Ive lost almost all of my friends..

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  • @LucilleAndrea
    @LucilleAndrea 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1168

    It is better to have four quarters rather than a hundred pennies...

    • @SuperMcdonald2
      @SuperMcdonald2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      loveluci 84 I don't get it

    • @willsmears3142
      @willsmears3142 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      loveluci 84 how? It all equals a dollar

    • @Joesy015
      @Joesy015 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Quality over quantity is what she means for those who don't get it 😂 true, so true..... less is best you don't need to know everyone.

    • @bellaeclevia9443
      @bellaeclevia9443 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      But what if you only have ONE quarter and you lose your ONLY quarter?? Sometimes I'd rather have 25 pennies than one lost quarter so I won't be lonely :,(

    • @alien_bum
      @alien_bum 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Stoopid Sid i honestly wouldn't really care if i lost that one quarter obviously i lost it for a reason👽im not the type to really get attached tho i just view shit as everything happens for a reason so what happens happens i don't need people as long as i have myself and god👌

  • @veea4891
    @veea4891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    It's comforting to know that other people feel the same way.

    • @rcdodve6848
      @rcdodve6848 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      AmakaVOY IKR

    • @uptilhail3496
      @uptilhail3496 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      jk jk jk I know what you mean

  • @dakarkarma7632
    @dakarkarma7632 7 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Shit, this girl talk was too real bitch, the struggle is real

  • @masonbrown6885
    @masonbrown6885 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1482

    "The realist people don't have friends" -Tupac LOL

    • @venusstar1986
      @venusstar1986 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      exactly!!

    • @alyssabrown6877
      @alyssabrown6877 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mason Brown never thought of that. But true asf

    • @alexisfloyd3947
      @alexisfloyd3947 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      There's a difference between being real and rude

    • @iris7301
      @iris7301 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What was Jada then significant other?

    • @luciax1431
      @luciax1431 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss

  • @mariamwene1524
    @mariamwene1524 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1527

    Honestly guys my 'friends' are my classmates😭😂 Watch them disappear as soon as high school finishes...

    • @elsspi
      @elsspi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @bigvirgonrg
      @bigvirgonrg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Maria Mwene I'm 23 and let me tell you it's a real thing.

    • @mariamwene1524
      @mariamwene1524 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aaawh thank you💕

    • @JHNTR
      @JHNTR 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same college gotta be better

    • @Hazely9
      @Hazely9 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maria Mwene sammme

  • @queenspalace9582
    @queenspalace9582 7 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I'm a loner, but no one understands how ok I am with it. People always try to talk to me saying I "look lonely" like... bitch that's my face

    • @naynay9601
      @naynay9601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      People need to know sometimes it's good to be alone for awhile and rebuild yourself from all that negativity that broke you down

    • @kayleesamuel1120
      @kayleesamuel1120 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Golden Debris LITERALLY ME

  • @jamesthompson642
    @jamesthompson642 7 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    My mom says you don't have friends you just have people you hang with which I am starting to realize

    • @irishickson7311
      @irishickson7311 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      James Thompson trust me u can find friends, u need to look in the right places

    • @miajones9450
      @miajones9450 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      James Thompson That's true asf 🤘🏾

    • @vitaash3735
      @vitaash3735 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      James Thompson truest statement I could've ever been told

  • @fatukay1153
    @fatukay1153 7 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Hearing your voice crack and talk about you drifting apart from James in the future
    makes me so sad. I love you so much Nessa.

  • @badgalrere6265
    @badgalrere6265 7 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    New York🌃is 3 hours ahead of California,
    but that doesn't make California slow.
    Someone graduated at the age of 22,
    but waited 5 years securing a job.
    Someone became a CEO at 25,
    and died at 50.
    While another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years.
    Someone is still single,
    while someone else got married.
    Obama retired at 55,
    & Trump started at 70.
    Everyone in this world 🌎 works based on their time zone. People around you might seem ahead of you, and some might seem behind you.
    But everyone is running their own race. In their own time. Don't envy them. And do not mock them.
    They are still in their time zone, and you are in yours.
    Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.
    So relax.
    You're not late.
    You're not early.
    You're very much on time.
    💜💜💜

    • @liyahslair
      @liyahslair 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I love this!!!!

    • @majda6785
      @majda6785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      This comment is everything ! thanks for making my day Renah.
      Preach

    • @denisemonteiro1331
      @denisemonteiro1331 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Renah Pena So cool and so true

    • @marsmoon745
      @marsmoon745 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      this was beautiful lol

    • @SketchyLemonade
      @SketchyLemonade 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I really needed this tbh lol thanks for writing it

  • @kaylyn.mitchell
    @kaylyn.mitchell 7 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    I swear your best videos to me are your sit down and rant videos. nice seeing big youtubers be honest along with their regular, funny videos.

  • @mayamg5770
    @mayamg5770 7 ปีที่แล้ว +680

    I've never related so hard. A lot of my "friends" don't treat me like they're my friend. Constantly bringing you down, bringing your past up, do things that upsets you but do it regardless of your feelings. Those aren't friends, and you've really helped me with your advice and gave me courage/the tools to cut all the negativity out of my life. I love you so much Vanessa.

    • @emmajn_
      @emmajn_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maya Mercado-Garcia same

    • @brendamorris7043
      @brendamorris7043 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maya Mercado-Garcia i relate!!!! but the one friend that brings my past up and brings me down is my best friend of 10 years 😞

    • @desireechapa4470
      @desireechapa4470 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Brenda Castaneda Then you really shouldn't be friends with that person. They shouldn't be considered as your best friend. It's not good for you and you should try fixing the relation between the two of you or just finding a new best friend in general.

    • @issasierah8033
      @issasierah8033 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same, I can't tell them because I feel like they will go off on me and I honestly don't want to deal with that

    • @ririo8593
      @ririo8593 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maya Mercado-Garcia my friend would talk about my stretch marks and would always comment on the way I look and it's pure jealousy .. I am a very pretty person and I think a lot of people hate me because of it.

  • @jackrussell2380
    @jackrussell2380 7 ปีที่แล้ว +730

    Went into high school with no friends and am planning to graduate next summer with, you guessed it, MYSELF 😂😉

    • @kimberlymawi
      @kimberlymawi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ashly Major LMAOOOO same girl , came into high school without any friends and graduating in May myself

    • @suhwaiyeb
      @suhwaiyeb 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sameee

    • @brianaaaaaa
      @brianaaaaaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ashly Major yes yes that's my plan too

    • @ninal2098
      @ninal2098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same, literally sit at lunch by myself

    • @evababy28
      @evababy28 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME😒

  • @TROYCETV
    @TROYCETV 7 ปีที่แล้ว +870

    LA is just a toxic place...when i first started watching you ,you were in arizona ,down to earth and happier.i remember you wanted to move to LA so bad and know you truly lost yourself.Consider seeing a therapist

    • @moonlightmendes
      @moonlightmendes 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      TROYCETV heyyyy!!

    • @Candyyyyxooo
      @Candyyyyxooo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TROYCETV ily

    • @Ashley-kl9vj
      @Ashley-kl9vj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      this is so true, I always hear people talk about the people in LA that place really effects people

    • @joskenicole
      @joskenicole 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn Troyce you went in!

    • @glorndaa607
      @glorndaa607 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      this is true, i have noticed, to be honest.

  • @amiistar11
    @amiistar11 7 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    My mum has always told me the less friends you have the better.

    • @kwameburns7938
      @kwameburns7938 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amran Y same

    • @lastfebruary
      @lastfebruary 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Amran Y it's true. That's why I don't really have any friends. Except like 2

  • @miahaki2999
    @miahaki2999 7 ปีที่แล้ว +490

    LA can change people for the worst. I feel like LA has a curse on it with fame,Money,cars,big house. But then u see people with all those these so depressed behind the scenes. It honestly sucks

    • @HappyLittleSoulProd
      @HappyLittleSoulProd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Mia Haki it's not LA. It's just human beings always want to compete and LA happens to have a more wealthy stigma to compete with. It's not for the weak minded!

    • @lizmcdonald2120
      @lizmcdonald2120 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Mia Haki LA doesn't change people. Money does. LA doesn't have a curse, we just have some rich people here that think they are better than everyone else. No matter where you go there will be toxic people, you just got to find people who support you and have a positive influence in your life.

    • @claudiadaria3814
      @claudiadaria3814 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mia Haki i can NAME you a ton of people who are living in LA and are just fine..it's about how strong and not influencial you are not to let the bad things get to you

  • @jabriep813
    @jabriep813 7 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I really hate when people say they have no friends when they actually do have friends and I'm sitting here with no friends and I mean that literally. I have 13 people in my contacts and all of them are family members except 2 which are people who I am not friends with anymore. I am 13 and I haven't had ANYBODY in 1 whole year

    • @lolaadeniyi5599
      @lolaadeniyi5599 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SAME

    • @Dee1nOnly92
      @Dee1nOnly92 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      abrie avocado 1 whole year? thats nothing try not having friends for 8 whole years and im 25 . yea thats right, 8 years but you know what, in those 8 years i was able to discover myself which is something i had a hard to doing since my childhood. you may not know exactly what i mean but you have to experience and find out for yourself. i've realized what real friends are and its very hard to find them. but, the people who come in your life aren't always meant to stay there. so with that said, everyone who has ever been in your life was there for a reason and its all apart of the learning process. just be happy that your able to wake up everyday to live and enjoy your life in this beautiful world. before i end this message i want you to always remember your destiny is never meant to be tied to anyone who leaves you. if they walk out on you just let them, it only means their part in your story is over. take care my friend

    • @greenpenguin04
      @greenpenguin04 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      SpecialFX313 👏

    • @mayavisco5122
      @mayavisco5122 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      wow i literally only have three , mom , dad and one friend who i never talk to.

    • @OOoKarmaoOO
      @OOoKarmaoOO 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I can relate so much my social anxiety literally killed my social life I don't wanna be mean or anything but I can't stand people out there complaining like "I don't have friends" while they got two or three it's never enough until you lost it 😔

  • @chrislacey4435
    @chrislacey4435 7 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    My grandma always tells me you need to be able to count your friends in one hand

    • @sorayaoruyamd
      @sorayaoruyamd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      literally my motto!

    • @tamiadixon8312
      @tamiadixon8312 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMGCHRIS yup !!

    • @braelynewing9066
      @braelynewing9066 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's 100% correct 👏🏾👏🏾 My mom says the same thing

    • @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa333
      @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa333 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMGCHRIS So true 👏🏽🖐🏽

  • @manuelriojas
    @manuelriojas 7 ปีที่แล้ว +702

    "Cause everything is okay right here" why is this never true :(

    • @manuelriojas
      @manuelriojas 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Savanna wtf follow me lol

    • @autumnmacica3134
      @autumnmacica3134 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think TH-cam is good therapy for her

    • @manuelriojas
      @manuelriojas 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jessissa I know that lol

    • @cl0utg0ggles54
      @cl0utg0ggles54 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nessa explain

    • @nayo8151
      @nayo8151 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      MANXUEL ok someone already said this we get itt😒

  • @madisondennis8320
    @madisondennis8320 7 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I actually relate so hard to this item actually crying.

    • @sarax4966
      @sarax4966 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madison Dennis samee

  • @thesupermuse
    @thesupermuse 7 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Girl let's hang out and let me hug you! I know it can be extremely difficult making friends out here since so many people care about things that aren't important in life, but I'm not letting anyone take the southern girl out of me. Always here for you if you wanna talk/hang/whatever! Sending happiness and prayers your way! xx

  • @violetrenae
    @violetrenae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    the real sad thing about all of this is so many people can relate and know exactly how this feels.

  • @meganzzz6223
    @meganzzz6223 7 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I feel like Vannesa is an older sister to me because she always gives great advice and keeps my mindset on a different level.
    Stay strong 💕love ya ✊🏾

  • @monicajimenez240
    @monicajimenez240 7 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Ever since I was a kid, I struggled with getting and keeping friends. It's still a problem for me now. I'm 22 years old now, I've graduated from college and I have 0 friends! I just long for meaningful friendships with people and I'm tired of meeting people and just growing apart. All I want is a few really good friends who I can talk to about anything. I'm tired of just keeping to myself all the time.

    • @EssenceEtienne
      @EssenceEtienne 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Moni Alicia same!!

    • @viannaaaful
      @viannaaaful 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Monica Jimenez aww Monica! Saaame! I’ll be your friend 💁🏻‍♀️✨

    • @PO-co7qy
      @PO-co7qy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      we can be friends

    • @FadwaElkhyari
      @FadwaElkhyari ปีที่แล้ว

      same lol

  • @rosinemcminnis6499
    @rosinemcminnis6499 7 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    who here now just wishes they could be Nessa's friend??

    • @Vicky-fi3yr
      @Vicky-fi3yr 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rosine McMinnis me :,)

    • @cassie5096
      @cassie5096 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rosine McMinnis Girl we are nessas friends honestly feels like I know her personally I love these videos

    • @rosinemcminnis6499
      @rosinemcminnis6499 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah :)

    • @bbyeauty6876
      @bbyeauty6876 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      MEEEEE

    • @yumik8838
      @yumik8838 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me

  • @nellef2872
    @nellef2872 7 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I'm happy you come on here and vent. Most youtubers pretend to always be happy because they don't want people to judge them. You don't give af And I SUPPORT IT

    • @chanamiriam8923
      @chanamiriam8923 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      shinelle ferron NESSA is my favorite for this and how we're similar 😘

  • @kittyvsgymmeow8113
    @kittyvsgymmeow8113 7 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Girly to be honest I personally only have 1 friend no joke. I have gotten fucked over by a lot of people and I just stay to myself because not a lot of people understand what I go threw I have depression and anxiety. Girl I'll be your friend I think your such a beautiful woman in the inside and out.

  • @shayt4398
    @shayt4398 7 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Don't worry girl. You are not alone. I, myself, suck in friendships. Most of my friends aren't even inviting me to hang out with them. I just randomly see them together on snapchat or on Instagram. They don't bother text me to know if I am well or anything. They don't try to reach me to hang out or anything. I feel like I have to force myself to text them first because they won't do it. Whenever they say they will be doing a group phone call, I am the one who isn't in the group call. They always left me out. It isn't like I have a fight with anyone or that I am mean. I'm far from being that. I haven't spend ONE HOUR with them since summer started. That's how it is. I'm not calling them friends anymore. They are acquaintances to me now.
    I only have few persons that I am cool with. But, it sucks that I cannot say that I got a friend where I feel like a sister to. I thought that something was wrong with me. I still feel that way... I don't know why it seems like I can't have real friends with who I can feel truthfully loved. I'm a very Introverted girl. I've spend most of my summer inside in my room. I only went out to go to church or if my mom is going out.
    I feel like we could be awesome friends but, I am from Canada 😩

    • @amanda2092
      @amanda2092 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      heyshaay Canadian gang 😂😭❤️🤘🏽

    • @carlzisabear01
      @carlzisabear01 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      heyshaay I relate to this so hard!

    • @h6501.
      @h6501. 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Literally in the same position rn... it's sucks cause those were my friends for three years.

    • @aleeal3491
      @aleeal3491 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      heyshaay same here my friends don't even bother to text me and I fell lonely but I'm happy to hangout with my cousins and family but keep your head up

    • @hollycope427
      @hollycope427 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I relate to this soo much literally my situation is exactly the same

  • @NattieHewitt
    @NattieHewitt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I relate to the 'friends' putting you down thing. I had a friend who had been my friend for years but she made me feel so bad about myself. Since I got out of that situation I've been able to start feeling better about myself

  • @angiewilkes853
    @angiewilkes853 7 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Listen I know this probably isn't gonna make a difference because my opinion usually doesn't matter anyways but here it goes...i was at a very low point in my life about a year ago... I had no friends, i had an eating disorder, and I was questioning weather or not I really wanted to live this life . I was being bullied and picked on. But at 3:00 every day I would go home after being in my own literal hell sit on my bed and watch your videos! It was like for one minute the whole world just paused and I wasn't in my life anymore. Your storytimes/vlogs we're what kept me going... they were not only relatible but they are also REAL and honestly Vanessa I almost want to say your my best friend even though you have no idea that I even exist. You are an amazing person! You made my life better and some how through your videos you made me understand that I am going to be okay. And I want to thank you for that Vanessa the point is keep doing what your doing! You help so many people through your videos! A year later I am like a new person! You changed my life Vanessa. And I love you for that! Stay strong bbg😋💞

    • @monicaspreference444
      @monicaspreference444 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So me. She's really helped me by talking about these sorts of topics. Truly.

    • @babymummah
      @babymummah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for not giving up x you are worth it and you deserve to be here. X you're here for a reason. X stay blessed 😚

    • @_azerty9576
      @_azerty9576 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Monica Prattis nj

  • @ChimdiMelody
    @ChimdiMelody 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1025

    I know this is opposite of the main point But VANESSA'S IN COLLEGE?😏okay you go on and stack those degrees babe👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @sineadpereira8035
      @sineadpereira8035 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Melody Chimdi 😄

    • @ryley338
      @ryley338 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Shes made videos when she was at college

    • @mollymcbride1942
      @mollymcbride1942 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Melody Chimdi OMG U KNIW WAT NESSA WOULS LOOOOVE
      getting a bird:
      Their minogomis (so it's like being married and they'll always love u)
      Their hillarious (easy to loooove)
      I got bored writing this, I'm gonna go play with my Bird, Echo
      PS, LOOOOVE U NESSA HOPE U GET THROUGH EVERYTHING AND COME OUT ON TOP

    • @lxcelyy9655
      @lxcelyy9655 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is random af😂lmao

    • @creativityandkatie
      @creativityandkatie 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Melody Chimdi I

  • @nt1660
    @nt1660 7 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Rickey really bullied nessa with Maggie just to try and stay relevant by putting his head up Maggie's ass, you ain't gonna find no career up there💀

    • @Angelchick4life
      @Angelchick4life 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      nathan taylor what were they fighting about?

    • @sh-cf2yy
      @sh-cf2yy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      nathan taylor tell me what happend plzzz. i don't understand

    • @nora4542
      @nora4542 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      nathan taylor how do you know all of this ?

    • @nt1660
      @nt1660 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      nora a. look at shadebreakdown on insta

  • @kittykaci
    @kittykaci 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    "i wish didnt want to grow up so fast because now that im here i dont wanna be here" i just turned 18 ive wanted to be 18 for years and now that in finally here thats exactly how im feeling even though i know theres alot more ahead of me

  • @lessly2944
    @lessly2944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    I'm 19, I only have 2 internet friends no irl friends just my little sister and my dog, at first when they all left me behind I thought it feels nice to be alone but after a while I just got extremely lonely and now all I want is friends irl but there's no one. I started a job just to see if maybe I can get a friend but they all already have someone. Whenever I do meet someone they would claim "yeah I have zero friends" I would think wow I could be this persons friend I could be the one and they could be mine and we will be besties but then my hopes go out the window as I see them having fun with their friends and they don't really wanna be my friend. It hurts when someone says I have zero friends when here I am with literally no one, not one fckn person. It's sad. Nessa is literally one of the youtubers who I just feel connected to and feel much better about myself when watching, she's only as strong as she can be and to see her this way only makes me wish more like damn I really wish we could be real life friends.

    • @asmaj.h6042
      @asmaj.h6042 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Casper Berry I hate it when people joke about having no friends. Its so inconsiderate considering people actually are friendless.

    • @luvablememeisback
      @luvablememeisback 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Casper Berry aw, it's okay ! People who deserve to be in your life will come to you. I hate it too when ppl claim to have no friends and then you kinda get third wheeled 😓. Distract yourself with something to better you, like a skill or spirituality 😘

    • @__mcat
      @__mcat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      can. relate. :~) i'm also awkward in person so that helps nobody lol

    • @lessly2944
      @lessly2944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      jacobsuperfan I agree and it's always these people that I seem to get... but i guess it teaches me to immediately just avoid them right after. They always end up being toxic anyways~

    • @lessly2944
      @lessly2944 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amorié Smith heck no am I gonna be third wheeling I just back off at that point 😂💔
      Ye I try to distract myself but sometimes being lonely strikes me but I try to not let the negativity get me down 👌

  • @Camiliaschannels
    @Camiliaschannels 7 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I have lost all my friends this year; after high school, I've just had the worst year of my life and just had a depression phase. I am trying to change myself to do better in my life. Same, when I am friends with someone I give everything to them, and that's a problem because for me you are a acointence or a BFF there's no in between, and I know that is not healthy but I can't manage to build frienships that are not super strong and I end up getting hurt. Feel you girl.

    • @rcj.queenie7122
      @rcj.queenie7122 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Camiliaschannels I had the same situation but opposite phase, worst year of depression, worst year of my life at the same time, then I lost all my friends. They were toxic and adding to my depression. I'm much much happier, I don't feel weighed down. I'm the happiest I've ever been. Sometimes losing friends is a good thing.

    • @colebe9427
      @colebe9427 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Camiliaschannels you're beautiful ! Omg ! Yass queen

    • @AmoreAmoraa00
      @AmoreAmoraa00 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Camiliaschannels same me too

    • @lisao6124
      @lisao6124 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Camiliaschannels me too,girl. I lost all my friends. one of them used me ,one of them talked shit about me behind my back, and my bff/girlfriend broke things off with me because I wasnt trying. but, it's called not giving up. right now, I'm doing better. things will get better

    • @Floatinserenity
      @Floatinserenity 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Camiliaschannels I'm going through the same thing !!!!! And even if I don't know you. I honestly support your come up. You deserve great things !!

  • @alexn1780
    @alexn1780 7 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    I literally have no friends lmao I managed to lose them all too, but who needs friends when you got a big ass family with lots of cousins you're age, it's all good lmao 💁🏽‍♂️

    • @kaitgeorge-blay5537
      @kaitgeorge-blay5537 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Sometimes, cousins are the best kind of friends you can have

    • @FearRKO
      @FearRKO 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Some people like me don't have a lot of cousins and the ones I do have, we are like all different age groups and we have never connected.

    • @kaitgeorge-blay5537
      @kaitgeorge-blay5537 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +FearRKO I honestly don't talk to any of my cousins except one, and that's only at family events really so I get it :(

    • @rashida1270
      @rashida1270 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      hell to the yes

    • @melanch0licgf
      @melanch0licgf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Alex Navarro lmao can't relate. my cousins are all older than me, because my parents decided to have another kid at an old age. but the only cousin i do have that's my age, is really bad.

  • @NativeWinks
    @NativeWinks 7 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Why are you not traveling and seeing the world or trying to find yourself instead of just being home in one small space?? You have the coins to see everything before you die!! Do something great and you're worried about friends... no one has friends!!! You come in this world alone and leave alone.

    • @jenninagraham1044
      @jenninagraham1044 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      D VW tuff love is the best love

    • @aylakant5983
      @aylakant5983 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      D VW money

    • @dalalj1672
      @dalalj1672 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      D VW this is sad lmao

    • @sotarnue
      @sotarnue 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      D VW after that car she bought, sister went broke. My advice for her to get more coins is continue being in drama

    • @greenpenguin04
      @greenpenguin04 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sotarnue 😕

  • @the3amigas388
    @the3amigas388 7 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I have never wanting to go through a phone and give someone a hug sooo bad😭😭like I understand this feeling so much Nessa and its ok Just remember its ok because God will be the one who is there and the one to help you back up when you fall and God will help you find a good supportive friend someday

  • @Cherry03.
    @Cherry03. 7 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    my parents always told me nobody has friends they're classmates and it's tru they come and go :(((

    • @neverenoughbizzle7783
      @neverenoughbizzle7783 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      cherrymua acquaintances is probably what they meant not classmates

  • @talia841951
    @talia841951 7 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Vanessa I live half way across the world and I just wanna hug you so bad right now. I wish I could be your friend. I also suffer from major depression and anxiety. I'm not bipolar but I have suicidal tendencies. I feel like I can relate so much to what you're going through and I want you to know I watch your videos every day and I love and admire you. You're beautiful inside and out. I know it's easier said than done, but try to think of those five people, even one person in your life who knows you for who you really are and love you. Hold on to that and stay strong, because you are strong.

    • @talia841951
      @talia841951 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      3> I have one friend. My best friend. And she is everything. We've been friends since we were 12 and we're 31 now. She knows me better than anyone. We've been through so much together. I don't need any other friends.

    • @Beesnees100
      @Beesnees100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      talia841951 you got this my dude. i can already tell you're hella strong and you're pretty amazing and i don't even really know you

    • @amanda2092
      @amanda2092 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everything happens for a reason❤️ dw you'll be okay 💪🏽

  • @lulumaja1934
    @lulumaja1934 7 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    people will only love and support u when its beneficial

  • @Poutyland
    @Poutyland 7 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    My mom always tells me there's no such thing as friends and she's 101% right

    • @Poutyland
      @Poutyland 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Nobody Knows exactly! The only person that will always be by your side till the day you die is you and God. We come in this world alone and we leave it alone by the grace of God. No person is ever worth your happiness, time, health, NOTHING! Don't waste your time on people you might leave any day at anytime in your life, it's pointless.

    • @xxxKIKIxxxLOLxxx
      @xxxKIKIxxxLOLxxx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God doesn't exist

    • @krissyy3805
      @krissyy3805 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Chiara Orindi yes he does

    • @meowi5328
      @meowi5328 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Radwaa Your momma is right

    • @Ck-jp3sr
      @Ck-jp3sr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Chiara Orindi maybe to you he doesn't but to others he does, don't act like what you say is a fact bc everyone thinks differently, dumbass

  • @kailynbearce8742
    @kailynbearce8742 7 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    i had two best friends, and then when summer came, they dumped me. OVER TEXT!!! i was so upset and thought i was an awful person. but i'm not. i'm amazing and if they don't like it, then that fucking sucks. so now i'm left with like a few random friends. but i literally have the worst luck at friendships. i'll just be friends with my mom :)

    • @Max-rr8oh
      @Max-rr8oh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Kailyn Bearce thats worse than a breakup. I 💙 your attitude about the whole situtation tho

    • @lemonlimelizzy3573
      @lemonlimelizzy3573 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      dude , shut up...

    • @kailynbearce8742
      @kailynbearce8742 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ronnievan they said they were pretending to be my friends for months. there's no excuse for that. and we should've talked it out in person, texting is not that way to end a friendship

  • @talissa
    @talissa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +623

    Never seen such a relatable title 💔💔

    • @BethanyWilhelm
      @BethanyWilhelm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      talissa q girl me too😂

    • @zieramae
      @zieramae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      talissa q fr😂😢

    • @kamiiu
      @kamiiu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      talissa q Samee

    • @melenyrobles9528
      @melenyrobles9528 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      talissa q same girl samee😂💁

    • @Savannah-mi1gm
      @Savannah-mi1gm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      talissa q Same

  • @ec2951
    @ec2951 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I don't think I can relate to anyone in this world more than you ...I thought I was the only one that has no friends I give my all to my friends and never even get 20% back and u feel like it's your fault but it's not you it's them some people don't have the same heart as you ❤️this video made me feel like I have a friend lol so relatable 🙌🏻

  • @holabebe7930
    @holabebe7930 7 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    God has a plan for you and if you doesn't want those toxic people in your life, he'll replace them. I love you and we are all here for you

  • @koatwaakiui7967
    @koatwaakiui7967 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i used to not like you, but seeing this really genuine side of you helps me relate. like, i'm so sorry you're having to go through this, SO sorry :( i hope you can find the right people for your life and that you can get help to be happy again.

  • @cocochinelo
    @cocochinelo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    DONT WORRY NESSA, THEY ARE JUST JEALOUS THAT YOURE SERVING LOOKS IN EVERY SINGLE VIDEO!

  • @Tt-wz8pz
    @Tt-wz8pz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I relate to this on a soul level wtf is a friend tbh

    • @tixxi10
      @tixxi10 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Guuurl👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @ernie_renee
      @ernie_renee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      me af

    • @naanajb
      @naanajb 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      same tho

  • @ririo8593
    @ririo8593 7 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    My mom told me all you have is your family nobody else cares the older you get the more you realize there's no such thing as friends and it's true

    • @naomiolutayo
      @naomiolutayo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Riri O thats only true for some people. my family hates me

    • @hollyrowe6206
      @hollyrowe6206 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nomi Somi same here boo

    • @emmanuelaakwar9762
      @emmanuelaakwar9762 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Id have to disagree. I think friends are people you can feel comfortable around. I highly doubt the older i get the less comfortable and happy ill feel around people. I think it depends on what you consider friends tbh.

    • @ririo8593
      @ririo8593 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bakesterbaker very true and you'll realize how old are you 16 and in high school shut your naive ass up

    • @ririo8593
      @ririo8593 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bakesterbaker actually you look twelve u just saying that cause u don't want it to be true but trust me friends don't really care

  • @ijkiyatv4172
    @ijkiyatv4172 7 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    i feel like James is there to stay ! not going anywhere

  • @ItsAngeloDavid
    @ItsAngeloDavid 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I see a lot of comments saying "oh hang out with this person" but it's definitely not that easy. Making friends takes time and a certain trust, and I can only image it's harder in LA. Growing up sucks which is something I've only started to learn at age 15. It's taken a tole on me emotionally/mentally. What your going through is not easy, and it is okay to feel sad. I just attended a private school and what you were talking about with friends making rude comments behind your back is one of the reasons I'm leaving private school. Take the time to be happy with being by yourself, and then put others second. Definitely reach out to your Arizona friends little by little. It will good to see them. Love you. Hopefully this helped ❤️

  • @purdiedominique
    @purdiedominique 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    yeah LA is toxic and solely hanging out with TH-camrs is not the move. Most of them plaster a certain lifestyle on social media but they are someone completely different. Love you nessa and hope everything works out ❤

  • @__mcat
    @__mcat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    it IS pathetic and ridiculous how quickly you can be friends with someone one day and not be friends the next. no one knows the meaning of loyalty anymore. and it's even harder with a mental illness when there are days you'll be off.
    my last 5 "best friends" have either dumped me for a dumb reason or fucked me over/didn't think my friendship was worth it in the end. i can barely bring myself to make new friends these days. people suck. /:

  • @AngelCaz7
    @AngelCaz7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    going into junior year with no friends 😚 gang gang, have a high asd GPA tho so idc 🅱️

    • @JadedTrace
      @JadedTrace 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IamMichelleCastillo SAME

    • @fatukay1153
      @fatukay1153 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME

    • @monaemson4899
      @monaemson4899 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      IamMichelleCastillo I'm trying to do that aswell..get rid of all of my "friends" and people who are just not good for me and focus on school and my mental health! 😁👍

    • @aminaali6825
      @aminaali6825 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      IamMichelleCastillo best thing ever you're winning

    • @rachealladega1768
      @rachealladega1768 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only thing that matters in the long run

  • @tinkpink196
    @tinkpink196 7 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    i feel like she is talking about denzel rickey and maggie lindeman lol cause that her crew. glad to see nessa is a real person and LA couldnt change her. i love how true to herself she is

    • @faitholas9200
      @faitholas9200 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      its just rickey and maggie apparently :(

    • @dietsoda1322
      @dietsoda1322 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Faith Olas how do you know? Sorry don't really keep up with nessa often lol

    • @faitholas9200
      @faitholas9200 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      go to shadebreakdown on Instagram you can find out some info there

    • @kennethiahunter1397
      @kennethiahunter1397 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alana F yes

    • @trippyhipster5
      @trippyhipster5 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't think its denzel bc his sister is down there with him and he hasn't seen her in a awhile so I sure his spending time with her

  • @mariaggrace2504
    @mariaggrace2504 7 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    when we seek god the devil tries too hard to ruin our happiness but you got to pray harder and not let the devil win! ill be praying for you nessa

    • @alizza5594
      @alizza5594 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      mariaggrace PREACH 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @melissaagain
      @melissaagain 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this is something i needed to read right now, thank you for posting this.

  • @Hottbeautychick6101
    @Hottbeautychick6101 7 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    Starting junior year off with no friends :( i feel you

    • @SweetKindMe99
      @SweetKindMe99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @hasmigk6715
      @hasmigk6715 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sunshine me because all my friends are moving

    • @pepperspray280
      @pepperspray280 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hasmig K same

    • @lauraleec5664
      @lauraleec5664 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same!

    • @martinam.8010
      @martinam.8010 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same but im a sophomore!! Damn we some lonely people 😂

  • @SweetKindMe99
    @SweetKindMe99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    i know how you feel i felt that my 10th grade year i had no classes or lunch with none of my friends and i have alittle social anxiety so i would never make friends, i was so depressed and sad i try to hold my tears back every day for 8 hours at school, now my friends i depended on forgot about me and everyone i knew coming in high school it’s not the same. I start the 11th grade year tomorrow and this time i understand that i need to meet new ppl and not depend on ppl to stay there for you and resume your relationship with them, It’s OKAY TO BE INDEPENDENT

  • @Ronelle__
    @Ronelle__ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    This video is 30 minutes , she posted it 20 ago and y'all already have paragraphs typed out

  • @chezabowers8782
    @chezabowers8782 7 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    i feel like this is something i struggle with just because iam so nice to people, and when i make a friend i really go out of my way but i notice a lot of people won't do the same i feel like i'm weird for being so nice, people feel like they can walk all over me because of it idk what to do i get don't why i can't meet someone who i can have a amazing friendship with

    • @gracepark8455
      @gracepark8455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      cheza Bowers i relate 10000% :,(

    • @lolaadeniyi5599
      @lolaadeniyi5599 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same I'm struggling so much

    • @lauradove
      @lauradove 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me in a nutshell.

    • @shayily2553
      @shayily2553 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Literally me im always trying to be nice and have fun with people and im intentionally trying to love them and have great relationships and all i get is being used having people walk all over me and treated like shitt

    • @PinkyIbeoOWelcomeOo
      @PinkyIbeoOWelcomeOo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cheza Bowers i relate af

  • @hamsterlover350
    @hamsterlover350 7 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    That's why imma have 5 cats . Theyll never betray you

    • @kaykaysv-logs4678
      @kaykaysv-logs4678 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haley_isnt_cool hahaha 😅

    • @julieann4538
      @julieann4538 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      haley_isnt_cool I'll have 5 dogs, cats simply don't give a fuck, they chill

    • @mia11.
      @mia11. 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      haley_isnt_cool same but with 10 dogs or more

    • @silentnoise1891
      @silentnoise1891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      but they CAN disappear for 2 years for no reason so I'll only have 1 cat and like 6 dogs lmaoo

    • @ch4loe
      @ch4loe 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually have 5 cats and one friend and I never felt happier

  • @skinnyism9779
    @skinnyism9779 7 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Honestly I just turned 15 and I'm so scared of growing older like... I dont even know what im going to do in university i dont know what im gonna do and Omggg its so scary and i rrly dont want to grow up i wish i could timetravel and stay 1-15 yrs old the whole time

    • @happyhippie2123
      @happyhippie2123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yves Inosa I'm turning 18 In a month and I'm terrified as fuck

    • @skinnyism9779
      @skinnyism9779 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omggg D: My sister turned 18 today but shes so ready lmao

    • @Joleinvideos
      @Joleinvideos 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yves Inosa I'm 15 as well but I can't fucking waaiitt go grow up & be older :)

    • @bananabunni2014
      @bananabunni2014 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yves Inosa girllll don't sweat it. You'll go through things that aren't super cute as you grow older but I can honestly my life is better now going into my first year of college than it was at 15. It'll be scary but also super duper exciting!!!
      Don't worry, you got this💕

    • @chungleandthebims167
      @chungleandthebims167 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yves Inosa Literally calm down you should be thinking about this at 17 when you're about to go to college. You're like a freshman or sophomore. You do not have such a climb until the top.

  • @JulissaR
    @JulissaR 7 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    its okay, i moved about a month ago from my home state and i have no friends anymore so i get you... i gotta wait till school starts and who knows how this is gonna turn out blegh

    • @dewylilac
      @dewylilac 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @egyptamari2667
      @egyptamari2667 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Julissa J. Same i moved alot this year and i moved 2nd time this year and have to wait to make all new friends

  • @bianca44bianca
    @bianca44bianca 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    When you said that negative things started happening once you opened your heart back up to God,that is literally the devil.He sees that you are doing good and tries to attack you and bring you back down with what he thinks is your weakness,he wants you to fail and suffer like he is. Sometimes he will even use the people around you.don't let it affect your faith and let you fall into another depression.i too struggle with depression and that's how he will try to get to us.This is all a trial, and God believes that his people is strong enough to resist

  • @isabellabailey1220
    @isabellabailey1220 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love these videos, talking about all of the things that your going through really has helped me. Just hearing someone talking about the bad things. Instead of just pretending to be happy and saying that everything is great and wonderful. It helps because like you said everything is not always gonna be fine (especially when you're growing up). Please keep making these...and remember we are always here for you. ❤️

  • @solayer3872
    @solayer3872 7 ปีที่แล้ว +597

    Sometimes you only need 1 or 2 friends 😂😂😍😳

    • @JHNTR
      @JHNTR 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      s.olaye olaye tbh

    • @Lowwski
      @Lowwski 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      s.olaye olaye truth

    • @chickensalad5591
      @chickensalad5591 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      s.olaye olaye true tho

    • @DancingKitkat13
      @DancingKitkat13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      s.olaye olaye truth and since I left high school I have learned with friends is quality over quantity I rather have one true best friend then 50 friends who do not care about me

    • @ncmarka
      @ncmarka 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      s.olaye olaye keep the true friends

  • @alexisgiselle
    @alexisgiselle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    I wish i could be real friends with nessa.. on some real shtt..i can relate with her so much man..

    • @mayaelizabeth3325
      @mayaelizabeth3325 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Giselle A literally same

    • @fufu2148
      @fufu2148 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Giselle A lmao don't we all hon

    • @eddiekins
      @eddiekins 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Giselle A girl same!!

    • @showtipper1
      @showtipper1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Giselle A right? Like girl I'll show you what a real friend is.

    • @RociGarcia72
      @RociGarcia72 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

  • @laiba2565
    @laiba2565 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I feel so bad for Nessa, she deserves the world. She genuinely cares about people, I just want to give her a big ass hug.
    I love you so fucking much Vanessa.

    • @crescentartdesigns
      @crescentartdesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A few influencers left L.A. due to crappy friends screwing them over...

  • @tierra8715
    @tierra8715 7 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    Damn, I kind of wish we could be friends. But, we can't. You're a famous TH-camr in California, and I'm just an antisocial subscriber on the other side of the country.
    And it would probably seem like I'm friends with you for your money, or fame, or something.
    Man that sucks ass.

    • @KaraMilano
      @KaraMilano 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Tierra thats the sad part about actually genuinely feeling like you could connect and be great friends with a youtuber .. u cant 😫

    • @KaraMilano
      @KaraMilano 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sierra Hunting aww thank you so much 😫😫❤️❤️❤️

    • @Smwhereasleeprn
      @Smwhereasleeprn 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tierra same

    • @xmarianovax6459
      @xmarianovax6459 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same 😭

    • @mynamedoesntmatterr
      @mynamedoesntmatterr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameee

  • @23hr6
    @23hr6 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    tbh all you need is family, friends are just the crust to your pizza, you could enjoy life w/o them, especially if theyre toxic to you!

    • @WolfJulia2001
      @WolfJulia2001 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nadia Zaem the crust is so good tho

  • @beccaxx3492
    @beccaxx3492 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Nessa if they are being horrible to you or about you then they are not friends and you don't need them in your life putting you down they don't deserve you as a friend

  • @melissasaintecatherine4183
    @melissasaintecatherine4183 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "Summer Friend's don't stay"
    Chance spoke the truth.

  • @Jadakamoriii
    @Jadakamoriii 7 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    how you lose your friends when you still have us here , you have over 1 MILLION FRIENDS ! girl bye love you tho 😛

  • @tomomo285
    @tomomo285 7 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    The theme song is ironic because everything isn't okay; it's never okay in Nessa's life.

    • @AmoreAmoraa00
      @AmoreAmoraa00 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Kanani Kingsley But shes still here and trying

    • @chanuyu
      @chanuyu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kanani Kingsley :3

    • @macy8857
      @macy8857 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      but everything's okay right here

    • @ohstassie3014
      @ohstassie3014 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kanani Kingsley i noticed that too

    • @althearose9563
      @althearose9563 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm irrelevant as fuck but yOONGI

  • @luv2796
    @luv2796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    When I saw the title I was like no you didn't u still have us 😊

  • @akakurapico
    @akakurapico 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    You could not have chosen a better time to post this. Thank you, this really helped me. ❤️

  • @hiboahmed8876
    @hiboahmed8876 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Girl you are me ..we're the same age and I barely go anywhere because I currently have like no friends and invested so much into the few friends I had...now were not even close. And I would let them treat me some kind of way too...ugh. I guess we live and learn and everything is suppose to happen the way it does. Wish we could all hangout and be friends🌻hopefully will find better true friends who are like us💕

  • @bunny_god
    @bunny_god 7 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    Just be glad you ain't friends with people who's city is England.

    • @moanam1097
      @moanam1097 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      HAH you re so right

    • @idfk3015
      @idfk3015 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @jasonkelly2173
      @jasonkelly2173 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't you mean "in England"? 😂😂😂😂

    • @zeft2817
      @zeft2817 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      +Lmao Vag the person isn't trying to insult England lmao it's a joke about Jake Paul

    • @sumayafarah6856
      @sumayafarah6856 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao Vag they are talking about "team 10"

  • @fatoudiamondparis1460
    @fatoudiamondparis1460 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    She hasn't lost all her friends we got her back love u

  • @marid6794
    @marid6794 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl:( How bad I wish I could hug you right now:(( I'm in a very similar situation and really do understand youuu..You have to keep in mind that it'll get better no matter what and that there are people out there that you haven't even met yet, that would loveeee to have you as their friend! All these bad and negative phases that you've been through only sharpen you as a person, which is all a part of growing up and growing as a person. God has a plan for each of us and the time will come, where you will finally be happy. Don't let ANYONE bring you down, because you are a creative, tough, inspiring and badasss person that has so much to offer to the world!!!!!💜 Lots of love from Europe💞

  • @taliyahsmith1627
    @taliyahsmith1627 7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I feel you though. No one wants to be lonely...😔

  • @TanyaJimenez
    @TanyaJimenez 7 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    Bitch me too the fuck *sips arizona tea*

    • @deventhomas21
      @deventhomas21 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tanya jimenez 😄😊☕🍵

    • @zoeyjones7496
      @zoeyjones7496 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tanya jimenez tea🐘🐘

    • @CG-hb4rp
      @CG-hb4rp 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yassss Arizona tea

    • @Alecexo
      @Alecexo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      snapple only >_>

    • @kristal4242
      @kristal4242 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm just gonna sit here and sip my apple juice since it's all I have rn

  • @cesar6633
    @cesar6633 7 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Just look at lohanthony he lost all of his social media friends and he's happy now it'll get better nessa 💋

  • @brandyherrera3539
    @brandyherrera3539 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg this was me yesterday! It really does suck when you overthink everything! Everyone struggles. Its always the best thing is to cut out the negativity! Wake up, read a positive quote. Have positve friends around! Positive vibes, and have positive outcome in life! Love you so much nessa! Keep your head up girl!

  • @sani5145
    @sani5145 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1166

    Who else would love to be friends with nessa 💕💕✋🏽✋🏽

    • @naomimay809
      @naomimay809 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤘

    • @oliviaagbaraji6944
      @oliviaagbaraji6944 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      me

    • @sabina2354
      @sabina2354 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Summer Time omggg meee

    • @chantel6920
      @chantel6920 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Summer Time its meh bitch - R.I.P Twaimz 2016

    • @Cherry03.
      @Cherry03. 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Summer Time omgggg meeee!!!!

  • @angieeg7010
    @angieeg7010 7 ปีที่แล้ว +534

    Nessa doesnt realize she has 1M friends❤😂😂

    • @jenaemcinnes8599
      @jenaemcinnes8599 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Angiee G but it's different of course she loves us because we support her but friendships are different

    • @cindyalmazan7445
      @cindyalmazan7445 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Angiee G almost 2mill

    • @dominosliaaa
      @dominosliaaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Angiee G ikr 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @idalyc7306
      @idalyc7306 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Angiee G sooooo fucking true

    • @jessicamontero541
      @jessicamontero541 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Angiee G its different she needs a real relationship with someone not.behind a screen true we all love her and look forward to what she does and has to say. She needs a person who genuinely knows her not her on social medias. Like if she didn't post this video then we would.think she was just fine she needs someone on a personal level

  • @faith.oviawe
    @faith.oviawe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Just realized that it's the end of July 😭 *Please* continue with daily uploading! I love it so much ❤

  • @elizabethpringle8935
    @elizabethpringle8935 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Vanessa can you help...how do you deal with not having friends and being lonely all the time. Can everyone please like this so she can see it

  • @bleachfort6867
    @bleachfort6867 7 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    REMEMBER GOD IS GETTING RID OF PEOPLE SO NEW AND BETTER PEOPLE CAN COME UNTIL YOUR LIFE

    • @channel-pn8db
      @channel-pn8db 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hailey Marie OMG you just blew my mind! Your so right!

  • @mikkiprice5138
    @mikkiprice5138 7 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    highkey wanna be your friend :( you deserve the world

  • @9uncan
    @9uncan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Nessa Ur Subscribers Are Ur Friends We All Love U For Being Such A Beautiful And Creative Human xx

  • @presto128
    @presto128 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Prob why Teala stopped talking to Rickey and Maggie a while back...they've probably always been this messy

  • @caramelqueengaming3601
    @caramelqueengaming3601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That's happens, it's life.
    If you get married and have kids while your friends aren't, you'll lose them all.
    My experience.

  • @gif100
    @gif100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Push me to the edge. All my friends are dead😥

    • @bri3449
      @bri3449 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Uzumaki Naruto
      Stop

    • @1clr3red
      @1clr3red 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Uzumaki Naruto
      l a m e

    • @tiffiayahgf1350
      @tiffiayahgf1350 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      trxstmepapi shut up it was just a joke

    • @bri3449
      @bri3449 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      My Opinions
      When someone's talking about how empty they feel and literally pouring out their emotions and worries for the future, it is *NOT* cool to joke about it/make jokes. 😑

  • @briannagillen2853
    @briannagillen2853 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Nessa, you are such a good person and all those ppl are being lil shits to you cause they're all the same and they don't know any better. There are thousands of people who would love to be friends with you, they are just the people you don't notice. Stay strong through the hard times in life, it will get better if you do. You have over 1M people that are there for you and who love you. 💗💗💗

  • @Dakotapeacexo
    @Dakotapeacexo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    It's obvious it's about Rickey and Maggie they're the only ones she didn't mention and i love Rickey but it seems to me drama follows Maggie and Rickey wherever they go. They need to change their attitudes (Examples of ppl they had beef with Amanda Steele, Madison beer, Teala Dunn etc)

    • @sotarnue
      @sotarnue 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Dakota Peace omg yes, Ricky is a drama queen and he swears he’s above it all but in reality he loves it. He starts it then make videos about it. I’m surprised he hasn’t made a response back to Nessa yet to get this Adsense up

    • @Dakotapeacexo
      @Dakotapeacexo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sotarnue exactly!

    • @nooted5676
      @nooted5676 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sotarnue he and nessa and James had it out on insta live

    • @Dakotapeacexo
      @Dakotapeacexo 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      RAWR XD when?? Damn i missed it

    • @derynn1213
      @derynn1213 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Isn't she still friends with Kelliesweet too?

  • @nt1660
    @nt1660 7 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    I have a feeling Maggie and Rickey made fun of Nessa's singing or something :(

    • @lifeewcam8148
      @lifeewcam8148 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      nathan taylor same tbh

    • @txy1911
      @txy1911 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      They're not following each other on Instagram anymore either

    • @labriska.c
      @labriska.c 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yep if you watched the Ig live

    • @rcj.queenie7122
      @rcj.queenie7122 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just Bree what happened on it

    • @CaptainaMARIca
      @CaptainaMARIca 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just Bree what happened

  • @natalienunschin
    @natalienunschin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Bruh I'm 4 minutes late and there's 300 comments😂😂🤦‍♂️

  • @simplysaph
    @simplysaph 7 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    When you're a hermit like Nessa and don't go FUCKING ANYWHERE!!😂😂

    • @NikiaHollywoood
      @NikiaHollywoood 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SimplySaph just the way I like it....I stay out the way of all the drama this way....fucc a friend I have a mother!

  • @claireb3004
    @claireb3004 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl, every video I have watched of yours has touched my heart. I just recently started watching, but the good people in this world often have the most struggles/pain (we care!) because this world is not made for people like us. We were made for better things and those people that put you down are not your friends. I'm glad you got away from them. I know it's hard to find decent, real, genuine, loving people to be your friends and that's why you'll probably only ever have one or two real friends in your life. It's very lonely, but there is something really special about you and I'm not even sure what that is, but I'm a 34 year old mother of three and I see it in your videos. That says a lot because I haven't even met you in person. Your heart, openess, fearlessness, kind spirit, etc make you a very rare gem!