Why Do People Get Divorced - Top 3 Reasons

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  • In this video, Dr. Joe Beam uses real-life examples and marriage research to discuss the Top 3 Reasons that married people get divorced.
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  • @biondna7984
    @biondna7984 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I divorced my first husband for all three. Being alone looked so much better than being with him, and it was. Until I met my late spouse, the best love of my life.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing your story friend! So sorry you went through this. While it's our goal to save marriages, we are happy that things have worked out for you in your second marriage. Please consider subscribing so you can have a better marriage than you had before! We'd love to be your support system!

    • @biondna7984
      @biondna7984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MarriageHelper My spouse passed a year and a half ago. I'll keep this in mind in case I do meet another potential mate. Thanks!

  • @marycowart9068
    @marycowart9068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Divorce saved me...on paper we were great..he went to church..paid bills great dad ..and he absolutly Hated me!..upon Divorce i found myself ..my self worth..and finally Happy

    • @earlmc77
      @earlmc77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me to hope all is well now. Its new to me my wife left me and im just fliping sad

  • @cherylpereira27
    @cherylpereira27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Divorce is not a bad thing. It gives the other a chance to live again. Not all marriages are meant to save. Specially the abusive, narcissistic ones or other types.

  • @melanieoosterman4376
    @melanieoosterman4376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I married a brick wall. He has no emotions. He’s boring. He has no personality. I will feel so liberated when I finally divorce him. He’s been bottling everything up for the past seven years (since I met him). I don’t want to be around when he finally explodes. He has never opened up to be. I need to start running.

    • @MeowStationOrignal
      @MeowStationOrignal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well you married him just remember he’s a reflection of you.

    • @kristina4395
      @kristina4395 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey Melanie, i just read your comment i can relate... I see you posted the comment 3years ago, would it be rude to ask how are you now, did you divorce or work things out? On my side he is a good person but sooooo borring 🙈🙈🙈🦋🦋🦋🦋

  • @judyvanderwesthuizen5664
    @judyvanderwesthuizen5664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so spot on..what I feel..live..everyday!! I cant take it anymore

  • @violetharprashad9805
    @violetharprashad9805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    my husband wants the divorce and has file in process, almost one year he block me and never contact me, one week ago, send me a msg to sign divorce documents... i am so hurt i leave it all in did hands🙏

  • @LifewithLeonard
    @LifewithLeonard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very powerful video. The wisdom of Dr. Beam is inspiring. Stay blessed!

  • @joeystephany5245
    @joeystephany5245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very true...work can always get in the way. Stay positive. Speak positivity

  • @melanierose9015
    @melanierose9015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dave Ramsey also often says money problems aren’t the issue but the symptom. It’s definitely the case for me. How can he love, like or respect me if I’m working 2 jobs and he’s embezzling family funds towards a failing business?

  • @d.jeanfreeman8583
    @d.jeanfreeman8583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was the "sally sue" until his spouse passed away. We married a couple years later. He made me feel all three of these..The marriage lasted almost five years before..he made it known I had to leave. Never any respect.Almost like our marriage was my punishment...

    • @cherylpereira27
      @cherylpereira27 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel men come and go as they like or as it suits their convenience and.fancy. we women are just toys for them. And look today they give marriage advise and portray themselves such good souls.....hahhaa...what an irony

  • @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933
    @donnaallgaier-lamberti3933 ปีที่แล้ว

    My reason was this; my husband and I grew up together (n=married at 19 and 21) and we grew apart over the years. After our two sons grew up and left the nest we did not have much left. He wanted to play, party, golfing, playing soccer, baseball, canoeing on the weekends, and be with his work friends. I had endometriosis was in pain and had no interest on those things anymore .I was interested in photography, the arts, reading, kayaking etc. I raised our boys pretty much alone, and I now craved, peace, quiet and rest to stop my pain. and exhaustion.

  • @aishteaishte7266
    @aishteaishte7266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is exactly how i feel with my situation, money is not an issue but the symptoms, i can’t fully give myself.

  • @mikefr12
    @mikefr12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great 15 mins insightful information. Thank you!!

  • @aishacoco8902
    @aishacoco8902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm married and my husband I don't trust him at all. He think he knows it all.. it's alot more

    • @aishacoco8902
      @aishacoco8902 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @josh whitney that's great

  • @hugostiglitz8855
    @hugostiglitz8855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kids, friends, colleagues.
    She puts more energy and initiatives with them. Doesn’t do anything with me.
    I actually get anxiety when the kids come home from break. Ignored.
    No reciprocity. If something makes her feel good I want to do more of it. She avoids things that make me feel good or if she does it she thinks and says something like, “I rubbed your shoulders last year, I do it all the time.” Or looks at me with disgust if I ask to have a shoulder rubbed.

  • @winifredkarikari8848
    @winifredkarikari8848 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for educating the world about divorce

  • @samia086
    @samia086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Does it fail if you married to a narcissist

  • @069220
    @069220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My divorce was the “silver bullet” that my so called marriage needed!

    • @ianmundia5754
      @ianmundia5754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @ianmundia5754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @ianmundia5754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @ianmundia5754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @deficator750
    @deficator750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Why am i watching this i still havent kissed a girl

  • @teresemariecloonan.c7739
    @teresemariecloonan.c7739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s called a big fuckin’ mistake

    • @luxboss2388
      @luxboss2388 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always good advice!😊

  • @thefletchlife7837
    @thefletchlife7837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My wife of 13 years wanted something better, I packed her stuff. No idea if she found it, I don't care.
    Sometimes you can't do enough, sometimes people are not well. I have faults and most defiantly contributed to the problems A simple conversation may have fixed it.
    Affairs are No excuse for poor communication skills.
    Certainly didn't have any issues communicating with other men.
    Seeya...

  • @ReincarnatedMystic
    @ReincarnatedMystic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I get it. It makes sense, but this information feels like my parents generation. It’s all about healing your own inner wounds and learn to emotionally connect! This information needs to go a few layers deeper.

    • @Innanna.
      @Innanna. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This man is older yes... and I see it as a pro, because he has so much life experience, if I need advice I would take it from an expert not a beginner.

    • @boostuse
      @boostuse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nothing new under the sun

    • @mdmflor4574
      @mdmflor4574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ugh, maybe some people aren’t mature enough to be in a relationship if they’re solely concerned with only themselves. It’s basically being selfish.

  • @Jenash158
    @Jenash158 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love the way you speak.

  • @gargikulkarni8764
    @gargikulkarni8764 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely correct.

  • @anonl5877
    @anonl5877 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In my opinion, married couples who have kids under 18 should NOT be allowed to get divorced, unless there is abuse, drug or alcohol addiction, adultery, or some other criminal activity happening. It is incredibly traumatic for young children. Getting a divorce just because you want to f*ck someone else is unbelievably selfish when you have children depending on you. Just wait until they graduate high school to find "true love" or whatever.

  • @jacquelinemarshall6407
    @jacquelinemarshall6407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish you could be my counselor

  • @ruxanagaffar9467
    @ruxanagaffar9467 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very true

  • @carolgordon3055
    @carolgordon3055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen!

  • @philipgordon1118
    @philipgordon1118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Doyou talk to people and tell them this can't be saved.

  • @windwins7144
    @windwins7144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍

  • @user-uv8vb7kb7x
    @user-uv8vb7kb7x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Some guys can just tolerate the whole thing and still stay in their awful marriage because they are too lazy or too scared to handle a divorce. Hahaha

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd ปีที่แล้ว

      I think if you had kids, it becomes more than about you, and the two of you have to provide a safe stable environment for them for 20 years.

  • @stefanc4873
    @stefanc4873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You never show vulnerability to a woman. Unless you want her to leave you.

    • @davinsinger3082
      @davinsinger3082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need help with my self and my spouse and im from gallup new mexico who could i see near here

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 ปีที่แล้ว

    He'd rather do for us than with us. I'm not worth it to him to put in the effort to plan a date or ask me for one. But for his cute, single, childless coed coworker he takes a week to plan a playdate hiking with her down to his outfit. And shares that with me to rub it in my face before galavanting to a town an hour and a half away with her. Yeah. Right, Buddy. Only lying to yourself, there ;o)

  • @mercyasante7309
    @mercyasante7309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is your email?

  • @jeffreychavey4161
    @jeffreychavey4161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My wife always clogged the toilet. Good riddance!!

  • @odettebernabeu2702
    @odettebernabeu2702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    away all the time...dogs are first for everything.

  • @user-mj1ht1tw2w
    @user-mj1ht1tw2w ปีที่แล้ว

    Ce n'est pas le cas du non respect non ou de pas vous aimée non vous êtes comme un papa pour moi aujourd'hui j'ai compris vous êtes qui je vous demande le pardon le plus haute de ma part humain sans rien je vous le doit honnêtement je m'excuse devant vous merci beaucoup encore

  • @Austin-M3
    @Austin-M3 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    First