challenging health conditions could be the ones to come by twice weekly to sit and visit with parent and see if they are doing ok. those in better physical shape could take turns cleaning for parent .those that can cook could take turns fixing food for parent . .etc, etc . Even grandchildren can get involved with helping out. It would be a great way to teach them that family should work together , and help one another. , Instead of PUT IT ALL ON 1 PERSON !!
The ones who do the least make the biggest fuss at the time of death and the funeral, too. They make it all about them. And they’re Johnny on the Spot when it comes to any inheritance.
@@affie3279 that’s easier said than done. Does she let her mom sit in squalor until her siblings come to their senses? And when would it happen? If ever? I know exactly what she’s going through.
Its hard, coming from Bosnia here without anything, today I am financially free because I educated myself and invested in some things 15-20 years ago, even though in my community that is nonsense, you are supposed to work in a shop all your life everything else is not good for you, people keep you down in the same cycle they are in. Sometimes taking chances and risks is worth it, I think its only going to get rougher for middle class.
That’s the only way to get out. If you don’t take risks to try and achieve wealth then you’ll always be working hard for little money for the rest of your life, just like everyone else. Separate yourself
oohh ... I would like to know more about investments. So, I would need to invest in what? Like,apple or amazon etc? and heard , can you afford to lose that money? Any more knowlege from you would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
It's ridiculous in this nation that people work so hard and have to struggle. We need to model the Nordic nations. A McDonald's employee makes $22 hourly. Has a pension, access to great mass transit, healthcare and 4 or 5 weeks of paid vacation. Why we refuse to adopt this paradigm is beyond me. The donor class in this nation is so cruel.
I worked as a male waiter for 2 years. I’m not good looking, so I barely got any tips no matter how well my service was. 😞 my best friend who was good looking literally earned about 4x as me and the manager and customers all really liked him too. Life is so unfair
I love how we use billions in our taxes to subsidize billion dollar corporations and high wealth tax cuts, while every year cuts instead of investing in education, healthcare, safety nets, public transportation, on and on. As I see it, spend decades defunding, then say it’s not working, privatize it, where quarterly profits is only goal, then capitalize and extract every cent and minute of money and labor out of every citizen below a certain class
@Lapis Manalis in America we are spoiled. This is the land of opportunity but too many people are entitled and lazy. Young people can master cell phones but act confused that borrowing thousands of dollars is a good idea
@@joyaustin6581 Someone has to take those jobs though and there aren’t enough open positions for higher paying jobs. If everyone is an entrepreneur, who’s left to actually do the work?
No dude it’s gotten way way worse…. Maybe more jobs now but COL is insane almost anywhere, I was gonna say all over USA but it’s a global problem…. Fiat currency is a scam and it’s about to crash hard….
Yup, I really like the social service job that I have. I miss my husband who passed away a few years ago but am thankful for survivor's benefits so that I don't have to work 2 jobs at 67.
It's my understanding a college degree doesnt promise a job. In fact on hand, in person experience actually matters. This documentary doesnt surprise me at all. And the parents in this film anger me to think they are pressuring their kids to go in debt for a piece of paper.
I worked in the restaurant industry for years before my current career. It was fun working with people but so physically demanding. I can't imagine doing it now at almost this woman's age.
I attempted Amazon at age 61, with RA and high Bp because I couldn’t afford medication and it took me six months to get on Medicaid. Predictably, I couldn’t make the quotas. My knees, back, and shoulders gave out, along with my bladder and bowels. I can no longer work in my old profession from which I, along with a dozen others, all over 50, were illegally terminated and deprived of our retirements. I have no living family able or willing to help. I now squat with permission in a camp, live by bartering and small amounts of money. I’m also off grid, using this tablet via a pay as you go HotSpot off a car battery, or I use public WiFi. I don’t own any other internet device. I recently bought a TracPhone, the cheapest model, no internet, pay as you go. If I don’t have the money, you’ll need to write me by snail mail, general delivery, or come physically. I keep pretty much below the radar. I never had kids or married, and took care of both parents until they passed. So if God wants me, He can take me any time. There’s nobody who’s going to suffer or be put in debt. It looks like my life will match my favorite poem, Ode on Solitude, by Alexander Pope.
@@patrickglennon7058 It’s a lean-to made into a small cabin by adding a wall with door across the front. It was used in the early 2000’s for a hunting camp by my ex-bro-in-law. It has a small wood stove for heat and cooking in winter, two fold-down beds and a fold down table. It’s very rural, set back in the woods on logging company land, so one is technically not supposed to live in it, but so far, so good. Nobody’s come to check.
@@mariekatherine5238 By Alexander Pope Happy the man, whose wish and care A few paternal acres bound, Content to breathe his native air, In his own ground. Whose herds with milk, whose fields with bread, Whose flocks supply him with attire, Whose trees in summer yield him shade, In winter fire. Blest, who can unconcernedly find Hours, days, and years slide soft away, In health of body, peace of mind, Quiet by day, Sound sleep by night; study and ease, Together mixed; sweet recreation; And innocence, which most does please, With meditation. Thus let me live, unseen, unknown; Thus unlamented let me die; Steal from the world, and not a stone Tell where I lie.
I was born into a family of performers, working from the age of 6 & not being paid, even though I worked 2 shows a day, went to school every day. I then worked in a restaurant for 5 years to get myself through school. Finally I was given a chance to work for a company in marketing. It's so hard for young people, but my dream is to own my own home, and find myself someone to be with.
That's why you ALWAYS have to be nice with people who work at restaurants. This is the hardest job in my opinion. Feel empathy and leave nice tips if you can. They just have their strength and you can make a huge difference in a hard day. Love to all of them ❤
Yes to this 100% I live with my parents and they paid for my nursing school and car so naturally when I graduated it is my duty to fend for myself. While I was reviewing for boards, I got a part time job being a sitter at nursing home and thurs-sun server. Wow, let me tell you how hardwork it is to be a server! I think I cried at one poiny when I was serving this Chinese couple and wife is side eye looking at me, I felt belittled! At the end, they gave 0.50 cents tip. Mind you the restaurant I serve is a mid-fancy one in downtown LA. It is heartbreaking. That is why I make it a point whenever we eat out even in fast food I give my biggest respect and righteous tip for them. It is very eye opening for me. I think if we could just be kind to each other and RESPECT ONE ANOTHER, our world will be much different.
Never thought much about minimum wage when I was young and full of energy. You really need to be happy at your job and love what you do. Always tip for good service or don’t go out.
American here, I lived in Denmark in the 1980s. I wish the Danes would take over the world and show the USA how to create à better functioning society.
When I started working, I made 6.25 hrs, then 7.25. I now make 35hr. For anyone going through this, I know how hard it is, and you can't see the light in the tunnel but just know you will endure and my prayers that you will have a plentiful life without the stress of financial hardship
They should work elsewhere for more money if they arent satisfied with their income. I heard many of them say that they love their jobs. Be willing to step outside your comfort zone to increase your salary. I do a job I mostly hate but it pays very well.
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thanks! im gonna watch the rest I love documentaries that talks about real life important problems, im not even from the USA im in the Middle East.
What’s the name of the song at the beginning of the video.
An update please ?
Thank you for this endeavor
@@k-rinodaking6927apparently it's from an unreleased album from Aloe Black. I can't find the original anywhere. Let us know if you find it soemwhere
This documentary was made in 2012 or 2013. Ten years ago is an eternity ago financially. Everything is extremely worse now. An updated documentary is practically mandatory.
Agreed 💯
And - unbelievably - the federal minimum wage is still $7.25...
@pia I don’t know anywhere that’s hiring at $7.25.
My thoughts exactly..
@@markb2007 they may not be hiring at it, but legally they could. That’s the federal minimum wage. It hasn’t increased to accurately or adequately reflect inflation in YEARS.
I worked in retail once again this past year. It was literally soul crushing. The toxic co-workers, the toxic customers, not having a life outside of work because of the crazy hours I was working. The day I quit, I literally got sick. My body was like sit down NOW! it’s so hard to maintain self care in those types of jobs real talk.
Same here! I worked as a cashier at a grocery store for 8 months, my coworkers were extremely nice, so were most of the costumers, but the boss wasn’t always nice. I also had to go to school after work (I’m in an adult school, to get my high school diploma because I want to go to college and become a journalist) and it took a toll on my mental and physical health. I developed symptoms of anemia because of all the stress that I had to endure at work and the fact that I never had time to sit down and eat real meals during my shifts. I quit that job (because it was too much for me), it was the best decision I ever took.
@@melissa-annefrigon7973 I’m so glad you got out of that environment 🙌🏾✨
@@melissa-annefrigon7973 you know that’s a lot of people’s origin story? I worked 40 hours a week and went to school 36hrs a week. Driving to work after school holding one eye open with my hand. Now 20 years later working 50hrs a week turning wrenches…..I couldn’t be happier. The stone sharpens some while others crack.
@@MrBobbo18 50hrs a week? I did more then 60 in michelin star restaurant and i can tell you it was not worth it... Good experience but health is more important then money and now i do 38 hrs a week and earn more then when i did 60+ hours a week... How long can your stone be sharp? Your body is not a robot..
@@michaelcooreman3509 what you do now then ?
My sister was a server (waitress) for many years. It's very difficult physically carrying those heavy trays. And she said it so well, tips depend on how much people like you when you serve them. Also always working weekends & holidays is tough especially if you have kids and/or a partner. She finally opened her own coffee/dessert/sandwich/ gelato shop (plus event catering) 10 years age & is doing well. 🙏
So happy to read this man, glad your sister did that fr fr. Congrats to her.
What's the name of the shop? You should do an interview on her and post on youtube.
Low wages are usually attached to low skilled jobs. It doesn't matter how hard the job may be physically, if you can be replaced easily in a job by someone without much training you will earn less.
That's incredible! Nice to hear a success story. Is she paying her employees a "living wage" and offering health insurance as well as tuition reimbursement? Just kidding!
This made me so happy! Gave me hope too for my own entrepreneurial endeavors.
Just came across this video. Almost in tears. I live in Chicago and know the places they're showing. Just to see these hardworking people struggling like this is so heartbreaking. I hope and pray they're in a better place now.
Amen to that!!!
This was a contrived plot , called the Powell memorandum in 1971 thanks to greedy Republicans it has devolved the United States of America into two camps, the learned and the ill informed, just what they wanted while they continue to pilfer the wealth and treasure of the middle class right under your eyes..........Since the end of WWII, the government increased wages every year to keep up with inflation. It was a rare year that the government didn't raise wages because of fears of deflation/stagflation. It was one reason we were able to weather the DECADE of double-digit inflation in the 1970s, caused by the Vietnam War and geopolitical embargoes and upheavals in the Middle East. Almost ten years of inflation that climbed over 14%. And Americans are whining over eight months of 8.2% inflation. I can understand why.....! In 1980, Republicans entered with trickle-down economics and filibustered yearly wage increases. We've only had SEVEN wage increases in 42 years and just one in 13 years. Meanwhile, Republicans have given corporations and the mega rich three massive tax cuts, bailed out Wall Street and corporations TWICE using tens of trillions of taxpayer dollars, given corporations over-generous subsidies and cut estate taxes for the wealthy. Republicans have transferred 38 trillion from the middle class and the poor to corporations and the Uber wealthy in the last four decades. That's why Americans can't buy homes these days and why a piddling 8.2% inflation rate is driving people to their knees.This should be the last time a Republican runs for anything, this cancer is about to eat itself !. RUN the Republicans completely out of American Politics, they have earned nothing and stole the American Dream from all of us.
With any luck they are, but given the trend over the last 10 years there are so many more people in these exact situations
Chicago isn't getting better. The Democratic Party crushes that city.
Same me too. I can remember running for the buses and trains it was NO fun
This documentary is ten years old. It's probably more relevant now than ever before. The grind is real.
Not for everybody I've been blessed with a trust. I also had friends who never had to work
This was a contrived plot , called the Powell memorandum in 1971 thanks to greedy Republicans it has devolved the United States of America into two camps, the learned and the ill informed, just what they wanted while they continue to pilfer the wealth and treasure of the middle class right under your eyes..........Since the end of WWII, the government increased wages every year to keep up with inflation. It was a rare year that the government didn't raise wages because of fears of deflation/stagflation. It was one reason we were able to weather the DECADE of double-digit inflation in the 1970s, caused by the Vietnam War and geopolitical embargoes and upheavals in the Middle East. Almost ten years of inflation that climbed over 14%. And Americans are whining over eight months of 8.2% inflation. I can understand why.....! In 1980, Republicans entered with trickle-down economics and filibustered yearly wage increases. We've only had SEVEN wage increases in 42 years and just one in 13 years. Meanwhile, Republicans have given corporations and the mega rich three massive tax cuts, bailed out Wall Street and corporations TWICE using tens of trillions of taxpayer dollars, given corporations over-generous subsidies and cut estate taxes for the wealthy. Republicans have transferred 38 trillion from the middle class and the poor to corporations and the Uber wealthy in the last four decades. That's why Americans can't buy homes these days and why a piddling 8.2% inflation rate is driving people to their knees.This should be the last time a Republican runs for anything, this cancer is about to eat itself !. RUN the Republicans completely out of American Politics, they have earned nothing and stole the American Dream from all of us.
@@Spoiled_horsegirl good to hear you are part of the 1%. I think you are missing the point of this comment.....
@@Spoiled_horsegirl curious how much you get? always wondered how much trusts from some people are. like 40 grand a year? 50k? 100k? just makes some of us wonder lol
@@ProPandaPlays A trust fund can be any amount. I receive mine monthly. I get $8,000 monthly.
" It's called The American Dream because you have to be asleep to believe it " - The late great George Carlin .
Never quote without crediting the author. It's a rule.
- George Carlin
@@canadianukranian509 You never know how strong you are until strength is your only choice . Bob Marley
The Australian ''Lucky Country'' modelled itself on the ''American Dream''. But now we have have the same tragic nightmare evolving here..
My body is broken from 40 years of manual labour, no home of my own and no assets. I dont even own a car. At 63 I am 4 years away from being granted the Aged Pension, but I can't afford the rent, so I suspect I shall be homeless in a few years... I hope I will still have the strength to carry on.
@@Lance_Arn I am 61 I know how you feel. Kinder creeps up on you dont it? Stay strong dude!
“People look at UFO’s, and convince themselves they are not real; People look at Politicians, and convince themselves that THEY are real.”
Didn’t get the name
The politicians wouldn’t be able to survive on minimum wage but I guess it doesn’t affect them so they don’t care
It might cut into the bottom line of the companies who stuff their pockets full of cash via lobbyists & special interest groups. So its not that they dont care. They're literally paid/bribed to keep people poor.
Exactly. Most of them are old enough to remember when making minimum wage was nearly enough. Its as though they are frozen in that mindset. Everything is more expensive and wages don't match up.
This year's House's freshmen were bitching because their $174,000 salary wasn't enough to cover rent in Washington D.C.
Best comment..
It'll never get better either. Not as long as they keep taking "campaign contributions" (aka bribes) from these corporations, in order to keep our pay as low as possible.
"tired of always depending, for my money, on how other people feel about me"
Same.
I have had maybe hundreds of friends in the service industry, and I've asked all of them why they choose to work a job where their income is inconsistent and mostly based on the whims of customers. I've never, and I mean never, in twenty years gotten a straight answer. At this point I just say you guys love your job, appreciate the general lack of responsibility, and it's not as bad to you as it looks to people like me on the outside. That's it, that's all I got at this point. Because a lot of you guys are smart, but that seems like a pretty dumb setup to me 🤷🏾
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Lol
This' taking place cos u r giving permission to your president & politicians to rob u high & dry 'm sorry to say that as it sounds cruel but unless each of u play a part in stopping your hard earned, sweat & blood money going down the drains in the TRILLIONS as Biden gives away to Ukraine, Saudi, Utopia, Uganda, Afghanistan & all the illegals he allows in with open border policies but disregarding hard working Americans, there's little hope regardless of D or R taking office as none is looking out for "ordinary" Americans who give them such liberty to abuse everyone except their own pockets...
@@rogerjohnson898 OMG, why do you exist everywhere on the internet 🤦🏾
Watching videos like this keeps me humble. I had to work 2-3 jobs just to get by and now I’m able to take care of my household without much fear of not having enough. Going through those struggles helps me not to take what I currently have for granted and know that things can go right back to the way they were. So I stay grinding and keep that hunger and ambition in order to keep moving forward. I do my best to let people know that financial problems can be temporary if you’re willing to do whatever it takes!!
Have you heard of Dave Ramsey and Ramsey Solutions? Learn to better utilize your hard earned money! I'm a single mom and each month I have a budget and look for ways to cut back, save and form a community with others to help each other. I admire your efforts to keep your family & household a float. This is what real men do: sacrifice for their family! You're awesome 👌
@@sylviachacon4152 been studying Dave Ramsey for five years now
I dont think that way of working works for everyone, getting hit by the car, having a disability, getting serious ill having a child to take care for, wish there was a beter system in the usa for those people
I'm right there with you. I worked 2 and 3 jobs from 18 to 39. Finally make enough I can work one job and not worry about if I have to buy a new tire then I won't eat for 2 weeks, or if I get sick and miss work, I can't pay my rent. Never built credit, because I had no clue how. People would tell me no you can't buy this because you have no credit, go build credit. But when no one will give you credit how are you supposed to build credit? But in my 40's I figured it out. I now am building a nice credit score to hopefully buy a house in a couple years. I always remember to stay humble and remember where I came from. And the young kids at my work, I encourage them to build credit while young, and tell them how. That was my problem no one to tell me how. My parents were always the kind if they wanted or needed something they saved up for it and never wanted to be in debt. Not realizing that they weren't building credit that way. But they had Noone to tell them either. We have to help educate the young people.
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My 2 cents: if you were not born into wealth or privilege, or you don’t live in a European country with great social welfare systems, in order to “succeed” you have to make a series of well thought out/calculated decisions. Finish school, get a skill, if you can’t afford college start off at a community college, join the military, hold off on having children. When you start earning money save/invest. Keep your skills sharps, be flexible enough so you can pivot if you need to change careers. Nothing I just mentioned is easy, but that’s life. I wish our system was different, but it’s not and until something changes, we have to set ourselves up for success because the government will not do it for us.
Double up on jobs at 16. Marriage to someone similar, first baby, and buy a house in cash by 22. Teaching kids and grandkids how to replicate this model.
It's literally the worst model possible, and completely dependent on no outside factors like having some kind of medical emergency that puts you in crippling debt or worse. Also, what you mentioned "if you can't afford start of at a community college," well what if you can't afford community college? And what if you're not physically fit enough to join the military, or don't want to? Should someone have to go to battle to just get a decent education and make ends meet? And its not "just life," America is specifically crafted to be this way. There's literally a million other models of how a society can work, and you mentioned them (European countries with great social welfare system). It's not "just life."
@@zolyguy well, what should we do until the US adopts the European social welfare system? (Which I have nothing against). I agree the system is crafted this way. I agree capitalism is America sucks. I agree most people are one medical disaster away from financial ruin. However, how many people in the documentary had a medical illness that hampered their progress? None. So, again I ask, what do we do while we fight for change? Shouldn’t we put ourselves in the best position to succeed? Community colleges offer free courses, free scholarships. My husband couldn’t afford college so he went into the military and got a “free” education. Was it his first choice? Maybe not. But it was a decision he made, that benefited him (us) later. Life is filled with decisions you have to make. I’m an immigrant, so I wrote the book on starting at the bottom. I’m not talking about the disabled, the elderly and the sick, and like I said, I know most are one paycheck away from homelessness. However, we can’t blame everything on the system. Somethings yes, but not everything.
You are exactly correct! I grew up in extreme poverty and knew i didn't want to continue living like that! Great motivator. Did research and watched documentaries like this. Found out what you stated and lived by it. Went to Uni for tech, and now I'm 28 and make $112k and still budget/save a lot for the future to ensure there is a good net.
And it still may not work in my circumstance it's working right now but I know many in which it didn't and it makes me sad alot. But I try to help where I can
My husband and I got married really young but we didn't have our child until 14 years later. I am glad we were able save lots of money, bought a house and we don't have to live from paycheck to paycheck.
More parents need to be like you. I get people really want kids but they need to get out of poverty to give the kid the best quality of life possible.
EXCELLENT!
@@Duran762 thank you😊. Hopefully my daughter will be more successful in life and one day we might enjoy two grandchildren😉.
Well done!
I wish everyone would realize kids are NOT necessary but if they decide to have them they get their life together FIRST.
@@Duran762 Pfft I wish one of my parents stole $250k from me. I got abandon in the middle of college and working full time wouldn't cover the cost of finishing. Couldn't go the military route as my one parent was a narcissist who put some labels on me. That got me locked out of that option indefinitely since I was in 7th grade. I even tried and scored a near perfect score on the Asvab test.
Some people don't belong becoming parents in the first place.
"People ask me what my dream is. I don't have one".
Emilia
We hear you. We hear all of you. WE ARE YOU.
My love and respect to you.
Why no dream?
Jesus gives hope.
Takita and DJ, working so hard! I truly hope they are in a better place today. They are providing a great life for their kids. It is so important for kids to experience that love and commitment.
What's great about being broke?
There is nothing great about struggling and walking in the cold because their parents are poor. As a couple they wouldn't have to strugle so much if they were childfree. Maybe community college would have been an option for them without those kids.
I found them on fb. Looks like they are doing great and they are still together.
I’ve come to realize the smartest decision I’ve made is deciding to not have kids. I see so many people struggling with kids.
So true, god I can’t imagine having a kid to care of
I have one son
1 is enough
I'd never have a second n struggle n have to give him less.
They can go to gov for assistance.
If you're a female, it's fine. As long as you attach yourself to man that can keep the lights on.
Same
Would love to have an update on these individuals in 2023.
Yes! I came here to say this.
I am going to encourage my 7 year old son to learn a trade. Some make so much more than those who went to a four year college.
My son jus graduated in A/C/Refrigeration & the amount of job offers is truly unbelievable…all the best to ur son❤
Much respect and good! Trades are definitely the place to be if college isn't right. College was for me, got an engineering degree and now at 28 make $112k, fully remote, barely work 5hrs/day. But I'm fairly unique and most college degrees are worthless. I'm teaching this to my aunt's, uncle's, and cousins. Either a worthwhile degree in college (undergrad max) or a trade. That's about it.
Union Electrician or Elevator 🛗 Union $120k a year after graduation 7 year apprenticeship get paid learn a skilled trade .
Good idea, the best thing is you can travel with it, no student debt, and you can live a good life.
A friend of mine makes a great living as a certified gas pipe welder.
As a Latino it sucks because you’re responsible for your parents bad decisions because they didn’t take into account like hey I’m going to get old one day. And assume their kids will take care of them.
My sister and I are breaking that cycle it’s not fair to your kids. That mentality needs to stop.
All it takes is for one gereration to break the cycle and change the future.
I totally agree.
Yikes
@@Violet._.PhoeniX in china that is also the case
@@dongmingzhu666 not just the Chinese rather most Asians
This video, while very outdated, is a great example of how important it is that public transit services work for all and not just some.
Outta curiosity, how is it dated?
@@oldacc24469 It's ten years old..... 😉
@Marie Baker code word black people
YIMBYs & gentrifiers (who are damn near one and the same anyway) wanna take the access to public transportation all to themselves and hoard it away from working class ppl like those shown here who need it the most……
I agree but it’d benefit us as a whole too much (less car dependency + healthier people) so they will NEVER fix it
you guys can do it. after university i didnt have the family for support so i became homeless. i was working and eventually got an apartment. i started paying off my student loans by eating rice and beans. i dont have any children and i dont have a mortgage or vehicle so that helped. i live in a very expensive city and a car is not necessary. you guys have the support so you are on your way.
I love watching these type of documentaries. It's humbling.
i sit back and watch all these losers slog thru the muck and i have to laugh...can't imagine living like a third worlder ☺️
💯😮💨 same
It is. I'm in tears and just thanking God that I'm in a blessed position to bless other people. I used to be in those same situations, which was difficult. We must always remember where we were to know where we were going.
Watch The Slum Aljezeera... it's truly heartbreaking!!
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College is not the only way out, especially when you have all the responsibilities of running a household. Many times young people are pushed into college so hard that they have no choice. They don't realize the importance of what they study and end up wasting so much time, effort and money in a hope and dream that is very unlikely to happen. A little bit of help and guidance can go a very long way in getting a better paying job which would change everything. Then a little more guidance and advice on not squandering that little bit of a lifeline on a nice car before it is affordable as well. College is not the only way and it very often hurts people more then it helps. Be careful and wise with decisions, it will effect things well into the future.
They should read Robert Greene books
Its a split between tip jobs, formal college, trade jobs, and 6 week certification jobs. The best out of high school for survival bucks has to be tip jobs. These tip jobs are easily earning 2-2.5 x minimum wage. 6 week certification jobs may usually pay a shiny penny above minimum wage at the hire (1.1-1.3x min wage) for just 6 weeks , but from what I've heard its better use as a stepping stone to advance their career as after the initial nice hiring bump, and the next year's decent hourly bump to hook them in, it may slow down quite a bit. Trade jobs are a give or take. Probably the slowest start up in all of them, the most mind to hand work combo, but wage decently increases if you know your worth. Keep in mind I am talking in general as a collective not any one's personal experience. I knew a guy who got paid 80 an hour, but its at his dad's shop.
Amazing how people are determined to do their best regardless of the tough economy and family they support
That's the beauty of humanity~
@@nefwaenre yeah damn true
@@nefwaenre lots of love
The alternative is starvation and homelessness. We need more worker protections and higher wages.
@@Passionate_Potato absolutely!! The government for the biggest part is responsible for all this mess. Willing to fund wars but fail to create stable jobs and income for it's people.
I worked in 13 Walgreens stores in Central Florida... The company ABUSES good hardworking employees and makes the most pathetic people management (who get intimidated by anyone who can do their job better than them and will do everything to keep you down)! Something is SERIOUSLY wrong with this company! The stores are totally rundown and neglected! A 360 is needed in this badly run organization!
You mean it needs a 180. 360 would mean nothing changed - it’s a complete circle and you end up where you started.
Sounds like most low paying dead end jobs to me. I worked at Target up on the Northeastern coast of the USA in 2009-2014. Same issues and barely above $10/hr after years. I quit after taking on the store team leaders job and managing 40 different coworkers on top it. 6 days a week while also having to train one of the executives from Target Canada. Prior to Canada expansion failing for Target.
Retired active duty AF, college student, I worked at a Walgreens for about 6 weeks in FL. As nice as I am/was at the time, the manager didn't like my ideas of cleaning/restocking at the end of the day. She wanted it done in 30mins, all the while attending to the last customers who buys 20 odd items and then locking the door. I told her that's too much because you can't control the customers coming in loitering. So I eventually quit and went to toys R us in a mall, easier, simpler work environment.
As a former Walgreens customer I totally agree. Management has always come across as incompetent, even hostile at times, and lacking knowledge of the chain's policies hence I don't even ever shop at Walgreens anymore.
@@desireesalas5820 CVS is better.
I feel for Emilia. As someone who worked in construction, she's absolutely right that it's hard to go from making $80,000 a year down to something significantly less. I made more money than I ever had in my life (upwards of $110,000), but what they make you give is so much more. Either you're home every night and broke, or you're traveling the country, only spending maybe two weeks home out of the year. You also pay with your body. I'm only 30, but I can tell you my knees, shoulders and wrists are absolutely shot.
That cost is to high as the USA has no universal healthcare.
And here i work for a local automobile workshop as a mechanic for like 3 dollars(1500 rupees) per day. Doing all hardwork pulling transmissions, engines. No life insurance, no retirement plan just the pay enough to survive day. Worse thing is country went belly up recently. The inflation through the roof. It's a dogs life here.
Might be time to move up to managment. Can you be a project manager?
@@KP-hi1om Piss poor advice. So NOW u managed unhappy ppl? How about treating ppl like human beings with dignity & respect, paying them a living wage, & having universal healthcare (so workers aren't stapped to a job FOR healthcare). 🤔 Think about it! It's UNAMERICAN for ppl to LIVE like these ppl. How about asking the elite, "how much profit IS profit, & how much is GREED?
@@riceburner4747 How about you become a business owner in your community so that you can uplift people and pay them a "living wage" and great benefits. Or you can elect politicians that will support that. Or get a marketable skill that pays well with benefits. Or STFU and stop complaining like a lazy entitled broke person. Or keep doing whatever you are doing. The bottom line is no one, including the government, is giving you anything. You have to carve out your own destiny. Good luck. Oh yeah what do you have to say about ppl making a living wage that are barely getting by because of bad financial decisions? Just curious.
I lost my job due to the COVID economic impact and haven't been able to find a job in my field for a year +. I took seasonal job to pay bills but retail jobs are physically demanding and it's hurting my knees. The only difference for me are that I graduated with 2 bachelor s degrees without debit and I'm still proud of it. Eating lots of ramen noodles, campus food bank. Only eating out when there's coupons special etc. I never want any kids, this life is hard enough, why bring another life into this world when I can hardly survive with degrees?
It's not a politically correct thing to say, but the Walgreens couple have 2 kids knowing their financial situation...
The couple who said moving into parents home as an adult is hard, in many other cultures in different countries, there are multiple generations family under one roof. I'm not saying they shouldn't buy their own home, but save until they have more funds and access the housing market, interest rates etc. Moving into new home cost money, buying furniture etc which might lead to more debt.
This' taking place cos u r giving permission to your president & politicians to rob u high & dry 'm sorry to say that as it sounds cruel but unless each of u play a part in stopping your hard earned, sweat & blood money going down the drains in the TRILLIONS as Biden gives away to Ukraine, Saudi, Utopia, Uganda, Afghanistan & all the illegals he allows in with open border policies but disregarding hard working Americans, there's little hope regardless of D or R taking office as none is looking out for "ordinary" Americans who give them such liberty to abuse everyone except their own pockets...
@@randzopyr1038 boomers in the west are greedy by comparison to the non-western countries.
Plandemic all planned....
Keep your chin up and keeping trying.
@@randzopyr1038 -yes correct too much social media instagram only showing unending consumerism is the reason of course some cases might be genuinely not well off but the ones that have money and spend on luxuries big house big school for small kids should also think before doing so many people in new gen even in well off jobs do not have kids now i mean current new gen so when the hus/wife already know they are not having money from before then i do not know why they had kids is it societal pressure
"I have no dreams" Saddest words I've ever heard.
Plenty of people don't. They are ok with their day to day life. Not everyone needs to be Elon Musk.
@@yashgandhi4163 Yes I agree, most of the working class have the same sentiment. Dreaming doesn't mean having plenty of money. It's about being free, doing things you love. Having a dream and doing our passion keeps us alive and happy.
@@matteojay6052 They're too tired to dream, they know there's no hope. I actually love her stoicism.
It would be sad at 18 or under like 40 or 35…. She’s 50.
@@leonore3349 Is resignation to one's fate considered virtuous? Perhaps so. I think that there are things within her control that she could change, which would lead to better outcomes for her future self.
School is not a guarantee for success sometimes it's just more debt
Pick a marketable degree and don’t major in Art or Music.
Don't use debt to get a degree. It's possible.
I have a relatively useless associate's degree in Spanish, but then went to get a bachelor's in accounting which is pretty useful. Working on master's degree now. There are degrees that are pretty good out there like accounting, engineering, nursing for example.
When the one woman was talking about being the youngest and taking care of her parents...I feel that. I do most of everything for my parents. Three older brothers and one sister and due to their own circumstance's, moved away, disabled, incarcerated...its me that does most everything. It's exhausting and maddening.
If I ever have a kid, I don’t want to depend on them for care. I rather we both be happy and financially stable 🤍
In 2019 i started to get help at home. I have MS and am experiencing significant disabling symptoms, so in minnesota there are decent social programs that cover home services like cleaning help and food prep and more. I remember a young woman who took care of her disabled mom and a special needs brother and she had just had a baby.
Its heart breaking to have needs in an economy like this.
it blows my mind this was made 10 years ago...would love to see an updated version of todays pricing and wages.
God Bless the people like these folks who are underpaid but so essential to making our world go round. You are noticed and we appreciate all you do. Now is the time for you to be paid your fair share...if you are working, there is no reason why you should have to struggle...
🐂 💩...there IS a reason they should struggle... it's called the free market in labor... if you can only do work that requires little/no skill and anyone can do with minimal training, then you're not going to be paid enough to live comfortably... As it should be.
@@edwardroy3401 totally disagree with you. Not everyone can afford to be in the position where they can be trained to do jobs that require this ''skill"...I'm not saying that those with skills shouldnt be able to access higher paying jobs, but what I am saying is, people who work hard shouldn't have to worry about their bills or when they are going to eat next. This is obviously just down to a fundamental difference in how you and I think...thats fine..
I do believe that these folks are working hard. But most of them are working hard at dead end jobs. The one dude has been at a two year school for four years. They are willingly taking jobs that pay next to nothing. How can you champion mediocrity?
@@KP-hi1om Yeah, I watch these "poor in America" documentaries, and I know they want me to pity the subjects and blame capitalism. But it's obvious that 90-95% of their problems are bad luck, bad genes, and especially bad life choices, like dropping out of school and/or having multiple kids they can't support...like that's some entitlement. They're often suffering the consequences of their own self-inflicted mistakes.
@@edwardroy3401 bingo. Well said. American society has its winners and losers. This is one of the few countries where you can be born poor and become rich.
my main takeaway for this is that birth control in ALL forms should be free and widely available! My (ex) partner and I waited til we were in our late 20's to have a child. We were definitely able to afford it and it was STILL hard and was (and IS) expensive - even while living below our means and making 2-4x what these families are making. Children are an 18+ year long emotional and financial responsibility, and people really need to think before having them!
Here in La there are so many free birth control clinics to a point where I was amazed at how the nurses where pushing them on me and borderline annoyingly so. I’m married and using natural but I appreciate the effort in at least encouraging women to avoid unplanned pregnancies especially in low income areas
I agree!
Immigrant here! I didn't have my first child until I was 33 and the second at 40. Made sure I could comfortably afford to take care of them
I don't believe in birth control. Sex is not for self pleasure, it's only for having children. If you are not married and can't afford children then you shouldn't be having sex, it's as simple as that.
I wanted till I was almost 30 to have a child 9 years ago ,9 years later I still have one child.. rent and everything too expensive not to mention food.. to maintain the lifestyle I do I can only have one child even though I wanted too and I want to retire at minimum for 55 or 60 so I might just only have one it’s insane how folks manage with three kids is insane
Blown away by this. My heart goes out to these folks grinding just to get by!
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become". - Steve Jobs -
I was right there 10 years ago too. I listened to audio books every chance I got, found some grants/scholarships to pay for part of school, and worked plenty of overtime while going to school full time. Fast forward until now and I'm a successful accountant. It feels weird to be valued, as every human should be, but I know the work I put in to get here. For all those feeling hopeless, you can do it too and it's worth it for a STEM degree or a trade journeyman credential!
The problem is intelligence bro, thats something innate and you are born with. Especially with STEM field is a huge requirement. You need to hit the genetic lottery ( being born with aptitude to solve problems, understand math/complex issues) AND work very hard, that will set you up with some bit of luck as well. But many people just dont have this...
As a server/Bartender just turning 40, I see much of myself in Emilia. People don’t realize how tough it is serving/bartending.
that's why I always took factory jobs, that and the fact that employers are picky especially in your line of work
People don't care period. The only only exception to rule is when they give you a generous tip and guess what ? That means you did your job.
@@williamrussell174 yeah, you sound like a joy….please stay home
@Lapis Manalis naw, I’m good at my job. You’d be crying after a half hour during a busy shift
I am glad that my 18 year old daughter works in that industry. She sees how hard it is. She hears people in their 40s complain about joint and back pain and low wages. It reinforces how important it is to get an education or trade.
I’m also confused about why 18-year olds decide to have several children, when they have no education and then have to work for a pittance? In Sweden, where I’m from, the average age for having your first child is 34, when you’ve got your life into place.
Similar here in Finland it's around 30. I'm 33 and my partner and I only have cats. He has an amazing job and I am back in university trying to become a Dr.
I grew up with my older sister and single mother who worked hard, but we didn't have much. My mother was 18wheb she had my sister and 21 when she had me. We struggled terribly. As such, I vowed to never have children unless I had a good partner, and a stable career of my own incase things went wrong.
I simply never wanted my children to have to be so hungry like I was as a child. My sister and I would eat the wood from the wood chip wallpaper as we were so hungry.
I like to try and make and set myself sensible forward thinking goals which, I'm turn, allow for s prosperous future.
But, essentially everyone is free to make their own decisions in life..we are all here to learn and grow and love etc.✨🫂💖
@@LumiSisuSusi You had no social services in Finland 30 years ago?? 😮
America's culture is very different. Kids are often conditioned by parents and the media that they should move out right after high school/college and do everything on their own, even if they have no financial safety net. At least that's how it was when I was a kid (born in the late 80's).
Personally, my old man kicked me out of the house at 19, that was back in the early 2000's, and I was even working two jobs at the time. The best advice he could give me, after graduating high-school, was to get a job at Wal-Mart and work up the ladder to become a manager. Some years later, I ended up joining the military, so at least I don't have to struggle too much on the civilian side. Still no kids to speak of, because raising a family is expensive and I have to travel a lot, plus I also enjoy peace, quiet and some semblance of personal freedom.
Back when I was a teenager, it was considered common to start having an active sex life by your late-teens and twenties. Even today, many people start getting married in their early-mid twenties. It's just a very different way of living that's slowly starting to change.
@@LumiSisuSusi -yes you are very correct the new gen should either have no kids or if they still want then 1 child is ok i am saying this just for a simple reason that in such a case at least you will not be worrying about the basic necessities not being there . of course some one has a lot of family support both help and money then it is a different case
@@mariawerner8447 sorry, I meant to mention that I grew up in a different country, but currently live in in Finland 🤦🏼♀️. University is tiring 🤣
It's pretty insane how we the working people pretty much kept the world running in the midst of the covid debacle. The world forgot that pretty fast.
"The world forgot that pretty fast."...that right there is a VERY generalised SWEEPING statement and as such, WHOLLY untrue.
@@HIOP0 if you say so. That's my opinion. So, not changing it.
@@I.D.I.O.C.R.A.C.Y. I DO SAY SO, THEREFORE YOUR "OPINION" IRRELEVANT.
@@HIOP0 doesn't matter. It's still my opinion. Block me if you don't like it.
@@I.D.I.O.C.R.A.C.Y. WHY WOULD ANYONE BLOCK A FOOL?. YOU ARE AMUSING AND A BLOCKHEAD, NOT A COMMONLY FOUND COMBO. KEEP POSTING YOUR IRRELEVANT, I'LL THOUGHT-OUT OPINIONS AND IF I FIND THEM AMUSING, I'LL LET YOU KNOW, BY GOLLY, I'LL LET YOU KNOW. 🙂
There’s nothing wrong with living with your parents if it’s for mutual a benefit. I had family that all lived together because they couldn’t afford to do it alone.
I am an Eastern European and I feel sad watching that people are struggling to meet ends in one of the supossedly richest countries in the world. It is the fault of the corporations and the government to keep the working class poor without social benefits. Let me give you an example of France with 40 days paid leave annually, with maternity leave of 1 year and so on. Even in my country Bulgaria when you have a baby the mother is entitled to 2 years maternity leave with almost the whole salary paid each month. Living in the US and being poor is Shame on the government!
Isn't the Ukraine in eastern Europe? Maybe we should divert the money spent on the war towards our working poor. STFU
Exploitation is immoral and toxic. It poisons a whole society. I wish I didn't see it happening.
we have a military to pay for! Who else is going to bully other countries! /sarcasm but no seriously we don’t have many social safety nets that even “poor” countries have because we spend more on our military than most countries entire GDP + tax revenue combined. Sad state we are in.
@@SaturatedCat oh really? Still the US shouldnt have poor people...
I feel for the very devoted hard-working latina daughter. You can tell she's a carrier empath. She is compelled to help out due to emotional obligation and she's feeling awful for feeling understandable resentment about the situation.
She’s also spoiled, demanding, and entitled. Keep watching.
Morgan banks
@@genxx2724how?
Yep. Her parents hold her back. That's bs
Her parents looked after her as a child when she was sick etc. Now she's got to give that back and she's not ready? Maybe they should have said the same when she was a child. She needs to grow up. She's a grown woman and a mother now. Spoiled.
The server at the beginning breaks me, my mom is also a server and has worked like that my whole life. She did whatever it took to put food on the table pay the rent put cloths on us..and it has only gotten worse over the years. I see how tired she is and it hurts..
I'm sorry man
Takira and her husband are hard workers and good parents. My hat is off to them for feeding that many mouths and trying so hard. Good genuine, hard-working people.
I sympathize with them, nine years of working retail was challening to say the least. Began my first retail position at exactly $7.25 and nearly ten years of grocery experience my waged only increase to $15. I understand their fear, their struggle, and their fervent hope for better opportunities because it was those were at the forefront of my mind everyday.
What's sad and unacceptable is these low wage hard workers usually don't get or aren't eligible for any kind of assistance. You gotta be lazy and refuse to work to get help sadly. Totally respect these hard workers. What's scary is this generation when they retire if they can ever retire. No pensions no 401ks and a SSI system going broke. Scary
Rule number one: if you don't have plenty of money don't have kids. You make it difficult for yourself, plus the kid suffers.
I've noticed that the wealthy have kids after 35 and are more wiser with money.
I don't like that rule because I refuse to live in a world where you can be too poor to make a family. If there's any point to the meaning of life I'm pretty sure passing on your legacy is closer to the answer than a paycheck. That said tho I think a better version of that rule should be "You're never allowed to use your children as an excuse for not being further along in life". Children can be hard and very involving, but they're not an insurmountable obstacle to success. But if you're the kind of person that finds reasons faster than results, your children will be a replenishable source of stories and excuses for why you're not where you want to be
@@nutzky I'm sorry, but you knew I meant having children in the context of replying to your comment, substituting two cats is a non-responsive answer from you. Moving on to the rest of your reply, it is dripping with cynicism, contempt, and loathing. In that regard I'm going to keep this reply brief and probably just leave it here on my part: in reality if all you got to do in this world was scold your child over some Elmer's glue then you were one of the lucky souls that had that chance in existence. That's, life. I'm sorry that _that_ , and the human race, disappoints you
Have a good one
@@PaperRaines "Passing on your legacy" is a pretty dumb excuse to bring more impoverished children into the world. We absolutely do live in a world where you can be too poor, and many, many people are too poor to have families. If you think that who you are, where you live, and what circumstances you're born into don't matter, than you're not living in reality. "Pushing yourself hard enough" is not a guarantee of a better life for anyone anymore, unless you're born into the right circumstances.
@@heilseitan5838 I'll reply to you since you don't have as much contempt for poor people as the original poster. I'll repeat that nobody can tell you what the actual point of being born and this existence is, but I can't go along with it has something to do with how much money you work for. That's woefully shortsighted in my view. If there even is a reason to justify any human being born and eventually dying one day, that reason would be at least you had children. That's the thousand foot view, closer to the ground level there's more to do and more to accomplish, and those things should optimally be valuable enough that you're not impoverished
With that said, poverty is a very complicated issue that goes beyond sole individual decisions. I don't think a solution to complex socioeconomic systems and their outcomes should be the consequences of forgoing having children. I'm not naive, I get that not being able to afford comfort for a family is a problem for the family and society, what I'm not agreeing with is the burden for our devastating capitalistic economies should be on humans that will never be born and their would be parents. We have to do better than that for each other as humans, we're not just statistics on a spreadsheet
Or fodder for Internet arguments. We're talking about human beings and the only trip through this life they'll ever have
DJ's story about the basketball scholarships is heartbreaking. I wish all of them the best! But one thing I have to point out. Having children is a huge responsibility. It's so much more than the love and fuzziness. You gotta be reasonably prepared before letting go of birth control.
Yes! Most of them have that in common! It’s unfortunate that they’re struggling but also have kids and aren’t even married
Heartbreaking and very relatable! A lot of us make it to college, but when the finances aren't right, it makes it that much harder to STAY IN/FINISH college.
@@natalyaakselaleksander4502 Agreed, they're basically repeating the cycle!
You also have to remember contraceptives are harder and harder to obtain, especially for low-income folks.
@@amtiffany9 that might be true but it's still way cheaper than raising a child, isn't it. Plus, is it really that important to do it, even without protection?
I'm 66. When I was about 18 and getting ready to graduate high school my Father said he could get me a job at Kodak where he worked. That was considered a very good job in my area at the time. My brothers and sisters all went to work there and have done well even though Kodak hasn't. But for me that didn't look attractive. I instantly knew what my entire life would be if I went down that path. Exactly what income I'd get. I also didn't like the idea I'd be so dependent on 1 company. My Father thought Kodak would grow forever.
Instead I joined the Army to get money for college. That's more risky than a factory job.
Then a high paying job in Alaska for 6 months to get some money. Then college. For my major I looked at want ads and saw the most ads for high paying jobs was something called "computers". I loved drawing, painting and would have loved to just take Fine Arts in college...but I knew college was training for earning money and knew I wasn't that talented to make a good living as an artist. I knew other more talented artists struggling. So Fine Art was my minor.
Ended up dropping out to take a job creating Atari 2600 games. Fun, intense, paid well and everyone told me I should get a serious job instead. I stayed with it and ended up working in tech startups. No big scores, but fun, pay was very good and once in awhile some bonuses and small stock payouts.
I see most people starting out taking the easy path. They don't see it as "easy" because they have nothing to compare it to. These can be well paying jobs for a single 18 year old but these jobs have very limited upside income because they're low skill. To make increasing income you need to be doing something that requires an increasing skill. A factory worker on a line for 3 years vs 15 years is worth about the same to an employer.
Another bloody murderer . Americans have been destroying so many countries
I worked service jobs, minimum wage and tips, for years. I was 39 when I started working at a bingo hall and I loved the job. Still minimum wage and tips, but fun. Then the closures started. I went through 9 closures with them and decided at the age of 41 I needed to do something different. My beloved niece recommended I enroll in an office skills school she was going to. I did and 2 weeks after graduating I got a job with the county I lived in. It wasn't easy, but I stayed with them for 18 years, retired at 60 and now have a pension and Social Security and make more than I did when I was working. It's never too late!
Server/bartender here who just turned 40….thank you
Glad to hear that you made it! I hope you inspire someone else to get it together.
You go girl.
I can’t believe Elizabeth couldn’t understand that having an expensive ring shouldn’t be a priority in your situation. You can always get a different one after you’ve acquired a roof over your heads. I felt SO sorry for Jose. You can get a silver band for $15. I did and still have it 35 years later. I love it just the same because monetary value shouldn’t dictate how much someone loves you. The jewelry companies and consumerism have made us, particularly women, believe this. I guess Elizabeth has every right to want that ring but it was bizarre that it took her so long to figure out why Jose might have a problem with it. She never considered his feelings, saying she gets paid more, which is a fair point, but she wouldn’t even discuss it. This is what I want and that’s that, which was demeaning to Jose, I think. But then he even apologized when she complained that he wasn’t happy enough. “I’m sorry I came off like that.” And he was sincere, in spite of the $3,131 that was spent. You have a good man, there, even if you did pay for half the ring.
I have much compassion for your situation, which I can relate too, and how hard you both work to make it. I wish you nothing but good things. Jose’s son, Ayden is super cute.
She was really idiotic. If a material thing was so important to her, she should have found a different guy.
@@genxx2724 She didn’t even seem to modify her superficial, greedy behavior even though it was being filmed for others to watch. Just don’t understand how someone could be so clueless. Wish my husband was as compassionate and calm as Jose.
@@hollyrose6334 I think he might be flat, rather than calm. The most friendly, animated, and engaged we saw him was when they were out for drinks with their friends. And that might have been due to alcohol.
@@hollyrose6334 Regarding the house purchase, she said the ZIP Code in Montgomery County adds another $20,000. Well, her engagement ring was $15,000. We all make choices.
@@genxx2724 That’s true.
6:00 I was a line cook for many years, then ran a pizza place in a college town (football Saturdays!). Not having weekends/holidays off, needing to work when everyone else was relaxing and celebrating, was one of the main reasons I switched to tech. That, and the money.
Good for you buddy, I’m in the same boat and looking at switching to tech too. Was wondering if it’s as easy as people say it is to get in ?
@@francisgerman5672 what if tech crashes yet again? Food industry is forever.
I worked pizza for 5 years in college and I actually loved it. I only ever worked part time though, then I made it into tech after college. I could never work a true 40 hrs, especially for only pizza money
@@francisgerman5672 It is easy to start and learn because everything needed to learn is free online. The tech field is not easy, though, for most people. But if the work gets done and someone keeps at it, there should be little to no cost.
@@RacecarsAndRicefish why not
Everything that happened to the people in this video was my greatest fear after high school.
Exactly, i came from poverty. I never wanted to continue this life. As such went to Uni, got a tech degree (did research to ensure high starting pay), and jumped jobs every 2ish years. Now 28 and making $112k fully remote. Still sacrifice things to ensure i have a good savings, down payment, and emergency fund.
I agree. I was born into poverty and never wanted to be like the people I was surrounded by.
@@djm2189not tryna sound like a hater but making 100k nowadays isn't good anymore and is still considered poor and poverty level since middle class isn't a thing anymore
@@gregkareem9824 oh bud don't worry I 100% fking agree with you! It's so sad! Yet many don't even make this. At this point idk what I'ma do. Either get a partner that makes the same so we'd hit over 200k or I'ma move myself to Mexico. Work remote so I can do that.
Shouts out to the life time waitresses. Without them Restaurants would not run. They are the nurses of the service industry. Love.
hardly compared to nurses!!!
@@stumack9755 indeed
And waiters lol ❤️
My sister waitressed for over 30 years in a diner in Queens. Greek owned of course!
The worst customers were an ethnic group that finds fault with everything, constantly sending stuff back to the kitchen or refusing the item after they eat half of it. Management is afraid of them. They'll come in with 8 people make a mess and monopolize the waitresses' time. They'll run up a tab of $200 to $400 with drinks and toss a $10 or $20 bill on the table even though the receipt shows a minimum of 20 percent on tables with 6 or more people. When she goes to the manager as they're paying he lets them get away because he's afraid of them. And he won't reimburse her either. And she has to split her tips with the bus boys. Sometimes they give these tables to a waitress they want to get rid of. The diner eventually got rid of all the American waitresses and employed illegals. The whole kitchen was illegals by the time he sold the place. It was torn down to build apartments. He took his millions and bought another place down the street. My sister was the last American there. She retired and moved back to Arizona. We rented a truck and I drove her there with her belongings. She can't work any longer. Her back, legs and feet are shot. She gets disability and goes to a pain management clinic for medications. The diner owner kept two sets of books and paid the waitresses in cash and check. That affected her disability because all of her income was not shown. It's crooked by everyone including the staff but all these diners do it and you can't get a job unless you agree to go along with it.
Curious what ethnic group you’re referring to? I shouldn’t assume but I’m guessing it’s bp. Bp also have a terrible experience working in the restaurant industry and as customers. Bp are statistically earn 25% less in tips for “good” service and are exposed to witness the overwhelming bias and racism their coworkers will show for black customers. I’m black and am used to terrible service. I never complain, tip 20%+and am patient about everything but of course I’m the lowest priority because the server doesn’t expect a tip anyway. I’ve witnessed my white coworkers lie about black guest not paying their checks so they can pocket the cash. I had a lot of experience as a server/bartender and bp never stood out to me as being problematic compared to other groups. All groups to me seemed to have their fair share of problematic diners. I’m not discounting others personal experiences but I just didn’t see it enough myself to understand why it’s a stereotype.
I struggle to feel bad for the lady with 16k debt. She doesn't need a motorcycle or the insurance for it. Sell it, pay your debt, and make moves towards eliminating that debt.
I was thinking the same thing. It stinks that she lost her construction job but many people experience job loss. Look how many were out of work during the pandemic. And if she is working weekends she has at least one day off during the week when everyone else is working. Weekends are part of retail & service professions. It is no secret. At least she has employment.
so she can't have a thing that makes her happy? C'mon now...
@@gabyz.2585 She can but that is an expensive hobby and she says she is having trouble making ends meet. So if she chooses to keep it she is choosing the bills that go with it.
@@thevintagevixen268 I understand
Also, the house, she alone, she can rent the basement or a room for a college student or downsize to smaller apartment
It was really sad to hear that she was 50 and she was still broke. Financial planning is actually extremely important to have from a very young age which we don't learn.
YOUNG GENERATION(17-26): Be careful with your choices! The consequences are for lifetime!!!
Yup! I came from poverty and wanted to change my life. Now I'm 28, 112k income, and net worth of 100k. I still sacrifice and save where I can to ensure an even better net. Do splurge on life experiences though, but in moderation. Just had a 10 day cruise to Alaska, was awesome and no strain on finances!
@@djm2189 you've replied the same like 20 times now. I think we get it.
@Lapis Manalis Who cares if they're a dishwasher. Every job needs a person to do it. Bird.
No one wants to believe that the choices they make in their early 20s last a lifetime.
@K P it's more easy put the responsibility on other people or in the society, but the roots of your problems its your own decisions.
I noticed the common denominator is most of the people had kids when they weren’t financially ready. There is a saying that poor family planning can lead to poverty, and this is the perfect example of that.
Abortion?
@@sawboneiomc8809 oral only.
Yup. Get educated, don't get in trouble with the law, don't have kids before you're stable.
I haven't watched it yet - but my initial feeling is being working class isn't an bad thing, seems the media portray is as a failure or something to transition from but working class are very important because we all need services, things made, built, fixed. I think the problem is that working class people/trades are no longer being paid a decent wage/salary. I grew up in a working class family and everyone in our extended families, mostly factory workers, home helps, etc... were able to buy their own home & take a cheap holiday somewhere every year, not just surviving but actually enjoying life. It's not like that anymore.
It’s time essential workers across the board get paid a living wage. Not a starving struggling wage. It’s ridiculous.
Today, the French rioted because the government wants to increase the retirement age. Striking is basically their pastime.
Workers need to strike more.
@@inuhundchien6041 the workforce in France can afford to strike so often because their healthcare isn’t dependent on them having a job. The workforce in the US has their healthcare dangled in front of them like a carrot. I know when I’ve participated in work stoppages, aside from loss of pay, negotiations were always rushed in fear of employees losing their health benefits. Employers know this, so they’ll wait them out so unions can concede on unfinished business. Forcing union members to vote on approving an unfavorable contract just so they don’t lose insurance. 😢
A lot of people struggling while riches are getting richer.
My heart goes out to Elizabeth. I understand certain cultures do this but I am Mexican and I would never want to burden my kids. I want to leave a legacy. Good for both Jose and Elizabeth grinding and making their lives happen.
No one asked you
Unfortunately, we have democrats in thecUS
@@lisahertel2415 you realize that this issue is cause by the failures of both parties.
@@javiervega1065 absolutely 💯. Everyone is responsible for themselves no matter your color, political party, etc. It's YOU!!!
@@javiervega1065 🤔
I totally get what Elizabeth said about her parents' culture, not from the US but I grew up the same, half with dad's parents and half with mom's dad, even if both parents had degrees and good jobs and could have easily rented their own place, and neither grandparents needed constant care or any other help. A lot of kids in my country can't wait to move to the big city for college to get out of the small town and the parents' house but it's trickier when you grow up in the big city. Luckily my parents understood my need to move out and we get along great not being in the same house. Also YES YES YES to De'Jaun's mom, free education has a ton of benefits. Drawbacks too, college is kinda like 3 more years of high school and then there's a ton of people with degrees that don't mean that much anymore, so you still gotta grind. And the quality of free education is not always great at least where I'm from. But that's a long, long debate. It sucks to see when someone has so much potential but gets his wings cut off.
America is not a country, America is business.
I am immigrant here in America for 6 years now. This is what I noticed also.
@@itsmeclaire5426 if you don’t mind me asking where are you from? Just curious!
@@itsmeclaire5426wow 6 months and you couldn't even respond to one single question comment typical human gatekeeping
America is still the shining light, but fading fast as it turns its back on Jesus.
@@earlysda very true
This is humbling but I wonder why people choose to bring children into this lifestyle when they are barely making themselves.
With the couple that was buying a house, It was his child from a previous marriage.
But yea, I didn’t see any fathers around in the other family with two kids.
@@christinefury1040can you help them out then at least ? They need your help Christine
To the guy who did two tours in the military: Thank you for your service. But sir, you got a job paying $17 an hour which may not be the best but it is much better than minimum wage and you are complaing about the hours? You will still see your son, you are not going back overseas. Feeding him & keeping a roof over his head is important, too. Man up and be grateful while you work towards better things. We all have to start somewhere. Stop looking at what is wrong and start saying thank you for what is right.
Ugh, the guy that tore the ligaments in his shoulder and lost his scholarship! I wish these young athletes could negotiate with these colleges that they can finish their educations and keep those scholarships if they get a sports related injury. So unfair of these greedy universities.
I never knew they would just take a scholarship away, with all money they make I honestly wouldn’t think they care to do that, heartless world we live in.
@Baker1777 Jesus Christ . He got disabled because he was playing . They owe him
This is depressing, I'm at the half way point and I can't even finish watching this
Our society is a failure. If we can't take care of each other, what is thr point?
Ever stop to think why the people we depend on are the people we don't wish to see? It's like we don't want them to know how important they are so we won't have to feel grateful while they get to act ungrateful
The series turns an intimate lens on this group of 21st-century American dreamers as they fight against all odds to thrive when it takes everything they have to simply survive. Characters represent geographically and ethnically diverse multigenerational Americans.
As Emilia celebrates her 50th birthday, she takes stock of her career as a waitress and struggles to hold onto her house. DJ gets frustrated with the working conditions at Walgreens and starts talking to his co-workers about how to make a change. Clerical worker Jose and his girlfriend Elizabeth look for a way to move out of their parent's basements and give their son his own bedroom.
How old is this documentary? You are essentially publishing misinformation by reposting information nearly 10 years out of date!?
You risk being reported for misinformation if this documentary isn't clearly date stamped. As I will do so. Either that, pr change the title to include year of production.
@reneekatz666 Yes. It's grossly outdated . Years have passed. The statistics are old, the poverty is much worse. So many things different now. And they are passing it off as 2023!?
They are lazy posting old,outdated, misleading content. It should be date stamped so viewers have proper context.
What's the name of the song in the intro?
Is there a part 4
💘 luv this doc!!! It is SO real! It does 👎 not portray the subjects as VICTIMS, but as 'victims of circumstances' that were honestly attempting to work to overcome those circumstances. The high cost and availability of an opportunity for post secondary education (BIG EDUCATION ie, THE EDUCATIONAL. INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX) and its supporters are the TRUE VILLAINS in this story. Educations through student loans is one of the biggest FAILURES in 🇺🇸 American education since 'separate, but equal'. All of the subjects of this documentary are 'real' working 🇺🇸 American everyday HEROES.
There was a time when I was single that I was working three jobs. It wasn't because I had a family to support. It was because I knew that one day, I would.
I wouldn't know what to tell a young person today on how to make a living. Everything is so different from when I was young. However, there is a time in your life early 20's "or younger" when you need to decide on learning a trade, going into the military or going to college... and receiving degree in photography or basket weaving 101 isn't the answer. Your degree needs to be something important "Engineering, Finance Computer Science" etc. It's going to be tough! These are the what I call the "Paying your Dues years". Its not fun and it takes GUTS!! It's hard hard work and most people don't want to do it. But you do it and you will become successful. Never quit... NEVER!
Yes, the woman with 80,000usd debt for her design degree...
Takita seems to me to be a great mother! A type of mother I wish I could have had. I would have known love, knowledge, caring and gave her complete respect and proud to be her child. Takita is a wonderful woman to be around. She does not yell at her kids, and she instills in them love and respect. Takita deserves more from society and have more, if I could give her money I would.
The first lady spoke to me. My dad worked security jobs or factory jobs and did drill with Air National guard on weekends. This meant I hardly ever saw him as a child and had very few down/fun times with him.
I applaud your dad for making that sacrifice. I hope his sacrifice paid off for your family.
Elizabeth's mom Ana said wise words, "I don't care what you wanna be, but be." I love that. Then she continued, "If you wanna sweep the streets, do it, but with a diploma. You'll be the boss of all the street sweepers." " You have to talk strong to them" This is a great series, I watched the 4th one first not knowing that there were 1-6, so now im watching in order. I'm enjoying watching them
Working for someone else is soul crushing most of the time .
So true.
Lmao when the real estate agent said "once it's your home no one can take it away from you" ... yeah except for the BANK...
Don't forget who will take it if you fail to pay your ever rising property taxes.
I worked 35 years in the restaurant industry. I loved directing the kitchen in a controlled chaos environment. Having a cigarette on the back step watching people pulling boats etc on the weekend was hard though. Truly we are a band of people that didn’t quit fit into 9-5 or “normal” society. We were a family who spoke the same language
I read Kitchen Confidential
@@ENDEVRDocs what’s that? Is it a magazine or podcast?
I wish things were easier for those on minimum wage. I pray they don't give up. I hope God gives them the strength to reach the end. God bless you. KC Comanche tx
This' taking place cos u r giving permission to your president & politicians to rob u high & dry 'm sorry to say that as it sounds cruel but unless each of u play a part in stopping your hard earned, sweat & blood money going down the drains in the TRILLIONS as Biden gives away to Ukraine, Saudi, Utopia, Uganda, Afghanistan & all the illegals he allows in with open border policies but disregarding hard working Americans, there's little hope regardless of D or R taking office as none is looking out for "ordinary" Americans who give them such liberty to abuse everyone except their own pockets...
I went through the same thing as the young hispanic woman did .I have 3 brothers and 3 sisters ,.I had to step in and take care of her, because if I did not, then she would have had to be put in nursing home. I am in my mid fifties, and am not in good health, and I am not well off financially either. Everyone else always had excuses why they could not help. So I was my mothers only caregiver for 15 years, with no help from siblings. My mother had lived such a hard life., and I wasnt about to let her end up being neglected in some nursing home, because that is what happens to people with Dementia. When a parent has Dementia, the whole family should help out on a regular basis, and not lay it all on one person. There are ways to make it work. For example, those family members with challenging health conditions could be the ones to come by twice weekly to sit and visit with parent and see if they are doing ok. those in better physical shape could take turns cleaning for parent .those that can cook could take turns fixing food for parent .
.etc, etc . Even grandchildren can get involved with helping out. It would be a great way to teach them that family should work together , and help one another. , Instead of PUT IT ALL ON 1 PERSON !!
The ones who do the least make the biggest fuss at the time of death and the funeral, too. They make it all about them. And they’re Johnny on the Spot when it comes to any inheritance.
You gotta set boundaries
The more you do the more is expected of you
@@affie3279 that’s easier said than done. Does she let her mom sit in squalor until her siblings come to their senses?
And when would it happen?
If ever?
I know exactly what she’s going through.
God bless you. You are so appreciated for everything you do for your mom. I'm so sorry you are feeling alone.
Its hard, coming from Bosnia here without anything, today I am financially free because I educated myself and invested in some things 15-20 years ago, even though in my community that is nonsense, you are supposed to work in a shop all your life everything else is not good for you, people keep you down in the same cycle they are in. Sometimes taking chances and risks is worth it, I think its only going to get rougher for middle class.
Taking risk is opening up opportunities. I want to take risks but my parents are bringing me down.
That’s the only way to get out. If you don’t take risks to try and achieve wealth then you’ll always be working hard for little money for the rest of your life, just like everyone else. Separate yourself
@@drillingig2368 you can't let the same parents excuse marinate, eventually you'll get sick of it. act now or waste more time.
oohh ... I would like to know more about investments. So, I would need to invest in what? Like,apple or amazon etc? and heard , can you afford to lose that money? Any more knowlege from you would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Educated yourself in what profession?
It's ridiculous in this nation that people work so hard and have to struggle. We need to model the Nordic nations. A McDonald's employee makes $22 hourly. Has a pension, access to great mass transit, healthcare and 4 or 5 weeks of paid vacation. Why we refuse to adopt this paradigm is beyond me. The donor class in this nation is so cruel.
Which McDonald's do workers make $22 hr?
@@turbobuick33 In Denmark.
@@turbobuick33 Maybe NY or SF
And they have vast natural resources with very low population. Also better racial makeup as well.
New Zealand McDonalds make like 23 lol
I worked as a male waiter for 2 years. I’m not good looking, so I barely got any tips no matter how well my service was. 😞 my best friend who was good looking literally earned about 4x as me and the manager and customers all really liked him too. Life is so unfair
I love how we use billions in our taxes to subsidize billion dollar corporations and high wealth tax cuts, while every year cuts instead of investing in education, healthcare, safety nets, public transportation, on and on. As I see it, spend decades defunding, then say it’s not working, privatize it, where quarterly profits is only goal, then capitalize and extract every cent and minute of money and labor out of every citizen below a certain class
The poor have to be desperate. If they weren't, then they wouldn't have to work
K-12 is free.
The whole system in rigid to keep people in poverty
@Lapis Manalis in America we are spoiled. This is the land of opportunity but too many people are entitled and lazy. Young people can master cell phones but act confused that borrowing thousands of dollars is a good idea
@@joyaustin6581 Someone has to take those jobs though and there aren’t enough open positions for higher paying jobs. If everyone is an entrepreneur, who’s left to actually do the work?
This was filmed in 2013. Nothings changed.
@@travisbiko8990 truth
No dude it’s gotten way way worse…. Maybe more jobs now but COL is insane almost anywhere, I was gonna say all over USA but it’s a global problem…. Fiat currency is a scam and it’s about to crash hard….
@@travisbiko8990 what, that's impossible
Hopefully some of them ate their young so we have less people looking for handouts
@@JayP-vh9wc 🤣
Many people are one paycheck away from becoming homeless...
Absolute 👍
For those who think they're safe, perhaps they are,
but everyone knows someone whose lives are just
one paycheck to the next. 🇨🇦 watching.
That’s not true tho
Not necessarily! Thousands of us left the U.S., and moved to countries less expensive, lower cost of living, healthcare, taxes etc.
Yup, I really like the social service job that I have. I miss my husband who passed away a few years ago but am thankful for survivor's benefits so that I don't have to work 2 jobs at 67.
@@lynnjudd9036 i hope ur safe ..
Family planning is very important...I feel for the kids 😌
They plan nothing...
It's my understanding a college degree doesnt promise a job. In fact on hand, in person experience actually matters. This documentary doesnt surprise me at all. And the parents in this film anger me to think they are pressuring their kids to go in debt for a piece of paper.
“You don’t know somebody you don’t work here.” Literally 101% of all companies in existence lol
I worked in the restaurant industry for years before my current career. It was fun working with people but so physically demanding. I can't imagine doing it now at almost this woman's age.
I attempted Amazon at age 61, with RA and high Bp because I couldn’t afford medication and it took me six months to get on Medicaid. Predictably, I couldn’t make the quotas. My knees, back, and shoulders gave out, along with my bladder and bowels. I can no longer work in my old profession from which I, along with a dozen others, all over 50, were illegally terminated and deprived of our retirements. I have no living family able or willing to help. I now squat with permission in a camp, live by bartering and small amounts of money. I’m also off grid, using this tablet via a pay as you go HotSpot off a car battery, or I use public WiFi. I don’t own any other internet device. I recently bought a TracPhone, the cheapest model, no internet, pay as you go. If I don’t have the money, you’ll need to write me by snail mail, general delivery, or come physically. I keep pretty much below the radar.
I never had kids or married, and took care of both parents until they passed. So if God wants me, He can take me any time. There’s nobody who’s going to suffer or be put in debt. It looks like my life will match my favorite poem, Ode on Solitude, by Alexander Pope.
I took a beating over the years physically and mentally. Legs feet wrists. Regret ever getting into the restaurant business
You sound like a sweetheart, what kind of camp? Greetings from 🇮🇪.
@@patrickglennon7058 It’s a lean-to made into a small cabin by adding a wall with door across the front. It was used in the early 2000’s for a hunting camp by my ex-bro-in-law. It has a small wood stove for heat and cooking in winter, two fold-down beds and a fold down table. It’s very rural, set back in the woods on logging company land, so one is technically not supposed to live in it, but so far, so good. Nobody’s come to check.
@@mariekatherine5238 By Alexander Pope
Happy the man, whose wish and care
A few paternal acres bound,
Content to breathe his native air,
In his own ground.
Whose herds with milk, whose fields with bread,
Whose flocks supply him with attire,
Whose trees in summer yield him shade,
In winter fire.
Blest, who can unconcernedly find
Hours, days, and years slide soft away,
In health of body, peace of mind,
Quiet by day,
Sound sleep by night; study and ease,
Together mixed; sweet recreation;
And innocence, which most does please,
With meditation.
Thus let me live, unseen, unknown;
Thus unlamented let me die;
Steal from the world, and not a stone
Tell where I lie.
2013? I'm not sure if I feel better knowing this series was 10 years ago. I like watching these because it helps to keep things in perspective.
I was born into a family of performers, working from the age of 6 & not being paid, even though I worked 2 shows a day, went to school every day. I then worked in a restaurant for 5 years to get myself through school. Finally I was given a chance to work for a company in marketing. It's so hard for young people, but my dream is to own my own home, and find myself someone to be with.
That's why you ALWAYS have to be nice with people who work at restaurants. This is the hardest job in my opinion. Feel empathy and leave nice tips if you can. They just have their strength and you can make a huge difference in a hard day. Love to all of them ❤
Yes to this 100% I live with my parents and they paid for my nursing school and car so naturally when I graduated it is my duty to fend for myself. While I was reviewing for boards, I got a part time job being a sitter at nursing home and thurs-sun server. Wow, let me tell you how hardwork it is to be a server! I think I cried at one poiny when I was serving this Chinese couple and wife is side eye looking at me, I felt belittled! At the end, they gave 0.50 cents tip. Mind you the restaurant I serve is a mid-fancy one in downtown LA. It is heartbreaking. That is why I make it a point whenever we eat out even in fast food I give my biggest respect and righteous tip for them. It is very eye opening for me. I think if we could just be kind to each other and RESPECT ONE ANOTHER, our world will be much different.
Never thought much about minimum wage when I was young and full of energy. You really need to be happy at your job and love what you do. Always tip for good service or don’t go out.
Praying for all of you. God Bless all of you good hard-working folks!
Parents forcing their kids to take care of them because of their financial shortcumming is gross man
Im at $20/hr as a postal worker and cant even get a place on my own where I live, cost of living is wild.
Lol the realtor said, “it’s your house, no one can take it away from you.”
I work 2 week's and 3 week's free - that's the Denmark dream ! I take my hat off for those people . Respect!!
American here, I lived in Denmark in the 1980s. I wish the Danes would take over the world and show the USA how to create à better functioning society.
@@geoffoakland very interesting
@@geoffoakland I dont need no danes to take care of me.
This needs an update. This was filmed over 10 years ago
I imagine things have gotten worse, not for the better
Same stuff is happening buddy, it's still very relevant.
10 years later and our federal minimum wage is still $7.25 an hour. Which is also the cost of a dozen eggs.
When I started working, I made 6.25 hrs, then 7.25. I now make 35hr. For anyone going through this, I know how hard it is, and you can't see the light in the tunnel but just know you will endure and my prayers that you will have a plentiful life without the stress of financial hardship
Soft slavery = pay them enough to get by but not ahead..
especially given the wealth concentration it is now a caste system
They should work elsewhere for more money if they arent satisfied with their income. I heard many of them say that they love their jobs. Be willing to step outside your comfort zone to increase your salary. I do a job I mostly hate but it pays very well.