The psychological trick behind getting people to say yes 2022

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  • @jns08d
    @jns08d ปีที่แล้ว +16

    There is nothing more powerful than telling a client to shop around and get multiple quotes - I love doing it as it shows that you're confident that you have something to offer that the competition doesn't offer or they offer it at 3x the price, always works lol

  • @joshgalt2022
    @joshgalt2022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    It’s interesting-my approach is almost like: you can be my client if you are easy to work with. I definitely want as many clients as possible and very much appreciate their business, but I just don’t have time for peoples bs. Somehow this is lead to more and more people asking me I will work with them-no advertising-no marketing-almost all word of mouth or me approaching the client direct on phone or ftf

  • @pratikrajsah
    @pratikrajsah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    It was not only great business advice but also an amazing dating advice, hehe.

    • @maqfoli_art
      @maqfoli_art 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      right hahaha

    • @ernestloh3683
      @ernestloh3683 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hhahaha I was just gonna say this. Great advice!

    • @LovetalkswithRockie
      @LovetalkswithRockie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a professional relationship coach, I can honestly say, don't use these questions for dating. 😂

  • @corbinpearce7686
    @corbinpearce7686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I remembered this yesterday from an earlier video and killed the engagement on a project. The prospect was being a bit too vague with the scope of what they wanted, and it was making it difficult to price. I asked why me (after they showed me some reference work of what they were looking for), because they obviously liked the work they showed me and they told me it wasn’t just me, they were shopping around. I recommended they go with another option then, because that wasn’t my specialty. It was pretty clear to me they were focused on price and I’m trying to separate myself from that market.
    I do photography, not design - but I find that the industry suffers from the same core problems. The difference is it seems to be behind the curve on the value revolution design is going through. I’m excited to get the jump on using these strategies more in my business.

    • @speliotis
      @speliotis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awesome growth & self awareness....

    • @jay_elias__
      @jay_elias__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I had a very similar situation not so long ago. I design t shirts, like a streetwear style and a client approached to me looking to get a couple t shirts for a project, they were the complete opposite from what I usually do and to be honest, pretty easy to do (really minimalist, just some random text on the t shirt) but I ended up just turning down the project, we never got to understand each other and it even tho it was easy for me to do the project, they just made it difficult because they didn't really know what they were looking for, other than "we just want it to be minimal"

  • @SuperRen2x
    @SuperRen2x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This is just so timely. I've chased people and clients many times. I always end up feeling frustrated and questioning my capabilities and worth. From now on, I need to practice stepping back and maintain higher ground. Thanks a lot and I'm looking forward for more videos from you! :)

  • @untokozontuli
    @untokozontuli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I guess I have always been right by not chasing clients and I have never done that once, and great video by the way, very informative!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @banziimavusotv
    @banziimavusotv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This 💯 so many times I've drained myself even with service providers that I'm adding value to. I'm learning to sit back now with a lot of people.

  • @charliestanton2987
    @charliestanton2987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    @Chrisdo In the book Never Split the Difference, Chris Voss says the only time to use a “why” question is when you are asking a proof of life question, which is “Why me?” To your point, it’s a great suggestion Jonathan Stark to ask that Why question. Just adding more support to your video. Thanks

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you. Your tone has to be spot on with a why question otherwise you can come across as accusatory

    • @charliestanton2987
      @charliestanton2987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thefutur completely agree. It’s all about tone. Not accusatory but, again as Chris Voss says, use your late night FM DJ voice and ask the question with indifference. I recommend anyone to practice it constantly when alone to get the tone right.

  • @DariusTan
    @DariusTan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's important to distinguish if a person wants to work with you, so ask what they want not how they want things.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Darius tran, but then what would you say if they say "i just want something designed". its hard to unlock certain feelings.

    • @princekofisarfo1843
      @princekofisarfo1843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PHlophe very true. some clients' demands are so frustrating

  • @theincrediblemr.b413
    @theincrediblemr.b413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The wisdom is incredible.

  • @CostasSchuler
    @CostasSchuler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I made that mistake this week...cringe..but I won't do that again...never split the difference is a phenomenal book

  • @kuromikendall
    @kuromikendall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The more you love your decisions, the less you need others to love your decisions. ♡

  • @ELORAINTERIORS
    @ELORAINTERIORS 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s all about HOW you say it…
    How something is said communicates one’s true intent….
    People may struggle asking … “ Why “ as it may come across as confrontational… especially through txt. But if it’s said face to face with a tone of Curiosity,,,, intrigue mixed with the proper facial expressions 🙌 you unlock em
    Guru etc can share all the game & word wizardry in the world but if it’s not delivered correctly you’ll get it doesn’t work!!
    The solution is ROLE PLAY ROLE PLAY!! ❤ love it, get better at it & keep practicing Own it

  • @GeromeYu
    @GeromeYu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for this tips. btw i love the plants in your background.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. That's my monstera plant. Her name is Mailda which in inspired by The Professional.

  • @CarlosmGarciajr
    @CarlosmGarciajr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is fantastic - all the references from the books you shared are spot on and effective. Thank you!

  • @speliotis
    @speliotis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Exactly what I am experiencing at this moment... I reached out, we chatted & then Silence.... I let it go.....

    • @sbug51
      @sbug51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      why not follow up?

    • @speliotis
      @speliotis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sbug51 I would but in this case I've tried working with this person in the past & it feels like something is keeping us from working together.. I have to trust my gut on this.... Not worth pursuing ....

    • @sbug51
      @sbug51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@speliotis fair enough, gut feeling should always be trusted

    • @speliotis
      @speliotis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sbug51 follow-up -I saw a couple photos from the event & they looked great.. but I feel safe to assume budget was the client's concern & they probably got people to photograph for close to free...

    • @sbug51
      @sbug51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@speliotis then you dodged a bullet, great job trusting your gut

  • @kflecha1
    @kflecha1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This channel always opens my eyes and perspective 🧡🙏

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad to hear Karla

  • @contractseasonworldwide9378
    @contractseasonworldwide9378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A lot of gems in 4 minutes 💎💎💎thanks!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear

  • @shell.studios.designs
    @shell.studios.designs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Very wise words from a very wise man! Chris Do you are my favorite creator on this channel! Thank you all on the Futur for creating amazing content for us all to learn from!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you very much

  • @Jeddyshav
    @Jeddyshav 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is exactly what I needed to hear today

  • @joejoexm
    @joejoexm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this.

  • @DeyvidMorales
    @DeyvidMorales 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just what I needed to hear today, gracias!

  • @jacobzatorsky
    @jacobzatorsky ปีที่แล้ว

    Still very relevant in 2023!

  • @pulkitgaur4438
    @pulkitgaur4438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing content as always!!!, Need more of these full videos plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We have 7 years worth.

  • @cxa011500
    @cxa011500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brilliant 👏🏽

  • @RiazOozeer
    @RiazOozeer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    is it a podcast episode, the one with Blair Enns?
    If so, wld u please let us know which one? :)
    Thanks :)

  • @_onemorestep
    @_onemorestep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing! Truly helpful reminder

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so welcome!

  • @timothycasca
    @timothycasca 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much information "inspiring"

  • @walid9701
    @walid9701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant moves

  • @vcat417
    @vcat417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I used to give discounts on my work in order to get clients. Now ( after they heard about me from others ) ... people promise me extras to work with me

    • @speliotis
      @speliotis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      please explain...

    • @vcat417
      @vcat417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@speliotis in short , after raising my prices I worried it would take many clients away , but instead they took it as the sign of high quality jobs.

  • @SolowSports
    @SolowSports 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very interesting!

  • @jordanhughes3137
    @jordanhughes3137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How do you get to this point, or use this strategy, if people don’t know about you and you’re implementing cold outreach?
    I run a small digital agency helping hospitality brands see tangible results from their online marketing - and no one reaches out to us. We have to reach out to prospective clients to try and land meetings. It’s a nightmare but we have no other option.
    How can we make this more successful?

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what have you done for content marketing, organic and paid media?

    • @jordanhughes3137
      @jordanhughes3137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thefutur thanks for responding so fast!
      We use Linked In & Facebook groups mainly for our content/organic marketing. Nothing much paid as of yet, recently started testing Google Ads but that’s about it. We found most of our target market doesn’t respond to paid Ads on Facebook (for example).

    • @sannii2222
      @sannii2222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jordanhughes3137 maybe try to run insta and tik tok ads aswell if you really wanna try something? :)

  • @sbug51
    @sbug51 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    not sure if this right or not, cold leads once they turn hot leads, start applying the question method? and also if we avoid asking "Why" according to Chris Voss (brilliant book)
    How will this benefit the company?
    What will happen if you take no action or it gets delayed?
    and finally, what made you think of me?

  • @uncleanAlibertine1
    @uncleanAlibertine1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    pure gold

  • @CarlaSophieMar
    @CarlaSophieMar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great insights! 👌

  • @sved-sh
    @sved-sh ปีที่แล้ว

    As much as I love your advice and the content of your videos, those stock footage sections just pull me out and cheapen the whole thing...

  • @TDL1887
    @TDL1887 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The video was cut off at the end before he finished.. where can I get remainder of video, or a video the expain this whole concept in more detail?

  • @winstonzeb2842
    @winstonzeb2842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My creative agency is pretty established in 2 industries. Its easy to get those kind of clients, but its pretty niche and the client pool is becoming limited. Theres two other industries I’d really like to do some work in, but don’t have any related past work to show these kind of companies. I have a good opportunity to do work for a really respected company in one of these industries, but I’ll have to offer more competitive rates, and sell myself a bit harder to get them on board. However it will make getting other clients in this industry much easier to sell to. Should I use this company as a sacrificial portfolio builder, knowing that they will not recognize me as the high end agency in the future (because im discounting my rates)

    • @speliotis
      @speliotis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are talented & bring a lot to the plate.. Just explain even though you dont have the portfolio of like customers.. you would do all you can to provide an outstanding product & service to them... Dont sell yourself short - show them other work that showcases your abilities & Sensibilities.

    • @princekofisarfo1843
      @princekofisarfo1843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@speliotis exactly

  • @OmakaSammie_SamNaija
    @OmakaSammie_SamNaija 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great, and on time for me!

  • @aniketsinha7673
    @aniketsinha7673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But everyone begins chasing clients only, right?... I mean if I strt freelancing today, I will have to chase clients

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      not necessarily. what can you do to attract clients to you? can you provide a valuable resource? some kind of study, template or guide that people will want to have? then you can have a warm relationship vs. cold outreach.

    • @aniketsinha7673
      @aniketsinha7673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thefutur thanks alot, you r really are the future❤

  • @abdallahadamu866
    @abdallahadamu866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does this mean we shouldn't follow up on clients . I mean it takes on average about 6-12 touch points to make a sale

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Follow up. But don’t harass.

    • @abdallahadamu866
      @abdallahadamu866 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is a follow up every three days harassment .

  • @jonpauloson
    @jonpauloson ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love it

  • @SkateraDSK
    @SkateraDSK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Reality: "Why me?" "I dont know, you tell me"

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm curious, was there anything you saw in our work, possibly heard about, or got you to take this call/mtg.? (see what they say)

  • @AnilAgrawal
    @AnilAgrawal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome 👏🏼

  • @khayuoo2922
    @khayuoo2922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pls make more not a designer but love the sales and general business seminar

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      more sales and business help?

    • @khayuoo2922
      @khayuoo2922 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thefutur yes sir👍🏽

  • @coil8906
    @coil8906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How can this be applied if the context is I’m just starting out and therefore having to reach out to potential clients myself. If I’m the initiator isn’t cold calling by it’s nature going to undermine this approach?

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it is.

  • @Vuzzzified
    @Vuzzzified ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to do SMMA and I have a burning question, Maybe someone can help me answer this question
    do you still do the retreat and follow without having something proper to show for it?
    As a starting business owner it doesn't really make sense in my head that you can make the client follow you when you don't have any testimonials to show for it

  • @soonarii7983
    @soonarii7983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok then what's the difference between chasing a job for example and give the best you got ? I've heard many times SLOW DOWN. Ok but then what ?
    It's the craving we have to avoid ?

  • @M.A.R.V.
    @M.A.R.V. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    every client i got always said yes on the spot.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      have you tried raising your price?

    • @M.A.R.V.
      @M.A.R.V. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thefutur sry i meant to say every client that said yes always said yes on the spot. I never had to chase them. lol

  • @palachannel555
    @palachannel555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you still ask "why me" if you approached the client instead of the client approaching you?

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've never done that so I don't know. seems like it would be out of place. but do what feels right and let me know.

  • @kedarmunje8310
    @kedarmunje8310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Which are the top 5 books you would recommend Chris?

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Check the link on my bio on social.

    • @kedarmunje8310
      @kedarmunje8310 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thefutur Thanks man

  • @dungd2nTV
    @dungd2nTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Talk no jutsu

  • @DesignWho
    @DesignWho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why me? Obviously I'm your most expensive option... :) 1:24

  • @ethanf5441
    @ethanf5441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Instructions not clear...
    I retreated and followed a girl...
    Got arrested...

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s a different retreat.

  • @GatochanBolivia
    @GatochanBolivia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS CHANNEL IS REALLY GOOD FOR THIS KIND OF CONTENT BUT TALKING ABOUT GRAPHIC DESIGN... BETTER GO SOMEWHERE ELSE GUYS, IM BEING HONEST AND PLEASE DONT WASTE YOUR TIME LIKE MANY OF US WHO BELIEVED THAT WAY

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Henry, what are you saying about graphic design?

    • @truemendus
      @truemendus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thefutur Ha ha haaaa He is Trying The Walk Away Method. 🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️🏃🏾🏃🏾‍♂️🚶🏾

  • @saluanmancing4643
    @saluanmancing4643 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I suka vidionya....walaupun tidak mengerti dengan bahasanya♥️♥️♥️♥️🤔🤔

  • @agamagarwal8619
    @agamagarwal8619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Chris, does the approach of 'not pursuing' apply when you are the one reaching out to people, would that initial cold email prevent me from retaining a higher ground?

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cold email is different. I don't like cold outreach myself, so I'm the wrong person to help with this.

  • @brianfong5711
    @brianfong5711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so you wanna play hard to get?

  • @johnsterling5425
    @johnsterling5425 ปีที่แล้ว

    i think that's stupid dating advise because what if both parties are taking the half step back. you need to take this with a grain of salt.

  • @oolaamiidee
    @oolaamiidee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Second

  • @deauxpecreatives
    @deauxpecreatives 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First

  • @louisjohnkender3510
    @louisjohnkender3510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    second

  • @TheOrignalTRockz
    @TheOrignalTRockz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really? Simply copying& pasting of J.S.‘ content without adding adding any value makes this completely redundant.
    Also, having some basic understanding in sales and staging yourself as if you’re an expert doesn’t make you one.
    Any professional would outmaneuver you with both of his hands tied up behind his back in the blink of an eye, going like „WTF? The title could just as well be ‚No signature, no contract’”, like how can someone even do a whole video on something so fundamentally basic…?
    This is part of the pricing negotiation, which requires a desired product or service upfront; people who watch this are in a different situation and want to know how to get enough clients, even leads. It may help them to convert a few, but is not solving their initial challenge at all, as you should know perfectly well.

    • @Tastendream
      @Tastendream 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol... he has a successful business... his results speak for him knowing what he is doing. If it worked for him as basic as it is (according to you), it means it works and that's all that matters.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      T Rockz, are you a sales professional? please advise us. I've run two 8 figure businesses. I can only speak about my experience. I've done live sales calls on Clubhouse and Twitter before, and I don't seem to have the results you predict.
      Blind.com $80m+ in revenue
      TheFutur.com over $10m in revenue
      I'm not saying I'm a sales "expert" but what I'm teaching works for me, and those that wish to learn it.

  • @kaledwalid7817
    @kaledwalid7817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is so cheesy! And thinks so much of himself. His ideologies are in the clouds, and very unrealistic for majority of people.

    • @ab.normal.
      @ab.normal. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well he is good. And what he says actually does work.

    • @shamalam4371
      @shamalam4371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's really not lofty at all. It works, if you're good (valued)

    • @pauliewalnutz314
      @pauliewalnutz314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Disagree... he's got great stuff if you're selling in a creative field

    • @madhouse1276
      @madhouse1276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The majority of people have horrible mindsets and attitudes, thus making his ideologies out of reach. His advice requires a lot of personal development, which leads to professional growth.

    • @raymondtendau2749
      @raymondtendau2749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think you are either not into Business/Entrepreneurship/ or probably don't even know what you re typing at all.